Most of the guys think that they were good because they were not rejected… at least, not yet. It’s in reality a bad thing. And they are in reality not good.
No matter the atmosphere
Being rejected early in the evening has to be your purpose. Before the first rejections, you will be tightened and shy. After, you will be freed and ready to achieve exploits.
Fail voluntarily
When I am rejected for the first time of the night, it irritates me. It drives me crazy. The anger rises in me … but it is not an anger against the women. The hatred is there because I have just realized that the rejections and the critics are a big joke, and that I cannot believe that I have been so afraid preventing me from doing what I wanted in my life until today …
Having realized that, nothing can more stop me. In other words, I need the first rake to put myself on rails and to enjoy a good night (and no, we do not make omelet without breaking eggs : there will always be rejections).
Women are funny
Yeah. A woman makes fun or you ? Rejects you ? Oooh, it’s so funny. It is really of that you were afraid? Nevertheless, it is nothing… You will know that you will have become better when you will laugh at rakes and when you will be able to even close the mouth of the girls who answer maliciously. Remember that for some, going out and playing the silly bitch, it is funny. The best solution thus is to laugh at her face « thanks you, it was sooo fun ».
People who get angry easily and make scandals try to manipulate you emotionally. They hope intimidating you. I am sure that you know people like that. The best strategy is to take the completely opposite approach. They want that you perceive them as important, you see them just as an entertainment. Besides, this free-and-easy attitude seems to irritate them. When the girls get that they are not so important for you (individually, at least), that drives them crazy. Then, every girl reacts differently (some are less stupid than others).
Quite a lot of guys are afraid of the rejection
I like it. Some are even less good after having been rejected. I do ten times better. I am self-aware. I need be rejected to feel freed. Unchained. This is why I quickly need a social rejection and a physical rejection before being at the top.
Find your own style !
Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations