Author: Fabrice Julien PUA

Every woman will blackmail you some day

A woman has two secret weapons to charm men and urge them to make a commitment. Her purity and a subtle threat making you understand that if you do not comply with her expectations, you will be replaced by somebody who will. Thus, even if she does not succeed in holding you with her « purity », she will hold you with blackmail.

The purity

The marriage is an arrangement: the men obtain the sexual exclusivity, the women the commitment of the spouse.

The men just try to feel loved and say to themselves that « if she only sleeps with me it is because she loves me. SHE IS MINE. » The purity of a woman must thus be protected at all costs. And the best way of guaranteeing this purity, is getting married (even if you will always want to sleep with other women) or being in a serious relationship (knowing that it is more ridiculous to do so when you are 16 or when you know she is not the love of your life).

Men eventually exchange their freedom for the purity of the women. Why this need for feeling loved ? Why is it so important for them?

Because most of the guys cannot accept the feminine affection coming from a woman who sleeps with another one. That feels reluctant at them. It is doubtless registered in our genetic code, and shows itself through the thorny paradox of the « puritanical whore ».

This feeling becomes intensified when you are profoundly in love or during the honeymoon. Themen in this state of blindness will agree to do anything, even getting married to prevent her from sucking the cock of another one. Of course, they won’t admit it in these terms.

The guys get married only because they want something : and it is not sex, it is affection coming from a pure source.

Even rock stars and celebrities eventually get married (they can nevertheless have the women whom they want but cannot enjoy an affection coming from a pure source with the groupies). The marriage thus guarantees to the man something more precious that the sex : it is affection coming from a faithful, stable and pure source… a real drug. The men thus do not make a commitment for the sex but for the affection.

Her biological clock

The guys also get married because they realize that if they do not respect the biological clock of the woman, they can be easily replaced by another one. The women do not threaten you explicitly, but what will happen if you do not follow their clock is obvious.

Sorry, but the women do not really love us. They just like being with guys who want the same thing than them : house and children.

They can call it love if that pleases them but the word « love » can mean many different things for a woman. This revelation is terrible.

That she gets married with you do not mean that you are the one she loves the most. The women do not get married to the guy whom they prefer. They marry the best of the league of those who are willing to comply with her deadlines. The guy who she loves the most and on whom she sometimes fantasizes even at night in the marriage bed, is doubtless a sexy adventurer who refuses to make a commitment.

The alternative to the marriage

If you want to be happy, instead of drawing your affection from a single woman, you need to have several women in your life. It is easy to fuck a lot but finding stable and affectionate women giving you affection, it is really difficult. But you need them.

The variety of the affection

Roughly speaking, we have two needs : sex and affection. Our sexual needs require a variety in the partners, whereas a single source of affection can be enough for us. We thus understand why a guy is going to get married and to deceive his wife with girls to whom he grants no importance.

First of all, these guys have to admit that they need feminine affection in their life. You can increase your emotional income by diversifying the women who give you some affection. A woman cannot give you ALL the affection you need. Then, take the second girlfriend or make numerous friends, keep your niece, accommodate your sister, the sister of a friend, etc. The affection and the feminine energy are not age-related. From girls to the grandmothers, every woman possesses this special energy which makes a man feels good.

The problem affection/purity

Then, you are going to come up against this problem. Because by not making a commitment with A SINGLE woman, you will have some affection coming from women who sleep with other men.

Sorry guys, but it is the truth about this lifestyle. Are you still in ? It is hard but you will have to make with all the problems connected to the paradox of the « puritanical whore ». Especially if you refuse the marriage and see frequently several women …

You will maybe never have a source of pure affection but at least you will always have your freedom.

A life spent meeting women

Thirdly, you’re going to ceaselessly have to meet new quality women. No madwomen in lack of affection (if you are linked with an unstable girl she will poison your existence).

Nevertheless, none of these women will stay with you forever because they will go ahead until they find a man ready to make a commitment. You will like them all the same, these girls, then it will hurt you. Be prepared there.

