Category: My translations

The text :

The original essay : here

My translation : here

 

Comment:

“I was modeling only occasionally at that time, but I found the same people who faulted the modeling industry for being oppressive and sexist were frequently missing entirely their own missteps and faux pas. Their comments felt much more personal and thus landed that much harder.“

Bottom line : the hardest and most cruel people are not always those we suppose will be.

“The implication is that to be sexual is to be trashy because being sexy means playing into men’s desires. To me, “sexy” is a kind of beauty, a kind of self-expression, one that is to be celebrated, one that is wonderfully female.”

This is because the sexy women have some power, so are feared or sometimes envied, and people try to keep them quiet. Especially with young people like Emily who have big tits very young: they can return men to their old demons of pedophilia for example. Men who are afraid of women, of their beauty or who are weak in front of all that should, in my opinion, more practice the game. Envious women : they should enjoy their femininity instead of trying to silence the other and silence women who have fun.

“Why does the implication have to be that sex is a thing men get to take from women and women give up?“

Good question. When it’s a woman, and in addition a woman of character and a model for many young people, who wrote that for her fans, this will maybe make you think more than when I speak. That said, this is what I wrote in The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations.

Now… has someone an objection or everyone understands that this is nonsense, especially that the condoms exist (cf. evolutionary psychology)?

“Where can girls look to see women who find empowerment in deciding when and how to be or feel sexual?“

Probably not in the box.

“Life cannot be dictated by the perceptions of others, and I wish the world had made it clear to me that people’s reactions to my sexuality were not my problems, they were theirs.“

True. People have many problems with their sexuality and project them on others … instead of questioning (easier). But the guys are concerned as I see surly people every day on my blog. Make no mistake about it. It’s hard to be a woman, but it is harder and harder to be a man too (cf. feminism) !

“Honoring our sexuality as women is a messy, messy business, but if we don’t try, what do we become?“

I find that it is going better anyway since women assume more to be sexy when they go out at night and everything. However, they do not go after their step and still have big problems with their sexuality… with freedom, finally.

The thing is that men are starting to do the same now. Note, there will be less big jerks like that. But this is not necessarily better because people are more frustrated … so dangerous and in danger at the same time.

“I think of women […] worrying about how their sexuality might accidentally offend, excite, or create envy.”

The woman is too sacred by “the nice men” to be happy. The nice guys are not sufficiently respected and become a money machine for profiteers (men and women). Sexual misery benefits to some even it creates pain…

Women suffer (to a lesser extent) to be attractive, men suffer from being labeled “perverse” when they attempt something because they are attracted.

Fucking vicious circle !

Big up from L.A. to all the politically correct people

Game Acceleration 2.0 is the first e-book that opened my eyes about the science of seduction in the broad sense. Indeed, because it is a little bit taboo topic in our society, the Game feeds numerous fantasies, numerous hopes… and thus numerous swindles. It is easy to get lost there (especially if we ask women who have their own problematics).

The author is a PUA who trains the coaches in seduction of the various companies on the market. He is thus at the very top of the food chain, and he was a little fed up with finding bullshits on the Internet so he has decided to explode some of the abuses… For example, that some famous PUA propose methods that work only for them, or then are only capable of kissing girls in club, not really to go farther, etc. It is really necessary to keep a critical eye on everything we can find on the Web.

Sinn explains well that wanting to learn the pickup, it is like wanting to learn a sport, or how to play an instrument, or any discipline. It takes time to get “the thing” which will make you become really good. Then, the pick-up can even become an art when we really try to polish up details. This is why it makes me laugh out loud when I see people who pay 1500€ for a WE with a coach and who then cry because they only learnt the basics and two or three routines to bump up against women. Paying such a high price for a so simple solution (roughly that you will always take rakes but that by going more into the heap, you will also get more positive results, even if there are some tricks to improve your success rate) that hurts… On the other hand, when later they contact me so that I give them a free coaching or so that I send them my ebooks free of charge because they do not have money anymore… they are out of their minds! If they prefer spending hundreds of euros for some dream instead of spending tens of euros for the truth, that’s their business, but it does not belong to me to pay the price for it!

You will find in this PDF file :
– A course on the history of the community of the seduction and how we got here;
– A merciless analysis of the most famous methods, and especially of their limits;
– A list of what all the methods which work have in common: the foundation of an effective Game (a very interesting course to better understand what to work first and foremost to make fast progress);
– A method to improve your Game in a scientific way: why it is important to take notes, how to discover and to overcome your blockings, etc.;
– An explanation to avoid the main traps of the community which can slow down or prevent you from making progress and a course on the ways to learn effectively;
– A course on how and why not to be too naïve in this domain and on the what you can all the same expect from this new science that is the seduction.

When you will have really understood that there is no miracle method (but that some help), and that like in every domains (taboos or not), only working pays.. we shall have taken a big step forward. I leave you with Sinn now. Click here to read the translation.

Your buddy,

Fab

I am a fan of Cajun PUA since I saw him in Keys to the VIP on YouTube, something like two years ago. I think that the way he picked up chicks was at the same time cocky and classy… and it is according to me exactly what a PUA should be! Because in the word Pick-up Artist, there is the sound “art” (or at least a sense of the show) : the sex-starved people who only try to have sex at all costs forget it too often.

I thus decided to translate Cajun’s legendary blog in order to share, with the French community of the seduction, the enormous work that he has done about the body language and how to use it to attract women. Furthermore, in a concern of exhaustiveness, I like acquainting with other experienced players’ vision of the Game, especially that Cajun was one of the best (or one of the most famous) in the world in his time (because now he has a cute wife and a baby).

On his blog, that he unfortunately doesn’t update anymore for quite a long time, we also find:
– some of his openers, some of his routines ;
– some of his adventures on the field ;
– his advice for the short guys who want to date taller women;
– a course on the inner game ;
– his advice to don’t be a sheep anymore, to think by yourself and make a success of your life.

I don’t want to show ungratefulness because, as I said : I adore Cajun. However, to avoid some disappointments to the readers, I warn you that there are all the same some details with him that disturb me. In brief, after all, it’s up to you to judge:
– he is little into the cliché of the macho man with a mustache, a kind of old Polish plumber;
– he sometimes plays too much with this character by punctuating all his sentences with FUCK or SHIT, and by specifying all the time that he is drunk (while he is more or less about my size but easily 22lbs bigger)… Like if the alcohol could make someone sexy somewhere else than in a movie and especially like if being a drunkard was a good example to give to the beginners who look for their own style;
– he claims he is a jerk (while he is not that much in fact) like if being an asshole was necessary to seduce girls. We already enough undergo this shitty stereotype according to which “PUA = irritating Jerk” thus I do not see the interest to claim it;
– he always write “Me and XXX”, while the suitability would want whether it is “XXX and me”;
– he promises articles but does not publish them, then forgets and does not speak about it anymore;
– he has, I think, strange tastes for women (but well this is subjective), very very rock-oriented in any case;
– his experience with his cat contradicts a little bit mine in the sense that no girl showed herself allergic to my cat and in the sense that they come to my place rather more easily to see it;
– he sells a kind of a nth miracle method (his body language stuff), while, elsewhere on his blog, he tells that he regularly fails like everybody;
– he is sometimes a little bit weird, and we have the impression that sometimes he takes his dreams for realities for example in his adventure with the vet: he is persuaded that she was attracted just because she laughed and answered his jokes while she examined his cat.

I leave you with him now. Good reading.
NB : there are many anglicisms in this ebook, it is to respect as faithfully as possible the borderline style of Cajun. But feel reassured, it is easily understandable in French.

The ebook : here.

XXX

Fabrice (Cyprineman)

PS : For the English people who would like to read him, you can go on his blog, of course !

…A Down And Dirty GuideTo Dating And Seduction For The Man Who’s Fed Up With Being Mr. Nice Guy.