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In my view, we can divide all cunnilinguists into two categories, but first, let’s have a look at the issue of cunnilingus!

Cunnilingus is an oral sex act performed by a person on a female’s genitalia (the clitoris, other parts of the vulva or the vagina). The clitoris is the most sexually sensitive part of the human female genitalia, and its stimulation may result in female sexual arousal or orgasm.

Cunnilingus can be sexually arousing for participants, and may be performed by a sexual partner as foreplay to incite sexual arousal before other sexual activities (such as vaginal or anal intercourse), or as an erotic and physically intimate act on its own. Like most forms of sexual activity, oral sex can be a risk for contracting sexually transmitted infections (STIs/STDs). However, the transmission risk for oral sex, especially HIV transmission, is significantly lower than for vaginal or anal sex.

Oral sex is often regarded as taboo, but most countries do not have laws which ban the practice. Commonly, heterosexual couples do not regard cunnilingus as affecting the virginity of either partner, while lesbian couples commonly do regard it as a form of virginity loss. People may also have negative feelings or sexual inhibitions about giving or receiving cunnilingus, or may refuse to engage in it.

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The term cunnilingus is derived from the Neo-Latin words for the vulva (cunnus) and tongue (lingua). Additionally, there are numerous slang terms for cunnilingus, including drinking from the furry cup, carpet munching, and muff-diving. Several common slang terms used are giving lip, lip service, or tipping the velvet; the latter is an expression that novelist Sarah Waters argues that she “plucked from the relative obscurity of Victorian porn”. A person who performs cunnilingus may be referred to as a cunnilinguist.

The women would rather guide her partner in terms of movements, pressures and pace they prefer.

According to a 2006 study (CSF survey), 85% of men and women have already experienced cunnilingus.

Cunnilinguist categories:

Those who like it and those who do not like it.

Those who know where the clitoris is and those who do not know.

Those who lick the clit and those who lick around.

Those who dismiss the skin that protects the clitoris and those who let it there.

Those listening to the reactions of the girl and those who eat it always the same way.

Those who put fingers while they lick and those who do not put fingers inside.

Those who always lick lying on the bed and those who experiment different positions (standing, front, back).

Those who do not care that there are hairs and those it blocks.

Those that smell bothers and those who know how to position their nose.

Those who eat the girl out after intercourse if the woman did not orgasm and those who don’t give a shit as long as they ejaculated.

Those who have experienced female ejaculation and those who have never make a woman squirt.

Those who know when the woman is faking orgasm because is bored and those who don’t.

Those who recognize the symptoms of the orgasm and those who don’t.

Those who stop when the girl says “stop” and those who continue to make her orgasm.

Those who stop when she came and those who continue, irritating her.

Those who stop just before she comes so the pleasure is greater and those who don’t know this trick.

Those who catch cramps: tongue, jaw, etc. and those who are well-trained.

For more information about the oral sex and how to make chicks orgasm like crazy bitches, read my ebook on the subject.

Sincerely,

Bonus in The awesome lover’s manual :

A global survey of sexual behaviours

Masters & Johnson – Sex and society

Global sex survey

The health benefits of sexual expression

Sex research chapter 3

The face of global sex

What increases sexual satisfaction

Extract from : The awesome lover’s manual

In humans, sexual intercourse and sexual activity in general have been reported as having health benefits as varied as increased immunity by increasing the body’s production of antibodies and subsequent lower blood pressure, and decreased risk of prostate cancer. Sexual intimacy and orgasms increase levels of the hormone oxytocin (also known as “the love hormone”), which can help people bond and build trust. A long-term study of 3,500 people between ages 18 and 102 by clinical neuropsychologist David Weeks indicated that, based on impartial ratings of the subjects’ photographs, sex on a regular basis helps people look significantly chronologically younger.

Sexual intercourse, when involving a male participant, often ends when the male has ejaculated, and thus the partner might not have time to reach orgasm. In addition, premature ejaculation (PE) is common, and women often require a substantially longer duration of stimulation with a sexual partner than men do before reaching an orgasm. Masters and Johnson found that men took approximately 4 minutes to reach orgasm with their partners; women took approximately 10–20 minutes to reach orgasm with their partners, but 4 minutes to reach orgasm when they masturbated. Scholars state “many couples are locked into the idea that orgasms should be achieved only through intercourse [penile-vaginal sex],” that “the word foreplay suggests that any other form of sexual stimulation is merely preparation for the ‘main event'” and that “[b]ecause women reach orgasm through intercourse less consistently than men,” they are likelier than men to fake an orgasm to satisfy their sexual partners.

In 1991, scholars from the Kinsey Institute stated, “The truth is that the time between penetration and ejaculation varies not only from man to man, but from one time to the next for the same man.” They added that the appropriate length for sexual intercourse is the length of time it takes for both partners to be mutually satisfied, emphasizing that Kinsey “found that 75 percent of men ejaculated within two minutes of penetration. But he didn’t ask if the men or their partners considered two minutes mutually satisfying” and “more recent research reports slightly longer times for intercourse”. A 2008 survey of Canadian and American sex therapists stated that the average time for heterosexual intercourse (coitus) was 7 minutes and that 1 to 2 minutes was too short, 3 to 7 minutes was adequate and 7 to 13 minutes desirable, while 10 to 30 minutes was too long.

Anorgasmia is regular difficulty reaching orgasm after ample sexual stimulation, causing personal distress. This is significantly more common in women than in men, which has been attributed to the lack of sex education with regard to women’s bodies, especially in sex-negative cultures, such as clitoral stimulation usually being key for women to orgasm. The physical structure of coitus favors penile stimulation over clitoral stimulation; the location of the clitoris then usually necessitates manual or oral stimulation in order for the female to achieve orgasm. Approximately 25% of women report difficulties with orgasm, 10% of women have never had an orgasm, and 40% or 40–50% have either complained about sexual dissatisfaction or experienced difficulty becoming sexually aroused at some point in their lives.

Vaginismus is involuntary tensing of the pelvic floor musculature, making coitus, or any form of penetration of the vagina, distressing, painful and sometimes impossible for women. It is a conditioned reflex of the pubococcygeus muscle, and is sometimes referred to as the PC muscle. Vaginismus can be hard to overcome because if a woman expects to experience pain during sexual intercourse this can cause a muscle spasm, which results in painful sexual intercourse. Treatment of vaginismus often includes both psychological and behavioral techniques, including the use of vaginal dilators. Additionally, the use of Botox as a medical treatment for vaginismus has been tested and administered. Painful or uncomfortable sexual intercourse may also be categorized as dyspareunia.

Approximately 40% of males reportedly suffer from some form of erectile dysfunction (ED) or impotence, at least occasionally. Premature ejaculation has been reported to be more common than erectile dysfunction, although some estimates suggest otherwise. Due to various definitions of the disorder, estimates for the prevalence of premature ejaculation vary significantly more than for erectile dysfunction. For example, the Mayo Clinic states, “Estimates vary, but as many as 1 out of 3 men may be affected by [premature ejaculation] at some time.” Further, “Masters and Johnson speculated that premature ejaculation is the most common sexual dysfunction, even though more men seek therapy for erectile difficulties” and that this is because “although an estimated 15 percent to 20 percent of men experience difficulty controlling rapid ejaculation, most do not consider it a problem requiring help, and many women have difficulty expressing their sexual needs”.

The American Urological Association (AUA) estimates that premature ejaculation could affect 21 percent of men in the United States.

For those whose impotence is caused by medical conditions, prescription drugs such as Viagra, Cialis, and Levitra are available. However, doctors caution against the unnecessary use of these drugs because they are accompanied by serious risks such as increased chance of heart attack. The selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SSRI) and antidepressant drug dapoxetine has been used to treat premature ejaculation. In clinical trials, those with PE who took dapoxetine experienced sexual intercourse three to four times longer before orgasm than without the drug. Another ejaculation-related disorder is delayed ejaculation, which can be caused as an unwanted side effect of antidepressant medications such as Fluvoxamine; however, all SSRIs have ejaculation-delaying effects, and Fluvoxamine has the least ejaculation-delaying effects.

Sexual intercourse remains possible after major medical treatment of the reproductive organs and structures. This is especially true for women. Even after extensive gynecological surgical procedures such as: hysterectomy, oophorectomy, salpingectomy, dilation and curettage, hymenotomy, Bartholin gland surgery, abscess removal, vestibulectomy, labia minora reduction, cervical conization, surgical and radiological cancer treatments and chemotherapy coitus can continue. Reconstructive surgery remains an option for women who have experienced benign and malignant conditions.

