Many men are, like Barney, in search of Threeway Belt (belt awarded to the king of the threesome). But in practice, very few men have already made it or will make it one day. This article aims at making this statistics rise.
There are, according to me, 6 scenarios which can lead you to the 3some (or 4some, let’s be crazy, it is the same principle):
With a girl you know, you meet another woman.
A minimum level of trust between both of you is needed (or she totally doesn’t give a damn about you) because she can be afraid that you prefer sleeping with the other one. Jealousy should not have its place in this kind of relation, but it’s always a little bit here, especially with the beginners.
You can go hunting in a bar or on the Internet, so you can choose together and agree on your target.
That’s what happened to me in this adventure.
You meet two women independently and you bring them together for a threesome.
I advise you to have already slept with both girls separately before doing that (otherwise the novelty would make you invest more in the new one and the other one would be disappointed). Try to test the ground to see if they are bisexual or heterosexual-curious. Try to test the ground also to see if they have already made some plans with more than two persons and what they think of it. Roughly, try to see if they are opened to this kind of thing. And if not? Certain blockings are just unfounded fears and you could convince them to have a change of mind. Then (or before, to bring the subject), you can show to each girl some photos of the other one.
That’s what I did in this adventure.
If they are both opened, the less tight-ass could become your accomplice to corrupt the other one. Another strategy is to make the more tight-ass come at your home and to start by warming her then you invite the accomplice to join you one hour later when you are hot. To put her well in the mood, you can begin by licking the pussy of the girl who is really shy. So presented a fait accompli, she will have less time to be anxious and your success rate will increase. In a general way, do not too much let them think because when we think too much in this kind of situation, we do panic!On the other hand, they will be satisfied to have made the effort to go out of their comfort zone when it will be over. They will maybe even thank you! Some people think that the fantasies are not made to be realized, but it is stupid, I think, it is just the fear and the politically correct which is speaking there! Pay attention also on those who rationalize the next day and who are mad at you for making it happen but who are happy in fact (they just do not assume). Finally, another trap here: uncomfortable people can make awkward remarks or moves in this kind of moment and that can ruin everything. Thus, in the doubt, brief them and tell them to shut up.
With the same logic, you can make 4somes too, like in this story.
You meet two women who are friends and it turns into a threesome.
It is the most difficult. That happens most of the time with girls who like partying or with partner-swappers. Very rarely, the women agree on fucking a guy together, because of their respective inhibitions and of their fear of comparison. But they often speak about it “for fun”, don’t be naive, then it’s up to you to make it happen. One of the fears that I meet most of the time in this kind of situation, it is the fear of spoiling her friendship with the other girl. Many people would prefer to make it with an unknown. Why not?
You were ready to finish the night with a girl, then you pick up another one in fact.
The first one you have picked up has to be an adventuress, at ease with herself and open to girls. By a fortunate coincidence, they also have to be both depilated tonight… 😉
You have to learn how feel the possibilities so you can seize them when they present. You have to dare to ask the girls if they have already made with a girl and if they would be interested. This subject does not have to put you uncomfortable, many guys are afraid of it, but this is counterproductive. Open your range of possibilities!
If it happens, it will certainly be your responsibility to manage the logistics, to organize and to orchestrate the thing. You can suggest them having a drink at your home (the oldest excuse of the world) as a pretext to make the evening turn into what you expect. You can also propose a alcohol game or a game like a strip-poker. Note that the nights like strip-game-with-cards with just a little bit of alcohol so that they disinhibit and assume more easily to make what they really want to make at the bottom of them led me far: a plan with 6 persons with a 50% ratio M/W (not yet published on the blog this adventure)! There even was a couple which was skeptical at the beginning but which finally joined us into the bedroom. The games “truth or dare” or the massages can also make an evening go wild on the condition of daring, assuming and showing the example.
You have to create a funny vibe and not be in the judgment. They shouldn’t feel dirty, feel like whores neither garbage nor thinking for a single second you do not respect them. The most feverish can spoil everything, thus take particularly care of her. And do not forget condoms!
A girl tries to pick up another girl for you or proposes you a 3some with one of her friends.
Some people like making things themselves. Do not we say that you are never served as well as by yourself? They will go in the front line to approach girls to make a 3some and that will be much easier because a girl is less thought of as a sex-starved than a man. Watch out, your interlocutors have to take you seriously.
This is obviously the most comfortable for a man but that will happen only if you succeed in making your friends turn in mode inhibitions-free.
That also happens when you are in couple with a girl who wants to pepper things or who wants to prove things to herself. It’s up to you to see if you are ready to give it a try because you can lose her by clumsiness (sensitive ground)… indeed, how would you feel if your girl wanted to make a threesome with another guy?
You can join a group of partner-swappers.
Many are those who like that, whether it is in a regular way or occasionally. They meet on the Internet, in special clubs or in private parties.
If you want to become a partner-swappers you have to learn a little their philosophy of life and especially the respect (the hygiene too). But anyway, if you want to become a PUA, it is the same thing.
You must also and above all have something to offer. Even if you are very cute or if you are the king of the pussy licking, that is not enough: thus it is necessary for you to bring a women. One or several bisexual girls and you are king of the night. It is sad but it is like in clubs… they have more sexual value than us… boo boo. “Fucking country!” As Zlatan would say.
In any situation, the thing it is to recognize the possibility of making a threesome a long time before to be able to make germinate seeds in their head to develop subtly things in the right direction. Especially, do not be mad at yourself if you are curious to make this kind of experience (a lot of people will want to make you make feel guilty) but do not forget that those who have a little power like DSK have a lot of fun making orgies, it is for a good reason! It is fun, that’s it… maybe the Cro-Magnon man made some orgies in his cave with his buddies.
The threesomes, it is not only WWM, that also can be MMW.
It can be a fantasy for girls to have sex with two guys at the same time. You can use this to bang you girls who would not have slept with “just” you (the power of the fantasy of having two guys for herself). You can exchange as well sex friends with buddies but pay attention because sex can make things complicated with him after (jealousy and all this). It can change a relationship.
That’s what we did in this adventure and this one with my wingman.
The morality : be open-minded and the women around you will easily dare to be more open-minded.
Good luck in your quest for the Holy Grail!