Because of their shyness and fear of rejection, many men make the mistake of behaving as if they were not interested. This is a mistake because a girl in this situation says to herself “either he doesn’t like me, whether he likes me but tried nothing so he has no balls.” What cuts her desire in both cases!
She must feel that you sexually want her. But you are no longer a kid, you no longer say “hi do you want to make out with me?” A good way to show your desire is to give her a REASON. If possible, something that suits you. It is a way to encourage her to behave that way with you.
Examples:
“You have guts. A woman who has guts, I find it sexy. ”
“You have a little naughty side… hmm I like it. ”
“Good point” when she does or says something that goes in the good sense…
Giving a reason is fundamental because you show you like her for what she does, not only for her physical appearance… and you leave some doubt by revealing only a partial interest: you do not say you like her totally but only her good sides, which means that you do not idealize her and would not hesitate to criticize her shortcomings.
In a nutshell: nothing is won in advance for her! This is key!
If you wish to make a compliment, the best is that you can withdraw it at any time, so it is double-edged. “You have such pretty hands, it would be perfect if you did not gnaw your fingernails!” To don’t be confused with a hateful sarcasm.
If you want to encourage them to adopt a certain attitude towards you or to put in her head that she wants to fuck you, you can test this type of compliments “I love your lips / your lipstick”; “They are beautiful, your heels. In addition, it’s sexy, heels.”
What I like to do also is to bend over chicks at times when they do not expect it. Then, if there are no backward movement, I Frenchkiss them. It is good, it makes them dream! And me, it makes me live a sympathetic little rise of adrenaline. Once, I went for a drink with an old friend I liked for a while. At the end of our meeting, we said goodbye. I bent over as if to say goodbye normally but I kissed her on the mouth. And then I kissed her more languidly. We have not slept together after but it’s always something taken on life. You must be a little bit crazy life !!!
She must feel that you want her sexually.
A good way to show your desire is to give a REASON. If possible, choose something that suits you.
Giving a reason is fundamental because you show you like her for what she does, not only for her physical appearance.
Make double-edged compliments, then pretend you have no tact if she is outraged. It’s funny !
Do not communicate you love her entierely but only her good sides, which means that you do not idealize her and would not hesitate to criticize her shortcomings. Nothing is beforehand won for her!
Do not hesitate to go for a kiss when you feel like it, even if it’s a bit out of context.
Extract from : Friendzone & Sexualization