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How to make a good erotic massage to a woman?

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erotic massageWhy learning how to massage women or to give an erotic massage? The category “lesbian porn” is full of videos of erotic massages. Erotic massage is a practice that makes many women fantasize. I’m going to talk here about erotic massage for women: make it your specialty and you will drive a lot of girls crazy of you! If you are a couple, it seems ideal to spice up your antics…

 

Massage to sexualize

The massage as preliminary

You can not start a car in the middle of winter and go fast right away. You have to heat up the engine a bit… and prepare it for shifting gears. With women, it’s the same!

So, you can give her a massage to warm her up, they usually like massages and it can seem like an innocent proposition: it can deactivate a possible Last Minute Resistance (but in the collective unconscious, they implicitly accept the fuck in 90% of cases if they let a guy massage them).

 

A massage to relax

Make yourself comfortable, and relax: when you massage your partner or behave intimately with her, she will feel how you feel. We call it being in phase. It’s pure emotional contagion.

You can not make your partner comfortable or get her to relax unless you do it yourself. It is necessary to show the example: for this, you can take some great inspirations in your lower abdomen, to relax your body and your mind with each expiration.

It will balance and refocus you.

 

Prepare the atmosphere for the massage

Make the place where you plan to act, a pleasant place. It is also important, when doing a massage, to keep the girl literally “hot” .

Keep in mind that you will always be warmer than the person lying down, especially if you have an energetic massage. Cover the parts of the woman’s body that you are not working on with a blanket or towel.

It’s important for them to be warm and comfortable, so they can relax completely.

candaulist massage

 

Run an innocent massage in erotic massage

With no rough hands, start softly and sensually… do not press too hard unless she asks.

During the massage, you can:
– Tell her to put on her underwear and then unzip her top casually ;
– Make small circles in her hair with the tips of your fingers;
– Massage her thighs, go back to her sex casually and then back down her thighs. Massage her buttocks too;
– Lick the hollow of her neck, of her ear lobes;
– Innocently approach your sex of hers then move away casually while continuing your massage;
– Do not bite her nipples too much, but lick or caress instead;
– The hollow of her knees, elbows, ankles: all this is all too often forgotten during the foreplay;
– You can follow her column with your tongue during a massage. Guaranteed sensations!
– Stroke her sex through her underwear.

I regularly used the technique of massage to sleep with girls, like in this adventure with a physio or this one with a very pretty girl.

That’s why, as a seducer it is important to learn how to massage a woman, how to give a good massage to a woman…

 

Have you ever tried body-body massage?

This is when you use your entire body to massage hers (of course both half-naked). It’s very exciting and it can quickly slip so much sexual tension can escalate! That’s how to make a good massage to a woman!

You must understand that society is trying to make you feel guilty about loving sex, or even just thinking about it… but it is actually a life energy (and a vital energy).

Shame or guilt are not good things when you talk about sex… sex is always better with people who are comfortable with their sexuality. I prefer girls who are in peace with who they really are.

 

How to make a good erotic massage?

Positioning for an erotic massage

She and you have to relax… this is one of the most important steps. Work from the neck and go down. Get rid of the tension.

Sexual energy is not only in the vagina, it is everywhere.

Put her in the position that makes she lies on her back with her legs up.

Put some oil on your hand and rub his mount of Venus (the pubis) as if you washed it and enter it with your hands.

For oil, prefer aromatherapy bottled rather than baby oil or whatever… and most importantly, take natural oils!

Why putting a cousin under her buttocks and knees to make her feel more comfortable?

 

How to take good care of a woman during an erotic massage?

Attention, an erotic massage is not necessarily a tantric massage, nor a libertine massage but on the other hand it is always a naughty massage. (Nor even a Yoni massage.)

Start to finger her using the fingering techniques I already told you about.

Go as deep as possible. From top to bottom. The first movements should be soft then go for it stronger.

In all directions this time, not only from top to bottom. Do not go too hard if she is very sensitive, listen to her if she says “stop” or “more gently”. You can also make circles inside her vagina with your fingers.

Every girl is different so we have to see what each one enjoys. The routine is flexible. If the girl is not yet awake sexually, it may even seem too intense for her, for the first time.

It is sometimes necessary to accompany the woman to orgasm: tell her to let go, that she can make noise if she wants, etc.

 

Calibration for a good erotic massage

Look at her face to see what she’s doing best and do it more. By the way, do not forget to massage her breasts.

If, at the approach of orgasm, contact with your fingers “hurts” her, you will either have to make wider circles around the clitoris, or go with your tongue or penetrate with your sex.

She may be ejaculating, do not hesitate to go see this page for tips to make a woman ejaculate. How to make a girl squirt ?

When she is well relaxed and ready, her pussy will normally be full of blood.

She will thus feel more emotions sensations and not just in the area of ​​her rump.

 

 

Erotic massage suite

Once her vagina is elastic, tell her to turn face down (this massage position is not bad for the feeling of security and comfort it provides).

Put a cushion under her feet.

Start by massaging her upper back.

Then, intensive fingering and tell her to talk, to let go!

Move back and forth, up and down, in circles.

With your other hand, press down on the bottom of her belly, on the place called the “Mount of Venus”. It will put more pressure on her G-spot and increase her pleasure. Listen to her instructions. If she tells you to go faster or harder, do it.

If your partner tells you that she feels the urge to pee, answer that it’s normal and she can let go. In a few minutes, she should start to ejaculate. You may even see a small jet or a few drops of liquid come out or gush from her vagina at that time.

Anyway, this kind of warm up will make her feel much more intimate with the person with whom she is about to make love. This is what I call the whole body massage.

If you enjoy doing this to her, she will also appreciate you doing it to her. All this must seem natural.

If you are in a relationship, you can practice it regularly before sex, to be sure that your partner is relaxed.

 

Erotic massage as a profession

If you are Parisian and want a good erotic massage, I suggest you call my friend Vincent Body-Expert.

In Lyon and Aix-en-Provence, on the other hand, I do not know anyone who does erotic massage for women… but it must exist.

If this interests you, know that for the price, it takes about €300, but it is often cheaper for students.

Anyway, attention, I must precise that being erotic masseur is not prostitution, it’s just an erotic massage that aims to relax and allow to realize this fantasy common to many women! 😉

Concerning what can happen next, you must see how much the woman and the masseur are libertines. For the anecdote, Vincent told me the other day that sometimes husbands accompany their wives during the erotic massage and that it is a fabulous preliminary! There are even some who are candaulists (they practice candaulisme) and who are really turned on by it without jealousy (we can call it candaulist massages)…

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I fucked a girl during a fast

I fucked a girl during a fastI fucked a girl during a fast

August 20th 2016,

Since my last publication, I left this shitty job that was so annoying. And I had a promise of employment for August 29th !

It’s still in an accounting office but they look more “normal”. Whatever, now I am suspicious.

The fat boss of my last job has not spoken to me at all during my last 10 days there so it will be difficult to do worse. Seriously, I do not know what I did to him besides wanting to leave: I did not even tell him that he’s a big jerk but maybe I should have. And the evening of my departure, as I was leaving, he pretended to run to the photocopier to avoid saying goodbye, pitiful. He must have been afraid that I tell him his truths.

In any case, I’m not sorry to have left this losers. Especially the fattest, seriously, he plays “I’m a real guy” but does not even have the balls to assume that he ended a trial period. In short, fortunately for him the ridicule does not kill. The repressed gay, as for him, he had the hypocrisy to say “see you soon, maybe.”

The weekend after, we chatted a student in architecture on Tinder, with The Teacher.

The pickup was very easy, I let you judge for yourself:
– Want a little experience of triolism?
– I have nothing against! already tried, I like
– Cool. Wanna meet up today?
– Why not. Where do you live ?
– We are in Lyon, [we give her our address]
– OK
– You come ? It is cool at home and more;)
– What time ?
– We are on vacation so we can adapt! we can say afternoon 😉 or for the aperitif time;)
– Rather cocktail hour
– We say at 8pm?
– OK
– I am on my way
– Great we are waiting for you!
– Which floor ?
– 1st!

We had been fasting for 24 hours when she arrived (it was an eternity that I did not fast but it made me lose 1kg). She was a tall, green-eyed brunette who came without a difficulty. We offered her a glass of water and we talked around the table in my darling’s living room for a few minutes and then she got topless, from point to point. It made us laugh!

She told us that she is in an open-relationship with a guy who is thirty (she is 24) and it was her second trio experience. She had registered the day before on Tinder: she had fucked the night before with a guy and already had 3 couples proposals for orgies.

Then we went on the bed, and we fucked. There were a lot of things that were wrong: she licked my girlfriend very badly and stank perspiration. We even had to ask her to take a shower, I am not kidding!

In short, we finally fucked (I had no problem to fuck her her even if I had not eaten since the night before) then I put  heron the belly and fingering her point G : she was panicked “oh lala stop it makes me want to pee”! It’s normal, she was actually ejaculating and reaching the biggest orgasm of all her life. But no problem, she’s never going to be fucked well if she does not have the courage to go to the end! I give one chance, not ten (except to my darling)!

