Category: Kissing and making love

I want to write an article to clarify the situation to my readers about female orgasms. What to think? What to expect ? What should you know? Not that I am God and that I know everything, but I do have some experience so I’ll tell you what I observed. Feel free to leave a comment to flesh this knowledge!

 

1/ I start with a typology of women reaching orgasm by the time they need:

A. There’s those who enjoy fast

It is a case not unusual but this is not the most common, either. I often encountered this case among virgins I had trained to enjoy. You lick three minutes or you penetrate during five and they enjoy. Chicks must know how to orgasm, be comfortable and have some knowledge of what they like and how. These (lucky) girls can have a lot of orgasms during a normal sexual intercourse, like 3 or 4 and up to 7 or 8.

Orgasms are not necessarily less powerful than for those who take longer to enjoy. It actually depends on several factors like their mood, their health, fatigue, etc. But let’s remember that in good conditions: they can have very huge orgasms quickly if enough excited! Love can help to orgasm too.

They may not enjoy at all if the guy is really bad. It was the case of Virginie with another dude than me… he a little discouraged her. The poor girl ! In short, so it does not happen to you: cf. The awesome lover’s manual

B. Those who enjoy after an average time

It is the most common case I meet. These girls need between 10 and 20 minutes of cunnilingus to come.

There are a lot of women who say they dislike cunnilingus but when I eat them out, they enjoy in a quarter of an hour: the problem is that most guys do not know how to lick. (cf. The awesome lover’s manual)

C. Those who take a long time to enjoy

Chicks who have difficulties to enjoy often struggle with all their partners. I know you would think it’s because I’m bad in bed but I banged enough chicks and I made enjoy more or less 90% of them so I know what I’m talking about. Sometimes it’s not your fault: they are just “hard to come.”

I had to lick from 30 minutes to 1 hour and 30 minutes so they enjoy. These girls will love you for taking the trouble for them and will surely thank you with a good blowjob. Also, if you see them, they will need less and less time to “let it go.”

D. Those who are unable to let themselves go enough to exult

Sex is still good for them. But they fail to “let it go”. I do not voluntarily speak here of girls who cannot have orgasms but I’m talking about girls who could have but do not (99% of women who never orgasmed).

Among those who have never enjoyed despite an active sex life:
– A man never gave them enough pleasure;
– Or (and this is most often the case) they have a mental block or fear of the unknown (they do not know what awaits them if they stop controlling). Typically, these are women who like to be in control (not especially in bed but in their everyday life).

They are never “really” satisfied, they constantly want more. They are a little discouraged, some are wondering if they have a problem. They need YOU !!!

Helping them let it go is difficult. But do not drop the case. Find out how she likes it the most, bring her to the brink of orgasm (her limit) and talk to her, reassure her, encourage her, what do I know… I unlocked a few like that, with perseverance and understanding. Of course, I had put them before in a comfortable position, like on a bed, not on a washing machine !!! Sometimes you will have to see the girl several times before you succeeding.

E. Those who ejaculate

I have not met a lot of them. But there could be more than that there are, if women knew how to make themselves cum (there is a big unexplored potential of pleasure). These women enjoy easily and quickly, can have many orgasms in a row (like 15), and the feelings are better than in conventional orgasms. I’m not telling shit, I saw it with my own eyes. A woman who ejaculates begins to rediscover her whole sex life…

On the other hand, after 15 orgasms, they are exhausted and spend a good night!

 

2/ I continue with a typology of the orgasms they reach :

A. The orgasm that rises suddenly and orgasm rising slowly. It depends on how she is taken, and on her state of mind.

B. The light orgasm, orgasm and moderate powerful orgasm. It depends on how she is taken, and on her mindset.

C. The orgasm that fills and orgasm that makes her want to have more. We, men, have a tendency to be emptied after an orgasm but with women it’s different: some are knock-out and cannot continue sex, others are boosted and are drugged until they fall asleep (or their legs do not support them anymore). In some women the clitoris is sometimes too sensitive after orgasm or during the first stimuli: fortunately, it doesn’t last!

D. Multiple orgasms, continuous orgasms, brief orgasms: better a brief orgasm than no orgasm at all. But continuous orgasms or multiple orgasms are obviously better. For this, you must keep up and the girl must be psychologically and physiologically adapted to that too.

E. The G spot, the clitoris, the deep spot…

I read a lot of studies on the questions: vaginal or clitoral women? What I think it’s that this is more or less nonsensical: the clitoris and the G-sport correspond in fact to the same thing. They are the two ends of the same pleasure center.

Most of orgasms are actually a mixture of both. I like licking/fingering, it’s the ultimate combo. But what is most stimulating and helped her releaseing? Some are easier to enjoy by one side than by the other. Often you’ll need to do both if you do not want to spend the day there…

Apparently the feeling of the orgasms is different too. There’s not necessarily any that is better, it depends on people: just that sometimes it is more difficult to achieve at one end than with other one so it is perhaps more liberating (enjoyable) when it happens. But most girls are still clitoral even if I use the combo of the two stimuli.

As for the deep spot, I’m undecided. Sometimes when I’m fingering from behind I think that this is what I touch (and it works). Still, for me the dp and gs are attached to the vaginal orgasm and that’s all.

F. Other types of orgasms

Sometimes there’s chicks who have nipples orgasms.

Sometimes some have or have had orgasms without physical stimulation. During my sleep, I even ejaculated once like that. I was an erotic dream (I was fucking an actress against a wall), I woke up I ejaculated (it was very good) and I went back to sleep. Without having to masturbate at all. Perhaps the sheets have jerked me without my knowledge?

Sometimes there are chicks that get enjoyment just by being rubbed over their clothes.

Sometimes there are people who love anal orgasms. But I’m not a specialist, I prefer the normal funny box… why should I go into the poop box?

 

3/ I finish with my opinion on female masturbation :

Whatever the politically correct people and the ignorant say, I believe the number of women that touch themselves all alone is about 4 over 5. At least 50% of young people regularly do it, like 3 or 4 times a month. About the old women, I do not know, this is not my category. But I think it decreases with family life and menopause.

Masturbating can calm them down for a time but they will need a real dick in the end. It’s like when we masturbate: it’s still ten times better when it’s someone else who does it! It is much more exciting, there is less control, etc.

Inevitably, we know our bodies so it goes straight to the point… but we are deprived of anticipation, feminine energy and all that makes the true power of pleasure and satisfaction. For women it’s the same : a sextoy is not a man.

In conclusion: is it better that they have a strong orgasm or a lot of little orgasms ? Who cares if they are satisfied, in fact, but I would say a strong one.

It’s been a while I had not talked about sex like that, so if you miss it, feel free to read The awesome lover’s manual !

We often read that you should always put condoms, if not you are a monster who has AIDS. I want to relativize everything. Once more time, I wanna carry the opposite of the single thought… (put I put condoms)

 

AIDS (HIV) : you’re unlikely to catch it…

First of all, my generation is hyper-sensitized to AIDS. But there’s not much cases in fact. I quote sidaction website:

“The most affected regions are Ile-de-France (44%) and overseas departments (8%). The PACA region is the second region of metropolitan France the most affected by the epidemic with an HIV discovery rate of 109 per million inhabitants. ”

There’s approximately 5 million people in PACA, it therefore makes 545 cases in one of the most affected regions. Not huge.

In France there are 67 million people, it means 7,300 cases. It would be really bad luck…

“Despite the finding of a trivialization of targeted prevention strategies, youth continue to be concerned: 11% of those who discovered their HIV are between 15 and 24 years. But senior citizens are more concerned, since 20% are 50 or older. “

It’s hard for the 11% … by the way, that does not make me want to bang more milf.

“Among those who discovered their HIV status:
– 56% are heterosexual (39% foreign born, mostly in sub-Saharan Africa and 17% in France);
– 42% are men who have sex with men;
– 1% are drug users. “

Finally, for prevention, rather prefer partners born in France, who do not take drugs and heterosexual.

There’s then 0.20% of transmission probability for the insertive vaginal sex. I specify for idiots that someone who does not have AIDS cannot transmit it.

I’m not saying condoms are useless, be careful, but I’m saying that’s not the AIDS you should fear the most.

 

Effective against other STDs and STIs

Do not ask me the difference between STDs and STIs, I don’t know. And I don’t give a shit.

I have had the misfortune of catching some kind of crappy stuff like papillomavirus or balanitis. And kinda quickly, after only a few unprotected sex with a girl who did not know she had it. Testing Center, they looked for hepatitis, AIDS and everything and said we could go for it with no risk… and then I caught those shit because of their negligence. After that, it was a hassle to get rid of it!

I condemn here hyper-sensitivity against AIDS but the neglect of the rest of crap lying around. Who are not serious (they did not have to cut my dick) but well. The warm piss or whatever, I do not really want to catch that kind of stuff.

My conclusion here is that it is better to seek advice from a gynecologist (for chicks) or a general docteur at least for the guys with complete analysis before saying that we have nothing.

My second conclusion here is to go seeing a docteur if we had problems with a ladle girl. The kind of girl who jumps on you to warm you then who sinks without a condom on your cock. You do not have time to react. After that, it’s hard to stop and you’re trapped and you feel guilty. One may wonder if the girl acted like that with all the guys or anything… that is frightening!

 

The condom as contraception

Sometimes girls want to fuck without condoms but do not take the pill. It’s not a good idea because they can be fertilized by the drops of pre-ejaculatory semen. Some do not even know it… in this case, I recommend the morning after pill.

If the girl does not take the pill, no unprotected sex! Except blowjobs… (sometimes society is trying to scare us by saying that we can catch AIDS through oral sex or stuff like that… but frankly I’ve always been sucked without and I’ve never had anything caught like this!) Some wanted to suck me a condom hood but I laughed in their faces: if you’re scared of everything, you will do nothing in life (when I say that our society is hyper-anxiety). And for eating you out, I put a condom on my tongue or not? And a sextoy can give AIDS ? Ahhh, she does not know what to reply now, Marisol Touraine!

 

It’s the guys who have to wear it

I think it is my role to put the condom, despite the existence of the female condom and all that stuff… because they must already suffer their periods, the pregnancy and everything. We owe them that…

Have condoms with you because it will reassure the chicks to see them. They will say to themselves that you are serious about it. You will score points !!!

 

The condom as a religion

You should not not believe that the condom is infallible. There’s stuff that pass through, it can break, etc. And it’s not worth doing an anxiety attack if ever it happens (unless you were banging a prostitute in South America – don’t laugh it happened to a friend who did not practice the game – he would not have to pay if he did).

You will not either drop dead if you fornicate unprotected with a girl who has a shit. Must not be alarmist all the time, to those who say “do not play with your life” … I answer “I am willing to make an effort but when it’s your time it’s your time.”

Finally, as always, I advise to stay realistic, going back and forth two or three times without condom in a pussy is not like three or four complete unprotected fucks in the same pussy in terms of statistical risk.

When I told my dad that I was afraid to have AIDS because I fucked a black without protection, he laughed at me, saying that in his time almost nobody put that. We are paranoid !!!

But let’s go to screening all the same : if we could eradicate this shit, it would be cool (too bad there’s not STD that will make our dicks bigger) ! And more important if we have partners we fuck without it often, we owe them that (respect) !

More informations : the awesome lover’s manual !

Sometimes it makes one feel good to feel a girl without condom.

“When should I kiss the girl?”… Have you got others shitty questions like that?

A major problem when we want to kiss a girl, but we don’t dare, is that we let our inner monologue govern us. Do not cut off from your feelings because of doubts and other questions. Our feeling should be our guide.

Our emotions are indicators of what is happening inside of us BUT ALSO are the keys to understand the person in front of us. We must let ourselves go a minimum to feel a little desire (which is contagious). And to do not get eaten by the pressure that we often put on ourselves unnecessarily.

The challenge should not take precedence over the game … The light and playful aspect of seduction should not disappear. Never a romantic date should be as dull and tight-ass as a job interview (and a job interview is not a romantic date so there’s a different behavior to be adopted).

It is better to go there with a clear idea of what you expect from the interaction : a good time with one or more pretty chicks, and don’t forget to create conditions conducive to flirt intimacy. Everything else will flow from that.

FUNDAMENTAL POINT – Once isolated with a girl: did she made you want to kiss her? It matters, that, too. You’re not so desperate that kissing any girl is a goal in itself, right? Kissing, it’s nothing seriously. If you are still counting the number of chicks you have kissed, then you are far awayyyyyyyyyyyy in your game. (Desecrate the kissclose please). Seriously, it’s good to go on a date with the idea, the objective to make out with her, but if in the meantime she shows she doesn’t deserve you it’s better to abandon the mission (if you’re sure that you’re not inventing false excuses to duck). Just as one begins his day with what pisses him off the most, you end your date with what requires the greatest effort.

It is important to communicate with your target on an empathic mode too. Do not only communicate on the explicit mode (meaning of words) but also a lot on the implicit mode (gestures, cum facial expressions, posture, tone of voice). Why is it important too? Because you will unconsciously or consciously both send to each other nonverbal signs of invitation to carnal pleasure. I refer in particular to prolonged glances, delicious silences, touches, smiles … so focus your attention on those little things that tell so much…

Wonder for example :
Are you both in a bubble off of the world? => YES? KISSCLOSE.
Is the tone of her voice soft? Is it becoming even softer? => YES? KISSCLOSE.
How does she react to innuendo? Compliments? => OK? KISSCLOSE.
Instead, does she try to avoid proximity and why? Does she seems distracted or elsewhere? => Warning! (but it costs nothing to try anyway, but perhaps it is better calibrate and wait until later). Do not confuse speed with haste.

If you miss scoring chances, do not cut your veins. We all miss some. We all had a chance to initiate a first kiss but yet we did not. With or without having invented false excuses, either. However, let’s not kill ourselves and do not spend our time regretting the past. Let’s rather and seize the next opportune moment. Unfortunately, we remember more the negative than the positive, but if she gives a sign of disinterest interest for 10 signs it’s good nonetheless. It’s worth a try!

Do your eyes fall on the contour of her lips? Do you perceive in her a palpable disorder. A heat wave travels you. Damn: what is stopping you from taking a step toward her, moving a hand behind her neck and approaching your own lips? You are not even really listening to her now. The seconds pass, as long centuries.

If you did not kiss, you can have fun and recreate that magical moment. Or at least, the same conditions. Like “do you remember, earlier? We talked about […] and I felt […] I stopped listening to you, I do not know if you felt the same. I couldn’t take my eyes off of your bright eyes, your pretty lips and I wanted to”………………………… kissclose. Or, “earlier you maybe felt I really wanted to do that” ………………………………. kissclose.

Speak slowly and maintain her eye contact while doing that. Normally, if she wanted you 5 minutes before, she still wants. I say NORMALLY because they are people who are blocked by those guys “who did not have the balls to try”. But hey, in Top Gun, Tom Cruise purposely gets close of his target without trying to kiss her just to bring up sexual tension, and it works well, but he did it with a a playful and confident face. So never let her think you’re not in control nor confident.

BUT IF she refuses my kiss? The fear of embarrassment that would follow a refusal petrifies most men. It is the phobia to end up helpless without knowing where to hide or what to do nor say to regain capacity and credibility that often prevents men from giving it a try. The guys start by thinking about consequences, fuck who saw us? And to who will she tell it, this whore? They will laugh at me (or other paranoid delusions).

Detach yourself from it, guys. It happens to everyone… at least to those who have the balls to take action. BE PROUD BECAUSE YOU’VE TRIED YOUR LUCK (AND HERS)! It’s really more exhilarating than having tried nothing and coming back home with regrets in the pockets!

Why not just smiling at rejection, after all? Why not asking her if it had already happened to her and why? Most girls would like to kiss the first one but are scared to get rejected. So: they say that it is the role of the man to do so. So why not challenging her, “Listen if you want later, it will be your turn to try to kiss me, and maybe you’ll see how you feel when you try to kiss someone who likes it… you feel like high ! It gives you a crazy energy! ”

(Take of course the ideas but change the words, I typed it as it came.)

The reaction to the rejection is paramount. Any PUA will tell you that. I speak well about it in The inconvenient truth about gender relations : for some women, rejecting you once is a test, and they will accept later if you do not get cold feet nor insult her, don’t call her “bitch”.

I think flirting is an act of cooperation. I do not like the girls who play the “man” and like confrontation. I prefer it to be played by the two of us and that we go together until the orgasm, each one making an effort. I understand the shit-tests and tolerate them if they are not excessive but after it pisses me off and I have the impression that the girl is trying to find excuses to avoid spending a good time. I think the bitches who are waiting for me to do all the work or play it like a princess while they are not Kate Middleton do not deserve me. I love the girls who have will and strength of character.

In a nutshell: let’s not forget to be present in the moment in order to pay attention to the little signs that reveal an invitation. Then, only remains to pick the ripe fruit (I speak of course of her apricot).

Let’s trust ourselves. Let’s abandon ourselves to our feelings rather than construct disaster-scenarios. I like kissing chicks anytime too, even when they expect it the least. I find it funny (game rather than issue). And there are people who cannot show their interest or are too shy/tight-ass to do so. I would say: the best time to kiss a girl is when you feel like it.

A good kiss with sexual tension can even make you hard. Especially if you fiddle her in the same time. If you’re hard, it’s okay, I think she will be flattered! I talk about how to kiss in the manual of the good lover, and in this article too.

Go now, and do not forget to tease her: that tough love.

XXX.

In my view, we can divide all cunnilinguists into two categories, but first, let’s have a look at the issue of cunnilingus!

Cunnilingus is an oral sex act performed by a person on a female’s genitalia (the clitoris, other parts of the vulva or the vagina). The clitoris is the most sexually sensitive part of the human female genitalia, and its stimulation may result in female sexual arousal or orgasm.

Cunnilingus can be sexually arousing for participants, and may be performed by a sexual partner as foreplay to incite sexual arousal before other sexual activities (such as vaginal or anal intercourse), or as an erotic and physically intimate act on its own. Like most forms of sexual activity, oral sex can be a risk for contracting sexually transmitted infections (STIs/STDs). However, the transmission risk for oral sex, especially HIV transmission, is significantly lower than for vaginal or anal sex.

Oral sex is often regarded as taboo, but most countries do not have laws which ban the practice. Commonly, heterosexual couples do not regard cunnilingus as affecting the virginity of either partner, while lesbian couples commonly do regard it as a form of virginity loss. People may also have negative feelings or sexual inhibitions about giving or receiving cunnilingus, or may refuse to engage in it.

“Eating pussy” redirects here. If you’re not Chienese, you know what it means…

The term cunnilingus is derived from the Neo-Latin words for the vulva (cunnus) and tongue (lingua). Additionally, there are numerous slang terms for cunnilingus, including drinking from the furry cup, carpet munching, and muff-diving. Several common slang terms used are giving lip, lip service, or tipping the velvet; the latter is an expression that novelist Sarah Waters argues that she “plucked from the relative obscurity of Victorian porn”. A person who performs cunnilingus may be referred to as a cunnilinguist.

The women would rather guide her partner in terms of movements, pressures and pace they prefer.

According to a 2006 study (CSF survey), 85% of men and women have already experienced cunnilingus.

 

Cunnilinguist categories:

Those who like it and those who do not like it.

Those who know where the clitoris is and those who do not know.

Those who lick the clit and those who lick around.

Those who dismiss the skin that protects the clitoris and those who let it there.

Those listening to the reactions of the girl and those who eat it always the same way.

Those who put fingers while they lick and those who do not put fingers inside.

Those who always lick lying on the bed and those who experiment different positions (standing, front, back).

Those who do not care that there are hairs and those it blocks.

Those that smell bothers and those who know how to position their nose.

Those who eat the girl out after intercourse if the woman did not orgasm and those who don’t give a shit as long as they ejaculated.

Those who have experienced female ejaculation and those who have never make a woman squirt.

Those who know when the woman is faking orgasm because is bored and those who don’t.

Those who recognize the symptoms of the orgasm and those who don’t.

Those who stop when the girl says “stop” and those who continue to make her orgasm.

Those who stop when she came and those who continue, irritating her.

Those who stop just before she comes so the pleasure is greater and those who don’t know this trick.

Those who catch cramps: tongue, jaw, etc. and those who are well-trained.

 

For more information about the oral sex and how to make chicks orgasm like crazy bitches, read my ebook on the subject.

Sincerely,

Bonus in The awesome lover’s manual :

A global survey of sexual behaviours

Masters & Johnson – Sex and society

Global sex survey

The health benefits of sexual expression

Sex research chapter 3

The face of global sex

What increases sexual satisfaction

Extract from : The awesome lover’s manual

In humans, sexual intercourse and sexual activity in general have been reported as having health benefits as varied as increased immunity by increasing the body’s production of antibodies and subsequent lower blood pressure, and decreased risk of prostate cancer. Sexual intimacy and orgasms increase levels of the hormone oxytocin (also known as “the love hormone”), which can help people bond and build trust. A long-term study of 3,500 people between ages 18 and 102 by clinical neuropsychologist David Weeks indicated that, based on impartial ratings of the subjects’ photographs, sex on a regular basis helps people look significantly chronologically younger.

Sexual intercourse, when involving a male participant, often ends when the male has ejaculated, and thus the partner might not have time to reach orgasm. In addition, premature ejaculation (PE) is common, and women often require a substantially longer duration of stimulation with a sexual partner than men do before reaching an orgasm. Masters and Johnson found that men took approximately 4 minutes to reach orgasm with their partners; women took approximately 10–20 minutes to reach orgasm with their partners, but 4 minutes to reach orgasm when they masturbated. Scholars state “many couples are locked into the idea that orgasms should be achieved only through intercourse [penile-vaginal sex],” that “the word foreplay suggests that any other form of sexual stimulation is merely preparation for the ‘main event'” and that “[b]ecause women reach orgasm through intercourse less consistently than men,” they are likelier than men to fake an orgasm to satisfy their sexual partners.

In 1991, scholars from the Kinsey Institute stated, “The truth is that the time between penetration and ejaculation varies not only from man to man, but from one time to the next for the same man.” They added that the appropriate length for sexual intercourse is the length of time it takes for both partners to be mutually satisfied, emphasizing that Kinsey “found that 75 percent of men ejaculated within two minutes of penetration. But he didn’t ask if the men or their partners considered two minutes mutually satisfying” and “more recent research reports slightly longer times for intercourse”. A 2008 survey of Canadian and American sex therapists stated that the average time for heterosexual intercourse (coitus) was 7 minutes and that 1 to 2 minutes was too short, 3 to 7 minutes was adequate and 7 to 13 minutes desirable, while 10 to 30 minutes was too long.

Anorgasmia is regular difficulty reaching orgasm after ample sexual stimulation, causing personal distress. This is significantly more common in women than in men, which has been attributed to the lack of sex education with regard to women’s bodies, especially in sex-negative cultures, such as clitoral stimulation usually being key for women to orgasm. The physical structure of coitus favors penile stimulation over clitoral stimulation; the location of the clitoris then usually necessitates manual or oral stimulation in order for the female to achieve orgasm. Approximately 25% of women report difficulties with orgasm, 10% of women have never had an orgasm, and 40% or 40–50% have either complained about sexual dissatisfaction or experienced difficulty becoming sexually aroused at some point in their lives.

Vaginismus is involuntary tensing of the pelvic floor musculature, making coitus, or any form of penetration of the vagina, distressing, painful and sometimes impossible for women. It is a conditioned reflex of the pubococcygeus muscle, and is sometimes referred to as the PC muscle. Vaginismus can be hard to overcome because if a woman expects to experience pain during sexual intercourse this can cause a muscle spasm, which results in painful sexual intercourse. Treatment of vaginismus often includes both psychological and behavioral techniques, including the use of vaginal dilators. Additionally, the use of Botox as a medical treatment for vaginismus has been tested and administered. Painful or uncomfortable sexual intercourse may also be categorized as dyspareunia.

Approximately 40% of males reportedly suffer from some form of erectile dysfunction (ED) or impotence, at least occasionally. Premature ejaculation has been reported to be more common than erectile dysfunction, although some estimates suggest otherwise. Due to various definitions of the disorder, estimates for the prevalence of premature ejaculation vary significantly more than for erectile dysfunction. For example, the Mayo Clinic states, “Estimates vary, but as many as 1 out of 3 men may be affected by [premature ejaculation] at some time.” Further, “Masters and Johnson speculated that premature ejaculation is the most common sexual dysfunction, even though more men seek therapy for erectile difficulties” and that this is because “although an estimated 15 percent to 20 percent of men experience difficulty controlling rapid ejaculation, most do not consider it a problem requiring help, and many women have difficulty expressing their sexual needs”.

The American Urological Association (AUA) estimates that premature ejaculation could affect 21 percent of men in the United States.

For those whose impotence is caused by medical conditions, prescription drugs such as Viagra, Cialis, and Levitra are available. However, doctors caution against the unnecessary use of these drugs because they are accompanied by serious risks such as increased chance of heart attack. The selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SSRI) and antidepressant drug dapoxetine has been used to treat premature ejaculation. In clinical trials, those with PE who took dapoxetine experienced sexual intercourse three to four times longer before orgasm than without the drug. Another ejaculation-related disorder is delayed ejaculation, which can be caused as an unwanted side effect of antidepressant medications such as Fluvoxamine; however, all SSRIs have ejaculation-delaying effects, and Fluvoxamine has the least ejaculation-delaying effects.

Sexual intercourse remains possible after major medical treatment of the reproductive organs and structures. This is especially true for women. Even after extensive gynecological surgical procedures such as: hysterectomy, oophorectomy, salpingectomy, dilation and curettage, hymenotomy, Bartholin gland surgery, abscess removal, vestibulectomy, labia minora reduction, cervical conization, surgical and radiological cancer treatments and chemotherapy coitus can continue. Reconstructive surgery remains an option for women who have experienced benign and malignant conditions.

Obstacles that those with disabilities face with regard to engaging in sexual intercourse include pain, depression, fatigue, negative body image, stiffness, functional impairment, anxiety, reduced libido, hormonal imbalance, and drug treatment or side effects. Sexual functioning has been regularly identified as a neglected area of the quality of life in patients with rheumatoid arthritis. For those that must take opoids for pain control, sexual intercourse can become more difficult. Having a stroke can also largely impact on the ability to engage in sexual intercourse. Although disability-related pain, including as a result of cancer, and mobility impairment can hamper sexual intercourse, in many cases, the most significant impediments to sexual intercourse for individuals with a disability are psychological. In particular, people who have a disability can find sexual intercourse daunting due to issues involving their self-concept as a sexual being, or a partner’s discomfort or perceived discomfort. Temporary difficulties can arise with alcohol and sex, as alcohol can initially increase interest through disinhibition but decrease capacity with greater intake; however, disinhibition can vary depending on the culture.

The mentally disabled also are subject to challenges in participating in sexual intercourse. Women with Intellectual disabilities (ID) are often presented with situations that prevent sexual intercourse. This can include the lack of a knowledgeable healthcare provider trained and experienced in counseling those with ID on sexual intercourse. Those with ID may have hesitations regarding the discussion of the topic of sex, a lack of sexual knowledge and limited opportunities for sex education. In addition there are other barriers such as a higher prevalence of sexual abuse and assault. These crimes often remain underreported. There remains a lack of “dialogue around this population’s human right to consensual sexual expression, undertreatment of menstrual disorders, and legal and systemic barriers”. Women with ID may lack sexual health care and sex education. They may not recognize sexual abuse. Consensual sexual intercourse is not always an option for some. Those with ID may have limited knowledge and access to contraception, screening for sexually transmitted infections and cervical cancer.

Some researchers, such as Alex Comfort, posit three potential advantages or social effects of sexual intercourse in humans, which are not mutually exclusive; these are reproductive, relational, and recreational. While the development of the birth-control pill and other highly effective forms of contraception in the mid to late 20th century increased people’s ability to segregate these three functions, they still significantly overlap and in complex patterns. For example: A fertile couple may have sexual intercourse while contracepting not only to experience sexual pleasure (recreational), but also as a means of emotional intimacy (relational), thus deepening their bonding, making their relationship more stable and more capable of sustaining children in the future (deferred reproductive). This couple may emphasize different aspects of sexual intercourse on different occasions, being playful during one episode of sexual intercourse (recreational), experiencing deep emotional connection on another occasion (relational), and later, after discontinuing contraception, seeking to achieve pregnancy (reproductive, or more likely reproductive and relational).

Sexual dissatisfaction due to the lack of sexual intercourse is associated with increased risk of divorce and relationship dissolution, especially for men. Some research, however, indicates that general dissatisfaction with marriage for men results if their wives flirted with, erotically kissed or became romantically or sexually involved with another man (infidelity), and that this is especially the case for men with a lower emotional and composite marital satisfaction. Other studies report that the lack of sexual intercourse does not significantly result in divorce, though it is commonly one of the various contributors to it. According to the 2010 National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (NSSHB), men whose most recent sexual encounter was with a relationship partner reported greater arousal, greater pleasure, fewer problems with erectile function, orgasm, and less pain during the event than men whose last sexual encounter was with a non-relationship partner.

For women, there is often a complaint about the lack of their spouses’ sexual spontaneity. Decreased sexual activity among these women may be the result of their perceived failure to maintain ideal physical attractiveness or because their sexual partners’ health issues have hindered sexual intercourse. Some women express that their most satisfying sexual experiences entail being connected to someone, rather than solely basing satisfaction on orgasm. With regard to divorce, women are more likely to divorce their spouses for a one-night stand or various infidelities if they are in less cooperative or high-conflict marriages.

Research additionally indicates that non-married couples who are cohabiting engage in sexual intercourse more often than married couples, and are more likely to participate in sexual activity outside of their sexual relationships; this may be due to the “honeymoon” effect (the newness or novelty of sexual intercourse with the partner), since sexual intercourse is usually practiced less the longer a couple is married, with couples engaging in sexual intercourse or other sexual activity once or twice a week, or approximately six to seven times a month. Sexuality in older age also affects the frequency of sexual intercourse, as older people generally engage in sexual intercourse less frequently than younger people do.

Regarding adolescent sexuality, sexual intercourse is usually for relational and recreational purposes as well. However, teenage pregnancy is often disparaged, and research suggests that the earlier onset of puberty for children puts pressure on children and teenagers to act like adults before they are emotionally or cognitively ready. Some studies have concluded that engaging in sexual intercourse leaves adolescents, especially girls, with higher levels of stress and depression, and that girls may be likelier to engage in sexual risk (such as sexual intercourse without the use of a condom), but it may be that further research is needed in these areas. In some countries, such as the United States, sex education and abstinence-only sex education curricula are available to educate adolescents about sexual activity; these programs are controversial, as debate exists as to whether or not teaching children and adolescents about sexual intercourse or other sexual activity should only be left up to parents or other caregivers.

One group of Canadian researchers found a relationship between self-esteem and sexual activity. They found that students, especially girls, who were verbally abused by teachers or rejected by their peers were more likely than other students to engage in sex by the end of Grade 7. The researchers speculate that low self-esteem increases the likelihood of sexual activity: “low self-esteem seemed to explain the link between peer rejection and early sex. Girls with a poor self-image may see sex as a way to become ‘popular’, according to the researchers”.

In India, there is evidence that adolescents are becoming more sexually active outside of marriage, which is feared to lead to an increase in the spread of HIV/AIDS among adolescents, as well as the number of unwanted pregnancies and abortions, and add to the conflict between contemporary social values. In India, adolescents have relatively poor access to health care and education, and with cultural norms opposing extramarital sexual behavior, “these implications may acquire threatening dimensions for the society and the nation”.

Positive views on adolescent sexual intercourse and other sexual behavior among adolescents have also been expressed. Psychiatrist Lynn Ponton writes, “All adolescents have sex lives, whether they are sexually active with others, with themselves, or seemingly not at all,” and that viewing adolescent sexuality as a potentially positive experience, rather than as something inherently dangerous, may help young people develop healthier patterns and make more positive choices regarding sexual activity. Similarly, researchers state that long-term romantic relationships allow adolescents to gain the skills necessary for high-quality relationships later in life and develop feelings of self-worth. Overall, positive romantic relationships among adolescents can result in long-term benefits. High-quality romantic relationships are associated with higher commitment in early adulthood and are positively associated with self-esteem, self-confidence, and social competence.

The average number of partners during a life is 13.

The age of the first sexual intercourse (in the strict sense) also tends to fall and to become equal change from 21-year-old for the men and 19 years old for the girls to 17-year-old boys ½ for both. A “sexual youth” begins then.

Extract from : The awesome lover’s manual

The effects of alcohol are balanced between its suppressive effects on sexual physiology, which will decrease sexual activity, and its suppression of psychological inhibitions, which will increase the desire for sex.

Alcohol is a depressant. After consumption, alcohol causes the body’s systems to slow down. Often, feelings of drunkenness are associated with happiness but other feelings of anger or depression can arise. Balance, judgment, and coordination are also negatively affected. One of the most significant short term side effects of alcohol is reduced inhibition. Reduced inhibitions can lead to an increase in sexual behavior.

Men’s sexual behaviors can be affected dramatically by alcohol. Both chronic and acute alcohol consumption have been shown in most studies to inhibit testosterone production in the testes. Alcohol intoxication can decrease sexual arousal, decrease pleasureability and intensity of orgasm, and increase difficulty in attaining orgasm.

In many women, alcohol increases sexual arousal and desire although it does lower the physiological signs of arousal. Women have a different response to alcohol intoxication. Also, because women have a higher percentage of body fat and less water in their bodies, alcohol can have a quicker, more severe impact. Women’s bodies take longer to process alcohol; more precisely, a woman’s body often takes one-third longer to eliminate the substance.

Sexual behavior in women under the influence of alcohol is also different from men. Studies have shown that increased BAC is associated with longer orgasmic latencies and decreased intensity of orgasm. Some women report a greater sexual arousal with increased alcohol consumption as well as increased sensations of pleasure during orgasm.

Psychologically, alcohol has also played a role in sexual behavior. It has been reported that women who were intoxicated believed they were more sexually aroused than before consumption of alcohol. This psychological effect contrasts with the physiological effects measured, but refers back to the loss of inhibitions because of alcohol. Often, alcohol can influence the capacity for a woman to feel more relaxed and in turn, be more sexual. Alcohol may be considered by some women to be a sexual “disinhibitor”.

Alcohol intoxication is associated with an increased risk that people will become involved in risky sexual behaviours, such as unprotected sex. Alcohol is linked to a large proportion of unwanted outcomes associated with sex such as date rape, unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases.

“Beer goggles” is a slang term for the phenomenon in which consumption of alcohol lowers sexual inhibitions to the point that very little or no discretion is used when approaching or choosing sexual partners. The term is often humorously applied when an individual is observed making, and later regretting, advances towards a partner who would be deemed unattractive or inappropriate when sober. The “beer goggles” are considered to have distorted the “wearer’s” vision, making unattractive people appear beautiful, or at least passably attractive. A study published in 2003 supported the beer goggles hypothesis; however, it also found that another explanation is that regular drinkers tend to have personality traits that mean they find people more attractive, whether or not they are under the influence of alcohol at the time.

Extract from : The awesome lover’s manual

When you will become used to sex, like me, you should not forget that everybody isn’t. With practice, you’ll be comfortable with being naked in front of an unknown.

But this is not the case of most women. Be comprehensive with them. Women are not whores because they have sex… If they are not comfortable, help them ! Take care of them. Instead of blaming them in your head, realize that if she gives you her body, it’s an honor ! No judgment. A lot of compassion.

A lot of men think they are lucky when a girl accepts to have sex with them. This is a bad mindset, you must know that you are special. Your belief is you are better than 99% of men in bed (and when you will have read this book it will obviously be true). So now, you know, women are at least as lucky as you are when you sleep together. Now, practice to become a very good and, I hope, respectful lover!!!

