An orgasm is a sexual climax (or high point). Orgasm happens because of continued sexual touching. During an orgasm, there is a strong feeling of excitement and pleasure. Sexual touching may be sexual intercourse, rubbing or squeezing by hand (called masturbation), or other actions that make the sex organs feel good. During an orgasm, a person’s body sometimes spasms (shakes or trembles) and the person’s brain activity changes quickly. Orgasms may happen when people are asleep. When men orgasm while sleeping, it is often called a “wet dream”. Other mammals may have orgasms when they have sex.
The penis usually becomes erect (hard) before an orgasm, and flaccid (soft) again after. When a man has an orgasm, he feels a very strong and enjoyable feeling in his penis and groin, and sometimes in all of his body. In a man, an orgasm usually happens at the same time as an ejaculation, which is a release of semen through the penis, that can’t be stopped. Young boys can orgasm, but there may be no semen because semen release usually occurs only after puberty has started. After an orgasm, men usually have a deep sense of relaxation, usually felt in the groin and the thighs. Usually the stronger the orgasm, the deeper the relaxation and the longer the relaxation will last.
A woman’s orgasm begins in her clitoris, which is the counterpart of the man’s penis. It is preceded by an erection of the clitoris and a moistening of the opening of the vagina. When a woman goes through a full orgasm, her uterus, vagina, anus and pelvic muscles undergo a series of rhythmic contractions. Most women find these contractions very pleasurable. Rubbing or applying other consistent pressure against the clitoris is usually needed to help the woman have an orgasm.
Orgasm plays an important role in human reproduction. During sexual intercourse, a man places his penis inside a woman’s vagina and moves it backwards and forwards. The woman may also move her hips back and forth, or in a circular motion. The friction caused by this movement, together with the warmth and pressure of the vagina, causes the man to have pleasurable feelings in his penis, which grow stronger and stronger until the man has an orgasm and ejaculates, at which time semen then shoots out from the end of his penis into the woman’s vagina. The semen can make the woman pregnant.
The woman may also have an orgasm during intercourse as well. Scientists are not sure why women have orgasms. Some believe that the orgasm helps the sperm in the man’s semen to swim up the vagina into the cervix, so that it is more likely that a sperm cell will fuse with an egg cell. Others think that the woman’s orgasm is designed to help make the man reach orgasm. During her orgasm, a woman may moan, cry, or scream, which usually excites her man, and her vagina may grip the penis more tightly, which also makes sex more exciting for him. These reactions may cause the man to ejaculate more quickly or to produce more semen; when a woman reaches orgasm during intercourse, it often makes her man have an orgasm at that point as well. Orgasm may also encourage a woman to have sex more often as it feels good, increasing the chances of pregnancy.
A study indicates that the risk of breast cancer for women is lower for those who frequently have orgasms (more than fourteen orgasms a month), in particular after 50 years.
According to another study on 918 men from 45 to 59 years old, and followed for 10 years, the risk of mortality is lower of 50 % for those who have frequently orgasms (more than twice a week).
NB : all the orgasms have not the same intensity.
For the anecdote: It happened to me, several times, after powerful orgasms, to laugh myself sick. I do not know why. A story of hormones, certainly.
I do not think you can establish a gradation of power between the different types of orgasms (fingers, tongue, penis) … It depends on a lot of other factors. It’s not as easy as it looks!
The main idea : making love is an art, it’s not just emptying your balls.
It is well known that having orgasms regularly improves life expectancy !
My point while writing this ebook is to help you to give to girls the most incredible sexual experiences of their lives ! I guess I’m not the first pretentious guy who wants to write such an ebook… but I am Cyprineman, sexpert famous for licking pussies like a God (it’s my gift).
But, I won’t only talk about licking pussies here. I also want you to know at the end of your reading the spots on girls’ body to touch – and how to touch them the good way – to make them scream “AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH you’re the best lover of my life” !
I will explain to you the good mindset that lead to some good sex, and the good things to do when you are having sex with her : how to warm her, how to finger her, what key-positions to master, how to last long enough to satisfy them, how to stay hard, how to recognize a real orgasm, etc. I want this ebook to be exhaustive. Everything about sex here.
By writing these lines, I really want to make the work I would have enjoyed finding when I started.
After my ebook about Online Dating, I thus propose you by now another practical ebook (by opposition to theoretical) : no intellectual masturbation. Only things you can use next time you’ll sleep with a girl… to drive her crazy. It’s not very complicated things, but it’s things you must know and use. I want to keep it simple but effective. For example, about lasting longer : we will talk about “tricks” that help but we’ll stay on realistic things… because anyway the more you’re used to fuck and used to fuck beauties, the more you’ll last and become good naturally.
And it’s not just about giving orgasms and connecting with the other sex, it’s so much more than that… When you are a good fuck, you feel proud… you feel like a real man. You feel like you have an ace up in your sleeve that gives you a mysterious confidence. All the women and men that you meet will treat you with respect because of this sexual confidence. Sexual skills really do MAKE the man and people can tell because it gives you an aura.
Very few men are good in bed. Really good, I mean. Knowing you’re good will give you an incredible advantage in your mind. To get the girl and to keep her if you wish… because she’ll be addicted. You will invert the balance of power between men and women by proposing her something rare: a good lover.
You will not anymore be afraid of the competition. If you knew how many guys I saw going into trouble while trying to pick up a girl then not daring to turn up at her place the day of the meeting because they were afraid of screwing her badly. You already have an advantage on the others… because rare are the guys who agree to learn on the sex. They are way too proud! And even if they brag, it is a taboo subject!
By the way, how do we know that we are a good leg? When the girls tell it to you every time you sleep with one of them, for example. When you inspire them comments like “fuck but where did you learn that, you, it was awesome!” That happens to me all the time now (nevertheless I leave by far) then sorry if I am a little big headed now ! 😉
But it’s not about my ego, not about “being better than the others“. It would be impossible and useless anyway. Some people will always be better than you and me. It’s not really a competition fortunately as far as the girls have only for partners a little sample of the population. The probability that she knew a better lover than you and me is thus low (at least after you read this book).
I wish to get loose from everything that can make sex a stressful and full of negativity experience with the aim of teaching you how to enjoy a profound union… an experience way more complex and pleasant than a purely physical gratification (physical friction which is all the same important but it’s not enough).
Sex, it’s not just a mechanical act. So yeah sure I will tell you the mechanisms… but there is something more, something better than that… and we will talk about it too. Few people know it, few people live it… and it’s a good news because you’ve now joined a very limited circle !
I am going to reveal you why so many people say that sex is wonderful and you’ll finally understand why in the practice it is not often that awesome !
Many times I was asked if a PUA could fuck the chick of another guy? And if yes, is it risked?
First of all, from an ethical point of view, everything is possible. Social realities are constructions that are more dependent on our individual perceptions than on the rules in force in our spacetime. In addition, it would be hard for me to lecture you.
Then, from a technical point of view, this is also possible. Beyond the “do not do to others what you would not like them to do to you” (there’s always been fucked and fuckers), the chick may not be satisfied or seeking for taking revenge on her boyfriend so a woman always can cheat. In addition, it is reasonable to think that if she is not cheating on him with you, she will cheat with another man.
But I want to share with you some cases you may encounter on the field and to what you expose yourself by banging chicks who are in a relationship :
1 / The pretty girl who says “I have a boyfriend.”
It’s either true or it is a defense to avoid weiros. It’s a bit like “I am a lesbian.” In any cases this is a bad start but I advise you to avoid sinking with the “it’s good I’m not jealous” or with stuff like “I’m a better lover than your guy who is ugly and has a small dick.”
Maybe her couple is fictitious or in the hot seat, but she would defend it to stay consistent with what she first said. She would also feel hurt in her ego.
I think it would be better to congratulate her for having found her soul mate, even if it is a bit ironic. In this case, she may entrust it does not go that well between both of them actually. But in any case, you score points because you won’t be thought of like a plaintiff or a desperate ass-starved.
For the provocation, you can even ask if her boyfriend would be up for a little football game with you next weekend.
2 / The guy comes while you’re hitting on his girlfriend.
If you did not say too much bad things about him and showed that you are not fully on his girlfriend (if it’s rather like I do not care if it’s her it may be another woman), there’s no reason for problems (unless he is a mentally sick person). You would be well advised to congratulate him on his taste about women.
But you must know that some are always looking for excuses to fight. Or, helped by alcohol, who go crazy for nothing. I remember a guy in the street, I had just stared at the ass of his girlfriend and he had come to me, doing a total scandal, like asking if I wanted to fuck her and everything. I just said she was a pretty girl, but I had a girlfriend too and I did not want to disrespect him and her. Although when a guy stares at my girl, it’s more of flattery. But hey, when you’re insecure, you see everything in black…
3 / If however you bang a girl in couple… watch out!
You may experience the jealousy of a guy that can go from a mouth breaking into proper form to murder or any trap/revenge. I agree that the chick is as much or more in fault than you. And what would the guy have done if your girlfriend had offered to fuck him? But … most of monkeys will rather be mad at the other guy than at their girl. Although this latter failed to admit that she had a boyfriend at the one who picked her up.
You may even risk worse: never being able to trust your girlfriends because you understand that women cheat. They have a lot of proposals and that it’s easy for them. This is very toxic, almost as much as the water side of a Japanese nuclear power plant.
If she falls in love with you and leave her boyfriend for you: you feel guilty so you finish in a relationship without the knowledge of your own accord. You will also struggle to trust her because “who has drunk will drink again.”
You will have the word “BASTARD” tattooed for life on the forehead … in the eyes of the people who know the cuckold.
If her boyfriend guesses and she does not have the courage to admit it to her boyfriend, it will be easier for her to do not assume: BUT OF COURSE, YOU HAVE FORCED HER … SHE WAS RAPED! You’ll get in trouble. It happened to some guys before, all this shit, this is why I mention it.
She can be beaten up or murdered by the jealous boyfriend, enraged because of his hurt ego. What would be your part of responsibility and guilt in the matter? It’s scenarios that are common, the passion killings.
The conclusion is that anyone can be tempted, do discrepancies or mistakes. But beyond the ethical question, we can say that sex with married or in couple girls is more risky than just doing this sport with the many single hotties out there.
However, sometimes the desire takes precedence over reason. In this case, it is better that neither one nor the other admit it. Anyway, that’s my advice. And pay attention to erase your texts/mails… This protects the other from his jealousy perhaps destructive and yourself too. The only hard thing to deal with is (for some) guilt. If you feel that the chick will reveal everything to her boyfriend, beware! Avoid cheating on a whim …
Also think about why you did cheat, what’s wrong in your relationship or in your mind? Or do you just want the cake and butter? And it is possible without too many damages…?
Far from me the pretense of taking an imperious tone in this article because we will address the issue of amorous exclusivity.
After all, everyone does what he/she wants. But to do as you want, it is still necessary to know what choices are really available to us. Otherwise, it’s not a choice.
Note that I do not know what you think but for me, a relationship that works is simply a relationship that contributes to the welfare of the two protagonists.
Recent social changes
Let’s start by making an inventory of recent social developments in the loving commitment.
I just want to shake here and some preconceived ideas so that everyone can live either love as an exclusive assumed choice and not a default choice, or love as an assumed uninhibited and honest foraging. I’m not here to judge but to think and make people think.
The Basics: If one takes the point of view of evolution, men and women are similar and complementary 45/46 sexual similar chromosomes. However, sexual behavior have differences that are necessary for the survival of the species.
More recently: There are still a few decades, it was unthinkable for our ancestors that women are elected at the head of companies or governments … but progress in gender equality have changed that. Now one of the criteria for choosing a wife may be her ambition, her future career, salary, intelligence, etc. What was before rather a criteria for women to choose a husband.
Men have thus lost a part of their identity, their authority, and women are sometimes in search of virile men (although men are also lacking in women because many girls adopt more masculine attitudes).
Note: It is common knowledge that some women who have important positions behave in an authoritarian manner with their underlings but need to go out with a man who will take the initiative, dominate her a little, challenge her, and make her enjoy in the bed.
Currently: Men and women are a little bit lost in seduction. What they want consciously and what their instinct wants is not really in tune.
Therefore, in forty years, the number of single people has more than doubled (INSEE figures). More than 15 million in France… for an average of 18% in the European Union.
Women are slightly more concerned with celibacy than men (53% against 43%).
Many singles have previously been married and/or have dependent children, making difficult the organization of a new couple.
Over 50% of the singles would be single for more than three years.
40% of them, assume very well the fact of living alone.
The number of sexual partners reported by women is increasing, while it remained stable for men.
Changing attitudes about sex is a factor in the rise of Internet pornography.
The couple have a little more sex than before.
Different types of love
There is physical love: physical attraction first. The problem is that everything is based on beauty.
There is playful love: love is a game, the meetings multiply. The problem is the shallowness of the relationship and the possible fear of commitment behind it.
There’s the friendly love, it’s when friendship turns into love. Love without fever or madness.
The passionate love, it is the mixture between playful love and physical love. It is people with low self-esteem who imagine a future marriage at the first meeting. They al the time need proofs of love.
The pragmatic love is the mix between playful love and friendly. It is a relationship a little down-to-earth, but if it works, the results will be waiting for you: it works with a logic of meetings based on profitability costs/benefits.
Disinterested love is the mix between physical love and friendly love. Here love takes a spiritual dimension: one sacrifices for the other one!
What does not work
The narcissistic love, those who idealize their partner, mutual adoration… it cannot function because to love others you must love yourself. A dose of narcissism is essential.
The virtual love, geographic separation … it’s dangerous because when they meet, the fantastical dimension tends to disappear.
The unrequited love, the more the other is out of reach, the more we want him/her. “I would be happy if…” We suffer here and most of the time eventually derail…
The triangular relationship, such as with a woman for the breast side and a mistress for the sexual side. Or we go out with a and like his brother in secret. The third person is often sacrificed after damaging the basic relationship.
Forbidden love … like a teacher with a student. Here, we love the danger as much as the person. But if we remove barriers, love often disappears. Don’t fool yourself!
Solutions that are available to us :
– Monogamy: fidelity is associated with exclusivity. The benefits are emotional stability and management of jealousy. Moreover, it is easy to find someone looking for this type of relationship, since it is the most common. However, in practice, there is often sprains to the contract.
– The debauchery: it is when we add others to the couple’s love games. But the feeling of love is for one person and parallel relationships are not accepted. However, in reality, it is still possible to desire someone else …
– The open relationship: here extramarital adventures are allowed. The love contract is not based on exclusivity, allowing to experience many things. The problem here is to confront “the standard” and to manage jealousy.
– Poly-love: the principle is that we can be in love with several people at the same time. It could be funny to live with two women to sleep with them, and that they sleep together. More wages, more children, etc.
Knowing that ideally, we would live without conditioning and each couple would be unique and happy.
And you, what is your choice?
– The sexfriends ;
– The lovers ;
– The wedding ;
– PACS (a kind of strange wedding (but not exactly) in France) ;
– The open relationship;
– The punctual libertinism;
– Regular libertinism;
– Banging an ex or a married man;
– Etc.
In my career, I have been able to distinguish three types of cocksuckers.
0 / But first, what is a cocksucker?
Blowjob is the human sexual behavior which is stimulating the penis of the partner with the mouth, lips and tongue. It can be performed either as a preliminary or to lead the man to orgasm.
Fellatio is an oral sex, it is the symmetric of performing a cunnilingus on a women for a man… but for a woman.
This practice is referred to by many expressions or colloquial terms, my favorite, “suck my dick bitch”.
Oral sex was also observed in some animals with a conflict management purpose (with bonobos, for example) or with a sexual purpose (in some bat species). A study on the bat shows that when the female of this species practice fellatio on her spouse, each additional second of this activity increases the coupling length of six seconds (it is quite the opposite with most men but well when your cock is soft it can help). Blowjob could therefore encourage reproduction. In addition, the saliva with antifungal and antibacterial properties of the female would prevent sexually transmitted diseases.
Since the beginning of sexology and until the sexual revolution, oral sex was considered as a pathology. Fellatio was a perversion of the sexual instinct, “instinct” which “normally” would produce only sexual activities for reproduction. In 1952, oral sex with masturbation and oral sex were part of the pathological behavior described in the first edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. When I told you that we all are crazy…
1/ The dream seller
This is the one who sucks you at the beginning of the relationship, to make you addicted and then it is not anymore worth it in her opinion.
In general, these girls do not really like sucking but they make an effort in the beginning… to impress! You, on the other hand, are supposed to lick all the time…
She can sometimes suck again punctually, eg. for your birthday!
2/ The good surprise
It is the one who does not suck at the beginning of the relationship, she is discreet. Then she begins to show you her naughty side, over time.
These girls try to make you faithful, they believe that the dangling of blowjob is everything, it’s her reward for you.
But if you’re not a good lover, you, they may never suck you and not even continue to be your girlfriend… and you could find it normal. It has become a privilege in your eyes.
3/ The regular
It is the one who sucks from the beginning to the end of the relationship. She gives back, no dirty trick!
Carpe Diem !
The problem is that she gives you good habits and if one day she is too tired and too eager and what to do the starfish: you will be very disappointed!
4/ Those who do not suck you, dirty boy
There are of course those who do not suck (never). But it does not count as a sucking category, by definition.
Often because it disgusts them (yuck), because they don’t trust their sucking skills (shame) or because it does not fit with the image of “good girl” they try to give you (social pressure).
Then, there’s also those who suck any guy at a party … but not a guy with who she wants a serious relationship! Bouh, what a trap! Her purpose is that the boyfriend does not see her as a “slut”, it’s always the same. If you are used to serious relationships and that you only fall on chicks like that, you’re not lucky!
Fortunately there’s those who do not suck any dude but who only suck when they are in a relationship (cf. 2) but hey sometimes when I lick one of them in a so good way, they suck me anyway ! You give so much that they feel compelled to give more, to stay in the competition. You take control of her sexuality, this way…
We should be able to create lots of other categories : those who suck by you shaking at the same time or not, those who only suck with the lips or those who rub you the glans with the tongue too, those with a small mouth so their teeth scrape against your glans and those who are pure mouths made for blowjob it is really comfortable. Those who swallow or not, those who suck at the beginning of the report or at the end, those who suck with the condom or without, those who lick your balls, those who put a finger in your ass, those who suck on her knees or lied down on the bed…
Finally here, I just wanted to have fun writing this little article like an asshole. I let off steam because I broke a tooth! The next one will be more serious!
And you, which one is your favorite sucker? And it is forbidden to answer “your mother”!
A PUA teaches you how to give women orgasms : how to make them come like crazy
I’ve got some questions :
– Do you want to turn women on even before touching their pussy ??
– Do you want to know several ways to finger them ??
– Do you want to know how to lick in a better way than Hank Moody ?
– Where is her fucking clitoris and how to take care of it ?
– How do you know if it was a real orgasm or if she faked ?
– What should you do with your hands during the sexual intercourse?
– Do you want me to recommend you some positions to drive them crazy?
– Do you want to last longer?
– Do you wanna get hard all the time in the bed?
My point while writing this ebook is to help you to give to girls the most incredible sexual experiences of their lives ! I guess I’m not the first pretentious guy who wants to write such an ebook… but I am Cyprineman, sexpert famous for licking pussies like a God (it’s my gift)..
But, I won’t only talk about licking pussies here. I also want you to know at the end of your reading the spots on girls’ body to touch – and how to touch them the good way – to make them scream “AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH you’re the best lover of my life” !
I will explain to you the good mindset that lead to some good sex, and the good things to do when you are having sex with her : how to warm her, how to finger her, what key-positions to master, how to last long enough to satisfy them, how to stay hard, how to recognize a real orgasm, etc. I want this ebook to be exhaustive. Everything about sex here.
After my ebook about Online Dating, I thus propose you by now another practical ebook (by opposition to theoretical) : no intellectual masturbation. Only things you can use next time you’ll sleep with a girl… to drive her crazy. It’s not very complicated things, but it’s things you must know and use. I want to keep it simple but effective. For example, about lasting longer : we will talk about “tricks” that help but we’ll stay on realistic things… because anyway the more you’re used to fuck and used to fuck beauties, the more you’ll last and become good naturally.
And it’s not just about giving orgasms and connecting with the other sex, it’s so much more than that… When you are a good fuck, you feel proud… you feel like a real man. You feel like you have an ace up in your sleeve that gives you a mysterious confidence. All the women and men that you meet will treat you with respect because of this sexual confidence. Sexual skills really do MAKE the man and people can tell because it gives you an aura.
Very few men are good in bed. Really good, I mean. Knowing you’re good will give you an incredible advantage in your mind. To get the girl and to keep her if you wish… because she’ll be addicted. You will invert the balance of power between men and women by proposing her something rare: a good lover.
You will not anymore be afraid of the competition. If you knew how many guys I saw going into trouble while trying to pick up a girl then not daring to turn up at her place the day of the meeting because they were afraid of screwing her badly. You already have an advantage on the others… because rare are the guys who agree to learn on the sex. They are way too proud! And even if they brag, it is a taboo subject for them!
By the way, how do we know that we are a good leg? When the girls tell it to you every time you sleep with one of them, for example. When you inspire them comments like “fuck but where did you learn that, you, it was awesome!” That happens to me all the time now (nevertheless I leave by far) then sorry if I am a little big headed now ! 😉
“which orgasm did you prefer ? tongue, vagina or fingers ?
– fingers ! but I loved the others too”
“you’re the best lover in the country”
– Listen to me licking her –
Over time, what happened was that through my own experimentation, I became able to make women cum ONCE AND OFTEN MULTIPLE TIMES. I could get hard and stay hard for ONE HOUR if I wanted to.
I am going to reveal you why so many people say that sex is wonderful and you’ll finally understand why in the practice it is not often that awesome !
56% of men who have affairs say they are in love with their wives. Currently, women are initiating 70% of divorces. 25% of married women will also have an extramarital affair (for 40% of men). 54% of people will never know their partner has cheated. 30% of people on dating site are not single, 38% of people on those sites are looking for one night stands (source : IFOP).
After you’ve read this book and internalize the programs I’ve prepared for you, you will feel so confident about your skills and knowledge in bed that you will not be paranoid nor insecure about your lover (or girlfriend, or wife) leaving you for some other dude (or woman) with more money, better looks, and better sexual skills than you. You won’t have sexual complexes anymore!
Number one reason why women cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed (sorry if it happened to you). Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually, and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like depression, cheating, divorce…
If you are thinking that being just OK in bed is all you want, that it is enough, think again! We are in a COMPETITIVE environment ! Do you know in how many discreet ways the girls can cheat – and I’m not only speaking mentally – but physically actually meet up with someone and fuck (I’ve often been this someone)… and you NEVER know about it??? Online dating, social networks, all kinds of sites for men and women who want to have discreet affairs. Temptation will definitely be there for her to cheat. Men try to pick up women ALL THE TIME. EVEN IF THEY’RE MARRIED ! If you’re not good in bed, you’re in danger…
These problems you’re having, problems I used to have : these are the problems of an inexperienced (and lost in front of this mysterious science) lover. With that said, you don’t need to have sex with 100 girls like me to get enough experience and be good in the bed. Once you know WHY most guys struggle in bed, it becomes easy to flip the switch and rock her world.
No more not feeling like a man. I don’t want guys who did nothing to deserve that feeling this pain and this shame like I did. You have a dick : it’s a responsibility. Learn how to use it. Be proud of it ! Prove yourself worthy of that ! You are less of a man if you decide not to man-up and change what’s wrong in your bed !
I will tell you now the story of a dude who asked me how to give strong powerful orgasms. But this guy pissed me off because he wasn’t humble nor modest : he told me he was sleeping with dozens of girls at the same time and was already a God in the bed. So I logically asked him why he wanted my advice.
To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex twice and he came in under two minutes. A lot of guys get trapped in the same ego-trap. They lie to others, lie to themselves, and don’t even know why ! On my blog like on this ebook, I want us to be honest with the another ones…
It’s the same thing with seduction : most of guys are way too proud. They reject the advices but read my blog all the same. This is ridiculous. You need to admit when what you’re doing isn’t working (or could work better) instead of making yourself too proud to prove we-don’t-know-what. If you think you’re yet a fucking sex god porn star, this program’s obviously not for you.
Otherwise, you’ve got to realize that you CAN improve your sexual skills. No matter how bad you are today (or not), they WILL improve. And no matter how good you think you are (or really are), you can still get better and get new ideas. It’s OK to get help to become excellent. I think we are on Earth to help each others. Myself continue again and again to document and to experiment! But I want to help only motivated people, fighters who deserve it by giving themselves the means!
NO ONE IS A NATURAL GOD WHEN IT COMES TO SEX. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of hot women might seem “natural”, but they are not because they learned too, like us. Differently, but they did. And only if their girls were curious…
The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can evolve in bed, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your best friend nor your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl… or in pornography, which is completely different, they’re professional naturally gifted (and it’s often faked). You have to learn the skills.
You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “this isn’t going to work” then it won’t (or not much) ! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! And bad ones, for sure !
Of course we are not animals so I will give you ideas to make the temperature rise before having sex… as a delivery for both of you. I do not plan to be disrespectful nor misogynist here. START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with (quality) women no matter where you are today on the sex-scale and that they will thank you for that (they’ll suck your cock with appetite). Because it is my mission, to make you become a real animal in the bed ! And I accepted it!
You can give women orgasms and your girl is capable of having mind-blowing “Full body Orgasms.” We can say that these orgasms are overwhelming because when women have such an orgasm they don’t know how many times nor how long they came. It’s an awesome experience for them !
HUNDREDS of guys write to me saying that their girl is different. That this stuff works on “slutty” girls (or whores) but their lover is a more serious, more classy woman. OF COURSE, DUDES ! Guys, what you’ve not understood is that women respond incredibly to Incredible Sex. These are just psychological principles. You are having a belief system problem and you’re blind so start trying with putting some inner conviction in it before saying it doesn’t work. Don’t be stupid, every woman has a goodgirl and a badgirl side… but often hidden…
Your lover IS sexual you just AREN’T GOOD. If you doubt about it, it’s just because you’re not good enough so she reveals you this part of her. She doesn’t tell you just to protect you. Let go off your ego and improve. I understand that is intimidating and that it hurts… but this book is here to help you. I’ve seen even the most uptight, tight-ass, coldest wives or working girls act like crazy slut teenage school girls after having sex with me. And that, believe in me, it is fun!!! (And in addition it is a good deed!)
When you’re having sex, it’s just you naked on top of her. You’re equal. Creating an amazing, mind-blowing sexual experience for a woman is all about your sexual abilities, which are completely LEARNED. And you’ll learn in the next pages…
If you want to be “the man” or better a “real man” in her eyes then : become good in bed! It will change EVERY aspect of your sexual life! It will even change YOUR MIND by improving your inner confidence !
Motivation is more than important to apply my stuff. Have you got the desire and/or the need to improve in the bed ?
If yes, welcome to this ebook that will tell you all my basics and advanced stuff to totally rock your bed. 47€ for this PDF file (200 pages).
In addition, this ebook will focus on :
– the orgasm in general (physiologically and psychologically speaking) ;
– knowing when she fakes orgasm and why she does that ;
– why orgasms make people fall in love ;
– the erogenous zones ;
– how to break the last minute resistance ;
– alcohol and sex ;
– the supplements and drugs ;
– how to get hard naturally in spite of stress ;
– how to last long even if we’re fucking really excited ;
– how women works when it comes to sex (mentality) ;
– what kind of lovers drive them crazy ? ;
– what turn them on in bed ? what do they expect from you ? ;
– how you can use porn to improve ;
– the kinesthetic pattern of the kiss that really turn them on ;
– how to use massages to drive them crazy ;
– how to finger them ;
– how the female sex works ;
– the welcomed method to give very powerful orgasms ;
– how to master pussy licking ;
– the position so that your sex looks bigger ;
– all the key-positions to make them come ;
– what is a bad lover ? ;
– how to be a good kisser? ;
– what to do after sex ? ;
– how to make her want to make a threesome ? ;
– my opinion on the sextoys ;
– the contraception and the sexual diseases ;
– the best condoms ever according to me ;
– the female ejaculation ;
– the sexual fantasies of women ;
– the G-spot ;
– the clitoris ;
– some ideas to pepper the act ;
– the tantrism ;
– a lot of other stuff…
You can read here an extract of the ebook if you are motivated. Know, for you information, that I always quote my sources and give free bonus at the end of my books.
# 1 “Are you straight?
– Yes.
– So would you like to kiss me?
– Why not” Kiss.!
# 2 “You have a nice butt my mare, I want to ride you to win the Irish sweepstakes..
– (She and her friends laugh)
– Relax, it was just a joke …
– Yes I guessed !
– What do we do now ? We kiss?
– (Laughs again) OK let’s go, because I liked your approach” Kiss.!
# 3 “When you’ll get tired of being with your girlfriends, come see me.
– That’s it I’m tired” Kiss !
# 4 “Hi, are you a good kisser?
– Yes” and she damn put her tongue into my mouth and then “do you have got fags?
– No I’m not a smoker.
– Okay good night, it was nice anyway…”
# 5 “Hi, we kiss?
– What for ? “And there without answering I turned her head and KISS.
# 6 “Did you wash your teeth?
– Yes.
– Then we can kiss?
– (No answer) “kiss.
# 7 “Is there still girls that I have not kissed in this club?
– There’s me.
– OK. Do you want to kiss me?
– perhaps…
– Go, let’s give it a try” kiss.
# 8 “Wesh chick, wazup? We make pimp bombs?
– What is your trip?
– If I tell you that it’s a gamble, does it ruins everything ?” One got up and kissed me.
# 9 “Didn’t we already kissed in a club?
– no I don’t think so.
– Well, then we sould do it” Kiss!
# 10 “Do you have vomited tonight?
– no.
– You can kiss then …
– I don’t know, not now.
– Are you not enough drunk or you don’t find me handsome enough?
– I do not know, both.
– Go, I bet you’re gonna the first one to crack.
– Not a chance”I approached her, close, without kissing her. We talked for about ten minutes and sexual tension drove her crazy… She cracked the first one…
Bonus: Do not forget to move on to sleep with them! For example: a girl in the line of a club. “Would you like to kiss me?
– Yes” kiss “second question, have you already made love today?
– no…
– Are you interested?
– Yes … but right now I must join my girlfriends.
– OK, take my number and call me later, plus I just adopted a kitten, you’ll be able to see it.
– Okay, I take your number”.
For more concrete examples of funny and uninhibited pickup, read this ebook.
” You too have the fantasy of the unknown?”
” You too fall only on bad legs? ”
” Have you already made a threesome? ”
“How long since your last orgasm?”
“Do you like doggy style with spanking ?”
etc.
With this, if you are able to get hard, you’re a boss. It can be a challenge to take it doggy style.
# 2 The big ass
I know that there are guys who like fat chicks like that. Destroying an ass a little fat and soft, it can be enjoyable. And especially to make it turn red by hitting and spanking on it.
# 3 The nice but fat ass
Here starts the real competition of the ass. The girl is wide but somewhat muscular. The nice fat ass must often be accompanied by a pretty face and cute boobs otherwise it ruins everything.
Also available in blonde. Even better if it belongs to your boss who piss you off all day long.
# 4 Ass looking like a heart
It is the ass of love: round and massive. It is not for the small pink cocks of skinny metrosexuals! And if the girl gets quilts, you can even use it as convenient handles for doggy style. Well dimpled, if you take a run-up, you can jump on it like on a trampoline.
# 5 The anorexic ass
Unlike previous ass, the ass here pale, scrawny and tasteless. Advised to repressed pedophile who love children and so the girls without forms. Built by these fags who dictate women’s fashion in Paris and then go get fucked in gay bars. Precautions: be careful to do not penetrate the bones of her hips in your lower abdomen, it hurts. Also be careful to don’t break her legs.
# 6 The flat ass
Flat yes, but can be successful like a joke by Norman. Indeed, an ass like that can be as good as a horny porn with Clara. Especially if you love fucking asians who have never seen a big dick in their lives. Hoping to be able to get it without hurting her too much.
Also available in French model to please Montebourg. Even better if it’s a bit tanned and wearing a smock.
# 7 The Eastern bitch’s ass
A perfectly proportioned and horny ass. Easy access to Western men when traveling in the countries of the east. I’ve not seen anything so excitant since my last orgy with DSK in a luxury hotel. In addition, they were not very expensive (€ 50 per doggy style).
# 8 South American’s ass
It loves to stir on Brazilian music. Warm, welcoming and breast, perfect for unresolved Oedipus complex. It allows to start a family with confidence. And after bearing children, you can even enjoy an effect “melancholy ass” due to excessive stretch marks and cellulite. By cons, you must love brunettes and hair.
# 9 The black ass
It was designed for big black cocks and is known to be one of the finest asses in the world. Global benchmark, to be tested at least once in your life! It is not too hard: the carriers of these ridges seems to be hypersexual. Even more exciting if they are dressed as maids to please the macho (it also works with the Eastern girl).
# 10 The little well-rounded butt
The sports ass. Great as it is young and goes to the gym. Generally it ages badly (it breaks the myth) so it is interesting to renew your girlfriend regularly.
Bonus: the perfect ass
So there is a bit of a personal choice. That ass never pooped, just like Megan Fox. Just designed for sex.
Thanks to Topito for allowing me to make this ranking ass (I had a lot of fun) because otherwise it would not really have had a place on my blog. Unfortunately, at the time of publishing they thus backtracked so I publish it here.
The game begins when you’re coming in. We must therefore watch your body language to be a center of attention (that’s why the servers are so successful in bars in addition of social proof). Stand straight, open up, make sure and slow movements. You must display a zen aura, one must think that you are relaxed (although this is not the case).
Remember to smile, but not too much. Instead, make little smiles : the kind we do when we get a private joke that others have not understood.
#2 The eye contact : do not be afraid of women
Too many men are afraid of women and it can be read in their eyes. Make her look down the first one by maintaining the eye contact.
Then, when the interaction has started: look at her in the eyes 90% of the time when you talk and 10% of the time when she talks … in order not to look like a psychopath.
#3 Talk to her like if you already know her, be a player and fun
If you start to get uncomfortable or too tight-ass, she will feel it and the bad emotions are contagious. Instead, consider flirting as a game.
So have fun, use funny and daring lines. Make her have fun, show you nerves. Over-play your confidence and show that you do not take yourself seriously.
Break the ice, be fun, playful and relaxed… like if you were with an old friend (so touch her that way) and see if she agrees to discuss with this dynamic (or frame). If this is the case, it’s all good and be take more initiatives. If this is not the case … next!
#4 Have ready-to-use lines to help you when you don’t know what to say nor how to approach
Too many guys keep silent because they do not know what to say. So, prepare some “openers” to avoid being always silent. There are plenty of examples on my blog and in this ebook.
These same guys, when they finally speak with a girl switch in an interview Mode “how old are you, what do you do in life, what’s your name, do you suck dicks?” : This is not original (it bothers women and thus makes them want to go away) … but a good pick-up artist should be the exception to the rule.
By the same logic, do not stare at every asses in the street like a hungry sex-starved loser!
#5 Do not give her too much before you saw her naked
You talk to a girl: you needed some courage and effort to get there. But you should not give it too much importance just because she has a pussy into which you would feel warm.
Too many guys cling to girls who are OK to talk to them because they do not want to have to make the effort to approach another one… so they attach themselves and invest in them too much ( and often disproportionately so it scares women away). Don’t pay for a restaurant during a first date, for example.
Rather, YOU must be, the price in the interaction: you must reverse the balance of power (first of all in your head so that it is materialized in real life). It is way easier to fuck a girl when we know we will be the best lover of her life and that if she does not want and would rather want to fuck losers… well, that’s too bad for her if she is an idiot who does not understand anything. This is called a positive belief, it is not necessarily true nor false, it’s subjective but it helps to get ahead in life.
Once you’ve slept with her, if you still want to be her boyfriend you can behave as such. But still do not become too sticky and needy. And do not confuse love and sexual desire.
#6 Do you ever get discouraged
Me too, there’s nights when it does not work. Nights when they all are “sorry I have a boyfriend” or “sorry I am lesbian” (or other fake shitty excuses that are sometimes only virility test but hey it sucks anyway). But you should never give up. It’s part of the game!
You should have enough inner strength to do not be affected by the wickedness of some girls who no longer feel sooo powerful when we approach them. The nerves and perseverance pay (not only in pickup).
Be careful, the game can be dangerous for your nerves …
#7 Instead of bragging, make her talk
Do not boast, it is not an alpha male attitude, but rather of guy seeking for approbation. Now, a sexy guy is not trying to prove things. “A rich doesn’t need to say he is rich.”
So instead of trying to qualify yourself by talking, make her talk about her about things she is interested in. People love it (we’re all a bit self-centered), even the women, and in addition it will rest you. Make active listening: she will find you much more friendly.
#8 Go too fast rather than too slow, dare
As she speaks, feel free to touch her or make innuendos. You will see how she reacts. Know that women are followers of the implied consent (because of social pressure, she is not going to jump on you because she’s too scared to be thought of as a whore).
For your own comfort, please go rather too quickly, too direct, than too slowly or too indirect, it will avoid ambiguities and thus friendzone. In addition, she expects you to be manly and that you want to sleep with her: you do not want her to take you for a gay anyway? You must desecrate women, you must know that they are not so pure nor innocent as some believe. Do not judge them for that. Do not call them whores. Enjoy it instead: yes, they love sex, especially when it’s done right, and that’s good for you too.
“It is better to ask forgiveness than permission.”
#9 Do not let her play with you
Lambdas men, guided by their pecker, yet only very rarely sleep with chicks (of few girls). So, women can get away with playing with them, boss them around, make them do what they want like paying drinks and everything.
Do not go into this system because, except in cases she would want to marry, they are not turned on by the “pigeons”. Paradoxically, all these efforts and attention are fun but they lose their respect for you when you submit to everything. Learn how to say no. To make her pay drinks for spending time with you. It’s like the cat with toys: as long as it moves the cat plays but when it falls between its legs … the cat loses interest.
#10 Be everywhere, approach a lot, get used to talking to strangers
You can multiply your chances of success by picking up on the Internet, in clubs and why not in the street. More option you have and the better it is. You should play on numbers.
Must also work on the technique: the trick is to get used to talking to unknown(s). The more you practice, the less it will cost you and you will be less dependent on the women you approach. They feel it and your attitude becaming more “I don’t give a shit I’m sexy” towards them seduce them (they usually love this attitude).
Last tip: approach quickly, something like three seconds after spotting a girl you like. Otherwise, she will take you for a psychopath or a guy without balls who need an hour before finding the courage to dare and she will lose respect for you (and you lose some value in her eyes just like those who use false excuses like “do you have a light?” and then try to pick them up it’s a shame). Or you will ask 36 000 questions and be put under stress then get cold feet at the time of spending a speed or then approaching her but perspiring malaise and solitude.
On seduction forums, we can often read these vague politically correct advice that invite people to be more natural, “do it simple”, “mostly be natural”, “it just happens between a man and a woman”, “c’mon it’s easy to flirt”and worst of all “just be yourself”. For me, it makes no sense to say that. BE YOURSELF: OK … but the real yourself!
Too much theory kills theory … (but the opposite is true!)
For me, take these tips as invitations to approach the game in a less stressful way (and therefore more effective because stress is our enemy in seduction – some make a mountain of that). It is important to don’t use those advices as excuses to do nothing (“I am myself so I do not approach” … no in this case it is the stress that speaks it’s not you). And it is especially necessary to understand what really means this famous “be yourself”: basically you’re a man with sexual desires so: be yourself and assume them! It is important to don’t misinterpret the message !!!
If one takes away your inhibitions and your bad faith, you already know almost everything, basically! I’m sure ! You probably would be able to fuck a girl per week. I remember friends I introduced to the game who were able to take a phone number or kiss a girl during their first approach. We can say that it’s beginner’s luck or think that this skill is innate somewhere in us. (Anyway this beginner’s luck motivate to continue … I do not know if my friends would be where they are if they did not begin with some success before being rejected a lot). But the problem it’s when the guys start thinking too much about the game…
For example, learning how to recognize indicators of interest… it’s not obvious at first. However, we instinctively have this faculty in us. It’s a question of survival of the species! But it is currently covered by a layer of education and experience that block us (we do not believe in it). Unless you have Asperger’s or spend 10 hours a day on World of Warcraft, you should be able to suspect something when a girl likes you. But when a guy switches into analytical mode and need a comprehensive list of IOI to check before taking initiatives, it unfortunately means that he is not focused enough or present enough in his pickup. He should perhaps start by being in the present moment instead of trying to further analyze the thing. This is not the theory itself I’m criticizing (theory is necessary), but rather the mode of intellectualization some adopt that seems causing too much frustration. In other words, intellectual masturbation will not drain your nuts!
Incidentally, my eyes still hurt a bit when I read on forums that guy is “a beginner in seduction.” Indeed, he may be a young inexperienced player but talking about beginner in seduction seems to me inappropriate … like if the guy was at level 1 of a video game with Mimie Mathy to be gamed to go to level 2 and Eva Green the boss at the end. It’s not appropriate to think that the physical appearance of a bitch will influence the ease with which she spreads the legs or her IQ. These parameters aren’t really related, in practice there’s more ugly girls that are pains in the ass than beautiful chicks (among others because the ugly chicks often dislike their bodies therefore do not like to get naked)!
Sorry but picking up chicks, this is not rocket science unlike creating computers. However, some geeks among my readers master very complicated stuff about the computers but not how to approach a woman. We can complicate the thing with formulas like Mystery for reassurance (or sell) and eventually actually make it difficult … but it is not so difficult in fact. You must demystify seduction! This effectively becomes difficult when you are not confident and when you imagine that it is. Otherwise, how our grandfathers would have seduced our grandmothers knowing that the game did not exist before 1990? This is just a science created to understand a phenomenon like physics studies the world but what is not explained yet exist.
What approach is the most appropriate for learning?
You cannot pretend you are zero : we (almost) all have naturally a number of social skills. Indeed, unless you have been abandoned at birth and raised in the jungle by Baloo, you already know about communicating normally and you have some human qualities. The real challenge is to identify, strengthen them and make the most of it. This well-known by consultants and coaches approach can be effectively applied to seduction.
The opposite approach is to identify what’s wrong to try to fix it… it’s too long, tedious and unrealistic when applied to humans. How can we believe that we will fully reconstruct someone? Besides this type of method can have destructive effects in terms of self-esteem and guilt. This wrong approach is also the reason why many guys are still blocking for years on seduction forums without getting any concrete results. Even that sometimes they are so watered by theory that they het used to give lessons to others !!!
How do inner game works?
The inner game is what happens in the mind of the player. Its main obstacles are: doubt and anxiety. An optimal inner game is to do not let these crap too much hinder the path to success… so we can fully express our innate potential. Fear, disbelief, nervousness, jealousy, embarrassment, perplexity, hesitation and lack of attention are driving down our confidence and ability to penetrate fully in the exchange in a relevant and empathetic way with respect to the objective which is all the same for a PUA to bang hot babes girls. Not to have dates, not take numbers … to fuck! For an optimal game, switch off this damn ego that gives the orders (“you MUST use this as opener, playing the cube game, negging her” if you have not you’re a noob, etc.) rather switch on and let express your natural ability. Basically, bombarding someone with orders and advice is counter-productive. Do not do it to your friends when you want to initiate them to the game !!! But let’s o back to you…
If you give yourself the order to stop giving you orders, it is the homosexual snake biting its tail. Your self-talk will just amplify and contradictions will make you implode. We instead want to concentrate to only keep the aspects of a situation that is necessary for its optimal performance. It’s like when you talk to a girl: all that matters is that the message is heard in a clear and genuinely way to create in her an emotion that works for you. When you watch your game it’s the same: do it in the most neutral way possible and without emitting negative value judgment (that was bad, sad, zero, etc.)
No bad value judgment!
This is fundamental in the learning process which has four steps:
– Observation without judgment of what is to be improved
– Imagining the desired result
– Self-confidence (routines and techniques are just contingency plans)
– Observation without judgment of the changes and results until you’re proud of having achieved your goal
Such an approach necessarily strengthens your belief in your innate qualities and therefore your self-esteem. Notice that we erased here the stage in which we yell at ourselves every time it does not go as well as we would like. It is relaxing to deal with yourself in a so kind way. Especially since it’s not because we have a bad game that we necessarily miss our life…
Wanting to learn…
To learn, sometimes a good question well put is better than one hundred tips to make people move on in their head.
“What have you observed when you’ve approached? ”
“Why did you ask her phone number at this moment? ”
“What happened when you took her hand to make her dance? ”
etc.
The apprentice PUA thus realizes things we could simply tell him directly … but he discovers for himself. This learning is much deeper and less interference generator. It is better to teach him how to learn, to stir his curiosity, knowing where to find the answers and thus develop his adaptive intelligence by reducing the interferences of the ego and contradictory injunctions. The autonomy is fundamental in seduction! Initiatives too! Nerves even more !
The problem is that when it comes to love and sexuality, social control and influence over the people by the religious authorities / government / parents / media / etc. are so powerful that we all are at some degree puppets submitted to social pressure (even if you feel that’s you’re free). Unlearning all that crap to achieve a simpler, more empathetic and sincere communication (with yourself and with others) remains in my opinion the quickest and most enjoyable way to seduce women you like. Because seduction is most a question of communication… even if it is multidisciplinary.
Let’s be ourselves! But do we really know who we are?
An orgasm is a sexual climax (or high point). Orgasm happens because of continued sexual touching. During an orgasm, there is a strong feeling of excitement and pleasure. Sexual touching may be sexual intercourse, rubbing or squeezing by hand (called masturbation), or other actions that make the sex organs feel good. During an orgasm, a person’s body sometimes spasms (shakes or trembles) and the person’s brain activity changes quickly. Orgasms may happen when people are asleep. When men orgasm while sleeping, it is often called a “wet dream”. Other mammals may have orgasms when they have sex.
How to be awesome in bed ?
Many times I was asked if a PUA could fuck the chick of another guy? And if yes, is it risked?
Far from me the pretense of taking an imperious tone in this article because we will address the issue of amorous exclusivity.
In my career, I have been able to distinguish three types of cocksuckers.
10 effective pick up lines
#1 Be zen, relax