Category: Gender relations

At the beginning

Casual sex is often quality sex but women (even quality women) will catch you, eventually, with their affection. The affection is the most powerful drug of the world, even more addicting than the sex.

We can satisfy our needs of sex in numerous ways : porn, sexfriends, one night stand… But we cannot always have some affection from a nice girl, clean, who likes giving… and nevertheless, they are the best !

Mister Hedonistic

As « Mister Hedonistic » you make her understand that you do not want to see only ONE girl. That being faithful in love, it’s not for you. At the beginning : « of course no problem ». But the time works in her favor and you become attached more and more to her. Having said that, you can slow down this process by deciding to do not see her more than once or twice a week.

Purity

Doesn’t matter the time you spend together, most of the women will finally try to urge you to make a commitment subtly by opting for the purity.

For example : « this guy at the bar stole my scarf and said that if I want to get it back I have to  have a drink with him » or « if you do not want to be in a relationship with me, you know, I can have other men when I want ». And there, you dream up. Women know that the purity is our Achilles’ heel. And they know that in order to be able to accept the feminine affection… most of the men, weak or conditioned by the society, need this feeling of purity.

The guys are afraid of losing her purity (that she sleeps with someone else) because then, they could not appreciate anymore her affection. The origin of the affection is thus essential for them, more than the girl herself because they would leave her if she cheated on them …

All this comes from the fact that these guys agree to go out that with ONLY ONE woman. Or, they are too much involved with a girl who does not really suit to them. Watch out  : there is nothing bad to see frequently one single girl, the problem it is when you do it for bad reasons.

In other words : It is an issue if you make a commitment by fear that she sleeps with another one rather than because you really want to be with her.

Going out with several women

Us, the men who wish to be spread and to test several women before committing with the best, are inevitably going to strike us in the problem of the link purity/affection : « Oh my God, she is going to sleep with other guys on her side. »

It is not easy to swallow because that requires to overcome our own genetic programming. But you have to learn to accept the affection of a woman without worrying about her level of loyalty to you : do not let the sexual choices of a woman affect your capacity to appreciate her feminine energy and her spirit, etc. You will become a stronger, less manipulable man.

We have only two needs in our love life : the sex and the affection. You can deny it as much as you want but it’s true, this simplicity is disconcerting. Understand that the guys who make a commitment with one single woman have a lot of affection coming from a stable and pure source. And it’s great ! But they pay a high price for it…

The nights of solitude

For us, men who want to be spread and to make love a lot, the feminine affection will enter and will go out of our lives.

Sometimes, it will hurt. There will be periods you will fuck a lot, without affection. There will also be nights of solitude. But it’s furthermore a reason to build a lifestyle which does not concern the women.

If you want some feminine affection in your life but if you continue to flirt with several women, you will always pay it through the problem of the link purity/affection.

Even the fathers have to manage this problem with their daughters. On a smaller scale, you can also face this problem with your mother, your sister, your daughter, your girlfriend. In brief, with all the women…

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

 

Fantasizing the purity of love

The male point of view (erroneous and stupid) is the following one: « She only sleeps with me: it means that she loves me. »

Why most of guys stay in an exclusive relation when they are bored and when sex is not even good ? Suckers’ answer : « Because she is a good girl and everything <3 ». Well, stop. This is a bluff, guys. You are bored and have not the relation you wish, that’s the only thing there is to understand. If you stay, it is by ease. Besides, you vainly let her hope. You do not deserve to be respected, neither by her nor by me.

Why do they stay ?

They stay because they are afraid of never being really loved. I also think that, in spite of their boredom, these guys appreciate in secret the profit of an exclusive relation: « She sleeps only with me, that means that she loves me, I am loved, yippee, I can rest on my laurels. »

The girls who assume their naughty side are dangerous

Other (lousy) male point of view : « If my friend likes dirty sex, that means that she can easily sleep with someone else when I am not here to defend my position. And if she sleeps with another one it means that she does not love me. » Ridiculous ! We now understand why « bad girls » who assume loving sex scare all those men who consider that sex and love are strongly correlated.

The defenders of the purity

Will you really prevent AT ALL COSTS your friend of sleeping with somebody else IN THE ONLY PURPOSE of feeling loved ?

Are you afraid of leaving one month for holidays with your buddies and leave her alone? Would you forgive her if she was going to have fun in Vegas with her friends? In other words, would you exchange your freedom for her purity ?

The (inconvenient) truth it’s that nobody will ever love you unconditionally, except your mother (maybe). Nobody else than you can really love you. Women only like the sensation your hormones give them. It is a chemical pleasure. Everything happens inside their body. You’re not Superman… I do not say that everybody is exchangeable, I do not say that everybody can go with everybody. I just say that there is more than only ONE girl who can make you happy in life.

When the feeling of sexual attraction between you and her will disappear (sooner or later), she will look for a new guy who will give it to her again. The sexual attraction is a selfish bitch who do not care if you planned to move together, etc.

On the other hand, I know a lot of guys who have absolutely no problem going out with several women at the same time. They sleep very well at night. I would even bet that they feel more loved than the average.

What’s their secret ?

Their secret is : they don’t care if their girls sleep with other men : they do not consider it as the proof that they does not like them.

They know that she will never love them anyway. Because the relation is built on the sexual attraction, she will never like them in the way we all want to be loved : unconditionally.

Unconditional love, we can only find it in family (and still…)

You are finally ready to stop associating the purity of a woman with the fact of being loved ? If yes, what are you waiting for ? Purity is just a fantasy… She slept with someone else ? It doesn’t matter : washed well, it serves again. Set yourself free, love each other and have fun !

You will always have your freedom

The purity is a little bit the joker of the women. They are too happy to sell it to you, but you will have to buy it… and it is very expansive. Whether it is with your freedom, your money, your time or by supporting dramas, children who do not belong to you, etc.

We already said that : men are programmed to feel aversion when a woman whom they appreciate fucks with another man. They find too difficult to accept their affection after that. Maybe it is a natural defense which avoids us raising the child of another one. Not important since the condom exists. If you are not capable of overcoming these naughty feelings, you will never be free FOR GOOD… You should never wait for the purity of a woman.

Men generally have sex with a woman « because she is hot ». Women sleep with guys for any sorts of reasons (the status of a man can justify that a woman sleeps with him without making him wait, without social pressure, because he is like a trophy) : he was on television, he is a barman, he has beautiful shoes, he has a lot of money, to take revenge on her ex, because she feels alone, because he made for her feel pity (yeah yeah, it can work), etc.

When men realize that women are very far from what they imagined (their fantasy of purity and feminine affection coming from a pure source) : The only way they have to rationalize the thing is claiming that the girls in question are particular (sluts, star-fuckers, bitches, etc.) and by pointing them because, supposedly, they would be different from others, different from the « good girls ». But, in reality, it is not true.

Every naughty girl is potentially a « good girl ». Every « good girl » is potentially a naughty girl. Well, this is life…

Girls have to learn how to have fun with impunity, guys have to learn how accept it and to take advantage of it!

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

The hatred and the desire

By way of preliminary, I want to tell you a short history : One of the girls with whom I went out had gone to have fun in a club, without me, obviously. Suddenly, I received the late phone call of one of her friends who advised me to come ASAP to [the club]. Clearly, my friend was completely on an another guy and her buddy was afraid that she messes around.

« I don’t care, I’m watching the match and have a drink with Hafid ». She had to come spending the evening with us but preferred going out with her friends, and did not even make a phone call to warn me that she had changed her plans at the last moment. I was really fed up with her attitude then I intended in any case for a while to break up with her.

Well. She finally came over at 4am (she had been rejected by the guy in question or still had his sperm in her vagina and in her stomach … In any case, it’s the reflection I made at the moment). I thus planned to kick her out of my home manu militari.

But once her flat stomach, her very nice butt and her little magnificent tits crossed the threshold of my apartment, I was excited as a bull. Furthermore, this naughty girls had certainly just get banged by another guy bigger, more beautiful and stronger than me. That drove crazy so I wildly took her all night long. I was really hard… and it was so good, for her AND for me !!! She didn’t want to leave me anymore after that.

Let’s talk about emotions

Just after this session of hardcore sex, I felt this mixture of malaise and guilt. I do not really know how to describe it with more details. In brief, I did not grant it more importance than that at the moment and slept of the sleep of the just man but this adventure changed me : I had just lost my illusion of purity. I’m going to explain what it is exactly…

When you were younger, you doubtless fantasized over things which seemed a little bit crazy to you. Maybe that it still happens sometimes… You were hard in front of your computer, watching a young Asian with innocent looks be taken violently by three jerks. They gave her a hard time : submitted her, treated her like a slut and ejaculated in her mouth. You imagined participating to this orgy but when you just finished your movie, strange feelings invaded
you : malaise and guilt.

The explanation

You felt UNCOMFORTABLE because you think that this « dirty » attitude decreases the woman, and thus reduces your chances to be sincerely loved one day by a « good » girl. And you felt GUILTY because you really LOVED that.

The only thing which expires, it is your illusion of the feminine purity

Every porn video a little bit trash that you watch, in which girls bang a guy in duet then finish with liters of sperm on the breasts, reduce your illusion of the feminine purity, NOT THE WOMAN HERSELF.

In your opinion, if a girl get a facial, then she is out-of-date ? Guys, realize that she liked that, she is not soiled and you are the only one who is disturbed. If a video of her sucking a cock at the high school circulates on the web, then we cannot envisage anymore a serious relation with her? Pff. The only thing which expires it is your illusion of the purity, which (like any illusion) is not real. Such a mindset is your problem, not the problem of the women who have fun.

I am going to make an a little bit far-fetched comparison but I adore pulling the hair of the girls during doggy-style : if we exploded a tube of toothpaste on your face, would you feel raped ? Of course not. If a woman fountain ejaculated on me, would the following one think that I am out-of-date and would refuse to touch me? It’s stupid. Women don’t care about purity, they are over that : we are the only ones whom it bothers to know that a girl did not fuck only with us.

Then, they claim to be innocent and unsuspicious, just to please us. It is the big hypocrisy between men and women.

Deal with your feelings

There is no reason to feel a MALAISE. The feminine purity is just an illusion (a fantasy for some) but has never existed. No matter all the dirty things a woman did, does or will do … It is in her nature and it doesn’t strip out her value (her beauty, her enthusiasm, her energy …)

There is no reason, either, to feel GUILTY of loving something they also love. Instead, we should unite our strengths to enjoy life together !

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

They want our cocks

You have to realize that the interest a woman has to a man (and vice versa) is always, somehow, of sexual order. This punchline seems to me slightly too wise then I am going to repeat : « Be conscious that they want to suck our dicks ».

Having understood it will sexualize, automatically, any interaction. It is logical but if a girl smiles to you and flirts sincerely with you, it’s because a part of her wants to sleep with you. If she turns around you, it’s because she wants you to take her doggystyle, pull her hair and slap her ass. Both sexes incur naturally, like magnets.

When I heard a woman saying « Ryan Gosling is handsome » I know that it means « I want to lick his awesome balls ». And when a singer roars « I’m waiting for love » I translate « I want you to come destroying me doggy-style and do not forget my spanking please, it is so good to be submitted, to go crazy, to be who I want during a short time with you! ».

In other words, any sign of interest is a potential ticket for a blowjob and a doggystyle.

In spite of all the sales pitch some men use with the girls they want to seduce, in spite of all the forms they try to put in it to look like « a good guy », the time they can spend lying on their income to try to establish a spiritual connection… everything will inevitably finish with a cock in a mouth. Is it finally necessary to complicate things so much ? Is it necessary to be so dishonest with the other sex? No, you have to respect them (that also passes by the fact of being polished when you speak to them).