But never forget where you do come from. And remember that every woman is unique (they are not exchangeable, we share every time something unique with an unique woman). Everybody can teach you something in a domain. So, be humble. If you can teach her something do it, do not make fun of her if she’s stressed. God will give it back to you (God had forbidden sex out of wedlock but I think that it was before for concerns of hygiene and so that it is out-dated now)!

The bottom line is : give, please her, and your karma should give it back to you. That’s how I think. I try to do good around me. And because I’m good in bed, I’m generous with women. Just because I can.

And if they don’t want me, or do not believe I’m as good as I claim in bed : their loss, but it’s their choice to think I’m a pretentious dude. I respect! Me, I know the truth… And you too, soon !

I’m not God but I have a sexual confidence and I respect myself that’s why so many women had sex with me (and will in the future, I hope).

Those who will believe in me won’t regret it. I don’t want to brag here (the empirical proof don’t lie & I don’t give a shit about bragging) but I have to say the truth : very few women who had sex with me recently (before it wasn’t the same thing – I’ve been a geek for long but now I would like to see the face of my ex-schoolmates if they read it one day) didn’t achieve one or several orgasms (and no they didn’t fake). Those who did had a problem of trust, experience, confidence, etc. It happens… Yes it is a little bit easy to say that but it is nevertheless the truth. There is a lot of people with a bad state of mind towards the sex and bad beliefs. As for example when the girls tell me “you speak about sex thus are certainly bad in the bed because it is the ones who speak about it the most who make it the least
– Is that so?! OK ask your best friend then and you will see!;)”

It’s important to understand all that shit because you too soon will be able to make a girl orgasm even if usually she doesn’t achieve orgasm on her first night with a guy. I can do that and it happens to me very often… I am capable of it and it happens to me very often that girls congratulate me spontaneously on that… Then I chuckle when a silly bitch tells me “why you? I can find a sex thing when I want“. Yeah but…

You can do the same thing : I’ve no huge cock it’s only technique and behavior (and choice of the targets).

I know I have a precious knowledge and I’m ready to share it. But when a girl does not respect me or lies to me, she doesn’t deserve it. One more who missed something because of her stupidity. It’s true it’s better to watch TV alone rather than living a magical moment in a bubble out of time and social pressure!!!

I give more than one chance to girls, all the same. I try to open her mind but honestly if there’s nothing to do for her I won’t let her humiliate me. I get bored. Some girls want to try me but doesn’t dare and invent excuses or flake (whatever they say the main reason is because they feel nervous). It’s the fear/anxiety that talks because chances are low that she met her “one true love” just 1 hour before your fuck-date (or another shitty excuse).

In this case I try to reassure her because it’s a problem with herself and not with me and there’s nothing else I can do. It is like when they contract so much they vagina that we have difficulty in bringing it in: psychological blocking. Except licking more, I see no other solution.

I sometimes let them think I buy their bullshit because I’ve been here too. But I find it ridiculous. And do not forget that they logical mind is not the most operational at the moment of a last minute resistance, arguing is useless.

But if she’s really too much of a pain in the ass I will let her in her shit. She will have sex with bad legs and will be conditioned to think sex is not something awesome. Her loss ! But she had her chance : I gave her my hand and she beat me. I’m not saying you should fuck every women even the ugliest for charity : on the contrary, more you’ll have sex more you’ll become confident and so demanding.

There are good girls who know nothing about the sex and who deserve that we invest a little bit to free them or to make them discover things. But not at any cost… By being good, you become the offer and they become the demand! So don’t behave like the demand !

I’m not a monster I just want to make women have a good time. OK I might be an asshole sometimes but they can test me it’s OK as long as it is a normal test of alphaness and not a way to find excuses to stay in her comfort zone instead of having orgasms.

Never harass women ! You would depreciate. In the worst case, let them think in their corner about your proposal and tell them to make you a counter-proposal when they will have understood where is their interest. But do not give her 150 thousand chances by requesting her all the time…

Sometimes the excuses that girls invent to do not have orgasms make me hallucinate. They are afraid of enjoying too hardly or what? An example: “Seriously, you want a tall guy ? You want a guy with blue eyes ? Seriously if you think that’s what is really important, if it’s you main criteria, it’s so sad for you.” It had to be said!

Some women think they are queens and act like that. Some are cute, sure, but it is useless if they don’t use it. And not tomorrow, today, because beauty is short-lived. And anyway you never know what can happen in life. So enjoy today and create good memories for your old days (if you have some) !!!

Some just want a “serious” relationship. But what does it mean ? Nothing. I prefer a “fun” relationship. Most of the time those women will fall on a guy who will pay her stuff to fuck them and then never call them back. Or they’ll both be sincere but the sexual chemistry won’t be there. The thing is sex is a very important part of the relation so if you try to take the problem back to front (ie getting engaged before having sex), you’ll have bad surprises. The reality is those women are not confident and not strong enough in their mind to say “fuck off” to social pressure. Or they have some complexes and want to control you before letting you see their bodies.

In brief, they have a problem in their head, and it is rarely good! That hides in any case a lack of confidence… that hide in its turn… we do not know what ! It is the lottery but it is better to be wary, if you want my opinion!

A lot of women get big-headed because men want to screw her. But they should know even an ugly woman can have sex (there are so many sex-starved dudes). If she was fair, she should not patronize you because you were courageous enough to try to pick her up and assume your sexuality. Instead of admiring your spirit, some will be bitches with you. They think their mission on Earth is to patronize YOU or reframe you.

In this case, put things into perspective : remember those girls would not be able to do what you just did. She thinks she has a power on you because she is cute but it’s wrong. There so many beautiful women out there. And you can have them too!!! Because the one who proposes and the one who plays on the numbers is the one you really controls in fact.

Some women say “I’m not a girl like that“. Like what ? In fact if you treat them like girls who have sex they are not happy but if you treat them like tight-ass it’s not good either. It’s a real problem for women, this fucking sex. It’s not easy for them to find their sexual place in the current society.

My advice for those women : be in peace with your body and make fun of the social pressure to be finally able to think for yourself and see where is your interest. Get out while the going is good discreetly !!!

What makes me laugh it’s when they act like they are too good for you and finish with a vulgar dude while you finish the night with another hottie. Or when they speak badly about one of their friend who is not tight-ass (one who really knows how to have fun) then go back home watching a TV show alone in which their favorite character are closer to their friend in question than to them. But they do not criticize the characters, because they do not compare with them and are not mad at them because they’re not as free as them.

Society wants us to believe that footballers like Benzema are the top of the top of the best men ever on Earth and women should get wet for him. Or for the muscular stupid guys who goes on reality TV. Seriously I’m not jealous I bang enough girls and cute ones to be better than that.

But I think it’s sad for them. It is some waste. And they do not even see that. Well, at least, they are lucky if the “sooooo sexyyyyyy” asshole do not hurt them.

I would like to say to men that it is not a game of power. A lot of men just want to have sex no matter with who. Or they do not really respect women. I know a guy who had sex with one of my friend. Before sex, he was friendly. After sex, he was an asshole with her like if he became better than her just because his dick was inside her pussy. Save your soul before your dick !

Men like that should change their vision of sex and women. If it’s not easy between the two sex, it’s not only the fault of women. Men should get educated too. There is a huge problem with sexual education because it is a taboo and full of shame.

But to get drunk, a lot of people are ready. Some are even proud of it and claim it out loud. They should realize that sex at least is good for health. When you buy condoms you’re ashamed but when you buy whisky it’s classy… pff, the world’s gone crazy.

Extract from : The awesome lover’s manual

An erogenous zone (from Greek ἔρως eros “love” and English -genous “producing” from Greek -γενής -genes “born”) is an area of the human body that has heightened sensitivity, the stimulation of which may generate a sexual response, such as relaxation, the production of sexual fantasies, sexual arousal and orgasm.

Erogenous zones are located all over the human body, but the sensitivity of each varies, and depends on concentrations of nerve endings that can provide pleasurable sensations when stimulated. The touching of another person’s erogenous zone is regarded as an act of physical intimacy. Some people may resent stimulation in this manner while others may find it pleasing, and this may also depend on the relationship between the people.

Erogenous zones may be classified by the type of sexual response that they generate. Many people are gently aroused when their eyelids, eyebrows, temples, shoulders, hands, arms and hair are subtly touched. Gently touching or stroking of these zones stimulates a partner during foreplay and increases the arousal level. Also, the gentle massage or stroke of the abdominal area along with kissing or simply touching the navel can be a type of stimulation.

Erogenous zones are either nonspecific or specific.

In the nonspecific zones, the skin is similar to normal-haired skin and has the normal high density of nerves and hair follicles. These areas include the sides and back of the neck, the inner arms, the axillae (armpits) and sides of the thorax. An exaggerated tickle and anticipatory response are responsible for the heightened sensual response.

Specific zones are associated with sexual response, and include the lips and nipples in addition to areas of the genitals, notably the foreskin and corona of the glans penis, clitoris and rest of the vulva, and perianal skin. The neuroanatomy and neurophysiology of erogenous zones is partly unknown. These zones are apparently mucocutaneous skin. The rete ridges of the epithelium are well-formed and more of the nerves are close to the external surface of the skin than in normal-haired skin. These zones seem to have a high density of innervation, an efficiency of wound healing, and a capacity to stimulate generalized cerebral arousal. Moreover, a connection with the reward system seems also necessary.

Males can be aroused by stimulation to the sides of the glans and penis, upper side of the glans, the foreskin, the front side of the scrotum, the skin between the scrotum and anus perineum, and around the anus. The prostate gland may be stimulated from inside the rectum, such as by anal sex, or by applying pressure on the base of the perineum near the anus. Men who report the sensation of prostate and seminal vesicles stimulation often give descriptions similar to females’ accounts of G-spot stimulation.

The foreskin, which carries the ridged band and lower frenular delta has mucocutaneous end-organs extending from the distal margin to the point where hairy skin starts. The thin dermis and minimal subcutaneous tissue results in closely set nerve networks. Vater Pacini corpuscles are present. The mucocutaneous end-organs are formed after birth, with few in newborn infants and many well-organized endings in adults.

Parts of the vulva, especially the clitoris, are highly sensitive erogenous zones. While the vagina is not especially sensitive as a whole, its lower third (the area close to the entrance) has concentrations of the nerve endings that can provide pleasurable sensations during sexual activity when stimulated; this is also called the anterior wall of the vagina or the outer one-third of the vagina, and it contains the majority of the vaginal nerve endings, making it more sensitive to touch than the inner two-thirds of the vaginal barrel.

Within the anterior wall of the vagina, there is a patch of ribbed rough tissue which has a texture that is sometimes described as similar to the palate (the roof of a mouth) or a raspberry, and may feel spongy when a woman is sexually aroused. This is the urethral sponge, which may also be the location of the G-spot — a structure described as an area of the vagina that some women report is an erogenous zone which, when stimulated, can lead to sexual arousal, powerful orgasms and female ejaculation. The existence of the G-spot and whether or not it is a distinct structure is debated among researchers, as reports of its location vary from woman to woman, it appears to be nonexistent in some women, and scientists commonly believe that it is an extension of the clitoris.

The lips and tongue are sensitive and can be stimulated by kissing and licking.

Many people find a gentle scalp massage, or any stimulation of the hair follicles, to be anywhere from relaxing to extremely stimulating.

The neck, clavicle area and the back of the neck are very sensitive in both males and females, which can be stimulated by licking, kissing or light caressing. Some people also like being bitten gently in these areas, often to the point that a “hickey”, or “love-bite” is formed.

Some people find whispering or breathing softly in the ear to be pleasurable and relaxing, as well as licking, biting, caressing and/or kissing it especially the area of and behind the earlobe.

The areola and nipple contain Golgi-Mazzoni, Vater-Pacini and genital corpuscles. No Meissner’s corpuscles and few organized nerve endings are present. There are concentrations of nerve tissue in the area of ducts and masses of smooth muscle. The hair surrounding the areola adds additional sensory tissue. The mass of smooth muscle and glandular-duct tissue in the nipple and areola block the development of normal dermal nerve networks which are present in other erogenous regions and the development of special end organs. The entire breast has a network of nerve endings, and it has the same number of nerve endings no matter how large the breast is, so that larger breasts may need more stimulation than smaller ones.

Intense nipple stimulation may result in a surge in the production of oxytocin and prolactin which could have a significant effect on his or her genitals, to the point that some people of both sexes can achieve orgasm through nipple stimulation alone. Having the chest, breasts and nipples stimulated manually (hands), digitally (fingers, toes) and/or orally (mouth, lips, teeth, tongue) is a pleasurable experience for many people of both sexes.

Many people find stimulation (kissing, biting, scratching, tickling, caressing) of the abdomen to be pleasurable, especially close to the pubic region. It can cause strong arousal in men and women, in some even stronger than stimulation of the genitals. The navel is one of the many erogenous zones that has heightened sensitivity. In a 1982 study of eroticism in dress entitled “Skin to Skin,” Prudence Glynn claimed that the waist symbolized virginity and that it was the first place that a man would touch a woman “when indicating more than a formal courtesy”.

The navel and the region below when touched by the finger or the tip of the tongue result in the production of erotic sensations. Madonna has told in an interview to the SPIN magazine (May 1985 issue), “When I stick my finger in my belly button, I feel a nerve in the center of my body shoot up my spine.” Some research suggests that the navel and the genitals have a common tissue origin, and in some people this connection still exists so that stimulation of the navel will elicit a distinct tickle in the genitals.

The tailbone, located near the base of the spine, just above the anus, is an erogenous zone.

The skin of the arms, and specifically the softer skin of the inner arms and across the creased mid-arm bend covering the ventral side of the elbow, are highly sensitive to manual or oral stimulation. Caressing with fingers or tongue, more vigorous kneading, and butterfly kissing can initiate arousal and, in some cases, induce clitoral/vaginal orgasm or penile ejaculation without direct contact with the latter areas. The mid-arm bend is especially sensitive due to the thinner skin found there, which makes nerve endings more accessible. Arm sensitivity may be reduced or concentrated to a more narrow range by excessive muscularity or obesity on the one hand, or transformed to uncomfortable tenderness by excessive thinness on the other.

Some consider the armpits to be an erogenous zone. If pheromones exist for humans, they would likely be secreted by a mixture of liquid from the sebaceous glands with other organic compounds in the body. George Preti, an organic chemist at the Monell Chemical Senses Center in Philadelphia and Winnefred Cutler of the University of Pennsylvania’s psychology department, discovered that women with irregular menstrual cycles became regular when exposed to male underarm extracts. They hypothesized that the only explanation was that underarms contain pheromones, as there was no other explanation for the effects, which mirrored how pheromones affect other mammals.

The fingertips have many nerves and are responsive to very light touches, like the brushing of a tongue, light fingernail scratching or teeth stroking. The sides of the fingers are somewhat less sensitive and more ticklish. Both light and firmer touches work well at the junction of the fingers. Human fingertips are the second-most sensitive parts of the body, after the tongue.

The thighs can be sensitive to touch.

An exaggerated tickle on the back of the legs and knees can also be sensitive for some.

Because of the concentration of nerve endings in the sole and digits of the human foot, and possibly to the close proximity of the area of the brain dealing with tactile sensations from the feet and the area dealing with sensations from the genitals, the sensations produced by sucking or licking the feet can be pleasurable to some people. Similarly, massaging the sole of the foot produces similar stimulation. Many people are extremely ticklish in the foot area, especially on the bottom of the soles.

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Don’t be ashamed of enjoying sex (but stay in the legality). Say “fuck off” to social pressure… after all, who decides what is normal or not ??? But do not become a weirdo nor do weird things…

When it comes to sex, weird is your enemy. It is counter-productive. And stress often makes you weird. But you’ll become used to it. You’ll get used to sexual situations. You’ll be more comfortable in this situation and your partner too… because emotions are contagious.

And women are often share between stress and excitation/motivation.

Too many woman have lose faith in us, men, when it comes to sexual pleasure. They do not believe in us and don’t even wanna try : it’s a lose-lose scenario instead of the win-win scenario it could be. In their mind if you don’t prove you’re good, you’re basically bad in bed… like the others. Women consider us basically as losers.

It’s a shame !

I am going to help you to understand women. But, in the meantime, do not behave as a dead man of hunger who accepts and tolerates everything and anything just to have sex PLZ. If there were not so many sex starved dude out there, women would more go in for sport and would be hotter because they should fight for us.

Well, this is just my opinion!

They have the sexual power and we struggle to get out while the going is good.

But well, when we become a good fuck, we reverse the trend all the same!!! Fortunately!

Extract from : The awesome lover’s manual

These problems you’re having, problems I used to have : these are the problems of an inexperienced (and lost in front of this mysterious science) lover. With that said, you don’t need to have sex with 100 girls like me to get enough experience and be good in the bed. Once you know WHY most guys struggle in bed, it becomes easy to flip the switch and rock her world.

The most common problem is that guys just don’t last the required time to give women deep, total full-body orgasms. They then develop a fear of cumming too soon… which stresses them even more. It is a vicious circle ! Stress is not good when it comes to sex. Too much stress makes you quick or limp.

No more not feeling like a man. I don’t want guys who did nothing to deserve that feeling this pain and this shame like I did.

You have a dick : it’s a responsibility. Learn how to use it. Be proud of it ! Prove yourself worthy of that !

You are less of a man if you decide not to man-up and change what’s wrong in your bed !

I will tell you now the story of a dude who asked me how to give strong powerful orgasms. But this guy pissed me off because he wasn’t humble nor modest : he told me he was sleeping with dozens of girls at the same time and was already a God in the bed. So I logically asked him why he wanted my advice.

To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex twice and he came in under two minutes. A lot of guys get trapped in the same ego-trap. They lie to others, lie to themselves, and don’t even know why ! On my blog like on this ebook, I want us to be honest with the another ones…

It’s the same thing with seduction : most of guys are way too proud. They reject the advices but read my blog all the same. This is ridiculous. You need to admit when what you’re doing isn’t working (or could work better) instead of making yourself too proud to prove we-don’t-know-what. If you think you’re yet a fucking sex god porn star, this program’s obviously not for you.

Otherwise, you’ve got to realize that you CAN improve your sexual skills. No matter how bad you are today (or not), they WILL improve. And no matter how good you think you are (or really are), you can still get better and get new ideas. It’s OK to get help to become excellent. I think we are on Earth to help each others. Myself continue again and again to document and to experiment! But I want to help only motivated people, fighters who deserve it by giving themselves the means!

NO ONE IS A NATURAL GOD WHEN IT COMES TO SEX. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of hot women might seem “natural”, but they are not because they learned too, like us. Differently, but they did. And only if their girls were curious…

The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can evolve in bed, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your best friend nor your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl… or in pornography, which is completely different, they’re professional naturally gifted (and it’s often faked). You have to learn the skills.

You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “this isn’t going to work” then it won’t (or few) ! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! And bad ones, for sure !

Of course we are not animals so I will give you ideas to make the temperature rise before having sex… as a delivery for both of you.

I do not plan to be disrespectful nor misogynist here. START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with (quality) women no matter where you are today on the sex-scale and that they will thank you for that (they’ll suck your cock with appetite). Because it is my mission, to make you become a real animal in the bed ! And I accepted it!

You can give women orgasms and your girl is capable of having mind-blowing “Full body Orgasms.” We can say that these orgasms are overwhelming because when women have such an orgasm they don’t know how many times nor how long they came. It’s an awesome experience for them !

HUNDREDS of guys write to me saying that their girl is different. That this stuff works on “slutty” girls (or whores) but their lover is a more serious, more classy woman. OF COURSE, DUDES ! Guys, what you’ve not understood is that women respond incredibly to Incredible Sex. These are just psychological principles. You are having a belief system problem and you’re blind so start trying with putting some inner conviction in it before saying it doesn’t work. Don’t be stupid, every woman has a goodgirl and a badgirl side… but often hidden…

Your lover IS sexual you just AREN’T GOOD. If you doubt about it, it’s just because you’re not good enough so she reveals you this part of her. She doesn’t tell you to protect you. Let go off your ego and improve. I understand that is intimidating and that it hurts… but this book is here to help you. I’ve seen even the most uptight, tight-ass, coldest wives or working girls act like crazy slut teenage school girls after having sex with me. And that, believe in me, it is fun!!! (And in addition it is a good deed!)

When you’re having sex, it’s just you naked on top of her. You’re equal. Creating an amazing, mind-blowing sexual experience for a woman is all about your sexual abilities, which are completely LEARNED. And you’ll learn in the next pages…

If you want to be “the man” or better a “real man” in her eyes then : become good in bed! It will change EVERY aspect of your sexual life! It will even change YOUR MIND by improving your inner confidence !

Motivation is more than important to apply my stuff. Have you got the desire and/or the need to improve in the bed ?

If yes, welcome to this ebook that will tell you all my basics and advanced stuff to totally rock your bed.

Do you want to turn her on even before touching her pussy ? I’ll tell you.

Do you want to know several ways to finger her ? I’ll show you.

Do you want to know how to lick her in a better way than Hank Moody would ? I’ll teach you.

Where is her fucking clitoris ? How do I know if it was a real orgasm or if she faked ? What should I do with my hands during the sexual intercourse? Ok, ok, I’m here for you.

Do you want me to recommend you some positions to drive her crazy ? I will.

Do you want to last longer ? Do you wanna get hard all the time in the bed ? I’ll help you.

This ebook isn’t really about picking up chicks (you can read the rest of my blog for that). But it is still about alpha male mindset (important for any sexual domain) & a part of seduction… the one once you’ve brought her to your place (or her place).

Ready ?

If you’re a woman it’s your responsibility to buy this ebook and read it with your man so he becomes a better lover and can give you full body orgasm. And so you’ll experiment amazing orgasms (like you probably don’t even know it exists… like 99% of women).

Extract from : The awesome lover’s manual