“All true life is encounter”. Martin Buber
Forget what you thought you knew about the day game (DG). This book is a new challenge for me, a new opportunity for you .
Here I offer you a guide for daytime game, an art that is being lost these days. (Fuck this shit, I want to believe that’s how my grandparents met, but I think it was more or less at their job. In short, we more or less all agree that it’s super romantic. Do you dream of meeting your wife on the street ?)
Daytime pickup is an art that I relatively neglected for a while. I devoted myself thoroughly to night pickup and online game but I only occasionally practiced street pick-up (SPU).
Then, when I moved from Aix-en-Provence to live in Lyon (France), I met a group of really nice wingmen. And among them, I made a great friend, Kent, who practiced street pickup (SPU) at high doses! We did a lot of SPU and DG together!
What I am offering you here is the synthesis of what my mentors and my wingmen have taught me , as well as what I have experienced in the field and which I in turn teach today to people I coache daygame. Value = 97$ per hour.
I do not claim to hold the ultimate knowledge, nor that what I offer is the ONLY way to seduce during the day. There are dozens of techniques for flirting during the day. I only claim that what I propose to you is a method that gives interesting results .
If you want to apply my advice, do it thoroughly. If you decided to pick only two or three things here and there, the improvement in your game would be minimal. I really advise you to live the thing thoroughly for a while, like a real lifestyle!
If you want to use this book to get into my mind and answer your questions about women, do so. A little in the spirit of The (inconvenient) truth about male/female relationships , I promised myself here to be very direct in my remarks. May this book give you as much mojo as my previous one.
I want to respect two strict rules in this book:
– writing what I say and…
– saying what I do in real life.
You won’t find any intellectual masturbation here (or very little). Indeed, it is important for me that my advice is applicable by you quickly!
How will you know if your game is improving? You will have success with younger, more beautiful women, faster and with less effort.
You will see your blocking points disappear one after the other. If you couldn’t approach, you will approach. If you couldn’t take a number, you will take numbers. If you couldn’t see the girls again and fuck them, you will see the girls again and fuck them. In short, you will move forward!
Admittedly, the game is not just about knowing what to do when talking to a girl to fuck her . There are in the game all these notions of self-connection and personal development which are important. But I think I’ve already covered enough of these topics on my blog: here, I’m mainly going to talk about the part where you interact with the girl in daytime pickup.
So I’m not going to talk too much about the passive game (if necessary, refer to my other books): play sports, eat well, dress well, earn money, have an interesting social circle, watch less TV, play less video games, have hobbies that make you vibrate and feel alive, etc. Even if by saying that I will not talk about it, I have necessarily just talked about it J
The game was created by men to meet the ancestral need “how to have sex with beautiful women”. It’s logical, it’s studied, it’s documented.
Women, who are not quite like us (though not quite different either), have never really been studied from this angle before us. [I make a remark here because I believe that some secret services like CIA or KGB had looked into the subject.]
Before, when we flirted, there was only the law of nature: are we beautiful? do we have resources? Where are you from birth on the scale of seduction?
But pick-up artists have broken the code of seduction and nature had not foreseen it.
A good player or a PUA can see the matrix. Just as a hacker can enter secure servers where he shouldn’t be… a good player can enter vaginas that are “too good for him” theoretically.
Women are not ready to accept that. That’s why it pisses feminists off so much. They feel like they’re being manipulated…even though they’re not being manipulated. We just know what to say or what to do to make them react positively to us. And we do not hesitate to use it !
But, like anything that works and empowers, it’s highly addictive. It’s very addictive to flirt, it’s very addictive to fuck, etc.
Your identity changes when you blame yourself for letting all those girls go. But remember that before you opened your eyes, you were blind.
Realizing that you are not doing the right thing and that it could be otherwise is the first step!
And then there is the ego. Because there will always be a better player than you. Must accept it.
Don’t talk negatively to yourself. Don’t say “I’m afraid!” Nor “I suck!” Don’t be hard with yourself, the game is hard in itself! And you’re one of the few guys brave enough to do it. So congratulations!
Pickup is not simply looking for girls with whom there is a good feeling . Certainly, each “no” brings you closer to a “yes”. Certainly, by playing on the numbers, you will find your happiness.
(After all, it’s a law of the universe: when you’re looking for an apartment, you visit several, when you want to publish a manuscript, you send to several publishing houses, when you want a job, you send a lot resumes to lots of employers, etc.)
Playing on big numbers, OK. But pickup is also and above all optimizing your chances. Make clean approaches. And then, it’s spreading happiness and giving love. The goal shouldn’t just be to get laid. You have to try to make the chicks AND your cock happy.
And if you want to make these magical encounters? You don’t necessarily need to have an extraordinary physical appearance (your value will essentially be communicated by the fact that you’re ballsy), you don’t necessarily need to be rich (when you’re seen on the street, people don’t know your salary), or even having friends or a big social circle (you’ll just be you on the field, with your dick and your brain).
You have to motivate yourself to put one foot in front of the other… and to approach.
May this book be more than a book: an incantation. A voodoo energy pushing you towards the unknown. Your first step into the unknown J Daytime flirting allows you to meet very pretty girls who are healthy in body and mind (who don’t go out drunk in clubs every night, for example).
Dating apps are both a chance because you can fuck a lot with them. But they are also an excuse not to go on the REAL field, swiping from your sofa often means letting an algorithm lower your self-esteem, and finally… do nothing! I’ve seen a lot of guys interested by SPU but in the end never get started because “yeah, but now I’m talking to a girl on Tinder so I’m not going to approach a stranger in the street, it wouldn’t be cool for her”.
I would end by recalling that there are apps like Happn whose concept is to find the people we saw on the street who we liked. Might as well go see them directly, right?
Daygame and night pickup are very different disciplines (I’ll come back to this but for me the night is much more superficial, based on appearances, intimidating for some).
But the two disciplines also have things in common.
*You have to stop a girl and this move should always be done in a masculine, manly, dominant way for best results and for you to look at yourself in the mirror with pride afterwards (even if you don’t get the girl’s number).
*You must always, if possible quickly, make it clear to the girl that you are interested in her. There is a progression that must be made between the meeting and sex with a woman. You have to win your reality over the girl’s mind.
*You will need to see her again to escalate to sex. The meeting will start calmly and then it will increase crescendo in intensity. You have to sort of hold way over her mentally (and physically but always be respectful and a gentleman) right down to sex.
*If you don’t have sex the day or night of the date, you should try to kiss her on the first date and fuck her on the second. The kiss on the mouth is useful because if it is accepted it means “OK, I am sexually attracted to you too”. But that’s all. [Here I specify that in the night gaùe; a kissclose has less value than during the day anyway, because of the alcohol and the light – festive atmosphere]. Kissing girls or taking numbers, we don’t care, we want to fuck !
Your goal shouldn’t be to pick up numbers or to kiss girls. Aim further. Be ambitious. Life has so many surprises and improbable things in store for us when we provoke our luck. We provoke our destiny, it’s up to us to make things happen.
*However, don’t expect 100% success. You need to be in the game more than in the stakes because the reality of dating can be brutal. After a few months of practice, you can hope to take the numbers of between 10 and 20% of the girls you approach.
Why not 100%? Because, when you approach a girl, there is always the “risk” that she is in a relationship and faithful, that she is homosexual, that she has herpes, etc. What about women who aren’t interested? It doesn’t matter, you will have given them a smile by giving them a compliment!
*When you’ve hooked up with a girl you like, you can calm down a little (even if I don’t advise you to stop pickup as soon as you’ve met an interesting girl… in order to avoid love obsession , the famous one itis).
Approach, meet, bond and ask on dates. Be serious and disciplined in your work on yourself and you will get dates.
*You will in no way waste your time because SPU is extremely formative. Already, you will improve in seduction. But since it’s ruthless, you will really improve A LOT, confront your fears and grow your mind. Your level of communication and your self-confidence will increase enormously and it will reflect on all areas of your life (work, family, etc.)
*You will undoubtedly experience incredible things for ordinary mortals on the ground, in any case, I wish you so. You will be able to take on challenges. But even if you get laid, if you have a sex-bomb in your bed, it doesn’t mean anything at all.
Even when you get a girl who refused to sleep with a celebrity (it happened to me), it does not mean that you are better, smarter or more beautiful than this star. That doesn’t mean she didn’t regret her decision afterwards. It doesn’t mean anything.
The game is a game that follows the rules of the universe. Chance, luck, destiny, exciting subjects that have a lot to do with ours… So, stay humble and modest so as not to turn the god of the Game against you. Respect the game and it will be loyal to you. Betray him and you will pay it dearly!
Apply only 50% of what I tell you and you will be better than 98% of the guys outside.
“What you encounter in life is destiny. The way one meets it is through personal effort.” Sathya Sai Baba