An orgasm is a sexual climax (or high point). Orgasm happens because of continued sexual touching. During an orgasm, there is a strong feeling of excitement and pleasure. Sexual touching may be sexual intercourse, rubbing or squeezing by hand (called masturbation), or other actions that make the sex organs feel good. During an orgasm, a person’s body sometimes spasms (shakes or trembles) and the person’s brain activity changes quickly. Orgasms may happen when people are asleep. When men orgasm while sleeping, it is often called a “wet dream”. Other mammals may have orgasms when they have sex.
The penis usually becomes erect (hard) before an orgasm, and flaccid (soft) again after. When a man has an orgasm, he feels a very strong and enjoyable feeling in his penis and groin, and sometimes in all of his body. In a man, an orgasm usually happens at the same time as an ejaculation, which is a release of semen through the penis, that can’t be stopped. Young boys can orgasm, but there may be no semen because semen release usually occurs only after puberty has started. After an orgasm, men usually have a deep sense of relaxation, usually felt in the groin and the thighs. Usually the stronger the orgasm, the deeper the relaxation and the longer the relaxation will last.
A woman’s orgasm begins in her clitoris, which is the counterpart of the man’s penis. It is preceded by an erection of the clitoris and a moistening of the opening of the vagina. When a woman goes through a full orgasm, her uterus, vagina, anus and pelvic muscles undergo a series of rhythmic contractions. Most women find these contractions very pleasurable. Rubbing or applying other consistent pressure against the clitoris is usually needed to help the woman have an orgasm.
Orgasm plays an important role in human reproduction. During sexual intercourse, a man places his penis inside a woman’s vagina and moves it backwards and forwards. The woman may also move her hips back and forth, or in a circular motion. The friction caused by this movement, together with the warmth and pressure of the vagina, causes the man to have pleasurable feelings in his penis, which grow stronger and stronger until the man has an orgasm and ejaculates, at which time semen then shoots out from the end of his penis into the woman’s vagina. The semen can make the woman pregnant.
The woman may also have an orgasm during intercourse as well. Scientists are not sure why women have orgasms. Some believe that the orgasm helps the sperm in the man’s semen to swim up the vagina into the cervix, so that it is more likely that a sperm cell will fuse with an egg cell. Others think that the woman’s orgasm is designed to help make the man reach orgasm. During her orgasm, a woman may moan, cry, or scream, which usually excites her man, and her vagina may grip the penis more tightly, which also makes sex more exciting for him. These reactions may cause the man to ejaculate more quickly or to produce more semen; when a woman reaches orgasm during intercourse, it often makes her man have an orgasm at that point as well. Orgasm may also encourage a woman to have sex more often as it feels good, increasing the chances of pregnancy.
A study indicates that the risk of breast cancer for women is lower for those who frequently have orgasms (more than fourteen orgasms a month), in particular after 50 years.
According to another study on 918 men from 45 to 59 years old, and followed for 10 years, the risk of mortality is lower of 50 % for those who have frequently orgasms (more than twice a week).
NB : all the orgasms have not the same intensity.
For the anecdote: It happened to me, several times, after powerful orgasms, to laugh myself sick. I do not know why. A story of hormones, certainly.
I do not think you can establish a gradation of power between the different types of orgasms (fingers, tongue, penis) … It depends on a lot of other factors. It’s not as easy as it looks!
The main idea : making love is an art, it’s not just emptying your balls.
It is well known that having orgasms regularly improves life expectancy !
My point while writing this ebook is to help you to give to girls the most incredible sexual experiences of their lives ! I guess I’m not the first pretentious guy who wants to write such an ebook… but I am Cyprineman, sexpert famous for licking pussies like a God (it’s my gift).
But, I won’t only talk about licking pussies here. I also want you to know at the end of your reading the spots on girls’ body to touch – and how to touch them the good way – to make them scream “AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH you’re the best lover of my life” !
I will explain to you the good mindset that lead to some good sex, and the good things to do when you are having sex with her : how to warm her, how to finger her, what key-positions to master, how to last long enough to satisfy them, how to stay hard, how to recognize a real orgasm, etc. I want this ebook to be exhaustive. Everything about sex here.
By writing these lines, I really want to make the work I would have enjoyed finding when I started.
After my ebook about Online Dating, I thus propose you by now another practical ebook (by opposition to theoretical) : no intellectual masturbation. Only things you can use next time you’ll sleep with a girl… to drive her crazy. It’s not very complicated things, but it’s things you must know and use. I want to keep it simple but effective. For example, about lasting longer : we will talk about “tricks” that help but we’ll stay on realistic things… because anyway the more you’re used to fuck and used to fuck beauties, the more you’ll last and become good naturally.
And it’s not just about giving orgasms and connecting with the other sex, it’s so much more than that… When you are a good fuck, you feel proud… you feel like a real man. You feel like you have an ace up in your sleeve that gives you a mysterious confidence. All the women and men that you meet will treat you with respect because of this sexual confidence. Sexual skills really do MAKE the man and people can tell because it gives you an aura.