Well, it was not an amazing threesome even if the girl was very nice and not ugly. Nevertheless, these girls still had the guts to take the plunge, unlike many others may be prettier or who smelled better. And so, in my opinion, they deserved the realization of their fantasy.

But, however, it is up to us to learn to detect the bad shots beforehand in order not to make no mistake (no choice we’ll have to ask them for sexy photos and their sexual resume before).

We, we want either very hot ladies, or not too ugly but who know how to fuck.

On Tinder, the law of supply and demand makes that we are too demanding, that’s why we have been disappointed twice lately. In fact, we ended up with chicks then we said “oh well now they are here we will fuck them” and that’s the trap.

After this adventure, we did an afternoon of tree climbing with The Teacher’s sister. Then we went on vacation in the south, in Villefranche-sur-mer, in love. I was only allowed to three or four fits of nerves this summer, otherwise it went well.

In fact, I think I’ll soon come to accept that the chicks are all a little boring. Besides, mine makes up pretty well with her qualities: she is very nice and very cute. She is very open minded and makes me laugh. She fucks well and is in love with me. It’s far from negligible!

Especially that, most of the time, when I observe other girls around me, I see that most are less sexy and less beautiful! So, I’m happy with my case.

There’s still a big mishap that I have to tell you. The other day, we ate quietly and she grabbed my hand. “I do not feel well, honey.” Suddenly, she looked blank, her eyes half closed, her head fell backwards. I narrowly caught her and slapped her to make her look at me. But she was lost in nothingness. I was very scared, especially when her tongue went inside her throat and her glottis doubled in size.

I panicked, went to fetch her with my fingers deep in her throat to put her in a safe position and then I laid her feet up and called SOS MEDECIN. Two good minutes during which I was helpless. Then she became conscious again, but started shaking all over her body. Finally, she calmed down, shortly before the doctor arrived, as if by chance. The latter seemed very worried and called the UAS then we went to the emergency because her heart beat at 120 per minute at rest.

At the hospital, it took more than an hour for her to be taken care of. What emergencies! Then, I waited 7 hours in the waiting room. They made her a battery of exams like an electrocardiogram, repeated blood tests, etc. Finally, they concluded vagal discomfort.

Now, she is in shape. But we were very scared. Well, especially me because she did not have too much time for, poor thing. This episode will still have good: I could see how much I loved her!

That’s it, I still have a few days of vacation so I’m going to work on an ambitious project: mastering the injaculation, the fact of orgasming without ejaculating, to be a multi-orgasmic man. I ordered some documentation on the subject.

If we think about it, it would be justice: most women can come as much as they want. So why not us ? We are struggling to get to fuck them so they have more fun than us. It’s crazy ! Something is wrong in the equation… it’s time to get our hands back. A guy who masters his cock controls his life.

So, if you are looking for a reading to end the summer I remind you that I released in early August the ebook Evopsy & Seduction to understand all that is underlying in the relationship between men and women.

See you soon !

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How to turn a woman on : everything you need to know!

How to turn a woman onIn this article, I will reveal all you need to know to understand how to turn a woman on.

To sleep with a woman, especially if she does not like you more than that, she must be excited. But how to turn a woman on ?

This can be done through your physique, your attitude, your reputation, the context, the atmosphere, etc.

For example, in this field report, I managed to sleep with a girl without she likes me more than that, just thanks to the atmosphere of the party…

Yes, sometimes, it’s enough to be at the right time, in the right place, with a girl who wants to fuck!

Personally, I have already been “used” by girls who perfectly knew their body and I have loved it.

It is certainly not very romantic to say that for some “a cock is a cock” but it is always a pleasure to give orgasms.

 

How to turn a woman on : let’s play with sexual tension

It is necessary to emphasize the sexual tension between the woman and you

How to turn a woman on is a kind of badly asked question because, without doing anything special, there is a tension between a woman and you. It’s natural and automatic.

That means :
– that there is no need to do or say anything special;
– that most women are naturally attracted to you.

If you notice, just after you have asked a woman something, she will pause and look at you. She will want to know if you are sincere or if you are going to pretend that you are laughing while sketching an embarrassed smile.

She will also try to see how you handle the sexual tension during these few seconds. She wants to know if you are missing. If you are weak. Yes, your reaction will largely determine her answer.

In order to intensify the sexual tension, I recommend you learn to use the weapons that are your your look and your ability to touch. That’s how to turn a woman on!

If you are not familiar with the concept of sexual tension, I invite you to read this article that I dedicated to this concept.

How to turn a woman on

 

How not to kill the sexual tension between a woman and you

I think it’s more important to know what not to do to dispel tension than to understand how to create it.

What kills the tension is:
– talking too much;
– laughing out loud ;
– reacting excessively;
– fidgeting;
– betraying embarrassment with facial expressions, etc.

I consider those things to be sexual tension killers because most seduction strategies usually focus on what you need to say or do. But there is nothing special to say or do.

However, all your life, you have done things to reduce this tension. You have tried to make the people around you feel comfortable.

You do it with your friends, your colleagues and the women you like: when things become intense or ambiguous, you play the clown that makes everyone laugh.

Even when girls reject you, you are more concerned about their comfort than yours. You do not want to bother them. Ah, what a nice boy! This is bad because these actions are perceived as a sign of weakness, of supplication.

A woman will never be attracted to a guy who cannot endure MORE sexual tension than she does. That’s what you need to know to understand to turn a woman on!

Finally, it’s a little battle : who endure the most sexual tension:
– eye contact: who will look elsewhere first;
– presentations: who will withdraw his or her hand first;
– silence: who will speak first;
– resistance: who will try to dissipate the tension first…

Who will break everything and feel the need to talk about “what is happening” ?!

For a full and detailed lesson on sexual tension, read The (Inconvenient) Truth about Gender Relations.

 

To turn a woman on, you must forget the illusion of feminine purity

Women love cock

You must stop believing that women do not like sex.

They are not small, fragile things either.

Men like to keep this illusion of purity of female sexuality because they think that it will prevent them from being cuckolds.

Indeed, if the girls are not nasty, then they have no reason to cheat on them.

Serious mistake! Not “fucking” a woman savagely like a little bitch is actually one of the best ways to get her seeking her sexual satisfaction elsewhere…

Forget also the idea that a woman needs to be in love to have pleasure, it is also a legend perpetuated by badly fucked women and bad legs !

In short, the message that you must remember here is “women love sex but can not shout it on all roofs because of social pressure.” Knowing how to fuck well, and even better, how to have a reputation as a good fucker: that’s how to turn a woman on !

 

Women also have sexual fantasies

Now that you know that saying that women fuck to please us is highly hypocritical, you can hear that women have a rich sex life.

And that can be good for you! Allowing a woman to realize one of her fantasies is, for example, a way to turn her on to the highest degree.

Here are the top female fantasies:
– Making love in nature;
– With a stranger;
– Making love in a public place;
– With a celebrity;
– Making an orgy;
– With a woman ;
– Making a threesome with two men;
– A threesome with two women and a man;
– The fantasy of the uniform;
– Being the favorite of a harem;
– Making love in the workplace
– Being compelled by force (with her consent anyway);
– A quick shot without preliminary;
– In the elevator ;
– Being watched while while making love;
– In a car ;
– Swinging;
– Making love with someone you do not have to, or maybe in a place you should not (forbidden).

How to turn a woman on

 

How to excite a woman in bed?

How to excite a woman: the good attitude

Without seeming needy, show her that you desire her. This is about assuming your sexual desire. That’s how to turn a girl on in bed!

Do not forget to communicate that you are comfortable with your sexuality, sexualize, laugh and make her laugh, be teasing and especially avoid bragging.

Less is more: doing too much could well turn against you by dissipating a lot of sexual tension…

 

The right state of mind to turn a woman on

We all know that knowledge is power. When you do not know what makes women crazy, you do not have the sexual power needed to be the best lover you can be in absolute terms.

Women know that they are guided by their emotions, so they try to control them at best. But they do not want to control themselves all the time. They want you to dominate, tease and stimulate them mentally and physically. But they want to choose who will make them crazy.

You must learn the techniques and see what works best with your partner and in the right context.

So really, nothing is wrong in your body. What’s wrong with you is how you use your body because of a bad state of mind and false beliefs about your sexuality. My belief is “I can give orgasms to women whenever I want. ” And yours ?

 

The first sexual characteristic that excites women is AUTHORITY or DOMINANCE.

Women do not want another woman. If they were, they would be lesbians.

They want a man. You must be dominant in bed. You must show that you are taking things in hand. That does not mean you have to hit her like a sick person, or be physically aggressive with her. It is not the goal. You always want to treat women with respect, but in a dominant way. They want a man. You must be manly. You must be a sexually alpha male.

Show her that you are taking charge by leading the dance. “I’m going to do what I love and you’ll love it.” That’s how to turn a woman on!

It’s even more attractive for women, whether during sex or during a date, to be guided by the man.

That’s how things have worked since the time of the caves. Evolution has shown that men must be the strongest, the most dominant, and that women must follow the leadership of men. Being dominant is a state of mind and a way of behaving. So, without being misogynist, you have to show that you know how to take things in hand.

When you are in a state of authority, what will logically come to you is the dirty talk. Try saying things like, “baby, I love to fuck you,” or “I love fucking you like that. You’re mine. Do you like that? I’ll make you come until your cardio can not keep up.” And to just say piggy things, like “You like it when I fuck you, naughty girl.” A lot of stuff like that.

 

Start slowly with the dirty talk because when you have never done it before and you start, it can be a lot for her.

When I started out and did not know how to excite a woman yet, I thought I looked weird and just pervert by doing that… but in fact you can afford a lot of things in action. You would not call her “my little slut” in front of your children or when other people could hear you. So it’s a timing story, to be IN THE MOMENT.

The third part of authority is physical pain. I do not speak here of “pain” as some sado-masos do by whipping or pouring hot wax on it, but by “pain” I speak of some small stimulating spankings. For example, when you take her doggy style, give her a pat and see what it gives. You can grab her hands too, for example as a missionary, and hold tightly behind her head. But do not hurt her or insult her badly ever (the only ones who like that have problems, I think)!

Authority can also consist of: fucking stronger. Move faster, more powerfully and go deeper. A good way to show authority is by popping her clothes to show her how passionate you are (do not tear anything, eh).

It’s very dominant all that. Like pushing her slightly so that she falls on the bed. Then to climb on her…

Because, whether she knows it or not, she will be less attracted to you if she is always the one who decides everything, even if she thinks that you are just trying to be nice and romantic by leaving her the choice. I hope I answer your question better : how to turn a woman on ?

 

“Tell me you want my cock deep inside you!” This is called POSSESSION!

Possession can also be dangerous, so make sure that she does not turn out to be crazy outside the bedroom (for example if she asks you all the time you were with whom, in which case you will need to reframe her). But when you fuck her so much that she feels like your cock is part of her body and her pussy is yours, things become a TERRITORY story. It’s pretty good news but make sure you crop it if it becomes unhealthy for her. Same for you!

How to excite a woman in bed? You must learn to separate experience and real life.

Also, you must be able to – with dominance – start to caress her, and put her in a mood to fuck even when she had not planned to sleep with you. You must be able to get her excited enough to make it happen.

Doggy style is the best way to show that you are the boss of the interaction. Do not ask her if you can take her doggy style. Just guide her in position with your hands and go for it! Or tell her “turn around”!

 

The PRESENCE is to live the moment and not worrying about anything other than what is happening here and now.

It’s not just you who have to be totally present but she too. Because you do not want her to think about anything, but rather she feels. Women are creatures of emotions.

One of the signs that you are both in the moment is that there is no stress. Your muscles are not too tight, you do not think of things like, “Did I finish this file at the office? Or even “does she like that?” That’s one of the worst things, “does she like that?” If you ask yourself this kind of question during the act, then you are not in the present moment and in addition you are seeking for approval.

At first, it’s normal, you’re really going to ask yourself “does she like that?” But then, it’ll become obvious to you that she likes it, and you will not care if she likes it or not. It will be natural. You’ll know she loves to fuck with you.

And remember: the best way to not be too tense in life is to play on your breath. With this wonderful tool you will be able to last as much as you want in bed as well as staying hard.

 

Do not think too much about your cock or your performance. Nothing like, “Is my cock big enough? Am I hard enough? Did I last enough? Am I good in bed? “

As soon as you ask yourself these questions, “Am I hard enough? What happens often?” You soften. “Have I lasted enough? ” What is happening? You ejaculate or soften. “Am I good enough?” You put yourself in the validation position… what stresses you!

Sometimes she wants to feel wanted in a very loving way. Other times, she just wants to be a piece of meat. Women want to feel different emotions through sex.

Emotions also explain a lot of problems that guys face in bed. They will get married or take a new girlfriend, and in the beginning sex will be very good. And then it’s going to tire them. This is because, at the beginning, there is a lot of emotions between the man and the woman. They are madly in love or attracted. The bodies are new. Many things upset them at first. And then these emotions diminish with time and habit.

Did you know that teasing creates anticipation. Anticipation that in turn creates excitement… So, teasing = anticipation = excitement. Also use this tool. And the way to do it well to excite her is: kiss her passionately, blow in ears, until suddenly she clings to you, and then push her back. Play the “hard to get/push and pull”. Do what a woman does when you try to have her. Continue with the preliminaries, and then push her gently and provocatively… until she finally cannot handle more, and begs you to come inside her.

When you tell her things, be sure you really think them. Most guys have a hard time lying about their emotions. So, if you’re not with a girl you like, whether it’s sexually or otherwise, she’ll probably feel it and be mad at you.

 

Emotional variety is what really matters.

It consists in embodying different types of lovers so that things are constantly renewed and exciting. That’s how to turn a woman on !

Sometimes you will be the bad boy who fucks her like a bitch, and you really fuck her hard. In particular doggystyle. With a big spanking. You’re going to let you go completely, OK? Or you’re going to fuck her in a place and at a time when you do not have to, like at her parents or in a public place. It will cause new emotions in her.

Or you could tell her a story, a fantasy. Something worthy of a novel.

Other times, you can tell her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. This type of very soft sex could allow you to be even more connected to each other… The trick to draw with these two examples is that the emotional variety engendered by the fact of being different types of lovers is very important.

Make different positions: it also helps because different positions generate different sensations. If you do different positions, telling her different things, you can have different interactions completely, and it will change the type of sex, because it will add emotional and physical variety.

But positions alone are not so different from each other. You only need to master 4 or 5 basic positions. You should be able to give them different emotions and have a variety of sexual experiences from these key positions. Which ones? It depends on your mood and your desires of the moment.

In missionary, you can make love to her. You can also fuck her. You can talk to her tenderly. Or use the dirty talk. There are so many different things you can do from the missionary: it can really change her feelings and the kind of orgasm she has.

 

Finally, another thing to add to the variety is the SPONTANEITY.

If you still fuck on Sunday night at 10pm, it’s not very spontaneous. You must fuck at different times. Sometimes in the middle of the day, if you can. Try to meet up somewhere in the middle of the day to fuck. Try different times to make love. Be spontaneous! You should never expect sex. If planned, there will not be enough emotional stimulation. Variety or surprise would be lacking. And in the long run it might seem to her monotonous, the sex with you.

So make sure the sex is as spontaneous, daring and surprising as possible. Yeah, you will often fuck in the evening before going to bed, and in the morning when you wake up, but try as much as you can not planning everything. Do it in the shower, or go for a little road trip and both fuck all along in all the motorway service areas.

You want sex with you to stay as spontaneous and exciting as possible (if you care about the girl of course). That’s how to turn a woman on !

The fantasies, as we have seen, are a great tool to add variety too, because it allows you to feel a lot of emotions, and it allows you to have fun at the same time, which is really good. It’s a good combination of emotions.

Once again, when you make her feel a lot of emotions, you give her a lot of orgasms. And she will tend to fall madly in love with you. And fantasies are a great way to give her lots of orgasms.

The main way to add variety is to change emotions. Change her feelings. It must stay fresh all this but be a different type of lover, be spontaneous and use the fantasies as a tool to spice up your sex life to never get bored (avoid the fucking routine).

Wow, I really developed how to excite a woman there !!!

How to turn a woman on

 

How to turn a woman on with messages or SMS?

Writing has always had an erotic dimension. Just see the number of women who love erotic texts.

I have personally made more than one hundred women want to come to my house to make love just because with my erotic texts on Adopteunmec.

I had made an article some time ago to explain how to write a good erotic text.

And my erotic texts are available in Secrets for seducing on the Internet !

I also did a full course to learn how to flirt by texts.

 

How to make the desire of a woman come up once at home?

You can watch an erotic movie (or even a porn) together.

Otherwise, why not proposing to give her a massage in underwear?

How to excite a woman? There is also the solution to make a game whose pledge is to remove a garment.

There are plenty of ways to bring sex into the equation! And sometimes there’s no need to do anything special.

 

Sexual techniques to turn a woman on in bed

It’s good to promise a woman some wonders sexually speaking… but the best is still to ensure for real at the time of the act, otherwise you may be a little ridiculous!

For more on developing sexual techniques, I invite you to read The awesome lover’s manual !

There is also the page “how to make a girl enjoy” that can help you!

You will learn all there is to know about fingering, cunnilingus, effective sexual positions to lead a woman to orgasm, etc.

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Almost a threesome with a ugly girl

July 19th 2016,

Things have changed since my last post.

At work :

First of all, I found a new job for September. It is a little less well paid than the one I currently have… but never mind, I can not see the slappy faces of my colleagues anymore.

It’s still in an accounting firm… in fact, I did not find anything else. But I thought about it and told myself that if I can keep it for 3 years, then I can start and organize myself as I wish.

So, I’ll make another attempt to start from scratch. But this time, I want a security so I am trying to get fired to touch unemployment. For this purpose, I never arrive at the office before 10am in the morning, I rarely leave after 6pm and, and on the spot, I only do the bare minimum.

With my girlfriend :

I spent the public holiday on July 14 in the south, with my darling. Not in Nice, fortunately (see the attacks), but not far!

However, the 13th, morning of departure, she began to mouth and did not want to leave. She asked me to get the tickets back and everything. I told her to think and finally she apologized, confessed to me that she had panicked about spending a few days with my parents, and joined me on the platform at the last moment.

On spot, it went well overall…

I’m getting sick of these nervous attacks. If she continues, one day I will get angry and dump her! Besides, if she had not come, that’s what I would have done and left alone.

Threesomes :

We looked for threesomes on Adopteunmec by creating a girl account (free). We had found 4 or 5 girls interested but we were banned before we can conclude (thanks to frustrated we have been reported to moderators).

Same thing on OVS: we wanted to organize a strip – card game party but we were fired by the moderators.

The justifications that these sites have given are more than muddy: it seems to be illegal. What is this censorship of threesome, seriously ?! I agree, it’s not in the mores but it’s still a widespread fantasy, people could respect, right?

So, I wonder if we will just pick up on Facebook. There must be ways to find willing girls coming into the pile. But the other side of the coin is that if we ever come across some assholes who, in their great susceptibility, feel assaulted by the proposal and report us… we risk getting rid of this damn social network too!

There is still Tinder. That made us live a new adventure, by the way. Arriving in the south, we had lots of new profiles to like. It’s normal, we changed region so thanks to geolocation, we had a plethora of new proposals (we had depleted the proposals of bisexual members and lesbians in Lyon)!

In the lot, we found some ones saying they were interested (the strength of Tinder is the number actually). Well, many got cold feet at the last moment, as usual, but one wanted to meet us in a bar.

We took the CyprineMobile to join her in the nearby town, 20km from our position. She was not awesome. Seriously, in the photos she was not bad, her description was funny but in real life… rather disappointing.

However, the fact that we moved for her pushed us to stay and discuss with the girl.

Then she played really well, the girl (I must admit)! She did some DHV. She said that many boys want to see her again after having fucked her and everything. Which implied that she would be a good move. She broke the point by saying that her neighbor regularly complains that she is fucking and screaming too hard while he is tight ass…

She also told us that she does a lot of sport, and she had dressed with wide clothes, suddenly, we thought “maybe she is a little bit hot” despite appearances.

And finally, she leads to her house. “So we can go to my place, drink will be cheaper than at the bar! On the way, we exchanged texts with The Prof “what do you think?
– Not awesome and you ?
– I don’t know. »

We walked across the city and at one point we met a guy she knew. He jumped on her neck, told her that she was very beautiful with her new haircut. Which was wrong, in my opinion: she had long hair on Tinder photos and there, short hair (I hate it). But we recognize the sex-starved because they do not care, they try to fuck at all costs, by being honeyed at will and complimenting ugly stuff.

Once at her place, the girl said pushy things.

She played very well despite the fact that her apartment was dirty and she framed, then exposed in her living room, a picture of people she does not know, just because she found them beautiful.

So, we got all naked. But there, horror: a very hairy pussy and a kinda fat body. Thinking that one should always move with a box of depilatory wipes, I have neither kissed nor fucked her. Seriously, does she do this to protest the deforestation of the Amazon rainforest, to tickle the nose of the guys who lick her and quietly laugh when they sneeze or is her beautician simply in prison?

I still licked my girlfriend who orgasmed. Then, she wanted to finger a little our host to please her but ended up with the fingers full of blood “ah, me, it does not bother me to make love during my period”.

My darling ran in the shower to wash and the other sucked me, as if nothing had happened. From that moment, The Teacher has set aside, still in shock.

I was not too hot either so I needed an hour to enjoy.

We did not last once my sperm propelled on my own belly, we ran away manu militari. That’s how we did an almost threesome with a ugly girl. We will not do it again! It is, I think, the principle of coherence that encouraged us to go all the way!

When we returned, we passed a libertine club. On the parking lot, less than ten cars, only luxury cars. I imagine it was also a cliché inside: only old bourgeois tied on a cross, fisting each other while being whipped by young prostitutes. So, we decided not to go there.

We went back to sleep after watching videos on Youtube to forget this mishap. We felt dirty, actually. But let’s stay positive: at least it’s a funny adventure to tell! And it shows that with the game anyone can shoot well above his or her own level (she was pretty clever anyway, this little opportunist).

Yesterday I registered on Nouslibertins. This is the last famous libertine site that we have not tried. It seems to move a little more than others. Indeed, in one day, I have already received an answer from a single girl. She was hot until I asked, “Are you available this week?
– Ah, fuck, you ruined everything because you’re in a hurry and I hate that.

Oh well… another one who has a lot of problems, if you want my opinion!

Well, see you soon !!!

Post scriptum :

Now, I am getting upset so it is better that I stop writing. I am at a customer who is not there, to do his VAT. I’m with his secretary who had not prepared anything. So, I did my job and am about to leave but she wants me to stay until 6pm (it is 1:30pm) to take stock of I-do-not-know-what. By then, she must supposedly respond to urgent calls for tender. She tells me that if I’m not happy, I just had to come at 7am, because she was available at that moment. I just told her that I don’t give a shit and that I am leaving because I do not have only her in my life. She is very upset but never mind! I’m tired of these stupid and boring customers.

May the God of the Game be with us!

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Conversation topics: 20 good ideas for sexualizing and avoiding silences with a woman

Conversation topics

Conversation topicsToday, I write an article to give you ideas of conversations to feed your dates. The goal is not, however, to give you ideas of topics of conversation to just fill the discussion with a woman: I want it to lead you somewhere. For me, the purpose of a good topic of conversation is to direct the conversation towards seduction and sex, subjects that are so delicate to address for many men, yet oh so important.

 

Why choosing topics of conversation that sexualize the interaction?

The principle: what is a good topic of conversation with a woman?

The idea is to accelerate the feeling of intimacy and freedom of tone between the girl you have picked up and you, talking very freely about a little hot and intimate subjects. Including everything related to the body, sex and relationships between men and women.

Examples:
– The age of your first time;
– Your best and worst sexual memories;
– The stuff you’ve tried before, and the ones you’d like to try;
– The things you like, the things you do not like in bed;
– Have you ever slept with someone much older or younger? ;
– Etc.

The idea is to talk about sex with the girl, freely and without embarrassment, in order to break down the barriers.

Several interests in these topics of conversation to create complicity with a girl

Your ability to talk about hot topics is a sign of your freedom of tone, open-mindedness… and some confidence/experience.

These are both crispy subjects (so we get caught up in the game)… and a little hot, which help to raise the temperature and give ideas not very Catholic (nor Muslim) to the girl you seduce. Evoking these topics can disturb the woman you are flirting with, and it is even desirable. Otherwise, it’s because you leave her indifferent…

The fact of confiding on such topics, and sharing intimate details, helps to reinforce the impression that she and you are close… very close… until getting into each other.

When to bring these topics of conversation?

Obviously, it’s something that’s easier to do in a good context. Do not do this around the coffee machine in the office!

The best is still when you are only two, because the social pressure is then a little blurred. At home  : it’s ideal because you can act directly when the tension is at its height.

Or, you can do that in a bar, while you have a drink together (incidentally, alcohol helps to let go and to talk more freely, so it can help… but especially drink in moderation, if only to keep the ideas clear and to remember the fuck).

Ideas of conversation topics

Here is an example of a hook to start a topic of conversation about sex if you are shy :

“Is it true that women love sex more than men? It’s a friend who told me that this morning.”

Here are some of the most effective topics to talk about with women , ranging from less conducive to more conducive to sexualization:

– The beautiful corners of the world she wants to visit (travels);
– The mysteries of the world;
– The news that makes the buzz;
– The future as she imagines it;
– The funny scenes of the movies;
– The things that fascinate you;
– Social dynamics;
– The psychology of people;
– Gender relations (we will focus on this)

You can also ask a girl “what is there right now, as a book on her bedside table”. It’s a good topic of conversation and a subtle way to include a sexy situation inside an innocuous conversation. You / a bed / her bedroom: the temperature starts to rise!

Conversation topics

 

Why talk about gender relationships is THE best conversation topic

A good way to interest women and get them talking about sex is to talk about gender relationships, it’s a fabulous topic of conversation. This allows to exchange and guide the discussion on the body, the attitude, the sensations.

This topic of conversation, is soft, acceptable, easy to introduce into a conversation… and most of all, it appeals to 99% of girls.

If you see that she likes to talk about it, you have the green light to engage on anecdotes and hotter questions. However, if you feel her uncomfortable, adapt!

Here are some ideas for good conversation topics:

“What do you think about dating apps? »;
“Have you ever been approached in the street? Has that led to something? »;
“Have you ever been in love? »;
“Have you ever had one-night stands ? »;
Etc.

It goes without saying (but it’s better by saying it): avoid sexist remarks… if you want a woman to be open-minded, be open-minded first.

Indeed, in your eyes, a woman who sleeps should not be “a slut”. Either, how do you want them to let go?

To better understand how and why you have to sexualize, if you often end up in the friendzone or if most of your dates do not give anything, I urge you to read The Basics of Seduction and Friendzone and Sexualization!

If you have a little more advanced level and you want ready-made quotes ideas, I will direct you to 1000 sexy alpha funny lines.

When “an angel passes” in the conversation: how to manage the silences

 

Conversation topics

The obsession of a man seducing a girl may be: “I hope there will be no silence in the conversation”. Focusing on it means forgetting everything that is not words but that helps to create the attraction during the conversation.

But when you are with your good friends, family, relatives, etc. : a moment of silence is experienced as normal.

That’s exactly how you should live silences with chicks. Do not be afraid! Do not be uncomfortable!

Sometimes they are bothered for two when there is a silence that lasts, so explain to them what I just explained to you and it will be better.

Personally, I like to enjoy watching them during a silence, right in the eye with a smile, assuming that I have something in minde. It makes the sexual tension rise !!!

For other tips to improve your interpersonal communication, I invite you to read Communication, seduction and manipulation!

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Threesome with a blonde who moaned like a porn actress

Threesome with a blonde who moaned like a porn actress
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Threesome with a blonde who moaned like a porn actress

June 20th 2016,

This weekend was rich in emotions.

On Friday night, Tinder’s girl, who had flaked us, finally came. This is the one I call “Diplodocus”.

A little reminder: we had planned to see her three weeks ago but she used the excuse “I have a boyfriend now” to get cold feet. I had treated her as a “little maid” and it made her react. She finally admitted that she was not really in a relationship and came to see us.

She was invited at a moment that did not suit her, just to annoy her (revenge). At 9:30 pm, after my acupuncture session.

It’s The Teacher who went to open it while I finished taking my shower. My accomplice is not really stressed by this kind of plan anymore, now it’s cool.

Behind the door, she discovered a beautiful blonde with piercing blue eyes, taller than me. She was friendly and rather funny. She’s crazy, to be honest. She is completely nymphomaniac, quite extroverted. I had a lot of fun. She makes jokes all the time with her accent of Toulon, it’s cool, she reminds me of the south!

We sat around the table all three to discuss, the time I swallow my slices of chicken rillette. Meanwhile, the girls drank the good white wine that was in my fridge. Then, I took out the “mouthwash” (that is to say, the Get 27) so that they smell good.

After my frugal meal, I proposed them to go on the bed to play a game. The blonde began to moan like a porn actress “ohhh I love shirts, and belts”. She knelt in front of me, opened my belt and then rubbed behind me and opened the shirt as in a porn movie. Then, she slammed the belt like a SM… Seeing that it did not make me react, she raised her top and showed me her tits.

Then, we made a game of dice with naughty pledges. At first we came across “1 – truth question”. I asked, “How many times do you think you’ll come tonight? The girl from Toulon said zero and The Teacher at least two.

Then we did 2: we had to kiss languidly, all three. And then we did “5 – oral sex”, the two girls threw themselves on me by mutual agreement. They got rid of my clothes without I was being able to do anything and blowed me together for at least five minutes.

Then, the actual threesome started. The two girls undressed and licked; I licked them too and they sucked me. Sometimes I fingered the one licking the other, depending on the configuration. The Diplodocus from Toulon arched very well and her rump was super horny.

After a while, I took The Teacher in hand and started to lick her. The Diplodocus positioned perpendicularly to my cock and sucked me by looking at my girlfriend, right in the eye.

She had a great mouth for blowjobs, and eyes that screamed “pussy”! This situation excited a lot my darling who enjoyed quite quickly. Then, it was Diplodocus’s turn to lie down to be sucked/fingered. She took a long time to enjoy. She said “stop, stop”. She must not be in the habit of often enjoying in contact with a tongue. But she finally exulted thanks to our tenacity!

Then my darling was lying on her stomach waiting for the other to recover. I went directly on her and fingered her from behind caressing the clit with the other hand. The situation and the maneuver again drove her crazy in a few minutes. Already two orgasms for her! In fact, this kind of situation excites her thoroughly, as in the swingers club!

It’s because our relationship has changed. She is a lot more confident and trusts me now (she knows I will not leave her for a girl I hardly know). In addition, on Tinder, we meet girls who really love girls, not just curious heterosexuals who have never touched a woman!

Afterwards, they had the heart to make me take enjoy too. The two began to suck me in turn: the one who sucked was licked by the other. I was also sucked by the two girls at the same time… as in a porn, their tongues around my tail were mixed and everything! I ended up ejaculating a lot in the mouth of the Toulonnaise who swallowed everything. I put a little in her hair too so she decided to make a ponytail for the following.

We had a little “shower” break and then the girls went back to having fun together. I soon became hard again but I had a hard time keeping it hard, if you want to know everything. I took my girlfriend hardly, which resulted in the enjoyment again. The blonde enjoyed too because my brunette was grazing. Then, I took the tall blonde who was licking then my girlfriend. And she orgasmed again, my favorite lawnmower!

The tall blonde did weird positions after the doggy. Like, she crossed her arms behind her back, as if to make me handles. I caught them and she got up, to be fucked in extension. Then she made us the position of the pebble, that is to say, she curled up on herself in fetus mode so that I fuck her. My cock did not like it too much: following a false movement, I went out and wanting to go back, I banged on the edge of the buttocks: it hurt me so I I lost my erection.

From there, it was hard (or not, precisely). The two girls were lying in front of me and I masturbated watching them. The orgasm was good anyway.

Final score:
– The Prof: 4
– The Toulonnaise: 2
– Me: 2

My little love told me not feeling jealous at all after that. Simply because our relationship is not as fragile as before. Besides, she is right not to feel in competition. This blonde was horny and exciting, but I do not really want to see her again. I’m too good with my girlfriend. I do not want to spoil it!

So we made 2 threesomes in less than a week. It’s a winner’s life, that! I do not see why I would tolerate being treated like a loser at work! Myself alone, I fucked more girls than all these losers of the office together.

It should be known that my fuckers boss renewed my trial period for a period of two months last week. Except they are stupid, because I already hesitated to leave but had no time to look for something else. There, by extending my trial period, they give me two more months to leave them overnight.

Their idea in doing this was to put pressure on me. They want me to better integrating (ie, drink alcohol and eat shit with them). And they also want me to bring home files at night because, with all the moves, according to them, I can not be up to date in the office otherwise.

But it has an opposite effect on me: I react negatively to this type of pressure. I want to work for nice people, who do not talk to me badly. For such people, yes, I give my best! But not for assholes who think they’re holding me with their money. In addition, they attracted me to their firm promising me to start the three-year internship to be a chartered accountant but it’s still on stand-by… if it’s not bad faith, that? ! The girl I replaced had to accustom them to say amen to everything, it she either a pigeon or a submissive, but that’s not my case!

This week, there was also the starting pot of a collaborator. So I told my girlfriend to come and see how the aperitifs go there, to give me her opinion. I wanted to know if it’s me who completely derail or if they are really stupid but think they are gods.

Her opinion :
– There’s one of the bosses who is nice, but he behaves like a retarded teenager of 50 years: his biggest passion is to go out at night and get drunk in the bars.
– The other boss, fat and short, clearly has something to compensate so he over-plays the “macho” side. This is the kind who believes that his attitude gives him charisma while it would be better for him to be more modest.
– One of the collaborators is a rooster, a nigger who yells everywhere, who asks “SUCK MY DICK?” very loud to talk to colleagues (even in front of unknowns). He is typically the type that seeks to attract attention, speaks the most but does the least. He and the other fat are clearly in the same wavelength : they do not realize they are chartered accountants… so they broast and behave in an ultra-arrogant way (but it is not credible) !
– One of the collaborators welcomed my darling by saying “you’re a teacher but it’s not a real job, you’re always on vacation!” It was the same who had told me, the first day, “you’re not a little young to be fat, you?” (You must know that she herself is obese.)

Clearly, they made no effort to put her at ease so we left at 9:30pm. Overall, she concluded, “It’s a beautiful gang of assholes, I understand you’re not at all comfortable in there.”

Another anecdote: during this drink, I did not want to drink alcohol. But they served me anyway and forced me. The next day, I told them “I must not be motivated enough because I will not bring home work, I want to work to live, not live to work”.

They know now that I’m going to leave, and that I can leave at any time (as soon as I found something else in fact)… so they softened. There are already two vacancies in their cabinet, a third, it would score bad anyway!

May the God of the Game be with us!

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20 questions to ask a girl to make her crazy with desire!

20 questions to ask a girl to make her crazy with desire!What are the questions to ask a girl to seduce her? I do not think there is a list of magic questions to make a girl in love. On the other hand, I know “the game of questions” which is a very effective routine to excite girls.

In my secrets ebook Secrets for seducing on the Internet, I explain in detail this routine, through 20 “magic” questions whose goal is to put a woman in your bed.

I also talked about it a lot in my pick-up stories because, thanks to her, I was able to live hot adventures for example with a thirty very open-minded, a sexbomb of 17 years old and my first foursome.

What is this game with these questions to ask a girl to sleep with her quickly?

The challenge of routine questions

The routine of the questions is excellent for creating comfort and for sexualizing.

If you get to the end of the routine of questions to ask a girl (in writing on a chat or oral during a date) then you are 99% sure to get laid.

This routine will save you a lot of trouble by sorting through the girls too tight-ass, girls not playful, etc.

Do not ask these questions like a nag

Attention, all the girls do not want to play this little game directly : do not ask it CASH.

Indeed, the principle of the routine of questions to ask a girl to sleep with is that you will exchange anecdotes about sex and that it will turn her on… but it will also make her vulnerable, what all girls do not accept on the Internet and even less with a stranger.

So, start the game by asking light questions like “what is the most beautiful place you have ever visited? » or« what is your favorite song and why?”

Ask these “magical” questions with confidence

If you use the routine of questions to ask a girl on the Internet, be sure to assume. If you use it during a real date, then you have to adopt a good body language.

First recommendation: use this game only when you are in an intimate conversation with the girl.

It takes intimacy, otherwise she will feel “easy girl”. Forget this option when her friends are present.

Second recommendation, it must seem spontaneous: if she realizes that the questions are prepared in advance, it sucks…

How to bring the game of questions?

Bring it on: “We do not really know each other… we could play a game to get to know each other better.”

If she is a little skeptical or whatever, keep fluffing a little until she talks about the game herself.

“I feel that you look like a girl well in your shoes and in your mind, that you know that life can stop at any moment and that you have to make the most of i … so if I’m right: I have a game to propose to you to better know you! ”

“Have you ever played the game of the questions? ”

It is possible that she answers yes, since it is close to “dare or truth”, a game it is common to play during partie. Do not be moved!

The rules of the game

“The rules are basic but these are the questions that can be funny. We ask each other a question… the first one who does not answer or who lies has lost. And if the answer is not clear, we have the right to ask for a clarification. Ah, and we can not ask a question that we have already been asked.”

If she does not answer the asked questions

Maybe she will ask you what will happen if she does not follow the rules of the game. Tell her you’ll see later for the pledge, if it ever happens. You can also say that if she loses to the game, then you will think less of her. Or something shitty like that, a vague answer like that…

How to orient the game on sex?

The “if you do not answer, you lose” side of the game justifies that you ask sexual questions without looking like a pervert. Indeed, your excuse is that you are just trying to win the game. You can accentuate that to the maximum, bad faith is sometimes our friend…

It is also important to keep a way of being able to ask for clarification in case she says something interesting, sexually speaking.

Here, now that you have better understood the principle, let’s go to the practice of the game of questions to ask a girl to warm her!

20 questions to ask a girl to make her crazy with desire!

20 questions to ask a girl to sleep with

# 1 With how many boys did you go farther than the kiss?

Basically, here you want to know with how many boys she slept… but without saying it really not to block her. If you are already starting to find resistance, then it is badly started, but perhaps she only wants you to confide first to feel free to do so afterwards. If she blocks, say you do not want to talk about sex but rather about love stories.

The reason we start with this question is that as a guy, it is difficult for us to answer. If we did not sleep with a lot of girls, it’s not good. If we fucked a lot, it’s not good either. And if we are in between, depending on the girls we are talking to, it may not be good either. Asking her the question is supposed to prevent her from asking us in return. But often, they do not have much imagination and will ask it anyway. So, watch out…

An order of magnitude for “normal people” is:
– under 25, between 10 and 15 girls.
– between 25 and 30, between 15 and 20 girls.
– more than 30 years, more than 20 girls.

Obviously it’s better to tell the truth, but… some girls would not understand why you slept with only 3 girls in your life or why you’re a big fucker who is already at 270.

Whatever her answer, DO NOT JUDGE.

 

# 2 When was the last time?

Presumably, we imply here… “the last time you made love”. This question is useful because the girl will remember the last time she made love and it will put her in good condition for the future.

# 3 What was your longest serious relationship? When did it end?

Here we do not talk about sex. This may help to continue the game since talking too much about sex blocks some girls. In addition, thanks to this question, you will see what kind of girl you are dealing with: is she the type to go out during 3 years with the same guy or rather 2 weeks?

# 4 Do you often think about making love? Well, when was the last time you masturbated? And where ?

This question is a fucking big test. This is a very disturbing question so ask later if you do not feel “hot” enough at this time. In my experience, girls who answer this question usually suck your dick afterwards.

Clearly, a girl who does not answer this question is not very open-minded, not playful or does not really want to sleep with you (or never did and is ashamed). If she does not dare to answer, dedramatize the situation and tease her.

A woman who answers the question “and where”? Is a woman who will relive the scene unconsciously. Again, it will put her in good conditions and in addition she will associate you with these impulses.

# 5 What is the craziest place where you made love? And did it make you horny?

This question is less daring than the previous one: we respect the rule “two steps forward, one step back”. As usual, the fact that you dare to answer this question shows that you are a sexual person and that she must qualify for you… and it also requires her to relive the scene and therefore to be excited. Well, that’s something she probably only discussed with her best friends so you’re entering her circle of trust (which is not the friendzone).

# 6 What is your favorite position? Why?

Once she has answered, act as if it was your favorite position too. You do not ask for permission or anything, but with an air of indifference, pretend that you are going to sleep together and that you will be able to test it.

If she does not know the name of the position, try to mimic her: make a little guy with your fingers and she does a girl with hers and you ask how you put, if she is on you, etc.

Note that most women answer “doggy style”.

# 7 What is the thing you would like to try sexually but have never done ?

Another question that conveys sexual honesty. Here, do not communicate especially that you find weird what she would like to do.

Do not judge her and encourage her to talk about it. As if you really understood it and you, too, were curious about this stuff.

# 8 On a scale of 1 to 10, how much would you rate yourself in bed? And also note the oral sex in a second note.

An honest answer is between 5 and 7. More than 7, she wants to fuck with you. Less than 5, she does not care about you… or she’s a real Low Self-Esteem.

Once she has answered, to determine your rating, add +1 to her number. Even if she says 10!

As for oral sex, basically, you ask her if she will suck you well. Few women would answer that question if they did not want to fuck the guy.

So this is both a test to see if you will sleep with her, and at the same time something to stimulate her imagination and make her want to sleep with you.

# 9 How would you rate your kisses? And if I magically appeared next to you in your bed that night, kissing you in the neck, would you refuse that I kiss you or would you enjoy ?

If you do your routine on a date, kiss her at that moment (you have to get closer to her by asking the question as if to whisper a secret to her).

On the Internet, if she gives you a positive answer, suggest a meeting. Otherwise, continue the game to exciter her further.

20 questions to ask a girl to make her crazy with desire!

 

The 11 other questions to ask a woman to sleep with

You will understand that I keep the 11 other questions to ask a girl secret: I have keep them for those who bought the Secrets for seducing on the Internet.

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Cruising Places: 10 places to flirt and meet people

10 places to flirt and meet peopleIn this article, I explain where you can flirt with women and what I think of the different places of pick-up (especially if your goal is to make beautiful meetings).

Some men develop elaborate strategies to seduce women while others seem to make romantic encounters “naturally”.

There is probably a difference of conception of life between these types of men but also of opportunities (they do not go to the appropriate places of pick-up)…

So we will see now where to find girls so that it is easier for you to seduce.

Indeed, the more you meet different women, the more you will have some hooked atoms, the less you will be needy, the more you will gain confidence and the more naturally you will acquire the attitude of a seducer. It’s a virtuous circle!

The different places of pick-up possible for a normal guy: where to flirt with women?

Pick-up area 1 : Dating sites and apps

Dating sites are probably the easiest place to meet available women .

And I insist on the words “available women “: those who register on these platforms are normally hunting. That makes of this, in my opinion, one of the best places to pick-up!

But be careful not to do anything: without a good profile and nice pictures, it will be difficult for you to be the king of oil.

That’s why I wrote the ebook Secrets for seducing on the Internet: I advise you to read it if you do not have the success you want on the sites and dating apps, it should help you .

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Pick-up area 2: Social networks

Internet is really a revolution that facilitates meetings. If you do not want to register on dating sites, you can still flirt with Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.

However, you will not know at first on this site if the girls you are trying to seduce are single or even if they are straight.

It will be a little more difficult for you to flirt there than on the dating sites, but at least it will be free and you will be able to meet girls who are not registered on the sites and dating apps but who have nothing against the idea of meeting men.

Personally, thanks to the Facebook’s poke, I already have many beautiful encounters…

Pick-up area 3: The job

The workplace has always been a place for romantic dating, it is one of the hotspots that probably gives rise to the most “serious relationship”.

Many weddings and children result from meetings in the workplace because the work makes it possible to identify quite easily the real personality of people and to be in a dynamic of mutual aid and cooperation, conducive to seduction.

Nevertheless, I don’t want you to be labeled as a big pick-up artist on your workplace or worse, being accused of harassment at work, is the last thing I wish you. So you must choose your targets, be discreet and not insistant at all.

10 places to flirt and meet people

Pick-up area 4: In high school and college

School, high school and college are the equivalent of the workplace for “young people”.

It is possible to meet and seduce many beautiful girls there, provided you know how to do it properly.

That’s why I have already dedicated an entire article to the dredge in high school and college, whose principles also apply to school, college and office.

Pick-up area 5: In the parties with friends

The fact is that we are often friends with people who look a little like us. In addition, it is important to know that “who looks alike is coming together”. It is easy to seduce in the evening with friends : that’s a given !

From a very young age, I noticed that friends’ parties were one of the best places to go.

I always found it a lot easier to seduce in the evening with my friends or when I organized parties at home than in clubs.

I think it’s because girls are less suspicious and are “preselected” by our friends.

For example, you can read this adventure in which I tell how I slept with two girls during a party at a friend’s house!

Never refuse an invitation if you are single and do not hesitate to organize your own parties!

There are also different festivals…

10 places to flirt and meet people

Pick-up area 7 : The street

The street is, in my opinion, the best place for training… but not necessarily the easiest to seduce!

Unless you are very  very very lucky, you will have to approach many women whether to take numbers and see the girls again or to make instant fuckclose.

Nevertheless, whatever some say, the street is a public place and we can therefore approach women, who do not necessarily only walk from point A to point B.

Indeed, there are many who loiter and are open to a good meeting. Why deprive them?

But to succeed, it is still necessary to know how to correctly approach a girl in the street…

10 places to flirt and meet people

Pick-up area 8: The metro

The metro is a place of pick-up quite similar to the street except that you have to go straight to the point because people are in a hurry.

This is even one of the places of pick-up where I advise you to be the most direct.

It is possible to take numbers in a hurry… that can lead tosomething or not.

It’s a bit of a lottery: you have to play on numbers in this environment to be sure to get out of the game!

Pick-up area 9: The shopping centers

Still a place of pick-up similar to the street but the advantage is that it is heated in winter!

It is easy to meet people in shopping centers but you have to choose your day because there are many couples and families who go there on weekends.

Pick-up area 10: At the beach or at winter sports

During the holidays, many meetings are done on the beach or in the snow.

I myself have already had a great adventure on the beach.

In resorts, especially those of the “Club Méditerranée” type, many women come to satisfy their hunger for sex.

It is therefore a good place to drag and meet, but you have to choose the time of year to go “in season”.

picking-up at the beach
Image : Going to California

Should you flirt online, in your social circle, at night or during the day?

You can flirt everywhere …

You understand it! But you will surely have noticed that the places of dredge that I have stated fall into four categories: online drag, drag in its social circle, night drag, drag day.

Is there a better place than another to flirt?

It all depends on the circumstances, the people and the moments.

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Threesome with a babacool

Threesome with a babacoolThis babacool girl was sexy, kinky and friendly

June 14th 2016,

The Teacher and I spent the weekend at Ecully, at her parents’ house who had gone on vacation. In the green, we were fine. We had good weather, besides. She did a little unnecessary nerve crisis on Friday night because I watched football and let her cook alone (it happened once in 8 months of relationship), but hey… we still had a good weekend, one in the other.

Saturday, she asked me how she could learn to stop making nerve crisis because it makes her unhappy, too, to complicate life for nothing at all. I told her that she, too, sometimes does things that piss me off but that I take upon myself when I judge that they are trifles. And when that’s important, I tell her things using non-violent communication, instead of making a scandal like a hysteric. As a treatment, I gave her three books from my library to read, we’ll see what happens:
– How to heal your inner child;
– The monk and the philosopher;
– Praise of lucidity;

Sunday night, we received the visit of a girl met on Tinder. Her case was pretty funny. I will tell you the story.

I was tired of interacting with stupid girls that do not know how to fuck so I just sent “hello” when we matched. She answered rather seriously “Hi, how are you? And we talked.

After two minutes, I asked her if she wanted to meet a couple: « Yes, it’s been a while since I think about it ». So we started talking normally.

We learned that she had a little boy so could not easily break free. She was asked naughty photos and she asked us for a phone number to send them to us. I gave her mine… that was early May. And then… nothing.

Nothing… until last Thursday. I was with my darling, making my first Youtube video. And suddenly, my cell vibrated (I almost confused with the dildo of my girl): two pictures of the girl, naked, of course. She had the good idea to sign, reminding us of her name and origin (Tinder).

So she was invited to The Teacher, last Sunday. She said it excited her a lot to imagine herself between us. We did not really believe it, we were a little jaded since the flake of the last time, actually. So we did not really make any effort to talk but she came.

It’s a kind of baba cool pretty hot, nice and especially who has a really cool mindset. As a trade, she “makes the season”, that is to say that she sells clothes on a stand that she sews or that she imports from Taiwan. In the winter I do not know where she makes her butter but, in the summer, she goes to Cap d’Agde. But she is not libertine, she had never even done anything with more than two people. On the other hand, she often fucks girls and guys from Tinder. As she likes to say, she leads a bohemian life.

 

She still lives with her kid’s father, they’ve been together for ten years (she’s 28). He’s a vagabond too (he’s 40). She often goes out and goes to fuck elsewhere. It drives him crazy, it seems, and I can understand it. The story does not say if he does the same thing on his side.

So, she is rather polite: she had brought some Coke but none of us drink because it’s full of sugar. I still took half a drink for politeness. She asked if we wanted to smoke grass but we declined politely.

She was a little tense but soon felt more comfortable with my jokes. My girlfriend was also tense, she said “I have a stomach ache” before the other arrives. I told my darling to put on a super sexy dress without underwear. So, I just had to drop her suspenders to start the process. After I put her topless, my mistress asked for equality: “undress too, I feel lonely”. Ah, I can tell you that under her gypsy clothes, the baba cool had beautiful underwear!

So here we were, three, naked, in the living room of The Teacher and we went to her room. At first, we were standing in a circle. I touched the two girls: fingers in the vagina and told them to fondle each other’s clit. We kissed at two, three. At one point, our guest began to jerk me off but I did not want my darling to feel sidelined so I took care of her exclusively. The other girl then went on her knees to suck me. And she was greedy. It was not bad !

Then I laid the baba cool on the bed and licked duet with my darling. She said “I usually only rarely orgasm, but I feel like it’s coming.” It lasted a while, she tried to struggle a little but my girlfriend held her firmly. She ended up exulting. Then she licked my girlfriend sucking me. Then, having understood that The Teacher had not orgasmed but she had actually simulated to please Miss Dreadlocks, I have fingered her until orgasm. The two girls having taken a lot of pleasure and feeling very manly, we could finally move on: penetrations.

I lay down and the baba cool was riding me while I licked The Teacher so that the two girls face each other. One was on my tail, the other on my head. I did not see much but it was pretty funny to do that. It seems that she, at one point, fucked me in the “poop break in the woods” position. Me, I just felt she was nagging my cock.

Then, I decided we were going to change: I took off the condom and fucked my darling while she licked the other. I went very hard doggystyle, I really killed her. She ended up falling because her strength was abandoning her at the moment of re-coming. The baba cool rather impressed wanted to try my cock so we exchanged. She was now she licking my girlfriend while I put a condom to destroy her pussy. It was after a few minutes at a very intense pace that I came.

We spoke a little on the bed and then our girlfriend of one night drove me home by car because it was raining. Also, it was midnight (she had arrived at 9:30 pm) and there was no more subway. But Monday morning, I began at 8:30 am in Chassieu, near the stadium “Parc OL”.

Once at home, I called my darling to debrief. She told me that she loved it and did not feel at all jealous. She saw it as a team effort. And she took a good walk! Great !!!

The next day, Monday, therefore, two days of statutory audit. It was very boring, my bosses still pissed me off with their fucking manners. It started with little murderous remarks that made me feel like shit. “Why is not that done? “What are you working on now?” or “it’s not acquired then we will be obliged to do like in school with you” (I soon have bac+8 so fuck your mother).

In their behaviors and in their ways of speaking, there were also things that bothered me: they stared at waiters’ asses at noon and commented aloud, just as they do with the servers a little effeminate “he is beautiful “. They take almost junk food and throw the few vegetables that accompany it. Yet, in their speeches, this is the kind that thinks they are superior to everyone. Especially the fattest one (the other it’s almost OK), he claims his great intelligence “Oh yeah between smart people, it goes immediately better.” So that’s why it’s not going very well…

But I think I understood where his problem comes from. In fact, he has a huge 4×4 and everything, that’s what put me in the ear. You know what they say: big car, small cock and/or shitty private life. This is probably why he feels obliged to broast to compensate. Me it annoys me: I find it so ridiculous to ride mechanics like that and play the cynic all the time. I want to change my job again…

These people are very, very different from me. I do not really know if I will hold the 3 years of the internship of accounting, in the middle of these vulgar assholes, just to have the status and create my business. I think I could do management control or things like that, it would be a lot less taking and less stressful.

Tthe drop of water that broke the mud, yesterday, they went to an aperitif at 4pm. I thought I would finish early too, but no, they told me to stay at the client until 6pm to continue the audit. When I got home, I was caught in a filthy brothel with Belgian and Italian supporters. There was even a parcel alert on the tram. I returned home around 8 pm, with raw nerves. Fucking audit near the big stadium of Lyon during the European Cup of foot.

This morning, big joke, the fattest arrived with almost 1 hour late “there was an accident”. He said that to try to justify himself so the trainee who was with us asked him what route he had taken. Verdict: they took the same, but the trainee was on time: so it’s a fucking lie. I think I’m going to start laughing, there’s no other way, otherwise my nerves will break. Or maybe I should pity him… But still, the girl from the other night said “he is really good, your guy”. So how can I be treated like shit in my work if I’m a fucking alpha who can handle two hot girls at the same time?

Otherwise, about the Diplodocus who flaked us last time, at the last moment for a threesome: I relaunched with a « what’s up virgin ? » She immediately felt stung in her ego and told us that she was still banging big black guys next to “her boyfriend”. So I asked her why she did not come to see us “ah, but I did not know how to get you back.” Seriously… it would have been enough of a « hello, wanna fuck? » Finally, she proposed us three dates, and we fixed the orgy next Friday. We’ll see what happens. I’m not sure I still want to fuck her, I did not like her manners. Hoping she is as hot as in her pictures.

May the God of the Game be with you!

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Flake, jealousy and libertinage

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libertinageJune 2nd 2016,

1 / Flake: lot of laugh.

As I told you last time, The Teacher and I had planned to fuck a girl last Friday night. It was a chick met on Tinder who had warmed us by saying that she often had orgies, she was banging a new guy almost every week, etc.

She told us that she thought we were beautiful, that she was impatient, that she liked being submissive, and so on. To prove her “motivation”, she even sent us some naughty pictures.

Finally, especially photos of her breasts! When I asked to see her buttocks, she teased me “you’ll see Friday night”. I should have been suspicious but hey, the situation excited me a lot so I let it flow.

We had a three-way conversation on FaceBook to check that her profile was not a fake and everything. It is where, on Friday noon, she confirmed her coming at 9pm at my accomplice, The Teacher.

On Friday, around 7pm, I came out of work with an anticipated half-hard cock when The Teacher asked me to call her. It was to tell me that the girl in question, let’s call her The Diplodocus (because she is tall with a long neck), was talking to her privately on FB.

« Her boyfriend invited her on a surprise weekend. Besides, he wants something serious now. » Ah, she had a guy? First news. And then, seriously, she can not wait the day after the orgy, to get in a relationship? Fuck, he invites her on a surprise weekend two hours before the threesome, chance does things well, right?

Frankly they all do it more or less, so either we are cursed or these are vile lies they believe credible.

Like what, we talk a lot about the guys who boast but the big mouths are also female (after all, it makes sense, only one chromosome differentiates us). They boast so much that they set the bar high in their head sexually speaking (yet they are not asked so much) and then after they do not assume and invent a smoky excuses.

Oh and of course, it was not even a question of postponing since her excuse inevitably induces that she is in a couple now and that she does not do “this kind of things” anymore. Seriously, luckily we had not prepared anything or bought wine especially for her…

To add to the melodrama, she told The Teacher that “her boyfriend” made her a scandal because she spoke to us. If ever it’s true, poor girl, it starts well, her fucking relationship!

2 / Three couples came talking to us on Wyylde (formerly Netéchangisme).

One coming from Bordeaux for the week and who proposes to see us on Thursday night. But with SNCF strikes and all, they are not sure they can come eventually.

Another couple approached us saying that they do not like to anticipate and that they can not meet us until the month of July. Frankly, when it starts like this, in the direction of procrastination, experience shows that it rarely gives something good.

The last couple said to us “Madam is so beautiful!
– thank you for me,” I replied. Then we talked, they said they always fuck with the same couples. So we proposed to meet up and they said “oh no, but we want to talk a lot before, we do not meet so easily”. Go fuck yourself, seriously, must know what you want in life, we are tired of chatting with people who get cold feet at the last moment.

We talked to several girls on Tinder who did that “Yeah I’m very hot, we see each other after my exams in June”. And no news since that message… they do not answer anymore… Does it surprises you? It’s just pitiful. Almost all the same. Yet, it seems to me that a threesome with a couple, for a girl a bit adventurous who wants to enjoy hard and without commitment, there’s no better offer. Anyway, we do not live in the same world, I guess…

I think a lot about it because I sometimes want to fuck another girl. But on the other hand, I am very good with my darling! I do not want to ruin that, that chance we have. It’s really different from everything I’ve known, as a relationship, so I will not cheat on her. This girl fills me (even if she pisses me off sometimes) and makes me proud because she is very pretty. I’m happy to live “that” at least once in my life… and we’ll see where that leads.

I’m happy to have enjoyed so much thanks to the Game and am ready to pass the torch, I think it would be childish and a delayed teenager attitude to continue in PUA mode until I’m old and unfuckable : I want to build something one day, a family. And not necessarily in Lyon, I will surely go back to the south with my wife because it pisses me off to have a cold in June, seriously.

In fact, I tell myself that if I could go beyond the carnal aspect of the thing, I could be even happier. Because what I miss, it’s only pretty girls to fuck. This is not what is missing in the libertine environment, but they are often in a relationship. And the guy wants to fuck my girlfriend in return (that’s understandable).

In the idea, I’m not against (there is progress) but I do not feel quite ready… Of course, I would also fuck the girl of the guy, and if she is hot too (let’s assume that I would not do too much of a loss) it could satisfy my PUA instinct for a while.

Basically, it could be liberating but I do not know how I would react, it scares me a little. All this revives me memories, it reminds me of my first Padawan: it did not matter to him to encourage his girlfriends to have sex with other men and to take them in our orgies. Can I balance things out? Or, is she just going to disgust me and is it going to fuck up our relationship?

On the other hand, if I could completely free myself from the weight of jealousy, it would make me feel better. I would laugh well thinking back to her exs henceforth, it would not affect me any more and in addition I would continue to get laid with hot girls from time to time while keeping my darling and being honest with her. And it must be said that, if one day unfortunately, we are no longer together, I’d regretted all the more not trying in time.

There is no notion of honor or cuckold if you fuck the girl back and if it is in a predefined frame. In addition, this lifestyle seems to be able to avoid adultery, the true one. So what am I afraid of? That he fucks my girl better than me? Unlikely. And even, it’s not a contest. It’s just the satisfaction of impulses, fantasies, in a bubble, a parenthesis out of our life. Most libertine couples are generally very in love.

For those who bring their girls in gang bangs, I do not really understand how they find their account, but hey, it’s their right.

Most people who see the world of the libertine by far believe that the girls are free whores, pure bitches. But that’s not the concept at all, that’s rather the fantasy of the ignorant frustrated.

Anyway, on Wyylde, these couples who let their wife fucking without asking anything in return, we can not find them. As for single women, they do not respond or we don’t like them. Should we change strategy to find? Maybe trying the gay-friendly bars then…

In fact, the best for us, it would still be a girl for both of us because my darling loves women too. So it’s not selfish for me to want that: she would also be happy.

Otherwise, I did research about about gay parties. Not to get sodomized, but to see the prices and everything. Know that it’s half-price for guys under 25 years old. So, I’m out of date yet. It’s quite funny to see that even gay men, they like youth among men, which is also a criterion for heterosexuals who generally prefer young women. While women may prefer a little older guys…

I wonder if I would have my little success in a gay party? Moreover, if you like gays, who are more demonstrative than girls, it’s that you are fuckable and so you can fuck women without too much difficulty. It’s a good indicator and it’s good for confidence. I had already been to a gay-friendly bar in Aix, and I could have got laid that night… but with a man!

It seems that the hottest nights in libertine clubs are the 100% couple nights on Thursday night. There are only couples and single women. So, a good ratio! But the problem is that it is only weekdays and it’s 50 € per couple. Finally, I need to test anyway! What was a little annoying in the parties we went to were the guys alone “sex-starved” who almost never asked my girlfriend if she liked them. They came to see me directly asking if I wanted to make a threesome with them. Or if I allowed them to fuck my girlfriend. I remember a super weird guy who said “oh I like your girlfriend so much, if you want tomorrow I come back with a 40 yo MILF and you fuck her but tonight can I fuck your girlfriend plz ? Well, he tried to make for an idiot or what?

3 / And at work?

Otherwise, at work it goes a little better. I calmed down a bit. I’m better at managing people’s characters there. And then, the heat is back, the pretty legs of the girls cause car accidents and play with my hormone levels, all that must play in the fact that I feel better.

4 / The suggestions of weird friends on Facebook

Finally, here is the official explanation of the mystery of the suggestions of Facebook friends I was talking about last time (which I found oddly too well targeted): apparently they suggest you the people you have in your email contacts and in your phone. BUT ALSO, the people who have you in their phone and in their contacts mails without that you necessarily have them. It explains a lot of the suggestions we have… but not all. I remain puzzled. I think we are not told everything (what a surprise)!

See you soon, fucksters! May the God of the Game be with you!