It’s been several weeks that I wanted to write about procrastination. But I always found an excuse to do something else: I procrastinated like a bastard. This tendency to postpone what we could do on the spot is one of the most serious obstacles to success.
In other words, whatever you wanna do, your tendency to procrastinate (or not) will help you succeed (or fail).
However, “wanting to do something” is not enough, there are deeper causes for procrastination. Lack of confidence in one of them. We often prefer to hope the problem goes away by itself rather than treating it. However, avoidance strategies always make you still a vague unease. While a saving efforts would help you improve your wellbeing. Otherwise, I would not piss you off with that.
If you are a beginner player and it pisses you off to never make out with chicks, you know you should go out and pick up, to train. However, if you do not, you will try to find excuses to keep internal consistency. The excuses will help you to don’t go for it, with consciousness more or less quiet.
There are three kinds of excuses:
– The lack of time and other non-renewable resources;
– The lack of money and other renewable resources;
-the lack of personnal talent, stuff like “I do not feel good enough to do that.”
Conclusion: “this is not the right time, too bad.” But does exist really a good time to start a better life? Or that the perfect time is… “now”?
If you think you suffer from a lack of personal talent, know that you’ll improve with practice and by eating theory. Yes, in socialization and seduction like in other areas! We all have things to learn and talents to develop! But never be discouraged: you are surely the most severe judge about yourself … so why not judging you able to do what you is think possible for one another guy? Be patient and sympathize with yourself!
I will now address the problem of the lack of money. I rarely spend more than €2 or €3 when I go out practicing pickup. Although now I have a job, I enjoy playing “broke” and construct limited money plans! I find it exhilarating, creative and rebellious. One of our most important resources in life is our resourcefulness! Survival instinct: ON. Seriously, I would surely fuck more chicks if I bought bottles, drink or fags. SHIT NOW ! I prefer the old barter: the girl does something for me and I reward her with lots of orgasms. In any area, offer your services to those who need it and dare to ask for the help of those who can lend you a hand.
Time is a real constraint, on the other hand. We must use it wisely. Select the most important things, those that would provide you the best welfare. Finding one hottie (or more) and having a regular sexual activity, is it important to you? At what point ? Up to you. Tackle what will make a real difference in your life, and go after things.
Make a decision, let’s say … tonight, not next year.
Anyway BRAVO for reading this article until the end. It proves that you feel that something is wrong and you want to change it. It is a very noble goal, wanting to move your ass. So you’re now faced with a choice:
1/ save my blog in your bookmark and take care of your game WHEN THE IDEAL TIME WILL COME. That is to say, probably never. Or come back in six months with a bitter taste in the mouth: you lost a lot of time and sex-opportunities. Or worse, you will lose the contact information of the blog and will try to find me but it will be too late. You will end up on a site full of politically correct advice that will not significantly help you. Remember the truth will piss you off at first, but it will also set you free. Why closing your eyes?
2 / NOW, take the decision to DRAMATICALLY change the course of your love life. For that, I advise you of course my collection of ebooks that is not bad. Give yourself the means to succeed, if you like my conception of the game!
For my part, I finally wrote this article so I am happy and I feel better (like after ejaculating when you’ve been hard all day long). And you, where are you with that?