I’ve written this list of affirmations so that you become soaked with confidence. Not only read it… but feel it every day until you notice a change in your behaviours.
What not to do :
â–ˇ I do not have to try to seek the approval nor the validation of others
â–ˇ I do not have to compare myself with other men
â–ˇ I do not have to complain
â–ˇ I do not have to lose my cool
â–ˇ I do not have to show any jealousy nor to be possessive
â–ˇ I do not have to show of personal insecurity nor to show any lack of confidence
â–ˇ I do not have to express my sexual desire too seriously
â–ˇ I do not have to give a woman exactly what she wants
â–ˇ I do not have to brag, to put myself down, nor to put the others down
â–ˇ I do not have to may, I remain cool and do not take offence for nothing
â–ˇ I do not constantly have to self-control (do not become passive-aggressive)
â–ˇ I do not too much have to worry about the thoughts, about the feelings or about the statements of a woman
â–ˇ I do not have to behave as somebody soft or weak
â–ˇ I do not have to seek approval nor act like if I was in lack of affection
â–ˇ I do not have to check out every attractive girls
□ I do not have to hide when I’m bored
â–ˇ I do not have to be a fighter
â–ˇ I do not have to hesitate
â–ˇ I do not have to look anxious nor to look worried
□ I don’t have to smile excessively
â–ˇ I do not have to become limp, I keep head up
â–ˇ I do not have to feel the need to expose my intelligence
â–ˇ I do not have to play the games of women
â–ˇ I do not have to be available for a woman if I have already planned something else or better
â–ˇ I do not too much have to be in a hurry to answer my phone as well as my e-mails
â–ˇ I do not have to be vulgar nor to be disgusting
â–ˇ I do not have to quarrel nor to offend a woman
â–ˇ I do not have to give some explanation nor to justify myself
â–ˇ I do not have to return the conversation to me ceaselessly
â–ˇ I have to wait for no more than 20 minutes, nor to accept more than 2 flakes
â–ˇ I do not have to fully dedicate myself to a woman, I always step back
â–ˇ I do not have to tolerate the dishonesty, the immaturity nor the obesity
â–ˇ I do not have to apologize when there is no reason
â–ˇ I do not have to do things the hard way when there is an easy way, I assume
□ I don’t have to wear dirty clothes
â–ˇ I do not have to be dirty, on the contrary, I am clean
â–ˇ I do not have to be at the disposal of people immediately
What to do :
â–ˇ I always look confident, my happiness comes only from myself
â–ˇ I am discreet on my relations and on my sexual life
â–ˇ I go towards the others, I am sociable
â–ˇ I give my approval without expecting from it in return
â–ˇ I reward good behaviors and do not encourage bad behaviours
â–ˇ I know what I want and I am active and dynamic in the search of what I want
â–ˇ I am a player, I joke and tease by taking a malignant air
â–ˇ I am precise and concise
â–ˇ I am optimistic and look on the bright side, I adopt the positive thought
â–ˇ I am sincere with myself
â–ˇ I am polite, I do not order with an authoritarian look on my face
â–ˇ I look casual because I am at ease with myself and in a good mood
â–ˇ I watch my body language : I occupy the space, I am opened and vulnerable
â–ˇ I dare to interrupt
□ I say “thank you” to answer a compliment
â–ˇ I remain unavailable if the obtained profit is lower than what it would be necessary to me to support
â–ˇ I am ambitious, in particular in the financial domain
â–ˇ I look for the total satisfaction of my partner
â–ˇ I am talkative in a group
â–ˇ I am funny and spiritual but not clown nor an entertainment
□ I always start with the principle that I’m appreciated
â–ˇ I feel free to touch other people
â–ˇ With me, nothing is beforehand won (I am challenge)
â–ˇ It is me who decide of my life, I do that I want
â–ˇ Nothing affects my reality
â–ˇ The sex is not really important, it is part of my lifestyle
â–ˇ I enough speak loudly, I am not monotonous
â–ˇ I control the progress of the exchange
â–ˇ I respect myself and I am selective
â–ˇ I am remarkable: unique and personal style, I dare suits and look for accessories
â–ˇ I can leave at any time, I am independent
â–ˇ I know what I can tolerate, I clarify the limits
â–ˇ I am relaxed, cool, and it is true in any circumstances
â–ˇ My responsibility is the sex, not the daily relation
â–ˇ I take initiatives and persist
â–ˇ I manage the fear of the rejection, I have nothing to prove to the others
â–ˇ I get dressed as if I had just made love to a woman, except for suits
â–ˇ I am a leader, it is me who take the control
â–ˇ I laugh at what the others think of me and what women say (tests)
â–ˇ I forget the errors after having learned the lessons
â–ˇ My locus interns > locus extern, the outer elements have no taking on me
â–ˇ I am the prize, I have a high respect of me and I believe in my own success
□ I am confident because ” I am like that “, I live in my own reality
â–ˇ I want a woman who loves me, who loves life and who takes care of her (and of me)
â–ˇ I write without spelling mistake
â–ˇ I am not easily influenced : I think by myself and I have my own convictions
The affirmations :
â–ˇ I feel at ease
â–ˇ I feel confident
â–ˇ I am a dominant
â–ˇ I like talking with girls
â–ˇ I am an ideal lover for the women
â–ˇ I am optimistic
â–ˇ I have an aura of confidence
â–ˇ I am elegant
â–ˇ I am stylish
â–ˇ I am very proud
â–ˇ I am satisfied with me
â–ˇ I like myself
â–ˇ I am quiet (relaxed, in control)
â–ˇ I move my body slowly (head and hands because I am a dominant)
â–ˇ I am relaxed and opened
â–ˇ I am someone very sexual and women notice it
â–ˇ I am a sex god
â–ˇ I am brilliant, awesome
â–ˇ I am very very confident
â–ˇ I have a great fulfilling life
â–ˇ I feel at ease to talk to people
â–ˇ I occupy the space because I am really confident
â–ˇ I am quiet when I enter the intimate space of someone
â–ˇ I touch people when I talk to them
â–ˇ I am naturally a leader
â–ˇ My face is relaxed in any circumstances
â–ˇ I am a challenge because I expect a lot from girls
â–ˇ I am really interesting
â–ˇ I am unpredictable
â–ˇ I am like a Greek god : very beautiful and very virile
â–ˇ When I talk to people, I gain their trust
â–ˇ I am strong and powerful like a champion
â–ˇ I am attractive and a sex god in the bed thus women are excited by my natural presence
â–ˇ I persist until her bed or until being clearly rejected
â–ˇ I like rejections because they translate the fact that I tried
â–ˇ I love adventure
â–ˇ I do not need the approval of others
â–ˇ I improve myself every day
â–ˇ I am in a very good mood
□ I don’t care about what people think
â–ˇ I am a winner
â–ˇ I have a lot of assurance
â–ˇ I am very naughty
â–ˇ I am an opportunity for women
â–ˇ I am a dream lover
â–ˇ I am focused on positive feelings
â–ˇ I am very funny and very interesting
â–ˇ I am a very sexual person
â–ˇ I am satisfied and relaxed
□ Women want me but that’s now really important, after all
â–ˇ I have A LOT of women in my life
â–ˇ I am extrovert
â–ˇ Everything goes well
â–ˇ I have great hair
â–ˇ I open attractive girls everywhere
â–ˇ I am happy
â–ˇ I have an easy life, I am cool, yeahhhh !!!
â–ˇ I am relaxed in society
â–ˇ I do not have to feel threatened by other men
â–ˇ I am not jealous because I am confident
â–ˇ I am satisfied with me
â–ˇ I am optimistic thus I can do what I want in my life and make it a success
â–ˇ I improve myself again and again
â–ˇ I have no limit, I will be even more successful than in my craziest dreams
â–ˇ I am sure that it will work
â–ˇ I am sexy
â–ˇ I want to make love to beautiful women
â–ˇ I approach girls
â–ˇ I control my life
â–ˇ I laugh at what people think about me
â–ˇ I walk like a model
â–ˇ I am incredibly satisfied with me
â–ˇ I actively try to make love
â–ˇ I look for the total satisfaction of my partner(s)
â–ˇ I am not a premature ejaculator
â–ˇ I like giving
â–ˇ I only remember positive things
â–ˇ I make assured and powerful movements
â–ˇ I am active
â–ˇ I am one of the potential best lover in the planet and I know it
□ I don’t give a shit and I dare to approach women
To be continued…
Extract from : How to sublimate your body language