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Problems of an inexperienced lover

Problems of an inexperienced loverThese problems you’re having, problems I used to have : these are the problems of an inexperienced (and lost in front of this mysterious science) lover. With that said, you don’t need to have sex with 100 girls like me to get enough experience and be good in the bed. Once you know WHY most guys struggle in bed, it becomes easy to flip the switch and rock her world.

The most common problem is that guys just don’t last the required time to give women deep, total full-body orgasms. They then develop a fear of cumming too soon… which stresses them even more. It is a vicious circle ! Stress is not good when it comes to sex. Too much stress makes you quick or limp.

No more not feeling like a man. I don’t want guys who did nothing to deserve that feeling this pain and this shame like I did.

You have a dick : it’s a responsibility. Learn how to use it. Be proud of it ! Prove yourself worthy of that !

You are less of a man if you decide not to man-up and change what’s wrong in your bed !

I will tell you now the story of a dude who asked me how to give strong powerful orgasms. But this guy pissed me off because he wasn’t humble nor modest : he told me he was sleeping with dozens of girls at the same time and was already a God in the bed. So I logically asked him why he wanted my advice.

To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex twice and he came in under two minutes. A lot of guys get trapped in the same ego-trap. They lie to others, lie to themselves, and don’t even know why ! On my blog like on this ebook, I want us to be honest with the another ones…

It’s the same thing with seduction : most of guys are way too proud. They reject the advices but read my blog all the same. This is ridiculous. You need to admit when what you’re doing isn’t working (or could work better) instead of making yourself too proud to prove we-don’t-know-what. If you think you’re yet a fucking sex god porn star, this program’s obviously not for you.

Otherwise, you’ve got to realize that you CAN improve your sexual skills. No matter how bad you are today (or not), they WILL improve. And no matter how good you think you are (or really are), you can still get better and get new ideas. It’s OK to get help to become excellent. I think we are on Earth to help each others. Myself continue again and again to document and to experiment! But I want to help only motivated people, fighters who deserve it by giving themselves the means!

NO ONE IS A NATURAL GOD WHEN IT COMES TO SEX. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of hot women might seem “natural”, but they are not because they learned too, like us. Differently, but they did. And only if their girls were curious…

The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can evolve in bed, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your best friend nor your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl… or in pornography, which is completely different, they’re professional naturally gifted (and it’s often faked). You have to learn the skills.

You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “this isn’t going to work” then it won’t (or few) ! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! And bad ones, for sure !

Of course we are not animals so I will give you ideas to make the temperature rise before having sex… as a delivery for both of you.

I do not plan to be disrespectful nor misogynist here. START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with (quality) women no matter where you are today on the sex-scale and that they will thank you for that (they’ll suck your cock with appetite). Because it is my mission, to make you become a real animal in the bed ! And I accepted it!

You can give women orgasms and your girl is capable of having mind-blowing “Full body Orgasms.” We can say that these orgasms are overwhelming because when women have such an orgasm they don’t know how many times nor how long they came. It’s an awesome experience for them !

HUNDREDS of guys write to me saying that their girl is different. That this stuff works on “slutty” girls (or whores) but their lover is a more serious, more classy woman. OF COURSE, DUDES ! Guys, what you’ve not understood is that women respond incredibly to Incredible Sex. These are just psychological principles. You are having a belief system problem and you’re blind so start trying with putting some inner conviction in it before saying it doesn’t work. Don’t be stupid, every woman has a goodgirl and a badgirl side… but often hidden…

Your lover IS sexual you just AREN’T GOOD. If you doubt about it, it’s just because you’re not good enough so she reveals you this part of her. She doesn’t tell you to protect you. Let go off your ego and improve. I understand that is intimidating and that it hurts… but this book is here to help you. I’ve seen even the most uptight, tight-ass, coldest wives or working girls act like crazy slut teenage school girls after having sex with me. And that, believe in me, it is fun!!! (And in addition it is a good deed!)

When you’re having sex, it’s just you naked on top of her. You’re equal. Creating an amazing, mind-blowing sexual experience for a woman is all about your sexual abilities, which are completely LEARNED. And you’ll learn in the next pages…

If you want to be “the man” or better a “real man” in her eyes then : become good in bed! It will change EVERY aspect of your sexual life! It will even change YOUR MIND by improving your inner confidence !

Motivation is more than important to apply my stuff. Have you got the desire and/or the need to improve in the bed ?

If yes, welcome to this ebook that will tell you all my basics and advanced stuff to totally rock your bed.

Do you want to turn her on even before touching her pussy ? I’ll tell you.

Do you want to know several ways to finger her ? I’ll show you.

Do you want to know how to lick her in a better way than Hank Moody would ? I’ll teach you.

Where is her fucking clitoris ? How do I know if it was a real orgasm or if she faked ? What should I do with my hands during the sexual intercourse? Ok, ok, I’m here for you.

Do you want me to recommend you some positions to drive her crazy ? I will.

Do you want to last longer ? Do you wanna get hard all the time in the bed ? I’ll help you.

This ebook isn’t really about picking up chicks (you can read the rest of my blog for that). But it is still about alpha male mindset (important for any sexual domain) & a part of seduction… the one once you’ve brought her to your place (or her place).

Ready ?

If you’re a woman it’s your responsibility to buy this ebook and read it with your man so he becomes a better lover and can give you full body orgasm. And so you’ll experiment amazing orgasms (like you probably don’t even know it exists… like 99% of women).

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The hormone of love

The hormone of loveOxytocin is normally produced in the hypothalamus and stored in the posterior pituitary gland. It plays a role in intimacy, sexual reproduction of both sexes, and during and after childbirth as well as social bonding. It is released in large amounts after distension of the cervix and uterus during labor and with stimulation of the nipples following childbirth. This helps with birth, maternal bonding, and lactation. Studies have looked at oxytocin’s role in various behaviors, including orgasm, social recognition, pair bonding, anxiety, and maternal behaviors. As a medication, it is used to cause contraction of the uterus, which is used to start labor, increase the speed of labor, and to stop bleeding following delivery.

Oxytocin is thought to modulate inflammation by decreasing certain cytokines. Thus, the increased release in oxytocin following positive social interactions has the potential to improve wound healing. A study by Marazziti and colleagues used heterosexual couples to investigate this possibility. They found increases in plasma oxytocin following a social interaction were correlated with faster wound healing. They hypothesized this was due to oxytocin reducing inflammation, thus allowing the wound to heal more quickly. This study provides preliminary evidence that positive social interactions may directly influence aspects of health. According to a study published in 2014, silencing of oxytocin receptor interneurons in the medial prefrontal cortex (mPFC) of female mice resulted in loss of social interest in male mice during the sexually receptive phase of the estrous cycle.

The relationship between oxytocin and human sexual response is unclear. At least two uncontrolled studies have found increases in plasma oxytocin at orgasm – in both men and women. Plasma oxytocin levels are notably increased around the time of self-stimulated orgasm and are still higher than baseline when measured five minutes after self arousal. The authors of one of these studies speculated that oxytocin’s effects on muscle contractibility may facilitate sperm and egg transport.

In a study measuring oxytocin serum levels in women before and after sexual stimulation, the author suggests it serves an important role in sexual arousal. This study found genital tract stimulation resulted in increased oxytocin immediately after orgasm. Another study reported increases of oxytocin during sexual arousal could be in response to nipple/areola, genital, and/or genital tract stimulation as confirmed in other mammals. Murphy et al. (1987), studying men, found oxytocin levels were raised throughout sexual arousal with no acute increase at orgasm. A more recent study of men found an increase in plasma oxytocin immediately after orgasm, but only in a portion of their sample that did not reach statistical significance. The authors noted these changes “may simply reflect contractile properties on reproductive tissue”.

Oxytocin evokes feelings of contentment, reductions in anxiety, and feelings of calmness and security when in the company of the mate. This suggests oxytocin may be important for the inhibition of the brain regions associated with behavioral control, fear, and anxiety, thus allowing orgasm to occur. Research has also demonstrated that oxytocin can decrease anxiety and protect against stress, particularly in combination with social support.

In a risky investment game, experimental subjects given nasally administered oxytocin displayed “the highest level of trust” twice as often as the control group. Subjects who were told they were interacting with a computer showed no such reaction, leading to the conclusion that oxytocin was not merely affecting risk aversion. Nasally administered oxytocin has also been reported to reduce fear, possibly by inhibiting the amygdala (which is thought to be responsible for fear responses). Indeed, studies in rodents have shown oxytocin can efficiently inhibit fear responses by activating an inhibitory circuit within the amygdala. Some researchers have argued oxytocin has a general enhancing effect on all social emotions.

Trust is increased by oxytocin. Disclosure of emotional events is a sign of trust in humans. When recounting a negative event, humans who receive intranasal oxytocin share more emotional details and stories with more emotional significance. Humans also find faces more trustworthy after receiving intranasal oxytocin. In a study, participants who received intranasal oxytocin viewed photographs of human faces with neutral expressions and found them to be more trustworthy than those who did not receive oxytocin. This may be because oxytocin reduces the fear of social betrayal in humans.

While Oxytocin increases trust, it does so only to a certain degree. In a study, participants played a variation of the trust game and acted as an “investor,” deciding how much money to allocate to a “trustee.” The trustee was described as trustworthy, untrustworthy, or neutral. Participants who received intranasal oxytocin gave more money to the trustworthy and neutral trustees. Participants that received oxytocin did not give more money to the untrustworthy trustee, implying that oxytocin only increases trust when there is no reason to be distrustful.

Oxytocin affects social distance between adult males and females, and may be responsible at least in part for romantic attraction and subsequent monogamous pair bonding. An oxytocin nasal spray caused men in a monogamous relationship, but not single men, to increase the distance between themselves and an attractive woman during a first encounter by 10 to 15 centimeters. The researchers suggested that oxytocin may help promote fidelity within monogamous relationships. For this reason, it is sometimes referred to as the “bonding hormone”. There is some evidence that oxytocin promotes ethnocentric behavior, incorporating the trust and empathy of in-groups with their suspicion and rejection of outsiders. Furthermore, genetic differences in the oxytocin receptor gene (OXTR) have been associated with maladaptive social traits such as aggressive behaviour.

Affecting generosity by increasing empathy during perspective taking: In a neuroeconomics experiment, intranasal oxytocin increased generosity in the Ultimatum Game by 80%, but had no effect in the Dictator Game that measures altruism. Perspective-taking is not required in the Dictator Game, but the researchers in this experiment explicitly induced perspective-taking in the Ultimatum Game by not identifying to participants into which role they would be placed. Serious methodological questions have arisen, however, with regard to the role of oxytocin in trust and generosity.

Empathy in healthy males has been shown to be increased after intranasal oxytocin. This is most likely due to the effect of oxytocin in enhancing eye gaze. There is some discussion about which aspect of empathy oxytocin might alter – for example, cognitive vs. emotional empathy.

Certain learning and memory functions are impaired by centrally administered oxytocin. Also, systemic oxytocin administration can impair memory retrieval in certain aversive memory tasks. Interestingly, oxytocin does seem to facilitate learning and memory specifically for social information. Healthy males administered intranasal oxytocin show improved memory for human faces, in particular happy faces. They also show improved recognition for positive social cues over threatening social cues and improved recognition of fear.

Oxytocin injected into the cerebrospinal fluid causes spontaneous erections in rats, reflecting actions in the hypothalamus and spinal cord. Centrally administrated oxytocin receptor antagonists can prevent noncontact erections, which is a measure of sexual arousal. Studies using oxytocin antagonists in female rats provide data that oxytocin increases lordosis behavior, indicating an increase in sexual receptivity.

In the prairie vole, oxytocin released into the brain of the female during sexual activity is important for forming a monogamous pair bond with her sexual partner. Vasopressin appears to have a similar effect in males. Oxytocin has a role in social behaviors in many species, so it likely also does in humans. In a 2003 study, both humans and dog oxytocin levels in the blood rose after five to 24 minutes of a petting session. This possibly plays a role in the emotional bonding between humans and dogs.

Maternal behavior: Female rats given oxytocin antagonists after giving birth do not exhibit typical maternal behavior. By contrast, virgin female sheep show maternal behavior toward foreign lambs upon cerebrospinal fluid infusion of oxytocin, which they would not do otherwise. Oxytocin is involved in the initiation of maternal behavior, not its maintenance; for example, it is higher in mothers after they interact with unfamiliar children rather than their own.

In some studies, high levels of plasma oxytocin have been correlated with romantic attachment. For example, if a couple is separated for a long period of time, anxiety can increase due to the lack of physical affection. Oxytocin may aid romantically attached couples by decreasing their feelings of anxiety when they are separated.

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Good sex is the solution

Good sex is the solution56% of men who have affairs say they are in love with their wives. Currently, women are initiating 70% of divorces. 25% of married women will also have an extramarital affair (for 40% of men). 54% of people will never know their partner has cheated. 30% of people on dating site are not single, 38% of people on those sites are looking for one night stands (source : IFOP).

Number one reason why women cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed (sorry if it happened to you). Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually, and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like depression, cheating, divorce…

If you are thinking that being just OK in bed is all you want, that it is enough, think again! We are in a COMPETITIVE environment ! Do you know in how many discreet ways the girls can cheat – and I’m not only speaking mentally – but physically actually meet up with someone and fuck (I’ve often been this someone)… and you NEVER know about it??? Online dating, social networks, all kinds of sites for men and women who want to have discreet affairs. Temptation will definitely be there for her to cheat. Men try to pick up women ALL THE TIME. EVEN IF THEY’RE MARRIED ! If you’re not good in bed, you’re in danger…

If you’re not a swinger, you probably think it’s humiliating to know that another man was inside your girlfriend’s mouth or inside your wife… and he wasn’t making love to her, he was fucking her hard like a bitch!!! But on the other hand if she doesn’t tell you and you know it in another way, you’re mad at her because she lied IN ADDITION OF THE REST. What’s the worst ? Sorry what I’m going to say is not easy but maybe you’re for something in her adultery.

There’s no worse fear or no worse feeling than not being able to satisfy a woman sexually. That just makes you feel like that you’re still a little boy, inferior to your schoolmates : like you’re less than all the other guys or there’s something wrong with you. You’re ashamed and hurt !

However, when she cheats it’s not that she wants to cheat, it’s that she’s driven by her natural emotions. She cannot resist. You need to understand that women are very sexual creatures, they need to have sex — WOMEN ACTUALLY CRAVE SEX. If you didn’t know that and act consequently, we’ve already found out one of your blocking points. Hourra !

Women are child-bearers… and the only natural way that they can have children is by fucking. They thus have a natural instinct to have sex.

Think about what is going on during sex ; if it’s good sex for a woman, which might not be the kind of sex you’re given her at the moment, she’s clawing your back, she’s screaming, she’s moaning, she’s telling you to fuck her harder (men don’t do that, that’s not a natural reaction for a man but you should expect it from a woman). So, if she doesn’t do that with you, you’ve a problem, dude (or will have one soon)…

Women say that money doesn’t really matter as long as there’s love. Well, know that if you’re aren’t giving her great sex, money WILL be an issue and love might just turn into aggressiveness, because she’s going to make love to men who knows what they are doing in bed. I know it’s not cool to tell you that and it’s scary, but it’s just a fact of life. Don’t be naïve or gullible because they are cute. That is the way it is, it is rules of the game.

By the way, another rule : trading or spending money to have sex is very negative for the relationship. It communicates bad things…

One last thing to finish, during love the bodies product hormones of attachment (e.g. oxytocin). So if you want to keep the girls, you’ve to be good in bed to fill her with those hormones.

Extract from : The awesome lover’s manual

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Why does she fake orgasm ? And why ?

A fake orgasm is the result of a person who pretended to have an orgasm without actually experiencing one. It usually means simulating or acting out behaviors, such as body movements, vocal sounds, and sequences of apparent intensification followed by apparent release, typically associated with orgasm. It can also include giving verbal indications that orgasm occurred.

Contrary to popular beliefs, women are not the only gender to fake orgasms. A random-sample telephone poll of 1,501 Americans has shown that 48% of women and 11% of men faked orgasm. Faking orgasms in men becomes easier while using condoms, since ejaculation usually accompanies orgasm in males. Women fake orgasms much more frequently than men with 26% of women faking an orgasm every time they have sex. This is more than the 25% of women who report consistently having an orgasm during sex.

Orgasm is not always achieved easily during sexual activity. In both sexes, the condition of being unable to orgasm during sex is called anorgasmia ; it can be caused by a variety of factors, including factors in one’s life such as stress, anxiety, depression, or fatigue, as well as factors related to the sex itself, including worry, guilt, fear of painful intercourse, fear of pregnancy, the undesirability of a partner and the undesirability of a setting. It can also be caused by drug use, including alcohol and other drugs, or side effects from prescription drugs.

People can fake orgasms for number of reasons, such as when their partner wants them to orgasm but they are unable, or when they desire to stop having sex but are not comfortable telling their partner directly, avoiding negative consequences, or for pleasing their partner.

For women in a heterosexual relationship, faking orgasm is often based on deference to the man, need for his approval, or feelings of shame or sexual inadequacy. People can also fake orgasms for reasons of display or presentation, such as during phone sex or in pornography.

Women tend to achieve orgasm during sex less readily than men, and thus faking an orgasm is more common among women. Most women require direct clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm. Not all sexual positions provide access to the clitoris, thus making orgasms difficult to achieve for women during sex.

Feminists have pointed to women faking orgasm as a sign of male-centered sexuality; in a society that celebrates only male sexual pleasure, women may feel pressured to engage in acts that bring their male partners to orgasm but that do not provide them physical pleasure. Women in a discussion group in 1967 analyzed their motivations for faking orgasms and decided that faking was a response to pressures placed upon them by men. As such, the urge to fake an orgasm often sits in a broader context of other problems with sexual repression or male-centered sexuality. Many of these women also experienced feelings such as sexual rejection by their partners, or on the other hand, unwanted sexual attention; some were afraid to tell their partners what they wanted, and others said their partners resented being told what they wanted.

Hugo M. Mialon developed a game theoretical analysis of faking orgasms as a signaling game. Only some of the predictions of his model were consistent with survey data used to check the validity of the model. Among other things, the survey data suggested that both women and men who would be more concerned if their partner were faking are less likely to fake themselves, and that older women and men are more likely to fake than younger ones.

One study of orgasm found that women who fake orgasms were more likely to neglect their partners and flirt with other men at social gatherings; the authors of this study speculated that women who fake orgasms may be more likely to engage in sexual intercourse with men other than their partner, although they recommended caution at interpreting their findings due to a small data set and a large number of variables being studied.

In therapy or counseling, women are more likely to inaccurately portray their sexual behavior (such as by claiming to orgasm when they do not) to a male therapist than to a female one, although women may still withhold the same information from female therapists.

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The initiatives in the bed

The initiatives in the bedI’m a “normal” dude who had not always been able to satisfy women (it’s so sad). At first I even was mad at them because they didn’t want to see me again after I slept with them (even if we went on several dates before sleeping together: don’t fool yourself… sex is important for them too and they are not VERY understanding).

One day, I understood where the problem came from… (1, 2, 3 “who has met someone else in the meantime” it’s OKAY but after you put yourself into question). I stopped blaming every girl and started doing something to fix this problem. I got myself together, just like you’re doing now.

My main problem at the beginning was that I selfishly thought that it was rare for a woman to have an orgasm. I hadn’t realized they can jerk off just like us. And, if they can have more pleasure alone than with us, why would they need us ? And who could discreetly teach me to be good?

I haven’t always been good in bed nor good with women. Far from it ! I was worried that I would cum as soon as they touched my dick. Understand me: a vagina/mouth feels so good and wet… I was shocked that everyone talked about how awesome sex was. It wasn’t for me, it was stressful for me, I had to prove things! I mean, sensations were good, but not the context. And girls selfishly didn’t really help me to feel more comfortable (sorry it’s sad but it’s true) !

I watched a lot of porn, read dozens of books/ebooks and watched several how-to-make-your-girl-come videos ! I’m sorry for my colleagues but most of this stuff was very ridiculous and unrealistic. It was obvious the orgasms and the interactions in general were faked in this stuff. And, I absolutley cannot caution the use of pills and supplements to have great sex. To me, sex is natural, so must be the orgasms.

Over time, what happened was that through my own experimentation, I became able to make women cum ONCE AND OFTEN MULTIPLE TIMES. I could get hard and stay hard for ONE HOUR if I wanted to (btw, it’s too long).

In the beginning I was too shy to try new things, so I made one step after the other with my initiatives in the bed. But as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning when I did this stuff, I got more confident in bed (one women even broke my bedside lamp because she was losing control while I was fucking her hard! (according to her)). Now, I still have my day job as an accountant (who said accountants are boring?), but I spend my free time learning seduction and the art of sex… and obviously teaching men how to become awesome in those domains.

After you’ve read this book and internalize the programs I’ve prepared for you, you will feel so confident about your skills and knowledge in bed that you will not be paranoid nor insecure about your lover (or girlfriend, or wife) leaving you for some other dude with more money, better looks, and better sexual skills than you. You won’t have sexual complexes anymore!

For a long time I was myself in denial. I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things but I said “it is not possible to do so in real life, my girls are not whores”. But the thing is : girls like sex, orgasms and all that dirty stuff. If you’re still looking for your one true love who will teach you how to have good sex, you can forget about it (or wait a looong time). 99% chances are if you’re bad in bed, your lover won’t want to see you again instead of teaching you.

The first times I’d had sex I got really hard but couldn’t last long. The other times I had sex (it was rare for me), I couldn’t stay hard inside her (fear of coming too quickly). After crying a lot, I’d do trial and error until something works and so I became very good in the bed. Guess what ? That’s exactly what I want you to do today. It’s your turn… It’s up to you !

I want you can learn from this book and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until you got it right. You have to learn how to do it, what a woman expects from a man in bed. It is not one of those things you were born with. And it’s normal !

If you weren’t lucky enough to make your first time with an inexperienced girl and learn together, you’re probably repeating the same mistakes again and again. And yet if nobody teaches you, you cannot invent…

But it’s over now! I will teach you how to be in complete control of your body and how to feel the girl emotionally and physically.

They’d literally say “I LOVE when you’re fucking me!” Maybe you cannot believe me right now but you should. If you do what I say in the book, you’ll become better than 99% of the men out there. Suspend your negative and jaded thoughts and say to yourself “OK. I’m listening to this PUA who has all the same fucked more than 100 girls : he had probably learned some stuff. It can’t hurt to try. It’s a win-win scenario.

When I became a PUA, I immediately started having sex with a lot more girls (and hotter girls) and my skills got much better. I was having sex almost whenever I wanted, getting text messages from girls I had one-night stands with who wanted to see me again… while I was with another girlfriend. Because yes, I’m in love with the whole other sex.

If the Lord endowed me with a cock it is not just to stand there!

Now even girls who have boyfriend text me “I’d want to take a nap” or “do you wanna watch a movie tonight ?” which means “let’s just go into your bedroom and have good sex because my boyfriend is cool but not good enough in bed… you’re my libido’s saver”.

I decided to share my tips with you because it is a hobby. I’ve always wanted to help people improve and since I’m good I’ve always had some “padawans” that would come to me for honest advice.

Now I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned during my 6 years of pickup in the community of seduction available to guys who are like I was. Those who have given up and those who have faced rejection, humiliation, and had either been dumped or had relationships fail because of a bad sex life, etc.

So I figured I would put together a system for how to have awesome sex with women. “How to be a good lover”. I wanna talk here about the stuff that changed who I am, sexually speaking. I feel like now I have inside me this power to give any woman an orgasm. I’m one of the best dick in my city and that’s why girls call me and want to see me again. It is now your turn to enter the dance (because I obviously cannot handle them all then It’s better to be generous) !

I walk around with this confidence I never had felt before. When a girl is not interested in me, I say to myself “your loss, you’ve perhaps just missed the best orgasms of your life.” It’s not being arrogant when it’s true and not subjective !

Sometimes I’m pissed off : I say it to them right in their face… in this case OK it’s a little bit arrogant… but I’m French please forgive me (if I became so good in fingering it’s maybe because I played Game Boy a lot when I was a kid – just kidding I’m just in love with the fair sex so I want to give them a lot of pleasure – and you should too)!!! Seriously you should see the world this way you too because it helps !

I want all the guys to become good in bed so that women are less “skeptical” when it comes to orgasms. I listen to them often and most of the guys are incredibly bad and do not even realize it. I really believe that if the average dude was good in bed, women would have sex with us more easily (less shit-tests and bad beliefs about us, poor men).

I have already heard “sex without love, it’s meaningless“. It’s a shame. It’s wrong. And now I hope it’s over ! To me, there’s nothing like watching a woman about to orgasm… even if we’re not in love : we can fuck and enjoy life together. “Carpe diem” (enjoy the present day without worrying about the hour of your death and even less about your future sufferings) !

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Everything about orgasm

Everything about orgasmAn orgasm is a sexual climax (or high point). Orgasm happens because of continued sexual touching. During an orgasm, there is a strong feeling of excitement and pleasure. Sexual touching may be sexual intercourse, rubbing or squeezing by hand (called masturbation), or other actions that make the sex organs feel good. During an orgasm, a person’s body sometimes spasms (shakes or trembles) and the person’s brain activity changes quickly. Orgasms may happen when people are asleep. When men orgasm while sleeping, it is often called a “wet dream”. Other mammals may have orgasms when they have sex.

The penis usually becomes erect (hard) before an orgasm, and flaccid (soft) again after. When a man has an orgasm, he feels a very strong and enjoyable feeling in his penis and groin, and sometimes in all of his body. In a man, an orgasm usually happens at the same time as an ejaculation, which is a release of semen through the penis, that can’t be stopped. Young boys can orgasm, but there may be no semen because semen release usually occurs only after puberty has started. After an orgasm, men usually have a deep sense of relaxation, usually felt in the groin and the thighs. Usually the stronger the orgasm, the deeper the relaxation and the longer the relaxation will last.

A woman’s orgasm begins in her clitoris, which is the counterpart of the man’s penis. It is preceded by an erection of the clitoris and a moistening of the opening of the vagina. When a woman goes through a full orgasm, her uterus, vagina, anus and pelvic muscles undergo a series of rhythmic contractions. Most women find these contractions very pleasurable. Rubbing or applying other consistent pressure against the clitoris is usually needed to help the woman have an orgasm.

Orgasm plays an important role in human reproduction. During sexual intercourse, a man places his penis inside a woman’s vagina and moves it backwards and forwards. The woman may also move her hips back and forth, or in a circular motion. The friction caused by this movement, together with the warmth and pressure of the vagina, causes the man to have pleasurable feelings in his penis, which grow stronger and stronger until the man has an orgasm and ejaculates, at which time semen then shoots out from the end of his penis into the woman’s vagina. The semen can make the woman pregnant.

The woman may also have an orgasm during intercourse as well. Scientists are not sure why women have orgasms. Some believe that the orgasm helps the sperm in the man’s semen to swim up the vagina into the cervix, so that it is more likely that a sperm cell will fuse with an egg cell. Others think that the woman’s orgasm is designed to help make the man reach orgasm. During her orgasm, a woman may moan, cry, or scream, which usually excites her man, and her vagina may grip the penis more tightly, which also makes sex more exciting for him. These reactions may cause the man to ejaculate more quickly or to produce more semen; when a woman reaches orgasm during intercourse, it often makes her man have an orgasm at that point as well. Orgasm may also encourage a woman to have sex more often as it feels good, increasing the chances of pregnancy.

A study indicates that the risk of breast cancer for women is lower for those who frequently have orgasms (more than fourteen orgasms a month), in particular after 50 years.

According to another study on 918 men from 45 to 59 years old, and followed for 10 years, the risk of mortality is lower of 50 % for those who have frequently orgasms (more than twice a week).

NB : all the orgasms have not the same intensity.

For the anecdote: It happened to me, several times, after powerful orgasms, to laugh myself sick. I do not know why. A story of hormones, certainly.

I do not think you can establish a gradation of power between the different types of orgasms (fingers, tongue, penis) … It depends on a lot of other factors. It’s not as easy as it looks!

The main idea : making love is an art, it’s not just emptying your balls.

It is well known that having orgasms regularly improves life expectancy !

May the God of Cyprine be with us !

Extract from : The awesome lover’s manual

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Secrets for being a good lover

Secrets for being a good loverHow to be awesome in bed ?

Dear Future Sex God,

My point while writing this ebook is to help you to give to girls the most incredible sexual experiences of their lives ! I guess I’m not the first pretentious guy who wants to write such an ebook… but I am Cyprineman, sexpert famous for licking pussies like a God (it’s my gift).

But, I won’t only talk about licking pussies here. I also want you to know at the end of your reading the spots on girls’ body to touch – and how to touch them the good way – to make them scream “AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH you’re the best lover of my life” !

I will explain to you the good mindset that lead to some good sex, and the good things to do when you are having sex with her : how to warm her, how to finger her, what key-positions to master, how to last long enough to satisfy them, how to stay hard, how to recognize a real orgasm, etc. I want this ebook to be exhaustive. Everything about sex here.

By writing these lines, I really want to make the work I would have enjoyed finding when I started.

After my ebook about Online Dating, I thus propose you by now another practical ebook (by opposition to theoretical) : no intellectual masturbation. Only things you can use next time you’ll sleep with a girl… to drive her crazy. It’s not very complicated things, but it’s things you must know and use. I want to keep it simple but effective. For example, about lasting longer : we will talk about “tricks” that help but we’ll stay on realistic things… because anyway the more you’re used to fuck and used to fuck beauties, the more you’ll last and become good naturally.

And it’s not just about giving orgasms and connecting with the other sex, it’s so much more than that… When you are a good fuck, you feel proud… you feel like a real man. You feel like you have an ace up in your sleeve that gives you a mysterious confidence. All the women and men that you meet will treat you with respect because of this sexual confidence. Sexual skills really do MAKE the man and people can tell because it gives you an aura.

Very few men are good in bed. Really good, I mean. Knowing you’re good will give you an incredible advantage in your mind. To get the girl and to keep her if you wish… because she’ll be addicted. You will invert the balance of power between men and women by proposing her something rare: a good lover.

You will not anymore be afraid of the competition. If you knew how many guys I saw going into trouble while trying to pick up a girl then not daring to turn up at her place the day of the meeting because they were afraid of screwing her badly. You already have an advantage on the others… because rare are the guys who agree to learn on the sex. They are way too proud! And even if they brag, it is a taboo subject!

By the way, how do we know that we are a good leg? When the girls tell it to you every time you sleep with one of them, for example. When you inspire them comments like “fuck but where did you learn that, you, it was awesome!” That happens to me all the time now (nevertheless I leave by far) then sorry if I am a little big headed now ! 😉

But it’s not about my ego, not about “being better than the others“. It would be impossible and useless anyway. Some people will always be better than you and me. It’s not really a competition fortunately as far as the girls have only for partners a little sample of the population. The probability that she knew a better lover than you and me is thus low (at least after you read this book).

I wish to get loose from everything that can make sex a stressful and full of negativity experience with the aim of teaching you how to enjoy a profound union… an experience way more complex and pleasant than a purely physical gratification (physical friction which is all the same important but it’s not enough).

Sex, it’s not just a mechanical act. So yeah sure I will tell you the mechanisms… but there is something more, something better than that… and we will talk about it too. Few people know it, few people live it… and it’s a good news because you’ve now joined a very limited circle !

I am going to reveal you why so many people say that sex is wonderful and you’ll finally understand why in the practice it is not often that awesome !

Extract from : The awesome lover’s manual

 

 

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Banging a girl who has a boyfriend…?

Banging a girl who has a boyfriend...Many times I was asked if a PUA could fuck the chick of another guy? And if yes, is it risked?

First of all, from an ethical point of view, everything is possible. Social realities are constructions that are more dependent on our individual perceptions than on the rules in force in our spacetime. In addition, it would be hard for me to lecture you.

Then, from a technical point of view, this is also possible. Beyond the “do not do to others what you would not like them to do to you” (there’s always been fucked and fuckers), the chick may not be satisfied or seeking for taking revenge on her boyfriend so a woman always can cheat. In addition, it is reasonable to think that if she is not cheating on him with you, she will cheat with another man.

But I want to share with you some cases you may encounter on the field and to what you expose yourself by banging chicks who are in a relationship :

 

1 / The pretty girl who says “I have a boyfriend.”

It’s either true or it is a defense to avoid weiros. It’s a bit like “I am a lesbian.” In any cases this is a bad start but I advise you to avoid sinking with the “it’s good I’m not jealous” or with stuff like “I’m a better lover than your guy who is ugly and has a small dick.”

Maybe her couple is fictitious or in the hot seat, but she would defend it to stay consistent with what she first said. She would also feel hurt in her ego.

I think it would be better to congratulate her for having found her soul mate, even if it is a bit ironic. In this case, she may entrust it does not go that well between both of them actually. But in any case, you score points because you won’t be thought of like a plaintiff or a desperate ass-starved.

For the provocation, you can even ask if her boyfriend would be up for a little football game with you next weekend.

 

2 / The guy comes while you’re hitting on his girlfriend.

If you did not say too much bad things about him and showed that you are not fully on his girlfriend (if it’s rather like I do not care if it’s her it may be another woman), there’s no reason for problems (unless he is a mentally sick person). You would be well advised to congratulate him on his taste about women.

But you must know that some are always looking for excuses to fight. Or, helped by alcohol, who go crazy for nothing. I remember a guy in the street, I had just stared at the ass of his girlfriend and he had come to me, doing a total scandal, like asking if I wanted to fuck her and everything. I just said she was a pretty girl, but I had a girlfriend too and I did not want to disrespect him and her. Although when a guy stares at my girl, it’s more of flattery. But hey, when you’re insecure, you see everything in black…

 

3 / If however you bang a girl in couple… watch out!

You may experience the jealousy of a guy that can go from a mouth breaking into proper form to murder or any trap/revenge. I agree that the chick is as much or more in fault than you. And what would the guy have done if your girlfriend had offered to fuck him? But … most of monkeys will rather be mad at the other guy than at their girl. Although this latter failed to admit that she had a boyfriend at the one who picked her up.

You may even risk worse: never being able to trust your girlfriends because you understand that women cheat. They have a lot of proposals and that it’s easy for them. This is very toxic, almost as much as the water side of a Japanese nuclear power plant.

If she falls in love with you and leave her boyfriend for you: you feel guilty so you finish in a relationship without the knowledge of your own accord. You will also struggle to trust her because “who has drunk will drink again.”

You will have the word “BASTARD” tattooed for life on the forehead … in the eyes of the people who know the cuckold.

If her boyfriend guesses and she does not have the courage to admit it to her boyfriend, it will be easier for her to do not assume: BUT OF COURSE, YOU HAVE FORCED HER … SHE WAS RAPED! You’ll get in trouble. It happened to some guys before, all this shit, this is why I mention it.

She can be beaten up or murdered by the jealous boyfriend, enraged because of his hurt ego. What would be your part of responsibility and guilt in the matter? It’s scenarios that are common, the passion killings.

 

The conclusion is that anyone can be tempted, do discrepancies or mistakes. But beyond the ethical question, we can say that sex with married or in couple girls is more risky than just doing this sport with the many single hotties out there.

However, sometimes the desire takes precedence over reason. In this case, it is better that neither one nor the other admit it. Anyway, that’s my advice. And pay attention to erase your texts/mails… This protects the other from his jealousy perhaps destructive and yourself too. The only hard thing to deal with is (for some) guilt. If you feel that the chick will reveal everything to her boyfriend, beware! Avoid cheating on a whim …

Also think about why you did cheat, what’s wrong in your relationship or in your mind? Or do you just want the cake and butter? And it is possible without too many damages…?

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The amorous exlusivity and the different types of relationships

The amorous exlusivity and the different types of relationshipsFar from me the pretense of taking an imperious tone in this article because we will address the issue of amorous exclusivity.

After all, everyone does what he/she wants. But to do as you want, it is still necessary to know what choices are really available to us. Otherwise, it’s not a choice.

Note that I do not know what you think but for me, a relationship that works is simply a relationship that contributes to the welfare of the two protagonists.

Recent social changes

Let’s start by making an inventory of recent social developments in the loving commitment.

I just want to shake here and some preconceived ideas so that everyone can live either love as an exclusive assumed choice and not a default choice, or love as an assumed uninhibited and honest foraging. I’m not here to judge but to think and make people think.

The Basics: If one takes the point of view of evolution, men and women are similar and complementary 45/46 sexual similar chromosomes. However, sexual behavior have differences that are necessary for the survival of the species.

More recently: There are still a few decades, it was unthinkable for our ancestors that women are elected at the head of companies or governments … but progress in gender equality have changed that. Now one of the criteria for choosing a wife may be her ambition, her future career, salary, intelligence, etc. What was before rather a criteria for women to choose a husband.

Men have thus lost a part of their identity, their authority, and women are sometimes in search of virile men (although men are also lacking in women because many girls adopt more masculine attitudes).

Note: It is common knowledge that some women who have important positions behave in an authoritarian manner with their underlings but need to go out with a man who will take the initiative, dominate her a little, challenge her, and make her enjoy in the bed.

Currently: Men and women are a little bit lost in seduction. What they want consciously and what their instinct wants is not really in tune.

Therefore, in forty years, the number of single people has more than doubled (INSEE figures). More than 15 million in France… for an average of 18% in the European Union.

Women are slightly more concerned with celibacy than men (53% against 43%).

Many singles have previously been married and/or have dependent children, making difficult the organization of a new couple.

Over 50% of the singles would be single for more than three years.

40% of them, assume very well the fact of living alone.

The number of sexual partners reported by women is increasing, while it remained stable for men.

Changing attitudes about sex is a factor in the rise of Internet pornography.

The couple have a little more sex than before.


Different types of love

There is physical love: physical attraction first. The problem is that everything is based on beauty.

There is playful love: love is a game, the meetings multiply. The problem is the shallowness of the relationship and the possible fear of commitment behind it.

There’s the friendly love, it’s when friendship turns into love. Love without fever or madness.

The passionate love, it is the mixture between playful love and physical love. It is people with low self-esteem who imagine a future marriage at the first meeting. They al the time need proofs of love.

The pragmatic love is the mix between playful love and friendly. It is a relationship a little down-to-earth, but if it works, the results will be waiting for you: it works with a logic of meetings based on profitability costs/benefits.

Disinterested love is the mix between physical love and friendly love. Here love takes a spiritual dimension: one sacrifices for the other one!

What does not work

The narcissistic love, those who idealize their partner, mutual adoration… it cannot function because to love others you must love yourself. A dose of narcissism is essential.

The virtual love, geographic separation … it’s dangerous because when they meet, the fantastical dimension tends to disappear.

The unrequited love, the more the other is out of reach, the more we want him/her. “I would be happy if…” We suffer here and most of the time eventually derail…

The triangular relationship, such as with a woman for the breast side and a mistress for the sexual side. Or we go out with a and like his brother in secret. The third person is often sacrificed after damaging the basic relationship.

Forbidden love … like a teacher with a student. Here, we love the danger as much as the person. But if we remove barriers, love often disappears. Don’t fool yourself!

Solutions that are available to us :

– Monogamy: fidelity is associated with exclusivity. The benefits are emotional stability and management of jealousy. Moreover, it is easy to find someone looking for this type of relationship, since it is the most common. However, in practice, there is often sprains to the contract.
– The debauchery: it is when we add others to the couple’s love games. But the feeling of love is for one person and parallel relationships are not accepted. However, in reality, it is still possible to desire someone else …
– The open relationship: here extramarital adventures are allowed. The love contract is not based on exclusivity, allowing to experience many things. The problem here is to confront “the standard” and to manage jealousy.
– Poly-love: the principle is that we can be in love with several people at the same time. It could be funny to live with two women to sleep with them, and that they sleep together. More wages, more children, etc.

Knowing that ideally, we would live without conditioning and each couple would be unique and happy.

 

And you, what is your choice?

– The sexfriends ;
– The lovers ;
– The wedding ;
– PACS (a kind of strange wedding (but not exactly) in France) ;
– The open relationship;
– The punctual libertinism;
– Regular libertinism;
– Banging an ex or a married man;
– Etc.

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The 3 categories of cocksuckers

The 3 categories of cocksuckersIn my career, I have been able to distinguish three types of cocksuckers.

0 / But first, what is a cocksucker?

Blowjob is the human sexual behavior which is stimulating the penis of the partner with the mouth, lips and tongue. It can be performed either as a preliminary or to lead the man to orgasm.

Fellatio is an oral sex, it is the symmetric of performing a cunnilingus on a women for a man… but for a woman.

This practice is referred to by many expressions or colloquial terms, my favorite, “suck my dick bitch”.

Oral sex was also observed in some animals with a conflict management purpose (with bonobos, for example) or with a sexual purpose (in some bat species). A study on the bat shows that when the female of this species practice fellatio on her spouse, each additional second of this activity increases the coupling length of six seconds (it is quite the opposite with most men but well when your cock is soft it can help). Blowjob could therefore encourage reproduction. In addition, the saliva with antifungal and antibacterial properties of the female would prevent sexually transmitted diseases.

Since the beginning of sexology and until the sexual revolution, oral sex was considered as a pathology. Fellatio was a perversion of the sexual instinct, “instinct” which “normally” would produce only sexual activities for reproduction. In 1952, oral sex with masturbation and oral sex were part of the pathological behavior described in the first edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. When I told you that we all are crazy…

1/ The dream seller

This is the one who sucks you at the beginning of the relationship, to make you addicted and then it is not anymore worth it in her opinion.

In general, these girls do not really like sucking but they make an effort in the beginning… to impress! You, on the other hand, are supposed to lick all the time…

She can sometimes suck again punctually, eg. for your birthday!

2/ The good surprise

It is the one who does not suck at the beginning of the relationship, she is discreet. Then she begins to show you her naughty side, over time.

These girls try to make you faithful, they believe that the dangling of blowjob is everything, it’s her reward for you.

But if you’re not a good lover, you, they may never suck you and not even continue to be your girlfriend… and you could find it normal. It has become a privilege in your eyes.

3/ The regular

It is the one who sucks from the beginning to the end of the relationship. She gives back, no dirty trick!

Carpe Diem !

The problem is that she gives you good habits and if one day she is too tired and too eager and what to do the starfish: you will be very disappointed!

4/ Those who do not suck you, dirty boy

There are of course those who do not suck (never). But it does not count as a sucking category, by definition.

Often because it disgusts them (yuck), because they don’t trust their sucking skills (shame) or because it does not fit with the image of “good girl” they try to give you (social pressure).

Then, there’s also those who suck any guy at a party … but not a guy with who she wants a serious relationship! Bouh, what a trap! Her purpose is that the boyfriend does not see her as a “slut”, it’s always the same. If you are used to serious relationships and that you only fall on chicks like that, you’re not lucky!

Fortunately there’s those who do not suck any dude but who only suck when they are in a relationship (cf. 2) but hey sometimes when I lick one of them in a so good way, they suck me anyway ! You give so much that they feel compelled to give more, to stay in the competition. You take control of her sexuality, this way…

We should be able to create lots of other categories : those who suck by you shaking at the same time or not, those who only suck with the lips or those who rub you the glans with the tongue too, those with a small mouth so their teeth scrape against your glans and those who are pure mouths made for blowjob it is really comfortable. Those who swallow or not, those who suck at the beginning of the report or at the end, those who suck with the condom or without, those who lick your balls, those who put a finger in your ass, those who suck on her knees or lied down on the bed…

Finally here, I just wanted to have fun writing this little article like an asshole. I let off steam because I broke a tooth! The next one will be more serious!

And you, which one is your favorite sucker? And it is forbidden to answer “your mother”!