Do not underestimate

Do not underestimate your sexual potential. If you think that it is possible that the interest which a woman has for you is everything but sexual, then you are underestimating. As a man, you naturally excite women.

I would go even farther by saying that if you do not envisage her interest in a sexual way, then you offend her. You are a tactless loser. It’s like if you were telling her, eyes in the eyes, that she is not a sexual being and that she does not deserve pleasure… Who is not entitled to a good orgasm, serisouly ? If you think like that, it is because you really understand nothing in the fair sex.

You cannot control your pleasure, it is chemical

You feel some pleasure when you lick some beautiful tits, right? Well, it is the same kind of pleasure (chemical origin) that women feel when they give you a blowjob or a handjob. It is an open secret that women adore touching cocks.

Finally, for men like for women, seduction is just a question of carnal pleasure.

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

The truth is disconcerting of simplicity

All the women are obsessed by the phallus in a way or another : the young, the old, those who have a boyfriend, those who take an unsuspicious air, the fat, the anorexics, the virgins… and even YOUR girlfriend !

The thing it is that the society works 24 hours a day and 7j / 7 to persuade us of the contrary. This is why, every time a man meets a woman, he wants to make sure that it is the truth. For example : in bed, when she sucks him or when he takes her doggystyle : « You love my cock, right ?
– Yes I do.
– Say it !
– Oh yeah, I love your cock !
– Say it louder !!!
– I LOVE YOUR COCK !!!!! Ahhhhhhhhhh ! »

Hearing these magic words is really very exciting for us, men, because the society (with the maybe involuntary complicity of the women) tries to convince us of the contrary. Like if sex was bearable only in a relation of couple. As a result, when a woman proves you her passion for your penis while you know her only for 4 hours, it is so good! It is really fun !!!

Think again about this girl whose you took the number, yesterday evening, in a bar. Imagine her,  roaring that she likes the cock, because it is the truth. Your social conditioning can try to make you believe that she must be invited several times to the restaurant before she likes your cock. But it is not true : even a busy, put under stress woman or who has to take care of her little sick cat, likes cock. They like it. Every women. Even if they claim the opposite.

We can now say that we are a secret society because we know that women love cock. Welcome to the club !

If a girl feels that you don’t know, or that you think naively that only certain categories of women (bitches, easy girls) love sex : you will be tidied up in the category of « potential boyfriends ». You know, those they make wait a long time (weeks or months) before sucking them with passion. However, when you will give her that look which means « Stop playing this lousy role. I know that like you cock. I know that you want to fuck. I do not judge you, I even think this is a good thing. It is Nature » Then, her tests will be divested of sense.

As a result, why deciding to fix a date next week? Consciously or unconsciously, they want your cock RIGHT NOW. All these conventions, it’s a fucking waste of time… Please, have the honesty to admit it.

Go to eat with her if you are hungry but understand that there is no shame if two adults (who like each other) fuck on the first date withtout doing all this big joke (several dates, going to the restaurant, etc.)

« I want that we learn to know better each other before going to your place.
– You think that you will know me better before or after a good doggystyle and two orgasms? »

Women UNCONDITIONALLY like cock

You have to keep in mind that women like cock. Repeat it when you wake up in the morning.

It’s important to maintain this faith because you are constantly bombarded with subliminal messages, with ads, in brief with all this propaganda which tries to hide the truth. Truth which holds nevertheless in three little words : « women love cocks ».

So, next time you will fuck a girl and will ask her « do you like jumping on my dick? » You will already know her answer.

The sex, it is so beautiful

Nobody can resist the desire of smiling when he sees a beautiful baby. Yeah, it’s cute, a baby…

We would all love believing that a child is conceived during a romantic candlelit dinner. Yet, the truth is probably that the woman forgot her pill/a condom cracked and that it’s a quicky in an elevator or a doggystyle on a balcony which brought into the world this cute creature.

If you are full of prejudice against the dirty sex, remember : sex is beautiful, sex is pleasure, sex is life! Those who go without this pleasure on behalf of I-don’t-know-which principles miss one of the best things that life has to offer!

