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One night stand : how to find and propose to be a sexfriend ?

a one night stand or a sexfriend relationship

A one night stand, at the base, it’s a shot of a night. That is to say, a sexual relationship, nothing more since the participants do not intend to develop a lasting relationship, or even to meet again.

Sometimes we talk about regular sex, or sexfriends. This is when the partners have sex from time to time but without feeling engaged.

 

How to find a sexfriend ?

There are many sites on the internet that can help you to find a one night stand or a sexfriend easily.

Tinder has been much criticized for this, because politically correct love to criticize sex without commitment. But it’s one of the best I know. There is also Adopteunmec. Finally, currently, the means to find a good sexfriend or a one night stand are not lacking.

If not, you can also propose a one night stand to a girl of your entourage. Or to a girl you have just flirted in the street, in a bar or in a club.

sexfriend or one night stand

 

 

How to propose a one night stand or a sexfriend to a girl?

Ethics

The first problem that arises when proposing a one night stand or a sexfriend relationship to a girl is ethics. Should you tell her clearly that you only want a sexfriend (at least to begin) or is it necessary to play the transit lover until you reach your goals?

In any case, if you asked yourself this question, you have identified part of the problem. If a girl said loudly that she wants only sex, she might be treated as a bitch.

Indeed, women have the fantasy (secret) of the unknown and good sex easy but they have above all a priority: they want to protect their reputation.

Men, they, have no problem to assume to want to fuck easily without headache or feeling. Although I have the impression that there are more and more guys who become Puritan, well-being, tight-asss and blue flower.

The problem in all this is that some let hope the girls. They tell themselves that if they were frank by saying frankly to the girls that they just wanted to fuck, they would not be interested. This is of course wrong, because there are a lot of girls who have nothing against the idea of ​​sex, but it’s mostly being an asshole.

a one night stand or a sexfriend relationship

 

Sexfriend OR couple?

The a one night stand or a sexfriend relationship allows to spend pleasant moments between consenting adults, and it’s always taken on life. Whether it leads to a relationship or not, it is better to have orgasmed than have spent another ninth TV evening with your cat.

However, sometimes partners get involved. Sometimes, at the bend of an “innocuous” fuck, the two realize that they share an intense sexual and emotional connection. And that can lead to beautiful stories.

It seems to me a much better start than to qualify intellectually for a month around drinks and restaurants. Because after a month of time, money and energy invested, when you go to sleep together: maybe you will not be compatible. Maybe it will be shit, maybe you’ll be too bad for her or she’s expecting something else, etc. If there is no sexual and emotional connection between you, it’s better if you know it quickly, right?

So, letting a potential couple sparkle or even the opportunity to see you again to become regular plans is a good idea but only if you really think. Otherwise, it’s still like being an asshole.

Selling ​​the dream and making plans on the comet just to fuck… no! I had a friend who did that in high school, he said “I love you” to the girls just to fuck them. What an example not to follow!

 

Why would not you want a couple?

If you want to be sure to succeed in your first year of seduction, because this is where we progress the most, I do not advise you to couple or have too many regular sexfriends.

Indeed, fucking one day out of two your regular sexfriends, this is the best way to no longer go out picking women up, not to have faith, to stay in your comfort zone and therefore not to progress.

 

Why would not she want a couple?

Although women love to say they are looking for love and everything, they are often far from closed to the idea of ​​a hot sexfriend. If it was her favorite rock star who proposed her to fuck, do you really think the girl would need to be invited to the restaurant 3 times before removing her panties?

a one night stand or a sexfriend relationship

 

There are girls who want a one night stand, even with a guy lambda, if only to change their minds or because they come out of a story and want to meet the needs of their bodies.

Examples are not lacking: recently separated, divorced, taking career, wants to take revenge on her guy who cheats on her, nympho, libertine in an open relationship, etc.

In summary, I do not advise you to assume that women always want commitment and promise before sleeping with a man. This is false but it is a very widespread limiting belief that is likely to make you lose easy shots.

Be careful though because some girls really think that sex without feeling has no interest… it is also a limiting belief that can prevent them from enjoying during their full life. Some women have never been properly fucked, so they do not know that sex for sex, it can be super good… A good a one night stand or a sexfriend relationship would probably do them the greatest good!

 

How to qualify?

They do what they want with their bodies and that’s good because that’s exactly what young Womanizers like me do too. There may be a match!

Moreover, if you are 40 and over, this is also the best way to fuck young girls: you allow them to enjoy your sexual experience during private meetings while they do not have to face the people look “ah but it looks like you’re going out with your father!”

However, for a a one night stand or a sexfriend relationship, what makes the difference between you and the 150 dogs in heat  she meets every day or who send her pictures of their cock after 2 texts?

You have to stand out from the competition. This is where the game is even more useful.

Obviously, if you have a reputation as a fun guy and a good fucker, it will do a lot of work for you. Personally, there are some girls who offer me sometimes one night stands. Some even travel 300km to come enjoy with me. It’s awesome, right?

 

Conversation topics

With you, life is not a headache! To encourage the discussion to lead to a one night stand or a sexfriend relationship, prefer light subjects.

Do not ask a woman who seems to want to fuck if she has a guy or what. Do not bring the conversation on it. Do not talk about things that can destroy sexual tension. Prefer 100 times talking about sex.

But you must cover your proposal all the same: you do not say “I propose a a one night stand or a sexfriend relationship”. You say rather “it must be too good to be in you… I really want it right away as in a bubble out of time and our lives. I propose you a sex session easy, fast, intense, passionate, without judgment…”

Carve some side carpe diem, which will be your added value, as the Rake in The art of seduction.

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Reassure her

Regarding a possible relationship couple, tell her that if you share a strong intellectual and sexual connection it will be done alone. Otherwise, it is always taken from life and washed well it can be used again.

Do not be an emotional dependent guy who needs to be in a couple more than sex. It’s really like a frustrated chick thing that lives alone with her cats and looks at romantic comedies all night long. Do not lower yourself to this level, please!

In addition, you have to communicate that you are a little demanding: you do not want you to sleep with her just because she is there, like a piece of meat, but because it is HER.

You have to prize her and qualify her on things (if possible not physical details).

An important thing is openness. Do not judge yourself or others too harshly for their natural desires.

Remove the social pressure, remove the fear of judgment and you will have a good chance of having sex!

Finally, insist that after a sex drive, you have never insulted, denigrated, disrespected a woman, spread rumors about her, etc.

The ideal for a one night stand or a sexfriend relationship is that she is ready to assume her fantasies and desires without being judged.

 

Read to go further

The truth (which disturbs) on the relations men / women

In this book I explain the ideal state of mind. What to communicate and how to do to get the plans going. I strongly advise you to read it because it has been a trigger for many men.

Friendzone and Sexualization

In this ebook, I explain how to sexualize an interaction. And you will need it if you want to fuck lots of girls.

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The Nice Giant sums up his year of seduction

The Nice Giant sums up his year of seductionThis text is a bonus to my Diary of a French PUA 3

Here is the assessment of the Gentile Giant after a little more than a year of seduction in Lyon.

Best moments

These fucking crash and burn. I really understood at that moment that it was necessary to take seduction as a game, with a smile. Not like something serious and indispensable, even if it was for me.

Best results on the field

My best results have been online. I found it so enjoyable (yes yes) to bring girls home that I had never met and fuck them that same evening. Surely the most unlikely thing I would not have thought of doing someday.

My results

I am pretty satisfied with my results overall. Unfortunately I was fickle, so I had rush periods at 3 FC on the same month and then nothing behind.

On the other hand, I’m happy to have FC on all fields (street, online, night).

Your regrets if you have any

My inconstancy maybe. But especially my One Itis that made me spend a bad time. Although in the background I think it was a good thing that it happens to me. It will have made me understand things that will serve me for the next time. It’s all well and good to read lots of articles on it, experimenting is better.

Quantity / Quality Target

I went from 2FC in total in my life in September to 10 today. So Quantity, Done! Quality too. They were all pretty hot (HB 7) except for two HB6s. And an HB9 (Anissa) and an HB8 (The black and her ass worthy of a US rap clip). So quality too, and I feel it because I became more demanding, and especially less impressed by the hot girls.

My desires for the future?

Fucking a pitchoune from time to time to empty my balls until I find a good and cool girl to experiment the couple. I run more after the numbers, even if it would have pleased me to reach the 15 this year. Unfortunately it takes too much time to fully focus on the game, and I have other projects. Although in the background I would like to fuck as often as possible, obviously.

Analysis of my game year

I made good progress, thanks to you Fab. I think I changed a lot too. I am more confident today. I am even relieved actually. Now, I know that if I want to fuck, I can. I just need to move (a lot) my ass. Before I was without solution. Today, I have the keys in hand, to open the doors to the clitoris of chicks.

I come today to get upset when I meet a girl in the street and I do not act. It frustrates me and it annoys me not to move. Before it was normal for me to walk away. It’s all my mindset that has changed.

The mistakes not to do

Do not cut yourself off from your friends. Unfortunately I have turned away from them enough to be fed up with the game pretty quickly. We must continue to maintain friendships and have other activities/passions nearby.

I think it is better to progress more slowly by continuing life next to rather than to game too much over a long period. Seduction is only a step towards our best self, without a balanced life next door, stacking conquests does not really make sense.

To conclude, in two words:

THANK YOU FAB! This year has been very, very beneficial to me. I may even not realize how much for now. In any case I feel liberated and really better in my skin. Whereas before I was rather worried. I can envisage the future serenely this time !!

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Role of Extremist Feminism in the Devirilization of Man

Extremist Feminism

At first, we will talk about radical feminism and disassemble some nonsense that it promotes. Then we will see how the system uses radical feminists to manipulate the population by making them feel guilty. And finally, why we are going straight towards the most complete devirilization of man.

This article follows my article on the place of the alpha male in human societies.

First, a small point definition not to misunderstand me: Radical (or extremists) feminists are those who want not to achieve a gender equity but who want to crush and humiliate men in the name of a revenge of past injustices.

A radical feminist fighting for the right not to wax underarm. I just don’t care. I am for the right to abortion, for the right to vote of women, for the sexual freedom of women… but, some fights called “feminist” leave me perplexed. She can epilate as she hears but I hope she won’t force me to want her if I do not like it…

 

The origin of sexual differences

You know it if you read my book on evolutionary psychology: in comparison to an egg, big, rare and expensive, billions of sperm have almost no value.

In a year, a man can fertilize hundreds of women, a woman can only procreate once. This fact is the origin of differences in treatment between the sexes.

 

The sexual behavior of the man “sex-starving”

The rarity of the ovum gives the female sexual act a great value, at least emotionally speaking, since putting a condom on or taking the pill almost cancels the risks of pregnancy but not the brain hormone discharges.

The man is always more demanding, more enterprising, less looking than the woman because of his objective of spreading as much as possible his genetic inheritance. Conversely, the woman is looking for the best party for the survival of her genes. “The existence of a certain choice on the part of the female seems to be a law as general as the ardor of the male,” said Darwin.

The woman makes her egg a trophy that she offers to the one who will win the competition between breeding males. That’s why, for example, we, poor males, pay €20 for our entry while women come for free and are offered champagne. Since the woman’s consent is expensive, everyone thinks it is natural for the man to seduce and pay.

Personally I am for the sexual freedom of the woman, for the end of the social pressure which says that a woman who takes her foot is a whore, so that the women approach the men… you know it if you read me for a long time. In that, I have a feminist side, no doubt. I wish a real equality between men and women but not that my condition of man is a reason to make me pay more for my outings, for example (if it was just that). Especially that not all men are equal before this sexual selection.

Social status, for example, confers value on the male seed, so much so that the man of power usually has nothing to pay to fuck. That’s why I advise you to always behave in alpha male, to communicate non-verbally that you have a status or a great value and therefore fuck more easily. It will help you to have a fulfilling sex life!

 

Maternal instinct and jealousy in humans and other animals

Radical feminists are convinced that the choices of partners are cultural, that they are victims of patriarchy, conditioned by male society. They want to choose and be chosen on other criteria… But all mammals do the same thing: males choose a physical, females a social rank or good genes. There is no point in trying to change old instincts determined by our biology.

The rarity of the ovum explains that female mammals invest more than males in their offspring: they can not put their precious egg in several baskets, so they incubate it with jealousy. However, radical feminists, in the name of women’s emancipation, would like their peers to care less about children… or at least not more than men. It would be in the sense of equality but not in the sens of our instincts!

Even jealousy is an egg matter. The average man will be more jealous if he learns that his wife sleeps with another rather than if she falls in love but does not sleep with. The woman will be more jealous if her man falls in love with another: she might steal her investor… I had spoken about it in my article on jealousy. That too, it makes radical feminists angry because they want us to be identically jealous (except lesbians, that is to say, a good part of radical feminists, who do not care about men’s sexuality )!

 

The culture of rape

The notion of “culture of rape” is a literal translation of the English expression rape culture, we owe to American feminists of the 1970s.

The “culture of rape” is a concept that says rape is not sufficiently recognized or punished in society.

Extremist feminists first thought that rape was a scandalous symbol of male domination. But in fact, we realized that in almost all cultures, rape is repressed with the greatest firmness.

Then, they wanted to spread the idea that it exists in a problematic way in our Western cultures because not enough punished (it would be the fault of Christianity, among others).

 

The myths of rape culture

The fight against the rape culture, led by radical feminists, consists in destroying certain myths. Let’s analyze them together and see if I understood correctly:
the rapist is always a stranger: that’s true it’s a myth. Statistics show that the victim often knows her abuser and worse, that the threat is often closer than we think, within our family.
the victim behaved at risk: for example, walking around naked in a dark alley in a bad neighborhood. It is unacceptable to say that a girl who has been raped has looked for it and I agree with that: no one deserves to be raped, no matter what. On the other hand, a pity that it is taboo to say that if a man did the same thing, he would probably have problems too. Many of my friends and I have been assaulted in the street and the justice has not responded… it is not a treatment for women. Of course, rapes and non-sexual assaults are not the same thing, but that is to say that each sex can have its share of trouble.
society thinks that the victim always exaggerates the facts or lies: I agree that it’s disgusting… but we still have the right to wonder if it never happens. Justice must be neutral and pragmatic.
the victim has consented and regretted: one is also entitled to wonder if it never happens.
only women are raped: this idea is based on the idea that women, these pure and innocent beings, are the only ones who can control their sexual desire, unlike men who “always want”, these big pigs! This is obviously FALSE.

 

France and the culture of rape

In France, rape has been repressed since 1810. It became a crime punishable by 15 years of criminal imprisonment in 1980. Since 2010, the conjugal relationship no longer benefits to the accused of having raped his spouse. The status of spouse, civil partner or cohabitant of the victim is even an aggravating circumstance since 2006.

“Of the 13,881 cases reported and brought to justice in 2015, these offenses have increased to 15,848,” notes Le Figaro.

My conclusion is that, as Finkielkraut said on BFMTV a few days ago, shocking the journalist by the way because it is politically incorrect: we have never punished the rapists so much and never as hard as today in France. So there is no rape culture in France because rape is recognized and punished as never before.

However, it is true that the rape escapes in some countries to any control and any sanction, but then why blaming an honest French who never hurt a fly?

 

The harassment

I do not really want to come back to the subject of street harassment that I have already treated thoroughly here and here. So, take a look if you’re interested.

We note the argument of this extremist feminist: the difference between pick-up and harassment would have nothing to do with the physical or social situation of man.

But then, why specifying, gratuitously, to the guy who shared this article “you are ugly”? Maybe it’s only the radical and homosexual feminists who are not influenced by men’s physique… I’m trying to understand if there is something to understand!

Imagine if it was a man like Benjamin Bioley who had allowed himself this inappropriate gesture: what would the lobby of feminist extremists have said? That he had to be fired an, wprobably…

 

Children

Only 25% of French people say they prefer to work rather than raise their children. But, as mentioned above, radical feminists believe that the child is a burden to the woman. For some, breastfeeding and maternal instinct have become shameful diseases.

However, having no child for economic and enjoyable convenience seems to be an important step towards immaturity and the refusal of responsibilities and nature.  Who has an interest in asking us encouraging women to be immature and going against nature?

It should be noted, however, that 40% of children in divorced families do not maintain contact with the non-custodial parent, often the father. We are really entitled to ask which sex suffers the most of this ideology, finally, and which is really favored by justice.

 

Salary differences

Since women want, whatever the extremist feminists say, to see their children more time, they are willing to give up some of their income. From there, comparisons of wages between men and women are biased.

In France, we often hear that the difference in pay between men and women is 25 to 30% of gross earnings. Except that if we eliminate career choices and align working time, the gap becomes marginal (between 2 to 8%).

It can be explained by the fact that men negotiate their wages more or because they have higher productivity, as shown by an INSEE study that you can find on the net.

As a result, extremist feminists advocate that women earn as much as men by working less, without negotiating or having a less important job, which amounts to wanting to earn more. That’s it, equality? When you start a fight, you have to learn about all the parameters before you cry out against injustice.

Of course, there are always unfair examples, if we go looking for each case. But, on that account, what do we do for porn actors, male models and prostitutes who are on average less well paid than their female colleagues? It will be said that justice is done? What do they pay for others?

 

Positive discrimination

There are more gifted boys than gifted girls. Another monstrous taboo! But the truth is that excellence and mediocrity are more masculine whereas girls are more numerous around the average.

I want proof of the results of the bac: 44% of boys admitted for 56% of girls. Only 43% of boys scored quite well against 57% of girls. But 59% of boys have good mention against 41% of girls. And 61% of boys scored very well against 39% of girls in 2017.

So, positive discrimination has been advanced in the name of equality.

Instead of putting the most competent people in each post, we are obliged to put as many men as women, for example under the Hollande government. Which means that a woman appointed to a position might take the place of a more competent man. This is where women should cry scandal: to be named because they are women, not because they are competent people…there is some discrimination! And it is not positive.

Remember, however, that the European Constitution has specified that “discrimination based on sex is prohibited” (Article II-81). However, it came back a little later “the principle of equality does not prevent the maintenance or adoption of measures providing specific benefits for the under-represented sex” (Article II-83). Parity is therefore one way.

But what is done for men who die 14 years before women, who are judged more severely in the courts, who can not play their charms to be recruited, pardoned or amnestied?

 

The futile fights of feminists

Feminists demand that inclusive writing be used at school because they think that it is because the masculine prevails over the feminine in the French language that women suffer from patriarchy all their lives. It is true that at the time when the grammar was rewritten, especially by removing the rule of proximity agreement in favor of the rule “the masculine prevails”, the underlying discourse was assumed machismo. But today, this rule no longer carries the slightest connotation, and if I had not documented, I would never have known that big macho were at the origin of these grammatical rules. Why ? Because this rule no longer carries the same meaning today. The rule is the rule, we apply it. Never has anyone succeeded in demonstrating that a grammar rule has changed someone’s psychological constructions.

In parallel with this false debate, I read a testimony of a great fashion designer who could not stand being described as a “seamstress”. A friend told me that his chief, Madame le Prefet, could not stand being called “Madame La Prefette.” Ditto for the “doyen” of the college of letters of Lyon 3, which gives you a glare if you call her ” doyenne “. As a result, one may wonder why intelligent, or at least successful, women do not want inclusive writing.

Extremist feminists are a bit desperate because they persist in fighting for things that will never change their condition. I found the example of waiting in the women’s washroom, which is usually longer than in the men’s washroom. Is this really a sexist inequality? One of the proposed solutions is to force men to sit down or reduce the size of their toilets. Equality would be to put us handicaps? On the highway areas, I saw the larger women’s toilets, it’s a better solution, right?

Can it be said that if men are taller than women, it is because patriarchy has been depriving them of food since forever. Are females smaller than males in almost all animal species, are they all victims of patriarchy?

 

How can extremist feminists deny that in high-level sports, women are 11.45% less performant than men?

Conversely, there are sports where the man is under-represented, and especially destined to be less competent. Rhythmic gymnastics for example.

We are different, we are not identical and therefore we can not claim equality, this is the inconvenient truth.

 

The theory of gender

The gender theory aims to substitute gender categories (which refers to biology), a concept of gender that shows that the differences between men and women are not based on nature but are historically constructed and socially reproduced.

The gender theory explains that girls engage in wise games because they are imposed, they go to care trades low-skilled and less paid and abandon the scientific track despite good school results because of their conditioning in the playground.

But this theory of the genre does not seem to take into account that the woman is not a fragile and suggestible thing, unable to question herself. Unlike us, the pick-up artists, who treat women without these false beliefs… so, who respects women the most?

Nor does the theory of gender explain why so many isolated, battered, and battered “first class” little boys have persisted in shining for schooling and career success.

 

The stereotypes

All studies show that the most common stereotypes are the most accurate, and that some, such as those concerning sexual differences, are underestimated rather than overestimated.

It does not please, I agree… but the reality has no reason to please us, contrary to the morality imposed. Imposed morality that often seeks to triumph over reality.

 

The way parents treat their children

In 1966, the doctor John Money, considered by some as the father of the theory of gender, was contacted by a collapsed couple, the Reimer husband. They were parents of twins aged 8 months, whom they wanted to circumcise.

Unfortunately, David’s circumcision by electric cautery failed, his penis was burned. As a result, Brian, his twin, was not circumcised.

Money saw in this misadventure the opportunity to demonstrate that biological sex is a decoy, an arbitrary whose education can emancipate. He convinced the parents to raise David as a girl, never to tell him (or tell his brother) that he was born a boy. The doctor gave the child, renamed Brenda, a hormonal treatment and, fourteen months later, removed the testicles. His parents dressed him in robes, gave him dolls, and so on.

Only, Brenda grew painfully. As a teenager, her voice became serious, she said she was attracted to girls, etc. Brenda stopped swallowing her treatment, was prescribed testosterone, fell into alcoholism.

Brenda felt a boy engulfed in a girl’s body. Frightened, the parents revealed the truth to their twins. Brenda is David again, he married a woman. But the identitarian ramifications have shaken the boys. In 2002, Brian committed suicide. On May 5, 2004, David did the same. A tragic end.

In most cases, however, many studies have shown that, on average, parents do not treat boys and girls differently. But it does not matter to the psychologist Judith Rich Harris who said, “Even if their mother drives a truck and their father changes them, the boys play football and the girls jump rope”. Stereotyped behaviors seem to have a hard time.

 

No gender theory in nature

This social activism is doomed to failure because it is against the nature and interests of men and women. Sexual differences are found in almost all primates and almost all mammals.

A male earthworm has a brain different from a female earthworm. In humans, rhesus macaques or cattle, breast milk differs according to the sex of the child. Are these animals victims of social construction?

The psychologist Valian made this statement: “Among our close relatives such as the rhesus macaque, researchers have discovered that females play with dolls more than their brothers, who prefer balloons and small cars. It seems unlikely that the monkeys were indoctrinated by catalog stereotypes.”

 

The double-thought

Dual thinking is the power to simultaneously keep two contradictory beliefs in mind and to accept both.

Double-thought is a kind of superimposition of two contradictory states like this conformist rebellion that animates many artists. “I am a real rebel because I say what I think”… that is to say, often exactly what the system wants to hear.

 

The FEMEN

The Femen are a fine example of double-thought and one wonders if they are not puppets of power.

When Caroline Fourest was arrested with her friends seeking to provoke an incident during the “Manif for all”, Valls immediately called the prefect and François Hollande sent a message of support to the rebel in the wake.

The Femen multiply the provocations but are rarely condemned (in France, eh!)… and when they are, they are supported. Just recently, by our dear Minister Marlene Schiappa.

Similarly, extremist feminists call for the end of sexism, but are the first to organize single-sex demos. Unbelievable !

 

Dual thinking among the politically correct people

The defenders of the regime, who hate intolerance and inequality, often put themselves to several to condemn a few men to social death.

They fight for dignity but do everything to destroy Soral or Dieudonné. These are just examples, there are many others. The National Front and its voters (33.90% of the French all the same), Putin, Trump, etc. It is hyper democratic and hyper correct to treat a part of the population of stupid or crazy because they do not do not have the same opinion as you. What do not we do to be “well seen”!

All people with good intentions are obviously against censorship. But who are the first to censor others?

It is this same process that, if I correctly understood, to the closing of my Youtube channel and the release of my FB page. Freedom, equality, fraternity! As if I was a monster, seriously… they spotted my video because they had been monitoring me for a long time and organized a raid to send a maximum of “hate reports” to Youtube in a minimum of time so that the algorithm would panic and my account would be closed.

 

Why is feminism acclaimed by the media?

The teaching of gender is dictated to the media. “Journalism training provided by higher education institutions includes education on gender equality and the fight against stereotypes, sexist prejudices, degrading images, violence against women, violence committed within couples.”

Journalists are therefore conditioned to promote the ideas of the system: if you want to have your journalism degree, you must learn well and recite your course. And so you have to promote the ideas of extremist feminism while hiding all there is to hide. Like for example my video buzz where one of these girls hits me on the street because I dared to argue against her. A “freedom” that she would never have allowed if the media had not conditionned her mind.

 

Why the system will win

We can not attack the system, it is unassailable: it is against hatred, sexism, war, racism, etc. Nobody can decently criticize these angels that are these artists and journalists because they have the moral for them.

At least, they seem to be on the side of the “good guys” but is it true? No famous lesson giver was ever finally caught in a disgusting scandal? Think carefully.

 

Why does the system encourage extremist feminism?

Perhaps the ultimate goal is for Western technology to be used for the global equalization of the sexes, by biologically removing them, to create a sexless species.

The system could then reassign all individuals before birth to hormonally block any process of sexualization. There would be no more women or men. What a progress!

But beware, if we come to that, it would be because the system does not want the victory of men or women: he wants us to self-destruct, to disappear.

In 1984, it reads, “All children should be procreated by artificial insemination and raised in public institutions. Is it a prophecy?

In The Brave New World, men are all born in test tubes and are conditioned from an early age. Extremist feminists should be pleased to see that Huxley described a world where women do not get pregnant, where inequalities are not based on sex but are distributed arbitrarily, where women enjoy their sexuality as men. But, by the way, and to support what was said earlier on the evolution: women remain women, and Huxley had understood. When Lenina feels bad and takes a pregnancy substitute because her heart tells her that she wants to stay with a man, what do you think it shows?

Be that as it may, the system may want a society of dependent people (sick, drugged, incapacitated, beasts) to be able to control them easily under the guise of satisfying them. So, Huxley does not give us to see a society where everyone is in his place, where the dissident is sent far, where the one who begins to think is conditioned to say that it is not good and that he must immediately take a dose of soma to escape?

Seriously, I really feel that the system fights virility and femininity, autonomy, intelligence, thinking for oneself, health and sobriety.

 

The dysgenism

As has been said, extremist feminists encourage upper-class women to have few or no children. Indeed, having a child would be a burden, a brake on their career, etc.

On the other hand, the system encourages, with more and more help despite the debt of the growing state, people of the “lower classes” to reproduce more.

So be careful, I take the tweezers: we can think, even if it is not an absolute reality and there are always exceptions, the more intelligent people are, the more likely they are to belong to at least to the middle class.

This means that the intelligence will dissolve since intelligent people will have fewer children on average. (See Idiocracy, the movie, which despite its turnip side starts from a very well formulated postulate Synopsys: Rookie Joe Bauers, the archetype of the average American, is chosen by the Pentagon as a guinea pig for a top secret program of hibernation Forgotten, he is awake five centuries later and discovers a society that has become so stupid that he is now the smartest man on the planet.)

Note that the documentary on Arte “Tomorrow, only idiots?” Confirms that the human population on Earth is already less and less intelligent. Where are we going ?

It’s called dysgenism and it’s not just about the criterion of intelligence. This is the opposite of eugenics, it leads to a regression of the abilities of the global population (health, character, intelligence, etc.). This means that people will be more and more degenerated with in some time, a huge impact on our society. If it is not already the case?

 

The testosterone level

Our scientists have long noted the general collapse of testosterone levels in our populations. An abnormally rapid and brutal decline. American and Scandinavian studies have shown that a man born in the 1970s had a testosterone level 20% lower than that of his father at the same age.

However, testosterone has an important role, it is particularly related to the desire for dominance, the number of children, self-confidence, libido, intellectual performance…

The causes of this decline? The stress of living in the city, lack of sunshine due to indoor work, endocrine disruptors, lack of sleep and physical activity, alcohol, drugs, pesticides, shit we eat, sugar, TV, video games, violent movies…

Result: we men are less aggressive, better support promiscuity and submission. Is this a goal desired by the system?

 

The future ?

It’s up to you to see whether or not you want to become a “progressive, anti-virile, moralistic par excellence, multiplying the physical and verbal signs of submission, servile agent of the system, indignant standing, male bobo, caricatural, devirilized to excess, ultra-consumer, juvenile, sensitive and non-violent “as described by Laurent Obertone in France Big Brother.

He continues with his verve: “This symbolic violence, this feminization is particularly valued by the media, sexual ambiguity to effeminate individuals, not to mention the bearded singers. ”

And if the fair sex enthusiasts for such models, we are screwed, the system wins.

Tell me in the comments if you have ideas fight our debasement or our enslavement…

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How to make love: All about how to make love to a woman

how to make love

In this article, I will explain how to make love and more specifically how to make love to a woman. Word of sexpert!

FYI, I already wrote an article on how to make a woman orgasm, which completes the present text.

 

How to make love: the positions

The modified missionary:

 

This is the best position for small sexes. She has the impression of banging a guy with a big cock (longer and wider). She is much more likely to enjoy than with the normal missionary (even if your sex is normal size).

How to make love in an improved missionary? Put a cousin in the lower back. Return to her as a normal missionary. Then put your legs on your shoulders…

Thanks to the angle in which you will fuck her, she will have the sensation that you have a bigger cock (an optical illusion in the pussy).

You can then put your head close to hers…

What type of sex do you want to give her? Emotional? Kiss her mouth and her neck. Dominant? Use the dirty talk

You do not have to pound her all the time but move all the time even if it’s slow.

 

The lying down doggystyle:

 

The doggy lying down it’s not too much time to tell her romantic words, it’s more time to be dominant… the moment to fuck her hard. To understand how to make love doggy style, you must integrate that.

You can go deeper into this position (orgasm by the G-spot): lie down, the pillow is optional, and take her so that your sex touches the wall at the top of her pussy (always this same G-spot), lie on her, put an arm around her neck, or put her head in the pillow or bring her head to hers to make dirty talk. By the way, it’s also an extra position for anal sex.

Whether in this position or in others, know that at any time you can asked her to touch (caressing the clit as she likes) or touch her yourself with one of your hands WHILE you penetrate her. This double stimulation contains all the elements to make come any girl!

 

The normal missionary:

Nothing more to say, just watch it on Google.

 

The normal doggystyle:

how to make love to a woman

How many positions should you do? Focus on one for a long time… but make at least three. That’s how to make love to a woman.

Know that women need to be constantly stimulated. So kiss her or caress her while you fuck her. It will contribute to your success in your quest to answer the question how to make love.

 

Standing Doggy: Use the Power of Your Entire Body

 

It gives you more power, it gives her more orgasms, so feel your manhood and your bestiality in this position. But the size difference between you can be a problem here. In this case take something (a support) to get you up (or to raise her).

 

The cross: you take her with a good angle for her

 

A unique angle of penetration: she will feel much more open. It’s good for the dirty talk too. Good for the eye contact. You really connect to your lover in this position.

 

The screw: the missionary by the side

 

How to make love to a woman? You can do it on the edge of the bed: it is a technique for G-spot. It is also a good position because it is not made for longevity. You are in this position, so it is possible to make sex more dominant.

 

The scissor : the four legs are crossed

 

A unique angle of penetration. You have to be flexible a minimum. One of your legs under hers. She can control the rhythm. That’s how to make love when you want the woman to control a little.

 

The lotus: intimate position

 

Very high level of sharing emotions: it is a position to make love in the literal sense. She straddles you, gets on your feet, stands on your back. You can support her from behind too (the lower back will be her center of gravity, so to speak). There, for the time, it is a good position to tell her romantic things. It is a very romantic position, often very popular with women.

 

How to make love to a woman, what if you let her go in amazon?

 

In this position, you can get fucked by your girlfriend. But you can also lift your legs and fuck her as you have decided.

 

How to make love: The bad lovers

The goal is to be hard, stay hard, and give her orgasms. The bad lovers are like: 2 back and forth and hop they ejaculate because too excited, those who ejaculate even before entering her, those who finish as soon as they go doggy style… you must also give her vaginal orgasms. That’s how to make love to a woman!

 

Sex makes the relationship

Why learning how to make love? Remember, if you are too bad, she will go elsewhere. Good sex = good relationship. Bad sex = bad relationship.

I know it’s humiliating to see her go with another man because we’re not good enough in bed (= we give him less pleasure than the other).

You must train to keep as much as you want and thus create more sexual alchemy between you.

 

The soft cock

If you’re the type to have a soft cock: there is a problem in your head… maybe you do not really want her? Or you think too much, too nervous, anxious, etc.

Do not become a mechanical robot: you must understand that they are fucking with the whole man, not just with a dick. You are not a removable penis.

Do not worry TOO MUCH about satisfying the girl.

 

Women love sex

If you think that women do not like sex, that they prefer dinners and trips… YOU ARE WRONG! THEY LOVE SEX! THE GOOD SEX! Sex is life!

Whether your cock is big or small, wide or narrow, it does not matter much. That’s the truth about how to make love.

 

Training

You can train in front of a porn: masturbate, excite yourself more and then stop. Take a deep breath and relax to do not come. Do it ten times in a row and let it out. When you are ready, you can do the same thing in a girl.

If you do not last between 25-45 minutes, she probably will not have time to orgasm vaginally and may simulate. Always try to do at least 2 or 3 positions.

How to make love longer? If you think you will come then stop the shelling and make small circles with your sex time to go down a little.

 

Sharing pleasure

How to make love? Share your pleasure with her by grabbing or clawing her back, buttocks or neck.

One last thing: do not make fun of “pussy farts”. A lot of girls complex on it when it’s nothing in fact.

You can pinch your ear or other part of your body so you do not ejaculate or use the perineal technique (it’s a really advanced thing that I only partially master so I will not talk about it anymore but you you must know that you have muscles under your sex and that by training you can contract when ejaculation will rise and so you will stop it: you will have orgasm but stay hard.That’s the goal.) Finally well there we’re not even talking of another level but of another type of sexuality… perhaps too disconnected from the common man.

 

How to make love: Become a sexpert

All the guys want to be good in bed, they want to know how to make love, but most do not know how to do it (because of a lack of knowledge and know-how). They do not even know what the “standards” are when you talk about sex. How to become a god in bed? Read The awesome lover’s manual and look at module 8 of my training Cyprine.

 

How to make love?

When you are a sexpert, you should be able to give orgasms to 95% of women. What do you still need at this reading level? Practice. And to reread me once to fully assimilate.

You must remove this thing that ruins everything in bed: the lack of confidence in you. Below, a brief summary of the essentials…

 

The time

If you are too bad in bed, she will forget you: sex must be good.

How to make love? You must last at least 20/25mn. If you think you’ve come too fast, or if you’re wondering if you came too fast, then sorry but that’s surely the case.

 

Fingers, tongue, sex

You can totally give her orgasms before sex with your fingers or through oral stimulation. Eat her pussy, use your tongue and fingers to touch her everywhere. Pull her hair, kiss her neck, play with her breasts. All this is welcome!

How long should foreplay be ? At least 30mn.

 

The massage

Make sure she is relaxed… otherwise use the stroke of the massage to relax before initiating sex (they will initiate very rarely so assume that you must take initiatives). They must be relaxed to orgasm. Your affection will relax them.

Massage: do not be too sweet. Use the right pressure that suits her. Massage to the shoulders. Elbows. Why not even a foot massage? In any case calibrate and adapt to your partner! After the massage, warm her up!

 

You have control

How to make love? Take control, push her gently, manage to get down between her thighs, get her wet, the outside of her pussy must be stimulated, do not be too aggressive too quickly.

If at first you do not succeed, try again: sex education is important. Spontaneity in sex is important, so stay clear and surprise her. And above all do not get discouraged !!!

When you get better in bed, you will gain more confidence, and you will fuck more because you will have a better game.

 

The size

The size of the penis may matter, but it is a story of personal preference. It takes at least 4 centimeters to give her orgasms. And an emotional connection. But bigger does not mean better.

The better she gets into sexual action, the better for you and for her.

Women are subject to nature. Sorry but it’s a little bit true…

 

Show your animal side but not too much

When you kiss her, do not be a total animal, do not put too much tongue. Do not wash too much everywhere…

Study her reactions a bit to see if you are doing this well.

Do not have dry hands.

How to make Love ? Rub her clit a bit & go slowly at first.

How to make love? Dual action = stimulate the clitoris + put fingers in her pussy.

 

What is appropriate or not in dirty talk?

What is really important is the timing… some girls get upset if you treat them sluts in front of people. Ask “do you like it when you are dominated?” ; “How do you like that, naughty girl?” Introduce it alone at home, you do not try to humiliate her. She must understand it: it’s just for fun. It’s a romantic story into dominance.

 

Routine

Girls love surprises, they love sex in the morning too. Many girls are willing to fuck in the morning.

Change the routine sometimes, do not fall into unhealthy habits. They want variety so they do not get bored.

The sextoys, it’s funny. A toy should not intimidate you. It’s not at all the same as a guy… it’s more like a therapist.

 

Relax her

About the one night stands : plan a drink or two before to relax well. We less talk of romance in this case.

 

Conclusion

How many orgasms should she have? Some women enjoy little so one is already good. Others easily enjoy so for them 1 orgasm it will be the minimum. Sometimes I give 12 orgasms to some girls

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How to make a woman orgasm ?

How to make a woman orgasm

It is urgent that I write an article to explain how to make a woman orgasm. Read on and you will understand why!

I had already written a more technical article on how to make a girl come, with videos and everything, I advise you to go take a look!

And: yes, we can make a girl orgasm the first time we fuck her.

How to make a woman orgasm

Women’s sexual misery

The FIFG has conducted a survey on female orgasm. According to this survey, conducted among 1006 women representative of the French population, orgasm is something rare.

Only 33% of women report reaching orgasm in their last sex session. Only 25% of women have an orgasm once a month or more. 7% of women say they never enjoyed.

Very sad reality, which justifies why I must explain to you how to make a woman enjoy.

 

Enjoying, getting a kick out and orgasm

First of all, what is the difference between “enjoying”, “getting your feet” and “having an orgasm”?

To enjoy means to feel pleasure (not necessarily sexual).

To take one’s foot is to have a lot of pleasure (mainly sexual).

To have an orgasm is to reach the last stage of pleasure. Attention, by abuse of language, I sometimes say that I enjoyed or that the girl enjoyed to say that she had an orgasm.

But the thing is that sometimes sex can be very good without having orgasm. The woman can find it very good, so gets her foot, but do not reach orgasm.

When I tell you that I will explain how to make a woman come, I want to say that I will explain how to give her much pleasure… until orgasm!

 

The state of mind: generosity

I know that many people think of their own pleasure first. It is above all a common state of mind among men.

But we must understand that it is really rewarding and exciting to see the other take his or her foot!

So, a good state of mind is to give and receive. Get a lot of fun and give as much if not more. That’s how to make a woman come!

 

How to make a woman orgasm… The atmosphere is important

How to make a woman enjoy? The mind is of enormous importance to make a woman enjoy. So much that some girls can even orgasm through a simple mental stimulation, as in erotic hypnosis sessions. Or thanks to a good phone game.

But a girl too stressed, or who does not know her body, could block even with the best stimulation (physical or mental) of the world.

To accept to have an orgasm is to accept the loss of control… and that, all women are not capable. However, with an orgasm accompaniment, you can increase your chances of getting a woman to enjoy.

An accompaniment to orgasm is to encourage the girl to enjoy, reassure her, teach her to relax, tell her that you understand but you will not let go until she has come, etc.

You can also help the woman to forget herself through an exciting atmosphere. Why not give her an erotic massage? Why not watching an X movie together? There are so many exciting things you can do to clear your head, relax her and make her want to fuck.

What is the link with “how to make a woman enjoy”? Well, the more she will be receptive to the idea that you take her, as when realizing a fantasy, the more likely she is to enjoy easily.

How to make a woman orgasm

 

Preparation of the penetration

Caress her hair… Kiss her. Then, kiss her neck, lick her belly, her breasts. Why not even her buttocks. How to make a woman enjoy? Take care of her whole body, she must be totally stimulated.

Then you can consider leading her to orgasm during foreplay.

Thanks to the techniques of fingering and cunnilingus that I explain in The awesome lover’s manual, you should without problem be able to make enjoy a woman before even penetration.

The sexual act

How to make a woman come? Regarding the sexual act, prefer positions that allow your sex to tap on her G-spot G. Or to rub her clitoris.

These are the two keys to make a woman enjoy by sexual stimulation but I can not guarantee you what will be most suitable for the woman you are going to fuck tomorrow: each has her own specificities.

How to make a woman orgasm

 

The after-sex

After sex, your work is not finished. Ask the girl what would make her want to next time. Ask her for a little feedback on the sex session you just had together.

Attention all the same, do not let yourself be devalued by a bitch who would hate you and try to belittle you.

After your orgasm, take her a few seconds in your arms.

Offer to lick her if you are done but she has not orgasmed yet.

After sex you can hug for a minimum of 5/10 minutes… just stay connected.

Ask her what are her fantasies? Ask her to share her secrets with you, “What are your secret fantasies? 2 guys for you alone? With another girl? ”

How to make an woman come even stronger next time? Ask her what she would like to do/try next time?

If you did not like something, tell her.. tell her what you liked. Be a pedagogue, emphasize the positive!

Ask if she liked watching you lick her (in the eyes or not). Or that you look her in the eyes while sucking.

Ask sparingly how many times she has orgasmed (attention to seeking approval)…

Important: ask her if she likes girls too. So you sow the seeds of your future threesome in her mind. All participants will have to be part of something organized like this.

Even married with her, you can invite girls for a limited time in your relationship… if she likes them too (reserved for special occasions).

How to bring the subject to make a threesome?

During movies, ask her if she thinks the actress is sexy. Whisper in her ear, tell her (when she is in a good mood) that you would like to kiss her by watching her licking a pussy. If she looks up, gear up!

How to make your threesome go well?

Your girlfriend wants your attention, she should not feel sidelined… so do not be selfish during a threesome.

Do not look only the most beautiful or the new woman. Remember, it’s a privilege that she agrees to do that and do not take a big head, otherwise it will never happen again.

It can be a fantasy for her too to fuck a girl but keep in mind that she wants in any case that you take care of her.

Well, that’s how to make a woman come. I hope you enjoyed it, and women too! 😉

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Try not to get hard !!!

Try not to get hard

Try not to get hardFebruary 15, 2017,

I know I have not written for a long time. This is simply because a certain routine had settled in my relationship, in our sex life and in our threesomes. My work also weighed on me more and more, nibbling all my vital energy. But the Game God made me live an experience that woke me up and motivated me.

Last night, I went to celebrate Valentine’s Day in a libertine club with The Teacher. It was crazy! I will tell you that. Try not to get hard (or wet) !!!

We started by going to the club’s sauna, where we sat next to a couple. After two minutes, the blonde of the couple put her hand on the thigh of The Teacher. We then began to discuss. I know it may seem surprising if you have never been in this kind of place but it really happens like that, in libertine clubs.

You see a couple with whom you want to fuck, you approach and you propose to go fucking. It’s as simple and that’s what they did.

So we went out of the sauna and took a shower all four. The Teacher fiddled me while the blonde fiddled with her, while being penetrated by her boyfriend. The looks of two girls who plunged into mine: one had fingers in her pussy, the other the dick of her man. It was very sexy, very animal. The blonde stared at me in an indescribable way, as if she defied me with the look or as if she imagined it was my cock that was pounding her from behind.

Then, it started to go get crazy : we decided to go in a closed room but we forgot to close it. Or rather, it was closed but badly and several other couples have spotted our ride.

Fortunately, it was a couples night so there were no single men in heat. Still, we were joined by two other couples and it made the world. The atmosphere was hot but it only went up even more when we ended up fucking at eight, without exchanging our names, or anything.

I had nothing against, I was super excited, so I did not say anything. We just started fucking like that and that’s it. Like in a kind of trance. It was truly a magical experience, I felt transported, as in another world. I admit to remembering everything and nothing at the same time, it’s a very strange feeling. I see that there was a tall black and a hungry Arab, the blonde and her boyfriend, a couple of naughty BCBG… It’s as if it had happened in a time bubble or a parallel dimension.

After a few hours we all got out of there and we did not talk. Out of the room, the couples made a little as if they did not know each other anymore. This orgy is officially the biggest one I participated in. It gave off a superb sexual energy.

In short, we did not come back home very late because I was working early the next day. I had an audit at 9am in a rather lost corner of Lyon.

Moreover, my job makes me unhappy, seriously. Since Christmas, I think only of how I am going to leave. But the thing is, if I quit, I will not get unemployment benefits. However, as I intend to launch my business (living of seduction) and I do not know if it will work, I would like to have this security.

My crazy project is to make a video training that will explain ALL the Game, supporting evidence. I would really like to leave a mark in this world of seduction that I have been around for almost 7 years.

But hey, I do not know if it’s going to work. I could do what would be my idea of the best product in the world, people can not know. I’m not very good at marketing so I’m afraid they prefer to buy less complete stuff from less good coaches (sorry for them) but who know how to market themselves. In short, you have understood, I stress.

I’m stressed but I’m determined and my bosses piss me off. Like the other morning they planned an inventory (it’s an auditory thing) at 7 o’clock in a scary place. I had to leave home at 5am! So, I decided to get fired.

But even that is not easy. Indeed, I’m not a bastard enough to make big shit in the files of customers, who themselves did not do anything to me. So, I do the minimum, I hold their account, I make the balance sheets and I go home at 6pm.

The problem is that even if I do like it, I’m always profitable! These bastards bosses have pressed me for several months like a crazy but since I’ve got up, I realize they do not fitr me. Which means that I always make them earn money even by being less exploited.

Seeing that it’s not enough, I decided to improve my strategy to get fired. The only thing I can still kill is the behavior. Now, as soon as the secretary or a collaborator speaks to me badly, I send him or her to Hell. I’m tired of their bullshit, their obsessions, their mania, etc. There are colleagues I like but there are three who are really foolish.

I can see that the bosses do not understand what’s going on. So, they wonder. Before, I took on myself, I made a polite smile and tried not to insult the maniacs. Now, I decided that I would make myself respected.

I will continue to do only the minimum in the office, not to penalize the customers while not being too much a slave. I will continue to speak badly to my “co-workers” when they stress me for nothing, mingle with what does not concern them,  or piss me off for details. I will continue to tell their four truths to my bosses when they abuse. I will continue until they have the good idea to kick me or offer me a conventional break.

It is true that a conventional break, it would be ideal, since I would have less notice. Anyway, the experience of last night motivated me for my project because it reminded me that the life of a pick-up artist can be extraordinary and my daily life isn’t anymore.

About The Teacher, it’s okay. She supports me in my project but, at the same time, she tries to make me think. And then, she always makes nervous attacks, from time to time, which always annoys me as much. So, I do not know how I see the future: this girl is great but breaks me a little too often the balls. However, I know I have a pretty low threshold of tolerance right now, so, would not any girlfriend piss me off ?

That’s where I am. And then, I want to start a family and everything. It is not by kicking the girls off as soon as they are pains in the ass that I can build something stable, serious and durable. That’s what I say to myself right now. But I will take stock. Everything in its time. I will make a decision when I see it more clearly. Besides, maybe the situation will settle itself in a few weeks?

See you soon and may the God of the Game be with you!

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How to pick a girl up ? (The full course)

In this article, we will see how to flirt a girl. We’ll also see when to kiss a girl.

Note that you should read the article on how to seduce a girl.

How to pick a girl up

 

How to flirt with a girl: the essential social skills

How to pick up a girl ? Knowing how to talk about anything with a stranger requires certain skills, some of them come to mind immediately. I think, in particular, that you have to know how to bounce on one sentence, how to listen to the other, how to be light, how to avoid angry subjects. In short, have a minimum of common sense.

 

How to pick up a girl ? Using your common sense

Sometimes, I observe some clampin lambda and I wonder if they have a minimum of logic: what use is it to reflect on a political event to a seller at Carrefour? You could hurt her deepest convictions, and even so, there are many more interesting topics and less headaches, which they just might make her have a good time.

 

Is the art of conversation technical?

When I hear some nazes say that Bob AFC is a natural beginner, I want to tear off the keys on my keyboard and jump through the window while naked.

A natural beginner does not exist, and in case you have not noticed yet, while some can talk 20 minutes of acoustic amp with a crazy old met at the bus stop while they do not know nothing about it, others are not even able to engage after the fateful “hello” addressed to the pretty, slightly naughty brunette sitting at their rank in college.

How to pick up a girl ? Like everything that is technical, some have the thing, some not. Those who do not have to work harder to get level, but they will eventually understand the thing. That’s why I kill myself saying that personal development is the basis of the base: we have nothing without anything in life, so we must get out of the ass to progress.

 

How to chat a girl: the importance of the first name

How to pick up a girl ? I just read an article, with one or two nice tips to apply when introducing you to someone. If like me, you are not damned to remember a name, read well. It is appropriate to take the name of the person to greet, immediately by saying hello.

How to pick up a girl ? Compliment the person on her name “Ah Zahia, I love this name is very exotic.” Pretend an annoying outside noise to make the name repeat if you have ever forgotten or not understood. It’s completely stupid, but people like you to remember their name, and repeating it during the discussion creates intimacy.

 

Intimate distance

Also try to find the right distance depending on the location. Do not be fooled 50 meters from her in a big empty room but do not come and stick to 30 centimeters either.

How to pick up a girl ? As far as possible, choose a social distance at the beginning of the interaction, even if you are closer to her. Do not enter her inner circle from the beginning. Adopt a seductive look, that is to say cool and relaxed. Do not slouch like a clod on the couch, but do not stand upright like a military at attention. Be comfortable.

Also note that your body attitude rubs off on your emotions (hard to make you think you’re sad while you’re doing antics, right?) If you have a cool guy positioning, you will feel cool, and will be even cooler.

That’s what I can say, a kind of virtuous circle. Take a pleasant voice and avoid gestures that betray any anxiety. If you feel that you are gesticulating too much, correct yourself. This kind of problem is solved through breathing.

 

Positivity and energy level

How to flirt a girl on the street? You do not have much time, you came up with an opener and swayed a bogus excuse to explain that you have little time to grant her. And what do you want? Do you want her to want to see you again?

So rather than complicate the task, you have to play it simple, you have to make her laugh. If you are full of energy and happy as I do not know what, she will necessarily be unless her dog just died or other. It does not necessarily requieres a high level of energy to flirt in the street, but in bars it is strongly recommended.

 

Emotional contagion

How to pick up a girl ? If you land in your life all smiles, fun and cool, she will become fun and cool: the human being tends to similarity and her spirit swears by the positive, a smile is contagious, a jovial and dynamic state of mind also.

If you are a catalyst for positive emotions, she will associate you with something positive, and she will want to see you again, so taking a number will be just a formality.

Of course not everything is so simple, and we often run into closed girls (poorly deactivated flight reflex, girl in a bad state of mind, girl who is in fact a simple shit). It is then necessary to practice the gradual opening.

How to pick up a girl ? If she betrays by her body language, or her voice, a lack of any opening, lower a tone and resume a little more seriously, once she hangs you can increase your energy level, and so hers. Note that sometimes we just fall on stupid girls, next.

 

Social Intelligence

Make the distinction. Sometimes the girl is not open. Just as you are sometimes sad or angry because of the job or a lambda story, she is perhaps horny at will but remains a human being with her personal problems.

How to pick up a girl ? Already, we have to make the distinction between the basic bitch who likes to belittle people and the girl who is not open because of her negative emotions.

The basic bitch does not deserve your interest, there are idiots everywhere and toxic individuals deserve only your contempt. If you have the feeling that her naze attitude is only temporary and that you feel the motivation to dig a little her case, there is a way to do it.

 

Backtracking

Going back first, you come up with a level of energy far too much higher than her. She had a crappy day, for example, so do not be the weird guy. Lower a tone, take a topic a little more serious and try to understand.

If she opens up to you, bounce it “ah your boss pisses you off, yeah me too, besides I planned to kill him, you know how in such a movie… you saw it?”. Once you’ve done it, go back to where you’re going.

The goal is to end the interaction by leaving her in a more positive state than when she did not know you yet.

how to pick a girl up
Picture : L’arnacoeur

 

How to flirt a girl: Make conversation

How to pick up a girl ? Chatting with a girl is the most reliable way to root out information. The information will be used to calibrate accurately, to qualify/disqualify.

I recommend the following to those who already have enough social fluency to hold a conversation with anyone, as part of an evening where they can take their time (the others might get confused a little).

 

Conversation topics

How to pick up a girl ? Already, know that there are no key topics. There are certainly the fundamentals (men/women relations for example), but no subject is absolutely to proscribe. It can be psychology like computers, sports or ecology, we don’t give a shit.

Of course, she will not deliver emotionally to you if you exchange your opinions on the new iPhone, but if your goal is to simply create complicity, do not avoid a sexless subject at all costs. Since you know how to bounce back, wait for the opportunity and then deviate the conversation to something more personal: “Besides my ex had this application…”

That said, avoid, like the plague, certain subjects, style: politics or positions. In general, I avoid opinions too decided, I do not take too much for this or that cause or in any case I do not talk about it during the meeting, I expect to know her better, it avoids once again to hurt her personal convictions (and that she also hits mine).

Then anyway it’s not funny. There are plenty of countries where talking politics with friends is not polite, in France because we love to complain, we often discuss stupid topics. Avoid them.

 

Frame the conversation

How to pick up a girl ? Do not let the conversation go anywhere, but do not try to contain it: you could be considered an interested guy, and it would heat up on radars… So it should be non-directive, subtly bypass some obstacles, don’t speak to say nothing (it is weird, and we do not want to be a weirdo), and overcome some resistance as and when.

It is preferable that this is the target that takes the initiative of a sexual conversation for example, it will avoid the “oh but why we speak of doggy style already? Oh yes, it’s you, obsessed”. Finally, at the limit we do not care, we do not care completely, but if you try to lead and frame a discussion, it’s better if she thinks the idea comes from her. Personally, I sexualize pretty fast in general, but I tease immediately after so that the girl thinks that it is she who has the dirty mind. It’s not a beginner thing but that’s what I advise you to do if you are comfortable.

 

The nicknames

How to pick up a girl ? Repeating one’s name from time to time creates intimacy, and even if it’s not really subtle, I always like to find rotten nicknames to annoy them, but also to pretend that I’ve always known them: “Blablablabla… not true Juju?
– Yes it’s true that blah blah… but do not call me Juju fuck.”

 

A small check-up

Always ask yourself these questions:
– Do I ask hrt (too much) often?
– Can I get her confidences?
– Am I attentive to her reactions?
– Do I react at the right moment?
– Can I listen to her ?
– Am I funny/light?
– Am I answering her shit-tests?
– Do I decode her emotions well?

 

Work on your faulty points

How to pick up a girl ? To be able to speak a girl without feeling that she is being interrogated is a major asset. Always unbalance the conversation a little on her side so that she gives in, that’s good because people love to talk about themselves in general. Especially the girls.

If you manage to arouse her emotion, bounce on it to amplify her state of openness, stay light, nice and interesting without revealing too much, creating an aura of mystery: it is obvious that she will open up to you and will even ask so that you meet up again. She can even take the initiative to ask for your number.

If you do well your job, expect this kind of reaction “We do not know each other enough and I tell you my life”, “I told you too much” or “Since earlier I talk about me, what about you?”. That’s how to flirt a girl…

 

Do not you fool it

Make the nuance between highlighting and broasting. Telling your little piece of history or your anecdotes without trying to shine, it is done in the subtlety and not with bragging.

Do like good journalists, and ask original and relevant questions if possible, and especially open questions.

 

Avoid closed questions

Closed questions refer to the brain and logic, open questions refer to emotions and imagination. Reminder: we answer a closed question by a simple yes or no, or a simple word, style “you went to the movies? “.

An open question forces her to think/remember: “What do you think of this movie? “. The complete course on communication here.

 

Exercise

Try to hold a conversation by feeding only questions, or try adding questions at the end of your sentences. Make the difference with a normal conversation.

Do it subtly after a lambda phrase (your opener for example): “Hi. What do you think of … ?” Or “Yes it’s true. Last time it was like that too. By the way, do you think that …? » Respond to the person with only a minimum of words.

How to pick up a girl ? Make the most of your body language (shoulder shake, smile, expression with the eyes), and retort only with “oh really?” Or “awesome, tell me more about…”. In short, show that you are also active in the role of the listener, who is commonly passive.

This encourages the speaker to continue, and thus to deliver more information. Feeling listened to is pleasant, and seeing that the other is really interested in what you say makes you want to prolong the conversation.

 

The art of banality

How to pick up a girl ? When two people meet, or more concretely just after you have spoken, the discussion is not immediately intimate.

We usually exchange a few banalities and then we naturally switch to a more intimate and relaxed conversation, it is usually there that we do a little cooky and funny and tease a little the girl.

The more serious first sentence of discussion is needed to disable the flight reflexes, to show the girl that one is a normal guy who just wants to talk.

Try to notice when you are transitioning from the first phase of the discussion to the second: the friendly discussion.

 

Stay focused

This exercise allows you to stay focused on your goal by identifying the different stages that lead to it, this objective can be “take her number and then leave”, “invite her out”, whatever… As exercise to practice: during a conversation with buddies, always try to divert the conversation from the original subject by bouncing on a lambda info.

Then, test with people recently met: “In fact I work in programming, and I always liked the technical stuff. »; “I’m a little like that too, besides when I was little… blah blah.”

Little more, and if you are good at this little game only, because it’s quite boring otherwise: try to determine by raising the redundant vocabulary, if your interlocutor is more a visual, an auditory or kinesthetic.

Example: if she prefers to use as an expression “I see what you mean” rather than “I feel that you want to come here”, it is more a visual than a kinesthetic. This will allow you to more effectively touch your imagination and sensitivity. With a hearing girl, it would be rather “imagine the sound of wind blablabla…” while with a visual one would make “just imagine this sunset…”

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How to flirt with a girl: techniques

No stress

How to pick up a girl ? It has often been said, but I repeat: in seduction, girls are looking for cool guys and posed, well in their sneakers and with a big cock (just kidding). Think for two minutes and understand that talking about your passions or your first flirtation in order to stall a death anchor that kills you a bit later is meaningless and will have little effect if you sweat. like a marathon runner or stammering during the interaction.

What I mean by this is that if you have the attitude of a guy completely stressed, no matter what you tell her, at the end of the interaction she will keep in mind that you are a stressed guy .

 

Smile

First of all, it’s important to know how to smile. I have not just reinvented the world of psychology, but emotions are contagious. Show a social smile if the person in front of you is not able to draw a real one.

To work on your smile, lie in front of a mirror and play a little acting. Shoot a funeral and smile suddenly. Take a head of guy who enjoys and smile suddenly. Pretend to cry and snap, smile.

Simulate a lot of emotionsand force yourself to smile impromptu, it takes two minutes and allows you to work spontaneity and the sincerity of your smile.

Do it when you are alone, it will avoid you to go for a crazy. A sincere smile is created around the eyes, a fake is asymmetrical and a little longer to appear. There is no point in smiling throughout the interaction like a fool, you would be a fool or a jerk.

 

The eye contact

We do not all have the eyes of a big dark like Sir Banderas, but working the depth of his eyes can be useful (just watch the actors, or for a while, learn to always note the color of the eyes of your interlocutor, it will force you to dive your eyes in hers (exercise really useful)).

Stay planted there, staring at each other as if she were a marvel or I do not know what an incredible animal might make her uncomfortable, and make you feel uncomfortable in return. Between two guys, fixing is to provoke non-verbally.

How to pick up a girl ? Do not necessarily support her gaze for a decade. However, it is interesting to support the one of your target in some cases, and therefore not to have a shy eye contact.

 

A test

This is a form of testing since she may, for example, want to see if you finally assume your desire for her, or simply seek to play with you. We are all fans of these moments, are not we?

During the discussion, look in the eyes, in turn, all the members taking part in the conversation. This is very important, if you do not do it, some people will feel ignored and excluded.

If you are alone, it’s cool to take a look at yours from time to time, when you speak, and when you finish especially.

Do not hesitate to use a look of convenience (fix her forehead: neutrality) rather than your feet (shame of something) between two gloomy glances like Johnny Depp.

The rule here is to look in the eye when we speak (95% of the time) and avoid the gaze of the other when it is she who speaks (except 5% of the time). Be careful, the percentages are only indicative. The idea is that you do not go for a psychopath who always looks intently in the eyes, or for a guy unsure who can not support a look.

 

Kinos and body language

How to pick up a girl ? It is interesting to study the body language while remembering that a single sign is not enough to give a certain interpretation of the state of mind of the girl, it is the accumulation of these signs alone which allows a good interpretation.

But, we forget a little the essential, which is that a girl is a human being. And all do not like to be touched (there are some who are not used to, there are some who do not like contact, there are some who like to be pains in the ass…)

 

Auditive, Visual or Kinesthetic?

There are 3 big families of people. The visuals (about 50% of the Western population) are more sensitive to what refers to sight, auditory hearing, kinesthetic touch, tactile sensations.

How to pick up a girl ? If you want to talk to her emotional side and titillate her imagination, you will use a vocabulary and a way of acting specific to each of these families. For this still needs to calibrate with accuracy… Personally, it annoys me to do it, must be attentive and it pisses me off. That said, if I notice by chance that a chick is an auditory (for example), it’s clear that I will probably use this info at one time or another.

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How to flirt a girl: summary

How to pick up a girl ? In summary, after having touched, we maintain a real eye contact in the eyes as in love movies, we smile and then start the conversation. We pay attention to her and our body language (open and relaxed).

It is possible to look away or to swing a neutral look (on her forehead) when she is launched. We smile from time to time because we are a hot guy when we smile. It’s cool.

We feed the conversation with open questions, go into the more relaxed phase and we start to calibrate the girl a little, we go into active listening mode and we react to what she tells us. Afterwards, we put her at our energy level if necessary. We must stay focused on our goal.

If you are able to do all that, then the sexualization of the conversation becomes a pleasant and normal passage since in the logic of things. It is also valid to conclude. Rather than force events, do what is logical, it will result in something natural.

 

Be ready to answer girls’ tests

Good… what about the test of confidence (shit-test)? Do we throw this notion squarely in the trash or do we explain that indeed girls swing from time to time, but it is so serious that?

If a girl asks you to pick her up by car at her house before going to the movies, it’s gonna be to test your manhood or maybe you just want her to pick her up before going to cinema.

You have to know how to stay lucid and logical from time to time: girls do not test us all the time. In my opinion, a girl can swing you a test but it’s still quite rare, and it testifies to the fact that she noted an inconsistency in your game and she seeks to decide.

How to pick up a girl ? To answer a test “Do you do that to all girls? I say, “I do not know, what is Beigbeder’s last book?” Or the famous “agree and amplify” “Yes yes, to all, even my mom”. There are 36,000 ways to respond, and all are good as long as they fit your personality.

It’s a reflection of the confidence you have in yourself, because almost everything goes on as long as it’s consistent with your character, and that character gives you confidence.

 

How to flirt a girl: kiss her?

How to shine, in conclusion? Stop thinking. This is one of the reasons that makes it easy to pick up by being drunk.

From the moment when we are alone with the girl and she looks at us with doe eyes, and we start to say to each other “Uh… well… doe eyes… I like that, but I sense that this is the moment when I have to do something. I do not like that much. And if she repulsed me? I dunno. I do not know anymore. But what do I know? Who am I ? Where am I going ? In what state I wander ? What is the purpose of my life? Where did I put the keys to my car?” So here we are screwed.

If we tend to think too much at the base, in a situation of “stress” and I voluntarily put quotation marks because we all know that it is not one: it is even worse. When she looks at us with eyes that scream fly: we must kiss her directly, without metaphysical meditation.

 

We stay ourselves

It’s not even about violence, it’s just a question of relaxing by not thinking about anything. Change your vision of the game: if a girl goes to see a guy to propose to fuck, there is a very good chance that he says yes, unless she is toothless and has more mustache than the baker of my ex neighborhood, frankly, the vast majority of straight will answer by the affirmative. Except those who will shit on themselves.

So, why half of the girls would push the advances of a good guy? Stop making excuses, Neil Strauss, Gael Garcia Bernal, and Al Pacino, also are small, it does not stop them from shining. Not making up excuses is the first step in understanding how to flirt with a girl.

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How to seduce a girl? (The full course)

On this page, we will see how to seduce a girl. But it is possible to seduce girls in different ways: for a relationship, to make a sexfriend, for a one night stand, etc. So, we will deal with the different possibilities. We will also see here how to seduce a girl who is in a relationship.

Feel free to read this article to discover how to pick up a girl.

How to seduce a girl (The full course)

 

How to seduce a girl according to the type of relationship you want

Regarding the question “how to seduce a girl” in the sense of the qualities that a woman is looking for in a man, I differentiate several axes: what are the qualities that a woman seeks to couple, for a project sexfriends, to get married or for a one night stand.

 

How to seduce a girl to make a sexfriend

She can be content with a guy with whom she has a good time, cocky & funny as we like to say, a guy who will give her pleasure in bed and who will be discreet.

 

How to seduce a girl for a one night stand

For a one night stand, a man who knew how to make her wet by skillfully destroying hihers apprehensions, sorry, reassuring her, may suffice.

 

How to seduce a girl for a relationship

For a couple, she will probably look for a laid-back man, with some stability in his life, etc.

 

Become the Perfect Man to seduce women?

“How to seduce a woman?” Is not a question that has a universal answer. According to their experience of life, what is a quality for one is not one for the other. Some prefer a docile man, and others who sometimes do not admit it, a man more or less indomitable. Some will prefer a tall man, others will not care if he is small.

Most of the qualities that the Perfect Man would have are universal but not all. This is why your vision of the Perfect Man will never be quite the same as the one of the chick you want to seduce, or your neighbor, colleague, friend, sushi delivery… So why aiming for a vain ideal? The only thing you can do: constantly seek improvement, never stay on top of your achievements, always try to be better and above all happy.

What are the almost universal qualities that women value in men? I will answer you and that is probably what you will find most sincere and effective to understand how to seduce a girl.

Maggie from Palm Springs, United States — Brad

How to seduce a girl: the ideas about physics and culture

Well. From what I observe in everyday life.

 

Be beautiful to seduce

Being hot was good when you were a college student and had a Skyblog. The minettes commented “hot” and we had a ticket. Honestly, as an adult, I do not think that being plastically handsome is heavier in the scales than elegant. As long as you do not miss 5 teeth or anything, we do not care.

 

Culture

To read books, to know oneself in literature, in painting… Yes, perhaps, finally surely. But in a student context and even in most other environments, nobody wants to listen to stories of shades of blue on canvases of the nineteenth century.

It’s not to be mean or anything, it’s just that the girl wants to laugh and have fun first, and if she’s listening to you spew out a bunch of things about Plato, it’s probably she’s want to fuck with you anyway, not necessarily interested. Think about it.

 

Hollywood

I do not say that you have to be grown like a turnip, but this vision of seduction seems to me to be that of the American series: the guy who has wheat, super cultivated, super active, super beautiful, super everything, and that soon as he enters a room, the girls turn around and touch each other’s panties, chuckling… these are misconceptions that will not help you to really understand how to seduce a girl.

 

Keep these qualities for later

For my part, I would not start spreading my culture with a girl I met in a bar. Because I do not need that to fuck her. All this stuff, I would put them in the box “interesting and flourishing man”, and not necessarily attractive, because even if it can be, the girl does not need to know all that to be seduced.

If I come to address the topics inherent in my passions with a girl, it would probably be part of a mutual qualification for a relationship or, at least after having fucked, not before.

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How to seduce a girl: passive seduction

The dress code

Without necessarily having a killer look, simply be elegant. It may not be enough for the chicks, but at least it will avoid being disqualified because we are dressed like a nerdy. That’s how to seduce a girl!

 

Body language

What could be summed up in some basics like not being slouched, being open, smiling… The body language of a confident guy, basta. This is another key to understanding how to seduce a girl.

 

Popularity

Talk a little with everyone, be cool, make the joke “If I drink alcohol I am an alcoholic and if I drink Fanta, I’m fantastic?” Speak philosophy if it sings to you as long as you stay in the spirit of the conversation.

 

To do the first step

Nice example of how to seduce a girl I heardfrom a friend who wanted to approach a girl at his college. He had been at the bus stop with her and another girl of her class. Instead of talking to the girl that he wanted to take the number, he spoke to the one of his class “Yeah, the courses right now it’s hard, besides coming every morning to revise with this cold, blah blah”, this kind of banalities said on the tone of fun with some amusing anecdotes.

His target was listening in spite of herself, and something that my friend said made her laugh, so he grabbed the opportunity to include her in the conversation. The end. But if my friend had not included the girl in the conversation, after asking her number and do what he had to do, he could have seduced hours and hours passively, there is a 99% chance that he would never have slept with her. She would have laughed, he would have continued to clown, then everyone would be home quietly.

Indeed, even if the girl is interested, we live in a civilization where the guys must take the lead. I always laugh when I hear guys say “it would be better if the girls approached and not the other way around”, because I am totally against: we approach so we choose. Those who go to coal give themselves the choice, it’s awesome. How many chicks are frustrated by the fact that the guy they liked did not come talking to them? I do not know, but a lot in my opinion. Even among the girls I know, there are lots of them.

 

Money

It’s better to have money for the obvious social bonus it brings, or even for the quality of life. Must be politically correct not to recognize that “money = girls”, but not having money does not prevent to bang high-school girls. I think that if a girl wants to fuck with a guy, her financial and social situation does not matter anymore. So a 29 year old lawyer in a room with a single bed? Why not.

 

The reputation

Let’s ask the following situation, and God knows that it happened to me often: you are at a party, asked to be there at 9pm. You arrive around 11 pm so people have had the opportunity to talk about you. When you introduce yourself to the blonde with big breasts, she whispers with a smile “Ah, it’s you Fabrice? Is it true that…” It’s Machin-Truc who told me that. Indeed, your friends who were on time, have built a reputation for fun guy and good fucker.

You already have enough value in her eyes for her to consider rubbing your body. It is true that at this point, part of the job is already done. So yeah, we can decide to do a lot of really complicated stuff, and after balancing the cum on the peroxide, consider that it was thanks to our Jedi skills that the mission was a great success. The truth is that in some cases, the girl had already practically decided to fuck with you before you even arrived. The important thing is this “practically”. She was already interested but interest is not enough.

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How to seduce a girl: interest is not enough

There are a lot of reasons why a girl who is interested will not sleep with you, and that’s what I’m going to deal with now. How to seduce a girl, how to interest a girl and how to sleep with a girl are three very different questions that have different answers.

 

You have to assume that you are a man

First, and this seems to me the most common situation: this is the case of the guy who has no balls.

I know a Brad Pitt-style guy, but in clubs I am always more effective than him. Why ? Because he does not assume, he does not go to contact. Yet the indicators of interest are raining, but he remains inactive.

Afraid of failure? I do not know. The Inactive is 99% of the male population.

 

You must be faster than others

Now, imagine that the girl is interested by a dozen guys, that guys who have the balls to assume the interest she has towards them, do you sincerely believe that she will fuck with the 10?

The answer is no. Maybe one in every 100 or a thousand girls does it, and this one will live with the heavy burden of a reputation as a hussy. It’s a shame, I’m not saying it’s good or it’s bad, I just find that a guy who succeeds in fucking 5 women in a week would be considered a God while a girl validating the same performance would go for a slut.

 

By the way, why?

For a normal guy, getting fucked is an obstacle course, while for a normal girl it’s just a matter of choice. To yield is therefore considered as a manifestation of weakness. This is how the world works, and that is why the seducer must break down the barriers raised by social pressure and the prohibitions of education and customary morality. You have to know how to play fine, think to isolate the girl at the right moment, to make her understand that you will not judge her, that she can trust you and co. It’s not jokes, must be a little sensible and psychologist.

 

You must not go back

As a third example, I discuss the fact that a girl interested in what she has heard positively from you (or even because you are beautiful, it remains a creator of interest) can quickly disillusion. Scenario: You disembark in the evening, and you make your observation tower.

The pretty brunette who stands in a corner of the terrace makes you glances very pronounced: she is interested. You approach her awkwardly, but it passes. Except that you are not really funny and a certain nervousness is felt, her interest suddenly decreases and you notice her disappointment at the same time as yours, you end up discouraging. Finally, the mayonnaise does not take, she shows signs of impatience and ends up planting you there with a phony excuse.

The interest that existed was gone, even your look and your good face were not enough to save the day. There is an attractive attitude to adopt to validate and develop this interest. You have to realize that to understand how to seduce a girl.

 

To be beautiful is not enough when you are a man

If the interest that a girl likes us was enough for sex, then the handsome guys would fuck 34 chicks a week. Although some try to make believe that they fuck 10 a week without effort, we know very well that there is 99.9% liers.

In addition to a few attitudes to logically not have (sticky guy, needy, weird, effeminate) and basic behavior to have (confident, virile) there is ONE thing to do. You probably meet 50 interesting women (physically or whatever) a day: do you want them all?

It’s the same for them, she may have noticed you among the mass, but it does not mean that she wants you absolutely. This is where seduction proves its existence, why YOU and not another? She was probably interested in 2 or 3 guys that night, but it is on your cock that she is jumping. Yours… when she had the choice.

How to seduce a girl? It is therefore necessary to turn female interest into sexual attraction, no more but no less. And to do so, there is a pack of tools to use without misusing congruently with the character you play: touch, sexual humor, you know them…

How to seduce a girl

 

Make people talk about them and what they like to seduce them

Most of the time, the average person (male or female) prefers to tell his or her life rather than listen to another telling his own. We must therefore take advantage of this ugly defect that people have. How to seduce a girl? Make her talk about her and what she likes.

 

Do not idealize the girl you want to seduce

Your target also probably has this defect because, no, she is not perfect:
*Speaking of her, the hottie delivers personal information, she does not necessarily filter everything she says, being carried away by the flow of words.

*Just turn the conversation to the subject that teaches you the most, framing her with questions. It’s not a question here of knowing that his dog’s name is Patrick and that he is drooling everywhere like a rage, the purpose of the conversation is to introduce a form of conclusion. If the girl leaves in her delirium, do not hesitate to interrupt her and reframe her. “Today was horrible, I was in the library with Julie and a guy came to see us to flirt with us…
– Oh? Do not you like spontaneous guys?
– Yes, but blah … »

*Do not give much information about you (this post is for beginners who do not yet know how to place the demonstrations of high value.) And keep a bit of mystery.

 

Calibration

In general, after talking for 4 hours of her, the Very Hot Girl becomes aware of having said too much “Oh my god, but since just now we talk about me, we should talk about you”. No need to take into account, in general, they do not even pay attention to your answer and start again their blah. “Oh yes, you were in the library? Here it reminds me last time when I was there with a friend…”

The information gathered during this “almost monologue” on her last vacation must obviously serve. Do not hesitate, in your questions, to make her talk about her “sensations” or her “emotions”. That the girl is cackling is necessary for calibration (is she kinesthetic or visual? Player or not player?)

 

Avoid falling into the friendzone

One must know a minimum holding the conversation, I should perhaps have insisted more on framing the discussion in my explanation on how to seduce a girl. Making her talk should not put us in the “friendzone”. Fortunately, if you push on particular topics, it is easy to sexualize. People love talking about them, it’s a fact.

Some people do not like because they are of a discreet naturalness, that said the majority is not like that. There is nothing absolute about flirting, in the same way that you can not say “all people like to talk about them” we can not say “all girls react in this way”. We must always adapt.

If you do not agree with that, you’re going against the advice of specialists in behavioral psychology, I’m not trying to make an argument of authority, but it’s something that you can check statistically. We must stop saying “No it’s not true, it will not work, because it does not work with this type of person or that guy”. Apply this kind of remark to all the methods, because they are all open to criticism and none unfortunately works on 100% of the targets.

 

 

How to seduce a girl in a relationship?

I have long meditated on the fact of posting this article or not, it is somehow the evil incarnate. It is an overview of existing tools to conclude with a girl already in a couple, manipulating her to distract her from her boyfriend. How to seduce a girl in a relationship?

 

Manipulate to don’t be manipulated

I write this message so that you understand this technique, and for you to avoid that it happens to you: one must learn to manipulate to no longer be. This tactic is made for guys who do not want their chicks to be seduced by another, I wrote as if you were the one who wants to bang a girl already in a relationship, so that you put yourself in the skin of the character . This is a long-term strategy, if you want a quick result: turn to other methods.

 

The couple who beats the wing

A girl who has been in a relationship for 2 years, for example, has the feeling of having lost her time, of having missed something. And if by chance she does not have this impression, make her feel it. The fear of missing something is happily entrenched in all of us, and especially among girls aged 17 to 26, thank Mother Nature.

It must also be taken into account that guys who have been married for a long time do not care about their girlfriends, or at least they care less than before. They do not seduce her as before: sex has become a routine, kisses are not so languorous, general attention has diminished. But we all know that girls need attention, the guys meanwhile, think that after a few months everything is acquired, because the behavior of the bitch makes them believe: they no longer dodge kisses as at the seduction phase, etc. This error is exactly the one we needed! It is thanks to that that we will win.

 

See the girl face-to-face

Once you have had the opportunity to see the girl after a party or an evening, under any pretext, it is appropriate to carry out the study of his boyfriend. What is he doing in life ? How old is he ? How long have they been together? So many superficial questions in appearance but that will allow you to take stock of the situation.

The goal is to find his weaknesses. Is he creative? Does he have a lot of friends? etc. Do not do an interrogation, it must be natural. Ask the kind of question that will allow you to point out your weaknesses, so you’ll notice them at the same time as the girl, if she has not already done so. Demonstrate value while his weak points are underlined. His weaknesses have become your assets:
– He does not go out much ? You go out all the time, with your friends, besides you have lots of friends.
– He does not like his unrewarding work? You love yours, which offers great future prospects.

 

Break her routine

To seduce a girl as a couple, break the routine of her couple, instead of watching a movie with her on Friday night as he does, make him dream! Tell him you’re going to take him to your lakeside home, this peaceful place in the heart of nature where you feel relaxed and rested… in short, I stop my delirious blue flower. You do not have a house by the lake? Me neither, and we don’t care. Be careful though, check that he has never done this kind of thing before, otherwise you could remind her the good time she took with her Romeo…

How to seduce a girl in a relationship? Most couples live the routine: break hers, show her that with you, it does not exist. Surprise her! Make her laugh! Be romantic, be a gentleman, be the one her boyfriend just forgot to be. She will realize as well what she is going through. The girl must feel a sense of deprivation, frustration. She must feel like she’s wasting time when she’s not with you. Give her perches by making her understand that she must be spontaneous and interesting: Carpe Diem must become her philosophy.

Ignore the existence of his boyfriend

How to seduce a girl in a relationship? Never talk about his guy. After studying it in the first part, totally ignore its existence. You do not want her to think about him when she’s with you, you just want her to enjoy your time together. If she ever comes to talk about him, listen to her, but stop her from getting lost in a big discussion, listen to her and always agree with what she’s saying about her guy, that’s Very important. Swing this stuff from time to time “Oh, really? I understand you, I can not believe he did that … “or” Oh yes, it’s weird … “. Do not get too involved in the subject.

 

Crack her

How to seduce a girl in a relationship? Spend time with her. This is actually the most important and delicate part because she does not have to perceive the good time she takes with you like the one she spends with her best friend, then go home and fuck with her boyfriend.

The goal is to create comfort so that she falls in love with you. To make her fall in love or at least make her crack, it is essential to spend time with her. To avoid becoming “just friends” by spending time with her, sexualize your exchanges, touch her, put a lock of hair behind her ear and tell her that you find her hairstyle beautiful , tell her that her breasts smell good, that kind of thing.

When you take her to her stop or at home, when you are separated, tell her that you loved this moment with her, and that she can call you whenever she wants to have a good time. Some will find it a bit cutesy and even say that it amounts to stretching the stick to be beaten (it’s about who controls the game) but not me, because it is essential to occupy her thoughts and propose the forbidden fruit! This is how to seduce a girl, couple or not!

 

Enjoy an error from her boyfriend

Be careful, never act when everything goes well with him, wait for a misstep. The moment when she will call you to tell you that she is upset by this or that thing he has done. This will reduce your chances of getting rid of dramatically. She will not follow you anywhere if he has just given her 50 roses, you realize it (bad conscience, all that). That’s why the previous step is important, because if you did it right, she’ll contact you when her boyfriend makes a mistake. When you see her, kiss her, most of the work is already done. That’s how to sleep with a girl in a relationship.

 

Seducing a girl in a relationship is bad?

Keep in mind, however, that the “virtuosos of the pick-up” may be sublime when it comes to pick up a girl, but keeping a girl is another story.

Do not forget that if she cheats on him she wants it too. Stop taking girls for victims. If she agrees it’s her life and if she decides to deceive her man knowingly, then I do not see why we should deprive ourselves.

Knowing the risks: OK, but if she wants to and we are honest with her, the other things do not matter. Point bar.

The point of the article is to make you think that you have to show more value than her guy and that you have to play it a little bit finer than with a girl who is single. The debates it’s good/it’s not good to fuck a girlfriend of another one or “yeah but if the guy is a lierand he promised stuff but did not think it and the girl has destroyed her couple for nothing ????” Go open those shits elsewhere.

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Club libertin: how to dress for a libertine party in a swinger club?

In this article I will talk about how it’s going in a libertine club, how to dress for a libertine night and the difference between libertine club and swingers club.

I know that all of this can be scary and stressful, so I make a point of clarifying some points.

 

How is it going in a libertine club?

I have already told you here how it happens in a libertine club in Cap d’Agde. I also took the opportunity to talk to you about the inside of the libertine village (naturist village). I advise you to read this article because the operation of a swingers club in Cap d’Agde is not very different from that of a libertine club elsewhere in France.

And I told you here how is a libertine evening in a swingers club. I told you about a swing experience and a party where we brought a girl from Tinder to make a threesome in the libertine club. If I did it, why not you? I know it’s a pretty common fantasy.

It’s never easy to go as a single man to a libertine club. So, if you want to meet girls to accompany you in libertines clubs, you can convince your friends or flirt on libertine sites. To find libertines, I advise you rather applications like Tinder because on sites libertines, there are mostly couples (which does not mean that they are closed to the idea of ​​making a trio MMW).

If you feel like it, you can also read stories where I tell my first steps in the world of libertine parties.

My first libertine night is told in this article. Ahlala, how nervous I was about going to a libertine club for the first time!

I am also talking about my first evening “side-to-side” in a libertine club. We went smoothly at first and preferred to fuck next to another couple.

I also spent a pretty cool libertine foam party at a libertine club in Lyon. Playing and fucking in the foam, it was really nice.

To finish this part, if you want to know a little more about libertine practices, I refer you on this page. It is true that one could easily get lost between candaulism, swinging, mixing, side-by-sideism, exhibitionism, fetishism, BDSM, etc. So, I made you a little dictionary of libertinage.

how to dress for a libertine party in a swinger club

It is not mandatory that a libertine wears a mask.

How to dress for a libertine night in a libertine club or a swingers club?

The libertine clubs that are saunas

There are many libertine clubs that are in fact saunas with jacuzzi and steam room. In any case in Lyon, there are several.

When you get there, you undress and put on a towel around your waist. The towel and possibly a sarong for girls are given to you at the entrance when you pay.

It is normal that this outfit is imposed because it is super hot and wet. You have no interest in killing your clothes anyway.

In this type of libertine club, the clothes that you wear when arriving at the libertine party do not really matter since you remove them after a few minutes to walk almost naked there. It’s just about not looking too bad at the entrance.

For the price everything depends on your age: in the “young parties”, if you are under thirty, you will pay less (30€). Girls alone do not usually pay. As for single men, it’s expensive. Sometimes more than €70 ! The couples, in the normal evenings, as for them, must prepare to pay about €50.

The libertine clubs dressed

There are also clubs where people are dressed. In this case, you must be class if you are a man. Women can afford to let go and dress in a rather outrageous or vulgar way, but men are selected on their class.

I advise men to go in shirt with either class jeans or pants class (but not too difficult to remove anyway).

Girls, meanwhile, can afford more extravagant outfits. A very sexy neckline dress would be almost “soft” in this kind of place. But hide everything under a coat that you’ll leave in the cloakroom!

There are also theme parties, in which case your accomplice should dress accordingly. It is always necessary to adapt to the themes of evenings, but it generally concerns more women than men. Moreover, sometimes, to reward the girls who really play the game, we make them reductions!

To find out what theme is where, you should go to the websites of libertine clubs in your area or those where you want to go and find out. Some days there are special parties, and you’d better know where you’re going. You may not want to take your girlfriend to a gang-bang party, for example.

how to dress for a libertine party in a swinger club

 

What is the difference between a libertine club and a swinger club?

Swinging is a form of libertinage. Just like BDSM, for example.

There are swingers clubs for swinger or BDSM vocation, we will talk about swingers clubs or BDSM clubs. It’s that simple.

As a result, a swinger club is in fact a libertine club, where we mainly practice swinging.

Sometimes a libertine club can be a swinger club some nights of the week, a BDSM club or a gay club on other days. Inquire !

Note that libertine clubs are generally open during the day. It’s cheaper to get there most of the time and there are different people. Libertinism is not only reserved for night birds!

Bye bye, friends !

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How to become a porn actor or fuck a porn actress?

In this article I will explain how you can become a porn actor (if it’s your fantasy), or just how to fuck a porn actress.

The porn scene is a very closed environment

It must be understood that the porn scene is a very closed environment. Pornstars and producers fuck each other, party with each other, hang out with each other, support each other, and so on.

At the same time, who could blame them? Some have found a good way to sleep with really beautiful, sexy and hot in bed women while making money. In addition, many people are jealous of the environment and call the girls “whores”. So, people who work in the X industry prefer to stay between them and that’s understandable.

The problem is that if you are not in the middle, you can contact as many porn actresses and as many producers as you want, you will be ignored or even humiliated.

If you are open-minded and determined, the goal is to get into the band. But how to make a porn movie (amateur or not) and to play in? How to become a porn actor from scratch?

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John B. Root/www.explicite-art.com

 

How to penetrate the porn scene?

To be part of the band, you must have a certain number of films to your credit. You must either have played in a porn movie or have produced one.

Basically, to enter the world of porn, you need to prove yourself as an actor, actor-producer or agent.

But how to make a film if producers and actresses ignore you?

Finding an actress for her X movie is the most difficult step.

 

How to find a porn actress?

If you want to find a porn actress to fuck her in your movie and become a porn actor but you have no contact in the middle, it’s going to be a hassle.

I had been looking for one for a long time when I wanted to do a video sex class for my training Cyprine (my famous tutorial X). But I quickly gave up because the ones I found were really expensive or not hot enough (sorry).

There were some girls who were escort AND porn actresses that I could have engaged but, finally, I gave up. Not easy to become a porn actor!

 

Turn a girlfriend into an actress X

The option I chose was to ask a girl I knew to play in my porn. This is how I made the educational sextape that you can view in the Cyprine training (module 8).

To convince one of your girlfriends to play in your movie X and somehow become a porn actor, yoy will obviously have to be convincing.

So, personally, I always keep this fantasy deep inside me, sleeping with a professional porn actress.

 

How much does a porn actress cost?

For a beginner, you need to count €300 minimum.

Regarding a French, a little known and pretty, be ready to put 500-600 €.

For a foreign, an international pornstar, you must invest about 1000 €, taking into account travel expenses.

The producer is the one who pays and organizes everything. So, since you will probably have to be an actor-producer at first, these costs will be your responsibility.

When you see a badly filmed porn with a disgusting guy who fucks a super hot girl, it’s probably that the guy paid for his own movie.

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Niccolò Caranti — Travail personnel

 

Where to find a porn actress for a first porn movie?

How to recruit actresses? On Facebook, Twitter or Instagram, you can contact guys who are in the porn industry to give them a commission and the actresses you know the name to propose to fuck in your movie or with you.

On social networks, actresses are cheaper (no commission) and more accessible (when they manage their account themselves).

But we must understand that most guys secretly dream of banging their favorite actress or becoming a porn actor. And that there are also a lot of crazy ones who fantasize about it. So, actresses are not reassured at the idea of ​​working with guys who are not known in the middle.

In order for her to agree to shoot with you, the girl must feel safe and be sure of being paid.

What can guarantee it ? If you have an official structure, a corporation, or if you know people in the business who vouch for you. You will also probably have to present a recent and clean STD test.

If you are new and you do not know anyone, it is hard, so you have to play the card of honesty: tell her that you are a beginner producer and cross your fingers.

As for meeting an actress X on a libertine site or in a libertine club, you would really have to be lucky.

 

Everything is easier for the pros

Once you have your structure or you have slept with two three porn actresses who can guarantee for you, you can finally be credible and register on the casting sites, agent sites, etc.

I’m thinking here of Brill babes, Sandy’s models, etc. In France, I do not know some but it must exist.

Moreover, many producers bring girls from the Eastern countries or live there. I think of Pierre Woodman who can fuck a lot of international pornstars. In France, there are some guys who are doing well (I’m not talking about Jacquie et Michel) with French actresses: Olivier Sweetprod, Pascap OP of French Bukkake…

how to become a porn actress
Pierre Woodman

 

How to become a porn actor?

Becoming a porn actor is difficult too. Either you must have something special physically (be hot, very big dock, etc.) or you must have contacts. But, again, making a casting or friends in the middle, it’s not easy. Even less if you do not live in Paris and do not spend your holidays in Cap d’Agde!

It must be understood here also that most guys usually dream of playing in a porn but that, when they have the opportunity, are scared and get cold feet. To become a porn actor, you must not be cold!

As a result, producers are not very keen on hiring amateurs. Most movies you see at Jacquie and Michel or elsewhere: it’s not necessarily always people like you and me but often people in the middle not (yet) known.

In summary, how to fuck an actress X? Making a movie where you play in and fucking her. If the film is good and you can market it, you can make money and do it again. The second solution is to become a porn actor and be paid for a scene. The third is to penetrate the environment by producing movies and flirt the girls on filming or in private parties.

Anyway, do not dream that you will make 5€000 per scene, it is quite poorly paid for a man this job, for the actors anyway. Women, on the other hand, are better paid because it is for them that people usually watch.

 

How to become a porn actress when you are a girl?

For a girl, it’s easier to become a porn actress than for a man to become a porn actor because all the big sites put permanent ads “looking for new female talents”. Make two or three short films and you will surely have proposals at Jacquie et Michel Elite or Marc Dorcel!

What precautions to take? Protect yourself during filming because there are crap (MST) that sometimes turn in the middle. And be ready to be insulted (“whores”) by guys who dream paradoxically often about fucking you (you have to be ready to sacrifice your reputation). Understand that the videos may stay online for several years so if it’s just a whim, just to do a little tour of 3 months in the porn industry, it’s up to you to see if it’s really worth it…

But it seems to be a fascinating and fulfilling world.