Author: Fabrice Julien PUA

Have the following questions ever touched your mind? “How to make out with a pretty girl? How to be a couple with a sexy girl? How can I find a really interesting girlfriend?”

First, why a couple with a girl? I mean, in high school there’s a social pressure “ah you’ve never kissed a girl ?!”, In college, it is the same “ah you have never had sex?” The worst is when your friends are guys who have success with chicks… it starts to itch in the panties !!!

So, my first advice is not to put pressure on yourself by absolutely trying to “depucleate” yourself. My second advice is to put all the chances on your side by listening to the suggestions I make in this article. The third is to tell you “fuck off, social pressure, I will have a girlfriend!”

1/ Is it necessary to wait patiently to please a girl or should one provoke his chance?

The answer may seem obvious. In France, it is almost impossible to make out with a girl without approaching her. To be able to “afford” to be passive in love, one would have to be fucking beautiful or very popular, etc.

In an open environment like the street, you have about 0 chance that a chick will take the first step towards you to tell you that she likes you and that she wants to know you better. In a closed environment, like in a high school or college, I would say that you have 1 in 5 chance that it happens to you. On the Internet, chicks feel less social pressure… so, it happens a little more often… I would say that you have 2 out of 5 chances to be approached.

But even if you are approached by a chick, will this chick be for your taste ? No, you must take your responsibilities to be in control of your love life.

2/ Becoming more attractive

If you’re have difficulties making out with girls, it’s probably because your perceived value is quite low (which does not mean you have no potential) or you do not act very well (for example, you never leave your house…)

So, above all, I advise you to work on your reputation, behave in a more “cool” way, don’t spend all your days playing video games, improve your look, hang out a bit with popular people, say hello to pretty girls to benefit from a certain preselection, etc.

One very important thing, which is the basis of everything to achieve this goal, is to work on your body language. Do not neglect the power of making a good first impression!

3/ Show your balls

Do not send your buddies asking the girl in question if she wants to make out with you or not. Your buddy could have the priority like in the movie Nos jours heureux.

Do not pass by the girlfriends of the girl you like because it would communicate that you do not have the balls to take the first step. It would be absolutely not attractive…

The best thing is to go and approach the girl yourself or to get by to meet her and talk to her. Do not start saying “do you want to be my girlfriend?” : you would risk a kinda violent rejection. Try to create some attraction between you, especially with kinos. Then, ask for her phone number or Facebook and finally meet up again.

4/ Is this girl for you?

I admit that at the beginning of my career of pick-up artist, I didn’t give a shit about if the chick is made for me or not. I just wanted to fuck, satisfy my sexual urges and gain some sex experience.

Today, I am always looking for fun but I am seriously thinking about becoming a dad and founding a family. So, I can testify: for staying a long time with a girl met in the street, you have to be very lucky. Remember, we must have a girl out of nowhere matches us, it’s rare anyway! She must have the same vision of life, the same ambitions, and so on.

Because, yeah, throwing our sights on someone who does not really correspond to us is taking a big risk of living quite a lot of disappointments after suffering in a shitty relationship.

So, to optimize our chances of meeting someone who matches us (because “who looks alike matchs” in life), it may be opportune to frequent the same places as the type of girl that is hooked. To do this, we must ask ourselves and try to think about what we are looking for in women and then find where we can go to meet this kind of girls. There is also the solution to resort to dating sites that can be effective.

5/ Sexualize and conclude

Try to have a date with the girl you like. Sexualize of course during the date so as not to end up in the friendzone. And, at the end of this date, if it goes well and you still like her, you’ll have to kiss her… and fuck her.

And you have to fuck her WELL to make her addict!

Some say it is unthinkable to be a couple with a girl we fucked the first night. I get upset, I met a lot of my long relationships (including my current girlfriend) by fucking her the first night. The truth is that it does not mean anything at all except for bloody-minded people.

After the fuck, you have to keep in touch and see her again.

Anyway, remember that I think it is important not to put too much pressure on yourself to find a girlfriend at all costs. Because, who says “pressure” says “it works less well”. I always met my girlfriends with whom I stayed for a long time at times when I did not expect it, when I was not looking for anything special.

I was quietly fluttering, then some caught my attention and made me want to deepen the relationship. It’s still better than being a couple by default with the first coming who wants a couple with us, right? And even for them, it’s more rewarding than going out with a guy who has no choice in his sex life and who wants them because they represent his only chance to have a girlfriend!

See you later !

Many guys would like to know what is the perfect tagline for pickup. But the truth is that there is not ONE unique magic phrase to seduce all women: you have to adapt your opener to the context of your approach.

In this article we will see a few effective taglines that you can use on different fields (online, on the street, in a bar or a club…) I will also explain how to invent your own effective phrases.

The contextual approach is always the most effective but is not always possible

Generally speaking, whatever field you’re picking up on, using a ready-made tagline is only interesting when nothing original comes to your mind when you’re looking at the girl you want to approach . Because by approaching with something bad, you always have more than 0% chance of success (you have 0% chance of success if you do not approach). But, if you are inspired, obviously ALWAYS prefer a situational or contextual approach.

Indeed, when you use a tagline that amuses you, that this entry in matter also pleases the girl and that she is sure that it is not a phrase that you say to all the chicks… then you increase your chances to have pleasant conversation with her. Your opener is like the pilot episode of a TV show : if it is very bad, she will probably not want to watch the rest (except if she has nothing better to do or if she finds you very charming).

The power of conviction

When you approach on the street, in a bar or a club, the belief you put into your approach is important. Indeed, you can say a phrase that spontaneously comes to you to a girl and it can work ; but you can then say the same phrase to another girl and be thought of as a loser.

The difference, of course, lies in how you communicate non-verbally (a phrase that is said in a confident and natural way, sincere, perfectly suited to your internal state of the moment, etc.). Moreover, you’ve more chances of success if you are really in a very good mood or if you have a super modjo.

Tagline online (Tinder, Adopte, Happn, Lovoo, etc.) :

The first objective of a tagline is obviously to get an answer. The second objective is whether the girl is interested in going further with you or if she is just there to spend her time or reassure herself on her seductive power (in this case, you have to reframe her and run away).

As has been said, when you approach in real life, the most important is to go with a positive attitude and to communicate good things non-verbally. But you should not think in this way online : your alpha attitude can not appear through a poor written “hello beautiful” or “yo my deer, what’s up? »… Through a screen, the girl may well not understand that you are fun and assimilate you to the basic asshole.

By the way, I invite you to read this article to see the type of messages that most losers send to the chicks. I would like to add that the approach of sending “girl’s first name “ is absolutely bad. I know that many sites advise to send “Sophie! » or “Caroline!” But I think it’s a shit. So, I had to say, fucking crappy dating coachs, stop copying yourselves without testing!

So, before sending your message, you have to find a tagline really adapted and effective. I will now explain how.

You need to find a detail in the photos, interests or description of the girl and bounce on it. Obviously, you must turn your sentence so that you can easily orient the conversation then on sex. It goes without saying that ideally, you write without spelling mistakes. And do not forget to include her first name (or nickname) in the message to avoid that she thinks it is a copy/paste (most babes would eliminate a guy who would pick up automatically like a robot) .

Minimum one week after a first unanswered message, you can try to tickle the ego of the beautiful who ignores you and ask her for explanations. This makes react quite a lot because babes do not like to be thought of as impolite chicks (they pay attention to their social image). They will want to prove to you that they are not big sluts who are on the site only to accumulate the matches and let the guys hope without having any desire to make a meeting (although sometimes it is the case, they will always deny).

I invite you to read the last chance message in Secrets for seducing on the Internet : I often send it to the chicks who ignored me at first on Adopte or Tinder and I always manage to fuck some in the lot.

Taglines for bars or night clubs:

In night, I like direct, contextual and “what the fuck” approaches (but you do not have to look drunk for it to work). Go for daring and do not let women feel fear in you !

“Tonight is my birthday, we could kiss.”

“Did you wash your teeth before you coming?”

“Are you enjoying tonight?”

“Would you like to kiss me?”

You can also use situational which is obviously very effective to start a conversation. Examples: if she has a hat “be careful, the aliens have landed on your head”!

Taglines for the street pick up :

In the street, again, it is obviously awesome to use situational, to approach on something “unique” (or at least that you will describe as such when approaching the girl): a jewel, a garment, an original bag, her hair, her way of walking and so on. It must absolutely be something she chose… no “I swear, you’re really cute”, I think it is shit.

Be careful not to focus on obvious features; like “you’re so tall!”

I now give you a general tagline that you can use if you are not particularly inspired when approaching a girl “Hi, I saw you there, I wanted to come talkingto you because you seemed very nice. Are you from Lyon?”

Finally, know that, in the worst case, a simple “hi how are you?” in the street can change the whole course of your existence. If Einstein’s father had not approached his mother, we would not be there today in our vision of the world…

So do not hesitate to test and find out what fits your personality. Then, multiply the tests and do not forget to put conviction in there! 😉

For more informations, have a look to my formation Cyprine !