Very few men are good in bed. Really good, I mean. Knowing you’re good will give you an incredible advantage in your mind. To get the girl and to keep her if you wish… because she’ll be addicted. You will invert the balance of power between men and women by proposing her something rare: a good lover.
You will not anymore be afraid of the competition. If you knew how many guys I saw going into trouble while trying to pick up a girl then not daring to turn up at her place the day of the meeting because they were afraid of screwing her badly. You already have an advantage on the others… because rare are the guys who agree to learn on the sex. They are way too proud! And even if they brag, it is a taboo subject!
By the way, how do we know that we are a good leg? When the girls tell it to you every time you sleep with one of them, for example. When you inspire them comments like “fuck but where did you learn that, you, it was awesome!” That happens to me all the time now (nevertheless I leave by far) then sorry if I am a little big headed now ! 😉
But it’s not about my ego, not about “being better than the others“. It would be impossible and useless anyway. Some people will always be better than you and me. It’s not really a competition fortunately as far as the girls have only for partners a little sample of the population. The probability that she knew a better lover than you and me is thus low (at least after you read this book).
I wish to get loose from everything that can make sex a stressful and full of negativity experience with the aim of teaching you how to enjoy a profound union… an experience way more complex and pleasant than a purely physical gratification (physical friction which is all the same important but it’s not enough).
Sex, it’s not just a mechanical act. So yeah sure I will tell you the mechanisms… but there is something more, something better than that… and we will talk about it too. Few people know it, few people live it… and it’s a good news because you’ve now joined a very limited circle !
I am going to reveal you why so many people say that sex is wonderful and you’ll finally understand why in the practice it is not often that awesome !
In my career, I have been able to distinguish three types of cocksuckers.
0 / But first, what is a cocksucker?
Blowjob is the human sexual behavior which is stimulating the penis of the partner with the mouth, lips and tongue. It can be performed either as a preliminary or to lead the man to orgasm.
Fellatio is an oral sex, it is the symmetric of performing a cunnilingus on a women for a man… but for a woman.
This practice is referred to by many expressions or colloquial terms, my favorite, “suck my dick bitch”.
Oral sex was also observed in some animals with a conflict management purpose (with bonobos, for example) or with a sexual purpose (in some bat species). A study on the bat shows that when the female of this species practice fellatio on her spouse, each additional second of this activity increases the coupling length of six seconds (it is quite the opposite with most men but well when your cock is soft it can help). Blowjob could therefore encourage reproduction. In addition, the saliva with antifungal and antibacterial properties of the female would prevent sexually transmitted diseases.
Since the beginning of sexology and until the sexual revolution, oral sex was considered as a pathology. Fellatio was a perversion of the sexual instinct, “instinct” which “normally” would produce only sexual activities for reproduction. In 1952, oral sex with masturbation and oral sex were part of the pathological behavior described in the first edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. When I told you that we all are crazy…
1/ The dream seller
This is the one who sucks you at the beginning of the relationship, to make you addicted and then it is not anymore worth it in her opinion.
In general, these girls do not really like sucking but they make an effort in the beginning… to impress! You, on the other hand, are supposed to lick all the time…
She can sometimes suck again punctually, eg. for your birthday!
2/ The good surprise
It is the one who does not suck at the beginning of the relationship, she is discreet. Then she begins to show you her naughty side, over time.
These girls try to make you faithful, they believe that the dangling of blowjob is everything, it’s her reward for you.
But if you’re not a good lover, you, they may never suck you and not even continue to be your girlfriend… and you could find it normal. It has become a privilege in your eyes.
3/ The regular
It is the one who sucks from the beginning to the end of the relationship. She gives back, no dirty trick!
Carpe Diem !
The problem is that she gives you good habits and if one day she is too tired and too eager and what to do the starfish: you will be very disappointed!
4/ Those who do not suck you, dirty boy
There are of course those who do not suck (never). But it does not count as a sucking category, by definition.
Often because it disgusts them (yuck), because they don’t trust their sucking skills (shame) or because it does not fit with the image of “good girl” they try to give you (social pressure).
Then, there’s also those who suck any guy at a party … but not a guy with who she wants a serious relationship! Bouh, what a trap! Her purpose is that the boyfriend does not see her as a “slut”, it’s always the same. If you are used to serious relationships and that you only fall on chicks like that, you’re not lucky!
Fortunately there’s those who do not suck any dude but who only suck when they are in a relationship (cf. 2) but hey sometimes when I lick one of them in a so good way, they suck me anyway ! You give so much that they feel compelled to give more, to stay in the competition. You take control of her sexuality, this way…
We should be able to create lots of other categories : those who suck by you shaking at the same time or not, those who only suck with the lips or those who rub you the glans with the tongue too, those with a small mouth so their teeth scrape against your glans and those who are pure mouths made for blowjob it is really comfortable. Those who swallow or not, those who suck at the beginning of the report or at the end, those who suck with the condom or without, those who lick your balls, those who put a finger in your ass, those who suck on her knees or lied down on the bed…
Finally here, I just wanted to have fun writing this little article like an asshole. I let off steam because I broke a tooth! The next one will be more serious!
