Author: Fabrice Julien PUA

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Recognizing an easy girl: 10 tricks

Recognizing an easy girl

In this article, I explain how to know if a girl is easy or not. The goal is obviously to invest neither your time nor your energy for women who would make you lose both.

Indeed, if you need 10 dates with a girl (and paying) to sleep with her… know that you could have fucked two or three “less difficult” others during this time (and for cheaper). Moreover, the babes who play it hard to get before sex generally do not offer good sex and the continuation of the relationship is complicated (it must be suspected because when it starts complicated, everything can be complicated…)

In short, there are some commonalities for girls who sleep quickly… and even if it is not an exact science (because women may be easier at certain times in their lives than others) I will share my experience with you.

How to spot a good leg, an easy girl, an open girl who wants both to have fun and a good time?

1/ She is single or has a guy but feels helpless. Basically, she does not tell you about her boyfriend from the outset…

2/ She is accustomed to making encounters, does not look wild when approached, is comfortable when you talk about sex. She has nothing against sex for sex: that, you will notice by testing her reactions to your fast sexualization (but be gentleman)… how does she react when you make innuendos or give her the opportunity to talk about sex ? I strongly encourage you to test her relation to sex and get away from those for whom it is problematic.

3/ She does not want to look for a serious relationship for now or comes out of a long romantic relationship that has led to nothing concrete: she feels that she has lost her time and hopes to catch up lost time by making new experiences. She thought a little and stopped believing in fairy tales like a 15-year-old girl.

4/ She does not stay long in your city (either she is a tourist, she is on internship, or she will soon leave for a long trip in Australia, etc.)

5/ You must stop to believe that the girls who dress sexy are sluts and that the others are not fucked. In fact, the woman’s dress does not reveal much about her sexuality… but, on the other hand, I noticed that naughty girls tend to be very careful about the maintenance of their pubic hair.

6/ Attention to the body language of the chick. In general, a woman’s eye  contact can betray her excitement or her desire for sex. Attention, if she is very tactile, it does not mean much in itself because there are many kino girls. But if she is tactile in addition to looking at you with envy or to tell you that she wants to have fun, there, it should raise your suspicions…

How to recognize a girl you should avoid?                

7/ In general, avoid those who talk too much about sex, who boast, etc. Often, they will get cold feet at the last moment because they will be afraid of not being up to what they said. Except for real libertines.

8/ The lack of experience of the girl can be offset by a strong desire to get out of her comfort zone. But if the chick is afraid and does not wish to make efforts, it is necessary to be wary. If the chick does not seem to have strength of character or determination, be aware that she may not change and remain that who she has always been, the one that has not too much experience of encounters with unknown, who has no real sexual experience, etc. This kind of girl is generally recognized by the brakes she put to your advances “we will meet up in 15 days after my exams” or “I never do anything at the first date (shitty principles)… I just have an hour to spend with you tonight for a drink in a bar (LOL)”.

9/ Stay away from those who hope to find the prince charming, who seek at all costs a “serious” relationship (I prefer a funny relationship) or who verbalize that they do not want to sleep quickly. You probably can not fuck them unless lying to them (but it’s not ethical). Also avoid those who are suspicious of seducers, who say they are afraid to “make a mistake”, who believe their pussy has exceptional value, and so on. The worst, I think it is those who say that it is useless to make love without having feelings (ah, love!) These have clearly never been well fucked and are not ready to be satisfied with such a mentality.

10/ I also advise against the bitches who always pretext that they “need more time”. And/or who say that they still think of their ex, who often speak of him, or even who compares you to him.

And you, what are your tricks to recognize an easy girl?

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Videos of sensuality lessons

Videos of sensuality lessonsToday, we are going to watch some scenes of movies and take lessons of sensuality!

1/ The first cult scene that gives us a lesson in sensuality and that I would like you to watch is taken from the movie Ghost :

 

2/ The second scene comes from the famous film Dirty Dancing :

 

3/ Here is a striptease remained legendary, in Nine ½ Weeks :

 

4/ The scene of the piano in Pretty woman has made wet and hard quite a lot of people :

 

5/ In L’auberge espagnole, Romain Duris is entitled to a free lesson of sensuality from Cécile de France :

 

So, I hope that men and women will find their account! I await your observations in the comments…

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Sexto example: 10 examples of good sextos you should send

 

Sexto example

Men and women under 30 love SMS. Many people would like to master the art of turning someone on with messages (it works for your target or your girlfriend). So I here will give you some examples of ready to use sextos !

Definition and origin

According to Wikipedia, “sexting” (also known as “textopornography” or “sextage”) is the act of sending sexually explicit texts or photographs… in French, we call it “sextos”. But, by extension, it can be said that one sends sextos when one warms someone on the dating apps.

The term appeared in 2005 in Australia in an article in The Daily Telegraph (Sunday magazine issue).

Interest

The phone call can sometimes be perceived as intrusive, while the e-mail is something more “professional”. The SMS, meanwhile, is a perfect compromise to discreetly excite a person.

