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The awesome lover’s manual

A PUA teaches you how to give women orgasms : how to make them come like crazy

I’ve got some questions :
– Do you want to turn women on even before touching their pussy ??
– Do you want to know several ways to finger them ??
– Do you want to know how to lick in a better way than Hank Moody ?
– Where is her fucking clitoris and how to take care of it ?
– How do you know if it was a real orgasm or if she faked ?
– What should you do with your hands during the sexual intercourse?
– Do you want me to recommend you some positions to drive them crazy?
– Do you want to last longer?
– Do you wanna get hard all the time in the bed?

My point while writing this ebook is to help you to give to girls the most incredible sexual experiences of their lives ! I guess I’m not the first pretentious guy who wants to write such an ebook… but I am Cyprineman, sexpert famous for licking pussies like a God (it’s my gift)..


But, I won’t only talk about licking pussies here. I also want you to know at the end of your reading the spots on girls’ body to touch – and how to touch them the good way – to make them scream “AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH you’re the best lover of my life” !

I will explain to you the good mindset that lead to some good sex, and the good things to do when you are having sex with her : how to warm her, how to finger her, what key-positions to master, how to last long enough to satisfy them, how to stay hard, how to recognize a real orgasm, etc. I want this ebook to be exhaustive. Everything about sex here.

After my ebook about Online Dating, I thus propose you by now another practical ebook (by opposition to theoretical) : no intellectual masturbation. Only things you can use next time you’ll sleep with a girl… to drive her crazy. It’s not very complicated things, but it’s things you must know and use. I want to keep it simple but effective. For example, about lasting longer : we will talk about “tricks” that help but we’ll stay on realistic things… because anyway the more you’re used to fuck and used to fuck beauties, the more you’ll last and become good naturally.

And it’s not just about giving orgasms and connecting with the other sex, it’s so much more than that… When you are a good fuck, you feel proud… you feel like a real man. You feel like you have an ace up in your sleeve that gives you a mysterious confidence. All the women and men that you meet will treat you with respect because of this sexual confidence. Sexual skills really do MAKE the man and people can tell because it gives you an aura.

Very few men are good in bed. Really good, I mean. Knowing you’re good will give you an incredible advantage in your mind. To get the girl and to keep her if you wish… because she’ll be addicted. You will invert the balance of power between men and women by proposing her something rare: a good lover.

You will not anymore be afraid of the competition. If you knew how many guys I saw going into trouble while trying to pick up a girl then not daring to turn up at her place the day of the meeting because they were afraid of screwing her badly. You already have an advantage on the others… because rare are the guys who agree to learn on the sex. They are way too proud! And even if they brag, it is a taboo subject for them!

By the way, how do we know that we are a good leg? When the girls tell it to you every time you sleep with one of them, for example. When you inspire them comments like “fuck but where did you learn that, you, it was awesome!”  That happens to me all the time now (nevertheless I leave by far) then sorry if I am a little big headed now ! 😉

“which orgasm did you prefer ? tongue, vagina or fingers ?
– fingers ! but I loved the others too”

“you’re the best lover in the country”

– Listen to me licking her –

Over time, what happened was that through my own experimentation, I became able to make women cum ONCE AND OFTEN MULTIPLE TIMES. I could get hard and stay hard for ONE HOUR if I wanted to.

I am going to reveal you why so many people say that sex is wonderful and you’ll finally understand why in the practice it is not often that awesome !

56% of men who have affairs say they are in love with their wives. Currently, women are initiating 70% of divorces. 25% of married women will also have an extramarital affair (for 40% of men). 54% of people will never know their partner has cheated. 30% of people on dating site are not single, 38% of people on those sites are looking for one night stands (source : IFOP).

After you’ve read this book and internalize the programs I’ve prepared for you, you will feel so confident about your skills and knowledge in bed that you will not be paranoid nor insecure about your lover (or girlfriend, or wife) leaving you for some other dude (or woman) with more money, better looks, and better sexual skills than you. You won’t have sexual complexes anymore!

Number one reason why women cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed (sorry if it happened to you). Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually, and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like depression, cheating, divorce…

If you are thinking that being just OK in bed is all you want, that it is enough, think again! We are in a COMPETITIVE environment ! Do you know in how many discreet ways the girls can cheat – and I’m not only speaking mentally – but physically actually meet up with someone and fuck (I’ve often been this someone)… and you NEVER know about it??? Online dating, social networks, all kinds of sites for men and women who want to have discreet affairs. Temptation will definitely be there for her to cheat. Men try to pick up women ALL THE TIME. EVEN IF THEY’RE MARRIED ! If you’re not good in bed, you’re in danger…

These problems you’re having, problems I used to have : these are the problems of an inexperienced (and lost in front of this mysterious science) lover. With that said, you don’t need to have sex with 100 girls like me to get enough experience and be good in the bed. Once you know WHY most guys struggle in bed, it becomes easy to flip the switch and rock her world.

No more not feeling like a man. I don’t want guys who did nothing to deserve that feeling this pain and this shame like I did.  You have a dick : it’s a responsibility. Learn how to use it. Be proud of it ! Prove yourself worthy of that ! You are less of a man if you decide not to man-up and change what’s wrong in your bed !

I will tell you now the story of a dude who asked me how to give strong powerful orgasms. But this guy pissed me off because he wasn’t humble nor modest : he told me he was sleeping with dozens of girls at the same time and was already a God in the bed. So I logically asked him why he wanted my advice.

To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex twice and he came in under two minutes. A lot of guys get trapped in the same ego-trap. They lie to others, lie to themselves, and don’t even know why ! On my blog like on this ebook, I want us to be honest with the another ones…

It’s the same thing with seduction : most of guys are way too proud. They reject the advices but read my blog all the same. This is ridiculous. You need to admit when what you’re doing isn’t working (or could work better) instead of making yourself too proud to prove we-don’t-know-what. If you think you’re yet a fucking sex god porn star, this program’s obviously not for you.

Otherwise, you’ve got to realize that you CAN improve your sexual skills. No matter how bad you are today (or not), they WILL improve. And no matter how good you think you are (or really are), you can still get better and get new ideas. It’s OK to get help to become excellent. I think we are on Earth to help each others. Myself continue again and again to document and to experiment! But I want to help only motivated people, fighters who deserve it by giving themselves the means!

NO ONE IS A NATURAL GOD WHEN IT COMES TO SEX. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of hot women might seem “natural”, but they are not because they learned too, like us. Differently, but they did. And only if their girls were curious…

The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can evolve in bed, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your best friend nor your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl… or in pornography, which is completely different, they’re professional naturally gifted (and it’s often faked). You have to learn the skills.

You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “this isn’t going to work” then it won’t (or not much) ! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! And bad ones, for sure !

Of course we are not animals so I will give you ideas to make the temperature rise before having sex… as a delivery for both of you. I do not plan to be disrespectful nor misogynist here. START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with (quality) women no matter where you are today on the sex-scale and that they will thank you for that (they’ll suck your cock with appetite). Because it is my mission, to make you become a real animal in the bed ! And I accepted it!

You can give women orgasms and your girl is capable of having mind-blowing “Full body Orgasms.” We can say that these orgasms are overwhelming because when women have such an orgasm they don’t know how many times nor how long they came. It’s an awesome experience for them !

HUNDREDS of guys write to me saying that their girl is different. That this stuff works on “slutty” girls (or whores) but their lover is a more serious, more classy woman. OF COURSE, DUDES ! Guys, what you’ve not understood is that women respond incredibly to Incredible Sex. These are just psychological principles. You are having a belief system problem and you’re blind so start trying with putting some inner conviction in it before saying it doesn’t work. Don’t be stupid, every woman has a goodgirl and a badgirl side… but often hidden…

Your lover IS sexual you just AREN’T GOOD. If you doubt about it, it’s just because you’re not good enough so she reveals you this part of her. She doesn’t tell you just to protect you. Let go off your ego and improve. I understand that is intimidating and that it hurts… but this book is here to help you. I’ve seen even the most uptight, tight-ass, coldest wives or working girls act like crazy slut teenage school girls after having sex with me. And that, believe in me, it is fun!!! (And in addition it is a good deed!)

When you’re having sex, it’s just you naked on top of her. You’re equal. Creating an amazing, mind-blowing sexual experience for a woman is all about your sexual abilities, which are completely LEARNED. And you’ll learn in the next pages…

If you want to be “the man” or better a “real man” in her eyes then : become good in bed! It will change EVERY aspect of your sexual life! It will even change YOUR MIND by improving your inner  confidence !

Motivation is more than important to apply my stuff. Have you got the desire and/or the need to improve in the bed ?

If yes, welcome to this ebook that will tell you all my basics and advanced stuff to totally rock your bed. 47€ for this PDF file (200 pages).

In addition, this ebook will focus on :
– the orgasm in general (physiologically and psychologically speaking) ;
– knowing when she fakes orgasm and why she does that ;
– why orgasms make people fall in love ;
– the erogenous zones ;
– how to break the last minute resistance ;
– alcohol and sex ;
– the supplements and drugs ;
– how to get hard naturally in spite of stress ;
– how to last long even if we’re fucking really excited ;
– how women works when it comes to sex (mentality) ;
– what kind of lovers drive them crazy ? ;
– what turn them on in bed ? what do they expect from you ? ;
– how you can use porn to improve ;
– the kinesthetic pattern of the kiss that really turn them on ;
– how to use massages to drive them crazy ;
– how to finger them ;
– how the female sex works ;
– the welcomed method to give very powerful orgasms ;
– how to master pussy licking ;
– the position so that your sex looks bigger ;
– all the key-positions to make them come ;
– what is a bad lover ? ;
– how to be a good kisser? ;
– what to do after sex ? ;
– how to make her want to make a threesome ? ;
– my opinion on the sextoys ;
– the contraception and the sexual diseases ;
– the best condoms ever according to me ;
– the female ejaculation ;
– the sexual fantasies of women ;
– the G-spot ;
– the clitoris ;
– some ideas to pepper the act ;
– the tantrism ;
– a lot of other stuff…

You can read here an extract of the ebook if you are motivated. Know, for you information, that I always quote my sources and give free bonus at the end of my books.

 

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Top 10 improbable lines with whom I picked up chicks (true stories)

10 effective pick up lines

# 1 “Are you straight?
– Yes.
– So would you like to kiss me?
– Why not” Kiss.!

# 2 “You have a nice butt my mare, I want to ride you to win the Irish sweepstakes..
– (She and her friends laugh)
– Relax, it was just a joke …
– Yes I guessed !
– What do we do now ? We kiss?
– (Laughs again) OK let’s go, because I liked your approach” Kiss.!

# 3 “When you’ll get tired of being with your girlfriends, come see me.
– That’s it I’m tired” Kiss !

# 4 “Hi, are you a good kisser?
– Yes” and she damn put her tongue into my mouth and then “do you have got fags?
– No I’m not a smoker.
– Okay good night, it was nice anyway…”

# 5 “Hi, we kiss?
– What for ? “And there without answering I turned her head and KISS.

# 6 “Did you wash your teeth?
– Yes.
– Then we can kiss?
– (No answer) “kiss.

# 7 “Is there still girls that I have not kissed in this club?
– There’s me.
– OK. Do you want to kiss me?
– perhaps…
– Go, let’s give it a try” kiss.

# 8 “Wesh chick, wazup? We make pimp bombs?
– What is your trip?
– If I tell you that it’s a gamble, does it ruins everything ?” One got up and kissed me.

# 9 “Didn’t we already kissed in a club?
– no I don’t think so.
– Well, then we sould do it” Kiss!

# 10 “Do you have vomited tonight?
– no.
– You can kiss then …
– I don’t know, not now.
– Are you not enough drunk or you don’t find me handsome enough?
– I do not know, both.
– Go, I bet you’re gonna the first one to crack.
– Not a chance”I approached her, close, without kissing her. We talked for about ten minutes and sexual tension drove her crazy… She cracked the first one…

Bonus: Do not forget to move on to sleep with them! For example: a girl in the line of a club. “Would you like to kiss me?
– Yes” kiss “second question, have you already made love today?
– no…
– Are you interested?
– Yes … but right now I must join my girlfriends.
– OK, take my number and call me later, plus I just adopted a kitten, you’ll be able to see it.
– Okay, I take your number”.

For more concrete examples of funny and uninhibited pickup, read this ebook.

” You too have the fantasy of the unknown?”
” You too fall only on bad legs? ”
” Have you already made a threesome? ”
“How long since your last orgasm?”
“Do you like doggy style with spanking ?”
etc.

And you, what lines do you use?

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Top 10 of sexy butts

# 1 The too fat ass

With this, if you are able to get hard, you’re a boss. It can be a challenge to take it doggy style.


# 2 The big ass

I know that there are guys who like fat chicks like that. Destroying an ass a little fat and soft, it can be enjoyable. And especially to make it turn red by hitting and spanking on it.


# 3 The nice but fat ass

Here starts the real competition of the ass. The girl is wide but somewhat muscular. The nice fat ass must often be accompanied by a pretty face and cute boobs otherwise it ruins everything.


Also available in blonde. Even better if it belongs to your boss who piss you off all day long.


# 4 Ass looking like a heart

It is the ass of love: round and massive. It is not for the small pink cocks of skinny metrosexuals! And if the girl gets quilts, you can even use it as convenient handles for doggy style. Well dimpled, if you take a run-up, you can jump on it like on a trampoline.


# 5 The anorexic ass

Unlike previous ass, the ass here pale, scrawny and tasteless. Advised to repressed pedophile who love children and so the girls without forms. Built by these fags who dictate women’s fashion in Paris and then go get fucked in gay bars. Precautions: be careful to do not penetrate the bones of her hips in your lower abdomen, it hurts. Also be careful to don’t break her legs.


# 6 The flat ass

Flat yes, but can be successful like a joke by Norman. Indeed, an ass like that can be as good as a horny porn with Clara. Especially if you love fucking asians who have never seen a big dick in their lives. Hoping to be able to get it without hurting her too much.


Also available in French model to please Montebourg. Even better if it’s a bit tanned and wearing a smock.

# 7 The Eastern bitch’s ass

A perfectly proportioned and horny ass. Easy access to Western men when traveling in the countries of the east. I’ve not seen anything so excitant since my last orgy with DSK in a luxury hotel. In addition, they were not very expensive (€ 50 per doggy style).

# 8 South American’s ass

It loves to stir on Brazilian music. Warm, welcoming and breast, perfect for unresolved Oedipus complex. It allows to start a family with confidence. And after bearing children, you can even enjoy an effect “melancholy ass” due to excessive stretch marks and cellulite. By cons, you must love brunettes and hair.

# 9 The black ass

It was designed for big black cocks and is known to be one of the finest asses in the world. Global benchmark, to be tested at least once in your life! It is not too hard: the carriers of these ridges seems to be hypersexual. Even more exciting if they are dressed as maids to please the macho (it also works with the Eastern girl).

# 10 The little well-rounded butt

The sports ass. Great as it is young and goes to the gym. Generally it ages badly (it breaks the myth) so it is interesting to renew your girlfriend regularly.

Bonus: the perfect ass

So there is a bit of a personal choice. That ass never pooped, just like Megan Fox. Just designed for sex.


Thanks to Topito for allowing me to make this ranking ass (I had a lot of fun) because otherwise it would not really have had a place on my blog. Unfortunately, at the time of publishing they thus backtracked so I publish it here.

And you, which ass do you like the most ?

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Top 10 of tips to make out with sexy chicks

#1 Be zen, relax

The game begins when you’re coming in. We must therefore watch your body language to be a center of attention (that’s why the servers are so successful in bars in addition of social proof). Stand straight, open up, make sure and slow movements. You must display a zen aura, one must think that you are relaxed (although this is not the case).

Remember to smile, but not too much. Instead, make little smiles : the kind we do when we get a private joke that others have not understood.

 

#2 The eye contact : do not be afraid of women

Too many men are afraid of women and it can be read in their eyes. Make her look down the first one by maintaining the eye contact.

Then, when the interaction has started: look at her in the eyes 90% of the time when you talk and 10% of the time when she talks … in order not to look like a psychopath.

 

#3 Talk to her like if you already know her, be a player and fun

If you start to get uncomfortable or too tight-ass, she will feel it and the bad emotions are contagious. Instead, consider flirting as a game.

So have fun, use funny and daring lines. Make her have fun, show you nerves. Over-play your confidence and show that you do not take yourself seriously.

Break the ice, be fun, playful and relaxed… like if you were with an old friend (so touch her that way) and see if she agrees to discuss with this dynamic (or frame). If this is the case, it’s all good and be take more initiatives. If this is not the case … next!

 

#4 Have ready-to-use lines to help you when you don’t know what to say nor how to approach

Too many guys keep silent because they do not know what to say. So, prepare some “openers” to avoid being always silent. There are plenty of examples on my blog and in this ebook.

These same guys, when they finally speak with a girl switch in an interview Mode “how old are you, what do you do in life, what’s your name, do you suck dicks?” : This is not original (it bothers women and thus makes them want to go away) … but a good pick-up artist should be the exception to the rule.

By the same logic, do not stare at every asses in the street like a hungry sex-starved loser!

 

#5 Do not give her too much before you saw her naked

You talk to a girl: you needed some courage and effort to get there. But you should not give it too much importance just because she has a pussy into which you would feel warm.

Too many guys cling to girls who are OK to talk to them because they do not want to have to make the effort to approach another one… so they attach themselves and invest in them too much ( and often disproportionately so it scares women away). Don’t pay for a restaurant during a first date, for example.

Rather, YOU must be, the price in the interaction: you must reverse the balance of power (first of all in your head so that it is materialized in real life). It is way easier to fuck a girl when we know we will be the best lover of her life and that if she does not want and would rather want to fuck losers… well, that’s too bad for her if she is an idiot who does not understand anything. This is called a positive belief, it is not necessarily true nor false, it’s subjective but it helps to get ahead in life.

Once you’ve slept with her, if you still want to be her boyfriend you can behave as such. But still do not become too sticky and needy. And do not confuse love and sexual desire.

 

#6 Do you ever get discouraged

Me too, there’s nights when it does not work. Nights when they all are “sorry I have a boyfriend” or “sorry I am lesbian” (or other fake shitty excuses that are sometimes only virility test but hey it sucks anyway). But you should never give up. It’s part of the game!

You should have enough inner strength to do not be affected by the wickedness of some girls who no longer feel sooo powerful when we approach them. The nerves and perseverance pay (not only in pickup).
Be careful, the game can be dangerous for your nerves …

 

#7 Instead of bragging, make her talk

Do not boast, it is not an alpha male attitude, but rather of guy seeking for approbation. Now, a sexy guy is not trying to prove things. “A rich doesn’t need to say he is rich.”

So instead of trying to qualify yourself by talking, make her talk about her about things she is interested in. People love it (we’re all a bit self-centered), even the women, and in addition it will rest you. Make active listening: she will find you much more friendly.

 

#8 Go too fast rather than too slow, dare

As she speaks, feel free to touch her or make innuendos. You will see how she reacts. Know that women are followers of the implied consent (because of social pressure, she is not going to jump on you because she’s too scared to be thought of as a whore).

For your own comfort, please go rather too quickly, too direct, than too slowly or too indirect, it will avoid ambiguities and thus friendzone. In addition, she expects you to be manly and that you want to sleep with her: you do not want her to take you for a gay anyway? You must desecrate women, you must know that they are not so pure nor innocent as some believe. Do not judge them for that. Do not call them whores. Enjoy it instead: yes, they love sex, especially when it’s done right, and that’s good for you too.

“It is better to ask forgiveness than permission.”

 

#9 Do not let her play with you

Lambdas men, guided by their pecker, yet only very rarely sleep with chicks (of few girls). So, women can get away with playing with them, boss them around, make them do what they want like paying drinks and everything.

Do not go into this system because, except in cases she would want to marry, they are not turned on by the “pigeons”. Paradoxically, all these efforts and attention are fun but they lose their respect for you when you submit to everything. Learn how to say no. To make her pay drinks for spending time with you. It’s like the cat with toys: as long as it moves the cat plays but when it falls between its legs … the cat loses interest.

 

#10 Be everywhere, approach a lot, get used to talking to strangers

You can multiply your chances of success by picking up on the Internet, in clubs and why not in the street. More option you have and the better it is. You should play on numbers.

Must also work on the technique: the trick is to get used to talking to unknown(s). The more you practice, the less it will cost you and you will be less dependent on the women you approach. They feel it and your attitude becaming more “I don’t give a shit I’m sexy” towards them seduce them (they usually love this attitude).

Last tip: approach quickly, something like three seconds after spotting a girl you like. Otherwise, she will take you for a psychopath or a guy without balls who need an hour before finding the courage to dare and she will lose respect for you (and you lose some value in her eyes just like those who use false excuses like “do you have a light?” and then try to pick them up it’s a shame). Or you will ask 36 000 questions and be put under stress then get cold feet at the time of spending a speed or then approaching her but perspiring malaise and solitude.

And you, what advice would you give?

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Is seduction something innate ?

Image : The dark knight rises Batman

On seduction forums, we can often read these vague politically correct advice that invite people to be more natural, “do it simple”, “mostly be natural”, “it just happens between a man and a woman”, “c’mon it’s easy to flirt”and worst of all “just be yourself”. For me, it makes no sense to say that. BE YOURSELF: OK … but the real yourself!

Too much theory kills theory … (but the opposite is true!)

For me, take these tips as invitations to approach the game in a less stressful way (and therefore more effective because stress is our enemy in seduction – some make a mountain of that). It is important to don’t use those advices as excuses to do nothing (“I am myself so I do not approach” … no in this case it is the stress that speaks it’s not you). And it is especially necessary to understand what really means this famous “be yourself”: basically you’re a man with sexual desires so: be yourself and assume them! It is important to don’t misinterpret the message !!!

If one takes away your inhibitions and your bad faith, you already know almost everything, basically! I’m sure ! You probably would be able to fuck a girl per week. I remember friends I introduced to the game who were able to take a phone number or kiss a girl during their first approach. We can say that it’s beginner’s luck or think that this skill is innate somewhere in us. (Anyway this beginner’s luck motivate to continue … I do not know if my friends would be where they are if they did not begin with some success before being rejected a lot). But the problem it’s when the guys start thinking too much about the game…

For example, learning how to recognize indicators of interest… it’s not obvious at first. However, we instinctively have this faculty in us. It’s a question of survival of the species! But it is currently covered by a layer of education and experience that block us (we do not believe in it). Unless you have Asperger’s or spend 10 hours a day on World of Warcraft, you should be able to suspect something when a girl likes you. But when a guy switches into analytical mode and need a comprehensive list of IOI to check before taking initiatives, it unfortunately means that he is not focused enough or present enough in his pickup. He should perhaps start by being in the present moment instead of trying to further analyze the thing. This is not the theory itself I’m criticizing (theory is necessary), but rather the mode of intellectualization some adopt that seems causing too much frustration. In other words, intellectual masturbation will not drain your nuts!

Incidentally, my eyes still hurt a bit when I read on forums that guy is “a beginner in seduction.” Indeed, he may be a young inexperienced player but talking about beginner in seduction seems to me inappropriate … like if the guy was at level 1 of a video game with Mimie Mathy to be gamed to go to level 2 and Eva Green the boss at the end. It’s not appropriate to think that the physical appearance of a bitch will influence the ease with which she spreads the legs or her IQ. These parameters aren’t really related, in practice there’s more ugly girls that are pains in the ass than beautiful chicks (among others because the ugly chicks often dislike their bodies therefore do not like to get naked)!

Sorry but picking up chicks, this is not rocket science unlike creating computers. However, some geeks among my readers master very complicated stuff about the computers but not how to approach a woman. We can complicate the thing with formulas like Mystery for reassurance (or sell) and eventually actually make it difficult … but it is not so difficult in fact. You must demystify seduction! This effectively becomes difficult when you are not confident and when you imagine that it is. Otherwise, how our grandfathers would have seduced our grandmothers knowing that the game did not exist before 1990? This is just a science created to understand a phenomenon like physics studies the world but what is not explained yet exist.


What approach is the most appropriate for learning?

You cannot pretend you are zero : we (almost) all have naturally a number of social skills. Indeed, unless you have been abandoned at birth and raised in the jungle by Baloo, you already know about communicating normally and you have some human qualities. The real challenge is to identify, strengthen them and make the most of it. This well-known by consultants and coaches approach can be effectively applied to seduction.

The opposite approach is to identify what’s wrong to try to fix it… it’s too long, tedious and unrealistic when applied to humans. How can we believe that we will fully reconstruct someone? Besides this type of method can have destructive effects in terms of self-esteem and guilt. This wrong approach is also the reason why many guys are still blocking for years on seduction forums without getting any concrete results. Even that sometimes they are so watered by theory that they het used to give lessons to others !!!

How do inner game works?

The inner game is what happens in the mind of the player. Its main obstacles are: doubt and anxiety. An optimal inner game is to do not let these crap too much hinder the path to success… so we can fully express our innate potential. Fear, disbelief, nervousness, jealousy, embarrassment, perplexity, hesitation and lack of attention are driving down our confidence and ability to penetrate fully in the exchange in a relevant and empathetic way with respect to the objective which is all the same for a PUA to bang hot babes girls. Not to have dates, not take numbers … to fuck! For an optimal game, switch off this damn ego that gives the orders (“you MUST use this as opener, playing the cube game, negging her” if you have not you’re a noob, etc.) rather switch on and let express your natural ability. Basically, bombarding someone with orders and advice is counter-productive. Do not do it to your friends when you want to initiate them to the game !!! But let’s o back to you…

If you give yourself the order to stop giving you orders, it is the homosexual snake biting its tail. Your self-talk will just amplify and contradictions will make you implode. We instead want to concentrate to only keep the aspects of a situation that is necessary for its optimal performance. It’s like when you talk to a girl: all that matters is that the message is heard in a clear and genuinely way to create in her an emotion that works for you. When you watch your game it’s the same: do it in the most neutral way possible and without emitting negative value judgment (that was bad, sad, zero, etc.)

No bad value judgment!

This is fundamental in the learning process which has four steps:
– Observation without judgment of what is to be improved
– Imagining the desired result
– Self-confidence (routines and techniques are just contingency plans)
– Observation without judgment of the changes and results until you’re proud of having achieved your goal
Such an approach necessarily strengthens your belief in your innate qualities and therefore your self-esteem. Notice that we erased here the stage in which we yell at ourselves every time it does not go as well as we would like. It is relaxing to deal with yourself in a so kind way. Especially since it’s not because we have a bad game that we necessarily miss our life…

Wanting to learn…

To learn, sometimes a good question well put is better than one hundred tips to make people move on in their head.
“What have you observed when you’ve approached? ”
“Why did you ask her phone number at this moment? ”
“What happened when you took her hand to make her dance? ”
etc.
The apprentice PUA thus realizes things we could simply tell him directly … but he discovers for himself. This learning is much deeper and less interference generator. It is better to teach him how to learn, to stir his curiosity, knowing where to find the answers and thus develop his adaptive intelligence by reducing the interferences of the ego and contradictory injunctions. The autonomy is fundamental in seduction! Initiatives too! Nerves even more !

The problem is that when it comes to love and sexuality, social control and influence over the people by the religious authorities / government / parents / media / etc. are so powerful that we all are at some degree puppets submitted to social pressure (even if you feel that’s you’re free). Unlearning all that crap to achieve a simpler, more empathetic and sincere communication (with yourself and with others) remains in my opinion the quickest and most enjoyable way to seduce women you like. Because seduction is most a question of communication… even if it is multidisciplinary.

Let’s be ourselves! But do we really know who we are?

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How to show to a woman her own contradictions

Patricia offers you the possibility of chatting with her. Do not hesitate to send a message to try to fill her shopping basket!

Patricia says: Unfortunately I think you have wasted one of your rare charms (I am flattered btw ;)) because it seems I am one of those girl stereotype, who takes relations upside down according to you and am tight-ass … Certainly because I fell only on bad lovers :)!

Fab answers: it’s your choice, but do not forget that by doing what you’ve always done … you will get the results you have always gotten.

Patricia says: What I always get me probably suits me ;)! But I cannot prevent myself to approach men like you thinking that I’m special enough to make them see things differently. But I would have to realize that I am not special;)

Fab answers : Yeah that’s it! It suits you so well that you give moral lessons on Adopt… so approach guys like me, as you say, and you will have lots of orgasms. Otherwise, every woman is special in one way or another… don’t worry!

Patricia says : I am not giving you lessons of moral :)! People are as they are and it is useless to invest energy to try to change them! Then if you’re happy that’s the most important !!! I would not waste my time to make you a lesson, you assume what you are and that’s what counts. I accept people as they are, I just know if they can bring me something good or not! If I condemned your way of life I would not have accepted your charm and praised the effort put in your description :)!

Fab answers : Welcomes therefore the effort I’ll put in licking your pussy now.

Patricia says: Haha I do not think so! But I don’t want to question your qualities as a lover 🙂

Fab answers: I HOPE SO, YEAH! 😉 Otherwise explain me why a girl like you is going to refuse free orgasms without judgment and with a guy who turns her on a minimum… is it a principle or there’s something else? Because it seems so stupid that I cannot conceive it so you would be nice to explain.

Patricia says: Let me clarify that I find you a little pretentious (I find it fun and at the same time I don’t know if I most want to see if you say the truth or to shut you up ;)). As you stated in your description, I’m locked in my principles;)! I believe that sex is important but the couple must already be a couple for that. And to be a couple we must have a minimum of connection before the act. With that said, I appreciate the idea that you do not prevent yourself from living something nice if it comes to you. Many men do not want to expose themselves to a normal relationship with a woman. I may also be very stupid 🙂 but I do not like this idea!

Fab answers: So, you have not been able to give me arguments and you are contradicting yourself in your paragraph. PS = of course that you want to check, deeply.

Patricia says: I have no argument except that I am what I am;).

Fab answers: So you transform a win-win scenario in a lose-lose scenario and you’re proud in addition? OK, you consider sex as important but to be a couple before. So why do a lot of couples break up because sex is bad? They go on dates during several weeks and then sleep together and it sucks then they will not meet up again. Wanting the guy to commit before sleeping with him reveals a lack of confidence in your ability to keep him after sex. This is not very encouraging…

Patricia says : I will not calculate the number of dates before sex, I’m not such a stereotype than that, thank you;)! It depends on the connections with the person. You are certainly right, I am not really confident even though I’m wonderful haha! But it’s because we fall on guys who make us believe things while they just want to undress our firm buttocks;)

Fab answers: Yeah and then you’re mad at them because they lied. But as you can see that the franchise does not work with you…

Patricia says: I am suspicious, that’s all! You pay the piper for your fellow, I cannot deny that and I do not hide it!

Fab answers: If you knew how I could repair a part of your mess, you might not give me the same speech. What could you lose by trying, by the way?

Patricia says : I don’t like to be taken for an idiot, if not be taken for a ham. It hurts my ego too badly, I have a minimum of pride! And then it makes me lose my confidence… what a vicious circle!

Fab answers: Yeah I understand that but the question is: What do you have to lose by coming enjoying with me? I’m not a stupid asshole : If you’re talking to me for an hour and everything it’s because you’re tempted a minimum…

Patricia says: This is not compatible with me.

Fab answers: You watch too many TV shows, you. It makes you answer stupidly.

Patricia says : Guilty !!!

Fab answers: Yeah, maybe you come to live in real life just one day. I wish you to fall on a dude who will make you discover another aspect of your own sexuality one day. But do not forget that you are in a competitive environment so the pain in the ass like you who contradict themselves and are full of rigid principles are bypassed by babes a little more flexible in their head who 1/know where is their interest and 2/dare to take the plunge. See ya

For more informations about how to handle this damned women’s logic : here.

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Good pickup scene in Girls

Girls is an American TV show that tells the lives in New York of a group of friends who are in their twenties. Their main perspective is the economic and moral crisis of the Western world. They are living in a time that is both hard and free (sexuality, friendship, unability to succeed in life). We follow their sentimental, sexual, at work and in family galleys. It’s like Sex & The City but younger. The first episode even talks about it, that is to say!

This is typically a “series for chicks.” The kind that I watch sometimes (when it’s not too namby-pamby) to better understand women.

The four main characters are (a team of little-known but credible actresses):
– Hannah Horvath, a young writer in her twenties who trainee and living in Greenpoint, Brooklyn, whose parents have pulled the plug. She is a little ill at ease.
– Marnie Michaels, the roommate and best friend of Hannah. She is serious and responsible. If not tight-ass but sexy, bitchy and ambitious.
– Jessa Johansson, English cousin and roommate of Shoshanna. Bohemian and unpredictable adventurer. She’s a little hippie and former drug addict.
– Shoshanna Shapiro, naive and bubbly cousin of Jessa.

Personally, I like Marnie and Jessa. That’s my kind of chicks. Shoshanna is kinda hot but her eyes are weird, they make me uncomfortable. And Hannah’s too damn fat: even if she is friendly, it does not compensate.

In terms of guys I like two :
– Adam Sackler, who has a relationship with Hannah. He is a completely crazy actor.
– Jonathan Booth, a kind of sex maniac and full of himself artist.

Girls has a raw side, both in tone and in aesthetics. Forget the sex scenes that give you the impression that the actors have smooth skin like latex: the beads are not erased, the dialogues seem to come straight out of your most embarrassing memories, the sound environment is respected; in short, it is rather realist than glamor. Discussed themes are also quite realistic (and it helps to have the point of views of chicks on these subjects) : fuckfriend-who-is-not-totally-just-a-fuckfriend who treat you like a sex toy a little boring, sexual compatibility problems, lifestyle choices disputed by relatives, looking for work, abortion, or the “late” virginity…

The least realistic thing for me in this series is that the exhibitionist fat and too talkative Hannah fucks handsome guys. Tall guys, hot guys, etc.

The first season is quite refreshing and funny (the next ones I less liked them). I managed to identify with many situations, it was fun. And I like when the main character is a writer.

It must be said that there are not many American series that address my age group (26 years), they prefer to stage teens or young thirties. There, the actresses are done with college, and like many of their peers are midwater, single but not really, in search of a stable job, freshly abandoned – financially – by mom and dad … a youth that “tries to become what it is” hit hard by the crisis but still able to dream.

I leave you now with a very alpha scene from episode 3 of season 1 in which one can really smell the sexual tension. The guy (Jonathan Booth) has a good body language, does it straightforward style as I like with an incredible confidence (well it’s coming to him because he is an artist but who cares). He reminds me of Chuck Bass: he very well knows how to manage the sexual tension.

Moreover, Marnie is so excited after meeting with Booth that she runs in the bathroom of the party to masturbate.

It makes me think of chicks that we have cold-approached with a very direct game in bars and who resisted “for the principle” : maybe they came back home and masturbated, remembering the party. What is unfortunate is that we could have done it for them for real.

https://youtu.be/54e-GSeMnd4

If you decide to watch the season one, know that I like Adam too. He is so casual I just see myself in him. But he is totally fucked up and way more weird than me anyway. This is not to say that he is a PUA or anything of this nature, but he’s still exciting for women thanks to his side “I don’t give a shit” and “I am obsessed by sex” and he is daily uninhibited. With him, you can never be at the heart of inaction.

Frankly, we could make a TV show like that in France, that would be cool. I am willing to write the script.

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Can seduction be taught?

The problem

I assume that most people have no idea how to deal with the other sex. They are unable to understand each other. So I tell myself that it could be a good thing to explain seduction.

However, claiming to 100% control the workings of seduction and to transmit this knowledge seems to me boastful, disconnected from reality and unhealthy for the guru as for the student. I speak of guru in this case because I think there are several schools that claim they get the knowledge and that competitors are zero … but the truth is that each holds part of the truth. Mystery, Ross Jeffries, Cajun, DeAngelo, etc. : OK. There is truth in what they say. But there’s also the commercial crap. And every time is claimed to be able to seduce THE women (and not SOME women) this is wrong. Even worse when they pretend that if it does not work it is because the student has done something that he should not (it may be true but it could have screwed up even if he had ollowed the method to the letter). Otherwise explain me why these alleged universal seducers do not make out with beautiful women important, rich, famous, etc. instead of merely cute waitresses.

Indeed, we must have the humility to realize that:
– What works for the coach may not work for all students;
– What worked in the past won’t necessarily work in the future;
– The stories past, present and future of the protagonists will influence the interaction;
– All girls are similar and different;
– According to the moment, the same girl will suck you or will reject you;
– As you are constantly changing, your level is not regular from one day to the next one;
– Because there are so many things we do know nor control down here now it might be time to recognize it. BUT THIS IS NOT A PROBLEM.
– Because we do not bathe twice in the same river …

The thing is that a small variation in the experimental protocol can dramatically change the result of the interaction. One drop too much in the potion (or one less drop) can turn you into ogre or dwarf when it was supposed to turn you into a prince charming. Do you understand the metaphor?

With humans it is even more difficult than physics and chemistry: situations, contexts, attitudes of people are never the same. 1 electron = 1 electron. But in seduction: one woman is not equal to another. The equation changes every time, not just the unknown. It is therefore a drama to pretend extrapolating our experiences across all women or all situations, etc. Especially since we ourselves have studied on small experimental sample (human-sized).

However, I agree that there are fundamental things that really work to make you stay ahead in the context. The first thing you must understand is that seduction is statistics, this is what I explain well in The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations. So if you think filling yourself with theory before going on the field will guarantee you invincibility or confer a degree allowing you to give lessons to others: you are sinking your index finger in the eye up to your anus.

For the money (or because they really believe in it but then they are stupid), “how to seduce ALL THE women” is what want to teach you most of my colleagues. They will supposedly teach you how to seduce THIS girl. All that is bullshit for suckers. So no, I do not teach seduction! I’m not God, and I do not think one single person on this planet can boast to have found the magic potion allowing to fuck any girl, anywhere, anytime.

Anyway, I think that seduction cannot be considered indiscriminately as a collective sport. There’s some coaches that really do it for the love of art. Most do it to take your money. They have no interest in really teaching you how to pickup chicks or there would be less women for them. What I mean is that we must think carefully who listening the advice from in the seduction community. The women have understood that better than us, and they realistically rely more on their friends to extract them from the clutches of a weirdo than to conquer a stud.

The solution

Now that we have laid the foundations of the problems, we must recognize that some guys are doing well with the game. What background do they have? It is those who are open and adaptable. Indeed, when one is stuck in a failure scenario or on a stereotyped behavior … he does not open enough in terms of empathy, creativity and authenticity.

My role is to show you that I am rejected too, but I totally changed my mind over this. And with a good state of mind: I forget the faimures, the field of possibilities opens up and I can score goals in any position like Jean-Pierre Papin.

So you have to unlearn the crap that some put in your head and learn from your real life experiences on the field. Otherwise, you will all your life seek advice from so-called “experts” on seduction forums (who are actually virgins geeks full of theory and who love giving lessons but who do not do much on the field ). There is always a way to get something concrete from your experiences, I mean, something more than “it works” or “it does not work.” This is what I want to teach you.

My role is to help apprentices PUA to unlearn their misconceptions and break some bad habits. I have to remove the stones that fell in the middle of the road. Crappy stuff like “I am worth nothing”, “it is impossible to kiss a girl tonight because XXX”, “others are better or have more rights than me”, “I cannot hit on this hottie because XXX “,”it is not correct to approach her like that “etc. Freed from this glass prison and from the fear of what other procrastinators think (and women who do not always right), my Padawans can enjoy the delights of the action and originality. And succeed!

Although I love cum kicks in anthills, I must remind you that like all good learning: the seduction / pickup / the game (call it what you want) is something you learn on the long term. It is not enough to read a math manual for the level of a doctoral student. But you can cook well by following a cake recipe to the letter, though that does not make you a pastry.

I hope with this blog make you want to venture out of your comfort zone. Make you wonder more often “and why not in fact?” and then acting accordingly. Please beware of comfort, routine and lack of initiative. Inaction is your biggest enemy in seduction.

What I currently observe

The men are on their side in herds, empting pints of beer. The women wonder if a guy will have big balls enough the balls to come and approach them before the bar closed. When a guy does, it is often that he drank enough to dare, but the chicks do not necessarily like alcoholics who are crap. They are wary and there’s a tense between the two sexes.

In the everyday life, flirting and sexual tension are present in all our interactions … but are not socially accepted. We live among a mass of coward hypocrites. One might say that if women observe that men dare not approach, they could help us in one way or another to take the plunge. But no. On the contrary: when a guy clumsily dare they look at him as a UFO and cut him any desire to make his balls regrow. But this attitude, despite what one might think, does not make them happy so far: in front of the wilderness of their emotional life, they wonder if they have become ugly. And watch TV at home alone. Or take a cat.

People have difficulty admitting that everything depends on chance, and statistics. That’s why some are offended when approached in the street: “It could very well be another you would have approached instead of me”, they say to me sometimes. I’m sorry but even those who seek a soul mate: you choose from a panel in your immediate environment. So if instead of studying in Aix you had studied in Lyon, the panel and the environment would have been different. Your soul mate would have probably been too. QED. “Yes but it is you I approached … is it fate?”

I know quite a few people who eventually resign themselves to a default relationship. It’s sad. I hope you’ll avoid that.

Many women admit they would like to enjoy their celibacy/youth and dare to live steamy nights with beautiful strangers. But they do not take the plunge because their conditioning and their previous experiences have left their bad memories tinged with guilt and shame. During their old times, they realize that it was the good time and that it was stupid to do so.

And then women claim seeking for spontaneity and authenticity in men. We, the PUA, we are willing to offer them as our learning taught us: but that’s not why people who are offered this gift can recognize and accept it. Everyone is suspicious of everyone now. I find it sad but I cannot prove them wrong.

Gender equality is a good thing, I think, in general. But in seduction, that creates confusion. Each sex should have its role in seduction… but how to explain it to men and women heard on loope since they are young that woman = man! In practice, men are more likely to take risks and better tolerate rejection. While women have more empathy and understand body language better than men. From this, it’s up to us!

Feminists have also done a good job in cutting our balls. There’s even guys who look at you like it is wrong when you APPROACH girls… and then they return with their boyfriends. They make fun of you when you APPROACH but do not have the balls to do it!

With some advice from a good coach and a small makeover, any not ugly girl could learn to get her hands on one or more interesting men. Just by playing her cards better than others. By judiciously sending invitations to the approach for example. A large majority of men can not in fact refuse the advances of a not ugly woman because sexual diversity is less dangerous for a man than for a woman. And because they are substantially all sex-starved. From this observation, it’s up to you, ladies!

Some tell me “I would rather want to be loved for what I am rather than for my physical appearance / cash. “I often reply “I dunno : when you fall from a ladder, this is the law of gravity that rules. Well, when you pickup you must accept to follow the laws of sexual attraction.” It’s as simple as that. Then, I’m not saying you will have to pay stuff for bitches, but rather you will learn how to seduce these girls (who are beautiful enough to make out with footballers) through your alpha personality and your originality.

I really have a lot of female readers, almost more than male readers … so I’m happy. I have the impression of building a bridge, in my scale, between men and women. And between people and themselves. It’s very rewarding.

I think that despite what you might think when you see a girl being approached 30 times in a club: they also are in difficulty. So we have a chance. A chance to get out all together. Beautiful women are not nymphs who master all the keys of seduction. They’re just human as we are. From this, game is on!

I would certainly have been talking about a lot of other stuff but if I write too long texts that discourages some illiterate readers so I will stop here. :p

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What a girl says, she does not necessarily mean it

This text is a bonus in my Diary of a French PUA 2

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I had a good night,I’m drinking some tea and prepares a marriage proposal for Lola Le Lann. Suffice to say that I’m in good conditions to lay this little misogynistic text: What a girl says she does not necessarily thinks it. I give you her few funny examples of the famous “logic princesses” (which only makes sense for them and which is responsible for the fact that they drive us crazy sometimes).

1) I met this chick for the first time at a friend’s in Marseille. We drank, we went out and I warmed her in a club. Then we got back to Aix in train. In the station, she confessed to me still living with her parents and so I could not come at her place. I have proposed to go at my place or in a hotel but “I am not that kind of girl who will sleep anywhere with a guy met that same evening.” Instead, we made love in the lobby of a building that remained open. I even buried the condom in a flower pot faded (it gave them back the force).

2) I had invited this girl over but she was menstruating. We thus caressed each other a little, just for fun. I invited her again one week later to finish the job, she came and we did it. She decided to spend the night with me but complained of not having a change of clothes to go to work the next day because “I did not expect to sleep with you nor to spend the night here …” And my ass is some chicken, chick?

3) I had invited the girl to eat at my apartment one night. She refused, claiming having an evening with friends. She made a counterproposal: the same day but at noon, it was OK. We spent the afternoon together and fucked on digestion. Height of height, we stayed together the whole afternoon and she spent the night with me. What happened this party with her friends? “I had not really one, but if I had come in the evening, I came to sleep with you…”

4) I had pick up this girl in college. She had given me her Facebook and had made it clear that she had no phone so no number. I slept with her a few times at home before being invited to her place. I saw I-phone loading there she apparently never takes with her or hides deeply in her bag. I asked her why she had lied to me and she said “it is dangerous: there are plenty of people that cannot be trusted, so my friends have advised me not to give my number to guys because we do not know what can happen if we fall on a psychopath.” So: she lets a guy she barely knows making love to her, she spends the night with me at the first date and even asks me to slap her during sex but was not confident enough to give me herphone number because her friends told her to be careful of strangers. It is the pot calling the kettle back! I guess I’m gonna buy candy and distribute it at the exit of college …

5) I asked a friend living in Lyon if I could sleep at her place, overnight. She said she first had to ask permission from her boyfriend who would not be there. She added that she would feel guilty if she did not talk about it and many other stupid things about no breaking trust in her couple. It was OK for him. There, she offered me a disgusting deep-frozen pancake and sucked me. Before leaving the next day I have left a note to thank her for orgasm and attempted poisoning. I hope her guy will never read it…

Moral: if a girl resists once but that was we were good enough, it’s just a matter of principle or to piss you off. Do not give up but show determination. On the other hand, there is denial and REFUSAL: do not turn into clumsy insisting because you think she tests you while in factyou screwed up or she absolutely doesn’t like us (it happens – even if they would stand to gain by having sex with a respectful PUA and they would like it but they do not always realize it).

I do not think that girls resist better than us the sexual tension. Like a beautiful girl drives us crazy, I think that when she likes a guy : if he puts the pressure on the person with the ball he is often going to score the goal.

All this to say that we cannot really trust the first come girl, even if she is cute and even if we want to believe her, it is sad and that breaks the trust between men and women. It is necessary to know it to don’t count on them too fast all the same. That breaks my heart to say that but most of the girls are not reliable. Then I know guys out there who react by not being reliable neither. Or it is the opposite, it is women who protect themselves. In brief, it is the girl whose astrological sign is “snake” which died the tail.

For me the problem it is not even that the girls have only a mouth but nothing behind. It is that most of people generally have just a mouth and there’s nothing behind…

Game for you, according to your values !

#FabriceJulien, author of indecent texts but full of love

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30 little lessons on the gender relations

lessons of seduction

This text is a bonus in my Diary of a French PUA 2

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It’s been a while since I publish only adventures. It is time to take stock and draw some lessons. Here are thus 30 little lessons on the gender relations :

1) Think for yourself. This is the basis of the database but if you let yourself be influenced by Pierre, Paul and Jacques, you will gonowhere.

Then it goes through there to don’t be a sheep. Did you know ? Only 5% of people are innovators, 95% others are only vulgar followers devoid of reflection and critical thinking… Good pathetic sheep that graze on transgenic pasture that society orders them to swallow. What category of person do you think is more attractive? According to this logic, only 5% of players will become a good day.

2) In the same vein, we do not care about critics on our way of life.

Seriously, what acritical person says or does with more or less bad faithusually reveals more onthe fears of this person than on yours. Do not take at face value the crap one throws in your face, be strong, confident in your opinions and travel the world by realizing that most people are idiots and that their opinion does not even deserve to be considered by someone like you. Live for you and detach yourself from the eyes of those who are prisoners of their (wrong) limiting beliefs. Have fun, that’s all what is important, not the others! I would also like to tell to the hot girls to don’t get big-headed too much for that because with time faces wrinkle and breasts fall. And to the guys to score when they have the opportunity because the girls are a often weather vanes.

3) Seduction is everywhere.

It governs our lives, our wallets, our well-being … Its laws obeys to emotions and not to logic. They have hardly changed for centuries, they remained independent of race or culture of the country since the true “Game” speaks directly to the instinct of a girl, bypassing the “reason”(but this is to be qualified in the practice because that it is the official propaganda of Mystery). Remember: The seduction can make you become an accomplished man, a simple friend, a lover, a husband, a lover and even a god … But also, an enemy, a prey and a corpse. As with any weapon, be careful when you use it! It can work against you. I’ve already paid the price.

4) Attraction isn’t a choice :

David DeAngelo speaks better than me about it but you might as well seduce Swedish chicks who largely deserves their rank 10/10 as well you can fall in love unfortunately with a50 yearsold women (I’m exaggerating). These are the vagaries of life… “The heart has its reasons of which reason knows nothing.”As would say Roger Dodger ” sex is everywhere “. As would say my office co-worker: do not listen to these hypocrites because the whole world is governed by the 0 and the 1 with the 1 which makes comings and goings in the buckle of the 0.

5) Between doggystyle and fantasize, choose.

By definition, we cannot fantasize about the girl with whom we sleep. At best, we can rethink about chicks we had sex with by jerking off.

6) We only have one life.

Any good psychiatrist will tell you CARPE DIEM must be/become your philosophy to be happy and enjoy your time on Earth.But not just any old way,all the same. Always weigh the pros and cons and assume that there will be a tomorrow.Living the present moment: yes. Committing suicide in the everyday life: no.

7) Errors are sometimes good.

Of course we can learn from it (it is well known) but what you are probably less aware is that they can prevent us from big stupid mistakes. Of course, we did not manage to sleep with this girl, but maybe she had AIDS or something. Maybe our lucky stars in fact have saved us from something much worse than missing a pussy that seemed open to our cock.

8) A relationship is built in stages:

If your Game foundations are fragile, the building formed by this girl climbing on your cock can collapse at any time (hello, it’s a metaphor – think about it).

9) The adventure is around the corner:

leave home and be sociable. The life of a man flourished through human interaction. I know that it can make you be thought of as a strange guy but at least you will be yourself not like those who wear masks hoping to look “normal”. I am proud to be different.

10) The peacocking theory claims that, as this bird spreads its colorful tail to attract females, the man who wants to attract girls should stand out from the competition.

There is however a gap that can form between cultures: Sex before marriage, arranged marriages, etc … However, the science of pickup is universal and peacocking (standing out rather than blending in, being enough confident to assume wearing accessories, embodying a more exciting lifestyle than the one girls are used) seems to operate in all cultures. But not necessarily with the most tight-ass peoplenor with the most manipulated by society, and it’s not a problem, they are not the target.THE KEYWORD OF AN UNINHIBITED AND EFFECTIVE GAME IS: ASSUME! It is not because most of people assume(accept) nothing and invent excuses that we have to do the same thing! Assume yourself for God’s sake! Let’s show the example together if we want that things change and that the world becomes less hypocritical!

11) Girls love it is said that it is not in their habits to give up to the sex appeal.

But in fact, they just want us to imagine that it is not in their habits. Question of reputation and everything… They are not programmed like us in terms of responses to temptation. Again, culture, education received, and her models can influence her behavior (it’s like kissing a girl: for some it means something important, for others it’s like if they were buying their bread, it’s just casual like that).

12) The unknown is more attractive than boredom.

The main border that separates us from the adventure is anxiety (approachanxiety as well as sexualanxiety).Beating it releases a sometimes unsuspected potential. It always comes back there, talking to people and being sexual must become your second nature…

13) The obstacles tenfold desire:

provided that there is hope and that the attraction is already felt. Indeed, persisting when it’s over equals losingyour time and self-esteem.

14) True strength is emotional trickery, because the brain dominates the body.

15) You are what you perceive.

At least in the eyes of people who do not really know you. And how many people can you say that you really know? In my opinion, it can be counted on the fingers of one hand. So I am a genius for some, a dangerous monster for others! Also, certain days, I am really a God on the field, others I’m not that awesome. That is why it is necessary to see on the length-term.

16) We do not sell off our respect.

Including by giving money or by making too many efforts for a girl to get sexual favors (which are not even guaranteed).

17) The feminine sexual appetite, when one manages to unleash it, is much more voracious than that the appetite of man.

18) The character of a woman (and yours too btw) is certainly influenced by her intellectual level and plastic but also by past events in her life including her childhood.

So if you look like her father she loved, she will instantly have a crush on you. Similarly, if her father beat her, you can be as handsome as Ryan Gosling, she will hate you if you look like him. It’s just an example.

19) Hope for the best, prepare for the worst.

You never know what a girl can book us but we always remain optimistic without being blinded. Stepping back on situations and on yourself avoids a lot of disappointments.

20) An obstacle is not really important when you’re motivated to overcome it.

They make me laugh the girls who say “yeah I like you but we cannot meet for X or Y reasons” because in fact they want to keep us below the elbow. When you really want someone, you can. Beware of bitches who most of the time just seek to be desired by many.They probably will never do anything more than what it takes to maintain your flame. Your “Game” if he gets this result, probably wasn’t good enough … Again, the problem may also come from the chick and her broom in the ass, from her lack of internal strength (will to overcome social pressure) or from her deep fears. If it does not cost you much to maintain contact with such a chick you can, when in doubt, but do not invest much. And those who got cold feet once will probably get cold feet all the time thus do not take them too seriously after the first flake. The thing is girls often secretly want but do not manage to dare thus they blame you because it is easier to youmake feel guilty: but it is not always your fault when it doesn’t work… you will notice it when you will be sure that you have good Game. The not confident girls want guarantees before having sex or whatever because they know that it would be better for you with another girl but they don’t want you to know it.

21) It is better to avoid drugs and alcohol abuse to have a clear mind to better “Game”.

Most people who use these substances are unhappy people who fill a void. But the seducer is supposed to be comfortable. Another thing: if you do not know why you drink, or if you get drunk because “it feels good” or “to do like the others’, then refer to 1), stupid asshole ;).

22) Emotions = reason. In seduction, we must reach to offside logic of the girl.

She must live a moment out of time with you. And as far as possible, do not regret it after.

23) The sex spectrum can fit men and women in stereotypical roles.

Man seeking pleasure, woman fleeing pain. The fear experienced by men when they approach a girl, women feel it when they give in to the penis of n asshole. To be invented : the condoms that would protect from STDs, babies, and feelings. Indeed, the “fair sex” can say what it wants,they suffer more after orgasm before depending on who she falls on. If we can speak of suffering. It is also the role of the PUA to be nice with the babes oncefucked. Love women do not hate them, PLZ !I know that the border is fine.

24) Love without trust does not lead anywhere.

Can it even exist? Jealousy shattering confidence and lack of trust breaking love. If you are too jealous and you care too much about the girl, do not show it, grit your teeth and hold on. There is much more to lose than to win.

25) Wait at least three months before saying “I love you” even if you instantly feel you would like to grow old with this girl.

The opposite would be tantamount to a “Ted Mosby,” as Barney would say. Look on the internet if you’re not a fan of the show !;) The girls can also reveal big defects on the length-term they succeed in hiding at the beginning with the aim of catching you in their cobweb.

26) Couple Relationships: when it’s not working it’s not.

No need to try one thousand times with the same person. I do not want to communicate fatalism or other bad stuff, just realism. It broke, it will break. 99% of the time.

27) The desire causes suffering.

Because if we do not care about a princess, we will not suffer because of her. But if the desire, the attraction, is sincere then it is over. You will be eaten, whatever the sauce. It’s better to know it and enjoy the present moment.

28) You never win alone.

The thread that connects us to reality is not thick… who will take care of us if it broke? This is the question I ask myself when I fuck without a condom. Damn, if I get AIDS or whatever, I’ll never game again in my life. Renouncingall the wonders offered by the “Game” for ten minutes of pleasure? Ridiculous, really need to protect us. Without condoms, it is certainly best. But without STDs it is even better.

29) If there is no love, there will be hope.

If you want a girl to forget about you, give her no hope. Otherwise, she will hang on for a long time by believing that you play to a silly game and it will be boring. Conversely, learn how to recognize when a girl gives you hope for not bothering to break your heart and when you really have a chance with her. Again this is not an exact science. Refer to 20)Think in terms of investment at time and energy for a result in term of pleasure and satisfaction.

30) A relationship without cooperation is doomed to failure.

If on the other hand, you want your relationship to work with this girl, be ready to make concessions (even if you do not drink alcohol).