And you, which one is your favorite sucker? And it is forbidden to answer “your mother”!
With this, if you are able to get hard, you’re a boss. It can be a challenge to take it doggy style.
# 2 The big ass
I know that there are guys who like fat chicks like that. Destroying an ass a little fat and soft, it can be enjoyable. And especially to make it turn red by hitting and spanking on it.
# 3 The nice but fat ass
Here starts the real competition of the ass. The girl is wide but somewhat muscular. The nice fat ass must often be accompanied by a pretty face and cute boobs otherwise it ruins everything.
Also available in blonde. Even better if it belongs to your boss who piss you off all day long.
# 4 Ass looking like a heart
It is the ass of love: round and massive. It is not for the small pink cocks of skinny metrosexuals! And if the girl gets quilts, you can even use it as convenient handles for doggy style. Well dimpled, if you take a run-up, you can jump on it like on a trampoline.
# 5 The anorexic ass
Unlike previous ass, the ass here pale, scrawny and tasteless. Advised to repressed pedophile who love children and so the girls without forms. Built by these fags who dictate women’s fashion in Paris and then go get fucked in gay bars. Precautions: be careful to do not penetrate the bones of her hips in your lower abdomen, it hurts. Also be careful to don’t break her legs.
# 6 The flat ass
Flat yes, but can be successful like a joke by Norman. Indeed, an ass like that can be as good as a horny porn with Clara. Especially if you love fucking asians who have never seen a big dick in their lives. Hoping to be able to get it without hurting her too much.
Also available in French model to please Montebourg. Even better if it’s a bit tanned and wearing a smock.
# 7 The Eastern bitch’s ass
A perfectly proportioned and horny ass. Easy access to Western men when traveling in the countries of the east. I’ve not seen anything so excitant since my last orgy with DSK in a luxury hotel. In addition, they were not very expensive (€ 50 per doggy style).
# 8 South American’s ass
It loves to stir on Brazilian music. Warm, welcoming and breast, perfect for unresolved Oedipus complex. It allows to start a family with confidence. And after bearing children, you can even enjoy an effect “melancholy ass” due to excessive stretch marks and cellulite. By cons, you must love brunettes and hair.
# 9 The black ass
It was designed for big black cocks and is known to be one of the finest asses in the world. Global benchmark, to be tested at least once in your life! It is not too hard: the carriers of these ridges seems to be hypersexual. Even more exciting if they are dressed as maids to please the macho (it also works with the Eastern girl).
# 10 The little well-rounded butt
The sports ass. Great as it is young and goes to the gym. Generally it ages badly (it breaks the myth) so it is interesting to renew your girlfriend regularly.
Bonus: the perfect ass
So there is a bit of a personal choice. That ass never pooped, just like Megan Fox. Just designed for sex.
Thanks to Topito for allowing me to make this ranking ass (I had a lot of fun) because otherwise it would not really have had a place on my blog. Unfortunately, at the time of publishing they thus backtracked so I publish it here.
Many men are, like Barney, in search of Threeway Belt (belt awarded to the king of the threesome). But in practice, very few men have already made it or will make it one day. This article aims at making this statistics rise.
There are, according to me, 6 scenarios which can lead you to the 3some (or 4some, let’s be crazy, it is the same principle):
With a girl you know, you meet another woman.
A minimum level of trust between both of you is needed (or she totally doesn’t give a damn about you) because she can be afraid that you prefer sleeping with the other one. Jealousy should not have its place in this kind of relation, but it’s always a little bit here, especially with the beginners.
You can go hunting in a bar or on the Internet, so you can choose together and agree on your target.
You meet two women independently and you bring them together for a threesome.
I advise you to have already slept with both girls separately before doing that (otherwise the novelty would make you invest more in the new one and the other one would be disappointed). Try to test the ground to see if they are bisexual or heterosexual-curious. Try to test the ground also to see if they have already made some plans with more than two persons and what they think of it. Roughly, try to see if they are opened to this kind of thing. And if not? Certain blockings are just unfounded fears and you could convince them to have a change of mind. Then (or before, to bring the subject), you can show to each girl some photos of the other one.
If they are both opened, the less tight-ass could become your accomplice to corrupt the other one. Another strategy is to make the more tight-ass come at your home and to start by warming her then you invite the accomplice to join you one hour later when you are hot. To put her well in the mood, you can begin by licking the pussy of the girl who is really shy. So presented a fait accompli, she will have less time to be anxious and your success rate will increase. In a general way, do not too much let them think because when we think too much in this kind of situation, we do panic!On the other hand, they will be satisfied to have made the effort to go out of their comfort zone when it will be over. They will maybe even thank you! Some people think that the fantasies are not made to be realized, but it is stupid, I think, it is just the fear and the politically correct which is speaking there! Pay attention also on those who rationalize the next day and who are mad at you for making it happen but who are happy in fact (they just do not assume). Finally, another trap here: uncomfortable people can make awkward remarks or moves in this kind of moment and that can ruin everything. Thus, in the doubt, brief them and tell them to shut up.
With the same logic, you can make 4somes too, like in this story.
You meet two women who are friends and it turns into a threesome.
It is the most difficult. That happens most of the time with girls who like partying or with partner-swappers. Very rarely, the women agree on fucking a guy together, because of their respective inhibitions and of their fear of comparison. But they often speak about it “for fun”, don’t be naive, then it’s up to you to make it happen. One of the fears that I meet most of the time in this kind of situation, it is the fear of spoiling her friendship with the other girl. Many people would prefer to make it with an unknown. Why not?
You were ready to finish the night with a girl, then you pick up another one in fact.
The first one you have picked up has to be an adventuress, at ease with herself and open to girls. By a fortunate coincidence, they also have to be both depilated tonight… 😉
You have to learn how feel the possibilities so you can seize them when they present. You have to dare to ask the girls if they have already made with a girl and if they would be interested. This subject does not have to put you uncomfortable, many guys are afraid of it, but this is counterproductive. Open your range of possibilities!
If it happens, it will certainly be your responsibility to manage the logistics, to organize and to orchestrate the thing. You can suggest them having a drink at your home (the oldest excuse of the world) as a pretext to make the evening turn into what you expect. You can also propose a alcohol game or a game like a strip-poker. Note that the nights like strip-game-with-cards with just a little bit of alcohol so that they disinhibit and assume more easily to make what they really want to make at the bottom of them led me far: a plan with 6 persons with a 50% ratio M/W (not yet published on the blog this adventure)! There even was a couple which was skeptical at the beginning but which finally joined us into the bedroom. The games “truth or dare” or the massages can also make an evening go wild on the condition of daring, assuming and showing the example.
You have to create a funny vibe and not be in the judgment. They shouldn’t feel dirty, feel like whores neither garbage nor thinking for a single second you do not respect them. The most feverish can spoil everything, thus take particularly care of her. And do not forget condoms!
A girl tries to pick up another girl for you or proposes you a 3some with one of her friends.
Some people like making things themselves. Do not we say that you are never served as well as by yourself? They will go in the front line to approach girls to make a 3some and that will be much easier because a girl is less thought of as a sex-starved than a man. Watch out, your interlocutors have to take you seriously.
This is obviously the most comfortable for a man but that will happen only if you succeed in making your friends turn in mode inhibitions-free.
That also happens when you are in couple with a girl who wants to pepper things or who wants to prove things to herself. It’s up to you to see if you are ready to give it a try because you can lose her by clumsiness (sensitive ground)… indeed, how would you feel if your girl wanted to make a threesome with another guy?
You can join a group of partner-swappers.
Many are those who like that, whether it is in a regular way or occasionally. They meet on the Internet, in special clubs or in private parties.
If you want to become a partner-swappers you have to learn a little their philosophy of life and especially the respect (the hygiene too). But anyway, if you want to become a PUA, it is the same thing.
You must also and above all have something to offer. Even if you are very cute or if you are the king of the pussy licking, that is not enough: thus it is necessary for you to bring a women. One or several bisexual girls and you are king of the night. It is sad but it is like in clubs… they have more sexual value than us… boo boo. “Fucking country!” As Zlatan would say.
In any situation, the thing it is to recognize the possibility of making a threesome a long time before to be able to make germinate seeds in their head to develop subtly things in the right direction. Especially, do not be mad at yourself if you are curious to make this kind of experience (a lot of people will want to make you make feel guilty) but do not forget that those who have a little power like DSK have a lot of fun making orgies, it is for a good reason! It is fun, that’s it… maybe the Cro-Magnon man made some orgies in his cave with his buddies.
The threesomes, it is not only WWM, that also can be MMW.
It can be a fantasy for girls to have sex with two guys at the same time. You can use this to bang you girls who would not have slept with “just” you (the power of the fantasy of having two guys for herself). You can exchange as well sex friends with buddies but pay attention because sex can make things complicated with him after (jealousy and all this). It can change a relationship.
Last night, it snowed on Sex-en-Provence. Where I live, people stop everything as soon as it’s snowing. But I don’t give a damn because it did not snow enough: I can’t even shoot Hafid down with snowballs! Let’s be clear, I like this weather because it is original (and rare here) but I don’t like sliding. Besides, it looks like some sperm that would have been forgotten too long in the fridge. Especially that an awkwardly swallowed flake can in fact be a droppings of pigeon. Think about it next time you’ll open your mouth to go into raptures in front of this frozen water.
What makes me laugh too, it’s all the people who write on Facebook that it snowed on their lost village because… It is a little bit funny all the same this craze for three flakes (not the flakes with girls). Especially that one can find the same thing in his freezer.. I don’t like cold, on the other hand, because it appreciably reduces the size of my penis and makes it become blue like the one of Papa Smurf.
I went on Wikipedia to inquire on this phenomenon (seriousness girls if you want to see dicks, go on Wiki, great photos there): « The size is often a social and even a psychological difficulty for men who are below the average (13cm – 5 thumbs), in a manner which might sometimes compromise their sexuality. On the other hand, if have a large-sized penis is psychologically an advantageous, it is also a factor of difficulties for sexual relations. It can be the cause of painful and difficult bedtimes with some partners, and almost makes sodomy impossible.
The size of the penis has often be object of fantasy. However, the contents of these fantasies vary according to eras. Indeed, during the period of Antiquity, it was the small size of the penis that was valued, while now it is rather the big size that is appreciated. For Greeks of Antiquity, a virile man must be endowed with a small sex. Still today, in certain Amerindian tribes, social status is dictated by the size of the male genital organ, only men with a short phallus are able to occupy the highest places of the social order [they walk around happily naked all the time]. »
Researchers explain that the size of the flaccid penis doesn’t help to predict the size of willy in erection. On the other hand, they found out that more the index was short compared with the ring finger, more the penis was big. (It’s not a legend).
« The record of the biggest penis of the world is Jonah Falcon. According to the magazine Rolling Stone, this American native of New York would possess a penis of 9,5 thumbs (24,13 cm) when soft and 13,5 thumbs (34,29 cm) when hard. » Bigger than Rocco (when we love, we do not measure)!
If, somewhere, some Schtroumpfettes made a snowman in my effigy… please, endow it with an enormous carrot, then greedily eat it together!
Yummy.
PS = Make a payment on my Paypal account for more advice to live harmoniously with your willy.
I write this introduction for the guys who are in the following state of mind “fucking her well or badly it is the same thing for me, the important is just to fuck her”. I want to become again an alcoholic to forget when I read things like that. First of all because if you know that you are one of the best fucks in town you necessarily convey more confidence. Then, because they tell it to their friends and it is advertisement for you héhéhé. Finally, because it is because of shitty mentalities like that that it is more and more difficult to have sex in France: the girls think by default that the dude doesn’t know how to fuck, thus to enjoy her body he has to show the money or other. What I want to say, it is that if it was “guaranteed orgasms every time”, the women would less be prayed and our value of man would raise. Capisch ? It is the state of mind I have and I can tell you that it is more constructive than the egoism and in addition when a girl put me a rake, I say to myself “go and get fucked by a fellow who doesn’t know how to do it and who we will lie to your to unlock your legs (95 % of chances) if it is what you prefer, you don’t even know what you miss when you do the malicious like that and you think you are clever :)… then you will say than men are all the same IE useless assholes!”
The second thing to know it is that the girls love sex but do not want to be denigrated (thought of as whores). The chicks are naughty but thus often give you advices to be artless, kind and submitted in long-term relationships. They will only very rarely admit what really turn them on and never confess that the bedtime they will remember till the end of their days, they did probably not have them with a shy and awkward man.”I love you as we like certain dark things, in a secret way, between the shadow and the soul.” Pablo Neruda
1) General state of mind
Being a good fuck, it is above all not being a bad fuck : you will be a lover at the same time bravely taking initiatives, comfortable and very sensual. I was inspired without having copied it by Eve O who gives very good advices in her book 267 conseils pour devenir le meilleur coup de sa vie as well as Nina Hartley.
2) The caresses
You have to caress them and kiss them often… and not only during the sexual act.
You can caress them with lips : vary the pressure, the rhythm and the opening. Have a good breath, so wash your teeth or take small fresh things full of mint. Avoid: cafe, cigarette, etc.
To caress them with your hands, have soft hands and thus hydrated. Rough hands will not optimize pleasant caresses. Be soft and sensual, do fluid movements and slide tenderly on the surface of her skin. Place your hand on hers when she caresses you to guide her… and she can do the same for you.
If you decide to make her a massage, you are not obliged to mass her only with your hands. More your body will be in touch with hers and more she will be warmed. You can even do it completely naked. You can improve this idea by using oils but try them before to be sure that they do not burn. Mass the thighs inside, outside and pass near her sex innocently. Take care of her butts then return towards her sex, then leave : turn her on until she begs you to take her! When hormones get the upper hand over the logical part of her brain, it is an extraordinary let go!
Be always on the lookout for her reactions: every woman is relatively different and according to the type of caress you use, you will meet more or less of success. You cannot guess!
As regards the caress of her sex: Begin by caressing her through underwear, you touch her, you turn all around, you cross your fingers around the clitoris. A thing which I also like to do to make them go nuts it is to lick them through their underwear and then when they cannot handle it any more move it a little to attack their sex. The saliva will be an excellent lubricant for your fingers which must be clean. She is then going to beg you to undress her (or will do it herself if the panties are too wet) ! Also play with the lips of her vagina, not only the vagina itself or the clit: watch her muscles contracting, it is funny. Vary the angles of attack and the speed and watch for her reactions. You have to judge what she likes most: breath, contractions, shivers, sighs, shouts (why not)…
To finger her, do not go as a horse there, anyway 80 % of the women are clitoral but that pleases them all the same (especially the association of both). Let’s go there slowly. Increase the number of fingers but not too much all the same to don’t hurt them. Small precision : your finger is not a penis (there are nails and everything thus attention). When you finger her, also try to stimulate the clitoris (thumb of the same hand or index+major of the other hand), this is the way you will totally drive her crazy. Do not be a pneumatic drill, it is not like that that they feel penetrated like by a penis: on the contrary, press downward, make a semicircle below as a swing … alternate all these techniques and be attentive to her reactions. This is key!
To give her the impression of penetrating into her like with your sex but just with your fingers, fold up the last two phalanxes as if you said “hey you come here” in her vagina. You will feel (normally) a kind of rough cavity, it is the place of the G-spot. To stimulate effectively the clitoris, make movements (rather circulars with your fingers or then with your tongue and maybe also a coming and going) faster and faster. When you feel she will come, slow down.
3) The cunnilingus
It is again something very subjective even if appears guiding common main lines. NB : some girls do not like that but the largest part THINK that they do not like that because no guy was able to do it in a correct and they were bored or had to feign pleasure. It is because I won several times the prize of the king of the cunni in Aix that I allow myself to develop this part.
If you have a doubt on your performance, ask her for the rhythm, the pressure when you play with the clitoris… some girls are really sensitive and that can hurt them or fear them especially when you start or at the approach of the orgasm. Attention with teeth like, just like she has to do it when she performs blowjob : respect. And do not blow in her vagina it may be dangerous: respect.
Source : Wikipedia
To begin: kiss her breasts, come down by kissing her small stomach, her navel then continue to come down to attack the point which interests us. It has to don’t be too easy for her, the anticipation is going to make rise her desire as in seduction. At the beginning, use your tongue to make the zone wet. By putting a pillow under her buttocks, you give her an ideal position. Do not blow in the vagina, it is very unpleasant. Explore the hidden recesses of her vagina and her lips with your tongue in mode “hard tongue”. Travel her sex of various manners, lick, penetrate, turn, lap, suck…
In fact, put your mouth as in duckface (it helps a little) and position it on her clitoris. Normally, you feel it under your tongue, as a small hard button… It is very rare that I had to go there blind because it was very discreet but by following the plan you know in which zone it has to be and that is enough (btw always being just on it is not optimal). I think that licking it is good but sucking is excellent too : suck her as she would suck your sex which would not be hard yet. No, that does not make you a fag. Mass her so as to make the blood come on her sex. You can tap above delicately (attention slowly). So that she gives you her rhythm, position your mouth on the clitoris and do not move, let her indicate you the angle. Put your fingers in her vagina (in mode “hey come here”) and move her body also while you suck her.
Continue: pay attention on the nonverbal communication which she sends back to you to know if she likes that. Continue what works! Place your fingers on her sex by making a V with the bottom towards buttocks and top towards the stomach: it is the zone of the cunnilingus.
At the end: if she approaches the orgasm, she can ask you to stop by tightening legs. I do not advise you to obey: make her enjoy like in a dream. If she does not return it to you, give all the same, for the pleasure to give (God will reward you). Do cunnis because you must show that you love your partner’s body. If the smell bothers you then breathe through your mouth but put out your nose so as you don’t stifle. Be careful if she is on her period, do not make me say what I did not say. If you have hair in the mouth, remove them discreetly… If really too much hair, remember that you do not HAVE TO lick.
Let her the choose to kiss you or not directly after your cunni (dry yourselves discreetly). It is an act of dominion because it is you who master her pleasure. Hold her firmly if she moves too much the legs because of the pleasure. If she ejaculates in your face during the cunni it is only some water, for information, that never happened to me thus don’t be afraid. Be resilient and successful: if you are bored, draw the alphabet on her sex. I advise you to put the condom during the cunni, neither seen nor known then you fuck her directly… Go down on her while she sleeps : queen’s alarm clock…
4) The penetration
2/3 positions, it is a good average. Turn her on before penetrating into her with your penis. Begin in penetrating into her slowly then push your sex. Start slowly then accelerate: There is a gradation. Idea : To turn by making circles with your sex in her vagina, that gives her some pleasure and that allows you to recover. Talk to her : steer her, share your pleasure with her. Laugh at pussy farts or pretend not having heard anything. Lead her by the hips. Try to stimulate her clitoris at the same time you penetrate into her : a good position is you on her because the pubis rubs the clitoris. Otherwise in doggy style for example, you can use one of your hands to do the same thing. Let her lead the penetration at her rhythm by giving her the commands in certain positions like doggystyle or side-saddle (mode “man object”). Alternate sweetness and firmness. Kiss her: neck, shoulders… Then, intensify your movements to lead her to the orgasm. It is difficult to know if what we did was appreciated if we have no feedback : talk (even if it is better if she congratulates you by herself just after like “that never happened to me before that it was soooo good” and I can tell to you that when that it happens regularly to you that gives you a fucking good inner game)! If you feel that she is going to come and that you are a player, stop and start again because the final orgasm will be multiplied tenfold! Stop everything while she has an orgasm, because she will enjoy it more than if you continue.
For the sodomy, speak about it with her : doggystyle or side-saddle advised.
5) Delay the éjaculation
– Make a break in the comings and goings ;
– Pressure on the perineum (area around between anus and testicles) ;
– Change position for a less exciting position for you ;
– Think of hard things like for example that she can twist your sex ;
– Catch yourselves the thigh discreetly (or the ear) ;
– Say to her that you will “cum” ;
– Contract your perineum, technique close to the tantric ;
– If you come before her, make her enjoy otherwise (cunni), do not leave your partner dissatisfied except when she is really blocked for specific reasons to her ;
– After having finished, take her a little in your arms.
NB : To be very hard strained and be able to reload easily, a good hygiene of life helps.
If you do not have orgasm when you ejaculate too much early it can be due to a lack of experience or relaxation. Orgasm and éjaculation are not necessarily connected. Thus, put in perspective your situation, even think of something else, do not take all this too seriously and you will do better next time… If she impresses you too much, here is craftiness: imagine her doing number two (try not to go limp all the same lol).
How to know if she enjoyed ? If she enjoys, observe the cramps on her stomach, observe her mouth for the shouts or the groans if she interiorizes, otherwise at the level of her sex, it opens more, becomes wetter and contracts a little. She can also catch hold of you or sheets.
6) Talk
Ask her what she would like to do next time.
What are her fantasies?
Tell her what you appreciated or not really liked.
Tell her that you need a small time of rest before being able to do it again.
Stay class: do not become vulgar like in a porn… except if she likes that.
On the other hand, be open-minded.
7) Other ideas
Savage :
– Use your nails (backs, buttocks) flat or edge, but short and filed ;
– Nibble her ;
– Maintain her wrists ;
– Grasp her neck ;
– Grasp the buttocks ;
– Catch her hair ;
– Stick her head to the pillow;
– Your warm breath in her ear;
– Put her small pats on buttocks (if she protests say to her that it is stimulating).
Sensitive places :
– Feet ;
– Hair, mass her hair by making small circles on the skull ;
– Hair, play with your fingers ;
– Brush her then intensify your movements on her back and buttocks ;
– Lob ear ;
– Hollow of the neck ;
– Approach your sex of hers or her butts then go back up casually ;
– The neck ;
– The breast (lick her or brush them) slowly and next to the navel ;
– To touch her sex, be careful to be wet (saliva) ;
– The folds of knees, elbows, ankles ;
– Ears, nape of the neck ;
– Thighs ;
– Shoulders.
Sexual games :
– Cover her eyes ;
– Attach her hands with her bra ;
– Write imaginary words in her back with your fingers ;
– Suck one of her fingers while you fuck her or put her one of yours in the mouth ;
– Look at you in a mirror ;
– Role-play ;
– Make love in improper places ;
– Make love with people next to you ;
– Make love on the ground or on the balcony in front of the street, or standing love ;
– Do quickies when you are in a hurry ;
– Make love in (appropriate) music ;
– Eat on her body;
– Use objects, watch a porn together ;
– Seduce without looking like it : after the shower do not get dressed at once, or stay topless on the terrace.
Accessories :
– Privilege the blue or sieved light ;
– Clean and not pierced boxer shorts: black will always be an excellent choice ;
– No bed which creaks, it is weird ;
– Candles can give a cool atmosphere ;
– Take a bath together or a shower ;
– No phone or do not answer ;
– Do not always make love with clothes : sometimes, just go under her dress.
8) Wide-spread feminine fantasies
– Being taken by a beautiful stranger that they will never see again ;
– The rape: passivity = loss of control = justification (but do not rape her but be persevering) ;
– The flagrante delicto: public place (parking, toilet, cinema) ;
– The uniform: policeman, serviceman, fireman… ;
– A love triangle with another man or with another girl for the most curious.
All this is not exhaustive, but practice it and you will become a better fuck than 95 % of the men. And they will thanks you for that ! In brief, that you look for a mother, for a girl or for a woman, fuck her well and she will ask for more of it ! Maybe that one day, the man “good fuck” will become as valuable on the market as the “hot girl”.
A lot of my readers want to know how to kiss a girl; how to bring and make a success of the kissclose. Moreover, more than a PUA beginner finds himself blocked in the stage of the Kissclose (The best example is Style in his early stages for those who have read The Game).
Let’s do things in the order. Before seeing HOW kissing a girl, let’s see WHEN to kiss her. You know it, to seduce a girl, everything is question of timing. It is not for nothing that Mystery created a method of seduction divided in so many small stages. A girl can leave you a window of shooting (a chance), but if you do not seize it, not leaving you a second one. So, you can come before more beautiful and sexier guys if they are pussies who do not dare to stick her to a wall and to eat her lips. Because knowing and daring to act is an alpha behavior.
The stage of the kissclose does not escape this rule and is a part of the seduction. You should not wait too much at the risk of becoming a Nice guy in the eyes of the young lady whom you desire, nor rush to don’t scare her off. (n.b. : The situation is always nevertheless easier to catch up if you acted too early than if you acted too late).
It will belong to you to estimate the situation according to the personality of your target, her body language, and the environment (place, persons present, atmosphere). Sorry but I can’t be more precise than that because every interaction is unique. It’s up to you to calibrate. But never forget that a kiss close has to be the continuation of a sexual tension: do not try cold kissclose. Except if it’s just to have fun (But for that is needed a fucking pair of corones all the same thus we will speak about it another time because we make bases here). A trick which helped well me in my early stages: I gave myself a purpose: I said to myself that come what may at the end of the date I would kiss her.
You thus have to create enough comfort and attraction so that miss is ready (at least unconsciously) for a physical proximity with you. If you wish to accelerate things, bet on a good conversation and control your touches (kinos). Kinos are essential to kissclose because they allow to test the reaction of the young lady to your contact, and to create an intimacy. If she reacts well to your kinos, in theory, you will kiss close more easily.
Kiss-openers : When to kiss
The question that many men have in mind, is: how to kiss the girl during the phase of seduction. There are very numerous possibilities, to be adapted according to your personality.
*The kissclose like Beigbeder. You : « I bet you a glass of champagne that I can kiss you without touching your lips » after some negotiations, she should accept, tell her to close eyes and…. Kiss her passionately without waiting for her reaction.
* After a dinner / drink: You : « you have a lot of chocolat (café,…) on the chin ». Remove delicately the imaginary tracks with your fingers, shake them in grumbling and say: « fuck, they are not working » and go next to her to kiss her.
*You : « Listen, I saw well that you want to kiss me, but I think that it is a little bit too soon » Her : « Hein, what ?! not at all » You : « Really, well after all you are right, why waiting more »
*You : « I spend a very good moment. I think that if you were a brunette/blonde (say the opposite of what she is) I would already have kissed you » Her : « ????? » You : « Yeah, unfortunately, the Brunettes/blonde women (what she is) are bad kissers » Her : « It’s not true » well, after that neg-hit, she will in theory be easier to kiss. Or then if she is not enough confident, she will be angry and you will lose everything. So pay attention on your calibration when you neg.
*The Mystery’s kissclose : You : « We are going to play a game about trust. You have to place your lips at 2 cms of mine, but, obviously do not try to kiss me ! ». Then kiss her.
Say it with a languishing body language (look at her straight in the eyes, half-smile), just what is needed to make miss wet. This game allows to invert the role and to be a little more the one who is desired (the “prize”). Make the first step, and get closer in 2cm to her. But let to the young lady the choice to finalize or not. We so learn more about miss (does she takes initiatives?)
*At the time of leaving: «We give each other a kiss on the cheek or we assume our attraction? ». « Cordial handshake or soft kiss? » (kiss opener you can try when you are really confident).
You : « So, what do you wanna do now? » Her : « IDK, and you? » (Here is a typical answer of women) You : « you’ll see » and kiss her.
They are only examples, but I think that they will give you an idea of the quantity of sentences and psychological approaches (playful, alpha, not interested,…) which can help to kiss close. There are ideas which suit to everybody !
Take the initiative to kiss her
Apparently, at the time of kissing your target, it’s up to you to make the first step. But at the crucial moment, it is easy to be invaded by the fear of the failure… In the point to be paralyzed and do nothing… What always leads to the fiasco: a woman often prefers to let you die on-the-spot fear rather than to make the first step if she is not sure that it is mutual. She will certainly be disappointed that you didn’t found the courage, but never at the point of taking the initiative herself. Why? Well, because if you are incapable to assume your desires, then you are not the kind of man she is looking for. Consequently, when comes the moment to act, take your courage in two hands and make “the first step” : She will be very grateful to you for it…
Having said that, I sometimes take initiatives with other things than my mouth (especially my hands/words) to the point that it is her who kisses me first because she cannot handle it any more. Besides, it is good because we give them some validation when we kiss them, that way we give them less, and it is still better to do it at home to be then able to sleep with her. It is not rare, especially in a club, that a girl can “content” with having been kissed by a guy and with not trying to go “more deeply” in the relation.
Pure technique
It is impossible to describe a perfect kiss, because it results more from an alchemy between both partners than from a particular technique. Do not think, and forget yourself. A very effective technique to kiss a girl consists in approaching her to kiss her… and to pause for a moment before touching her lips. Look at her in eyes with a little smile… And kiss her. This ultimate tension should break all her barriers and activate a tsunami of hormones in the panties of the young lady. Make her dream, or live kisses of cinema, etc.
Besides, at first, do not put your hands on her buttocks or other too intimate places. Walk them in the hollow of the back and on the nape of her neck, zones of the feminine body which are very sensitive while staying on the territory of the gentleman…. And do not kiss only with your mouth, also use your hands, and not always in the same way (more passionately, more slowly, nibble, lick, kiss, with or without the tongue, in the neck, etc.) Imagine your are a vampire.
Bottom line : bottom line, kissing can be perceived like “not a big deal” or like a commitment. Attention ! Btw, what does it mean for you ?
An orgasm is a sexual climax (or high point). Orgasm happens because of continued sexual touching. During an orgasm, there is a strong feeling of excitement and pleasure. Sexual touching may be sexual intercourse, rubbing or squeezing by hand (called masturbation), or other actions that make the sex organs feel good. During an orgasm, a person’s body sometimes spasms (shakes or trembles) and the person’s brain activity changes quickly. Orgasms may happen when people are asleep. When men orgasm while sleeping, it is often called a “wet dream”. Other mammals may have orgasms when they have sex.
How to be awesome in bed ?
In my career, I have been able to distinguish three types of cocksuckers.
How to be a good lover ?