Obstacles that those with disabilities face with regard to engaging in sexual intercourse include pain, depression, fatigue, negative body image, stiffness, functional impairment, anxiety, reduced libido, hormonal imbalance, and drug treatment or side effects. Sexual functioning has been regularly identified as a neglected area of the quality of life in patients with rheumatoid arthritis. For those that must take opoids for pain control, sexual intercourse can become more difficult. Having a stroke can also largely impact on the ability to engage in sexual intercourse. Although disability-related pain, including as a result of cancer, and mobility impairment can hamper sexual intercourse, in many cases, the most significant impediments to sexual intercourse for individuals with a disability are psychological. In particular, people who have a disability can find sexual intercourse daunting due to issues involving their self-concept as a sexual being, or a partner’s discomfort or perceived discomfort. Temporary difficulties can arise with alcohol and sex, as alcohol can initially increase interest through disinhibition but decrease capacity with greater intake; however, disinhibition can vary depending on the culture.

The mentally disabled also are subject to challenges in participating in sexual intercourse. Women with Intellectual disabilities (ID) are often presented with situations that prevent sexual intercourse. This can include the lack of a knowledgeable healthcare provider trained and experienced in counseling those with ID on sexual intercourse. Those with ID may have hesitations regarding the discussion of the topic of sex, a lack of sexual knowledge and limited opportunities for sex education. In addition there are other barriers such as a higher prevalence of sexual abuse and assault. These crimes often remain underreported. There remains a lack of “dialogue around this population’s human right to consensual sexual expression, undertreatment of menstrual disorders, and legal and systemic barriers”. Women with ID may lack sexual health care and sex education. They may not recognize sexual abuse. Consensual sexual intercourse is not always an option for some. Those with ID may have limited knowledge and access to contraception, screening for sexually transmitted infections and cervical cancer.

Some researchers, such as Alex Comfort, posit three potential advantages or social effects of sexual intercourse in humans, which are not mutually exclusive; these are reproductive, relational, and recreational. While the development of the birth-control pill and other highly effective forms of contraception in the mid to late 20th century increased people’s ability to segregate these three functions, they still significantly overlap and in complex patterns. For example: A fertile couple may have sexual intercourse while contracepting not only to experience sexual pleasure (recreational), but also as a means of emotional intimacy (relational), thus deepening their bonding, making their relationship more stable and more capable of sustaining children in the future (deferred reproductive). This couple may emphasize different aspects of sexual intercourse on different occasions, being playful during one episode of sexual intercourse (recreational), experiencing deep emotional connection on another occasion (relational), and later, after discontinuing contraception, seeking to achieve pregnancy (reproductive, or more likely reproductive and relational).

Sexual dissatisfaction due to the lack of sexual intercourse is associated with increased risk of divorce and relationship dissolution, especially for men. Some research, however, indicates that general dissatisfaction with marriage for men results if their wives flirted with, erotically kissed or became romantically or sexually involved with another man (infidelity), and that this is especially the case for men with a lower emotional and composite marital satisfaction. Other studies report that the lack of sexual intercourse does not significantly result in divorce, though it is commonly one of the various contributors to it. According to the 2010 National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (NSSHB), men whose most recent sexual encounter was with a relationship partner reported greater arousal, greater pleasure, fewer problems with erectile function, orgasm, and less pain during the event than men whose last sexual encounter was with a non-relationship partner.

For women, there is often a complaint about the lack of their spouses’ sexual spontaneity. Decreased sexual activity among these women may be the result of their perceived failure to maintain ideal physical attractiveness or because their sexual partners’ health issues have hindered sexual intercourse. Some women express that their most satisfying sexual experiences entail being connected to someone, rather than solely basing satisfaction on orgasm. With regard to divorce, women are more likely to divorce their spouses for a one-night stand or various infidelities if they are in less cooperative or high-conflict marriages.

Research additionally indicates that non-married couples who are cohabiting engage in sexual intercourse more often than married couples, and are more likely to participate in sexual activity outside of their sexual relationships; this may be due to the “honeymoon” effect (the newness or novelty of sexual intercourse with the partner), since sexual intercourse is usually practiced less the longer a couple is married, with couples engaging in sexual intercourse or other sexual activity once or twice a week, or approximately six to seven times a month. Sexuality in older age also affects the frequency of sexual intercourse, as older people generally engage in sexual intercourse less frequently than younger people do.

Regarding adolescent sexuality, sexual intercourse is usually for relational and recreational purposes as well. However, teenage pregnancy is often disparaged, and research suggests that the earlier onset of puberty for children puts pressure on children and teenagers to act like adults before they are emotionally or cognitively ready. Some studies have concluded that engaging in sexual intercourse leaves adolescents, especially girls, with higher levels of stress and depression, and that girls may be likelier to engage in sexual risk (such as sexual intercourse without the use of a condom), but it may be that further research is needed in these areas. In some countries, such as the United States, sex education and abstinence-only sex education curricula are available to educate adolescents about sexual activity; these programs are controversial, as debate exists as to whether or not teaching children and adolescents about sexual intercourse or other sexual activity should only be left up to parents or other caregivers.

One group of Canadian researchers found a relationship between self-esteem and sexual activity. They found that students, especially girls, who were verbally abused by teachers or rejected by their peers were more likely than other students to engage in sex by the end of Grade 7. The researchers speculate that low self-esteem increases the likelihood of sexual activity: “low self-esteem seemed to explain the link between peer rejection and early sex. Girls with a poor self-image may see sex as a way to become ‘popular’, according to the researchers”.

In India, there is evidence that adolescents are becoming more sexually active outside of marriage, which is feared to lead to an increase in the spread of HIV/AIDS among adolescents, as well as the number of unwanted pregnancies and abortions, and add to the conflict between contemporary social values. In India, adolescents have relatively poor access to health care and education, and with cultural norms opposing extramarital sexual behavior, “these implications may acquire threatening dimensions for the society and the nation”.

Positive views on adolescent sexual intercourse and other sexual behavior among adolescents have also been expressed. Psychiatrist Lynn Ponton writes, “All adolescents have sex lives, whether they are sexually active with others, with themselves, or seemingly not at all,” and that viewing adolescent sexuality as a potentially positive experience, rather than as something inherently dangerous, may help young people develop healthier patterns and make more positive choices regarding sexual activity. Similarly, researchers state that long-term romantic relationships allow adolescents to gain the skills necessary for high-quality relationships later in life and develop feelings of self-worth. Overall, positive romantic relationships among adolescents can result in long-term benefits. High-quality romantic relationships are associated with higher commitment in early adulthood and are positively associated with self-esteem, self-confidence, and social competence.

The average number of partners during a life is 13.

The age of the first sexual intercourse (in the strict sense) also tends to fall and to become equal change from 21-year-old for the men and 19 years old for the girls to 17-year-old boys ½ for both. A “sexual youth” begins then.

Extract from : The awesome lover’s manual

The effects of alcohol are balanced between its suppressive effects on sexual physiology, which will decrease sexual activity, and its suppression of psychological inhibitions, which will increase the desire for sex.

Alcohol is a depressant. After consumption, alcohol causes the body’s systems to slow down. Often, feelings of drunkenness are associated with happiness but other feelings of anger or depression can arise. Balance, judgment, and coordination are also negatively affected. One of the most significant short term side effects of alcohol is reduced inhibition. Reduced inhibitions can lead to an increase in sexual behavior.

Men’s sexual behaviors can be affected dramatically by alcohol. Both chronic and acute alcohol consumption have been shown in most studies to inhibit testosterone production in the testes. Alcohol intoxication can decrease sexual arousal, decrease pleasureability and intensity of orgasm, and increase difficulty in attaining orgasm.

In many women, alcohol increases sexual arousal and desire although it does lower the physiological signs of arousal. Women have a different response to alcohol intoxication. Also, because women have a higher percentage of body fat and less water in their bodies, alcohol can have a quicker, more severe impact. Women’s bodies take longer to process alcohol; more precisely, a woman’s body often takes one-third longer to eliminate the substance.

Sexual behavior in women under the influence of alcohol is also different from men. Studies have shown that increased BAC is associated with longer orgasmic latencies and decreased intensity of orgasm. Some women report a greater sexual arousal with increased alcohol consumption as well as increased sensations of pleasure during orgasm.

Psychologically, alcohol has also played a role in sexual behavior. It has been reported that women who were intoxicated believed they were more sexually aroused than before consumption of alcohol. This psychological effect contrasts with the physiological effects measured, but refers back to the loss of inhibitions because of alcohol. Often, alcohol can influence the capacity for a woman to feel more relaxed and in turn, be more sexual. Alcohol may be considered by some women to be a sexual “disinhibitor”.

Alcohol intoxication is associated with an increased risk that people will become involved in risky sexual behaviours, such as unprotected sex. Alcohol is linked to a large proportion of unwanted outcomes associated with sex such as date rape, unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases.

“Beer goggles” is a slang term for the phenomenon in which consumption of alcohol lowers sexual inhibitions to the point that very little or no discretion is used when approaching or choosing sexual partners. The term is often humorously applied when an individual is observed making, and later regretting, advances towards a partner who would be deemed unattractive or inappropriate when sober. The “beer goggles” are considered to have distorted the “wearer’s” vision, making unattractive people appear beautiful, or at least passably attractive. A study published in 2003 supported the beer goggles hypothesis; however, it also found that another explanation is that regular drinkers tend to have personality traits that mean they find people more attractive, whether or not they are under the influence of alcohol at the time.

Extract from : The awesome lover’s manual

When you will become used to sex, like me, you should not forget that everybody isn’t. With practice, you’ll be comfortable with being naked in front of an unknown.

But this is not the case of most women. Be comprehensive with them. Women are not whores because they have sex… If they are not comfortable, help them ! Take care of them. Instead of blaming them in your head, realize that if she gives you her body, it’s an honor ! No judgment. A lot of compassion.

A lot of men think they are lucky when a girl accepts to have sex with them. This is a bad mindset, you must know that you are special. Your belief is you are better than 99% of men in bed (and when you will have read this book it will obviously be true). So now, you know, women are at least as lucky as you are when you sleep together. Now, practice to become a very good and, I hope, respectful lover!!!

But never forget where you do come from. And remember that every woman is unique (they are not exchangeable, we share every time something unique with an unique woman). Everybody can teach you something in a domain. So, be humble. If you can teach her something do it, do not make fun of her if she’s stressed. God will give it back to you (God had forbidden sex out of wedlock but I think that it was before for concerns of hygiene and so that it is out-dated now)!

The bottom line is : give, please her, and your karma should give it back to you. That’s how I think. I try to do good around me. And because I’m good in bed, I’m generous with women. Just because I can.

And if they don’t want me, or do not believe I’m as good as I claim in bed : their loss, but it’s their choice to think I’m a pretentious dude. I respect! Me, I know the truth… And you too, soon !

I’m not God but I have a sexual confidence and I respect myself that’s why so many women had sex with me (and will in the future, I hope).

Those who will believe in me won’t regret it. I don’t want to brag here (the empirical proof don’t lie & I don’t give a shit about bragging) but I have to say the truth : very few women who had sex with me recently (before it wasn’t the same thing – I’ve been a geek for long but now I would like to see the face of my ex-schoolmates if they read it one day) didn’t achieve one or several orgasms (and no they didn’t fake). Those who did had a problem of trust, experience, confidence, etc. It happens… Yes it is a little bit easy to say that but it is nevertheless the truth. There is a lot of people with a bad state of mind towards the sex and bad beliefs. As for example when the girls tell me “you speak about sex thus are certainly bad in the bed because it is the ones who speak about it the most who make it the least
– Is that so?! OK ask your best friend then and you will see!;)”

It’s important to understand all that shit because you too soon will be able to make a girl orgasm even if usually she doesn’t achieve orgasm on her first night with a guy. I can do that and it happens to me very often… I am capable of it and it happens to me very often that girls congratulate me spontaneously on that… Then I chuckle when a silly bitch tells me “why you? I can find a sex thing when I want“. Yeah but…

You can do the same thing : I’ve no huge cock it’s only technique and behavior (and choice of the targets).

I know I have a precious knowledge and I’m ready to share it. But when a girl does not respect me or lies to me, she doesn’t deserve it. One more who missed something because of her stupidity. It’s true it’s better to watch TV alone rather than living a magical moment in a bubble out of time and social pressure!!!

I give more than one chance to girls, all the same. I try to open her mind but honestly if there’s nothing to do for her I won’t let her humiliate me. I get bored. Some girls want to try me but doesn’t dare and invent excuses or flake (whatever they say the main reason is because they feel nervous). It’s the fear/anxiety that talks because chances are low that she met her “one true love” just 1 hour before your fuck-date (or another shitty excuse).

In this case I try to reassure her because it’s a problem with herself and not with me and there’s nothing else I can do. It is like when they contract so much they vagina that we have difficulty in bringing it in: psychological blocking. Except licking more, I see no other solution.

I sometimes let them think I buy their bullshit because I’ve been here too. But I find it ridiculous. And do not forget that they logical mind is not the most operational at the moment of a last minute resistance, arguing is useless.

But if she’s really too much of a pain in the ass I will let her in her shit. She will have sex with bad legs and will be conditioned to think sex is not something awesome. Her loss ! But she had her chance : I gave her my hand and she beat me. I’m not saying you should fuck every women even the ugliest for charity : on the contrary, more you’ll have sex more you’ll become confident and so demanding.

There are good girls who know nothing about the sex and who deserve that we invest a little bit to free them or to make them discover things. But not at any cost… By being good, you become the offer and they become the demand! So don’t behave like the demand !

I’m not a monster I just want to make women have a good time. OK I might be an asshole sometimes but they can test me it’s OK as long as it is a normal test of alphaness and not a way to find excuses to stay in her comfort zone instead of having orgasms.

Never harass women ! You would depreciate. In the worst case, let them think in their corner about your proposal and tell them to make you a counter-proposal when they will have understood where is their interest. But do not give her 150 thousand chances by requesting her all the time…

Sometimes the excuses that girls invent to do not have orgasms make me hallucinate. They are afraid of enjoying too hardly or what? An example: “Seriously, you want a tall guy ? You want a guy with blue eyes ? Seriously if you think that’s what is really important, if it’s you main criteria, it’s so sad for you.” It had to be said!

Some women think they are queens and act like that. Some are cute, sure, but it is useless if they don’t use it. And not tomorrow, today, because beauty is short-lived. And anyway you never know what can happen in life. So enjoy today and create good memories for your old days (if you have some) !!!

Some just want a “serious” relationship. But what does it mean ? Nothing. I prefer a “fun” relationship. Most of the time those women will fall on a guy who will pay her stuff to fuck them and then never call them back. Or they’ll both be sincere but the sexual chemistry won’t be there. The thing is sex is a very important part of the relation so if you try to take the problem back to front (ie getting engaged before having sex), you’ll have bad surprises. The reality is those women are not confident and not strong enough in their mind to say “fuck off” to social pressure. Or they have some complexes and want to control you before letting you see their bodies.

In brief, they have a problem in their head, and it is rarely good! That hides in any case a lack of confidence… that hide in its turn… we do not know what ! It is the lottery but it is better to be wary, if you want my opinion!

A lot of women get big-headed because men want to screw her. But they should know even an ugly woman can have sex (there are so many sex-starved dudes). If she was fair, she should not patronize you because you were courageous enough to try to pick her up and assume your sexuality. Instead of admiring your spirit, some will be bitches with you. They think their mission on Earth is to patronize YOU or reframe you.

In this case, put things into perspective : remember those girls would not be able to do what you just did. She thinks she has a power on you because she is cute but it’s wrong. There so many beautiful women out there. And you can have them too!!! Because the one who proposes and the one who plays on the numbers is the one you really controls in fact.

Some women say “I’m not a girl like that“. Like what ? In fact if you treat them like girls who have sex they are not happy but if you treat them like tight-ass it’s not good either. It’s a real problem for women, this fucking sex. It’s not easy for them to find their sexual place in the current society.

My advice for those women : be in peace with your body and make fun of the social pressure to be finally able to think for yourself and see where is your interest. Get out while the going is good discreetly !!!

What makes me laugh it’s when they act like they are too good for you and finish with a vulgar dude while you finish the night with another hottie. Or when they speak badly about one of their friend who is not tight-ass (one who really knows how to have fun) then go back home watching a TV show alone in which their favorite character are closer to their friend in question than to them. But they do not criticize the characters, because they do not compare with them and are not mad at them because they’re not as free as them.

Society wants us to believe that footballers like Benzema are the top of the top of the best men ever on Earth and women should get wet for him. Or for the muscular stupid guys who goes on reality TV. Seriously I’m not jealous I bang enough girls and cute ones to be better than that.

But I think it’s sad for them. It is some waste. And they do not even see that. Well, at least, they are lucky if the “sooooo sexyyyyyy” asshole do not hurt them.

I would like to say to men that it is not a game of power. A lot of men just want to have sex no matter with who. Or they do not really respect women. I know a guy who had sex with one of my friend. Before sex, he was friendly. After sex, he was an asshole with her like if he became better than her just because his dick was inside her pussy. Save your soul before your dick !

Men like that should change their vision of sex and women. If it’s not easy between the two sex, it’s not only the fault of women. Men should get educated too. There is a huge problem with sexual education because it is a taboo and full of shame.

But to get drunk, a lot of people are ready. Some are even proud of it and claim it out loud. They should realize that sex at least is good for health. When you buy condoms you’re ashamed but when you buy whisky it’s classy… pff, the world’s gone crazy.

Extract from : The awesome lover’s manual

An erogenous zone (from Greek ἔρως eros “love” and English -genous “producing” from Greek -γενής -genes “born”) is an area of the human body that has heightened sensitivity, the stimulation of which may generate a sexual response, such as relaxation, the production of sexual fantasies, sexual arousal and orgasm.

Erogenous zones are located all over the human body, but the sensitivity of each varies, and depends on concentrations of nerve endings that can provide pleasurable sensations when stimulated. The touching of another person’s erogenous zone is regarded as an act of physical intimacy. Some people may resent stimulation in this manner while others may find it pleasing, and this may also depend on the relationship between the people.

Erogenous zones may be classified by the type of sexual response that they generate. Many people are gently aroused when their eyelids, eyebrows, temples, shoulders, hands, arms and hair are subtly touched. Gently touching or stroking of these zones stimulates a partner during foreplay and increases the arousal level. Also, the gentle massage or stroke of the abdominal area along with kissing or simply touching the navel can be a type of stimulation.

Erogenous zones are either nonspecific or specific.

In the nonspecific zones, the skin is similar to normal-haired skin and has the normal high density of nerves and hair follicles. These areas include the sides and back of the neck, the inner arms, the axillae (armpits) and sides of the thorax. An exaggerated tickle and anticipatory response are responsible for the heightened sensual response.

Specific zones are associated with sexual response, and include the lips and nipples in addition to areas of the genitals, notably the foreskin and corona of the glans penis, clitoris and rest of the vulva, and perianal skin. The neuroanatomy and neurophysiology of erogenous zones is partly unknown. These zones are apparently mucocutaneous skin. The rete ridges of the epithelium are well-formed and more of the nerves are close to the external surface of the skin than in normal-haired skin. These zones seem to have a high density of innervation, an efficiency of wound healing, and a capacity to stimulate generalized cerebral arousal. Moreover, a connection with the reward system seems also necessary.

Males can be aroused by stimulation to the sides of the glans and penis, upper side of the glans, the foreskin, the front side of the scrotum, the skin between the scrotum and anus perineum, and around the anus. The prostate gland may be stimulated from inside the rectum, such as by anal sex, or by applying pressure on the base of the perineum near the anus. Men who report the sensation of prostate and seminal vesicles stimulation often give descriptions similar to females’ accounts of G-spot stimulation.

The foreskin, which carries the ridged band and lower frenular delta has mucocutaneous end-organs extending from the distal margin to the point where hairy skin starts. The thin dermis and minimal subcutaneous tissue results in closely set nerve networks. Vater Pacini corpuscles are present. The mucocutaneous end-organs are formed after birth, with few in newborn infants and many well-organized endings in adults.

Parts of the vulva, especially the clitoris, are highly sensitive erogenous zones. While the vagina is not especially sensitive as a whole, its lower third (the area close to the entrance) has concentrations of the nerve endings that can provide pleasurable sensations during sexual activity when stimulated; this is also called the anterior wall of the vagina or the outer one-third of the vagina, and it contains the majority of the vaginal nerve endings, making it more sensitive to touch than the inner two-thirds of the vaginal barrel.

Within the anterior wall of the vagina, there is a patch of ribbed rough tissue which has a texture that is sometimes described as similar to the palate (the roof of a mouth) or a raspberry, and may feel spongy when a woman is sexually aroused. This is the urethral sponge, which may also be the location of the G-spot — a structure described as an area of the vagina that some women report is an erogenous zone which, when stimulated, can lead to sexual arousal, powerful orgasms and female ejaculation. The existence of the G-spot and whether or not it is a distinct structure is debated among researchers, as reports of its location vary from woman to woman, it appears to be nonexistent in some women, and scientists commonly believe that it is an extension of the clitoris.

The lips and tongue are sensitive and can be stimulated by kissing and licking.

Many people find a gentle scalp massage, or any stimulation of the hair follicles, to be anywhere from relaxing to extremely stimulating.

The neck, clavicle area and the back of the neck are very sensitive in both males and females, which can be stimulated by licking, kissing or light caressing. Some people also like being bitten gently in these areas, often to the point that a “hickey”, or “love-bite” is formed.

Some people find whispering or breathing softly in the ear to be pleasurable and relaxing, as well as licking, biting, caressing and/or kissing it especially the area of and behind the earlobe.

The areola and nipple contain Golgi-Mazzoni, Vater-Pacini and genital corpuscles. No Meissner’s corpuscles and few organized nerve endings are present. There are concentrations of nerve tissue in the area of ducts and masses of smooth muscle. The hair surrounding the areola adds additional sensory tissue. The mass of smooth muscle and glandular-duct tissue in the nipple and areola block the development of normal dermal nerve networks which are present in other erogenous regions and the development of special end organs. The entire breast has a network of nerve endings, and it has the same number of nerve endings no matter how large the breast is, so that larger breasts may need more stimulation than smaller ones.

Intense nipple stimulation may result in a surge in the production of oxytocin and prolactin which could have a significant effect on his or her genitals, to the point that some people of both sexes can achieve orgasm through nipple stimulation alone. Having the chest, breasts and nipples stimulated manually (hands), digitally (fingers, toes) and/or orally (mouth, lips, teeth, tongue) is a pleasurable experience for many people of both sexes.

Many people find stimulation (kissing, biting, scratching, tickling, caressing) of the abdomen to be pleasurable, especially close to the pubic region. It can cause strong arousal in men and women, in some even stronger than stimulation of the genitals. The navel is one of the many erogenous zones that has heightened sensitivity. In a 1982 study of eroticism in dress entitled “Skin to Skin,” Prudence Glynn claimed that the waist symbolized virginity and that it was the first place that a man would touch a woman “when indicating more than a formal courtesy”.

The navel and the region below when touched by the finger or the tip of the tongue result in the production of erotic sensations. Madonna has told in an interview to the SPIN magazine (May 1985 issue), “When I stick my finger in my belly button, I feel a nerve in the center of my body shoot up my spine.” Some research suggests that the navel and the genitals have a common tissue origin, and in some people this connection still exists so that stimulation of the navel will elicit a distinct tickle in the genitals.

The tailbone, located near the base of the spine, just above the anus, is an erogenous zone.

The skin of the arms, and specifically the softer skin of the inner arms and across the creased mid-arm bend covering the ventral side of the elbow, are highly sensitive to manual or oral stimulation. Caressing with fingers or tongue, more vigorous kneading, and butterfly kissing can initiate arousal and, in some cases, induce clitoral/vaginal orgasm or penile ejaculation without direct contact with the latter areas. The mid-arm bend is especially sensitive due to the thinner skin found there, which makes nerve endings more accessible. Arm sensitivity may be reduced or concentrated to a more narrow range by excessive muscularity or obesity on the one hand, or transformed to uncomfortable tenderness by excessive thinness on the other.

Some consider the armpits to be an erogenous zone. If pheromones exist for humans, they would likely be secreted by a mixture of liquid from the sebaceous glands with other organic compounds in the body. George Preti, an organic chemist at the Monell Chemical Senses Center in Philadelphia and Winnefred Cutler of the University of Pennsylvania’s psychology department, discovered that women with irregular menstrual cycles became regular when exposed to male underarm extracts. They hypothesized that the only explanation was that underarms contain pheromones, as there was no other explanation for the effects, which mirrored how pheromones affect other mammals.

The fingertips have many nerves and are responsive to very light touches, like the brushing of a tongue, light fingernail scratching or teeth stroking. The sides of the fingers are somewhat less sensitive and more ticklish. Both light and firmer touches work well at the junction of the fingers. Human fingertips are the second-most sensitive parts of the body, after the tongue.

The thighs can be sensitive to touch.

An exaggerated tickle on the back of the legs and knees can also be sensitive for some.

Because of the concentration of nerve endings in the sole and digits of the human foot, and possibly to the close proximity of the area of the brain dealing with tactile sensations from the feet and the area dealing with sensations from the genitals, the sensations produced by sucking or licking the feet can be pleasurable to some people. Similarly, massaging the sole of the foot produces similar stimulation. Many people are extremely ticklish in the foot area, especially on the bottom of the soles.

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Don’t be ashamed of enjoying sex (but stay in the legality). Say “fuck off” to social pressure… after all, who decides what is normal or not ??? But do not become a weirdo nor do weird things…

When it comes to sex, weird is your enemy. It is counter-productive. And stress often makes you weird. But you’ll become used to it. You’ll get used to sexual situations. You’ll be more comfortable in this situation and your partner too… because emotions are contagious.

And women are often share between stress and excitation/motivation.

Too many woman have lose faith in us, men, when it comes to sexual pleasure. They do not believe in us and don’t even wanna try : it’s a lose-lose scenario instead of the win-win scenario it could be. In their mind if you don’t prove you’re good, you’re basically bad in bed… like the others. Women consider us basically as losers.

It’s a shame !

I am going to help you to understand women. But, in the meantime, do not behave as a dead man of hunger who accepts and tolerates everything and anything just to have sex PLZ. If there were not so many sex starved dude out there, women would more go in for sport and would be hotter because they should fight for us.

Well, this is just my opinion!

They have the sexual power and we struggle to get out while the going is good.

But well, when we become a good fuck, we reverse the trend all the same!!! Fortunately!

Extract from : The awesome lover’s manual