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4 types of text messages you should never send

4 types de textos à ne jamais envoyerWhat are the 4 most common mistakes that guys make in their texting?

The following mistakes annihilate any attraction and communicates the guy who sends it is sexually desperate. Are you making some of them?

If you now avoid these four common mistakes in your first exchanges with women, you will see that they will answer you more often and your success rate will increase.

 

Mistake # 1 – Sending short but not original messages

I’m thinking of the kind of messages “hi how are you?” Or “what’s up?”

I would almost say it is better to send nothing than writing that shit so much it communicates bad things about you.

It’s so… so commonplace! I remind you that in Pick Up Artist, there is the word “artist.” I thus advise you to try to do better than the crowd, if only on principle. You must be different!

On the other hand, this is against a good idea to restart the conversation about something positive that you talked about when you met the girl. If it was on a dating site, it’s even easier: you can continue the conversation like if nothing had changed. You just have to answer the last message you received on the website but by text directly after she gave you her number and the transition will be a good one (the girl too I hope for you).

 

Mistake # 2 – Asking too many questions

If there are more than two “?” In your text message, then it is too much. It would really seem too needy after.

Too many questions and girl would feel like in an “interview.” Know they all hate the interview mode in a date. Besides, I also hate it when a girl is trying to force the conversation with me by doing it.

But you can do the same thing by making statements or diverted questions. Such as: “I wonder if you love pasta.” Or, “I hope you had many orgasms last night” (just kidding but you got the idea).

 

Mistake # 3 – Being needy and naive

The needy guys do not fuck much. Period !

So yes you may feel that this girl is so special that you have to quickly open your heart to her. But damn, regardless of the circumstances: you must resist the urge to prematurely tell her how much you like her.

Normal women do not like being put under pressure like that and if you do a “Ted Mosby”, know that it will make them flee. This expression comes from How I Met Your Mother, because in an episode before he was supposed to fuck a girl, Ted believed maximizing his chances by saying “I love you.” Result: he had no sex because she was scared.

It also reminds me of the story about Jerome the 28 year old virgin who thought finally having sex with a girl. She was at his place and everything was good and instead of destroying her ass he broke the sexual tension by saying “I am already in love with you” (it was not a joke)… he met her less than 48 hours earlier. It, once again, had the effect of scaring the girl.

Fuck, in a goal situation, do not start thinking back to the times when your mom told you “women are looking for love and a good husband.” Maybe so, but in such circumstances, a girl especially wants a dick in her pussy.

 

Mistake # 4 – Sending too long text messages

The first texts were limited to 140 characters and it was fine.

Girls do not want to read an essay, at least not at the beginning of your relationship. Especially if you write like a goat. Send text messages rather short, catchy and make women talk!

If you are able to make them write more than you (in quantity and/or number of messages) then you own the interaction. It will be a very good sign!

 

Concrete example

I now will give you an example of the first text I sent to a girl I met in the street and I fucked after. I wrote two days after the numclose “So you are studying in St Etienne and you come back the weekend in Lyon if I followed? I’m in my office now… I hope you had a good weekend and the bar where you went out on Saturday night was good J”

Analysis: I restarted the conversation directly about what we talked about and I think I communicated rather positive things. I also tested the waters to see when we could undress each other. She responded by describing me her night out and by telling me when she was in Lyon and she also asked me questions about me. We texted during one week with one or two messages per day and I fucked her the following weekend.

Remember this advice I give very often: Strike while the iron is hot and try to meet up with her again soon! Your chances in general decrease with time.

 

Ah, I almost forgot: it’s not worth signing your text message with your name. She is supposed to remember you. At least, you should not seem in doubt because you’re supposed to be an alpha male who is used to be remembered.

Oh and it goes without saying but do not send 50 texts to a girl who is not answering you.

This is the end of this short article on texting. It was very basic but it cannot make time wrong to return to basics sometimes. See you soon !

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Multiplying opportunities to pick up ?

Multiplying opportunities to pick up

I finished my last video by saying that to have more success with women, you had to agree to maximize opportunities.

I can already hear all the amorous suitors bawling “but me I want to seduce THIS hirl you are an asshole” Well … fuck off … When you want to pass an exam, you watch a lot of yearbooks? When looking for a job, you send multiple resumes, right? When looking for an apartment, you visit several apartments, right? So why are you shocked when we apply it to the seduction ?!

Note that I am not saying that life comes down to multiply the oportunities of compulsively having sex until you are too old to get hard. I’m not saying either you have to always cheat on your girlfriends. I’m just saying that when you’re single and want to make out, it’s good to give yourself the maximum chance of success.

What is ironic and surprising is that by learning to be more successful with women, you will also have more success with THIS girl. I’ll explain why…

 

Why multiplying opportunities?

1 – You play it necessarily in a more detached and lackadaisical way if you have backup plans.

The idea is to do not put THAT girl on a pedestal. Indeed, if it is your only chance to get laid this summer, she will feel it and abuse her position of strength. You, for your part, will be more tense, nervous… because of the key issue. But, that’s all that you should not communicate, nervousness, and in addition it makes you clumsy!

You also would obey to her every whim easier because you would be a little desperate, a little bit in needy mode. And you would fail her virility test for fear of offending her. Nope, beautiful women comfortable about themselves do not want rugs!

You may be currently obsessed with “that girl” but maybe there is a better one around you that you can seduce easily… but you do not see it because you are making a one itis on a girl who does not especially want you, thinking you’re romantic. What a loss of time and energy!

2 – Multiplying opportunities is causing your own luck!

It allows to play on numbers and therefore you do not need to “lie” about your age or whatever. It is more sincere approach. You give yourself the choice by picking up several girls, and you will therefore find some with who there will be no need of tricks to conclude.

In addition, you will be more patient if you have other plans in the meantime. And oddly, it helps because chicks do not like guys in heat like dogs (waf waf) nor pressuring guy (“You’re beautiful do you wanna meet on Monday? No, Tuesday then? No, so Wednesday ? Thursday? Friday ? Go for Saturday? Sunday, please? “)

Practicing allows you to familiarize yourself with flirting and therefore be more comfortable. And to dare more, because you will less feel the fear of losing one girl in particular (you will see that it will work better that way)… Also, your game is getting better honed with practice! And you won’t fall in the Friendzone because if a chick piss you off a little too much, you’ll reframe her or next her without hesitation! In addition, by showing some strength of character like that, you will step up in her esteem… and will more likely to succeed!

If you expect it to be completely dead with a girl before going to another, by respect or I do not know for what well-thinking reason: know that women do not have as much pity as you… and you are a sucker very conditioned by society to believe that women are very pure, fragile, etc. ! If you believe that women always flirt and bang only one guy at the same time, you are totally wrong. Unless it is just an excuse that you have found to do not move your ass…

3 – Having several girls as targets does not prevent to be sincere

If you flirt with three girls that you really like, they will find themselves in competition. So you’ll become the prize. Also, we often wants what others want.

But that does not prevent you to sincerely like the three of them.

It just allows you to step back and avoid building castles in the air, or getting too excited and thus scaring the girl (by sending 150 text messages a day, for example).

3615 mylife now…

Whenever I’ve met girls with whom I had a long/serious relationship, it happened by chance. I slept with lots of women, and then I met them during a doggystyle for example and THEY caught my attention. I was not hungry for pussy nor in demand, it’s just that they were awesome girl, with who I immediately got along well.

It saved me from being in a couple by default. It allowed me to be with girls that I liked and that really corresponded with me.

It allowed me to discover the true love, not the one you think you’ve found because we see it everywhere in books, TV, movies, etc. What I mean is that we are more likely to find love while not looking for it. By spending time with people will force yourself to be couples to make love, and so spend time that could have been used for creating opportunities with people with whom you would have had a real spontaneous and deep connection.

I would say that most people take the problem upside down and that’s why it does not work for them, in general. Instead of meeting and staying with someone because they really correspond… they agree to meet people in a predefined framework “I agree to sleep with you only if you want a couple with me after.” This mentality severely limits their degree of enjoyment in life and their opportunities to meet more people with whom they have naturally a strong sexual and psychological compatibility.

Of course, we all have in mind very cute couple who met in college and are still together. But if you have not had the opportunity yet to meet you one true love, it may be that you do not take it in a way that gives you the best chance to succeed…

Maybe it’s by wanting to do too much, wanting to control everything, that we make a mistake…

 

How to multiply your opportunities?

Here is my prescription for guidance but there are plenty of other solutions, of course:

1 – Nightlife. If you are a student, go out at least 2 times a week. If you work, at least once in bars to discuss and open groups, for example.

2 – A minimum of street pickup. Because they are much more heterogeneous encounters. And because it trains you to talk to women without music around.

3 – Register on at least one app and a dating site. Indeed, it allows to be seen by women (and sometimes even to receive messages) even when you sleep or do something else. And in addition, by writing, you may dare more to turn women on and you will see that it will work. Then you will just have to do the same with the girls you will meet in real life!

Bisous les amis anglophones.

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Peacocking: not such a good idea?

The peacocking has always existed in various forms throughout the history of mankind. In many tribes, males tattooed and wore feathers (not in the ass) to attract females. In some Asian tribes, males wore hats during specific phases of seduction. The unconscious of a woman is thus genetically attracted to peacocking. It is, in any case, these postulates that decided Mystery to incorporate peacocking in the game. In this context, it means dressing to attract attention. This is a reference to the peacock that spreads its tail feathers in the form of a range to attract a sexual partner.

The interest of peacocking

It facilitates openers as a topic of conversation. Sometimes, you will get approached by girls (and guys) that will talk to you about your accessories. This is good for your social proof.

It gives an alpha status because a man needs big balls to take to dress in a way that stands out. It sets you apart. It is a High Value Demonstration because proves that you’re not afraid of what other people think.

It allows to visualize yourself otherwise and thus can positively influence your inner game and your body language.

A good peacocking reduces your flaws and highlights your physical qualities.

It plays on the unconscious of hot babes.

An accessory can easily become your signature, such as the strip of Julien Doré which surely helped him to mark the minds of viewers and win the French American Idol. Or such as the Johnny Depp’s moustache.

Limits of peacocking

It can look really good if you have enough charisma to carry it, but otherwise you’ll just look silly. You may also quickly be labeled as gay or marginal.

A sense of fashion is needed to dress like that with class: there must be a certain harmony in colors and materials. A guy in red and pink with brown shoes and a green belt, would be just horrible. Chances are you’ll be easily AMOG (be kicked out by another alpha male) in this case… If you do this anyway, you must in any case have a great talk back!

One might also be tempted to say (just like for the guys who like too much tuning): “This is a person without much personality that is testing his assertiveness… He is so uninteresting that he is trying to get noticed like that to compensate for his small dick.”

Anyway, I do not think it would tempt me to approach a peacocking girl. Seriously, would it turn you on, a girl with yellow nails, purple lips, wearing a red skirt with a green denim under, a blue striped top and a monocle?

Finally, do not copy the style of Mystery, the inventor of the concept: it works for him because he is a magician. But if you do not do magic, his style will not go with your personality.

Peacocking in France

In France, the peacocking seems to me not as adapted as in other countries (England, Japan, United States): I guess we are not very inclined to originality… Here, a guy who goes out with a cowboy hat and a crocodile skin jacket has more chances to be mocked by people than to be admired. Note that the countries I mentioned are still known for their bad and poor taste, it makes one think!

I advise you to do not follow the US advice and therefore don’t be particularly outrageous. A hat in a club, it is a safe bet but it’s not unusual. I recently tried with a captain’s hat, it’s not bad… plus I asked the babes “have you ever kissed a captain?” This could bring a quick kiss. There’s also the ties that can help, especially if you have the balls to answer these kinds of things when you are asked why you always wear a tie “it’s to tie naughty chicks up!” The shoes that make you seem taller can help too. Otherwise, you can also do in the quirky humor with a Donald t-shirt, for example. But in general, I’m not really into peacocking.

Honestly, where I live (not Paris), I do not think it tremendously helps. On the other hand, if it is done incorrectly, it can quickly be a thorn in your foot. In any case, I do not see the interest in deliberately dressing ugly like did Neil Strauss and Mystery. It allowed them to make out because the girls thought they were the show bizz stars. But here I do not observe that it works this way in clubs.

In conclusion, if you can do that well, why not? But for my part, I do not think it is done for me.

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The Perfect Girl Isn’t A Bitch

The Perfect Girl Isn't A Bitch

I want to share with you today a reflection on the girls. Most women have no sense of humor (I’m just kidding bitch), so I specify for any purpose that I wrote it for fun. Anyway, my mom told me that I had the right to publish it. Little warning : if Muriel Robin awakens in you any sexual interest, thank you for not reading the rest of the article.

In immersion

I have long prepared for writing this message: I spent several days reading women’s magazines. Moreover, I even pushed the conditioning further: to penetrate the soul of those beggars, I repeatedly moved to the kitchen to cook. I also cleaned up my apartment, once.

However, I have noted in my readings a cyclic redundancy, one same topic is always coming up. Explanation : their brains attacked by very romantic comedies, they mostly think connecting to reality through pure readings. So thank the author with a radioactive chin, Fredo Beigbeder, for some literary shits that undoubtedly sell some dream to the basic chicks. Believing becoming disillusioned with the prince charming after finishing the huge book, it comes out in fact that they end up convinced of his existence.

The perfect man

After these terribly extensive researches, I profiled the scoundrel coveted: the perfect man is a subtle mixture of the princes of Walt Disney, looking a little bit like a forty doctor in Grey’s Anatomy. He would be muscular to protect the princess from the danger, but not too much. He would hairy because it’s manly, but not too much. He would be attentive and generous, he would listen… but not too much. He would have a big dick, but not too much. At the moment, he is incarnate in the eyes of the crowd by Ian Somerhalder (since he did stick back his ears).

That is the exceptionally true summary of what the incredible woman of the XXI century believes having the right to expect from a guy. But why will she never find him?

1) Because he doesn’t exist: a guy who respects himself doesn’t give a shit about being perfect. He eventually pays attention to be thin to fuck a little more than average, but in his heart, what he wants is just a missus to cook him a lasagna dish and bring him his beer while he scratches his balls watching TV.
2) Because if ever this man exists : no woman would deserve him. Yes, it is the greedy female who kicked the innocent male out from paradise. So fuck you, bitches!

The perfect woman

Our revenge : now let’s make the portrait of the perfect woman, and let’s see why us, males, are entitled to get her. We are the elite of society: the world is built with the strength of bearded. From the spear stuck in the guts of a damn mammoth to the planting of weird vegetables to feed the tribe, it is the man who has allowed our species to survive.

I already hear lesbian feminists screaming like pigs “Asshole, without us there would be no species because it is us who makes the babies” I simply reply to them “Shut up, cod. Without our delicious sperm, you would not make any baby!”

This is the man who created the first societies; it is also him who has changed his societies into the more elaborate system that we suffer today. The republic, the school, the religion, the porn movies, the racism and the incest, all those wonders are our inventions.

End of a justification based on absolutely logical arguments that, as you can see, is flawless. The coming from Mars can therefore claim the conquest of a creature to his height : the perfect woman.

Description of the gazelle:
– If possible, large tall, but not too much. She must still be at least 10 centimeters shorter than us so she doesn’t disrespect us.
– Her boobs do not have to be huge, but they should not hang like my grandma. If we had been a bit excited by dairy cows, we’d have become farmers again a long time ago.
– Her butt should be curved to be hardly slammed during doggy style, but not too big so that we are not ashamed when fiddling with in public.
– Her hair color does not matter but the perfect woman still must have hair (except Natalie Portman).
– Her eyes should be bold: we must be able to read in it those romantic words “I will swallow it when you want.” Her eyes must also be able to express the extreme pleasure, the fear of being punched if she badly ironed your shirt and compassion when OM lost against PSG.
– She must wear with an elegance that commands respect the shorties close-to-the-ass. The string must also be part of her dressing.
– She is pure, but experienced.
– Into clubs : she moves her ass like Shakira and the other guys watch her with envy, but fortunately she only sees you. Besides, she dances all night without sweating.
– She has the ability to move from the more bitchy attitudes (perverse and unhealthy like a porn Slovak actress) to an attitude of young lady from a wealthy family.
– She is smart because sometimes after the blowjob of the Sunday morning, you can be in a philosophical mood. Thus, the chick must keep abreast of the news, she must know the great authors and the great movies, but less than you. She does not reach your highest spiritual elevation: you will always be her master.
– She’s 10% lesbian.
– Her name is not ridiculous, and you can roar it powerfully to call her, without being ashamed in the street.
– She often fights in the mud with her girlfriends. They also make battles of duffel bags with only their strings in your living room, as soon as the opportunity arises.
– She is flexible, but never asked to be flexible at the time of coitus. After you have finished destroying her on the back seat of your Aston Martin, she can contort as you want to vary the positions during the second round.
– She’s in love with you, unconditionally and absolutely.
– Do I have to insist on the fundamental qualities: housekeeper, cook, seamstress and nurse when you feel bad…?

Written by: a jerk from Aix.

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Seducing through communication

Seducing through communicationToday we will enter the heart of the matter (not your girl’s pussy): how to seduce through communication! Basically, what follows is the basic foundation of the game… it really underlies all the methods of the seduction community.

 

1/Definition

First, I must explain a very important communication concept: the frame.

It’s hard to find one single word that translates the concept of frame so you’ll have to read this long explanation : in every social interaction between two people, there are two perspectives, two different frames, two visions of things that clash.

This reality of frames colliding during each interaction is true not only in seduction but in all the interactions. For example, with your boss at work too, frames fight. “If you want a pay increase you will have to work more
– If you do not give me a pay increase, I’m going to work elsewhere and you will lose a collaborator familiar of your working folders”. What you will learn in this video will so be useful to you throughout your whole life! IT’S AWESOME !!!

Frames collisions are usually unconscious but now that you have discovered the concept, you will be aware of this and will therefore act on it and turn it to your advantage.

 

2 / Frame ♂ vs  Frame ♀

When a guy and a girl meet, it is unfortunately often the frame of the girl that wins. Why unfortunately? Because the classical frame of a chick is “Me, I’m a pretty girl, I have lots of proposals all day, you’re a man among many so I don’t not care. I will not pay much attention to you unless you buy me some drinks…”

If the woman keeps this perspective, this view of things, it’s almost sure it will not work with her. The basics of your communication are unhealthy and unbalanced. The goal is to reverse her perspective, and to impose your alpha male frame.

“What I propose is unique. You will not have much other opportunity like this in your life… I like you, but I can easily find plenty of other consenting chicks. So if you are tired of all the sex-starved and zero in bed guys, let me give you lots of orgasms. ”

If we can impose this frame subtly (not explicitly like I just did): we will then reverse the process and there will be many more opportunities. Thus, if one is in the mindset that this is a chance for her to spend time with him because he has so much to offer : it’s much more likely to work! This is a mindset of a confident guy.

On the other hand, if we directly say to a girl “you’re so beautiful and nice, I really want to make out with you…” there’s very little chance that it works. It is too plaintiff and desperate. Moreover, in the community, we have a term for it, it’s “needy”.

 

3/ How to impose your frame?

It may seem intuitive-cons but please do not start with rational arguments. Instead, start by changing their emotional perspective.

When you interact with someone, it is primarily the reptilian brain (the ancestral brain that regulates basic behaviors – this is the primitive part of our brain) that must be addressed. Because one must first draw the person’s attention. The best thing for this is to emphasize an emotional approach, and (I’ve said that already) it’s not only valid in seduction.

The reptilian brain primarily react with risk. So, add a little danger in the interaction like you would add a little Espelette pepper in your pot. That’s why a somewhat bad boy attitude works well. But we must not do too much because otherwise it is really too scaring (we just want to make a little emotional shock). What works well is to behave in a somewhat provocative, irreverent way, to be a little mockingly.

To hold the attention of a girl:
– Having a high social status, being rich, being famous, being someone who has a form of popularity in a certain environment, etc.
– Creating a high situational status by acting in a confident way but with some nuances of humor, originality, etc.

Above all, never let yourself be dominated by the reality of the person in front of you. If she says “I am willing to have a drink with you but I will just stay an hour” answer her “this is not a problem because me I can only stay 45 minutes.” She will understand that you are more the price than her and she will see you differently, in a sexier perspective …

Here is how to handle the various obstacles:
– With women who feel superior: be irreverent and cavalier;
– With busy women: use a time constraint (you are more busy than them);
– With not very interested women: use the prizing (make them understand that this is a chance for them to talk to you) but in a rather subtle way (you should not look like a braggart);
– With analytical women who do not hear the emotional speech : play on the mystery, the suspense, tease them… sell her your kidney shot or your magical tongue (but again not directly, rather leave clues that let her think about it).

 

The idea is not to manipulate women. The long-term goal is to make this inner strength that you need to learn to communicate genuine. This is the most honest and the most effective way to seduce. Btw, if all you provide is true, you communicate it more easily! Your inner game (your true inner strength) always influence your outer game (your behavior with people). But your outer game can influence your inner game too so I advise you to start thinking right now about what you’ve just read and to try it on the field!

You may be really detached initially with women to have the strongest perspective and conviction. But for this, multiply your opportunities.

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Paris, capital of pick-up ?

Paris, capital of pick-up It seems that Paris is the capital of fashion, but is Paris the capital of pickup too?

First, at the international scale, it is obvious that no. Sorry but the capital of pick-up would clearly be in the United States. Besides, the best resources to improve are generally in English.

At the French scale now, it is true that all the famous “coaches in seduction” are based in Paris. From this perspective, yes, Paris is the capital of the pick-up in France. Why ? Surely because there is easy access to the media. Moreover, it is good for the pickup because it is huge, there are many people (statistically easier to fuck), and there are many foreign (the population is renewed). It’s also good because it is deemed to be the “city of love”… so the travelers come with the ulterior motive of getting banged.

However, there are many very good players and PUAs who do not live in Paris. We must not believe that there is only in Paris that we can make interesting things (don’t be snob). There is a huge potential in Lyon, for example!

I think it is a pity that the other cities are abandoned like that. There are good things to do there! Why do French people who want a coaching or personal advice would be forced to go to Paris?

The problem is that elsewhere, eg in Aix-en-Provence and Lyon (I speak of what I know), there is no real solidary community. There are groups of guys who meet on forums to go picking up together and who sometimes become friends. In Paris, there is the CCP, the closed circle of Parisian players, but that’s it! There is neither real assistance nor real feeling of belonging to an underground organization, as it may be the case in the United States. The game there is really a kind of fight club!

Moreover, the coaches talk about each other: they do not hesitate to advertise when a guy is good, allowing everyone to move on (the social mobility of fucking works). In France, the market is locked by some well-referenced sites which nevertheless offer no real quality (sorry but it’s true).

I have contacted all of them, and they clearly all refused to talk about me or my product as long I I would not affiliate myself in their distribution platform network. Basically, they want to play “who has the biggest (audience)” and keep the monopoly! For people supposedly trying to help their readers, keeping secret the best work, it is not glorious! My personal conclusion is that these people do that for the money and know very well that if the general public had access to real quality work (not grassroots articles), people would see a difference. Their solution is to silence us! Because, honestly, they would just talk about The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations in their newsletter by putting their affiliate link, and they would make hundreds or even thousands of euros for no work !

I am not lying, one of them answered me “I do not make any partnerships” and he made one month later a common video with a sportive Youtuber (no competition in this case). Worse, I had written an article to another site to propose a link exchange, but they just changed a few words and published my text keeping my punchlines… without my link, of course… I’m really fed up with these dishonest people! Is it obligatory to be a real asshole to succeed in life?

Frankly, I do not want. I won’t stoop to that. But I am sure that all together we can do something.

This is a call to all the seduction bloggers, and more broadly, to all those who have a blog or a vlog about personal development: unity is strength!

We would gain so much from creating a quality personal development network in France! Comedians on YouTube already do that, btw. They talk about each other, make videos where they invite each other to share their networks. So why not us? We have a common cause too: making French people fuck like gods!

Feel free to contact me if you are interested in this project! The only conditions (guarantee of serious) are to have quality content updated regularly and a network of at least 15,000 monthly visitors!

Anyway, if you have a network, be aware that by registering on 1TPE (free) and using your affiliate link (easy), you can receive 50% on each of my products you will sell!

I kiss you.

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Where and how to buy condoms?

Where and how to buy condomsMany guys and girls are embarrassed when buying condoms in a store. It comes, in general, from the fear of what the others could think and of the reaction of the seller.

 

I see many people pretending to watch the razor on the shelf next to condoms and then, hop, they discreetly drop a box of condoms in their cart… and then quickly hide it by covering with other products. The problem with this technique is that it pushes for consumption, that drives them to buy things they do not need, just to hide their shame.

Me, I have fun when it’s time to buy condoms because when I’m in front of the cashier, I think “yeah, me tonight, I will have a lot of fun… and you, what kind of movie are you going to watch?”

This is a question of reality : either you choose to accept and to be proud of having sex, or you live it as a shame and you try to hide it. I made my choice.

Anecdotally, it reminds me of an old adventure in which I accompanied a girlfriend in a shop and there I made her ashamed by shouting “take condoms because tonight I’m going to take you harcore (or something like that)!”

I also remember the first time I wanted to have sex : I searched a long time in my parents’ bedroom to find some. But they already stopped the condoms for a long time! So, this is the girl who bought it (she was motivated). And she was really ashamed!

 

Next, there’s the question of size: if you take small sizes for your tiny penis, I can understand that you do not assume. But if you take large sizes or if, like me, you are average… so there’s really no reason to don’t assume!

If you are afraid that someone you know can see you buying condoms and repeat to your mother, then go ten kilometers away to go to a store located in a neighborhood or village where you know no one. And pray that the other guys around had not the same idea!

Well, I suggest ordering on the Internet if you absolutely do not want to go buying it in person. You should not deprive yourself to have sex nor protect yourself just because of social pressure or a shitty complex! But still, it’s like the guys who do not assume to use the urinal when there is another guy next to them : it reveals a large complex and it would be interesting to work on it.

Then, about the difficult choice: pharmacy or supermarket? I personally prefer supermarkets. Because it’s cheaper and it’s the same product. For the more stingy, remains the solution of going to family planning and stock up on condoms! However there is an advantage to go to drugstore: sexy pharmacists sometimes will go as far as to ask if you need help choosing the condoms (there is a real choice). And btw, they are subject to medical confidentiality.

If it can make you save time and allow you to choose more easily, know that I have not found better than Skyns condoms in terms of quality, durability and comfort.

 

Girls are too many to be ashamed to buy condoms. It is because cashiers who get bored and who sometimes look at them and say “good evening” with a kinky smile. It would still be nice if people stopped constantly judging! Sex is a natural thing! It’s part of the cycle of life! It should however be well considerate to protect yourself, right?

So, for the girls who do not have enough character to send to hell the idiots and their crappy remarks: they still have the solution to order online.

We must also realize that these vendors will have forgotten an hour later (they see so many people during one day) … in short, in any case, keep in mind that you’re not the first person to buy condoms and you are not the center of the world. 99% of cashiers will not give a shit whether you buy it or toilet paper. Besides, are you also ashamed when it’s time to buy toilet paper?

 

My final tip: make a pretty necklace with all your used condoms, and wear it proudly when you go out in a club!

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Seduction for men : taboo?

Seduction for men : taboo?Today I will deal with the following questions: why is seduction a taboo subject in France in 2016? Why is it a “shame” to seek pickup advice on the Internet? Why are PUA so hated?

 

Reason 1 : People do not want it to be said that they need seduction advice. It is supposedly something innate or that we haven’t. It’s always the same question, should you accept passively your fate or should you fight to do better than what you were destined to ? I made my choice.

Many people who read seduction tips do not assume and it gives the impression that it does not interest anyone (few likes, few shares on Facebook). But when I see my visits curve on my blog or when I first talk about it with people, I understand it is not at all the case. I can tell you that it interests thousands of people (who are not very honest).

 

Reason 2 : It is also a matter of pride. Many men believe it is a sign of weakness to seek pickup advice. But experience shows that intelligent women love men who think for themselves, who are questioning, etc. This is in fact a strength!

I have always said that : assuming it and yourself is a key that leads to success.

 

Reason 3 : Guys criticize seducers/PUAs and say that they are bastards who just want to “fuck”. This is ridiculous as they are most of the time just trying to shine by comparison… “I’m not like that, I do not only think about sex, well, can we fuck now?” Or, almost worse “I prefer not to learn how to seduce because I expect to meet a woman naturally and everything will happen by itself at a party” (bad faith).

This is absurd: instead of helping women get rid of their social pressure, guys start to suffer in their turn of that damn Puritan conditioning. This is what we call the race to the bottom.

 

Reason 4 : It is also a matter of jealous. the guys are afraid of having to admit that some are better than them in bed with their dick, they feel their manhood endangered. But the game is there to help men overcoming these feelings of inequality and injustice, not to make fun of our fellow human beings who are still struggling…

A part of the problem is that the gender relations are falsely chaste, we all fear of being thought as something (a hooker, a bastard, a virgin). And we are also afraid to accept our animal side, which is expressed in the sexual drive… we are ashamed because we know that this is something that is sometimes difficult to master! For me, the real courage is to accept it completely (while respecting others, of course).

 

Reason 5 : There is some legend about what constitutes the seduction community. Many people speak without knowing what they are talking about and are imagining hardcore things or are unfairly assimilating us to street harassment and other horrors.

There really is a real lack of objective information on the subject, so it scares people because they think that it is black magic or hypnosis or I don’t know what. While this is actually just some personal development: we improve to attract more … no one violates nor manipulates, we’ve got an ethic! Btw, learning to communicate better and to dare more, it seems to me more honest than wearing make-up and heels. But when we hear about it in the media, political correctness wants this denigrated. It would be nice if more people thought for themselves instead of being sheep.

 

Reason 6 : Many seduction coaches (btw the diploma does not officially exist) do it just for bragging and making money. They do not really want to help others, which makes them horrendous. Many are ridiculous, some are bad and just recite what they have read in books. We can say that commercial sites (which are also often the most publicized) discredit the concept.

Moreover, in the everyday life, a lot of guys and women brag but there’s nothing behind. I agree with the saying “who speaks the most does the least” but I would swatch by saying it depends on how those people talk about it. Indeed, some, it is obvious they know their stuff, we can feel it !

 

Reason 7 : We live in denial, in the repression of our sexual instinct. Our society is too frustrating (especially in big cities where women are seen all day: they are dressed and we kinda ignore them but their hormones act on us anyway). However, people are too afraid to admit it because it would amount to freak out…

 

Reason 8 : Guys are afraid of having to challenge themselves, of having to question their lifestyle. They are used to always go to the ease of pulling others down rather than pulling them up (a phenomenon unfortunately quite common in our society). Many can’t be bothered to have to make efforts to get out of their comfortable little world so they prefer that nobody has fun sexually to be in the standard and revel in it.

 

Reason 9 : There is a natural battle, a genetic competition between human beings (we are on Earth to survive and reproduce)… and seduction could help you to improve and make a child with awesome girls. So, your ignorance suits many people : you stay in your place and let them the great girls/guys.

 

Reason 10 : Historically, the two sexes fear each other because everyone has a power over the other one. Moreover, in year 1, Ovid was exiled by Augustus just because he wrote The Art of Love, a seduction manual. It has thus always been a sensitive and politically incorrect subject (like a clit). Especially in Latin countries (where the game developed the most it’s not by accident) because in Australia or Ukraine for instance, girls flirt and do not always play the “disgusted with the perverse sex.”

Still in ancient times, women had to be attractive and men chose the ones they would like to fuck. Now they must make efforts to attract and thus see themselves being closer to their sensitive side, and that bothers machos.

However, we all know that sex is a good seller, for example in movies or in books: the subject in fact interests a lot of people who veil their faces. This ambient lie puts everybody uncomfortable by making people ashamed of their needs that are yet natural. Perhaps is it simply the fact of speaking of things concretely which is problematic since it is appreciated in fiction but much less when people are directly affected.

One walks on the head when you know what alcohol, cigarette or drugs is almost better seen (in public) than sex. Reminds me of the story of the scandal around stolen photos of Jennifer Lawrence: all the guys said it was disgusting, but they had all it on their phone !!! Moreover, many of the chicks also had watched the photos, even if it only was to compare…

 

Some do not know the game but actually already have a great girlfriend, are not submitted to women and stay alpha… and everything is for the best in the best of worlds. But this is a rare case and many people are in couple by default (or single and hungry for sex). So I think that they would do well to focus on the seduction community.

In short, everyone is free, but people will not be authorized to protest about not fucking sex bombs if they don’t practice the game…

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The power of implicit acceptation

The power of implicit acceptationThe goal:

For the unconscious, the failure to challenge something is equivalent to the fact of accepting it. Thanks to the extremely simple technique of the no contest, you’ll be able to establish good frames (underlying meaning of things in your interactions). Girls will thus validate you despite themselves!

 

The realization:

There are two main ways to do this:
– The excuse: it is for example when using humor to say a sentence that would not be accepted without;
– Withdrawal: by canceling the BPD element immediately we avoid it is challenged… but the brain of the target will imagine it all the same.

If that sounds complicated, wait for the examples.

 

The examples :

1/ “We could go home, I could mass you to relax you”

If the girl is enthusiastic, go straight to the FC. On the other hand, if it looks like she wants to resist: withdraw your proposal.

“Oh no wait, because you look very tense, I do not think I have enough massage oil.”

The girl had not enough time to challenge it, but her imagination will be sought and the idea will make way into her mind. She will now not see you in the same way, she will see you as someone more sexual.

 

2/ “You’ll be my new girlfriend if you keep smiling like that…”

Here, because there is no direct invitation, you can use the push and pull. It’s free but it will increase your value.

“Oh no, but you love Tarantino’s movies, sorry, we’ll have to break up.”

Thus: she had no time to challenge the fact she will be your girlfriend, and in addition, you establish the frame that you choose.

You communicate a lot implicitly by doing that.

 

3 / “Phew, my sex is too tough, I’m sick of seeing the girls I fuck fainted with pleasure because they have no strength anymore after 50 orgasms.”

Here is an example of excuse : you use humor for the message to be listened and not sounding ridiculous (otherwise it would be bragging).

And then you will cancel the phrase “hey don’t be shocked, I was just kidding” or “hey smile, do play the tight-ass!” Nevertheless, the idea will grew in her unconscious and she has imagined you as a good lover yet.

 

4 / “Hey, stop staring at my ass! You want to take pictures, right? I assign the broadcasting rights for 500 € per month if you want.”

By accusing the girl of having a dirty mind, you make her think about these things: you actually puts her dirty thoughts in mind! You lead her to the her dark side… that’s the strength of this kind of jokes.

Finally, remember that you need to do that by being more or less subtle (don’t look like a big asshole) and by saying things in a credible way. I mean that you cannot possibly tease or play the sex god with a trembling voice, while looking at your feet or by being too vulgar…

Good luck !

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Why not going to prostitutes?

Why not going to prostitutesIntroduction

A reader wrote me that that the game is something really complicated! He asked “why not just going to prostitutes?” It’s a good question.

 

1/ The game is an investment

The first thing to understand is that if you go to prostitutes, it’s in order to have sex. Whereas if you learn the game: it is to have sex, to improve yourself and to have a great girlfriend.

When you know that it is about 50 € per hour if you want to fuck a professional (time-clock), the purchase of any ebook allowing you to pickup chicks will quickly be profitable. The game is an INVESTMENT while the whore is a sumptuary expense.

Currently, if I want to kiss a girl, it does not cost me anything. I do not pay in general not even a drink or anything since I’m making them come over directly and they bring a bottle.

 

2/ You cannot kiss them

Do not forget that you cannot kiss a prostitute. While with girls we pick-up through the game, we can!

There are plenty of things you cannot do to a whore but that you can do to a lambda girl picked up in a bar. There is thus a much greater freedom of action when you do not pay you intercourses… and, in addition, there is no risk of getting punched in the face by the pimp (the guy who abuses the whore and takes almost all her money – I refuse to encourage such a trade).

 

3/ We do not really feel wanted

Because one pays, he does not feel what it’s like to be truly desired. Orelsan sums up the situation: “no matter what she does with her mouth, she doesn’t give a fuck.” So, yes, it satisfies a need but I do not think it really gives a good mood. Banging a chick who will not remember us the next day, it’s nothing flattering.

 

4/ This is not really exhilarating : it’s beforehand won

We do not feel the stress of uncertainty: is she going to reject at the last moment? Is she going to let me do things that no guy has done to her before? Will I be the only one in her life to make her come like crazy? “It’s stronger than me, I always want to feel special in their eyes.”

 

5/ An increased risk of STDs

The advantage of prostitutes is that they do not give us a headache, unlike an hysterical girlfriend. No tantrums, no whims, etc. €50 is the price of the peace of mind in a sense.

But there is always the possibility that the condom cracks or does not protect us (not 100% reliable). By going to see a whore, we have more “chances” to catch STIs, herpes or any sexually transmitted shit. We do not leave so serene at that level.

I have a friend who was banging whores in Argentina. One day, the condom has cracked, he panicked. He had to tell the situation to his mother who ordered him to take the plane to come in France to access to triple therapy! It’s still a fucking lose story!

 

6/ We are forced to put on a condom

In addition, we must always fuck with a condom (which will be accounted by a pimp). Whereas if we develop a relationship with a nice girl who takes the pill, we will be able to directly feel the heat of her pussy around our cock : it is priceless.

 

7/ We are not the price

This is not a very alpha state of mind to want to queue (wait your turn) in order to pay a woman to have sex with her. An alpha male is, however, supposed to be the price in the interaction. This logic seems unnatural to me. “I do all the work, it is her who should pay me!”

 

8/ They are not all pretty

There are prostitutes who are classy and pretty, but it is not the cheapest. So if I can get better, I do not want to pay to put my dick in a fat hairy girl smelling like shit and speaking a broken French.

 

9/ The environment is unhealthy

If it is to go cheap whores, smelling like sweat and who have not washed their sheets soiled with the semen of all the customers of the day, no thank you! All this for a stoic and impassive girl or a crazy that simulates… Fuck, the game is supposed to prevent guys from being sex-starved. One could say that whores are for desperate people, while the game is for those who still have hope and will.

 

10/ A sex therapy

As Gringe said, “whores is like a session with a shrink.” Even better : because they listen and suck. Anyway, the game is also a form of therapy then if we follow this logic. And it is much deeper because relationships are much more sincere because disinterested. Also, it meets more our hunger for affection.

 

Conclusion

For the record, my brother once went to the whores in Figueras, Spain. It seems they were sexy, and that hygiene was respected. He kept a good memory, but hey, he is not used to fuck sex-bombs. In Amsterdam too, it seems it’s not bad, the prostitutes in the shop windows.

It can be a rewarding experience to do, to go to whores, once in a life. I will maybe if I have the opportunity to do it in good conditions and with a girl who works for herself. The chick will be banged so hardly that she will understand why we talk about priced sex! After all, it is the oldest profession in the world, must be respected.

Moreover, before, the young men were initiated into sex by an experienced prostitute. It was socially accepted. I critique here those who make it a habit, not those who go there once or twice for fun. What I question it’s : those who prefer to pay to go to whores instead of working their game to attract more and sexier women.

That said, there are rich people who regularly hire call girls (or luxury whores) and fuck them. After all, if they are beautiful, experienced, willing, if they do not have 10 customers in the same night, and there is no pimp behind … why not? But hey, you have to pay the price. It is still a privilege of rich people to orgasm in the pretty young girl at the age of 80.