Kinky texting is a good way to create and feed sexual tension. They are very useful: in the past, we used the letters of love… it is in fact an adaptation of a human need (writing is an awesome weapon of seduction) to new technologies.

The objectives of sextos

The goals of a sexto are to talk about your desires, to seduce, to arouse sexual arousal, to play and to strengthen the bond with the other. The point  is to sexualize the conversation and create some intimacy, a sexual complicity, between you two.

Another objective is to make the other person visualize the act. Indeed, know that if you have already slept on the phone with a girl, you will sleep more easily with her in real life.

How to write and send good sextos

It’s not always easy to send a good sexto. What to start with ? How do we know if we’re going too hard, too dirty? I will now give you tips to put all the odds on your side. Nevertheless, you must keep in mind that, this kind of thing, it happens or breaks (fortunately it happens more often than it breaks)…

Avoid nevertheless sending photos of your cock (let a certain mystery and frustrate a little bit the other one). But if you decide to do it anyway, make sure one cannot see your face and your cock on the same picture.

First, let it go, forget your inhibitions, feel the ground, be bold and go further and further. Do not send anything to a girl you hardly know… go ahead and see how she answers. Depending on her open-mindedness and responsiveness to your advances, you need to move a gear or take a little more time. Above all, avoid being too vulgar before knowing if she likes it: some prefer erotic sextos while others adore when it is downright pornographic… here is a perfect opportunity to disinhibit and test your sexual compatibility with the other!

Timing is also very important: try sending your messages at times when both of you are available to answer quickly. In fact, it is often necessary to “sextotate”, that is to say sending a series of sextos, to achieve a good degree of excitement.

Then, keep in mind that there is a huge difference between “writing sextos” and “sending sweet words”. I do not advise you to play it mushy (the goal is to turn her on) nor to be too salacious too fast (you don’t want to scare her). Nevertheless, you must be believed, sincere, frank, direct, etc. In short, do not try to make complicated innuendo… be explicit!

Finally, remember that even if the goal is to be direct and confident, you must always consider the desires, fantasies and preferences of your partner. It is useless to try to excite her by telling her that you would like to sodomize her on the coffee table of her living room if she does not like anal…

Examples of sextos

“I want you. Do you know what I would do if you were next to me?”

“I imagine your caresses and your tongue on my body… I  am becoming very hard.”

“I’ll take my shower, wanna come?”

“I’m very hungry, I could devour you entirely.”

“Think of something kinky and I’ll do it to you tonight. You have my word.”

“What color are your underwear?”

 “I want to put a good spanking on you. You excite me.”

“I’m naked in my bed… thinking about you and it makes me feel good.”

“Did you know I love to massage?”

“Do you remember when I licked you up to orgasm the other night?”

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What you should talk about to a girl

What you should talk about to a girl

What you should talk about to a girlWhat you should talk about to a girl…

Good topics :

They love subjects that relate to gender relations. If so many women look at The Young And The Restless, it’s for a reason.

Women also love subjects that concern mystery, magic, witchcraft, and so on.

Topics about fashion, clothing, perfumes… are also quite effective with women!

Topics to avoid :

Politics is a delicate subject in which everyone seeks to defend his point of view. Keep this topic aside to discuss it with your parents’ friends on Sunday afternoon.

Religion is a subject that does not create a link, it is a subject that is likely to lead you constantly to dead ends and does not bring anything in seduction.

Avoid at all costs talking about the exs (yours or hers), it is a subject that she normally reserves for her friends or her best friend. If she starts talking about her exs, cut off the conversation and show her signs of disinterest.

Never talk about your problems with girls. Talking about your problems with girls will devalue you and diminish your attraction capital… As a future PUA, you are supposed to have no problems with girls!

Avoid this kind of phrases: « it’s cool here don’t you find? ; Are okay ? ; How long have you been here? ; There’s a lot of people, huh? » This type of lambda phrases reflects a lack of confidence, as if you felt compelled to fill the silence so your target doesn’t escape.

Extract from “The basics of  seduction“…

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What can you say to a girl ?

What can you say to a girl

What can you say to a girl (or a woman) ?

What is interesting about a conversation with you is not the subject in itself but the way you approach it, the way you treat it. This is called originality. Paradoxically, to be original, start by being yourself. That is to say, talk about the things you like without headache. It is in the expression of your passions and interests that will emerge your natural freshness.

You’re not there to interview her so avoid all the questions like, « What are you doing in life? Where do you study ? Do you come here often ? Etc. » This is the kind of boring questions whose answer does not bring anything because basically you do not give a fuck. Moreover, all the men who have been here before you have surely asked her exactly the same questions. Instead of these unnecessary and boring questions, ask her questions that stimulate her imagination and make it possible to set up a kind of challenge.

To make her speak, imagine that each new encounter must give rise to a little story. The woman to whom you speak must always tell you her own. “Who ? When? What? Where ? How?”

You too have yours to tell. But you will have to listen to her story if you want to be listened to. Especially since her story will condition yours: one answers often to an anecdote by another one of the same type.

The next time you talk with someone, a colleague, a friend or a girl you meet, do not think about what you want to say, but focus on what he or she has say. Try and you’ll see that it will be fine!

Basic rules:

– Do not swear like a wagoner. In any case not, not before well knowing her;

– Be self-mocking about your body fat. It will make her laugh;

– Do not spend your time comparing her to your ex (or worse to your mother);

– Do not talk about yourself in the third person, except for humor;

– Do not put yourself at the center of all subjects as if everything was related to you;

– Show yourself interested when the woman speaks, offer her your active listening.

In your narratives and descriptions, always add emotion and sensory elements: describe what you see, feel, hear, etc. Never say anything to try to impress. Do not boast about your job, your money, your knowledge, your exs (!) or any other qualities (example: “I am a very protective man, I am super attentive and faithful, etc.”).

On the other hand, try to demonstrate your value via stories, storytelling. Tell an anecdote about yourself, which implies that you possess such and such quality, but remain implicit. If she feels that you are trying to impress her, your value will diminish in her eyes.

Always be cool, playful and fun. Seduction is a game, not something really important. The ideal of a conversation would be to mix up humor, teases and questions about something she likes. Bad taste is not necessarily to be proscribed, it is necessary to establish communication with the animal that is in both of you.

One of the best ways to seduce a woman is to talk like her. But the expression “speaking like her” does not mean adopting her facial mimics, nervous laughter, or shrill voice. Because I want to preserve your manhood, I propose a much less dangerous exercise. During your appointment, you will discuss many topics, but before giving your opinion on some of them, wait until she expresses herself and then resume her opinion on your account. This is a great way for a woman to feel understood. And who says woman understood, says woman conquered. A “I understand you so much” or a “I totally agree” would obviously not do the job : it is necessary to paraphrase.

Of course, it is not a question of stifling your personality, nor of silencing your opinions and of acquiescing to all that the lady says in front of you. “Talking like her” is a technique to use from time to time in conversation to create a real connection between you two.

When you wait a little before re-starting a subject and rephrase yherour words with your words, the woman in front of you will generally not understand that you are repeating her ideas solely in order to seduce her. She will even come to believe most of the time that she has found the rare pearl: a man who thinks like her and understands her…

Extract from “The basics of  seduction“…

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Let’s escape the friendzone !

friendzone

I – How to get out of the friendzone ?

 

Let's escape the friendzone !

There are many alarmist articles on the Internet that will tell you that it is impossible to get out of the friendzone. Others will tell you that the friendzone is an illusion. Because in fact everything is always possible. Sometimes not right away. Sometimes, of course, not at all.

Diagnosis:

Are you, in her eyes, a non-lover? If your lovely lady is asking you to serve her, confides in you, is consoled by you, asking you to carry her bags when you go shopping it’s that she sees you as her boyfriend… but WITHOUT the sexual side. I’m not saying that there is no unconsciously romantic aspect to all this, but it’s still completely platonic. It can last a century without ever moving on.

No doubt you have never let her the time nor the opportunity to consider you as a straight man, endowed with libido and potentially interested.

Do not blam her (note that a person feeling guilty would probably send you to Hell, even if that person is wrong – it’s easier). No tears or hangdog look (you’d spoil all your future chances by being pathetic). Do not try to rationally convince her that you’re what’s best for her.

Tell her something like:

“I need to talk to you five minutes, just the two of us… I enjoy our friendship but I want more. I did not premeditated but I like you, I have feelings for you…
– Ah … I do not know what to say. I love you much, but as a friend. I am sorry.
– I understand, I do not blame you. I just had to tell you.”

The goal is not she fucks with you after confession. On the contrary, following this revelation, it is very likely that you will take distance from each other for a while. The aim is to cause her a first awareness: YOU’re not her asexual friend but a potential lover.

Warning: if she reacts badly, gives you unhealthy intentions, projetcs all her paranoia on you… if as soon as you speak to her of love, she accuses you of being a pig, a silly person, a weirdo… flee ! A girl who would react like that suffers from too much trauma to live a healthy romantic relationship.

Get out of her life:

You have every reason not to show yourself for a while. Let her digest the information. “This is a guy who can feel desire in my presence? That’s crazy !” On your side, you’ll reinvent yourself.

Take time to see your friends, your family, to do sports, to go out with other girls, etc. Invest yourself really in the game and you’ll metamorphose!

Have fun. To do not think of her, occupy your mind with lots of positive things, making plans. This phase can last a long while so, have a life, socialize and do not fuck up 6 long months for one single person who does not even want you.

The comeback:

When you’re a new man, continue to be nice to her, but nothing more. Everything in your attitude should suggest that you have turned the page and you see other girls. But do not verbalize it.

Stay mysterious, do not hesitate to say nonchalantly, “I gotta go, I’m in a rush, Lea’s waiting for me. Kisses, see you soon “. Then say a kindly “take care of yourself,” accompanied by a quick kiss on the cheek. If she asks you who is Lea, use a shitty excuse of pressed guy through which your target will imagine what you want her to imagine : “She’s a friend!”

With your target, NO date or anything looking like it in any way. The romantic dinners are over (keep it for when you’ll really be together as a couple), no long walks in the park, no hugs… and invite her when your friends are present.

Your hangs out must be shorter but more exciting, choose a party in a bar full of people over a  head-to-head cinema with her. Subtly flirt with other girls under her nose (do not overdo it). Also flirt a tad with her, but let her know that it’s just politeness: “It suits you well, this haircut,” then go back to your conversation with Natacha. Or, come to her party with a pretty friend. The game will be subtle, I never repeat enough, the goal is to make her curious. “And if I was wrong to do not believe in him, to reject him?”

Dress up better :

Take care of your look so you appear less stupid.

Wear a sexy fragrance:

Have you come, gentlemen, for being hypnotized by a feminine scent that evokes the door open to all pleasures? Well for women, it’s the same. Smell is near the center of emotions (think of Proust’s madeleine). Many women admit that if a bad smell can kill any desire in them, a good toilet water evocative of softness and masculinity can work wonders. A friend told me that, in the subway, she sometimes felt guys who had the same perfume as me and that it reminded her of our sex sessions.

Here is a sentence for sexualizing about perfume, “You should stop using this perfume on you. It’s very sexy, and I’m afraid one day I’ll jump on you…”

Control your body language:

If your nervousness in front of the elected of your heart stirred you in every way… Learn to control your emotions and to adopt a more composed and affirmed body language.

Do not hesitate to talk about sex:

Of course, do not go into the details. But there is no question that you are thought of as a monk. If one day in a conversation, one of your friends made a comment about a practice, be worldly enough to don’t look surprised or close-minded. Do not look embarrassed : usually, it won’t be about revealing intimate details of your relationships or your partners.

Be touchy :

This is certainly not about groping her nor taking her hand like a little boy who found his mom after school. When you talk to her, touch her elbow or forearm briefly to emphasize a part of the conversation. Above all, do not pay attention to the fact that you touch… obviously if you sweat profusely, she will lose respect for you. Be serene, you are now a touch-type with women.

It is from this touch, which will increase according to her responsiveness, she will realize your potential. This may take time, but not too much. If the girl is absolutely not receptive, GIVE UP! If she touches you back, if her touch is more intimate, more erotic it means that you are on the good way. Gradually, an occasion of kissing her should appear. Do not miss this opportunity and score ! 😉

If you are young, shy and have never had the opportunity to analyze what happens when a woman wants to kiss : know that it is about a series of microscopic details that stuck together, form a puzzle about the size of an elephant in a china shop. Observe: she sits next to you or is approaching, lets you touch her or touches you, she throws you small eyes, lets you take her hand or takes your hand, she looks at you in the eyes but also toward your lips…

Yes, but why wouldn’t it be up to her to take action? It is a fair consideration. The answer: It IS THE WAY IT IS. So, courage!

If she refuses to kiss, well, too bad. You have already done too much, get up, take your leave. No hard feelings, but you must move on.

If you are successful, congratulations.

 

II – The friendzone with your ex

You want to get your ex back, the one who has firmly stowed you in her Friendzone? If you want my opinion, this is a bad idea, but…

First, you need to understand, at a moment in her life, she obviously liked you if she was in a relationship with you. It’s already a big advantage you have over the lambda friendzoned. She was (and potentially still is) attracted to you. Then the relationship ended (and it’s more what you should dig: why?) If your friendship is working and that your relationship went wrong, it is a shame: you need to find out what has sealed your relationship and destroy the thoughts that keep her away from you.

You have probably opted for the “friendship” in order to stay close to her… but deep within yourself, it’s a new relationship together you want if you crave this chapter.

Your strategy will not be much different than the normal friendzoned. You will avoid being too sticky, to be at her service, to comfort her too much. You will show you changed, you’re now more attractive, more coveted…

If that’s not enough, know when to give up. All vessels are not made to be glued. That does not necessarily mean that you are not good enough for her. Or that she is not good enough for you. It just means that together, it doesn’t work.

Cry a little bit if you want but realize that if you really are a winner, you have to get back in the saddle. If you’re in the hole, a personal development process can only make you feel better!

Stop spending time and energy for a girl who clearly doesn’t want you. Respect yourself! Isn’t it in fact an excuse for not having to go on the field and approach girls ? Come out of your comfort zone! It will change your mind…

 

III – Wanna go further ?

Feel free to check my ebook “Friendzone & Sexualization” ! 😉

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The first date with a girl (or a woman)

get ready rendez vous

I – How to get ready for a date ?

 

How to seduce during a date

Today we will see how to effectively getting ready for a rendez-vous, without overdoing it! I’ll tell you how I do, because it works most of the time. There are three aspects to the preparation: physical, mental and material!

Physically

– Mowing the beard (or shave it). Seriously, it is useless to take care of your beard for an hour, especially if it’s in order to look like a guy who does not care for his beard.

– Then: mowing pubic hair if they are too long. A tip: do it above your toilets.

– Cut your nails and remove any black dirt encrusted below, it’s important if you want to finger her in an hygienic way. Seriously, otherwise, a shame and does not make women want to see the rest (your sausage).

– It’s time to take a shower especially if you have transpired during the day, before the date.

– Wash your hair if necessary, if they are oily. Wash your teeth so you won’t stink.

– Wear a classy shirt or t-shit/polo, it’s not worth suiting up. It can be a ground to reject you, not sticking to the image that was given to the girl: if one plays the cool guy, do not come dressed up like a penguin. You have to value yourself but remain comfortable in your clothes. Avoid clothes that have the scriptures or big logos, especially in your back. And dirty underwear.

– I prefer eans unless I come directly from work (case of emergency) and I am wearing a suit, but in this case, I explain…

– It’s not worth testing 4 outfits especially if it is to finally go back to the first. This is the stress that you would make you do that… but, stress is your enemy in seduction. Be careful in choosing shoes (check that they are in good condition and not grimey) and belt. Never wear white socks with dark shoes.

– Then your hair: Again, like with the beard, do not spend three hours in front of the glass like a narcissist.

– Sprinkle A LITTLE perfume.

– No need to spend an hour in front of the mirror waring makeup if you are not a chick. See if you have no boogers, hair protruding from the nose and ears or your fly open…

– No need to do pushups in order to look muscular.

– No need to prepare 2 hours before the date, even if she has to wait 5 minutes, it’s not a problem. It’s happened to me to get completely drunk to a date in my youth and I fucked the girl so since I relativize. The purpose of a first date is not to be perfect but to have a good attitude, to be relaxed and to communicate it.

Mentally

It is not worth repeating 150 times your openers in front of a mirror. It will not change your inner game, anyway. Do not internally replay the possible scenarios, especially if it is to imagine the worst!

It is not worth preparing a list of conversation topics to get into. You can quickly check her interests on her Facebook profile if it reassures you but remember that the goal is to make her speak of her and of what she likes. So finally you’ll just have to get comfortable, to tease her a little and show your interest. But, if she notices that you have stalked her, it will not be good…

You must go for a result at least a kiss on the mouth, in the best case a fuck. This winner mindset will make you sexualizing a little bit the conversation instead of staying in your abstinent comfort zone. If you really think it would not work, do not attempt the kiss. But make sure it’s not an excuse that you imagined on the moment (and will regret later) to reassure you by saying that if you try to kiss her, you would frighten her and not see her again. Do not be silly, chicks know very well why they accept a date. Only stupids and hypocrites say otherwise. This requires that your friend understands that this is a date and not an appointment to become best friends… never agree to go into that kind of frame! The forced Friendzone does not exist for sexual men! Besides, a guy who does not dare to take initiatives rarely see chicks again!

Materially

If she comes to your place directly or if you plan to take her home:

– Remove the paper towel from beside the bed. Do you love masturbation so much ?

– Prepare the bed (at least pull the sheet)

– Remove the affairs of another girl that could still be in your bed

– Do not leave too icky stuff lying around, do not let a mountain of dishes (at worst even if she ultimately does not come, it will be done)

– Always have something to drink at home. And a card game or another trick to get comfortable, if necessary

– Take two or three condoms in the back pocket of your trousers or then place them under the bed but do not let them prominently on the bedside table, in mode “YOU SEE, I KNEW THAT I WAS GOING TO SCREW YOU AHAHAH”

– Do not bring a bouquet of flowers

– Have some cash, but do not pay for everything or then say “you will pay the next time/next glass”

– Regarding the choice of the place, if you go to a neutral place before going home: avoid the restaurant, cinema, and these clichés stuff. I know you read a lot on the Internet that it is better to go to a place where you know many people because of social proof… but I prefer avoiding it, to do not be constantly interrupted and to be able to focus on my target. When I have to date a girl outside, I often choose places I know with a friendly atmosphere, pretty quiet places.

Good luck !

 

II – How to seduce during a date?

 

get ready date

The date is a stage of seduction which consists of meeting up in a neutral place. Sure it’s better to know someone before taking him home, but hey, on the other hand, you are as likely to be attacked by someone you know than by someone who basically do not give a shit about you (statistics).

You can watch my video about how to get ready for a date here.

Installation

On your way to get to a date, try to think of something else to avoid stress. Once there, if you do not see the girl, call her. It is more suitable than texting in such moments!

When you say hello to her, put your hand on her shoulder, to make it a bit sensual. The gesture must be confident but not pressing or you take the risk of making yourself look like a weird guy. You can even try to guide her to go somewhere by putting your hand on her down back (not all the time but briefly).

I think it’s better to sit in front of each other than side by side: experience shows it works I better. Probably because it allows for a good eye contacts.

If there is a seat, be a gentleman and offer her to sit on. If you have a choice, you should prefer to be positioned against the wall. This will limit the her field at the rendezvous, and she will not be disturbed by by the comings and goings of other people behind you. It will help you to create “your bubble.”

Drink : order what you want. But even when I was still drinking alcohol, I did not get drunk during a date. In fact, this is not a good strategy to make her drink until she loses control nor to put some GHB in her drink.

If you make a date at home, ask if you need to bring something. If she comes, plan some wine or another thing like that to drink.

Getting along well

There are positions to be adopted to better succeed, I personally adopt a rather nonchalant body language but not slouching. Of course, do not stare at chicks’ ass all around you during a date.

Check the position of your friend and evaluate the signs of interest she gives. Make some mirroring sometimes if you remember. That is to say: create a subconscious connection by synchronizing your gestures asymmetrically.

Be the same than when you made her dream enough to accept the date. There is nothing worse than the loudmouth that become very shy when in front of a girl.

A date is not a job interview, do not prepare your discussion topics. This is not the time to cover her with compliments, that would make you lose value (needy mode).

It’s true that it’s better to avoid like plague some subjects, like : politics, religion or stances. Generally, I avoid too strong opinions, I do not make a speech in favour of a particular cause or at least I do not speak about it during the meeting, I wait to know her better, it avoids hitting her personal beliefs (and also that she hurts mine – it avoids headaches). About her ex? Sometimes it can be good to talk about him, one told me that he fucked her very badly and everything but it is generally recommended to avoid this subject sometimes too sensitive.

On the other hand, you must sexualize of course. It would be good to make a whole video about it and about how to avoid Friendzone (as well as body language)! Do not be afraid if she talks about sex, assume to get her comfortable with it. But do not talk only about sex either. The idea is just to put it in her mind, if she had not this idea already! You can tease her, about her nervousness due to having a date.

Making her talk about her is paramount. Although sometimes in the beginning you will have to launch her by making the most of the conversation. Knowing how to do that without giving her the impression of answering police questions is a major asset. Ask “and you? ” to turn her questions back to her is effective because chicks often ask about what they are interested in. Common interests are important for a girl.

If you talk to a girl you like about cinema, naturally propose to go watching a movie the next day, for example.

In any case, you must absolutely not let your hormones make you lose your mind and look like a douchebag. Each girl has her definition of a douchebag and her own criteria, that’s what’s hard! But hey, there’s universal things. For example, never say, “well, I’ll poop.”

Orient the conversation towards positive things, not too many factual, rather some emotional.

When you talk, make the distinction between bragging and marketing yourself. Telling your little piece of history or your stories without trying to brag, this is done subtly and not boastfully.

A little small talk, it’s also important to look normal. It’s sad but it’s like that… “But we do not care of what my father does for a living, will we fuck or not ?”

During the visit, it’s easy to make some kinos on her hands. That is to say, for example, asking to see more closely the ring or bracelet and taking this opportunity to fondle nonchalantly and sensually this sensitive area. It can even be a compliance test: will she play the game? How will she react? (For more informations, see my video about the cooperation test).

The end of the date

Should you pay the bill? Yes, why not, but tell her « you will pay next time. » Make it look like that’s not much. But if she insists, let her pay. Remember that in the savannah, the lioness goes hunting for the king of the jungle.

At the end of the date, propose to go home or try to kiss her (not in the bar but rather by leaving) even if you do not feel with this idea… 1% chance of success is better than 0 % and then… even if you never see her again after that, know that you would probably have not see her again anyway, so that’s something taken on life! And no regrets is my policy! And if she does not want, too bad for her! 😉

So it is better that the place of date allows her to come over fairly quickly, just so shet does not cool down on her way to seventh heaven.

You can use the excuse of showing her something you’ve talked about to take her home. Or assume and normally she will understand to what she is commited if she says yes. No smart girl would go alone in the room of a hetero-sexual guy if she wouldn’t want to fuck him.

If you did not fuck after the date, in this case, do not send the first message directly after the date. Wait she does first!

Some mistakes to avoid

Do not go on a date with a friend.

Do not join a girl who is with her friends.

Do not join her if she has something planned one hour later.

Do not wait if it is doing something before.

This is a very bad idea to wait, even if she looks very sure on the phone, very motivated and very excited to see you. If she is not completely available for you, it is better to postpone the date. This will prevent you from having date with the friends of the girl who will judge you, dates rushed because of a lack of time and it is not a good idea to wait because she has something planned before and desperately wait for her because she already has something planned, but does not know at what time it will end. Do not be a spare wheel on the condition that she has nothing better to do that day! Enjoy the time you have reached to see more available girls. Respect yourself !

If during the date, she says she has to leave because she has a headache. Or because one of her friends needs emergency assistance: it is an excuse, do not send texts to propose a second date after such an affront. Anyway, she will probably not answer. Time to go home, she will have already have deleted you on Facebook, Tinder and her repertoire! Women are usually not really honoest when they do not want to us (nor when they want us) it’s a shame but it can lead to humiliating misunderstandings! You have been warned!

If she is late, do not wait more than 20 minutes (unless she has a good excuse) and do not tolerate more than two bucks. Girls should respect you to desire you!

If an interested girl cancels a date, SHE must make a counter-proposal. You do not have to beg for the “privilege” of seeing her (it’s a bad frame). You can watch my video about frames too !

Do not spend 1 hour on the phone during a date while she is waiting for you. Do not answer the phone unless you have real emergency, it is not polite.

Extract from my formation Cyprine…

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I had sex with a disabled girl

I had sex with a disabled girlMarch 31th 2016,

I am no longer as scandalous as I used to be. Because of my work, my depression and the fact that I no longer drink alcohol, I have become “soft”… Some will say that it is a good thing, others that I get old. I do not know, it’s just the way it is. Nevertheless, I did a rather crazy thing last night.

I had picked up a chick on Adopte last week. After a few messages, she warned me she’s deaf. In fact, she was born like that because of a genetic disease (shitty mutation of a fucking gene). I had never slept with a handicapped person before and she was still cute, so I opened my mind and continued to seduce her.

Last night, she came to my house, we drank a tea, she sucked me like a hungry and we fucked doggy style standing against my desk. As she was small and light, I even took her in rather acrobatic positions. Finally, she asked me to squirt her face and said she loves it. It was nice: I put sperm in her hair too, just like in There’s Something About Mary.

Once we finished our business, we ate pasta together and that’s when she confessed to me that I’m only the third guy she had sex with in her whole life… but she precised that she loves sex. She revealed that she masturbates regularly.

Because of her disability, I had a hard time understanding what she was saying, and she could not understand me, but it was a rewarding experience. Her level of self-confidence was close to zero, I hope that having tested my cock will help her. I tried to be very positive, understanding, I insisted that she is sexy and that she should take advantage of life (many guys would be delighted to kiss a pretty girl like her… despite her deafness).

Finally, all this to say that even if you are handicapped, you can meet people and have fun.

I was thinking about stopping my diary because I thought all my meetings were all alike (and it’s a bit true) but this little slut showed me that I was wrong then I will continue a little.

Moreover, as if to encourage me to continue my fables of modern womanizer : I had this evening a date with a 27 year old girl who had approached me on Adopteaguy.

This is a pretty damn rider working at Starbucks. We shared a glass of red wine and the discussion was very interesting. This chick has a great frame of mind. She loves sex and assumes it. She hates the girls who play the princesses. She admits that sometimes she fucks a guy just to fuck a guy because she wants sex (but she needs to like him a minimum).

She explained to me how she selects the guys on Adopte: people who have no conversations and do not assume their intentions (or who are afraid of an enterprising chick) piss her off so she grants a great importance to description. She claims I’m the first she met on this site… is this the truth or did she just want to flatter my ego to make sure I fuck her?

She tried Once as well… but the guys she met did not want to fuck right away (they were playing their little girl who wants to know each other better before considering anything) so she left.

The majority of the naughty encounters that she does is apparently in the parties. She also realizes that a chick a little cute can easily have fun with almost the guys she wants (anyway even a girl just a bit pretty can easily fuck very hot guys by playing the enterprising slut). She thinks she would be wrong to deprive herself, and I think so too. Her father gave her the following advice: “my daughter, enjoy life, you do not care about the opinion of the others.” She also testifies that most of her friends who play “the saints” girls in front of the guys are actually as naughty as she is (they are just more hypocritical). I had already noticed that, but her speech confirms it.

According to her, we men, are big naive who believe more and more in the charming princess. I also noticed that. Some even prefer to remain in the illusion rather than open their eyes.

We talked about the friendzone too. She confirmed that “yes, there are categories: if a guy is a buddy, I do not plan to sleep with him at all”. After talking almost an hour, we kissed each other. That’s when she warned me that she hated the pussy-licking because it makes her feel bad when one touches her clit. Then she became very wild. She undressed, put me naked rather violently before kneeling in front of me and sucking me. She pumped me in a very powerful way, shaking very fast and squeezing me hard. She also made sucking movements on my cock: I had not often experimented with this method. On the other hand, she absolutely did not want me to guide her head with my hand.

Seeing her playing the domineering bitch like that transcended me. We intertwined, we played to tackle the other against the other, it was horny. Fortunately, moreover, she had less physical strength than me. At one point, I pressed her against my window and fingered her as she tried to turn around to jerk me. Then I took her doggy standing, plated on my table. Her little pussy was tight. She gave the rhythm by moving her ass even if she was in a submissive position… it was she who was fucking me. I was very excited and she was screaming like crazy so I orgasmed in a few minutes.

During this respite, we went to bed, warmed up and she rode. Then I resumed doggy-style until her orgasm… and she asked me to stop because she was not wet anymore after coming. “It’s a shame, don’t you see this beautiful erection?” I told her… so she sucked me again until I came. She was very exciting, both in attitude and physically speaking.

Then we hugged a little, she got dressed and went back to her place. Now I want to bang a pro porn actress… but I do not know where to find her. It would also be an awesome field report…!

Well, may the God of the Game be with me!

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Dirty talk: a fantasy for many women and men?

dirty talk
Image : Sexe intentions

Definition

Dirty talk is a form of verbal communication used as a sexual stimulant during preliminaries or sexual intercourse. The dirty talk is a role-play in which your partner and you forget your prudishness and let express your sexual desire and your animal side.

Precautions

Many women like to hear diary talk in bed (some even love insults… but in this case, we get dangerously close to BDSM!)

Besides, in doing research to write this article, I noticed that many female sites describe dirty talk as a common female fantasy. Good news : it’s a practice that also excites me a lot because it places me a little in a position of dominance (I’m not saying that a man must subdue a woman because we are equal… but the fact is, in bed, many women enjoy being dominated and many men love to be in a position of dominance).

Many men who are educated by feminism and are full of limiting beliefs think that talking to a woman like a bitch is a lack of respect (and it is because, said this way, it can be like aggression). Except that if it excites your partner and makes her orgasm, isn’t it rather the fact of depriving her of what she likes that is a lack of respect?

A survey corroborates my point: it showed that while 36% of people have difficulty expressing their sexual desires, 44% say they like dirty talk in bed.

Moreover, the Marquis de Sade would also agree with me about the importance of the art of dirty talk to drive your partners crazy with desire since he wrote « une femme bande par l’oreille (a woman gets hard with her ear) ».

Whispering naughty things to your girlfriend is therefore fun, exciting and very effective.

How to start with dirty talk?

Above all, you have to build a climate of trust with the woman to whom you want to talk dirty. Indeed, some not really open-minded chicks could confuse you (you, the expert in dirty talk) with an asshole who does not know how to talk to women: fuck ! So you need to prepare the ground a little before warming her.

For the shy people, one of the best ways to introduce naughty exchanges is to start with texts, because a written message puts less pressure (on you and women)!

This will increase the sexual tension between the two of you. But do not try to precipitate things if you begin : start with light messages… try to go farther and farther … as far as possible!

Be careful, you are not the only one who can transgress the limits and speak crudely… if she likes it, let the girl take the initiative and answer her either by playing the shy guy or the big pervert (depends on your own style).

What’s a good dirty talk?

The first important thing is to make it simple! The two most common mistakes are wanting to do too much or not to assume and inhibit. No need to think too much: just express your desire with the words.

You will also need to vary your words: a minimum of creativity is always welcome.

Finally, when you make love, the ice breaks and it becomes more and more easy to let it go! It is, for example, effective to whisper naughty things to her in the ear while you take her in a position like missionary or doggystyle.

“I’ve been waiting for you all day”; “Do you feel it, right there, my dick?” “; “Put away those thighs that I devour you”; “I’ll make you enjoy it until you’re exhausted…”

What is interesting with this form of flirting is that you might be surprised by your partner’s reaction. The more you tease and more some women react in a hardcore way. Some said to me “I want you to fuck me RIGHT NOW”; “You gonna give me that big cock, yes?” “; “I must suck you like your bitch to thank you!” ”

What if she reacts badly?

Do not be sexist but know that some women like to hear “You’re a big slut, you” or even “You love my cock, eh, slut.” Do not forget that this is a role-playing game to spice up the sex and that not all women go to that point.

The pleasure comes from going beyond the limits by surprising and provoking (dirty talk is a fantasy, so there’s any other meaning to your words than the obvious one). But the girl must understand it and agree with. Moreover each person has his/her own limits …

Some are more tight-ass than others: you may come across a chick who will get shocked and ask you to speak to her “correctly” (it’s quite rare) just as you can fall on a chick who’ll love to challenge you and excite you by playing the hottie.

If the girl seems rather shy, if you’re not sure how she reacts, then do some testing. The main idea to remember is that these words have a strong and sexual emotional charge in the girl’s brain. The art is to pack them well and use them gradually to achieve the desired effect.

Do not be afraid to fail : start soberly, improvise, create your own phrases and have fun together!

Anyway, be gambler and provocative and prefer to go with your gut. We are sometimes too afraid to lose the girl by going too hard when it is often the best thing to do.

Nevertheless, if a woman asks you to stop talking to her like a bitch, which rarely happens when it is well drafted, do not argue and stick to it.

To go further, know that I speak of many female and male fantasies in The awesome lover’s manual ! 😉

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Photos of the 10 best positions in bed

Photos of the 10 best positions in bed

Photos of the 10 best positions in bedHere, in picture, the 10 best positions of the kamasutra (in my opinion).

You absolutely need to test each at least once in your life (you have no excuse because I selected some rather easy ones)!

1/ Normal doggy style

Perfect for those who love their little bitch.

 

2/ Standing doggystyle

Much more power (the girl can be in doggy position in front of you on a bed).

 

3/ The lying down doggystyle

There you can even stroke her clit at the same time.

 

4/ The spoon

Perfect for Sunday morning. You can sodomize her too (spoon anal).

 

5/ The missionnary

Classic but effective. For weeknights when you are tired but with a hard cock.

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6/ The missionnary with elevated legs

It turns her pelvis and you fall directly on her G-spot!

 

7/ The Andromaque

If you like to get fucked ride. After all, you’re a stallion, right?

 

8/ The rodeo

This way, you can watch her ass…

 

9/ The lotus

Perfect if you wanna eat her boobs !

 

10/ The kneeling blowjob

What a sense of dominance in this position! I love finishing like this…

 

And you, what is your favorite position in bed (or elsewhere)?

It’s hard, however, to select the best positions in bed and to find photos (not censurable now I mistrust) to illustrate …

See you soon !

PS = do not forget to take a look at The awesome lover’s manual ! 😉