Author: Fabrice Julien PUA

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Introduction to Evopsy

Introduction to EvopsyEvolutionary psychology (sometimes abbreviated Evopsy) is a current whose goal is to explain, from the theory of biological evolution, the mechanisms of human thought and behavior.

This discipline, located at the crossroads of biology, psychology, anthropology, social sciences and paleo-archeology, examines psychological traits in an evolutionary perspective.

It is based on the fundamental assumption that the brain (like other organs) is the product of evolution, and thus of an adaptation to environmental and social constraints that our ancestors faced.

Evolutionary psychology identifies and explains the human traits that are the product of natural selection. In this ebook, we will study in particular the general traits that result from sexual selection (defined below).

Evolutionary psychology insists that most of human evolution took place under circumstances that no longer exist (mainly during the prehistoric era) and that behavior and internal states that characterizes us today have in fact been selected to be adapted to a world that no longer exists: there is what researchers call a “mismatch” between this environment that gave rise to the evolutionary adaptation and the contemporary environment of the human species.

We owe this concept to Konrad Lorenz. He was, for example, the first to postulate that the pleasure to eat sugar and fat comes from the rarity of these energy resources in prehistoric environment. Today, however, these products are easily accessible and this “natural” inclination for sugar and fat can have deleterious consequences (such as to frustrate adaptation) in the current environment (obesity, diabetes). Yet we continue to be, we believe, “naturally” attracted to sugar. In fact, we have been programmed to like it. Just as we have been programmed to look for certain characteristics when it comes to our sexual partners. And as our brains are evolving much more slowly than our environment (unless it is our environment that is evolving faster than our brain), it is important to be aware of this.

In this book, we will discuss Evopsy in terms of seduction and will deduce the attitudes necessary to be more successful with women. We’ll find that the theories of the game are perfectly in this logic. This will also be an opportunity to rediscover the concept of “alpha male.” Finally, we will focus on many results of experiments that we (men) will help us to better understand ourselves and better understand women (and which will also help women to understand men, of course).

In fact, realizing that some of our lackluster behaviors are natural (in the sense of “biological legacies”) allows to enjoy life with more philosophy and to accept more easily (of course if you stay in limits set by law).

Of course we will avoid encouraging old macho clichés about gender differences. We will try to remain objective!

Extract from : Evopsy and Seduction

 

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Understanding sexual strategies of both sexes

Understanding sexual strategies of both sexesThis ebook is a book about popularization of evolutionary psychology… applied to seduction.

The Evopsy (evolutionary psychology) is the study of the biological origin of our behavior and its inviolability. In other words, the principles discussed here will continue to show their validity for several centuries.

We will study the programming of men and women when it comes to their love/sexual choices and we’ll detail the universal preferences of men and women for certain characteristics.

We will also explain the behavior of men and women that we see every day (sometimes by judging it illogical) so that we can understand and accept everybody (ourselves and others). It’ll decomplex you!

Too many people believe that the opposite sex thinks the same way and search the same thing. But it’s wrong ! Men and women have evolved somewhat differently and it explains the differences of behavior and expression of social pressure, still today.

In fact, almost all our romantic behavior find an explanation when you know Evopsy. The day I discovered this discipline, I got passionate about it. And it played a big role in the fact that I became a Pick Up Artist. When you’ve got on what is based the game, you do not need to learn by heart anymore : you understand why and how.

It’s only by understanding why and how sexual strategies of both sexes are in place that we can decide the best of ours. By seeing the game of the opponent and by having all the cards, we can make better decisions to win the game. In other words, knowing the women’s (and men’s) selection criteria and introducing as the he (or she) who meets them is probably the most effective way to seduce. For a sexual partner or for a romantic partner, the levers that need to be activated come straight from prehistory!

All those who have questions about gender relations have a lot to learn from this discipline. So I will explain the concepts of the game (the underground science of seduction), basing myself on the results of experiments conducted by evolutionary psychology researchers.

For example, David Buss in 1997 conducted the following experiment:

He asked men to ask this question to unknown “Hello it’s been a few days I noticed you and I find you very attractive. Would you like to sleep with me ?”

The result ? You can imagine. Almost EVERY women answered “no” and some with indignation. Yet it was politely asked!

Then he asked women to ask this question to strangers: “Hello it’s been a few days I noticed you and I find you very attractive. Would you like to sleep with me ?”

The result ? 75% of men agreed. It probably won’t surprise you but you all the same wonder why it works like that in life. We will analyze, of  course, behind these diametrically opposed reactions, what gives the sexual power to women.

Another example ?

Terri Fisher, professor in the department of psychology at Ohio University, interviewed 293 people about their habits, including sexual ones. Some had to respond anonymously to a questionnaire, while others thought to be connected to a lie detector, which in reality was not working.

Respondents answered honestly to almost every question. But when it came to indicate the number of partners with whom they had sex, the results were different depending on the conditions under which those surveyed were asked.

When questioned and connected to what they thought was a lie detector, men reported fewer partners than others (those who were not connected to the fake detector) while the women admit more partners ! “Men and women have different responses about their sexual behavior when they should be honest,” concluded the researcher.

So when they answer anonymously, men tended to increase the number of their conquests, and women to lower this number. “There is something unique about sexuality that leads people to really worry about matching the stereotypes of their gender,” says Terri Fisher. “Sexuality seems to be the only subject that make people feel so worried,” says the professor.

Through this book, you will understand also why, when questioned, men tend to inflate the number of sexual partners they had and women to minimize it.

Besides, this book concerns men as well as women, and is therefore available to both sexes. I put a point of honor to give advice to both genders in this book. After all, what would we be without each other?

For a taste of the content, I invite you to browse the titles in the table of contents. Above all, I advise you to put aside your prejudices, to put aside your values and modesty, because what the follows can not only disturb politically correct people and sheep, but even people “well-mannered” people.

Extract from : Evopsy and Seduction

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Evopsy & Seduction

Preface proposed by my proofreader.

Evopsy & Seduction decrypts our romantic behavior with a tone scientific and funny, but especially liberating. You will understand the why and how of our behavior in love. No doubt everyone will recognize into it.

If you do not understand women but that you’re interested in understanding them, this book is the key to understand their behaviors and thoughts. If you do not understand what men want but that you’re interested in understanding them, you’ll find the explanations in this book. After reading it, everything will become so simple, so clear, that you will regret not having read this book earlier.

Need a brief taste ? Download a free excerpt => here (pdf file).

Why do we love? Who do we love? Does beauty impose its own rules, and what would be the rules of beauty? Why do we want children? Why fucking in parallel a husband and a lover? Why infidelity? Why so much injustice and so much conflict? Why do men have the almost automatic reflex to stare at women’s buttocks? How do we choose a partner? How do we attract? How do we keep a woman or a man? How do we break-up with someone? Where do the eternal conflicts between men and women come from ?

Answers can be found by looking at the past of our species.

A new scientific approach, the evolutionary psychology (Evopsy), provides solid answers to these questions that concern us, or at least that affect us all, integrating the findings of many disciplines (anthropology, biology, ethology, genetics, neurobiology, psychology…) as part of the Darwinian theory.

This scientific ebook, easy to read and very educational, explains in a clear and entertaining way the main concepts of Evopsy (from the genetic influence to sexual competition), the main criteria it uses (dominance, beauty, fertility, pheromones…) and describes some of its everyday applications, including those found in the Game. It is an indispensable tool for understanding the world around us!

This book is also very rich: studies support the arguments, making this analysis more serious and credible. It will appeal to those who are interested in the complexity of gender relations.

Did you know that 10% of children are not made by their alleged father? That only 1% of sperm cells are fertile, the others just exist to fight their rivals? Did you know that our impulses are genetic, since they are the result of the evolution of humanity for many thousands of years?

Inherent constants exist in human condition, which come from the dawn of time. This perspective on gender relations allows each of us to approach them with more serenity.

“A book you should read if you want to better understand your own psychology.”

“A must-have, a very interesting book, a really great book.”

“This book is really relevant. Brilliant and compelling. “

I would add personally that the price of this ebook, this eye opening on the world, will always be €29… unless I do not sell a lot of copies, in this case, I will increase the price ! 😉

Good reading.

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Understand and pass shit-tests

shit test

Understand and pass shit-testsThe “shit-test” another key concept of the game! I’ll explain what it is, why women are testing us in this way and how to react. I will even give concrete examples, yes yes!

What do we call “shit test”?

In fact, these are trick questions and disparaging thoughts that can sometimes destabilize if we are not prepared. Note that this process is also used during job interviews…

“You’re too short! “; “You’re too tall! “; “Why should I kiss you?”

Why do they do that?

Officially, it is a way for them to see if we have balls and to test the will of men. Unofficially, I put myself in their shoes and tell myself that it must be fun to feel in position of authority like that… when you think about it, it really looks like trolling.

These forms of test questions thus enable them to check our level of alphaness (the fact of being alpha) and the quality of our talk back… and, you know, a lot of women appreciate confident men! So the shit-tests are useful because God knows there are many men who play the “real guys” but who have nothing in the panties in fact. And God knows that men like to believe and tell that they are gods in bed while they are actually often not very good. So many that a lot of women assume that a man is a loser until proven otherwise.

Obviously, if a woman really likes you, one might think it would be stupid of her to test you… but they often do anyway! It seems that it’s second nature. One could say that often, to make out, the girl should like you a priori and then you must pass her tests. We’re not out of the woods ! Some girls really abuse and sometimes use a lot of tests that discourage even the guys who pass with flying colors. Besides perhaps is it a way of refusing their advances without assuming to directly say “no” while having fun. You should know that most of the time they already have their own ideas about the guy that approach them, that they have taken a negative decision in the first seconds of the interaction and that making them change their mind is very very difficult.

This feminine illogic leads to abuse: some paranoid see shit-tests everywhere. Then, know that sometimes the girl may just ask you a sincere question. Sometimes she can just ask you to pick her car because she really wants to go out with you… not in order to test your degree of submission.

The best advice I can give you to recognize such a test is to listen to your social intuition. Because, anyway, that’s not so important whether you are dealing with a shit-test or not if you always react more or less the same way (alpha way).

How to answer?

The best way to pass these tests is to respond with humor and detachment (but not too much ironically because it would be stupid to block a girl who liked you). Please do not get mad even if you have passed the age of examinations (and even if the girl who tests you is a stupid one that allows herself to judge), do not respond so too hard nor too aggressively. Please do not take all that literally and do not always try to really answer. Otherwise, there’s enough to go crazy!

This is your inner game of alpha male that must underlie all your answers: you have to impose your frame, your reality! You need to communicate that (in outline) as a man, you assume fully the fact that you like women, you have no apologies to make nor to justify yourself for your desire to meet and seduce. You must also communicate that you are not a manipulator, that you are sincere, and that indeed, you are a good lover.

So take advantage of shit-tests (since they are part of the game anyway) to show that you have nothing to hide, you are mature, credible and do not try to play the usual bullshit that women have heard 1000 times before you. Reassure by showing that you are someone she can go around with and not a crazy sex-starved opportunist pervert. Besides the more you will become an alpha, the more the correct answers will come to you naturally.

Note that sometimes it is useless to answer in a very crafted way. If a girl tells you eg “I have a boyfriend” or “I am a lesbian”, these are not really shit-tests! Indeed, an intelligent woman who would be interested would logically not tell you that, or at least not immediately. Or if it was, too bad for her, she needs to be less pervert in the future, it would have avoided her to miss a great guy. But since you never really know if it’s a shit-test or if the girl does not give a shit about you, it is important not to spend hours searching for a good answer!

In all cases, always leave the interaction with pride “too bad :)”. Because, in fact, it’s too bad for you who won’t fuck a beautiful girl (but apparently she did not deserve you.) But it is especially the girl who misses a good guy good in bed like you. Instead, she will get banged by selfish premature losers, and will have only what she deserves…

Concrete examples?

Be aware that women all like to think they are original but, in fact, you will still see some of the same tests. Here are some typical ones:

“Do you regularly approach girls like that?”
If you say yes, you’re dead because girls like to feel a little bit unique.
If you say no, you’re dead because the girl will take you for a smooth talker.
You can answer “only the girls I like.”

“That’s what you say to every women?”
You can say: “Yes, every single one, even my mom;).”
Or in less incestuous mode : “What’s the difference? The important thing is that I say it to you, right? “

“What do the girls you meet usually say when you tell them that?”
You can say: “Why, do you need the opinion of others before taking a decision?”

“Why should I give you my number?”
You can say: “There’s no obligation, do it only if you want to enjoy like crazy after a nice date.”

“You’re a little perverse. ”
You can say: “Thank you but I just assume unlike many”.

“You are small.”
You can say: “Horizontally, it is not important.”
Or: “It’s better than I was stupid and bad in bed.”

“I’m sure you’ve got no balls!”
You can answer with a kissclose. Sometimes arguing with words is useless.

Do not forget that we are testing women too when approaching them (oddly when they realize that we test them too a lot of them take it quite badly, like if it was an offense when we just do turn their guns against them)! Indeed, with the high number of bitches out there, we need stuff to see quickly if one is a bitch or a nice girl. So their reaction and attitude will be crucial. Personally, when I approach a woman, it is still far from won for her! We are often forced to take the first step but it does not mean that one must be ready to tolerate anything for ejaculating in a pussy, that would be a sex-starved reasoning.

If they are not invested enough or if they are a too annoying behavior (eg too much ridiculous shit-tests already heard 1000 times) then you are entitled to troll them before leaving, with pride.

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Motiva(c)tion for seducing

Motiva(c)tion for seducingI do not say that without the game, you’ll necessarily end your life alone. What I am saying is that it can allow you to get a woman even cooler than you would with no practice.

Many people get discouraged quickly because it is difficult to understand and master the game. But if it was easy, any guy would ! Are you a man with real goals or just a big mouth, a supporter of least effort?

Yes, it necessitates effort and personal investment (it’s harder to catch chicks than Pokémon)! But it is an option that we then acquire for life: once mastered, you will never ever a be dog in heat looking for hot babes! You’ll also learn a lot about yourself and about other people around you. I think the game is really worth the candle… What does your instinct say?

Do you really want to be the king of oil or is it just words in the air? Is this a passing fancy (because you did not masturbated last night) or a real desire? Will you let your comfort zone ruin your life (you do not know what to say nor where to catch your problem then your mind will find millions of excuses to paralyze you by ease)? Will you let fear paralyze you or will you give love? Are you determined to succeed?

Nothing great has ever achieved by contenting with ease! I sincerely believe that the worst thing to do is to regret on your deathbed having never take the plunge! To have missed golden opportunities. Any PUA will tell you the real loose is to do not try. I remind you that many life philosophies encourage you in that direction: Carpe diem, YOLO, etc.

Personally, I like sometimes to rethink all the hot chicks that I fucks doggystyle (damn at 27 I already had a more fulfilling sex life than most guys in a lifetime). If it ever happened to you, tell yourself that if you were able to cause your luck once, you are necessarily able to do it again. And anyway if I was able to do it, then so are you! One of the main mistakes is to see that something works and stop doing it by laziness (respect yourself)!

Stop anticipate negatively, stop making excuses… to succeed, you need audacity, not perfection, and much less playing the security card. But the audacity is accessible to everyone! Get out of your comfort zone (this conditioning that keeps you stationary watching others having an extraordinary life while you feel bad), stop procrastinating! Successful people (regardless of the domain) are those who give themselves the means! Miracle solutions, we only see it in the movies!

What are you afraid of, seriously? That jealous people make fun of you because you are interested in seduction? Do things for yourself, not for others! Do not listen to jealous people (it’s a safe bet they wish they had the courage to start too)! Do not apologize for wanting what you want, because it’s healthier to assume that to be frustrated! Show them your balls and they will respect you. Do not allow chicks to tell you that it was better when you were an AFC in the Friendzone! You must be a sexual threat (not in the sense of rapist), you should be taken seriously, be regarded as a sexual guy!

All the personal development work is aimed only at achieving one goal: becoming more happy! Who could condemn you for that? Whether we are talking pickup or weight training, we pretty much have the same problems of motiva(c)tion (ask his opinion to Tibo InShape if you do not believe me)!

The seducer is not unhealthy, get rid of that fucking limiting belief. Connecting with another person to see if an exchange of love is possible or not, it is not unhealthy! Whether actively or passively, when we have not, we’re all looking for a partner. The challenge is not to please her at all costs, but rather to see if your intentions are compatible. The goal is even being alpha without being an asshole (we respect women).

Come on, do not make me believe that you prefer staying home watching TV rather than going out, meeting and kissing chicks. However, if you do nothing, you will get nothing! You probably think too much… and it’s not this way you’re going to put your tongue in the mouth of the beautiful Sarah, I guarantee you. Be honest with yourself ! And prove yourself that you are capable!

Certainly, you never can be sure it will work with this particular girl… but you should not let doubt invade you, because the process will bear fruit in the long term! The game will make you optimistic! Moreover, even if a girl rejects you firmly, if the girl tells you she does not want you, it’s still the logical conclusion of a history between you two in which you acted like a real man, this will make you grow and must make you proud of yourself. This is still better than living in denial like a virgin, you will easily agree.

Approaching a woman usually makes guys afraid because we fear a negative reaction, and no one likes to be rejected. But you’ll learn to cut your ego off from your results and to adopt an approach that does not challenge yourself in every interaction. You will, with hard work and determination, enjoy the ultimate power: the power of not giving a fuck! Besides often women by giving their bitches’ opinion think they are saying a general truth (just because they are women they imagine they know and understand women in general) but these are only disparaging thoughts that say more about the cunt they are than on you.

Trust, you’ll learn how to free yourself completely of the issue, to get a shield, to let you go! By stopping to want to be perfect, you can pickup effectively! Saying obscenities or being the perfect gentleman, everything is a question of style, and this is not what really matters. Because you should not flirt with the aim of getting something (as opposed to 100% of the sex-starved), but just for fun.

Do not try to make it complicated, say anything with a fucking mojo. Just start with something that will actually just be a test to see her reaction. Is she smart enough to understand the second degree humor?

And at worst, in the worst case she’ll reject you. But in this case, it will be exactly as if you did not approach her. The game is a game we can win the jackpot but we cannot lose. Put things into perspective, we all fail sometimes but we eventually only remember success. Before I went out a lot with a handsome dude, and he got rejected way more than me, thanks to this fact I became really uninhibited!

Theories of the game are made to increase your chances of making out with girls. Not to tinker an unstoppable shot against a particular girl, supposed to subdue her the point of being 500% sure of fucking her. That’s a novice fantasy, maybe the worst one. This is not a question of manipulation nor a contest to see who has the biggest dick… but a work on oneself, a work on the understanding of others and empathy.

Get out of the mold, let your complexes aside, see what happens with strangers. Do not try to think for them nor to imagine in advance what they might think of you (it is useless to torture yourself in this way).

As said Snipe (very good French PUA) in an article about motivation: “It is today that emerges tomorrow. If you do not act today, you will have nothing tomorrow.”

Follow the rules of the game and you will not be thought as a loser, you will be classy and you will have sex. Not with all chicks on Earth (in seduction, you are a specific product in a niche market) but still quite a lot. Enough to enjoy an overbooked penis. And too bad if then a lot of people are jealous, you’ll learn how to handle it!

That’s it, I hope I have helped you, and I really hope you will help yourself thanks to your awesome force of will.

Your wingman,

Fabrice Julien

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Shoud you be yourself in seduction?

Shoud you be yourself in seductionOne of the politically correct advices that we find most on the seduction forums is “be yourself”.

This is bad advice!

People often say that to be successful and find love, you must just be yourself. It is vague… and especially condescending! It comes to saying, “You have problems, but please do not change: you are special, but nobody notices. Be optimistic, one day everything will go well for you.” Yeah right, it’s always the fault of others… It is especially a great propaganda to castrate you while pleasing you.

This advice is not to be taken literally because it insinuates that things happen on their own in life. But it is in 99% of cases, not the case. If you want something, the job or the girl of your dreams, you have to deserve it and go get it. The aim is certainly to be yourself but not to simply be happy with what you already have.

Misinterpreting “just be yourself” would be:
– Not making efforts to progress;
– Not working on your inner game nor on your limiting beliefs;
– Not trying to correct your errors with practice.

Chicks can more than us content with saying it’s easy to pickup and there is no need to make much effort because there are a lot of sex-starved ready to fuck anyone out there. They can therefore so hold a conversation as stupid as a candidate of Secret Story, make-up anyhow and never question themselves… they will always have suitors who want to fuck her even if they do not make efforts. This is not as easy for most of the guys, it’s unfair, but that’s life!

The girl then chooses among the contenders at her level but does not give herself the choice among all men. The wait-girls attitude is not really surprising… remember they often hear during all their childhood that they are princesses and prince charming will come alone, by himself on his white horse, pushed by instinct or by good fairies (hmm I want to fuck a fairy)!

What does it means, “be yourself”?

Resist the temptation to try to please at all costs, which would be seen as a weakness of personality. Too many guys think that to have a chance with a woman, they must as much as possible agree with her and accept whatever she wants to do. Never change your values or your views to please a girl.

Do not force the similarities, just steer the conversation on these and enhance them. But do not invent some! It’s better to be honest and true. It is even a filter: those who are not made for you will go away!

Being yourself is not obvious.

Many men are frustrated (and agree to be submitted) because they undergo all the time the discourse of women that often ask them to wait, to be patient, to give them gifts, to submit to their desires, etc. Consequently, they lose their inner nature, and frustrate their true instincts, their true “self”, and take less initiative.

This paradoxically has the effect of offending women and of making men live in a form of discomfort. True, they need time, and to know you better, but at the same time, they want a real man, who remains dominant and sexed.

Basically, you are a man with sexual desires (and they are women with sexual needs too) thus: be yourself! But be the REAL yourself without repressing yourself, and assume yourself! I insist but my advice is not to tell you to don’t be yourself nor to be what I want from you… it’s to tell you to be the REAL yourself !!! Be yourself, but with a discerning eye without burring your heads!

Think for yourself, take stock honestly with yourself, without judgment. Try to see what you really want in fact. Try to think of things you’d like and would not like to do and act accordingly. Why could not you finally achieve your goals? In the street, only three steps separate you from a beautiful girl, even less in a club, on the Internet it’s 2 clicks…

Damn it ! Appropriate your personal history, assume! Start living for you and not for the others… If one takes away your inhibitions, your stress and your bad faith, you would already be able to seduce! I’m sure ! Because a healthy and conscious relationship to oneself is the best guarantor of human relationships more comfortable, more authentic… and therefore more attractive!

Can we become a better self?

The goal is, ultimately, of course to become a better version of yourself. Through personal development, you can do even better than you think being able today! But do not wait to be “perfect” before practicing the game. This would drive to procrastinate. Not good !

Do not measure yourself against your friends and stars. The comparison leads to resentment. The comparison leads to the criticism of others. The comparison is an unhealthy thing. You must think about your true aspirations and work in this direction, regardless of the eyes of others.

Surely you are not going to become anyone else but you can highlight certain qualities. Certainly, you are surely a good guy yet but you can probably improve some things. Surely you are aware of your flaws but do not underrate yourself (and learn how to market yourself)!

Some people will like you and some not. Accept it and that’s it. Learn how to do not judge others too and how to open your mind… to live more serenely. Wanting love and respect from everyone is a pointless exercise (it’s like always running after perfection). That would just impede your personal development and your level confidence would plummet.

Good luck, everybody! Feel free to like and share if you enjoyed my work!

 

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How to find partners for threesomes ?

How to find partners for threesomes

It’s crazy how, today in France, it’s hard to find a partner for a threesome. I have tried almost everything and this is my conclusion.

In the bars, you get looked like fools when proposing a threesome with a girl. Or, some women are interested but disappear on the dancefloor with their girlfriends. It is well known, leak is the easy way …

On OnVaSortir, I organized a “sexy card game” party. I proposed to play and that, when someone loses, he or she would remove a garment… until underwear (I was reasonable). Well, my party and my account were deleted in less than two days. The excuse given to me is “the party should not be illegal.” I did not know it was illegal to play cards in lingerie during summer. OVS is a site that claims not to be a dating site, but it still has a function to scroll through pictures of members to see with who you can have a match. Bad faith, when you hold us…

On AdopteUnMec, I created a female profile (free – the problem may come from there) with the photo of my accomplice. I made a description as if it was her who was keyboard saying she was trying to make a 3some. We then added babes “as friends” and we proposed to join us. In two days, we found 3 or 4 interested girls. It seemed promising… but even on this site, which yet officially encourages women and men to let it go and have fun, we were rejected. Their excuse is that the profile was not consistent with the TOS. Damn but it does not hurt anyone and it even gives pleasure to their “clients”! Do they really want the happiness of their members or they just want to do business? When one wants to play the “cool”, one assumes all the way if wants to be credible!

On Netechangisme, there is almost no girls alone. These accounts are usually fakes or they are so stressed they do not respond. It has not worked either! In the libertine clubs, is the same thing. There are very few women. And those who are are usually just a couple. The world of debauchery if one is not a single woman or a couple that wants to swingers, it is not awesome! On the other hand, for 4somes, it is awesome!

The only dating app that allowed us to make 3somes is Tinder… By looking for girls who like girls, and writing in the description that we are a couple looking for a playing partner, we had a lot of matches. Then we were very direct “interested in a threesome ?” As usual, many got cold feet at the last moment, but we still found several who enjoyed playing with us.

I still find it shameful to be censored like that. The 3some is the fantasy of more than one / two men and more than one / four women. So why should it be a taboo like that? I think this is because most people do not fulfill their desires because they are often accompanied by a sense of guilt. They could not let people quietly enjoy their lives? Who decides what is normal or not, seriously? Who benefits from this moral and ambient judgment that makes that most people are tight-asses who think they know everything? I guess people prefer talking than acting.

If you have a friend who wants to make a threesome with you, here’s my advice. Try to fuck unknown with who you will have no more contacts after. Some people like to do this with people they know but the two main fears of the girls when they propose a threesome WWM is that the boy prefers the other girl and that it changes the relationship with her friend.

They are people who also refused, saying that it must happen “naturally”. This is of course an excuse because the idea excites them but they apprehend. And the more they have time to stress, the more they are likely to get cold feet by giving you a shitty excuse.

The idea is that you both must love the idea of plurality or exhibitionism, you must do it for you, and the third person is, in this scheme, just a toy. But a toy that is welcomed and enjoys during the party, anyway.

However, if you are a guy or a couple, this will be your job to you to search and cause your chance. In 6 years on the field, no couple ever asked me to come with them and no girl ever came to ask me to fuck her and her roommate (btw that would be very exciting).

Technically, I think it is easier to make a good WWM than a good MMW because women have much less performance anxiety. Indeed, during MMW orgies, lots of guys have trouble staying hard. But as there are more M than W on this market, some straight guys are ready to masturbate cocks for a shot with a girl.

In fact, a threesome MMW is interesting, in my opinion, only if:
– The guys are bisexual (in this case everyone gets off equally);
– If the man’s straight but likes to see his girlfriend with another guy as long as he participates (it’s called candaulisme but it’s pretty rare);
– You’re taking a girl who is just a sexfriend with a bro (for fun).

A girl who seeks sex with several guys for herself can be afraid of being thought of as a whore and of not being able to walk for a week after because taking too hard. She also may have bad porn film image in mind, or even trash ones with double penetrations, etc. This is less the case as part of a threesome with another girl because she can always claim that she did it just to please you. But I think you both need do it if you really want it. The idea is not that you fuck two chicks it’s three people who make love together.

There is another risk: that after the act, it is you who starts seeing your girlfriend as a slut. That’s why I do not advise you to do MMW with your girlfriend. For the girls, it’s different because the girls are generally more jealous if you have feelings for a girl than if you just fired a shot with another. But here, it really is the penetration that makes us jealous, in general (cf. evolutionary psychology).

That said, if your sexfriend is hot and free, it will not hard to find a second guy. There will be no real challenge, if only not to take the first comer but to choose one that will meet the situation and that will not be there just to get laid with her regardless of your presence. Also he must not be there to make a dick contest. If you are afraid of the comparison, do not start there, it could make you depressed.

Some guys really take pleasure watching their girlfriend getting fucked by another one. If you get to be completely free of jealousy, this is a chance, but this is not the case for everyone! I think there are also a lot who are swingers just to get a new girl and too bad if their girl is fucked by another boy in exchange (they enough fucked her anyway). It is not the healthy debauchery, that! Anyway, this kind of experience can also reconcile and reunite a couple.

In conclusion, if you are a woman, you will probably be sought everywhere. Do not miss your chance just because you are afraid (that’s normal it’s adrenaline): it’s a magical experience! If you are a couple, I recommend Tinder, and good news it’s free… If you are a single guy : or you have friends in the libertine environment, or you must find fuckfriends!

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How to well kiss a girl?

First, we must know and admit that a good kiss is more dependent on the chemistry between the two partners who kiss than on a pure technique.

However, even if there is no real connection between you and the girl you kiss, which can happen from time to time, it does not matter. You can still make this moment a pleasant one.

For this, what you’ll do is you’ll lead. You will impose your way of kissing enough time to better know each other. Then the two of you will be adapt a little bit to the other.

Moreover, at first do not put your hands on her buttocks or boobs (that’s boorish). Stroll in the small of her back, her hips, her neck, take her face in your hands… These are territories that remain the domain of the gentleman but that still are very erotic and erogenous.

Do not use your hands and do not always kiss the same way. You can kiss her more or less passionately, with or without tongue, more or less tighten your grip while you kiss, nibble his lips or her ear lobe, you can lick her neck… so many ways to make your kiss a preliminary!

A good kiss, in general, it’s one lip over the other. It’s not like that (we are not in a comic):

Disney

Once you’ve kissed a bit like that, you can open a little bit more your mouth to see if the girl will follow you. And once the mouth is a little more open, you can try to go and play with her tongue. Do not put directly it in the back of her throat, you will see gradually if she follows. It is useless to turn your tongue during 107 years, it is better to give several short kisses.

Top 5 of things you should avoid when you kiss :
– The knock of teeth in a hurry (that’s often front teeth that hit);
– The soup of tongue (oral rape) : washing machine 1200 rpm (not including spin) + drooling;
– Blowing while you are kissing (true story);
– Eating her lower lip like a wild sometimes up to leave scars there (they are people who love but that well);
– The kiss of the two who keep their eyes open and who look at each other in the eyes with the eyes of a Tarsier.

How to well kiss a girl

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Why do women like jerks/assholes ?

Why do women like jerksassholes

If you believe what you read in women’s magazines: women want a good guy who is a little inaccessible, who is a challenge, who is never really acquired, who does not harass by texts (this is understandable) and who is never too nice to them. This is a somewhat an ambiguous query.

Which leads me to a question I was often asked which is “why do women like jerks?” We will treat here the angle: why are women attracted to guys that correspond the least to what they claim they want? What a question as hardcore as a badly shaved pussy !

Definition of “connard” (asshole or jerk in French) : insult denoting someone who behaves in an inappropriate or unpleasant way, because of a lack of intelligence, good manners or scruples.

Other prerequisites: women, if asked, will often say they are seeking a nice guy, gallant, respectful. And to push the plate, they will probably complain about falling only on jerks.

First possible explanation : the asshole excites the alpha male radar of woman who thinks detecting one. Basically, the bastards have features in common with pure alpha males (eg the fact that they spank their ass during doggy style).

Are some women so stupid that they confuse arrogance with confidence, narcissism with vanity, money with success/charisma? Apparently !

And the reason why they hide their true research would be:
– Refering women on false trails so they do not care about these guys (misleading competition);
– Testing the guys so that only those who have experience with women do not buy their shit.

Explanation number 2: they like dominant men… and by accepting a man to be bastard with them, they make him even more dominant. Women so self-reassure about the choice of their partner.

Explanation number 3: by taking the role of the male breadwinner, the State would have altered the constraints of choices of women and favored men who invest the least in a relationship since the society takes it over.

Explanation number 4: they are bitches and feather flock together. No, just kidding, but it would be for the sick pleasure of complaining during evening with their friends.

Explanation number 5 : they have the secret hope to make him change. Or they think that he is sad and they want to care for him (it could awake their “nurses” instinct).

It is perhaps a bit of all at a time, the different theories are not necessarily excluding.

I advise you to be neither too sweet nor an asshole. If you think the girls are white doves like angels fallen of heaven, that you must venerate, respect them too much and say yes to everything they ask… then you’ll be entirely eaten !

The bad boys can represent the forbidden, rebellion, daring. Now all what is forbidden excites (women too). In addition, they can say that they will be less judged by the bad guys as this will have done worse than them and worse than what they want to do with them!

Nevertheless, it is useless to want to become an asshole for having more sex. It is even a quality to do not be one. And there is no need to be a bastard to do exciting things and to do not judge.

Guys who starts in the game and who lose girls because of assholes would benefit from being a little less wise, a little more fun, a little less shy. It would also certainly be good to have a bit more nerves with girls, to dare more…

Keep your ethics (respect women) but remember that the gender relationships are a competition. We are not in a Hollywood comedy with a happy ending: the fate will not always give you a hand just because you’re a good guy. This is btw often not the nicest nor the most asshole that ends with the girl !!!

The game is here to allow you to be an alpha but not an asshole!

PS: This is also the job of women to do not confuse alpha male with asshole otherwise their only option would be to make out with pussies.

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How to know if a girl likes you?

Source : Agent Provocateur

Today, I will introduce a tool that will let you know if a girl likes you, and how much.

I named … the compliance test!

Its utility ? Seeing if the girl is ready to play the game with you. Taking the temperature of the interaction (does the girl like you? does she a priori trust you?) And see if you can get a rate.

There are “easy” compliance tests and “hard” compliance tests.

Easy tests are not completely reliable but will reassure beginners and encourage them to move on to the next phase in their seduction process.

Among the easy tests, there’s, for example:
– Does she agrees to go with you on the dancefloor?
– Does she agree to be alone with you?
– Does she agrees to talk with about sex?

If she responds positively to these tests, you can go further with confidence.

If she responds negatively: you can devote your time and energy to a more receptive target.

 

Hard tests have less chance of success but, if she is receptive, it is almost won.

Does she accepts, for example:
– To answer your naughty intrusive questions? (It is on this principle that is based the game of the questions I propose in Secrets for seducing on the Internet)
– To drink in your glass or (EVEN BETTER) that you drink in her glass?
– To give you her hand? Then to caress your hand when you caress hers?
– That you caress her thigh? First put your hand in her knee and then move up to see how far you can go.
– To give you a kiss on the cheek when you ask her casually? A girl who submits to this type of testing is at least a little bit attracted.

On the other hand, if it does not work: do not struggle. There is nothing more ridiculous than a sex-starved guy trying 20 times to kiss the same girl at a party.

However, one must know the difference between a rejection and a persistence test. As you know, women love to make us believe that they are not “easy”. So sometimes they do it on purpose just for their conscious. But in this case, other indices let you guess you have to insist. This is your social intelligence and your experience that will help you to:
– Do not give up prematurely when she likes you;
– Do not insist like a sucker when it is dead.

The idea by going fast (the hard way) is to quickly test the girl’s tolerance. Yes, a girl you have met a few minutes ago may well agree to give you her hand or even to kiss you! But even if the test fails, you will have demonstrated your interest and  thatyou have balls. Besides, if she stays with you despite that, while she may go away it’s that she tacitly accepts that you try again (or she is very stupid and likes to live dangerously).

I want to say that if she does not want to kiss you it’s not necessarily dead, in this case. Indeed, if you go there in a hard way, she may need more time. She may need you warm her a little more. Or that you reassurance her a little bit. It is for you to adapt to the circumstances and to individual cases… but often it is the logical part of her mind that resists and the emotional part that wants to orgasm. It’s up to you therefore to unlock and excite her!

When you quickly try to kiss her on the mouth, for example. It’s a bit of a door in her face: if she refuse something huge, she will be more likely to give you something less huge. If she refuses the kiss on the mouth, so try to kiss her neck. Anecdotally, it repeatedly happened that a girl did not want to kiss me but let me warm her and then she came up kissing me herself and we fucked in all positions of Kamasutra.

Also, daring to try your luck and to take things in hand like that, it’s a form of DHV that can create attraction in itself. The future therefore belongs to men who have the nerves and that will take initiatives wisely!

 

But this test (which is like a green or red light) is not an end in itself: you must see how far you can go and try to go further into her bed… Try pressing women like lemons about sex. Always try to get on the higher step of the staircase of life.

This is where I differentiate “like” and “seduce”. There are plenty of guys who are simply liked but do not know how to move on the process of seduction or who are too afraid to dare to do so. Result: even if women like me less than them, I fuck more. It is important to don’t forget that many women are seduced by guys they do not like. But what is more important? Taking her doggy style with a spanking in your kingsize bed… or she likes you in secret?

Finally, a warning: I advise you to eject yourself rather quickly when you interact with a girl who resists too much or who pissed you off. Because a player can quickly be accused of rape or harassment, I advise you to be very careful and take no risk of ending up in jail. If the girl wanted to you but she played too much to resist, too bad for her! At one point, some chicks need to grow up and assume their cravings too! I know this is hard to accept to sacrifice targets like that especially when you have few opportunities but it’s wiser… and besides, it shows one more time the interest of having several opportunities in the same time !