Month: February 2014

Every time you avoid doing thinks you really want to do (because of the fear), doesn’t matter if it is a little or a big thing, you fall in your own self-esteem.

Understanding the basis

Inventing excuses to avoid approaching women is a process which takes root well before the moment when you do not go speaking to the princess. In fact, you avoided approaching since you turned up in the bar. Most of people avoid (by ease) doing what they want to do, all day long. Every day. All year. All their life.

Per minutes

We have approximately 16 000 thoughts a day. Well, if we are awakened 16 hours a day that makes 10 000 « concrete » desires. How many doesn’t come true for a reason or another? This kind of negative thoughts prevents us from acting.

Every minute is an opportunity to do something and stop avoiding. To stop being negative. To stop procrastinating. You can build yourself right now a positive momentum.

A night of typical loser

You are in the line to enter in a club. That does not move forward. What is the fucking problem ? You avoid asking to the bouncer. You do not want to « bother him » so you shut up your mouth and wait wisely during 2 hours.

Finally, you come in. You would want to question the barmaid about cocktails. But you ask for nothing because you do not want to double the person in front of you.

In fact, you do not really want to drink alcohol but you are afraid of asking for a glass of water because you think that the waitress would laugh at you and would treat you of « pussy ». Instead, you drink vodka.

This floozy did not apologize while she half spilled the glass on you, did not look at you in eyes and did not even smile. You leave all the same 1€ of tip because you wrote, in your head, a scenario according to which : If you do not leave a tip, she will repeat to all other members of the staff that you are a skinflint and you will be banished from this club FOREVER. Big dead.

Missed opportunities

The club is full. However, you spot a free seat. But you say to yourself that if you sit down there, a man built like a tank is certainly going to appear from nowhere and to bawl you above « this is my seat, go away little crap ».

OK, but it won’t happen. Moreover, this sofa is a strategic place to see and be seen. But you do not sit down there because you don’t dare.

Coming back to the bar, you hear two girls speaking about a subject which interests you enormously. But you do not introduce yourself : you give up getting new acquaintances and you prefer to whistle for your vodka at 10€ the glass, alone in the corner.

On the dancefloor : « Ohlala this girl is wonderful, moreover, just my type. Well, it’s time to approach. Well, no, not now, I finish my drink first. »

You really need to work on yourself, right? It is essential to overcome your approach anxiety (and to set free yourself from the social pressure)…

The truth is that there are quite a lot of things you avoid doing, and it is true every day. In particular TALKING TO WOMEN as soon as you come into the bar.

All those little things

This lack of confidence and of momentum due to the avoidance of all these little gifts all day comes back haunting you at the fateful moment when you have to begin conversations.

Every time you avoid doing something that you really want to do, whatever, you are hurting yourself. You bash up your self-esteem, your pride.

But are you really at light years of a life where you could do « everything you want » (within the limits of the laws) and that it would go like clockwork ?

I don’t think so, I think that there is only a step which separates you from the excellence. The hardest part is to start…

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

Just like you have to take the risk of seeming strange when things become sensual, you have to take the risk of becoming perverse when it’s time to cross a speed.

Lousy swine !

If she nicknames you « big pig » or treats you pervert or something, remember that it is a test. She does not want that you think she is easy. But which woman sound in body and mind does not like sex ? Sometimes the girls make strange heads which seem to mean that the guy is perverse as soon as he speaks about sex and as soon as he begins to get closer to her. He does not want to disappoint her then he gives up. It’s a pity for him.

She convinced him that the women do not like sex. She won … By what did she won by the way ? Couldn’t we say that she lost an opportunity of having fun ? Some women have never been correctly fucked, then they do not know… It’s your job to make them addict !

The truth is between her legs

Instead of being mad, use her resistance, and do not fall in her trap by becoming the wise guy and by talking about this and that. The best way to have sex with a woman who hesitates to fuck is to make her understand that « you know »… you understand that she faces a dilemma. Of course she likes fucking, but the social pressure, and the guys who fantasize over the purity, force her to claim that it is not the case (it is as well for that when we ask her, she does not say what she really expects from guys and that sleeping again with a guy with who she already fucked « doesn’t count »). She even claims it since such a long time that she can have convinced herself that it is true. Moreover, her guys then tend to treat her like the little and fragile human being she likes to be thought of, then the sex is not terrible, as a result, necessarily she likes less and less that. Do not make jokes to justify, on the contrary, be nice and sincere.

Role-playing games

The role-playing is a fantastic tool to overcome the fear which have women to look easy. For example, if you make a game in which you are a dominant jerk who thinks only of the ass and that she is your subdued slave who must be punished … She can relax, release and appreciate all the more the session.

Sextos

« I am going to give you a lesson of sexv» : another way to turn her on, it’s the sexto. Women are stimulated by the written things and like receiving messages (even if you are sat down next to her). It is one of the advantages when we take her number very early in the evening.

The women, too, are perverts

Women love sex MORE than us. We already knew that women liked sex. Good for us. But did you already wonder TO WHAT EXTENT they were naughty? It is not enough to believe that women like sex as we do. The only way of approaching the reality is conceiving they like it more than us. It is unfortunate but we are not equal on this point.

Set one second to think about what you would really want to do in bed. Now tell it to a woman whom you have just met. For example, it can be that you would like that she kneels down and sucks you, or to finish in facial and to film the whole act. I am sure that you would never admit it to yourself otherwise then tell it to a woman to exteriorize it in a healthy way. With that said, I think that your prose will be rather mat compared with the fantasies of the girls.

The good news is that the devourers of apple are also perverse (in the best sense of the word) than us, if not more. Another good news is that the sexual aggressiveness of a man is often a fantasy for them.

What goes around, comes around

The women watch the package of the men quite how we watch their ass, their tits and their fork. They are maybe more discreet, that’s all…

I shout in the injustice! How many women possess with impunity sex-toys in their intimate drawer ? But if a guy has an inflatable doll or something then he is a pervert. It’s funny, but the women do not want the whole man, they just want the cock. And WE are the perverts ? Of course…

Don’t be ashamed of your balls !!!!!

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

Practise the pushy attitude

The guys never practise enough the pushy attitude. They practise a lot the fact of being sociable, of opening sets but are not really sexual… If you want to be sensual, you have to risk to be strange. You have to take risks. In fact, we cannot always avoid the oddity when we try to pick up. So it’s better to accept it from now. But, don’t worry, the man who is strange « in the good way » is also the one who fucks the most.

Don’t be afraid to be seen as « strange »

By using a sensual look, by looking at her lips while imagining kissing her and by speaking really slowly, you can put her in sexual trance. But the women are going to try to frighten you, to make you regret having dared trying to seduce them by treating you like if you were a weirdo. You will never be at the top if you always act with restraint because you are afraid of being tidied up in this category.

« Beurkkkkk » or « ohhhhh <3 »

I say fuck social pressure. It stinks, that’s it. It is just a test that women use to see your value. If they like you, you are sexy. If she does not appreciate you, or if she feels that you are not at her usual level, you are strange. But it can change at any second. You can make exactly the same thing on two girls, one will say that you are sexy, the other that you are disgusting. Which one is right ? None.

Understand that if a woman tells you « you are disgusting » when you keep silent and when you maintain her eye contact, it just means that she tries to break the tension because she is excited but it makes her feel guilty.

The fact of telling you that you are strange can also come from her need for not wanting to be thought of as a whore. She is interested, but is going to persuade herself that she is not. She can even tell to her friends that you harassed her and that it was freaking out, just to protect her social image.

You will often be sent to hell but it doesn’t matter

Of course, you will try to be sensual but will be rejected sometimes. For example, You will maintain her eye contact and she will give you in reply a look making you understand that she finds you yucky. Then, she will turn around and not calculate you anymore. Ouch, it hurts. But there is nothing to worry about. It is not so different from a verbal rejection. It is even rather better, in fact. More honest ! And keep in mind that, one day or another, she probably fucked with a boy less cute than you…

I love to be strange. I love putting the pressure on the girls. Seeing the girls being surprised,  turning red or becoming nervous is a lot of fun to me. I know that you are afraid of being labelled as a « weird guy » And this is the reason why you do not dare to escalate physically. Then you stay in sociable mode and waste your time.

But your biggest weapons in seduction are : the eye contact, coming closer and touching her. Attention : like the atom bomb, they involve quite a risk.

The true meanings of words

The guys have to overcome this fear. Beginning a conversation with strangers, is not « weird », being sensual and progress tactilely is not « disgusting » and pushing directly things on the sexual plan is not that « pervert ».

If you are sociable and if you begin conversations, women will test you by saying that it is strange to proceed like that. Or will give you that look of lousy sceptic that we all know. All the other guys have not enough balls to approach the women, but it is not strange… Pff. And we want to persuade us that it is better to do like them…  ?

When you will be sensual, women will try to make you feel « dirty ».

When you will be sexually aggressive, women will test you by saying that you are perverse (like if it was a bad thing…) Most of the guys are afraid of the label of « pervert » because it makes people think to an old fossil who masturbates in a sexshop.

But it is not at all that, and you want to be « pervert » because you do not want to be asexual. Do not let the social pressure have so much influence on you as it has on these people stuck in their conditioning.

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

« Fuck, what are you looking at ? There is nothing for you here »

Why most of men (and women) hate confident people? Because they secretly want to be like them.

It is funny to see how the attractive girls feel offended when you take the initiatives. « How can you dare to be also confident. How can you dare maintaining my eye contact and hoping that I’m the first to look away ? You are not even feared of touching me … You are not tall, handsome nor rich, … You would do better to remain in friendly mode, buddy. Make some jokes PLEASE. Entertain me or disappear. Do not try your tricks of seduction on me. »

Fuck the social conventions

Don’t be afraid of being sensual. Do not let the social pressure stop you. Let people talk. We don’t give a damn.

Resist the desire to act like her (to be nasty or whatever). Be over that. It is just a mechanism of defense she has. So, stay cool, confident and humble. You have nothing to prove (nor the need to apologize). A big smile.

Adopting a confident posture, shouting your mouth and maintaining the eye contact of a woman, then getting closer to her… it’s not only for handsome men. You don’t have to be Johnny Depp to take the initiatives. Fuck Depp ! Everybody can do that. You have as much rights as the others…

You will be more tested than Johnny Depp

The women are going to try to frighten you, as if it was bad to be sensual and enterprising. They will test you. More than the other guys, especially if you are not really their type.

I have already told you that even if you are ugly and not specially cool, hum, the good news is that these women are attracted as well by you because you are a human being endowed with testicles (compatible with her womb).

It is because there is a sexual tension which exists between men and women and because by making some little gifts like maintaining her look, getting closer and not breaking the tension, well, the attraction increases naturally. In other words, nothing can stop you. You can just be confused by her tests.

When women are attracted by beautiful guys, the resistance is easier to deal with. When women feel attracted to a guy who is short or fat or not their type or not cool enough for her social circle or whatever, it is going to irritate her. She is thus going to force you into error, to tell you that you are strange or to politely suggests you to go to hell. But she feels attraction as well. This one is not just accepted. Frustration, when you hold us…

Do not stay at your place

The reason why you meet resistance is because you try to cross the invisible border between men and women. « How can you be also confident while you are ugly ? How do you dare trying to excite me, I am a model, screw you… »

They just want that you shut up your mouth and that you stay at your place. « Do not try to be promoted or someone will put you back in place chop-chop ». This resistance will always exist. In fact, it will be worse and worse. The resistance will always be a part of your life thus become used to handle it from today.

If it can help you feeling better, when you do things quite correctly : women (in spite of their tests) are attracted by you.

The guys like you are going to have to ignore the resistance more than the playboys. You cannot take every remark personally. Continue to smile, I know that it is difficult… But the sexual tension and the attraction don’t depend directly on your appearance, rather on your confidence.

It is interesting to note that most of these beautiful guys who would obtain positive reactions with the opposite sex have not the balls to approach women like you do. You are better than  them, that’s it ! You are not passive. Attitude > Physical appearance

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

I don’t need to be good with women

« At the beginning, they do not like me. My approach is not terrible, my eye contact is strange. They move back when I approach them. When I take their hands, they sometimes make a weird head. They turn the head when I try to kiss them. They tell to their friends that I am a weirdo. » But in spite of that, I eventually sleep with most of them.

I don’t want to be good with women

I very slightly exaggerated, but it was in order that you understand my mindset. I do not try to be good with women. I want, in a sense, to be bad. I do not want to be really loved. I do not want to be a seducer who never makes any mistake. Thinking that we are good with women puts us under too much pressure (we have to prove things) so I SAY THAT IT DOESN’T WORTH IT.

The secret

Here is the biggest secret of the community of the seduction. Understanding this simple truth can radically change your dating and sexual life : « They do not need to appreciate you to sleep with you. »

Girls bang all the time guys whom they do not find handsome. Who are those men ? Guys who tactilely took initiatives, who did not give importance to her resistance and who persevered. Guys who proposed her sex deprived of any guilt, realizing their fantasies. Their physical escalation, their perseverance and their aggressiveness allowed them to overcome her blockings : She will can say that it was their fault.

Sleeping with dozens of women does not mean that women love you. It is the good AND the bad news.

Puritan Whore

Thorny and paradoxical problem of the « puritan whore » is still titillating you.

You like believing that women sleep only with guys they love, or at least that they like or appreciate. You do not want to open your eyes on the fact that it is very easy for them to bang any guy, accurately chosen randomly. We are not equal on this point: men propose, women arrange. You do not want to imagine that your friend has already fucked with strangers after 15 minutes of conversation ? In the toilets of a club, moreover… And worse, with somebody whom she appreciated not that much.

« I thought that if a woman slept with me it meant that she liked me. » Another recollection of the fantasy of purity. It is not to depress you or whatever but she was attracted at the moment, that’s it. That maybe hurts the ego but it is not such a bad news.

Lover or husband ?

Do you still think that you need to be the most interesting guy of the bar? The guy with the best techniques of seduction ? The most handsome, the biggest, the richest or the one with the best work ?

The problem it’s thatt the best on the paper is not the one who wins at the game of the fast seduction. Being a good guy WILL HARM you, in reality. In fact, because you are so interesting on the paper, she will make you wait longer before giving up. At the same time, you will need to qualify yourself with the risk of losing the deal all the time. For others, those whom she does not envisage as potential boyfriends, she sees them as occasional lovers and behaves differently. It is exactly the effect we look for. And when we will have slept with her, we can intend to keep her if the complicity is there.

You have to become more aggressive and persevering. Be a more sexual guy. A guy who pushes the interactions always farther. A guy who proposes her sex deprived of any commitment, of everything re-bites, of any guilt. Be the pervert, the one who can satisfy her dirtiest fantasies with complete impunity. Has no evil there to do yourselves good between willing adults.

Does she really like me ?

If you are convinced that a woman sleeps only with guys she likes, the objective of your physical escalation will be to see if she likes you or not! Nevertheless, the technique of the tactile progress is only a tool which serves to create attraction and to turn her on. For example, if you caress her hand and that she does not answer at once, you are going to interpret this lack of reciprocity like the fact that she does not want you.

And what happens if you try to kiss her and she turns the head? If you’re looking for affection, it will frustrate you. You will find it very hard not to sulk. You will have no strength to persevere in this case. But when you will have understood that she does not need to appreciate you in order to suck you, you will chuckle simply, will maintain her eye contact and will try again. That’s it, having balls.

The reason why the guys cannot ignore the resistance of a woman nor be persevering it is because they do not use the physical escalation in the right way. The physical escalation is a tool which serves to tempt her to fuck, not to discover to what extent she appreciates you. When a guy associates the reactions of a woman to a judgment, he is too much intimidated. Too sensitive. And he does shit. In other words, he makes all these errors which push away the women and tempt them not sucking your cock. When you wish that a woman sleeps with you, you persevere in your progress. It is the main ingredients of the recipe which will allow you to fuck in abundance without complicating things.

Do not misunderstand what follows: you can kiss her if that pleases you. And maybe that you don’t care sleeping with her, that the simple fact of kissing her satisfies you. Except that it is the same principle which comes into play here : you feel validated so you can be satisfied with just kissing her. We will talk again about it later, but it is necessary to handle the kiss with precaution.

Of course you want that she likes you. And you have no doubt on the fact that she will love you even more, once naked and inside her. Women are landed by guys who represent big challenges and by the worst losers of the Earth and they are vulnerable in all the assaults of the male sex. This is why they try to make you have a hard time, to test you. To see what you are worth, if you are up to it (even if THEY do not deserve you, that’s the thing which can be irritating). Know as well, that girls who are not of your social standing will not very feel at ease with you. They look for men of their level even a little better but not less good nor really better.

The irony

It is cruel, but the women who really appreciate you, who like spending hours on the telephone and strolling with you do not want to have sex with you.

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

The seduction is at the same time an issue of numbers and technique

I know that we all would like to believe that we can have any chick.

But the reality is : you cannot nor would want to live a love story with all the women of the world, even the most beautiful. 99 % of the girls have nothing special. If you think that you need a woman in particular it’s like if you were in one itis. There is dozens of cute girls outside who look like her and have more pleasant personalities. More important, there is a girl somewhere who is her perfect double and who is interested in you. You just have to find her.

You, first, need a good fucking

When you had two or three nice stories with different women, you know what you look for and you know which kind of girl can or not give it to you. When you bang a girl of very good quality, you get promotion. Then, those who are not good enough for you are quickly ignored to release time for those you really like : You become more and more demanding. In the same logic, the time lost with bad sex is time which would have been better invested in good fucks.

The numbers

The « numbers » are part of the game. They allow to eliminate the cute girls who are not really interested, the ugly girls, the psychopaths and the silly bitches… to invest your time in the brilliant girls who are interested. In other words, finding good customers. It is thus necessary to be pragmatic and profitable. There are lots of girls who are not interest at all, or a little bit. Those who are not at all interested in you are great because they do not even want to talk to you and directly reject you with more or less of delicacy. But those with NOT MUCH interest are treacherous because they like you « just enough » to let you lose your time (in a conversation which will lead nowhere).

A technique

The « technical » part of the game is to make « a girl who has some interest » become « a girl VERY interested ». You will achieve this miracle thanks to the physical escalation (detailed below) and the obstinacy. Unfortunately, most of the guys do not accept the part of the game which consists in speaking with the maximum of cute girls in a minimum of time. Their ego does not support to feel rejected while they should understand that they are in fact testing those girls.

The power is in our hands because WE approach, not them.

Numbers = finding interest,
Capacity = converting this interest.

You have to understand that the personal development can increase the number of girls who will be interested in you, but it is another subject. I will probably write an entire book about the personal development to help you sublimating your potential.

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

At the beginning

Casual sex is often quality sex but women (even quality women) will catch you, eventually, with their affection. The affection is the most powerful drug of the world, even more addicting than the sex.

We can satisfy our needs of sex in numerous ways : porn, sexfriends, one night stand… But we cannot always have some affection from a nice girl, clean, who likes giving… and nevertheless, they are the best !

Mister Hedonistic

As « Mister Hedonistic » you make her understand that you do not want to see only ONE girl. That being faithful in love, it’s not for you. At the beginning : « of course no problem ». But the time works in her favor and you become attached more and more to her. Having said that, you can slow down this process by deciding to do not see her more than once or twice a week.

Purity

Doesn’t matter the time you spend together, most of the women will finally try to urge you to make a commitment subtly by opting for the purity.

For example : « this guy at the bar stole my scarf and said that if I want to get it back I have to  have a drink with him » or « if you do not want to be in a relationship with me, you know, I can have other men when I want ». And there, you dream up. Women know that the purity is our Achilles’ heel. And they know that in order to be able to accept the feminine affection… most of the men, weak or conditioned by the society, need this feeling of purity.

The guys are afraid of losing her purity (that she sleeps with someone else) because then, they could not appreciate anymore her affection. The origin of the affection is thus essential for them, more than the girl herself because they would leave her if she cheated on them …

All this comes from the fact that these guys agree to go out that with ONLY ONE woman. Or, they are too much involved with a girl who does not really suit to them. Watch out  : there is nothing bad to see frequently one single girl, the problem it is when you do it for bad reasons.

In other words : It is an issue if you make a commitment by fear that she sleeps with another one rather than because you really want to be with her.

Going out with several women

Us, the men who wish to be spread and to test several women before committing with the best, are inevitably going to strike us in the problem of the link purity/affection : « Oh my God, she is going to sleep with other guys on her side. »

It is not easy to swallow because that requires to overcome our own genetic programming. But you have to learn to accept the affection of a woman without worrying about her level of loyalty to you : do not let the sexual choices of a woman affect your capacity to appreciate her feminine energy and her spirit, etc. You will become a stronger, less manipulable man.

We have only two needs in our love life : the sex and the affection. You can deny it as much as you want but it’s true, this simplicity is disconcerting. Understand that the guys who make a commitment with one single woman have a lot of affection coming from a stable and pure source. And it’s great ! But they pay a high price for it…

The nights of solitude

For us, men who want to be spread and to make love a lot, the feminine affection will enter and will go out of our lives.

Sometimes, it will hurt. There will be periods you will fuck a lot, without affection. There will also be nights of solitude. But it’s furthermore a reason to build a lifestyle which does not concern the women.

If you want some feminine affection in your life but if you continue to flirt with several women, you will always pay it through the problem of the link purity/affection.

Even the fathers have to manage this problem with their daughters. On a smaller scale, you can also face this problem with your mother, your sister, your daughter, your girlfriend. In brief, with all the women…

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

Fantasizing the purity of love

The male point of view (erroneous and stupid) is the following one: « She only sleeps with me: it means that she loves me. »

Why most of guys stay in an exclusive relation when they are bored and when sex is not even good ? Suckers’ answer : « Because she is a good girl and everything <3 ». Well, stop. This is a bluff, guys. You are bored and have not the relation you wish, that’s the only thing there is to understand. If you stay, it is by ease. Besides, you vainly let her hope. You do not deserve to be respected, neither by her nor by me.

Why do they stay ?

They stay because they are afraid of never being really loved. I also think that, in spite of their boredom, these guys appreciate in secret the profit of an exclusive relation: « She sleeps only with me, that means that she loves me, I am loved, yippee, I can rest on my laurels. »

The girls who assume their naughty side are dangerous

Other (lousy) male point of view : « If my friend likes dirty sex, that means that she can easily sleep with someone else when I am not here to defend my position. And if she sleeps with another one it means that she does not love me. » Ridiculous ! We now understand why « bad girls » who assume loving sex scare all those men who consider that sex and love are strongly correlated.

The defenders of the purity

Will you really prevent AT ALL COSTS your friend of sleeping with somebody else IN THE ONLY PURPOSE of feeling loved ?

Are you afraid of leaving one month for holidays with your buddies and leave her alone? Would you forgive her if she was going to have fun in Vegas with her friends? In other words, would you exchange your freedom for her purity ?

The (inconvenient) truth it’s that nobody will ever love you unconditionally, except your mother (maybe). Nobody else than you can really love you. Women only like the sensation your hormones give them. It is a chemical pleasure. Everything happens inside their body. You’re not Superman… I do not say that everybody is exchangeable, I do not say that everybody can go with everybody. I just say that there is more than only ONE girl who can make you happy in life.

When the feeling of sexual attraction between you and her will disappear (sooner or later), she will look for a new guy who will give it to her again. The sexual attraction is a selfish bitch who do not care if you planned to move together, etc.

On the other hand, I know a lot of guys who have absolutely no problem going out with several women at the same time. They sleep very well at night. I would even bet that they feel more loved than the average.

What’s their secret ?

Their secret is : they don’t care if their girls sleep with other men : they do not consider it as the proof that they does not like them.

They know that she will never love them anyway. Because the relation is built on the sexual attraction, she will never like them in the way we all want to be loved : unconditionally.

Unconditional love, we can only find it in family (and still…)

You are finally ready to stop associating the purity of a woman with the fact of being loved ? If yes, what are you waiting for ? Purity is just a fantasy… She slept with someone else ? It doesn’t matter : washed well, it serves again. Set yourself free, love each other and have fun !

You will always have your freedom

The purity is a little bit the joker of the women. They are too happy to sell it to you, but you will have to buy it… and it is very expansive. Whether it is with your freedom, your money, your time or by supporting dramas, children who do not belong to you, etc.

We already said that : men are programmed to feel aversion when a woman whom they appreciate fucks with another man. They find too difficult to accept their affection after that. Maybe it is a natural defense which avoids us raising the child of another one. Not important since the condom exists. If you are not capable of overcoming these naughty feelings, you will never be free FOR GOOD… You should never wait for the purity of a woman.

Men generally have sex with a woman « because she is hot ». Women sleep with guys for any sorts of reasons (the status of a man can justify that a woman sleeps with him without making him wait, without social pressure, because he is like a trophy) : he was on television, he is a barman, he has beautiful shoes, he has a lot of money, to take revenge on her ex, because she feels alone, because he made for her feel pity (yeah yeah, it can work), etc.

When men realize that women are very far from what they imagined (their fantasy of purity and feminine affection coming from a pure source) : The only way they have to rationalize the thing is claiming that the girls in question are particular (sluts, star-fuckers, bitches, etc.) and by pointing them because, supposedly, they would be different from others, different from the « good girls ». But, in reality, it is not true.

Every naughty girl is potentially a « good girl ». Every « good girl » is potentially a naughty girl. Well, this is life…

Girls have to learn how to have fun with impunity, guys have to learn how accept it and to take advantage of it!

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations

The hatred and the desire

By way of preliminary, I want to tell you a short history : One of the girls with whom I went out had gone to have fun in a club, without me, obviously. Suddenly, I received the late phone call of one of her friends who advised me to come ASAP to [the club]. Clearly, my friend was completely on an another guy and her buddy was afraid that she messes around.

« I don’t care, I’m watching the match and have a drink with Hafid ». She had to come spending the evening with us but preferred going out with her friends, and did not even make a phone call to warn me that she had changed her plans at the last moment. I was really fed up with her attitude then I intended in any case for a while to break up with her.

Well. She finally came over at 4am (she had been rejected by the guy in question or still had his sperm in her vagina and in her stomach … In any case, it’s the reflection I made at the moment). I thus planned to kick her out of my home manu militari.

But once her flat stomach, her very nice butt and her little magnificent tits crossed the threshold of my apartment, I was excited as a bull. Furthermore, this naughty girls had certainly just get banged by another guy bigger, more beautiful and stronger than me. That drove crazy so I wildly took her all night long. I was really hard… and it was so good, for her AND for me !!! She didn’t want to leave me anymore after that.

Let’s talk about emotions

Just after this session of hardcore sex, I felt this mixture of malaise and guilt. I do not really know how to describe it with more details. In brief, I did not grant it more importance than that at the moment and slept of the sleep of the just man but this adventure changed me : I had just lost my illusion of purity. I’m going to explain what it is exactly…

When you were younger, you doubtless fantasized over things which seemed a little bit crazy to you. Maybe that it still happens sometimes… You were hard in front of your computer, watching a young Asian with innocent looks be taken violently by three jerks. They gave her a hard time : submitted her, treated her like a slut and ejaculated in her mouth. You imagined participating to this orgy but when you just finished your movie, strange feelings invaded
you : malaise and guilt.

The explanation

You felt UNCOMFORTABLE because you think that this « dirty » attitude decreases the woman, and thus reduces your chances to be sincerely loved one day by a « good » girl. And you felt GUILTY because you really LOVED that.

The only thing which expires, it is your illusion of the feminine purity

Every porn video a little bit trash that you watch, in which girls bang a guy in duet then finish with liters of sperm on the breasts, reduce your illusion of the feminine purity, NOT THE WOMAN HERSELF.

In your opinion, if a girl get a facial, then she is out-of-date ? Guys, realize that she liked that, she is not soiled and you are the only one who is disturbed. If a video of her sucking a cock at the high school circulates on the web, then we cannot envisage anymore a serious relation with her? Pff. The only thing which expires it is your illusion of the purity, which (like any illusion) is not real. Such a mindset is your problem, not the problem of the women who have fun.

I am going to make an a little bit far-fetched comparison but I adore pulling the hair of the girls during doggy-style : if we exploded a tube of toothpaste on your face, would you feel raped ? Of course not. If a woman fountain ejaculated on me, would the following one think that I am out-of-date and would refuse to touch me? It’s stupid. Women don’t care about purity, they are over that : we are the only ones whom it bothers to know that a girl did not fuck only with us.

Then, they claim to be innocent and unsuspicious, just to please us. It is the big hypocrisy between men and women.

Deal with your feelings

There is no reason to feel a MALAISE. The feminine purity is just an illusion (a fantasy for some) but has never existed. No matter all the dirty things a woman did, does or will do … It is in her nature and it doesn’t strip out her value (her beauty, her enthusiasm, her energy …)

There is no reason, either, to feel GUILTY of loving something they also love. Instead, we should unite our strengths to enjoy life together !

Extract from : The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations