Category: Kissing and making love

Oxytocin is normally produced in the hypothalamus and stored in the posterior pituitary gland. It plays a role in intimacy, sexual reproduction of both sexes, and during and after childbirth as well as social bonding. It is released in large amounts after distension of the cervix and uterus during labor and with stimulation of the nipples following childbirth. This helps with birth, maternal bonding, and lactation. Studies have looked at oxytocin’s role in various behaviors, including orgasm, social recognition, pair bonding, anxiety, and maternal behaviors. As a medication, it is used to cause contraction of the uterus, which is used to start labor, increase the speed of labor, and to stop bleeding following delivery.

Oxytocin is thought to modulate inflammation by decreasing certain cytokines. Thus, the increased release in oxytocin following positive social interactions has the potential to improve wound healing. A study by Marazziti and colleagues used heterosexual couples to investigate this possibility. They found increases in plasma oxytocin following a social interaction were correlated with faster wound healing. They hypothesized this was due to oxytocin reducing inflammation, thus allowing the wound to heal more quickly. This study provides preliminary evidence that positive social interactions may directly influence aspects of health. According to a study published in 2014, silencing of oxytocin receptor interneurons in the medial prefrontal cortex (mPFC) of female mice resulted in loss of social interest in male mice during the sexually receptive phase of the estrous cycle.

The relationship between oxytocin and human sexual response is unclear. At least two uncontrolled studies have found increases in plasma oxytocin at orgasm – in both men and women. Plasma oxytocin levels are notably increased around the time of self-stimulated orgasm and are still higher than baseline when measured five minutes after self arousal. The authors of one of these studies speculated that oxytocin’s effects on muscle contractibility may facilitate sperm and egg transport.

In a study measuring oxytocin serum levels in women before and after sexual stimulation, the author suggests it serves an important role in sexual arousal. This study found genital tract stimulation resulted in increased oxytocin immediately after orgasm. Another study reported increases of oxytocin during sexual arousal could be in response to nipple/areola, genital, and/or genital tract stimulation as confirmed in other mammals. Murphy et al. (1987), studying men, found oxytocin levels were raised throughout sexual arousal with no acute increase at orgasm. A more recent study of men found an increase in plasma oxytocin immediately after orgasm, but only in a portion of their sample that did not reach statistical significance. The authors noted these changes “may simply reflect contractile properties on reproductive tissue”.

Oxytocin evokes feelings of contentment, reductions in anxiety, and feelings of calmness and security when in the company of the mate. This suggests oxytocin may be important for the inhibition of the brain regions associated with behavioral control, fear, and anxiety, thus allowing orgasm to occur. Research has also demonstrated that oxytocin can decrease anxiety and protect against stress, particularly in combination with social support.

In a risky investment game, experimental subjects given nasally administered oxytocin displayed “the highest level of trust” twice as often as the control group. Subjects who were told they were interacting with a computer showed no such reaction, leading to the conclusion that oxytocin was not merely affecting risk aversion. Nasally administered oxytocin has also been reported to reduce fear, possibly by inhibiting the amygdala (which is thought to be responsible for fear responses). Indeed, studies in rodents have shown oxytocin can efficiently inhibit fear responses by activating an inhibitory circuit within the amygdala. Some researchers have argued oxytocin has a general enhancing effect on all social emotions.

Trust is increased by oxytocin. Disclosure of emotional events is a sign of trust in humans. When recounting a negative event, humans who receive intranasal oxytocin share more emotional details and stories with more emotional significance. Humans also find faces more trustworthy after receiving intranasal oxytocin. In a study, participants who received intranasal oxytocin viewed photographs of human faces with neutral expressions and found them to be more trustworthy than those who did not receive oxytocin. This may be because oxytocin reduces the fear of social betrayal in humans.

While Oxytocin increases trust, it does so only to a certain degree. In a study, participants played a variation of the trust game and acted as an “investor,” deciding how much money to allocate to a “trustee.” The trustee was described as trustworthy, untrustworthy, or neutral. Participants who received intranasal oxytocin gave more money to the trustworthy and neutral trustees. Participants that received oxytocin did not give more money to the untrustworthy trustee, implying that oxytocin only increases trust when there is no reason to be distrustful.

Oxytocin affects social distance between adult males and females, and may be responsible at least in part for romantic attraction and subsequent monogamous pair bonding. An oxytocin nasal spray caused men in a monogamous relationship, but not single men, to increase the distance between themselves and an attractive woman during a first encounter by 10 to 15 centimeters. The researchers suggested that oxytocin may help promote fidelity within monogamous relationships. For this reason, it is sometimes referred to as the “bonding hormone”. There is some evidence that oxytocin promotes ethnocentric behavior, incorporating the trust and empathy of in-groups with their suspicion and rejection of outsiders. Furthermore, genetic differences in the oxytocin receptor gene (OXTR) have been associated with maladaptive social traits such as aggressive behaviour.

Affecting generosity by increasing empathy during perspective taking: In a neuroeconomics experiment, intranasal oxytocin increased generosity in the Ultimatum Game by 80%, but had no effect in the Dictator Game that measures altruism. Perspective-taking is not required in the Dictator Game, but the researchers in this experiment explicitly induced perspective-taking in the Ultimatum Game by not identifying to participants into which role they would be placed. Serious methodological questions have arisen, however, with regard to the role of oxytocin in trust and generosity.

Empathy in healthy males has been shown to be increased after intranasal oxytocin. This is most likely due to the effect of oxytocin in enhancing eye gaze. There is some discussion about which aspect of empathy oxytocin might alter – for example, cognitive vs. emotional empathy.

Certain learning and memory functions are impaired by centrally administered oxytocin. Also, systemic oxytocin administration can impair memory retrieval in certain aversive memory tasks. Interestingly, oxytocin does seem to facilitate learning and memory specifically for social information. Healthy males administered intranasal oxytocin show improved memory for human faces, in particular happy faces. They also show improved recognition for positive social cues over threatening social cues and improved recognition of fear.

Oxytocin injected into the cerebrospinal fluid causes spontaneous erections in rats, reflecting actions in the hypothalamus and spinal cord. Centrally administrated oxytocin receptor antagonists can prevent noncontact erections, which is a measure of sexual arousal. Studies using oxytocin antagonists in female rats provide data that oxytocin increases lordosis behavior, indicating an increase in sexual receptivity.

In the prairie vole, oxytocin released into the brain of the female during sexual activity is important for forming a monogamous pair bond with her sexual partner. Vasopressin appears to have a similar effect in males. Oxytocin has a role in social behaviors in many species, so it likely also does in humans. In a 2003 study, both humans and dog oxytocin levels in the blood rose after five to 24 minutes of a petting session. This possibly plays a role in the emotional bonding between humans and dogs.

Maternal behavior: Female rats given oxytocin antagonists after giving birth do not exhibit typical maternal behavior. By contrast, virgin female sheep show maternal behavior toward foreign lambs upon cerebrospinal fluid infusion of oxytocin, which they would not do otherwise. Oxytocin is involved in the initiation of maternal behavior, not its maintenance; for example, it is higher in mothers after they interact with unfamiliar children rather than their own.

In some studies, high levels of plasma oxytocin have been correlated with romantic attachment. For example, if a couple is separated for a long period of time, anxiety can increase due to the lack of physical affection. Oxytocin may aid romantically attached couples by decreasing their feelings of anxiety when they are separated.

Extract from : The awesome lover’s manual

56% of men who have affairs say they are in love with their wives. Currently, women are initiating 70% of divorces. 25% of married women will also have an extramarital affair (for 40% of men). 54% of people will never know their partner has cheated. 30% of people on dating site are not single, 38% of people on those sites are looking for one night stands (source : IFOP).

Number one reason why women cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed (sorry if it happened to you). Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually, and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like depression, cheating, divorce…

If you are thinking that being just OK in bed is all you want, that it is enough, think again! We are in a COMPETITIVE environment ! Do you know in how many discreet ways the girls can cheat – and I’m not only speaking mentally – but physically actually meet up with someone and fuck (I’ve often been this someone)… and you NEVER know about it??? Online dating, social networks, all kinds of sites for men and women who want to have discreet affairs. Temptation will definitely be there for her to cheat. Men try to pick up women ALL THE TIME. EVEN IF THEY’RE MARRIED ! If you’re not good in bed, you’re in danger…

If you’re not a swinger, you probably think it’s humiliating to know that another man was inside your girlfriend’s mouth or inside your wife… and he wasn’t making love to her, he was fucking her hard like a bitch!!! But on the other hand if she doesn’t tell you and you know it in another way, you’re mad at her because she lied IN ADDITION OF THE REST. What’s the worst ? Sorry what I’m going to say is not easy but maybe you’re for something in her adultery.

There’s no worse fear or no worse feeling than not being able to satisfy a woman sexually. That just makes you feel like that you’re still a little boy, inferior to your schoolmates : like you’re less than all the other guys or there’s something wrong with you. You’re ashamed and hurt !

However, when she cheats it’s not that she wants to cheat, it’s that she’s driven by her natural emotions. She cannot resist. You need to understand that women are very sexual creatures, they need to have sex — WOMEN ACTUALLY CRAVE SEX. If you didn’t know that and act consequently, we’ve already found out one of your blocking points. Hourra !

Women are child-bearers… and the only natural way that they can have children is by fucking. They thus have a natural instinct to have sex.

Think about what is going on during sex ; if it’s good sex for a woman, which might not be the kind of sex you’re given her at the moment, she’s clawing your back, she’s screaming, she’s moaning, she’s telling you to fuck her harder (men don’t do that, that’s not a natural reaction for a man but you should expect it from a woman). So, if she doesn’t do that with you, you’ve a problem, dude (or will have one soon)…

Women say that money doesn’t really matter as long as there’s love. Well, know that if you’re aren’t giving her great sex, money WILL be an issue and love might just turn into aggressiveness, because she’s going to make love to men who knows what they are doing in bed. I know it’s not cool to tell you that and it’s scary, but it’s just a fact of life. Don’t be naïve or gullible because they are cute. That is the way it is, it is rules of the game.

By the way, another rule : trading or spending money to have sex is very negative for the relationship. It communicates bad things…

One last thing to finish, during love the bodies product hormones of attachment (e.g. oxytocin). So if you want to keep the girls, you’ve to be good in bed to fill her with those hormones.

Extract from : The awesome lover’s manual

A fake orgasm is the result of a person who pretended to have an orgasm without actually experiencing one. It usually means simulating or acting out behaviors, such as body movements, vocal sounds, and sequences of apparent intensification followed by apparent release, typically associated with orgasm. It can also include giving verbal indications that orgasm occurred.

Contrary to popular beliefs, women are not the only gender to fake orgasms. A random-sample telephone poll of 1,501 Americans has shown that 48% of women and 11% of men faked orgasm. Faking orgasms in men becomes easier while using condoms, since ejaculation usually accompanies orgasm in males. Women fake orgasms much more frequently than men with 26% of women faking an orgasm every time they have sex. This is more than the 25% of women who report consistently having an orgasm during sex.

Orgasm is not always achieved easily during sexual activity. In both sexes, the condition of being unable to orgasm during sex is called anorgasmia ; it can be caused by a variety of factors, including factors in one’s life such as stress, anxiety, depression, or fatigue, as well as factors related to the sex itself, including worry, guilt, fear of painful intercourse, fear of pregnancy, the undesirability of a partner and the undesirability of a setting. It can also be caused by drug use, including alcohol and other drugs, or side effects from prescription drugs.

People can fake orgasms for number of reasons, such as when their partner wants them to orgasm but they are unable, or when they desire to stop having sex but are not comfortable telling their partner directly, avoiding negative consequences, or for pleasing their partner.

For women in a heterosexual relationship, faking orgasm is often based on deference to the man, need for his approval, or feelings of shame or sexual inadequacy. People can also fake orgasms for reasons of display or presentation, such as during phone sex or in pornography.

Women tend to achieve orgasm during sex less readily than men, and thus faking an orgasm is more common among women. Most women require direct clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm. Not all sexual positions provide access to the clitoris, thus making orgasms difficult to achieve for women during sex.

Feminists have pointed to women faking orgasm as a sign of male-centered sexuality; in a society that celebrates only male sexual pleasure, women may feel pressured to engage in acts that bring their male partners to orgasm but that do not provide them physical pleasure. Women in a discussion group in 1967 analyzed their motivations for faking orgasms and decided that faking was a response to pressures placed upon them by men. As such, the urge to fake an orgasm often sits in a broader context of other problems with sexual repression or male-centered sexuality. Many of these women also experienced feelings such as sexual rejection by their partners, or on the other hand, unwanted sexual attention; some were afraid to tell their partners what they wanted, and others said their partners resented being told what they wanted.

Hugo M. Mialon developed a game theoretical analysis of faking orgasms as a signaling game. Only some of the predictions of his model were consistent with survey data used to check the validity of the model. Among other things, the survey data suggested that both women and men who would be more concerned if their partner were faking are less likely to fake themselves, and that older women and men are more likely to fake than younger ones.

One study of orgasm found that women who fake orgasms were more likely to neglect their partners and flirt with other men at social gatherings; the authors of this study speculated that women who fake orgasms may be more likely to engage in sexual intercourse with men other than their partner, although they recommended caution at interpreting their findings due to a small data set and a large number of variables being studied.

In therapy or counseling, women are more likely to inaccurately portray their sexual behavior (such as by claiming to orgasm when they do not) to a male therapist than to a female one, although women may still withhold the same information from female therapists.

Extract from : The awesome lover’s manual

I’m a “normal” dude who had not always been able to satisfy women (it’s so sad). At first I even was mad at them because they didn’t want to see me again after I slept with them (even if we went on several dates before sleeping together: don’t fool yourself… sex is important for them too and they are not VERY understanding).

One day, I understood where the problem came from… (1, 2, 3 “who has met someone else in the meantime” it’s OKAY but after you put yourself into question). I stopped blaming every girl and started doing something to fix this problem. I got myself together, just like you’re doing now.

My main problem at the beginning was that I selfishly thought that it was rare for a woman to have an orgasm. I hadn’t realized they can jerk off just like us. And, if they can have more pleasure alone than with us, why would they need us ? And who could discreetly teach me to be good?

I haven’t always been good in bed nor good with women. Far from it ! I was worried that I would cum as soon as they touched my dick. Understand me: a vagina/mouth feels so good and wet… I was shocked that everyone talked about how awesome sex was. It wasn’t for me, it was stressful for me, I had to prove things! I mean, sensations were good, but not the context. And girls selfishly didn’t really help me to feel more comfortable (sorry it’s sad but it’s true) !

I watched a lot of porn, read dozens of books/ebooks and watched several how-to-make-your-girl-come videos ! I’m sorry for my colleagues but most of this stuff was very ridiculous and unrealistic. It was obvious the orgasms and the interactions in general were faked in this stuff. And, I absolutley cannot caution the use of pills and supplements to have great sex. To me, sex is natural, so must be the orgasms.

Over time, what happened was that through my own experimentation, I became able to make women cum ONCE AND OFTEN MULTIPLE TIMES. I could get hard and stay hard for ONE HOUR if I wanted to (btw, it’s too long).

In the beginning I was too shy to try new things, so I made one step after the other with my initiatives in the bed. But as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning when I did this stuff, I got more confident in bed (one women even broke my bedside lamp because she was losing control while I was fucking her hard! (according to her)). Now, I still have my day job as an accountant (who said accountants are boring?), but I spend my free time learning seduction and the art of sex… and obviously teaching men how to become awesome in those domains.

After you’ve read this book and internalize the programs I’ve prepared for you, you will feel so confident about your skills and knowledge in bed that you will not be paranoid nor insecure about your lover (or girlfriend, or wife) leaving you for some other dude with more money, better looks, and better sexual skills than you. You won’t have sexual complexes anymore!

For a long time I was myself in denial. I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things but I said “it is not possible to do so in real life, my girls are not whores”. But the thing is : girls like sex, orgasms and all that dirty stuff. If you’re still looking for your one true love who will teach you how to have good sex, you can forget about it (or wait a looong time). 99% chances are if you’re bad in bed, your lover won’t want to see you again instead of teaching you.

The first times I’d had sex I got really hard but couldn’t last long. The other times I had sex (it was rare for me), I couldn’t stay hard inside her (fear of coming too quickly). After crying a lot, I’d do trial and error until something works and so I became very good in the bed. Guess what ? That’s exactly what I want you to do today. It’s your turn… It’s up to you !

I want you can learn from this book and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until you got it right. You have to learn how to do it, what a woman expects from a man in bed. It is not one of those things you were born with. And it’s normal !

If you weren’t lucky enough to make your first time with an inexperienced girl and learn together, you’re probably repeating the same mistakes again and again. And yet if nobody teaches you, you cannot invent…

But it’s over now! I will teach you how to be in complete control of your body and how to feel the girl emotionally and physically.

They’d literally say “I LOVE when you’re fucking me!” Maybe you cannot believe me right now but you should. If you do what I say in the book, you’ll become better than 99% of the men out there. Suspend your negative and jaded thoughts and say to yourself “OK. I’m listening to this PUA who has all the same fucked more than 100 girls : he had probably learned some stuff. It can’t hurt to try. It’s a win-win scenario.”

When I became a PUA, I immediately started having sex with a lot more girls (and hotter girls) and my skills got much better. I was having sex almost whenever I wanted, getting text messages from girls I had one-night stands with who wanted to see me again… while I was with another girlfriend. Because yes, I’m in love with the whole other sex.

If the Lord endowed me with a cock it is not just to stand there!

Now even girls who have boyfriend text me “I’d want to take a nap” or “do you wanna watch a movie tonight ?” which means “let’s just go into your bedroom and have good sex because my boyfriend is cool but not good enough in bed… you’re my libido’s saver”.

I decided to share my tips with you because it is a hobby. I’ve always wanted to help people improve and since I’m good I’ve always had some “padawans” that would come to me for honest advice.

Now I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned during my 6 years of pickup in the community of seduction available to guys who are like I was. Those who have given up and those who have faced rejection, humiliation, and had either been dumped or had relationships fail because of a bad sex life, etc.

So I figured I would put together a system for how to have awesome sex with women. “How to be a good lover”. I wanna talk here about the stuff that changed who I am, sexually speaking. I feel like now I have inside me this power to give any woman an orgasm. I’m one of the best dick in my city and that’s why girls call me and want to see me again. It is now your turn to enter the dance (because I obviously cannot handle them all then It’s better to be generous) !

I walk around with this confidence I never had felt before. When a girl is not interested in me, I say to myself “your loss, you’ve perhaps just missed the best orgasms of your life.” It’s not being arrogant when it’s true and not subjective !

Sometimes I’m pissed off : I say it to them right in their face… in this case OK it’s a little bit arrogant… but I’m French please forgive me (if I became so good in fingering it’s maybe because I played Game Boy a lot when I was a kid – just kidding I’m just in love with the fair sex so I want to give them a lot of pleasure – and you should too)!!! Seriously you should see the world this way you too because it helps !

I want all the guys to become good in bed so that women are less “skeptical” when it comes to orgasms. I listen to them often and most of the guys are incredibly bad and do not even realize it. I really believe that if the average dude was good in bed, women would have sex with us more easily (less shit-tests and bad beliefs about us, poor men).

I have already heard “sex without love, it’s meaningless“. It’s a shame. It’s wrong. And now I hope it’s over ! To me, there’s nothing like watching a woman about to orgasm… even if we’re not in love : we can fuck and enjoy life together. “Carpe diem” (enjoy the present day without worrying about the hour of your death and even less about your future sufferings) !

Extract from : The awesome lover’s manual

An orgasm is a sexual climax (or high point). Orgasm happens because of continued sexual touching. During an orgasm, there is a strong feeling of excitement and pleasure. Sexual touching may be sexual intercourse, rubbing or squeezing by hand (called masturbation), or other actions that make the sex organs feel good. During an orgasm, a person’s body sometimes spasms (shakes or trembles) and the person’s brain activity changes quickly. Orgasms may happen when people are asleep. When men orgasm while sleeping, it is often called a “wet dream”. Other mammals may have orgasms when they have sex.

The penis usually becomes erect (hard) before an orgasm, and flaccid (soft) again after. When a man has an orgasm, he feels a very strong and enjoyable feeling in his penis and groin, and sometimes in all of his body. In a man, an orgasm usually happens at the same time as an ejaculation, which is a release of semen through the penis, that can’t be stopped. Young boys can orgasm, but there may be no semen because semen release usually occurs only after puberty has started. After an orgasm, men usually have a deep sense of relaxation, usually felt in the groin and the thighs. Usually the stronger the orgasm, the deeper the relaxation and the longer the relaxation will last.

A woman’s orgasm begins in her clitoris, which is the counterpart of the man’s penis. It is preceded by an erection of the clitoris and a moistening of the opening of the vagina. When a woman goes through a full orgasm, her uterus, vagina, anus and pelvic muscles undergo a series of rhythmic contractions. Most women find these contractions very pleasurable. Rubbing or applying other consistent pressure against the clitoris is usually needed to help the woman have an orgasm.

Orgasm plays an important role in human reproduction. During sexual intercourse, a man places his penis inside a woman’s vagina and moves it backwards and forwards. The woman may also move her hips back and forth, or in a circular motion. The friction caused by this movement, together with the warmth and pressure of the vagina, causes the man to have pleasurable feelings in his penis, which grow stronger and stronger until the man has an orgasm and ejaculates, at which time semen then shoots out from the end of his penis into the woman’s vagina. The semen can make the woman pregnant.

The woman may also have an orgasm during intercourse as well. Scientists are not sure why women have orgasms. Some believe that the orgasm helps the sperm in the man’s semen to swim up the vagina into the cervix, so that it is more likely that a sperm cell will fuse with an egg cell. Others think that the woman’s orgasm is designed to help make the man reach orgasm. During her orgasm, a woman may moan, cry, or scream, which usually excites her man, and her vagina may grip the penis more tightly, which also makes sex more exciting for him. These reactions may cause the man to ejaculate more quickly or to produce more semen; when a woman reaches orgasm during intercourse, it often makes her man have an orgasm at that point as well. Orgasm may also encourage a woman to have sex more often as it feels good, increasing the chances of pregnancy.

A study indicates that the risk of breast cancer for women is lower for those who frequently have orgasms (more than fourteen orgasms a month), in particular after 50 years.

According to another study on 918 men from 45 to 59 years old, and followed for 10 years, the risk of mortality is lower of 50 % for those who have frequently orgasms (more than twice a week).

NB : all the orgasms have not the same intensity.

For the anecdote: It happened to me, several times, after powerful orgasms, to laugh myself sick. I do not know why. A story of hormones, certainly.

I do not think you can establish a gradation of power between the different types of orgasms (fingers, tongue, penis) … It depends on a lot of other factors. It’s not as easy as it looks!

The main idea : making love is an art, it’s not just emptying your balls.

It is well known that having orgasms regularly improves life expectancy !

May the God of Cyprine be with us !

Extract from : The awesome lover’s manual

How to be awesome in bed ?

Dear Future Sex God,

My point while writing this ebook is to help you to give to girls the most incredible sexual experiences of their lives ! I guess I’m not the first pretentious guy who wants to write such an ebook… but I am Cyprineman, sexpert famous for licking pussies like a God (it’s my gift).

But, I won’t only talk about licking pussies here. I also want you to know at the end of your reading the spots on girls’ body to touch – and how to touch them the good way – to make them scream “AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH you’re the best lover of my life” !

I will explain to you the good mindset that lead to some good sex, and the good things to do when you are having sex with her : how to warm her, how to finger her, what key-positions to master, how to last long enough to satisfy them, how to stay hard, how to recognize a real orgasm, etc. I want this ebook to be exhaustive. Everything about sex here.

By writing these lines, I really want to make the work I would have enjoyed finding when I started.

After my ebook about Online Dating, I thus propose you by now another practical ebook (by opposition to theoretical) : no intellectual masturbation. Only things you can use next time you’ll sleep with a girl… to drive her crazy. It’s not very complicated things, but it’s things you must know and use. I want to keep it simple but effective. For example, about lasting longer : we will talk about “tricks” that help but we’ll stay on realistic things… because anyway the more you’re used to fuck and used to fuck beauties, the more you’ll last and become good naturally.

And it’s not just about giving orgasms and connecting with the other sex, it’s so much more than that… When you are a good fuck, you feel proud… you feel like a real man. You feel like you have an ace up in your sleeve that gives you a mysterious confidence. All the women and men that you meet will treat you with respect because of this sexual confidence. Sexual skills really do MAKE the man and people can tell because it gives you an aura.

Very few men are good in bed. Really good, I mean. Knowing you’re good will give you an incredible advantage in your mind. To get the girl and to keep her if you wish… because she’ll be addicted. You will invert the balance of power between men and women by proposing her something rare: a good lover.

You will not anymore be afraid of the competition. If you knew how many guys I saw going into trouble while trying to pick up a girl then not daring to turn up at her place the day of the meeting because they were afraid of screwing her badly. You already have an advantage on the others… because rare are the guys who agree to learn on the sex. They are way too proud! And even if they brag, it is a taboo subject!

By the way, how do we know that we are a good leg? When the girls tell it to you every time you sleep with one of them, for example. When you inspire them comments like “fuck but where did you learn that, you, it was awesome!” That happens to me all the time now (nevertheless I leave by far) then sorry if I am a little big headed now ! 😉

But it’s not about my ego, not about “being better than the others“. It would be impossible and useless anyway. Some people will always be better than you and me. It’s not really a competition fortunately as far as the girls have only for partners a little sample of the population. The probability that she knew a better lover than you and me is thus low (at least after you read this book).

I wish to get loose from everything that can make sex a stressful and full of negativity experience with the aim of teaching you how to enjoy a profound union… an experience way more complex and pleasant than a purely physical gratification (physical friction which is all the same important but it’s not enough).

Sex, it’s not just a mechanical act. So yeah sure I will tell you the mechanisms… but there is something more, something better than that… and we will talk about it too. Few people know it, few people live it… and it’s a good news because you’ve now joined a very limited circle !

I am going to reveal you why so many people say that sex is wonderful and you’ll finally understand why in the practice it is not often that awesome !

Extract from : The awesome lover’s manual

 

 

In my career, I have been able to distinguish three types of cocksuckers.

0 / But first, what is a cocksucker?

Blowjob is the human sexual behavior which is stimulating the penis of the partner with the mouth, lips and tongue. It can be performed either as a preliminary or to lead the man to orgasm.

Fellatio is an oral sex, it is the symmetric of performing a cunnilingus on a women for a man… but for a woman.

This practice is referred to by many expressions or colloquial terms, my favorite, “suck my dick bitch”.

Oral sex was also observed in some animals with a conflict management purpose (with bonobos, for example) or with a sexual purpose (in some bat species). A study on the bat shows that when the female of this species practice fellatio on her spouse, each additional second of this activity increases the coupling length of six seconds (it is quite the opposite with most men but well when your cock is soft it can help). Blowjob could therefore encourage reproduction. In addition, the saliva with antifungal and antibacterial properties of the female would prevent sexually transmitted diseases.

Since the beginning of sexology and until the sexual revolution, oral sex was considered as a pathology. Fellatio was a perversion of the sexual instinct, “instinct” which “normally” would produce only sexual activities for reproduction. In 1952, oral sex with masturbation and oral sex were part of the pathological behavior described in the first edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. When I told you that we all are crazy…

1/ The dream seller

This is the one who sucks you at the beginning of the relationship, to make you addicted and then it is not anymore worth it in her opinion.

In general, these girls do not really like sucking but they make an effort in the beginning… to impress! You, on the other hand, are supposed to lick all the time…

She can sometimes suck again punctually, eg. for your birthday!

2/ The good surprise

It is the one who does not suck at the beginning of the relationship, she is discreet. Then she begins to show you her naughty side, over time.

These girls try to make you faithful, they believe that the dangling of blowjob is everything, it’s her reward for you.

But if you’re not a good lover, you, they may never suck you and not even continue to be your girlfriend… and you could find it normal. It has become a privilege in your eyes.

3/ The regular

It is the one who sucks from the beginning to the end of the relationship. She gives back, no dirty trick!

Carpe Diem !

The problem is that she gives you good habits and if one day she is too tired and too eager and what to do the starfish: you will be very disappointed!

4/ Those who do not suck you, dirty boy

There are of course those who do not suck (never). But it does not count as a sucking category, by definition.

Often because it disgusts them (yuck), because they don’t trust their sucking skills (shame) or because it does not fit with the image of “good girl” they try to give you (social pressure).

Then, there’s also those who suck any guy at a party … but not a guy with who she wants a serious relationship! Bouh, what a trap! Her purpose is that the boyfriend does not see her as a “slut”, it’s always the same. If you are used to serious relationships and that you only fall on chicks like that, you’re not lucky!

Fortunately there’s those who do not suck any dude but who only suck when they are in a relationship (cf. 2) but hey sometimes when I lick one of them in a so good way, they suck me anyway ! You give so much that they feel compelled to give more, to stay in the competition. You take control of her sexuality, this way…

We should be able to create lots of other categories : those who suck by you shaking at the same time or not, those who only suck with the lips or those who rub you the glans with the tongue too, those with a small mouth so their teeth scrape against your glans and those who are pure mouths made for blowjob it is really comfortable. Those who swallow or not, those who suck at the beginning of the report or at the end, those who suck with the condom or without, those who lick your balls, those who put a finger in your ass, those who suck on her knees or lied down on the bed…

Finally here, I just wanted to have fun writing this little article like an asshole. I let off steam because I broke a tooth! The next one will be more serious!

And you, which one is your favorite sucker? And it is forbidden to answer “your mother”!

# 1 The too fat ass

With this, if you are able to get hard, you’re a boss. It can be a challenge to take it doggy style.

# 2 The big ass

I know that there are guys who like fat chicks like that. Destroying an ass a little fat and soft, it can be enjoyable. And especially to make it turn red by hitting and spanking on it.

# 3 The nice but fat ass

Here starts the real competition of the ass. The girl is wide but somewhat muscular. The nice fat ass must often be accompanied by a pretty face and cute boobs otherwise it ruins everything.

Also available in blonde. Even better if it belongs to your boss who piss you off all day long.

# 4 Ass looking like a heart

It is the ass of love: round and massive. It is not for the small pink cocks of skinny metrosexuals! And if the girl gets quilts, you can even use it as convenient handles for doggy style. Well dimpled, if you take a run-up, you can jump on it like on a trampoline.

# 5 The anorexic ass

Unlike previous ass, the ass here pale, scrawny and tasteless. Advised to repressed pedophile who love children and so the girls without forms. Built by these fags who dictate women’s fashion in Paris and then go get fucked in gay bars. Precautions: be careful to do not penetrate the bones of her hips in your lower abdomen, it hurts. Also be careful to don’t break her legs.

# 6 The flat ass

Flat yes, but can be successful like a joke by Norman. Indeed, an ass like that can be as good as a horny porn with Clara. Especially if you love fucking asians who have never seen a big dick in their lives. Hoping to be able to get it without hurting her too much.

Also available in French model to please Montebourg. Even better if it’s a bit tanned and wearing a smock.

# 7 The Eastern bitch’s ass

A perfectly proportioned and horny ass. Easy access to Western men when traveling in the countries of the east. I’ve not seen anything so excitant since my last orgy with DSK in a luxury hotel. In addition, they were not very expensive (€ 50 per doggy style).

# 8 South American’s ass

It loves to stir on Brazilian music. Warm, welcoming and breast, perfect for unresolved Oedipus complex. It allows to start a family with confidence. And after bearing children, you can even enjoy an effect “melancholy ass” due to excessive stretch marks and cellulite. By cons, you must love brunettes and hair.

# 9 The black ass

It was designed for big black cocks and is known to be one of the finest asses in the world. Global benchmark, to be tested at least once in your life! It is not too hard: the carriers of these ridges seems to be hypersexual. Even more exciting if they are dressed as maids to please the macho (it also works with the Eastern girl).

# 10 The little well-rounded butt

The sports ass. Great as it is young and goes to the gym. Generally it ages badly (it breaks the myth) so it is interesting to renew your girlfriend regularly.

Bonus: the perfect ass

So there is a bit of a personal choice. That ass never pooped, just like Megan Fox. Just designed for sex.

Thanks to Topito for allowing me to make this ranking ass (I had a lot of fun) because otherwise it would not really have had a place on my blog. Unfortunately, at the time of publishing they thus backtracked so I publish it here.

And you, which ass do you like the most ?

Orgasm @ 7:30 😉

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I can’t wait to read the comments of all the tight-ass people.

Many men are, like Barney, in search of Threeway Belt (belt awarded to the king of the threesome). But in practice, very few men have already made it or will make it one day. This article aims at making this statistics rise.

There are, according to me, 6 scenarios which can lead you to the 3some (or 4some, let’s be crazy, it is the same principle):

With a girl you know, you meet another woman.

A minimum level of trust between both of you is needed (or she totally doesn’t give a damn about you) because she can be afraid that you prefer sleeping with the other one. Jealousy should not have its place in this kind of relation, but it’s always a little bit here, especially with the beginners.

You can go hunting in a bar or on the Internet, so you can choose together and agree on your target.

That’s what happened to me in this adventure.

You meet two women independently and you bring them together for a threesome.

I advise you to have already slept with both girls separately before doing that (otherwise the novelty would make you invest more in the new one and the other one would be disappointed). Try to test the ground to see if they are bisexual or heterosexual-curious. Try to test the ground also to see if they have already made some plans with more than two persons and what they think of it. Roughly, try to see if they are opened to this kind of thing. And if not? Certain blockings are just unfounded fears and you could convince them to have a change of mind. Then (or before, to bring the subject), you can show to each girl some photos of the other one.

That’s what I did in this adventure.

If they are both opened, the less tight-ass could become your accomplice to corrupt the other one. Another strategy is to make the more tight-ass come at your home and to start by warming her then you invite the accomplice to join you one hour later when you are hot. To put her well in the mood, you can begin by licking the pussy of the girl who is really shy. So presented a fait accompli, she will have less time to be anxious and your success rate will increase. In a general way, do not too much let them think because when we think too much in this kind of situation, we do panic!On the other hand, they will be satisfied to have made the effort to go out of their comfort zone when it will be over. They will maybe even thank you! Some people think that the fantasies are not made to be realized, but it is stupid, I think, it is just the fear and the politically correct which is speaking there! Pay attention also on those who rationalize the next day and who are mad at you for making it happen but who are happy in fact (they just do not assume). Finally, another trap here: uncomfortable people can make awkward remarks or moves in this kind of moment and that can ruin everything. Thus, in the doubt, brief them and tell them to shut up.

With the same logic, you can make 4somes too, like in this story.

You meet two women who are friends and it turns into a threesome.

It is the most difficult. That happens most of the time with girls who like partying or with partner-swappers. Very rarely, the women agree on fucking a guy together, because of their respective inhibitions and of their fear of comparison. But they often speak about it “for fun”, don’t be naive, then it’s up to you to make it happen. One of the fears that I meet most of the time in this kind of situation, it is the fear of spoiling her friendship with the other girl. Many people would prefer to make it with an unknown. Why not?

You were ready to finish the night with a girl, then you pick up another one in fact.

The first one you have picked up has to be an adventuress, at ease with herself and open to girls. By a fortunate coincidence, they also have to be both depilated tonight… 😉

You have to learn how feel the possibilities so you can seize them when they present. You have to dare to ask the girls if they have already made with a girl and if they would be interested. This subject does not have to put you uncomfortable, many guys are afraid of it, but this is counterproductive. Open your range of possibilities!

If it happens, it will certainly be your responsibility to manage the logistics, to organize and to orchestrate the thing. You can suggest them having a drink at your home (the oldest excuse of the world) as a pretext to make the evening turn into what you expect. You can also propose a alcohol game or a game like a strip-poker. Note that the nights like strip-game-with-cards with just a little bit of alcohol so that they disinhibit and assume more easily to make what they really want to make at the bottom of them led me far: a plan with 6 persons with a 50% ratio M/W (not yet published on the blog this adventure)! There even was a couple which was skeptical at the beginning but which finally joined us into the bedroom. The games “truth or dare” or the massages can also make an evening go wild on the condition of daring, assuming and showing the example.

You have to create a funny vibe and not be in the judgment. They shouldn’t feel dirty, feel like whores neither garbage nor thinking for a single second you do not respect them. The most feverish can spoil everything, thus take particularly care of her. And do not forget condoms!

A girl tries to pick up another girl for you or proposes you a 3some with one of her friends.

Some people like making things themselves. Do not we say that you are never served as well as by yourself? They will go in the front line to approach girls to make a 3some and that will be much easier because a girl is less thought of as a sex-starved than a man. Watch out, your interlocutors have to take you seriously.

This is obviously the most comfortable for a man but that will happen only if you succeed in making your friends turn in mode inhibitions-free.

That also happens when you are in couple with a girl who wants to pepper things or who wants to prove things to herself. It’s up to you to see if you are ready to give it a try because you can lose her by clumsiness (sensitive ground)… indeed, how would you feel if your girl wanted to make a threesome with another guy?

You can join a group of partner-swappers.

Many are those who like that, whether it is in a regular way or occasionally. They meet on the Internet, in special clubs or in private parties.

If you want to become a partner-swappers you have to learn a little their philosophy of life and especially the respect (the hygiene too). But anyway, if you want to become a PUA, it is the same thing.

You must also and above all have something to offer. Even if you are very cute or if you are the king of the pussy licking, that is not enough: thus it is necessary for you to bring a women. One or several bisexual girls and you are king of the night. It is sad but it is like in clubs… they have more sexual value than us… boo boo. “Fucking country!” As Zlatan would say.

In any situation, the thing it is to recognize the possibility of making a threesome a long time before to be able to make germinate seeds in their head to develop subtly things in the right direction. Especially, do not be mad at yourself if you are curious to make this kind of experience (a lot of people will want to make you make feel guilty) but do not forget that those who have a little power like DSK have a lot of fun making orgies, it is for a good reason! It is fun, that’s it… maybe the Cro-Magnon man made some orgies in his cave with his buddies.

The threesomes, it is not only WWM, that also can be MMW.

It can be a fantasy for girls to have sex with two guys at the same time. You can use this to bang you girls who would not have slept with “just” you (the power of the fantasy of having two guys for herself). You can exchange as well sex friends with buddies but pay attention because sex can make things complicated with him after (jealousy and all this). It can change a relationship.

That’s what we did in this adventure and this one with my wingman.

The morality : be open-minded and the women around you will easily dare to be more open-minded.

Good luck in your quest for the Holy Grail!