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

The reason why humanity is divided in two sexes (men and women) is in order to be able to combine our genetic materials (genetic mixting) and facilitate the evolution of the species.

Women are men (and vice versa)

Women love sex, almost as we do. They want that we take our pants off and to take as quickly as possible our sex in their mouth.

Men and women can feel the same kind of sexual pleasure. It is even possible that women can have more pleasure than us during the act : they have more nerve endings, can enjoy several orgasms in a row, etc…

You can do this funny exercise : next time you will see an attractive pair of tits, note the pleasant sensation it gives you. Pay attention to the feeling in your body. Well, they feel the same thing when we excite them sexually. We are the same. QED.

The biggest secret of the world

Nevertheless, nobody will admit it, because of two reasons:
– The men need an illusion of purity (more details later) to feel loved ;
– The women use their supposed purity to urge men to make a commitment.

The incredible thing it’s that both sexes seem happy to live this lie.

But the truth is that women like being dominated in bed. Their feminine energy needs your male energy. They like the fact of making you ejaculate. They adore touching and licking our butts. Women are men. Women are like us. The sex and the dirty things, it really turns them on.

If you want to seduce women, you have to begin to see the world this way. Do a little bit like if you tried to pick up yourself.

It’s funny to realize that the homosexuals are more honest and more direct than the heterosexuals … But, finally, as two guys gays : men and women only want to fuck.

Replace SHE by HE

Women, between them, speak in the same way than guys do : they discuss about who is a good lover, who they could bang, who is handsome, etc. In girl’s language, all this is translated by « Which sex I would like to have in my vagina tonight? ».

On the other hand, they do not use the same words than us to communicate their desires. But do not let them mislead you with their cute voices, long hair and beautiful eyes encircled with black.

Women are as excited as we are by the sex : women are like men, at least on the sexual plan.

Women love pleasure

Instead of trying constantly to repeat that women like the sex, repeat simply « women, like men, love pleasure ». After all, it is a little that, the purpose of the life : avoiding pain and looking for pleasure. And isn’t sex one of the most pleasant experiences of the world ?

Replacing the word « sex » by the word « pleasure » facilitates the things, when it come to the understanding of the opposite sex. For example, « women like more the pleasure than men ». It is now ridiculous to listen a woman claiming that she does not like the pleasure. Honestly, women like men, go out in the evening to feel some pleasure.

The girls of the porn movies are not the only naughty girls

It’s funny that we can admire, on thousands of porn sites, women doing every sorts of naughty things but that, in spite of that, men still believe that women are poor fragile unsuspicious girls who could be shocked by sex… Are the girls of the porn movies the only ones who love sex? No, they all like fucking ! It is the nature then let’s not blame them … Moreover, the opposite would be a problem concerning the perpetuation of the species.

You refuse to face facts because that ruins your dream of being, one day, loved by a woman « very decent ». Because you need an illusion of purity to feel loved. But the truth is that girls love taking care of two guys at the same time. Either blow one while the other doggystyle her. You try to convince yourself that « bitches » are the ONLY girls who love this kind of sex,  but you are totally wrong. If you think that, you are a stupid man or an hypocrite.

The women are too happy to be able to play this role because playing the frightened virgins allows them to satisfy their biological priorities (that is to say : finding a guy ready to make a commitment in order to have children before the hour of the menopause rang).

You want her purity ? Except that the only guy who will enjoy her exclusivity in peace will be the one who will marry her and will make her faithful. Except that, women do what they want of their body, then stop pissing off your girlfriend with her past adventures !!!

It’s just an exciting body

A girl is just a human being, and to be ceaselessly treated like a fragile princess can be very frustrating. I think moreover that the most beautiful women are not the one who are best fucked. They impress too much men so that they can be good in bed…

Think : even if the body of a woman makes us a lot of effect, it is just a body. We are turned on by legs, breast, pubis … By a ass which you would not know how to distinguish from the one of a man if I had shown it to you in close-up. I do not try to kill your libido, but I think that even if the girl is really really hot, it is just her feminine attributes which excite us : She pisses, shaves, transpires and sometimes stinks, just like a man … Nevertheless, with the women, it is the frenzy « Fuck me like the bitch that I am but also offer me flowers because I am very cute and because I have beautiful eyes which look like fucking diamonds. »

Don’t make a mistake

Certain singers (like for example Grégoire) sing stupid love songs to dull the mass then are doubtless going to participate to big Parisian orgies. Pff.

I think that rap is the most realistic kind of music, I mean when it is about sex. Listen to Orelsan or Seth Gueko, they will probably fix you. Such an electric shock !

When you will FINALLY look at men and women in the same way, you will have understood everything to sex. I don’t say that you have to become bisexual : I’m just saying that when you fuck a girl, the truth is that, she fucks you too. She uses you the same way you’re using her. Then, why do you want to go without ? It’s a win-win scenario.

If my words shock you or whatever, know that I am not specially a sucker, tt’s rather that YOU are too much moralistic, than YOU have no critical mind and that YOU live completely away from the reality. Indeed, when honest women complain to me that men are liers, manipulators and perverts, I answer : « you, women, are worse than us ». They always agree.

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

When I see the amazing number of women who read articles of seduction (which are a common occurrence in women’s magazines) and that, in the most patent possible way : I have the impression that it is a shameful subject … ONLY for men. Nevertheless, you would be surprised by certain reactions, because even if I do not mention it out loud, I don’t hide to my friends or my family that I am a member of the international community of seduction. Apart from stupid reactions (strangely from people who are bad with women and from frustrated girls who laughed silly to try to put me in my place), most of people are interested in the demystification of love (reflection already started by Denis de Rougemont in Love in the Western World).

Describing the magic moment when a guy and a girl meet, learning how to manage a relation, knowing what to do if we have a crash on someone already in a relationship, or, how we can seduce this person who seems inaccessible to us, and thus how to become happy and spread… These are subjects about which everybody wants to speak. For example : a friend devoured tens of articles on my blog after I just showed her one, another one after having seen a link on my Facebook wall was pleasantly surprised by the relevance of the approached subjects and the quality with which they were addressed. I discussed several times about gender relations with random strangers … Morality : the seduction has never been as useful for me as since I talk about it. The girls are fascinated by this kind of subjects, it is well known, and the guys who have the maturity to admit it, are often also. Because yeah, rare are the ones who really naturally know everything.

For the idiots who would like to make fun of you because you read articles of personal development, pff… It also happened to me, but there are worse roadblocks ; and honestly this is not too difficult to push them away from the way which separates us from a girl. It is not Barbara Gould men like us who will let such childishness annoy us ! Remember that those who criticize are in fact often jealous persons uncomfortable in their own skin who echo their hatred on people who want to succeed because they did not have themselves the courage to try. They think things are what they are and nothing can change a loser.

Isn’t seduction an universal subject? And especially, isn’t sexuality THE source of so many psychic troubles because most of people were not informed enough in their youth ? It is not a subject of mockery : you are reading a manual of seduction, and…? If understanding the other sex was taught at school, people would probably be happier during all their life. Indeed, like every knowledge, some acquired it during the childhood or in the adolescence, the last during the adulthood whereas the others will never have it, it’s so sad for them !

There is an intelligent and pleasant way to pick up women, it would be a shame not to make use of this opportunity ! I’m talking about a playful seduction, based on the human, which makes people enjoy interactions with the opposite sex. It is the seduction that I like, the pickup of pleasure. No headache, no A3-S2 or something as in the Mystery Method. In brief, I will always be for the school of the simplicity, because it is in my opinion the only way to really enjoy the seduction as a game. In contrast, the current tendency is excessively simplistic but whatever! What it is really necessary to avoid, it’s becoming the bumpkin of 30 years old who wears Harry Potter t-shirts, who lives in the attic of his old dad but goes out 5 evenings a week thanks to his ACTIVE SOLIDARITY REVENUE to pick up chicks. Past forty or fifty, this guy would have no results anymore because his lifestyle is shit, and I am more or less sure that he would not have a real choice in his conquests because his lifestyle would not offer him a good enough panel of girls. If we denigrate too much the personal development to only dedicate to the pickup, we risk to become this guy. It was an extreme vision of a guy without any will of personal development, now here is the other extreme… Being an ace of the personal development and spend his life to read a lot of books or to think about very specialized subjects, and so never going out to meet women and get laid (because well, it is a little bit the purpose of the pickup) it’s not safe either. So, let’s going out, let’s activate our Mojo, let’s deactivate our neurons, let’s wear our most beautiful socks and let’s verify that we still have the lucky charm condom which is in our wallet since the « middle school years ».

To finish before getting to the heart of the subject, you have to know that it is recommended to sleep with at least two or three women before trying to go into a long term relationship. It is not necessarily to immortalize the model of the Dom Juan collector… it is especially because a lot of guys are in couple by default with the first girl who agrees to be with them. I saw it several times : the guy who arrives to almost nothing, and who at the first success, refuses to leave the girl and begins something that he undergoes more than he lives because the girl does not really correspond to him. Having several princesses to his credit allows to know what we look/do not look for in a girl, which character traits please us or feel reluctant at us, which personality would complete ours… In brief, you will have to choose with full knowledge of the facts and, fortunately, this ebook is going to help you there.

To conclude, trying to improve is an objective which I consider noble. According to me, the human being should be in perpetual research of evolution, at least until he reaches a stage of self-fulfillment which suits him. Indeed, how many men live unfortunate because they did not dare to change ? It is normal to wish to evolve if we consider that something goes wrong, or if we think that something could be better. Although you should not fall into the trap of « always more until the infinity » : recognizing and accepting our weaknesses with the aim of filling them is a brave venture which, with common sense and motivation, inevitably leads to happiness. Then to face some criticisms which were finally only concealed attacks, I will say that we are not geeks disconnected from the reality. The members of the community of the seduction are normal guys, ordinary women, except that they dared. You too, make the move, unless you already did it.

Let’s work (those who refuse to study or to question themselves on certain points will not have the right to complain if they do not satisfy their sexual appetite) !

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

 

I finished work earlier than planned this afternoon, so in order to spend time, I had a walk and approached two or three women in the street. It is a very healthy activity and it empties my… mind. Well, I was here just hanging out when  I suddenly started THINKING…

When I started studying seduction, I guess that my purposes were : quantity, quality, variety… I wanted to kiss a lot of hot women and to be blown in the night clubs of my town, I also wanted to doggystyle a new girl when I wished and especially I wanted to live exciting adventures with numerous princesses. I wanted to corrupt virgins, to bang married women, to try to pick up famous girls, to seduce students, working girls, middle-class persons, silly bitches, shy persons, gourmands, repressed naughty girls… In brief: all kinds to hotties and queens of sex. Among all these women, I planned to choose one that I will love for life. I’m not writing that because I am foolish, I just think about what Zola said « We have to love only one woman in our life, the one who loves us, and both we will live of this mutual love. »

How will I recognize her ? It is simple : thanks to her, I will not anymore want to see the others (fucking vicious circle). There is all the same a big fault in this reasoning … After a few times, when I will not have fun in the bed anymore with my one true love, what will I do ? Or if we have a kid and that she abandons me every five minutes in order to change his nappies? Will I call a prostitute or will I  try to pick up a girl in the street to calm my nerves ? In theory : no, I have to control myself, like for the alcohol, the drugs and everything … It would seriously damage the health of my couple and thus the mental health of FabriceX Junior. No way ! First of all, I don’t even know if we will live together or if I will take an apartment next to her home… According to Nietzsche « If the spouses did not live together, the happy couples would be more frequent. » I know that it seems stupid but why not thinking about it just two seconds in our life ? Still seems stupid ???

Now, fucking thirty or forty years the same woman, is it possible? Even if she ages and doesn’t work out ? Will also need to pass the step of the Viagra and everything because otherwise my Kiki will never be hard in front of grandma Lucienne. Seriously, we are not in The Young and the Restless « they met, loved each other, got married, had many children and lived happy till the end of their days ». All this makes me laugh : where is the ass there? And the game, the desire, the pleasure, the adventure, the risk… where are they ? WHERE ARE THE ORGASMES ?

In brief, I believe that I have just put the finger on an essential point (not the G-spot) : I adore making the girls laugh, I adore kissing them on their lips (all the lips), I adore touching their hips, their skin, their back, their breasts, the butts … I am also crazy about their caresses, about their bites/scratches and about their fucking cute smiles. I like that they take care of me, I also like leading them to orgasms and I like this bubble of complicity built just after the first time… When the last barriers of the intimacy have just fallen… Do you know what I am talking about ? I really love too much the women… Almost all the first times are magic for me, so, how can we live a sincere relation if we can sleep with a lot of women ?

In monogamous relations, we reach a huge rate of criminality between physical violence (knocks, wounds), psychological and verbal violence (blackmail, threats, rumors, insults, roaring) and sexual violence (rapes, touches, harassment) and more… The violence is in any case unacceptable if not granted («Constraint and love do not fit together, and we cannot control our pleasure » Rousseau)… And the divorces, do you wanna talk about the rate of divorces??? Finally, the problem is maybe the model itself which the society imposes to us : « The married life is simply a habit, a bad habit » according to Oscar Wilde.

So what ? A guy who remains faithful to his wife at the age of 50, he continues all the same to eye hotties in the street, to watch porn sites at night while his wife sleeps, to masturbate in the bathroom thinking of his young secretary and everything… We must not fool ourselves… Besides, his poor wife is eventually going to feel that she is not anymore good enough for him and will be sad. It is called frustration (not healthy relation). And, we all know where frustration leads… As a result, is it then possible to have the cake and to eat it too (and to fuck the baker) ? I guess that this question will stay without answer as long as we will not have experimented… (It is like the sodomy, we cannot know if we will like it before we tested !) On one side, we can say that the married guy is going to bang his girl because he is frustrated being stuck with her, on the other one we can say that in case of open-relationship he will knock her because she will have spent the night away from home. Then, the problem is doubtless deeper than that, it’s maybe the very nature of man.

I thus did, quickly, a survey via text messages : «If you did not want children and did not expect to live to old age , you would get married all the same ? The men answered NO for the greater part and the women YES. The model of the traditional couple is thus based on the needs of the fair sex and not on ours. Zebbi, it is nevertheless Eve who bet the apple, serious thought should be given to spank her. «Well, and if you met somebody whom you liked very much but you would know that after two years he or she will disappear forever. You would go out all the same with this person ? » Unsurprisingly, the girls answered NO and the guys YES. The majority of the men are thus more hedonist than the average of the women. Well, we want all the same to fertilize some eh, just to immortalize our genes. Except that, ethically, this kind of reasoning, is not seen as honorable. It puts us in touch with our animal side… We have to choose our side.

However, as human beings, we do not like the nuance : everything has to be white or black » (It is often not good when you are not wellthinking), but the truth is : the Universe doesn’t care… He does not judge. He only obeys the principles of CREATION and DESTRUCTION. And the seduction, as the life, contains a destructive part (more you will increase your power of seduction, more you will cause damages – man as woman I suppose).

Well, now, it’s time to confess. Why did I write all this claptrap ? I didn’t want to write about the pick up or the seduction and tell you that I am a model and that I am happy everyday and everything… Far from it ! I broke hearts, I made serious mistakes and stupidly missed nice doggystyles… But, feel reassured, I also got it up like never before ! That is what makes the understanding of gender relations worth it…

«It is a miracle that a man and a woman born to live together can live together! » Sacha Guitry was maybe not wrong about the apparently impossible reconciliation between the emotional and sexual needs of the men and those of the women. Not to mention the difficulties recognizing them and expressing them… Well, we will talk about that in details later !

Well, so, what do we do after the orgasm ?

May the God of the Game be with you !