These quality girls must be replaced years after years. Your work will never be finished.

The lifestyle of love

Fourthly and more important : you have to enjoy a lifestyle turned to love.

It means simply that you have to diversify sources giving you this feeling of being loved. It is what women do, even apart from their relations. Look for sources of love except the women.

Build many social relationships, which is easier today than before. Spend time with your family, do voluntary work, adopt a cat, make a child, be a good friend, practice your hobbies, your passions, etc.

Build full of small social relationships rather than a single strong relation for your entire life. Thanks to them, even if you do not get married, you will never be really alone.

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations (29€)

Halfway

I have a friend who does not approach women. He is handsome and cool but hopes that the will girls come to him as mosquitoes attracted by the light. So, if they approach him, they will have made all the work and will desperately be attracted by him because will have invested a max. It bogs down him in long relations where he is the prize.

The only problem is that he is too passive. He can stay for a long time without meeting anybody even by going out twice a week. He can spend months before he finds a new friend.

Other guys are the opposite. They approach all which moves no matter how by hoping a positive answer. Even if they have to undergo violent rejections and speak during hours to women without interest, they stay. This attitude fucks your confidence on the long term and can re-spin you the phobia of beginning conversations.

The compromise it is to select quickly women but to only invest time for those who are enthusiastic in the idea that you contact them. Those who smile, laugh and feed the conversation. If you do not obtain a positive reaction at once, leave. It is not an excuse to do anything, approach in the best possible way, put the odds in your favor but invest time only for those who understand the luck they have that you approach them.

Simply leaving

A way of avoiding the scandals, of protecting your confidence and of maximizing your results by socializing, is to limit the time lost with madwomen, idiots and miserable. Do not dedicate them one second more than they deserve. You can do it only if you adduce to leave the conversation on a low note.

It means that you do not look for the perfect exit. You can simply leave. Even if that can look strange. Just like you came, you leave.

You are in control

I think that most of the guys do not approach enough women because they think that when the conversation is started, they have to stay and make it work with the girl. They feel booby-trapped.

It is obvious that if we see things like that and if we undergo the pick up more than we live it, approaching can become a real ordeal.

Approach two women

At the beginning, they are very polite then face each other and speak together, ignoring you totally. They are clearly not interested but you stay there hoping to be included in the conversation to be able to say « it was nice meeting you » to leave on a high note. But why waiting like an idiot ? Smile and leave, on a low note or not, we don’t give a damn. In the worst case, you can always come back later, when a model will be at your arm.

You begin a conversation with a sexy woman on your right. She is cute but sarcastic and not at all playful. She makes fun of your pink shirt. Then, she incites you to hate by contradicting you on a whole lot of stupid subjects. You clearly do not like her personality so why staying with her ? Turn heels and ignore her, she will be really surprised. These girls were not enough put back in place by guys. Or, were too much and take revenge. In any case, they have a problem to act this way… We can even say that they overcompensate! Their nasty attitude sends back to their own problems.

The hand in the bag

You see a woman whom you want to approach… but you hesitate. Two seconds later, you realize that she is with a guy, maybe her boyfriend. You think « thanks God, fortunately I waited, that would have been strange being in front of her boyfriend ». It is a bad attitude.

First of all, if you begin a conversation with a woman and if a man joins you, you do not have to feel sick. It is natural for a man to approach women. The guys make generally a weird head… like if they were caught red-handed (but they did not commit crime). In fact, stay calm and continue. That could seem strange to the little couple, but not to you.

If the guy is aggressive, it is because he has no self-control, nor enough confidence and perceives you as a threat. If somebody has to be under pressure, you prefer whether it is you or the other people ?

When you go out, and you act in a sociable way, you do not need to try to save face. You do not try to have the last word. You don’t give a damn leaving on a positive note.

And moreover if you are not afraid of the oddity, you do not even need to leave, let people grow tired and leave then take their place.

If the girl to whom you speak is a silly bitch, or if the interaction is not enough productive, leave without further ado. Show your personality, shit!

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

The watch

The biggest obstacles, in seduction, are not her friends nor the AMOG, but the time itself.

Most of the guys go out from 10 pm till 2 am. In other words, they have 240 minutes in front of them. But in reality, you always have less time than you think. When you realize that you need 30 minutes to warm you, you understand that « time is doggystyle ». The average guy meets only two receptive sets by night, then do not waste your time with girls without interest.

Quickly work. Quickly progress. Make her invest in you before investing in her. For example, sometimes I ask to a girl exchanging our numbers even before intending to tell her what I’m doing for a living. PROFITABILITY !

Tic toc

The most common waste of time, it’s the first receptive girl of the evening. Indeed, after some lousy reactions, the first opened women are like blessed bread. You can thus easily lose 2 hours with them.

If you begin hardly to warm up socially, this group in particular will fall really well. The problem is that you are not yet warm enough to dare progressing physically (not enough practiced tonight) Then you do not act rather quickly and let the window of action close.

They think that you are funny but are not sexually attracted.

The price to be paid

You cannot either progress more or leave. It is thus a waste of time; and more you will stay more leaving will be delicate. Having invested time, you really hope something in return… then you remain here like a loser! To reassure you, you say to yourself that there is always a chance that she is a little bit attracted.

Then, you also say to yourself that it is all the same nice to stay with two cute girls even if we do not fuck them, easier in any case than leaving in search of a new scamp to whom giving a series of 6 orgasms in a row. But, in reality, it is always the same problem : you do not show your balls ! For your own good, like for the good of the women who will have a story with you : do it ! YOU write the story.

Meet new people

The only way of getting out of this trap, is to introduce yourself to all the girls who approach us WHILE we still are with the cuties. It is a good opportunity to meet new women because they see you with two beauties (principle of preselection).

Or then you can use both figureheads as a base where you get fresh supplies and leaving in search of a better option. The purpose here is not making the others jealous, but if they become jealous then it is so much better. It is important to be seen with these girls but let’s keep in mind that we do not owe them anything : You are a funny and interesting guy who can speak to whoever !

If they say « you are a womanizer », it doesn’t mean that they are suddenly interested. You did not stimulate their interest but simply titillate their ego by removing them your attention.

If you cannot leave then try at least to meet new people. The worst thing in the life is being bored and wasting time. And don’t worry if they think you are impolite when you disappear like a thief.

We don’t give a damn, after all, remember simply that they made you waste your time. And then, if for them it was better going back home alone rather than coming back with a stallion which would have made them rise to curtains : it is too bad for them! You cannot get them to listen to reason but you can know in your strong inside that it is them who lose the most.

It is not their fault, it’s yours

It is not the fault of the girls if you waste your time. It is your fault if you neither progress physically nor leave. You meanly used them as excuses to don’t have to move your ass, excuses to stay in your comfort zone and not approach new girls whereas they used you to protect themselves from the other oafs of the bar.

The worst feeling it is when, two hours later, the group of girls abandons you « Well we leave, we are going to another bar, good bye ». Duuuh !

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

Negative intuitions

You have sacred problems which limit your successes with women.

Your spirit thinks it can predict situations and guess the personality of people before having met them. Really, your instinct knows nothing, it is an idiot. Unless you try and on the condition that you go spoke to them, all the rest is intellectual masturbation.

Sterile intellectual masturbation

It is when you concern hasty judgments on people or situations. You think that, simply by looking at somebody, you can say if she is a silly bitch or somebody cool. You think you can predict the girls who are going to like you and those who are going to hate you. You say things like « it is obvious that they want to stay between girls this evening, I am not going to disturb them». You are not an adventurer.

The kind of guys who says « there is nothing to do in this bar » or « all the girls here are in a relationship ». These people know nothing and miss a lot of good opportunities.

Silly bitches, lesbians and haughty girls

One night, I connected a group of girls who wore these enormous and colored strange glasses. I told them that my buddy did not want to speak to them because they had an haughty air. We eventually laughed about it and everything and they taught me that they had disguised for a birthday. They were in fact very interesting girls.

Another time, I saw a South American girl alone in a bar and my instinct influenced me « she must be lost ». I didn’t talk to her. Twenty minutes later, all her attractive friends came in and I felt knackered.

Another time still, I thought of speaking to lesbians (because of how they were dressed) but it was in fact a team of I do not remember anymore which sport. By the way, those chicks were very cool (and heterosexuals) !

Do this exercise right now

The next time you will want to speak to a woman, take one second to write the excuse which prevents you from it.

For example : You see an attractive girl you would like to approach but your internal voice rationalizes « she looks like a silly bitch. » Now get up all the same and go speaking to her. Ohlala, she is American, her accent is so sweet and she is very nice. Interesting …

Be sure having written down these three things:
– what you wanted to do (going to talk to her) ;
– what prevented you from trying (she looked mean) ;
– what really happened (she is in fact very nice and suggested you coming to have a drink at her home, the same night).

Pay particularly attention on the gap between your initial thought and what really happened.

After a few days, you will notice that most of those that you thought of being « silly bitches » are in really very nice girls, on holidays. That this girl who seems going out with this big sturdy man has just met him in reality 5 minutes ago. That both girls who looked like wanting to stay between girls are very happy to speak to a guy.

I did this exercise: it is very very funny. You will sometimes be shocked, amazed, disturbed to see how you can be at light years of the truth. Every time you imagine something about somebody you did not meet, it is only an irrelevant fantasy. And even if you were right, even if she is really a big floozy, at least you can say: « I knew it ».

The intellectual masturbation prevents you from meeting new girls. Besides, your spirit is conditioned to build a bad image of people even before approaching them. No, you cannot predict the character of a person in the twinkling of an eye.

You should try your luck (and her luck) and discover it by yourself.

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

Most of the guys think that they were good because they were not rejected… at least, not yet. It’s in reality a bad thing. And they are in reality not good.

No matter the atmosphere

Being rejected early in the evening has to be your purpose. Before the first rejections, you will be tightened and shy. After, you will be freed and ready to achieve exploits.

Fail voluntarily

When I am rejected for the first time of the night, it irritates me. It drives me crazy. The anger rises in me … but it is not an anger against the women. The hatred is there because I have just realized that the rejections and the critics are a big joke, and that I cannot believe that I have been so afraid preventing me from doing what I wanted in my life until today …

Having realized that, nothing can more stop me. In other words, I need the first rake to put myself on rails and to enjoy a good night (and no, we do not make omelet without breaking eggs : there will always be rejections).

Women are funny

Yeah. A woman makes fun or you ? Rejects you ? Oooh, it’s so funny. It is really of that you were afraid? Nevertheless, it is nothing… You will know that you will have become better when you will laugh at rakes and when you will be able to even close the mouth of the girls who answer maliciously. Remember that for some, going out and playing the silly bitch, it is funny. The best solution thus is to laugh at her face « thanks you, it was sooo fun ».

People who get angry easily and make scandals try to manipulate you emotionally. They hope intimidating you. I am sure that you know people like that. The best strategy is to take the completely opposite approach. They want that you perceive them as important, you see them just as an entertainment. Besides, this free-and-easy attitude seems to irritate them. When the girls get that they are not so important for you (individually, at least), that drives them crazy. Then, every girl reacts differently (some are less stupid than others).

Quite a lot of guys are afraid of the rejection

I like it. Some are even less good after having been rejected. I do ten times better. I am self-aware. I need be rejected to feel freed. Unchained. This is why I quickly need a social rejection and a physical rejection before being at the top.

Find your own style !

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

 

Every time you avoid doing thinks you really want to do (because of the fear), doesn’t matter if it is a little or a big thing, you fall in your own self-esteem.

Understanding the basis

Inventing excuses to avoid approaching women is a process which takes root well before the moment when you do not go speaking to the princess. In fact, you avoided approaching since you turned up in the bar. Most of people avoid (by ease) doing what they want to do, all day long. Every day. All year. All their life.

Per minutes

We have approximately 16 000 thoughts a day. Well, if we are awakened 16 hours a day that makes 10 000 « concrete » desires. How many doesn’t come true for a reason or another? This kind of negative thoughts prevents us from acting.

Every minute is an opportunity to do something and stop avoiding. To stop being negative. To stop procrastinating. You can build yourself right now a positive momentum.

A night of typical loser

You are in the line to enter in a club. That does not move forward. What is the fucking problem ? You avoid asking to the bouncer. You do not want to « bother him » so you shut up your mouth and wait wisely during 2 hours.

Finally, you come in. You would want to question the barmaid about cocktails. But you ask for nothing because you do not want to double the person in front of you.

In fact, you do not really want to drink alcohol but you are afraid of asking for a glass of water because you think that the waitress would laugh at you and would treat you of « pussy ». Instead, you drink vodka.

This floozy did not apologize while she half spilled the glass on you, did not look at you in eyes and did not even smile. You leave all the same 1€ of tip because you wrote, in your head, a scenario according to which : If you do not leave a tip, she will repeat to all other members of the staff that you are a skinflint and you will be banished from this club FOREVER. Big dead.

Missed opportunities

The club is full. However, you spot a free seat. But you say to yourself that if you sit down there, a man built like a tank is certainly going to appear from nowhere and to bawl you above « this is my seat, go away little crap ».

OK, but it won’t happen. Moreover, this sofa is a strategic place to see and be seen. But you do not sit down there because you don’t dare.

Coming back to the bar, you hear two girls speaking about a subject which interests you enormously. But you do not introduce yourself : you give up getting new acquaintances and you prefer to whistle for your vodka at 10€ the glass, alone in the corner.

On the dancefloor : « Ohlala this girl is wonderful, moreover, just my type. Well, it’s time to approach. Well, no, not now, I finish my drink first. »

You really need to work on yourself, right? It is essential to overcome your approach anxiety (and to set free yourself from the social pressure)…

The truth is that there are quite a lot of things you avoid doing, and it is true every day. In particular TALKING TO WOMEN as soon as you come into the bar.

All those little things

This lack of confidence and of momentum due to the avoidance of all these little gifts all day comes back haunting you at the fateful moment when you have to begin conversations.

Every time you avoid doing something that you really want to do, whatever, you are hurting yourself. You bash up your self-esteem, your pride.

But are you really at light years of a life where you could do « everything you want » (within the limits of the laws) and that it would go like clockwork ?

I don’t think so, I think that there is only a step which separates you from the excellence. The hardest part is to start…

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

Just like you have to take the risk of seeming strange when things become sensual, you have to take the risk of becoming perverse when it’s time to cross a speed.

Lousy swine !

If she nicknames you « big pig » or treats you pervert or something, remember that it is a test. She does not want that you think she is easy. But which woman sound in body and mind does not like sex ? Sometimes the girls make strange heads which seem to mean that the guy is perverse as soon as he speaks about sex and as soon as he begins to get closer to her. He does not want to disappoint her then he gives up. It’s a pity for him.

She convinced him that the women do not like sex. She won … By what did she won by the way ? Couldn’t we say that she lost an opportunity of having fun ? Some women have never been correctly fucked, then they do not know… It’s your job to make them addict !

The truth is between her legs

Instead of being mad, use her resistance, and do not fall in her trap by becoming the wise guy and by talking about this and that. The best way to have sex with a woman who hesitates to fuck is to make her understand that « you know »… you understand that she faces a dilemma. Of course she likes fucking, but the social pressure, and the guys who fantasize over the purity, force her to claim that it is not the case (it is as well for that when we ask her, she does not say what she really expects from guys and that sleeping again with a guy with who she already fucked « doesn’t count »). She even claims it since such a long time that she can have convinced herself that it is true. Moreover, her guys then tend to treat her like the little and fragile human being she likes to be thought of, then the sex is not terrible, as a result, necessarily she likes less and less that. Do not make jokes to justify, on the contrary, be nice and sincere.

Role-playing games

The role-playing is a fantastic tool to overcome the fear which have women to look easy. For example, if you make a game in which you are a dominant jerk who thinks only of the ass and that she is your subdued slave who must be punished … She can relax, release and appreciate all the more the session.

Sextos

« I am going to give you a lesson of sexv» : another way to turn her on, it’s the sexto. Women are stimulated by the written things and like receiving messages (even if you are sat down next to her). It is one of the advantages when we take her number very early in the evening.

The women, too, are perverts

Women love sex MORE than us. We already knew that women liked sex. Good for us. But did you already wonder TO WHAT EXTENT they were naughty? It is not enough to believe that women like sex as we do. The only way of approaching the reality is conceiving they like it more than us. It is unfortunate but we are not equal on this point.

Set one second to think about what you would really want to do in bed. Now tell it to a woman whom you have just met. For example, it can be that you would like that she kneels down and sucks you, or to finish in facial and to film the whole act. I am sure that you would never admit it to yourself otherwise then tell it to a woman to exteriorize it in a healthy way. With that said, I think that your prose will be rather mat compared with the fantasies of the girls.

The good news is that the devourers of apple are also perverse (in the best sense of the word) than us, if not more. Another good news is that the sexual aggressiveness of a man is often a fantasy for them.

What goes around, comes around

The women watch the package of the men quite how we watch their ass, their tits and their fork. They are maybe more discreet, that’s all…

I shout in the injustice! How many women possess with impunity sex-toys in their intimate drawer ? But if a guy has an inflatable doll or something then he is a pervert. It’s funny, but the women do not want the whole man, they just want the cock. And WE are the perverts ? Of course…

Don’t be ashamed of your balls !!!!!

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

Practise the pushy attitude

The guys never practise enough the pushy attitude. They practise a lot the fact of being sociable, of opening sets but are not really sexual… If you want to be sensual, you have to risk to be strange. You have to take risks. In fact, we cannot always avoid the oddity when we try to pick up. So it’s better to accept it from now. But, don’t worry, the man who is strange « in the good way » is also the one who fucks the most.

Don’t be afraid to be seen as « strange »

By using a sensual look, by looking at her lips while imagining kissing her and by speaking really slowly, you can put her in sexual trance. But the women are going to try to frighten you, to make you regret having dared trying to seduce them by treating you like if you were a weirdo. You will never be at the top if you always act with restraint because you are afraid of being tidied up in this category.

« Beurkkkkk » or « ohhhhh <3 »

I say fuck social pressure. It stinks, that’s it. It is just a test that women use to see your value. If they like you, you are sexy. If she does not appreciate you, or if she feels that you are not at her usual level, you are strange. But it can change at any second. You can make exactly the same thing on two girls, one will say that you are sexy, the other that you are disgusting. Which one is right ? None.

Understand that if a woman tells you « you are disgusting » when you keep silent and when you maintain her eye contact, it just means that she tries to break the tension because she is excited but it makes her feel guilty.

The fact of telling you that you are strange can also come from her need for not wanting to be thought of as a whore. She is interested, but is going to persuade herself that she is not. She can even tell to her friends that you harassed her and that it was freaking out, just to protect her social image.

You will often be sent to hell but it doesn’t matter

Of course, you will try to be sensual but will be rejected sometimes. For example, You will maintain her eye contact and she will give you in reply a look making you understand that she finds you yucky. Then, she will turn around and not calculate you anymore. Ouch, it hurts. But there is nothing to worry about. It is not so different from a verbal rejection. It is even rather better, in fact. More honest ! And keep in mind that, one day or another, she probably fucked with a boy less cute than you…

I love to be strange. I love putting the pressure on the girls. Seeing the girls being surprised,  turning red or becoming nervous is a lot of fun to me. I know that you are afraid of being labelled as a « weird guy » And this is the reason why you do not dare to escalate physically. Then you stay in sociable mode and waste your time.

But your biggest weapons in seduction are : the eye contact, coming closer and touching her. Attention : like the atom bomb, they involve quite a risk.

The true meanings of words

The guys have to overcome this fear. Beginning a conversation with strangers, is not « weird », being sensual and progress tactilely is not « disgusting » and pushing directly things on the sexual plan is not that « pervert ».

If you are sociable and if you begin conversations, women will test you by saying that it is strange to proceed like that. Or will give you that look of lousy sceptic that we all know. All the other guys have not enough balls to approach the women, but it is not strange… Pff. And we want to persuade us that it is better to do like them…  ?

When you will be sensual, women will try to make you feel « dirty ».

When you will be sexually aggressive, women will test you by saying that you are perverse (like if it was a bad thing…) Most of the guys are afraid of the label of « pervert » because it makes people think to an old fossil who masturbates in a sexshop.

But it is not at all that, and you want to be « pervert » because you do not want to be asexual. Do not let the social pressure have so much influence on you as it has on these people stuck in their conditioning.

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

 

« Fuck, what are you looking at ? There is nothing for you here »

Why most of men (and women) hate confident people? Because they secretly want to be like them.

It is funny to see how the attractive girls feel offended when you take the initiatives. « How can you dare to be also confident. How can you dare maintaining my eye contact and hoping that I’m the first to look away ? You are not even feared of touching me … You are not tall, handsome nor rich, … You would do better to remain in friendly mode, buddy. Make some jokes PLEASE. Entertain me or disappear. Do not try your tricks of seduction on me. »

Fuck the social conventions

Don’t be afraid of being sensual. Do not let the social pressure stop you. Let people talk. We don’t give a damn.

Resist the desire to act like her (to be nasty or whatever). Be over that. It is just a mechanism of defense she has. So, stay cool, confident and humble. You have nothing to prove (nor the need to apologize). A big smile.

Adopting a confident posture, shouting your mouth and maintaining the eye contact of a woman, then getting closer to her… it’s not only for handsome men. You don’t have to be Johnny Depp to take the initiatives. Fuck Depp ! Everybody can do that. You have as much rights as the others…

You will be more tested than Johnny Depp

The women are going to try to frighten you, as if it was bad to be sensual and enterprising. They will test you. More than the other guys, especially if you are not really their type.

I have already told you that even if you are ugly and not specially cool, hum, the good news is that these women are attracted as well by you because you are a human being endowed with testicles (compatible with her womb).

It is because there is a sexual tension which exists between men and women and because by making some little gifts like maintaining her look, getting closer and not breaking the tension, well, the attraction increases naturally. In other words, nothing can stop you. You can just be confused by her tests.

When women are attracted by beautiful guys, the resistance is easier to deal with. When women feel attracted to a guy who is short or fat or not their type or not cool enough for her social circle or whatever, it is going to irritate her. She is thus going to force you into error, to tell you that you are strange or to politely suggests you to go to hell. But she feels attraction as well. This one is not just accepted. Frustration, when you hold us…

Do not stay at your place

The reason why you meet resistance is because you try to cross the invisible border between men and women. « How can you be also confident while you are ugly ? How do you dare trying to excite me, I am a model, screw you… »

They just want that you shut up your mouth and that you stay at your place. « Do not try to be promoted or someone will put you back in place chop-chop ». This resistance will always exist. In fact, it will be worse and worse. The resistance will always be a part of your life thus become used to handle it from today.

If it can help you feeling better, when you do things quite correctly : women (in spite of their tests) are attracted by you.

The guys like you are going to have to ignore the resistance more than the playboys. You cannot take every remark personally. Continue to smile, I know that it is difficult… But the sexual tension and the attraction don’t depend directly on your appearance, rather on your confidence.

It is interesting to note that most of these beautiful guys who would obtain positive reactions with the opposite sex have not the balls to approach women like you do. You are better than  them, that’s it ! You are not passive. Attitude > Physical appearance

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations