Year: 2014

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The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

Warning: if you don’t have the success you deserve with women, what follows can really change your life :

I’M TALKING  ABOUT THE METHOD OF SEDUCTION  I USE FOR SEVERAL MONTHS TO SLEEP WITH DOZENS OF WOMEN*
(AND OFTEN DURING THE NIGHT I MET THEM…)
*WELL, BUT NOT ALL THE WOMEN AT THE SAME TIME ! 😉

AH… AND THE GOOD SIDE OF THE STORY
IT’S THAT THIS TECHNIQUE PRESENTS NO MAJOR INCONVENIENCE !!!

Did you ever see an attractive women in the street and said to yourself « It’s really with a girl like her that I would be happy »?

Did you ever be rejected by a woman just because she « just wanted to be friend » with you ?

Do you know women in your social circle with who you would like to fuck but with who you do not dare to take initiatives… and so, finally, they make another man happy ?

THANKS TO THIS EBOOK :
YOUR PAIN IS OVER !
YOU WILL FINALLY UNDERSTAND WHAT WAS WRONG
AND FIX IT !

Next time you will meet a hot woman, you will not act anymore like you always did until now, you will not anymore be this boring and asexual guy (sorry but it’s maybe what women think about you) : you will know exactly how to seize the opportunities and how to turn women on enough so that they finish in your bed.

By respect for you, I do not plan to muddy the waters contrary to all these so-called coaches in seduction who propose you fantastic methods. Indeed, there is an intelligent and pleasant pickup. I’m talking about a playful pickup, based on the human, which will make you enjoy your interactions with the women. It is the pickup I like, the pickup of pleasure. No headache, no A3-S2 or I do not know what like in the Mystery Method.  In brief, I will always be for the school of the simplicity : it is in my opinion the only way to really appreciate seduction as a game. Well, but be careful to do not confuse simplicity and simplism.

HERE IS THE LIST (NOT EXHAUSTIVE)
OF THE CONTENT OF THIS MANUAL  :

We are going to study together the process of seduction from A to Z. Indeed, this manuscript contains :
– a complete briefing on the mindset you need to adopt with women to succeed without complicating things (otherwise they will drive you crazy) ;
– how and why you can set yourself free from the feeling of jealousy ;
– all the truth (which hurts preconceived ideas) finally revealed about gender relations with a focus on what the community of the seduction and the women’s magazines hide ;
– a vision of the pick up aiming towards time-saving, pragmatism and profitability ;
– an inflexible analysis of the love relationships, and a program of maintenance to prolong your relation of couple ;
– a strategy to disinhibit and to approach women easily (and effectively) ;
– a method to create a powerful sexual energy between a girl and you ;
– why women always try to force into error you and how to succeed in enduring this latent sexual tension ;
– a focus on why the fast and natural seduction can dry out you of the porn ;
– my opinion on the misdeeds of kissing girls in bars or clubs rather than at your place ;
– how to really turn on women, act quickly and win against their last-minute resistances ;
– why the statistics will always be a part of the game of seduction even if the gurus of the pick up have too much ego to admit it ;
– my secrets to eradicate the one itis and to set you free from any social pressure.

To show you it is possible, I suggest you to read this free extract of this work and to see by yourself that it answers to all your questions about the opposite sex : download here the free extract of the ebook. The platform of payment which I use is secured but if there is a problem, write me an e-mail (diaryfrenchpua @ gmail . com) and I will solve it.

You will also discover with pleasure that I’m not a guru : I simply propose you a method which will make you understand the women and how to be successful and especially ESPECIALLY how to do not complicate things (and do not lose your mind). A man who is good with women sleeps at will, but he succeeds especially in filling his need for feminine affection and is never manipulated. I will teach you how to be good with women…

 WERE YOU ALWAYS A LITTLE BIT NERVOUS NEXT TO BEAUTIFUL WOMEN ? BUT DO YOU KNOW THAT IT IS POSSIBLE TO INVERT THE ROLES AND TO MAKE THEM
NERVOUS IN TURN ?

« Insanity : doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results ». Albert Einstein

I want you to think about the dead end where you are. How can your life improve if you do not behave differently? With this book, you will finally receive THIS electric shock which will clear your head… You will find in you the motivation to approach women, to take initiatives and to forget the empty metaphysical considerations about seduction with which the society feeds you…

Seriously. What kills me it is having ceaselessly to explain to people that, if they want to make a success, they have to give themselves the ways. Everything is not going to fall straight into the lap to you, you have to provoke your luck !

You maybe already went out with attractive girls luckily and you would like to understand the process… ? Maybe that you complicate things with love while you will see that there is really no reason… ? Maybe that you would like to sleep with THIS girl in particular… ?

In brief. You are at a crossroads of your existence : close this page and go back living in the ignorance, or buy the book and learn how to enjoy the love life you always dreamed about, to be at ease with yourselves and ESPECIALLY spread…

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To your success,

FabriceX

Attention : women will not queue up in front of your home simply because you will have bought this book. Don’t be stupid, do not believe in miracles nor in magic tricks : you will have to work and work a lot to succeed (like in any domains of life). But you will win a great deal of time (because you will be coached by somebody who has already slept with more than 100 women within 25 years)…

PS = What it is really necessary to avoid, is becoming the bumpkin of 30 years old who wears Harry Potter t-shirts, who lives in the attic of his old dad but goes out 5 evenings a week thanks to his ACTIVE SOLIDARITY REVENUE to pick up chicks. Past forty or fifty, this guy would not have results anymore because his lifestyle is a shit, and I am more or less sure that he would not have real choice in his conquests because his lifestyle would not offer him a good enough girls panel. If we denigrate too much the personal development to only dedicate to the pickup, we take the risk to become this guy. It was an extreme vision of a guy without any will of personal development, now here is the other extreme… Being an ace of the personal development and spending his life reading a lot of books or thinking about very specialized subjects, and so never going out to meet and get laid (because well, it is a little bit the goal of the pickup) it’s not safe either. So, let’s going out, let’s activate our Mojo, let’s deactivate our neurons, let’s wear our most beautiful socks and let’s verify that we still have the lucky charm condom which is in our wallet since the « middle school years ».

Let’s go !!!

5 best comments about this ebook on my blog :

« It is the only thing that I found in all the community of the seduction which is really useful. De Angelo, Mystery, Juggler : these methods can work but are too much complicated. FabriceX has understood everything !! » Laurent

« It became so easy for me to seduce women that I wonder what I did during all these years. » Joël

« Fabrice X is a guy I don’t wanna leave with my sister, on the other hand I would not be afraid with Sébastien Night or Dolteau » Mickaël

« It is not a secret that the gurus make voluntarily their methods complicated to make us perpetually buy new things. With this ebook, everything is said. » Cyril

« Thanks to this book, I finally approached women. After 4 years of intellectual masturbation I finally became a man of action. I even kissed two girls last weekend. » Pierre

 

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The principle of Pareto applied to the personal development

I will certainly write a whole book about personal development because more you will make a good first impression, more the women will be receptive to your approaches. In the meantime, here are (classified from more to less important) the elements on which you can work to spectacularly improve your results :

A. Approach everything that moves

Not only because by practising, you will learn a lot of things. But also because one day or another, even during your period of training, it will work. And success is a virtuous circle. Isn’t an expert a person who made all the possible and conceivable mistakes in a given domain ?

More you will practise, less you will feel the approach anxiety. Try to determine which moment of the day and which days of the week suit you to practise.

B. The body language

The true communication is done (more than 80 %) via the language our bodies. You will thus progress quickly by working on this aspect of your personal development.

The human beings are guided by the feelings. This is why, we can try to influence positively the women by keeping a high energy level and by being associate to fun :
– daily, do sport and eat healthy to be in shape ;
– before going out, listen to music which gives you energy ;
– smile ;
– try to do like if you had already slept with the girl when you talk to her. Think « I like you, I know that you like me, and I also know that you will never have enough of me because I fuck like a rock star and we have a lot of fun together ». You will sub-communicate necessarily some confidence when you will approach women with this state of mind.

C. Dare to always push farther the interactions with the receptive women

This girl likes you (she laughs, touches you and tutti quanti). But, if it is the sex of another one that she sucks… fuxelife. Even if you have nothing more to say, stay with the girl, we never know. At least, you will try new things. Know that you can often push things farther than you think.

Try your luck !

D. Visualization of your previous and future successes

Developing your internal strength is a subject which would saturate Wikipedia. Here is thus one single recommendation : remember your previous successes, so you will want to relive good moments and even to do better.

 

E. Find a wingman

A guy who will kick your ass. A guy who will share his experience with you, etc. A guy who will talk to her friends while you isolate her, who will debrief your interactions or congratulate you, who will cheer you up or give you more value in society …

F. Keep a diary

Approaching must be associated with positive feelings : you should be excited at the idea of going out, not frightened. Because we are more often rejected than sucked, we sometimes forget that the Game isn’t a succession of rakes.

Thus keep a diary to look back at your successes, to know why you game. It has to give you the energy then do not hesitate to embellish the thing. Set realistic goals (for example, monthly) to do not be demoralized. Do not hope to fuck at every party but be proud if you have overcome your fears even if you just spoke to one single woman.

Or let’s going out and say to yourself that you will not come back home before having approached at least 10 girls.

G. Learn openers and routines

It is classic but you have to approach your target within 3 seconds of seeing her because more you will wait more you will find excuses to do not approach. Fuck ! Try to always have 2 or 3 openers in reserve… this way you will know what to say in case of breakdown of inspiration. Do not forget that more you will act quickly, more you will be seen as attractive.

Be able to step back on the interaction and focus on your body language, it can be useful to memorize some routines or openers. It will help you a lot, especially at the beginning …

H. Practise the selective ignorance

The community of the seduction proposes too much information, in particular specialized things which will not help you SIGNIFICANTLY, especially at the beginning… Do not flood yourself !

I. The Parkinson’s law

The principle is that when you give 8 hours to a man to achieve a task, he uses these 8 hours. But if you give him only 2, he makes his work in 2 hours.

So : go out, be productive and pragmatic… Keep in mind that you always have less time than you think !

PS = Avoid being dependent on your partner otherwise you risk to end like Ashton Kutcher at the end of Spread.

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Focus on the approach anxiety

Focus on the approach anxiety

What is approach anxiety ?

The fear of approaching or « approach anxiety » is the name given to the natural answer of our body when you take risks. Biologically, a blood influx in the tonsil, siege of the feelings.

If you begin activities like the parachute jumping or something like that, you will feel the same sensation. It is anchored in the human, in our genetic program. We feel this way when we go out of our comfort zone.

The society complicates things

The contemporary company is responsible for a development of the stress and the anxiety. Its rules conditioned us, among others, not to dare approaching women :
– since we’re young, we are told to avoid speaking with strangers (pedophiles, kidnappings)
– we learn to respect the personal space of the strangers ;
– we are afraid of the trial for harassment;
– we are afraid of ruining our reputation;
– we are afraid of being rejected or offended in public.

These social barriers urge us to stay very quietly in our place instead of taking social risks… Even if these same risks could lead us to the full satisfaction of our biological desires.

The challenge it is to become able to say FUCK YOU to these rules and all this shit which prevents us from being really spread. Do not use it as an excuse to don’t approach, don’t withdraw into yourself because « that’s what you have to do ». Do not be a sheep…

Why should you approach women ?

A. It is anchored in you, do not fight it

Learning to overcome his anxiety of approach it is like learning to overcome the need for eat or sleep. The studies showed that in the absence of challenges, men depress. Going out of our zone of comfort is thus a part of our needs. Living in our bubble of comfort is contrary to our nature…

Remember that the biological purpose is just to survive and to reproduce. No more. When you will start taking some risks, you will enter a vicious circle which will urge you to always go farther (in terms of risks and rewards) and every time you will push your boundaries, you will want to go even further.

B. Action dopes you

The only way of passing from paralysis to action is acting. When we act, our internal chemistry produces the dopamine which makes us feel at ease with ourselves. This drug is supposed to help us acquiring new skills.

C. Nobody can reject you because of a cold approach

A woman whom you approach doesn’t know you, she does not reject YOU but the approach. Yet, by practising, you will improve yourself. Most of the women are not silly bitches, they just behave this way when you approach them badly, which is more a test than something else in fact…

D. Faster you fail, faster you succeed

Becoming good with women needs a lot of practice. But it is necessary to persevere! No need to read tons of books written by quacks. Rather need to put two feet in the shit and to rush to really internalize the skills. You have to start by failing before succeeding then fail as soon as possible … Logic, right?

E. Have no regret

If you see every day only a woman whom you find attractive, in ten years you miss 3650 opportunities. Every woman crossed in the street can potentially finish in your bed : it is infuriating. However, even if these 3650 are attractive, how much fill your personal criteria (the character) and find you attractive in return? We will never know because you did not act. Too bad !

F. It is necessary to filter the women to find those who fill our criteria

Your expectations should be high. I think that 80 % of the attractive girls would not suit you for more than one night. It is statistical, you thus have to approach more to fuck more. And do not fuck a girl only because she answers positively to your approach but really because she satisfies your minimal requirements.

G. Realize all the power you have

(The G-spot, the most important.) As an heterosexual man, you can approach who you want. Whole world is your playground (except gayland).

For a heterosexual woman, it is too difficult to approach because it would communicate that she is discouraged, easy, etc. For a gay guy who has the misfortune to approach an heterosexual guy, it can quickly end bad. But a man who approaches women conveys, on the contrary, confidence and strength. The game is thus in our favor, us, the heterosexuals.

No more than 50 % of people on Earth have the power which we possess. And most of people who have it will never use it. Don’t be this guy who watches his life but who does not act. You have the power, thus the choice.

H. Women like being approached but 95 % of the guys have no capacity of approach

Being approached flatters and pleases the women. They are often approached, but most of the time in a awkward way. They thus set up automatic defenses because they have no time for all the losers of the world. By being a little bit different and by showing confidence, you will notice an enormous difference in the way women perceive you. With that said, it is essential to fail several times to be able to polish up the techniques of approach.

I. Do you have the 8 inductors of attraction ?

The appearance, the confidence, the humor, the social intelligence, the passion, the preselection, the status, the wealth. This is what women will check out when you will approach them.

Do you think that an awesome guy, like James Bond, would think about it twice before approaching a girl he would find attractive ? Nope. And you neither. You have to adopt a confident attitude which sub-communicates that you already possess these inductors of attraction (until you truly get them).

Watch the movie Vicky Christina Barcelona and observe how Javier Bardem approaches both girls at the very beginning. You will understand how he persists with confidence although he is rejected for the principle. Besides, he fucks both the two girl (and they ask for more of it), bravo !

Gandhi said one day something like « You do not maybe know which echo will find your attempt, but if you try nothing, be sure that there will be no echo. » Think about it.

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Main blocking points

It’s your job

It’s your job to say the first words, to escalate and to show her your sexual interest.

It is important to be very honest with yourself : when you don’t begin a conversation with a woman whom you would like to meet I want to know why. When you do not try to get closer physically I want to know the cause and when you do not push the sexual interactions at the most I want to hear your excuse.

Three blockings points

There is really no secret to seduce the women. Curiously, it comes alone when we are able to overcome certain fears and to be sincere. The three fears you have to overcome are:

– you do not dare to say the first words to begin a conversation with a woman;
– you do not try to take more initiatives tactilely speaking;
– you are afraid of wasting everything you built with her until now. Then, you are not sincere because if you did everything you did until now it is because you want to come back home with her (/at her place), right ? Either you are just afraid not to be good in the bed.

In any case, your ass needs to be kicked.

Do not care about results, only about fears

Train to overcome these fears… Even those who studied the seduction for years are afraid.

The fear of the sincerity

All your anxiety comes from the fear of being sincere. For example: fear of telling her that you want to meet her. Fear of showing her that you are interested. Fear of admitting that you want to sleep with her.

Three main stumbling blocks

– Some guys need to drink alcohol before being able to do something ;
– Some need the night to be capable of being sexual (like if the darkness protected them);
– Some are incapable to make the first step alone, then they call their buddies…

Do not associate these three elements with the fact of meeting women : you can have a drink, go night-clubbing with your buddies without it is your only option to meet women. Realize that you can also meet women when you have a walk, alone, in the daytime, without alcohol in the blood.

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Three complementary attitudes

You are sociable :

– you begin numerous conversations with girls AND guys ;
– you mix the sets and introduce people ;
– you get the attention ;
– you are a good communicator ;
– you are very interesting and entertaining ;
– « he teases me… Do you think that he likes me ? » ;
– you invite other people to join you ;
– you are the leader of a group ;
– other women want you ;
– you have to leave SOON…

You are attractive :

– you have a confident body language ;
– you are not affected by her tests ;
– you do not speak too much, you communicate a lot via your look and your facial expressions
– you avoid the too much attitude ;
– you do not brag ;
– it is difficult to get your attention;
– you are very confident, you even play with the sexual tension;
– your favorite expression is « fair enough » ;
– you are in a sexual state and contaminate the girls to whom you talk ;
– the women feel comfortable with you, even if you are mysterious ;
– you do not eye everywhere (women), you are fine where you are.

You are a sexual predator :

– « he kissed me after just one minute and made fun of me because I was disturbed » ;
– « He put me a finger and caressed my clit discreetly but with a big smile » ;
– « When he asked my number, I asked to do what and he put me a spanking by saying THAT’S WHY » ;
– « he said that I have a nice ass but that I  show off too much» ;
– « he told me that it was my fault if he was so excited but that my seducing techniques were not going to work on him» ;
– « he does not take into account my resistances, he even accuses me of taking initiatives » ;
– « he was aggressive when he touched me but now that he left, I miss it » ;
– « he texted me a naughty thing then told me I was a naughty girl » ;
– « he took my hand, put it on his hard sex and told me DID YOU SEE WHAT YOU’VE DONE » ;
– « he said that he was for the frankness and thus that he warned me that he was going to seduce me. »

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It always ends badly

It ends always badly. Watch out, I say it in a positive way, make no mistake about it. I give some explanation.

Most of the guys are afraid of taking too many initiatives because they content themselves with small successes. They want to be able to rethink about the interaction and keep a good taste in the mouth.

The ego stinks

« A handjob would really please me but I am too afraid of being hurt in my ego if I ask you and you refuse. »

You know very well my point of view. Make her say no. Squeeze her like a lemon. My creed « blow me or blow me out but let’s not stay in the inactivity ». The problem is that you do not most of the time really try to be sucked nor offended. It makes you happy to be there, smiling and listening her laughing at your jokes. It makes you feel good. You want to leave with the head up then you do not push the things at the max.

It is cool to hang out with a girl and to make her smile blissfully. Most of the guys content themselves with that. They prefer the soft and platonic company of a woman to a fast physical progress because this latter presents the risk of brutally breaking the interaction.

The same thing can happen when you mutually caress your hands. The caress of hands is so pleasant that you forget to push things in a more sexual way. But the problem is that this feeling of well-being does not last. And it does not last because she will leave you as soon as she will have met a guy with who she will have a more sexual connection. Yet, what’s the point ? Talking to her during 10 hours or penetrating her during 30mn ?

Day game

A guy strikes up a conversation with a cute girl in the street. They walk together up to a small bar. They exchange their names and flirt a little. That goes well. He would like to suggest her having a coffee but he freaks out then does nothing. Later during the day he wonders what she would have answered if he had invited her. Shit. She was really hot. However, in spite of his regrets, he is satisfied all the same, he gets a certain shape of satisfaction. The memory of this interaction will remain pleasant : He approached successfully in the street and gave a smile to an attractive girl … Good.

The truth is that he did not try to have more because he was afraid that the interaction ends badly. He did not want that his last memory is a pitiful rejection.

« Let’s drink a coffee.
– Sorry I gotta go somewhere with someone in order to do something. Bye. »

Now, he sees things differently. He was clearly rejected. The interaction was a failure since the beginning but he had not noticed it (isn’t it better to know it since the beginning ? To postpone is a bullshit especially if you maintain the secret hope to see again her in a few years by chance to take FINALLY your luck …) Do you recognize yourself in these extremes :
– Taking a lot of numbers but never calling back ? ;
– Flirting with women all the time but never proposing them something concrete because you are afraid that they say no ? ;
– Making girls laugh but never trying a physical escalation because you are too much afraid of being rejected ?

How does it end ?

The passive interactions end often as follows : she ignores your SMS or pass you the buck (bucks are like endives: that should not exist because it has no interest but it exists then needs to deal with). Or then you had a strong connection but because you have never pushed things sexually, it is the shit and you got stuck in the mud in a very strange relation. Sometimes, you will feel the desire to ignore her or to tell her that you do not want to fuck her. It is called FRUSTRATION.

No matter who ends the relation, it will always finish badly. You will break up, sooner or later. Unless if SHE is the woman of your life.

Good for the ego

The guys want that it ends well to have a short history to tell to their friends « How I took the number of a cutie in the street or simply flirted with her but it is still really good in my opinion ». It is just a question of ego. They do not escalate tactilely because they are not sure that it will work. But realize that, in any case, it will always finish badly. Every time (that you fucked her before or not). All the groups you will approach, all the numbers you will take, all the girls you will fuck, all your sexfriends, your girlfriends, etc. it will always end in a bad way (unless if you find THE girl (and still …)). That’s it, the thing which pisses off. Be prepared there! Life hurts …

But even if it always finishes badly, you will always guard a recording of the funny part in your mental hard disk. You will fill up with positive experience. And nobody will never be able to take it from you. Even if tomorrow there is a nuclear war, you will always have the memory of this naked girl kissing your abs. The pickup, it is little bit like an investment… A journey which we would take and from which we would come back at home, in the square one, but the testicles extremely empty and the head filled with magnificent hilly landscapes.

But, first of all, it is necessary to succeed in approaching… and, good news, it is the object of the next part of the book !

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Be careful not to go out with emotional abysses

The affection

I have a question : « If a woman does not love herself, how can she love you one day? »

We need affection, but we cannot let whoever give it to us. Some « emotional abysses» exist. Most of the problems met by men during their relations could be resolved if they did not try to obtain affection from women who are not for them. These girls, emotionally ravaged or unstable by nature, cannot give you the type of affection you need.

PS = The reason why they are unstable, we don’t give a damn. You are not her shrink.
PS 2 = Don’t be this kind of man who comes to love a girl just because she does not like him. It is unhealthy.

Constructive challenge

Do not confuse « girl who do not love herself » with « girl who do not love you ». The first one would be a counterproductive challenge. You look for a woman who takes care of her, who has a spread life, many purposes, ambition, projects, tons of friends and an excellent family (not exhaustive list…)

This kind of women can be difficult to keep, but at least if one day she loves you, she will really love you. They thus represent a « constructive » challenge. She is worth it.

Monsters in the male

Creating dramas reveals a lack of respect for you and is also the sign that the girl in question has not much self-esteem. But, it is sad to say that but some guys like supporting fits of jealousy, scandals and madwomen …

Fuck ! Do not waste your time giving advice to these poor guys. They encourage the bullshit of these girls. I am sure that they do not even want to be helped, in fact. They feel good in their poverty. They don’t want to be really happy… FUCK THEM !

Having sex, it’s easy

On the other hand, a quality woman who loves you, it is hard to find. A woman who would not put you under pressure, and whose  internal clock would neither be late nor anything, etc.

The women adventuresses, and who do not generally put you under stress, are awesome. Unfortunately, certain guys interpret their lack of investment in the relation as a challenge and try too much to possess her then put her under a big pressure… and eventually lose her.

A like Affection

I had a very strong sexual connection with dozens of women, like that, just for fun. But I was honest enough to admit that the type of affection I looked for : they could not give it to me.

You can obtain affection from an « emotional abyss », but you will never have THE type of affection you look for, the one you really need. Yet, even if the sexual complicity is powerful, the affection is what welds the couples.

Something else: you cannot change a girl. The boring women will remain boring. It is rare that they agree to question themselves for a guy… and then even if she wanted that would need a lot of efforts to develop her personality in the right direction. She’s a total pain in the ass. What you see the bad days is thus probably what you will daily enjoy, eventually.

He doesn’t give a damn of you

Some women are attracted by the guys who treat them badly, because they know that they are shit. They love people who do not like them (because they do not like themselves).

The good boy who appreciates them sincerely is necessarily a loser in their eyes whereas the guy who treats them like shit is attractive. INDEED, HE UNDERSTOOD EVERYTHING! Pff. The feminine logic, it is really something… !

PS 3 = I even met poor girls who downright admitted being attracted by the mediocrity (diverse reasons can lead to that, it depends on the story of each woman but in any case, it makes us think…)

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A full of love lifestyle

Every woman will blackmail you some day

A woman has two secret weapons to charm men and urge them to make a commitment. Her purity and a subtle threat making you understand that if you do not comply with her expectations, you will be replaced by somebody who will. Thus, even if she does not succeed in holding you with her « purity », she will hold you with blackmail.

The purity

The marriage is an arrangement: the men obtain the sexual exclusivity, the women the commitment of the spouse.

The men just try to feel loved and say to themselves that « if she only sleeps with me it is because she loves me. SHE IS MINE. » The purity of a woman must thus be protected at all costs. And the best way of guaranteeing this purity, is getting married (even if you will always want to sleep with other women) or being in a serious relationship (knowing that it is more ridiculous to do so when you are 16 or when you know she is not the love of your life).

Men eventually exchange their freedom for the purity of the women. Why this need for feeling loved ? Why is it so important for them?

Because most of the guys cannot accept the feminine affection coming from a woman who sleeps with another one. That feels reluctant at them. It is doubtless registered in our genetic code, and shows itself through the thorny paradox of the « puritanical whore ».

This feeling becomes intensified when you are profoundly in love or during the honeymoon. Themen in this state of blindness will agree to do anything, even getting married to prevent her from sucking the cock of another one. Of course, they won’t admit it in these terms.

The guys get married only because they want something : and it is not sex, it is affection coming from a pure source.

Even rock stars and celebrities eventually get married (they can nevertheless have the women whom they want but cannot enjoy an affection coming from a pure source with the groupies). The marriage thus guarantees to the man something more precious that the sex : it is affection coming from a faithful, stable and pure source… a real drug. The men thus do not make a commitment for the sex but for the affection.

Her biological clock

The guys also get married because they realize that if they do not respect the biological clock of the woman, they can be easily replaced by another one. The women do not threaten you explicitly, but what will happen if you do not follow their clock is obvious.

Sorry, but the women do not really love us. They just like being with guys who want the same thing than them : house and children.

They can call it love if that pleases them but the word « love » can mean many different things for a woman. This revelation is terrible.

That she gets married with you do not mean that you are the one she loves the most. The women do not get married to the guy whom they prefer. They marry the best of the league of those who are willing to comply with her deadlines. The guy who she loves the most and on whom she sometimes fantasizes even at night in the marriage bed, is doubtless a sexy adventurer who refuses to make a commitment.

The alternative to the marriage

If you want to be happy, instead of drawing your affection from a single woman, you need to have several women in your life. It is easy to fuck a lot but finding stable and affectionate women giving you affection, it is really difficult. But you need them.

The variety of the affection

Roughly speaking, we have two needs : sex and affection. Our sexual needs require a variety in the partners, whereas a single source of affection can be enough for us. We thus understand why a guy is going to get married and to deceive his wife with girls to whom he grants no importance.

First of all, these guys have to admit that they need feminine affection in their life. You can increase your emotional income by diversifying the women who give you some affection. A woman cannot give you ALL the affection you need. Then, take the second girlfriend or make numerous friends, keep your niece, accommodate your sister, the sister of a friend, etc. The affection and the feminine energy are not age-related. From girls to the grandmothers, every woman possesses this special energy which makes a man feels good.

The problem affection/purity

Then, you are going to come up against this problem. Because by not making a commitment with A SINGLE woman, you will have some affection coming from women who sleep with other men.

Sorry guys, but it is the truth about this lifestyle. Are you still in ? It is hard but you will have to make with all the problems connected to the paradox of the « puritanical whore ». Especially if you refuse the marriage and see frequently several women …

You will maybe never have a source of pure affection but at least you will always have your freedom.

A life spent meeting women

Thirdly, you’re going to ceaselessly have to meet new quality women. No madwomen in lack of affection (if you are linked with an unstable girl she will poison your existence).

Nevertheless, none of these women will stay with you forever because they will go ahead until they find a man ready to make a commitment. You will like them all the same, these girls, then it will hurt you. Be prepared there.

These quality girls must be replaced years after years. Your work will never be finished.

The lifestyle of love

Fourthly and more important : you have to enjoy a lifestyle turned to love.

It means simply that you have to diversify sources giving you this feeling of being loved. It is what women do, even apart from their relations. Look for sources of love except the women.

Build many social relationships, which is easier today than before. Spend time with your family, do voluntary work, adopt a cat, make a child, be a good friend, practice your hobbies, your passions, etc.

Build full of small social relationships rather than a single strong relation for your entire life. Thanks to them, even if you do not get married, you will never be really alone.

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations (29€)

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The 5 phases of a relation

The 5 phases of a relation

Having questioned quite a lot of couples about their breaks, I identified an unchanging process, in 5 phases. The conclusion: if your priority is not maintaining a strong sexual attraction, then it will be your fault if your couple takes in water.

The sexual relation

Any relation « really » begins with an enthusiast fuck. With the mutual sexual attraction (a lot of sex). If you do not penetrate a girl, she is not really your girlfriend. Kissing or holding her hand, it’s no big deal.

The emotional relation

After a while, the sexual interest decreases inevitably a little and you fall in the affection. For example : you are sitting next to her in the sofa of the lounge watching a movie instead of taking her on the coffee table, you give her cute nicknames instead of asking her if she likes your cock, you hold her hand and talk to her for hours instead of pushing her against a wall and kissing her tits.

The affection is a good thing but it is the way it affects your relation which is bad : it decreases the sexual tension. Yet, if you do not maintain a high level of attraction between both of you, and if you are taken for granted, you’re dead. From « enthusiastic fuck », you can fall in « pure affection » in a few months. All this seems magnificent but if you do not make efforts to maintain a sexual tension in your couple, you direct it in a wrong direction.

The relation based on purity

Because of the routine, of your comfort and everything, you are not really attracted any more the one by the other. Seeing her naked in the bathroom does not make you be hard any more. In fact, you prefer connecting on a site to masturbate in secret rather than fucking her. In the bedroom, she talks about her colleagues instead of drinking your sperm and singing in yoghurt.

Paradoxically, in spite of the lack of quality sex, there is a thing which interests you : her purity. In other words, you do not want that she has sex with another one, even if YOU do not fuck her anymore. You always want to know where she goes and with whom. You defend her purity, YOUR illusion of purity.

In fact, you do not want that a guy ruins the memories of the story you had with this woman by fucking her in his turn. In spite of your lack of interest for her, you feel loved because she sleeps with nobody else. You are not absolutely ready to overcome your illusion of purity. From fits of jealousy to fits of jealousy, your relation is threatened. None of you is happy. And she sleeps with another one (the term « cuckold » is used only if she gets pregnant).

With that said, it’s not the fault of the other guys if she deceives you. It is because the sex with you doesn’t satisfy her anymore. It’s your fault, but she can adore you anyway, it is just that in the bed, it is no more too much that … You became in a way her buddy …

The relation which causes too many problems

One day, you get up and you do not give a shit of her purity anymore. She could fuck your best friend under your eyes, that would not even irritate you. She doesn’t give a damn also that you have a relation with this « whore of the accounting ». It is now too late to save your couple. The only reason why you are still together it is because you find that it is too difficult to leave her.

You avoid breaking because you are afraid of her typically feminine reaction : tears, shouts, hysteria, etc. You think that she would be so sad that she could even commit suicide. Indeed, the women need more time than us to put back their business in order and to turn over a new leaf. And then, there is a house, children, lawyers, common account and also, AND what would say your families and your friends? WE DON’T CARE !!!

« What, I am going to have to begin again to pick up ? No, I cannot do that. I prefer staying in my glass prison rather than being really free but having to make daily efforts. I am weak … »

The end of the relation

Your feelings dominate you. Anxiety and depression alert you that you should not continue anymore too long in this way. No matter how much it will be difficult or how much it will cost you, you have to get out of this lousy trap.

Never forget that the affection has to be the product of a sexually intense relation… If you think that her affection is acquired for ever and that you can rest on your experiences, it is at your own risk. You are warned! The attraction can be short-lived, it is a selfish whore who has sex and leaves without saying good bye.

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Do not hesitate to leave them when they bore you

Halfway

I have a friend who does not approach women. He is handsome and cool but hopes that the will girls come to him as mosquitoes attracted by the light. So, if they approach him, they will have made all the work and will desperately be attracted by him because will have invested a max. It bogs down him in long relations where he is the prize.

The only problem is that he is too passive. He can stay for a long time without meeting anybody even by going out twice a week. He can spend months before he finds a new friend.

Other guys are the opposite. They approach all which moves no matter how by hoping a positive answer. Even if they have to undergo violent rejections and speak during hours to women without interest, they stay. This attitude fucks your confidence on the long term and can re-spin you the phobia of beginning conversations.

The compromise it is to select quickly women but to only invest time for those who are enthusiastic in the idea that you contact them. Those who smile, laugh and feed the conversation. If you do not obtain a positive reaction at once, leave. It is not an excuse to do anything, approach in the best possible way, put the odds in your favor but invest time only for those who understand the luck they have that you approach them.

Simply leaving

A way of avoiding the scandals, of protecting your confidence and of maximizing your results by socializing, is to limit the time lost with madwomen, idiots and miserable. Do not dedicate them one second more than they deserve. You can do it only if you adduce to leave the conversation on a low note.

It means that you do not look for the perfect exit. You can simply leave. Even if that can look strange. Just like you came, you leave.

You are in control

I think that most of the guys do not approach enough women because they think that when the conversation is started, they have to stay and make it work with the girl. They feel booby-trapped.

It is obvious that if we see things like that and if we undergo the pick up more than we live it, approaching can become a real ordeal.

Approach two women

At the beginning, they are very polite then face each other and speak together, ignoring you totally. They are clearly not interested but you stay there hoping to be included in the conversation to be able to say « it was nice meeting you » to leave on a high note. But why waiting like an idiot ? Smile and leave, on a low note or not, we don’t give a damn. In the worst case, you can always come back later, when a model will be at your arm.

You begin a conversation with a sexy woman on your right. She is cute but sarcastic and not at all playful. She makes fun of your pink shirt. Then, she incites you to hate by contradicting you on a whole lot of stupid subjects. You clearly do not like her personality so why staying with her ? Turn heels and ignore her, she will be really surprised. These girls were not enough put back in place by guys. Or, were too much and take revenge. In any case, they have a problem to act this way… We can even say that they overcompensate! Their nasty attitude sends back to their own problems.

The hand in the bag

You see a woman whom you want to approach… but you hesitate. Two seconds later, you realize that she is with a guy, maybe her boyfriend. You think « thanks God, fortunately I waited, that would have been strange being in front of her boyfriend ». It is a bad attitude.

First of all, if you begin a conversation with a woman and if a man joins you, you do not have to feel sick. It is natural for a man to approach women. The guys make generally a weird head… like if they were caught red-handed (but they did not commit crime). In fact, stay calm and continue. That could seem strange to the little couple, but not to you.

If the guy is aggressive, it is because he has no self-control, nor enough confidence and perceives you as a threat. If somebody has to be under pressure, you prefer whether it is you or the other people ?

When you go out, and you act in a sociable way, you do not need to try to save face. You do not try to have the last word. You don’t give a damn leaving on a positive note.

And moreover if you are not afraid of the oddity, you do not even need to leave, let people grow tired and leave then take their place.

If the girl to whom you speak is a silly bitch, or if the interaction is not enough productive, leave without further ado. Show your personality, shit!

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations