Month: February 2014

It’s your job

It’s your job to say the first words, to escalate and to show her your sexual interest.

It is important to be very honest with yourself : when you don’t begin a conversation with a woman whom you would like to meet I want to know why. When you do not try to get closer physically I want to know the cause and when you do not push the sexual interactions at the most I want to hear your excuse.

Three blockings points

There is really no secret to seduce the women. Curiously, it comes alone when we are able to overcome certain fears and to be sincere. The three fears you have to overcome are:

– you do not dare to say the first words to begin a conversation with a woman;
– you do not try to take more initiatives tactilely speaking;
– you are afraid of wasting everything you built with her until now. Then, you are not sincere because if you did everything you did until now it is because you want to come back home with her (/at her place), right ? Either you are just afraid not to be good in the bed.

In any case, your ass needs to be kicked.

Do not care about results, only about fears

Train to overcome these fears… Even those who studied the seduction for years are afraid.

The fear of the sincerity

All your anxiety comes from the fear of being sincere. For example: fear of telling her that you want to meet her. Fear of showing her that you are interested. Fear of admitting that you want to sleep with her.

Three main stumbling blocks

– Some guys need to drink alcohol before being able to do something ;
– Some need the night to be capable of being sexual (like if the darkness protected them);
– Some are incapable to make the first step alone, then they call their buddies…

Do not associate these three elements with the fact of meeting women : you can have a drink, go night-clubbing with your buddies without it is your only option to meet women. Realize that you can also meet women when you have a walk, alone, in the daytime, without alcohol in the blood.

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

You are sociable :

– you begin numerous conversations with girls AND guys ;
– you mix the sets and introduce people ;
– you get the attention ;
– you are a good communicator ;
– you are very interesting and entertaining ;
– « he teases me… Do you think that he likes me ? » ;
– you invite other people to join you ;
– you are the leader of a group ;
– other women want you ;
– you have to leave SOON…

You are attractive :

– you have a confident body language ;
– you are not affected by her tests ;
– you do not speak too much, you communicate a lot via your look and your facial expressions
– you avoid the too much attitude ;
– you do not brag ;
– it is difficult to get your attention;
– you are very confident, you even play with the sexual tension;
– your favorite expression is « fair enough » ;
– you are in a sexual state and contaminate the girls to whom you talk ;
– the women feel comfortable with you, even if you are mysterious ;
– you do not eye everywhere (women), you are fine where you are.

You are a sexual predator :

– « he kissed me after just one minute and made fun of me because I was disturbed » ;
– « He put me a finger and caressed my clit discreetly but with a big smile » ;
– « When he asked my number, I asked to do what and he put me a spanking by saying THAT’S WHY » ;
– « he said that I have a nice ass but that I  show off too much» ;
– « he told me that it was my fault if he was so excited but that my seducing techniques were not going to work on him» ;
– « he does not take into account my resistances, he even accuses me of taking initiatives » ;
– « he was aggressive when he touched me but now that he left, I miss it » ;
– « he texted me a naughty thing then told me I was a naughty girl » ;
– « he took my hand, put it on his hard sex and told me DID YOU SEE WHAT YOU’VE DONE » ;
– « he said that he was for the frankness and thus that he warned me that he was going to seduce me. »

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

It ends always badly. Watch out, I say it in a positive way, make no mistake about it. I give some explanation.

Most of the guys are afraid of taking too many initiatives because they content themselves with small successes. They want to be able to rethink about the interaction and keep a good taste in the mouth.

The ego stinks

« A handjob would really please me but I am too afraid of being hurt in my ego if I ask you and you refuse. »

You know very well my point of view. Make her say no. Squeeze her like a lemon. My creed « blow me or blow me out but let’s not stay in the inactivity ». The problem is that you do not most of the time really try to be sucked nor offended. It makes you happy to be there, smiling and listening her laughing at your jokes. It makes you feel good. You want to leave with the head up then you do not push the things at the max.

It is cool to hang out with a girl and to make her smile blissfully. Most of the guys content themselves with that. They prefer the soft and platonic company of a woman to a fast physical progress because this latter presents the risk of brutally breaking the interaction.

The same thing can happen when you mutually caress your hands. The caress of hands is so pleasant that you forget to push things in a more sexual way. But the problem is that this feeling of well-being does not last. And it does not last because she will leave you as soon as she will have met a guy with who she will have a more sexual connection. Yet, what’s the point ? Talking to her during 10 hours or penetrating her during 30mn ?

Day game

A guy strikes up a conversation with a cute girl in the street. They walk together up to a small bar. They exchange their names and flirt a little. That goes well. He would like to suggest her having a coffee but he freaks out then does nothing. Later during the day he wonders what she would have answered if he had invited her. Shit. She was really hot. However, in spite of his regrets, he is satisfied all the same, he gets a certain shape of satisfaction. The memory of this interaction will remain pleasant : He approached successfully in the street and gave a smile to an attractive girl … Good.

The truth is that he did not try to have more because he was afraid that the interaction ends badly. He did not want that his last memory is a pitiful rejection.

« Let’s drink a coffee.
– Sorry I gotta go somewhere with someone in order to do something. Bye. »

Now, he sees things differently. He was clearly rejected. The interaction was a failure since the beginning but he had not noticed it (isn’t it better to know it since the beginning ? To postpone is a bullshit especially if you maintain the secret hope to see again her in a few years by chance to take FINALLY your luck …) Do you recognize yourself in these extremes :
– Taking a lot of numbers but never calling back ? ;
– Flirting with women all the time but never proposing them something concrete because you are afraid that they say no ? ;
– Making girls laugh but never trying a physical escalation because you are too much afraid of being rejected ?

How does it end ?

The passive interactions end often as follows : she ignores your SMS or pass you the buck (bucks are like endives: that should not exist because it has no interest but it exists then needs to deal with). Or then you had a strong connection but because you have never pushed things sexually, it is the shit and you got stuck in the mud in a very strange relation. Sometimes, you will feel the desire to ignore her or to tell her that you do not want to fuck her. It is called FRUSTRATION.

No matter who ends the relation, it will always finish badly. You will break up, sooner or later. Unless if SHE is the woman of your life.

Good for the ego

The guys want that it ends well to have a short history to tell to their friends « How I took the number of a cutie in the street or simply flirted with her but it is still really good in my opinion ». It is just a question of ego. They do not escalate tactilely because they are not sure that it will work. But realize that, in any case, it will always finish badly. Every time (that you fucked her before or not). All the groups you will approach, all the numbers you will take, all the girls you will fuck, all your sexfriends, your girlfriends, etc. it will always end in a bad way (unless if you find THE girl (and still …)). That’s it, the thing which pisses off. Be prepared there! Life hurts …

But even if it always finishes badly, you will always guard a recording of the funny part in your mental hard disk. You will fill up with positive experience. And nobody will never be able to take it from you. Even if tomorrow there is a nuclear war, you will always have the memory of this naked girl kissing your abs. The pickup, it is little bit like an investment… A journey which we would take and from which we would come back at home, in the square one, but the testicles extremely empty and the head filled with magnificent hilly landscapes.

But, first of all, it is necessary to succeed in approaching… and, good news, it is the object of the next part of the book !

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

The affection

I have a question : « If a woman does not love herself, how can she love you one day? »

We need affection, but we cannot let whoever give it to us. Some « emotional abysses» exist. Most of the problems met by men during their relations could be resolved if they did not try to obtain affection from women who are not for them. These girls, emotionally ravaged or unstable by nature, cannot give you the type of affection you need.

PS = The reason why they are unstable, we don’t give a damn. You are not her shrink.
PS 2 = Don’t be this kind of man who comes to love a girl just because she does not like him. It is unhealthy.

Constructive challenge

Do not confuse « girl who do not love herself » with « girl who do not love you ». The first one would be a counterproductive challenge. You look for a woman who takes care of her, who has a spread life, many purposes, ambition, projects, tons of friends and an excellent family (not exhaustive list…)

This kind of women can be difficult to keep, but at least if one day she loves you, she will really love you. They thus represent a « constructive » challenge. She is worth it.

Monsters in the male

Creating dramas reveals a lack of respect for you and is also the sign that the girl in question has not much self-esteem. But, it is sad to say that but some guys like supporting fits of jealousy, scandals and madwomen …

Fuck ! Do not waste your time giving advice to these poor guys. They encourage the bullshit of these girls. I am sure that they do not even want to be helped, in fact. They feel good in their poverty. They don’t want to be really happy… FUCK THEM !

Having sex, it’s easy

On the other hand, a quality woman who loves you, it is hard to find. A woman who would not put you under pressure, and whose  internal clock would neither be late nor anything, etc.

The women adventuresses, and who do not generally put you under stress, are awesome. Unfortunately, certain guys interpret their lack of investment in the relation as a challenge and try too much to possess her then put her under a big pressure… and eventually lose her.

A like Affection

I had a very strong sexual connection with dozens of women, like that, just for fun. But I was honest enough to admit that the type of affection I looked for : they could not give it to me.

You can obtain affection from an « emotional abyss », but you will never have THE type of affection you look for, the one you really need. Yet, even if the sexual complicity is powerful, the affection is what welds the couples.

Something else: you cannot change a girl. The boring women will remain boring. It is rare that they agree to question themselves for a guy… and then even if she wanted that would need a lot of efforts to develop her personality in the right direction. She’s a total pain in the ass. What you see the bad days is thus probably what you will daily enjoy, eventually.

He doesn’t give a damn of you

Some women are attracted by the guys who treat them badly, because they know that they are shit. They love people who do not like them (because they do not like themselves).

The good boy who appreciates them sincerely is necessarily a loser in their eyes whereas the guy who treats them like shit is attractive. INDEED, HE UNDERSTOOD EVERYTHING! Pff. The feminine logic, it is really something… !

PS 3 = I even met poor girls who downright admitted being attracted by the mediocrity (diverse reasons can lead to that, it depends on the story of each woman but in any case, it makes us think…)

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

Every woman will blackmail you some day

A woman has two secret weapons to charm men and urge them to make a commitment. Her purity and a subtle threat making you understand that if you do not comply with her expectations, you will be replaced by somebody who will. Thus, even if she does not succeed in holding you with her « purity », she will hold you with blackmail.

The purity

The marriage is an arrangement: the men obtain the sexual exclusivity, the women the commitment of the spouse.

The men just try to feel loved and say to themselves that « if she only sleeps with me it is because she loves me. SHE IS MINE. » The purity of a woman must thus be protected at all costs. And the best way of guaranteeing this purity, is getting married (even if you will always want to sleep with other women) or being in a serious relationship (knowing that it is more ridiculous to do so when you are 16 or when you know she is not the love of your life).

Men eventually exchange their freedom for the purity of the women. Why this need for feeling loved ? Why is it so important for them?

Because most of the guys cannot accept the feminine affection coming from a woman who sleeps with another one. That feels reluctant at them. It is doubtless registered in our genetic code, and shows itself through the thorny paradox of the « puritanical whore ».

This feeling becomes intensified when you are profoundly in love or during the honeymoon. Themen in this state of blindness will agree to do anything, even getting married to prevent her from sucking the cock of another one. Of course, they won’t admit it in these terms.

The guys get married only because they want something : and it is not sex, it is affection coming from a pure source.

Even rock stars and celebrities eventually get married (they can nevertheless have the women whom they want but cannot enjoy an affection coming from a pure source with the groupies). The marriage thus guarantees to the man something more precious that the sex : it is affection coming from a faithful, stable and pure source… a real drug. The men thus do not make a commitment for the sex but for the affection.

Her biological clock

The guys also get married because they realize that if they do not respect the biological clock of the woman, they can be easily replaced by another one. The women do not threaten you explicitly, but what will happen if you do not follow their clock is obvious.

Sorry, but the women do not really love us. They just like being with guys who want the same thing than them : house and children.

They can call it love if that pleases them but the word « love » can mean many different things for a woman. This revelation is terrible.

That she gets married with you do not mean that you are the one she loves the most. The women do not get married to the guy whom they prefer. They marry the best of the league of those who are willing to comply with her deadlines. The guy who she loves the most and on whom she sometimes fantasizes even at night in the marriage bed, is doubtless a sexy adventurer who refuses to make a commitment.

The alternative to the marriage

If you want to be happy, instead of drawing your affection from a single woman, you need to have several women in your life. It is easy to fuck a lot but finding stable and affectionate women giving you affection, it is really difficult. But you need them.

The variety of the affection

Roughly speaking, we have two needs : sex and affection. Our sexual needs require a variety in the partners, whereas a single source of affection can be enough for us. We thus understand why a guy is going to get married and to deceive his wife with girls to whom he grants no importance.

First of all, these guys have to admit that they need feminine affection in their life. You can increase your emotional income by diversifying the women who give you some affection. A woman cannot give you ALL the affection you need. Then, take the second girlfriend or make numerous friends, keep your niece, accommodate your sister, the sister of a friend, etc. The affection and the feminine energy are not age-related. From girls to the grandmothers, every woman possesses this special energy which makes a man feels good.

The problem affection/purity

Then, you are going to come up against this problem. Because by not making a commitment with A SINGLE woman, you will have some affection coming from women who sleep with other men.

Sorry guys, but it is the truth about this lifestyle. Are you still in ? It is hard but you will have to make with all the problems connected to the paradox of the « puritanical whore ». Especially if you refuse the marriage and see frequently several women …

You will maybe never have a source of pure affection but at least you will always have your freedom.

A life spent meeting women

Thirdly, you’re going to ceaselessly have to meet new quality women. No madwomen in lack of affection (if you are linked with an unstable girl she will poison your existence).

Nevertheless, none of these women will stay with you forever because they will go ahead until they find a man ready to make a commitment. You will like them all the same, these girls, then it will hurt you. Be prepared there.

These quality girls must be replaced years after years. Your work will never be finished.

The lifestyle of love

Fourthly and more important : you have to enjoy a lifestyle turned to love.

It means simply that you have to diversify sources giving you this feeling of being loved. It is what women do, even apart from their relations. Look for sources of love except the women.

Build many social relationships, which is easier today than before. Spend time with your family, do voluntary work, adopt a cat, make a child, be a good friend, practice your hobbies, your passions, etc.

Build full of small social relationships rather than a single strong relation for your entire life. Thanks to them, even if you do not get married, you will never be really alone.

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations (29€)

Halfway

I have a friend who does not approach women. He is handsome and cool but hopes that the will girls come to him as mosquitoes attracted by the light. So, if they approach him, they will have made all the work and will desperately be attracted by him because will have invested a max. It bogs down him in long relations where he is the prize.

The only problem is that he is too passive. He can stay for a long time without meeting anybody even by going out twice a week. He can spend months before he finds a new friend.

Other guys are the opposite. They approach all which moves no matter how by hoping a positive answer. Even if they have to undergo violent rejections and speak during hours to women without interest, they stay. This attitude fucks your confidence on the long term and can re-spin you the phobia of beginning conversations.

The compromise it is to select quickly women but to only invest time for those who are enthusiastic in the idea that you contact them. Those who smile, laugh and feed the conversation. If you do not obtain a positive reaction at once, leave. It is not an excuse to do anything, approach in the best possible way, put the odds in your favor but invest time only for those who understand the luck they have that you approach them.

Simply leaving

A way of avoiding the scandals, of protecting your confidence and of maximizing your results by socializing, is to limit the time lost with madwomen, idiots and miserable. Do not dedicate them one second more than they deserve. You can do it only if you adduce to leave the conversation on a low note.

It means that you do not look for the perfect exit. You can simply leave. Even if that can look strange. Just like you came, you leave.

You are in control

I think that most of the guys do not approach enough women because they think that when the conversation is started, they have to stay and make it work with the girl. They feel booby-trapped.

It is obvious that if we see things like that and if we undergo the pick up more than we live it, approaching can become a real ordeal.

Approach two women

At the beginning, they are very polite then face each other and speak together, ignoring you totally. They are clearly not interested but you stay there hoping to be included in the conversation to be able to say « it was nice meeting you » to leave on a high note. But why waiting like an idiot ? Smile and leave, on a low note or not, we don’t give a damn. In the worst case, you can always come back later, when a model will be at your arm.

You begin a conversation with a sexy woman on your right. She is cute but sarcastic and not at all playful. She makes fun of your pink shirt. Then, she incites you to hate by contradicting you on a whole lot of stupid subjects. You clearly do not like her personality so why staying with her ? Turn heels and ignore her, she will be really surprised. These girls were not enough put back in place by guys. Or, were too much and take revenge. In any case, they have a problem to act this way… We can even say that they overcompensate! Their nasty attitude sends back to their own problems.

The hand in the bag

You see a woman whom you want to approach… but you hesitate. Two seconds later, you realize that she is with a guy, maybe her boyfriend. You think « thanks God, fortunately I waited, that would have been strange being in front of her boyfriend ». It is a bad attitude.

First of all, if you begin a conversation with a woman and if a man joins you, you do not have to feel sick. It is natural for a man to approach women. The guys make generally a weird head… like if they were caught red-handed (but they did not commit crime). In fact, stay calm and continue. That could seem strange to the little couple, but not to you.

If the guy is aggressive, it is because he has no self-control, nor enough confidence and perceives you as a threat. If somebody has to be under pressure, you prefer whether it is you or the other people ?

When you go out, and you act in a sociable way, you do not need to try to save face. You do not try to have the last word. You don’t give a damn leaving on a positive note.

And moreover if you are not afraid of the oddity, you do not even need to leave, let people grow tired and leave then take their place.

If the girl to whom you speak is a silly bitch, or if the interaction is not enough productive, leave without further ado. Show your personality, shit!

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

The watch

The biggest obstacles, in seduction, are not her friends nor the AMOG, but the time itself.

Most of the guys go out from 10 pm till 2 am. In other words, they have 240 minutes in front of them. But in reality, you always have less time than you think. When you realize that you need 30 minutes to warm you, you understand that « time is doggystyle ». The average guy meets only two receptive sets by night, then do not waste your time with girls without interest.

Quickly work. Quickly progress. Make her invest in you before investing in her. For example, sometimes I ask to a girl exchanging our numbers even before intending to tell her what I’m doing for a living. PROFITABILITY !

Tic toc

The most common waste of time, it’s the first receptive girl of the evening. Indeed, after some lousy reactions, the first opened women are like blessed bread. You can thus easily lose 2 hours with them.

If you begin hardly to warm up socially, this group in particular will fall really well. The problem is that you are not yet warm enough to dare progressing physically (not enough practiced tonight) Then you do not act rather quickly and let the window of action close.

They think that you are funny but are not sexually attracted.

The price to be paid

You cannot either progress more or leave. It is thus a waste of time; and more you will stay more leaving will be delicate. Having invested time, you really hope something in return… then you remain here like a loser! To reassure you, you say to yourself that there is always a chance that she is a little bit attracted.

Then, you also say to yourself that it is all the same nice to stay with two cute girls even if we do not fuck them, easier in any case than leaving in search of a new scamp to whom giving a series of 6 orgasms in a row. But, in reality, it is always the same problem : you do not show your balls ! For your own good, like for the good of the women who will have a story with you : do it ! YOU write the story.

Meet new people

The only way of getting out of this trap, is to introduce yourself to all the girls who approach us WHILE we still are with the cuties. It is a good opportunity to meet new women because they see you with two beauties (principle of preselection).

Or then you can use both figureheads as a base where you get fresh supplies and leaving in search of a better option. The purpose here is not making the others jealous, but if they become jealous then it is so much better. It is important to be seen with these girls but let’s keep in mind that we do not owe them anything : You are a funny and interesting guy who can speak to whoever !

If they say « you are a womanizer », it doesn’t mean that they are suddenly interested. You did not stimulate their interest but simply titillate their ego by removing them your attention.

If you cannot leave then try at least to meet new people. The worst thing in the life is being bored and wasting time. And don’t worry if they think you are impolite when you disappear like a thief.

We don’t give a damn, after all, remember simply that they made you waste your time. And then, if for them it was better going back home alone rather than coming back with a stallion which would have made them rise to curtains : it is too bad for them! You cannot get them to listen to reason but you can know in your strong inside that it is them who lose the most.

It is not their fault, it’s yours

It is not the fault of the girls if you waste your time. It is your fault if you neither progress physically nor leave. You meanly used them as excuses to don’t have to move your ass, excuses to stay in your comfort zone and not approach new girls whereas they used you to protect themselves from the other oafs of the bar.

The worst feeling it is when, two hours later, the group of girls abandons you « Well we leave, we are going to another bar, good bye ». Duuuh !

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

Negative intuitions

You have sacred problems which limit your successes with women.

Your spirit thinks it can predict situations and guess the personality of people before having met them. Really, your instinct knows nothing, it is an idiot. Unless you try and on the condition that you go spoke to them, all the rest is intellectual masturbation.

Sterile intellectual masturbation

It is when you concern hasty judgments on people or situations. You think that, simply by looking at somebody, you can say if she is a silly bitch or somebody cool. You think you can predict the girls who are going to like you and those who are going to hate you. You say things like « it is obvious that they want to stay between girls this evening, I am not going to disturb them». You are not an adventurer.

The kind of guys who says « there is nothing to do in this bar » or « all the girls here are in a relationship ». These people know nothing and miss a lot of good opportunities.

Silly bitches, lesbians and haughty girls

One night, I connected a group of girls who wore these enormous and colored strange glasses. I told them that my buddy did not want to speak to them because they had an haughty air. We eventually laughed about it and everything and they taught me that they had disguised for a birthday. They were in fact very interesting girls.

Another time, I saw a South American girl alone in a bar and my instinct influenced me « she must be lost ». I didn’t talk to her. Twenty minutes later, all her attractive friends came in and I felt knackered.

Another time still, I thought of speaking to lesbians (because of how they were dressed) but it was in fact a team of I do not remember anymore which sport. By the way, those chicks were very cool (and heterosexuals) !

Do this exercise right now

The next time you will want to speak to a woman, take one second to write the excuse which prevents you from it.

For example : You see an attractive girl you would like to approach but your internal voice rationalizes « she looks like a silly bitch. » Now get up all the same and go speaking to her. Ohlala, she is American, her accent is so sweet and she is very nice. Interesting …

Be sure having written down these three things:
– what you wanted to do (going to talk to her) ;
– what prevented you from trying (she looked mean) ;
– what really happened (she is in fact very nice and suggested you coming to have a drink at her home, the same night).

Pay particularly attention on the gap between your initial thought and what really happened.

After a few days, you will notice that most of those that you thought of being « silly bitches » are in really very nice girls, on holidays. That this girl who seems going out with this big sturdy man has just met him in reality 5 minutes ago. That both girls who looked like wanting to stay between girls are very happy to speak to a guy.

I did this exercise: it is very very funny. You will sometimes be shocked, amazed, disturbed to see how you can be at light years of the truth. Every time you imagine something about somebody you did not meet, it is only an irrelevant fantasy. And even if you were right, even if she is really a big floozy, at least you can say: « I knew it ».

The intellectual masturbation prevents you from meeting new girls. Besides, your spirit is conditioned to build a bad image of people even before approaching them. No, you cannot predict the character of a person in the twinkling of an eye.

You should try your luck (and her luck) and discover it by yourself.

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

Most of the guys think that they were good because they were not rejected… at least, not yet. It’s in reality a bad thing. And they are in reality not good.

No matter the atmosphere

Being rejected early in the evening has to be your purpose. Before the first rejections, you will be tightened and shy. After, you will be freed and ready to achieve exploits.

Fail voluntarily

When I am rejected for the first time of the night, it irritates me. It drives me crazy. The anger rises in me … but it is not an anger against the women. The hatred is there because I have just realized that the rejections and the critics are a big joke, and that I cannot believe that I have been so afraid preventing me from doing what I wanted in my life until today …

Having realized that, nothing can more stop me. In other words, I need the first rake to put myself on rails and to enjoy a good night (and no, we do not make omelet without breaking eggs : there will always be rejections).

Women are funny

Yeah. A woman makes fun or you ? Rejects you ? Oooh, it’s so funny. It is really of that you were afraid? Nevertheless, it is nothing… You will know that you will have become better when you will laugh at rakes and when you will be able to even close the mouth of the girls who answer maliciously. Remember that for some, going out and playing the silly bitch, it is funny. The best solution thus is to laugh at her face « thanks you, it was sooo fun ».

People who get angry easily and make scandals try to manipulate you emotionally. They hope intimidating you. I am sure that you know people like that. The best strategy is to take the completely opposite approach. They want that you perceive them as important, you see them just as an entertainment. Besides, this free-and-easy attitude seems to irritate them. When the girls get that they are not so important for you (individually, at least), that drives them crazy. Then, every girl reacts differently (some are less stupid than others).

Quite a lot of guys are afraid of the rejection

I like it. Some are even less good after having been rejected. I do ten times better. I am self-aware. I need be rejected to feel freed. Unchained. This is why I quickly need a social rejection and a physical rejection before being at the top.

Find your own style !

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations