The FIFG has conducted a survey on female orgasm. According to this survey, conducted among 1006 women representative of the French population, orgasm is something rare.
Only 33% of women report reaching orgasm in their last sex session. Only 25% of women have an orgasm once a month or more. 7% of women say they never enjoyed.
Very sad reality, which justifies why I must explain to you how to make a woman enjoy.
Enjoying, getting a kick out and orgasm
First of all, what is the difference between “enjoying”, “getting your feet” and “having an orgasm”?
To enjoy means to feel pleasure (not necessarily sexual).
To take one’s foot is to have a lot of pleasure (mainly sexual).
To have an orgasm is to reach the last stage of pleasure. Attention, by abuse of language, I sometimes say that I enjoyed or that the girl enjoyed to say that she had an orgasm.
But the thing is that sometimes sex can be very good without having orgasm. The woman can find it very good, so gets her foot, but do not reach orgasm.
When I tell you that I will explain how to make a woman come, I want to say that I will explain how to give her much pleasure… until orgasm!
The state of mind: generosity
I know that many people think of their own pleasure first. It is above all a common state of mind among men.
But we must understand that it is really rewarding and exciting to see the other take his or her foot!
So, a good state of mind is to give and receive. Get a lot of fun and give as much if not more. That’s how to make a woman come!
How to make a woman orgasm… The atmosphere is important
How to make a woman enjoy? The mind is of enormous importance to make a woman enjoy. So much that some girls can even orgasm through a simple mental stimulation, as in erotic hypnosis sessions. Or thanks to a good phone game.
But a girl too stressed, or who does not know her body, could block even with the best stimulation (physical or mental) of the world.
To accept to have an orgasm is to accept the loss of control… and that, all women are not capable. However, with an orgasm accompaniment, you can increase your chances of getting a woman to enjoy.
An accompaniment to orgasm is to encourage the girl to enjoy, reassure her, teach her to relax, tell her that you understand but you will not let go until she has come, etc.
You can also help the woman to forget herself through an exciting atmosphere. Why not give her an erotic massage? Why not watching an X movie together? There are so many exciting things you can do to clear your head, relax her and make her want to fuck.
What is the link with “how to make a woman enjoy”? Well, the more she will be receptive to the idea that you take her, as when realizing a fantasy, the more likely she is to enjoy easily.
Preparation of the penetration
Caress her hair… Kiss her. Then, kiss her neck, lick her belly, her breasts. Why not even her buttocks. How to make a woman enjoy? Take care of her whole body, she must be totally stimulated.
Then you can consider leading her to orgasm during foreplay.
Thanks to the techniques of fingering and cunnilingus that I explain in The awesome lover’s manual, you should without problem be able to make enjoy a woman before even penetration.
The sexual act
How to make a woman come? Regarding the sexual act, prefer positions that allow your sex to tap on her G-spot G. Or to rub her clitoris.
These are the two keys to make a woman enjoy by sexual stimulation but I can not guarantee you what will be most suitable for the woman you are going to fuck tomorrow: each has her own specificities.
The after-sex
After sex, your work is not finished. Ask the girl what would make her want to next time. Ask her for a little feedback on the sex session you just had together.
Attention all the same, do not let yourself be devalued by a bitch who would hate you and try to belittle you.
After your orgasm, take her a few seconds in your arms.
Offer to lick her if you are done but she has not orgasmed yet.
After sex you can hug for a minimum of 5/10 minutes… just stay connected.
Ask her what are her fantasies? Ask her to share her secrets with you, “What are your secret fantasies? 2 guys for you alone? With another girl? ”
How to make an woman come even stronger next time? Ask her what she would like to do/try next time?
If you did not like something, tell her.. tell her what you liked. Be a pedagogue, emphasize the positive!
Ask if she liked watching you lick her (in the eyes or not). Or that you look her in the eyes while sucking.
Ask sparingly how many times she has orgasmed (attention to seeking approval)…
Important: ask her if she likes girls too. So you sow the seeds of your future threesome in her mind. All participants will have to be part of something organized like this.
Even married with her, you can invite girls for a limited time in your relationship… if she likes them too (reserved for special occasions).
How to bring the subject to make a threesome?
During movies, ask her if she thinks the actress is sexy. Whisper in her ear, tell her (when she is in a good mood) that you would like to kiss her by watching her licking a pussy. If she looks up, gear up!
How to make your threesome go well?
Your girlfriend wants your attention, she should not feel sidelined… so do not be selfish during a threesome.
Do not look only the most beautiful or the new woman. Remember, it’s a privilege that she agrees to do that and do not take a big head, otherwise it will never happen again.
It can be a fantasy for her too to fuck a girl but keep in mind that she wants in any case that you take care of her.
Well, that’s how to make a woman come. I hope you enjoyed it, and women too! 😉
I know I have not written for a long time. This is simply because a certain routine had settled in my relationship, in our sex life and in our threesomes. My work also weighed on me more and more, nibbling all my vital energy. But the Game God made me live an experience that woke me up and motivated me.
Last night, I went to celebrate Valentine’s Day in a libertine club with The Teacher. It was crazy! I will tell you that. Try not to get hard (or wet) !!!
We started by going to the club’s sauna, where we sat next to a couple. After two minutes, the blonde of the couple put her hand on the thigh of The Teacher. We then began to discuss. I know it may seem surprising if you have never been in this kind of place but it really happens like that, in libertine clubs.
You see a couple with whom you want to fuck, you approach and you propose to go fucking. It’s as simple and that’s what they did.
So we went out of the sauna and took a shower all four. The Teacher fiddled me while the blonde fiddled with her, while being penetrated by her boyfriend. The looks of two girls who plunged into mine: one had fingers in her pussy, the other the dick of her man. It was very sexy, very animal. The blonde stared at me in an indescribable way, as if she defied me with the look or as if she imagined it was my cock that was pounding her from behind.
Then, it started to go get crazy : we decided to go in a closed room but we forgot to close it. Or rather, it was closed but badly and several other couples have spotted our ride.
Fortunately, it was a couples night so there were no single men in heat. Still, we were joined by two other couples and it made the world. The atmosphere was hot but it only went up even more when we ended up fucking at eight, without exchanging our names, or anything.
I had nothing against, I was super excited, so I did not say anything. We just started fucking like that and that’s it. Like in a kind of trance. It was truly a magical experience, I felt transported, as in another world. I admit to remembering everything and nothing at the same time, it’s a very strange feeling. I see that there was a tall black and a hungry Arab, the blonde and her boyfriend, a couple of naughty BCBG… It’s as if it had happened in a time bubble or a parallel dimension.
After a few hours we all got out of there and we did not talk. Out of the room, the couples made a little as if they did not know each other anymore. This orgy is officially the biggest one I participated in. It gave off a superb sexual energy.
In short, we did not come back home very late because I was working early the next day. I had an audit at 9am in a rather lost corner of Lyon.
Moreover, my job makes me unhappy, seriously. Since Christmas, I think only of how I am going to leave. But the thing is, if I quit, I will not get unemployment benefits. However, as I intend to launch my business (living of seduction) and I do not know if it will work, I would like to have this security.
My crazy project is to make a video training that will explain ALL the Game, supporting evidence. I would really like to leave a mark in this world of seduction that I have been around for almost 7 years.
But hey, I do not know if it’s going to work. I could do what would be my idea of the best product in the world, people can not know. I’m not very good at marketing so I’m afraid they prefer to buy less complete stuff from less good coaches (sorry for them) but who know how to market themselves. In short, you have understood, I stress.
I’m stressed but I’m determined and my bosses piss me off. Like the other morning they planned an inventory (it’s an auditory thing) at 7 o’clock in a scary place. I had to leave home at 5am! So, I decided to get fired.
But even that is not easy. Indeed, I’m not a bastard enough to make big shit in the files of customers, who themselves did not do anything to me. So, I do the minimum, I hold their account, I make the balance sheets and I go home at 6pm.
The problem is that even if I do like it, I’m always profitable! These bastards bosses have pressed me for several months like a crazy but since I’ve got up, I realize they do not fitr me. Which means that I always make them earn money even by being less exploited.
Seeing that it’s not enough, I decided to improve my strategy to get fired. The only thing I can still kill is the behavior. Now, as soon as the secretary or a collaborator speaks to me badly, I send him or her to Hell. I’m tired of their bullshit, their obsessions, their mania, etc. There are colleagues I like but there are three who are really foolish.
I can see that the bosses do not understand what’s going on. So, they wonder. Before, I took on myself, I made a polite smile and tried not to insult the maniacs. Now, I decided that I would make myself respected.
I will continue to do only the minimum in the office, not to penalize the customers while not being too much a slave. I will continue to speak badly to my “co-workers” when they stress me for nothing, mingle with what does not concern them, Â or piss me off for details. I will continue to tell their four truths to my bosses when they abuse. I will continue until they have the good idea to kick me or offer me a conventional break.
It is true that a conventional break, it would be ideal, since I would have less notice. Anyway, the experience of last night motivated me for my project because it reminded me that the life of a pick-up artist can be extraordinary and my daily life isn’t anymore.
About The Teacher, it’s okay. She supports me in my project but, at the same time, she tries to make me think. And then, she always makes nervous attacks, from time to time, which always annoys me as much. So, I do not know how I see the future: this girl is great but breaks me a little too often the balls. However, I know I have a pretty low threshold of tolerance right now, so, would not any girlfriend piss me off ?
That’s where I am. And then, I want to start a family and everything. It is not by kicking the girls off as soon as they are pains in the ass that I can build something stable, serious and durable. That’s what I say to myself right now. But I will take stock. Everything in its time. I will make a decision when I see it more clearly. Besides, maybe the situation will settle itself in a few weeks?
See you soon and may the God of the Game be with you!
How to flirt with a girl: the essential social skills
How to pick up a girl ? Knowing how to talk about anything with a stranger requires certain skills, some of them come to mind immediately. I think, in particular, that you have to know how to bounce on one sentence, how to listen to the other, how to be light, how to avoid angry subjects. In short, have a minimum of common sense.
How to pick up a girl ? Using your common sense
Sometimes, I observe some clampin lambda and I wonder if they have a minimum of logic: what use is it to reflect on a political event to a seller at Carrefour? You could hurt her deepest convictions, and even so, there are many more interesting topics and less headaches, which they just might make her have a good time.
Is the art of conversation technical?
When I hear some nazes say that Bob AFC is a natural beginner, I want to tear off the keys on my keyboard and jump through the window while naked.
A natural beginner does not exist, and in case you have not noticed yet, while some can talk 20 minutes of acoustic amp with a crazy old met at the bus stop while they do not know nothing about it, others are not even able to engage after the fateful “hello” addressed to the pretty, slightly naughty brunette sitting at their rank in college.
How to pick up a girl ? Like everything that is technical, some have the thing, some not. Those who do not have to work harder to get level, but they will eventually understand the thing. That’s why I kill myself saying that personal development is the basis of the base: we have nothing without anything in life, so we must get out of the ass to progress.
How to chat a girl: the importance of the first name
How to pick up a girl ? I just read an article, with one or two nice tips to apply when introducing you to someone. If like me, you are not damned to remember a name, read well. It is appropriate to take the name of the person to greet, immediately by saying hello.
How to pick up a girl ? Compliment the person on her name “Ah Zahia, I love this name is very exotic.” Pretend an annoying outside noise to make the name repeat if you have ever forgotten or not understood. It’s completely stupid, but people like you to remember their name, and repeating it during the discussion creates intimacy.
Intimate distance
Also try to find the right distance depending on the location. Do not be fooled 50 meters from her in a big empty room but do not come and stick to 30 centimeters either.
How to pick up a girl ? As far as possible, choose a social distance at the beginning of the interaction, even if you are closer to her. Do not enter her inner circle from the beginning. Adopt a seductive look, that is to say cool and relaxed. Do not slouch like a clod on the couch, but do not stand upright like a military at attention. Be comfortable.
Also note that your body attitude rubs off on your emotions (hard to make you think you’re sad while you’re doing antics, right?) If you have a cool guy positioning, you will feel cool, and will be even cooler.
That’s what I can say, a kind of virtuous circle. Take a pleasant voice and avoid gestures that betray any anxiety. If you feel that you are gesticulating too much, correct yourself. This kind of problem is solved through breathing.
Positivity and energy level
How to flirt a girl on the street? You do not have much time, you came up with an opener and swayed a bogus excuse to explain that you have little time to grant her. And what do you want? Do you want her to want to see you again?
So rather than complicate the task, you have to play it simple, you have to make her laugh. If you are full of energy and happy as I do not know what, she will necessarily be unless her dog just died or other. It does not necessarily requieres a high level of energy to flirt in the street, but in bars it is strongly recommended.
Emotional contagion
How to pick up a girl ? If you land in your life all smiles, fun and cool, she will become fun and cool: the human being tends to similarity and her spirit swears by the positive, a smile is contagious, a jovial and dynamic state of mind also.
If you are a catalyst for positive emotions, she will associate you with something positive, and she will want to see you again, so taking a number will be just a formality.
Of course not everything is so simple, and we often run into closed girls (poorly deactivated flight reflex, girl in a bad state of mind, girl who is in fact a simple shit). It is then necessary to practice the gradual opening.
How to pick up a girl ? If she betrays by her body language, or her voice, a lack of any opening, lower a tone and resume a little more seriously, once she hangs you can increase your energy level, and so hers. Note that sometimes we just fall on stupid girls, next.
Social Intelligence
Make the distinction. Sometimes the girl is not open. Just as you are sometimes sad or angry because of the job or a lambda story, she is perhaps horny at will but remains a human being with her personal problems.
How to pick up a girl ? Already, we have to make the distinction between the basic bitch who likes to belittle people and the girl who is not open because of her negative emotions.
The basic bitch does not deserve your interest, there are idiots everywhere and toxic individuals deserve only your contempt. If you have the feeling that her naze attitude is only temporary and that you feel the motivation to dig a little her case, there is a way to do it.
Backtracking
Going back first, you come up with a level of energy far too much higher than her. She had a crappy day, for example, so do not be the weird guy. Lower a tone, take a topic a little more serious and try to understand.
If she opens up to you, bounce it “ah your boss pisses you off, yeah me too, besides I planned to kill him, you know how in such a movie… you saw it?”. Once you’ve done it, go back to where you’re going.
The goal is to end the interaction by leaving her in a more positive state than when she did not know you yet.
Picture : L’arnacoeur
How to flirt a girl: Make conversation
How to pick up a girl ? Chatting with a girl is the most reliable way to root out information. The information will be used to calibrate accurately, to qualify/disqualify.
I recommend the following to those who already have enough social fluency to hold a conversation with anyone, as part of an evening where they can take their time (the others might get confused a little).
Conversation topics
How to pick up a girl ? Already, know that there are no key topics. There are certainly the fundamentals (men/women relations for example), but no subject is absolutely to proscribe. It can be psychology like computers, sports or ecology, we don’t give a shit.
Of course, she will not deliver emotionally to you if you exchange your opinions on the new iPhone, but if your goal is to simply create complicity, do not avoid a sexless subject at all costs. Since you know how to bounce back, wait for the opportunity and then deviate the conversation to something more personal: “Besides my ex had this application…”
That said, avoid, like the plague, certain subjects, style: politics or positions. In general, I avoid opinions too decided, I do not take too much for this or that cause or in any case I do not talk about it during the meeting, I expect to know her better, it avoids once again to hurt her personal convictions (and that she also hits mine).
Then anyway it’s not funny. There are plenty of countries where talking politics with friends is not polite, in France because we love to complain, we often discuss stupid topics. Avoid them.
Frame the conversation
How to pick up a girl ? Do not let the conversation go anywhere, but do not try to contain it: you could be considered an interested guy, and it would heat up on radars… So it should be non-directive, subtly bypass some obstacles, don’t speak to say nothing (it is weird, and we do not want to be a weirdo), and overcome some resistance as and when.
It is preferable that this is the target that takes the initiative of a sexual conversation for example, it will avoid the “oh but why we speak of doggy style already? Oh yes, it’s you, obsessed”. Finally, at the limit we do not care, we do not care completely, but if you try to lead and frame a discussion, it’s better if she thinks the idea comes from her. Personally, I sexualize pretty fast in general, but I tease immediately after so that the girl thinks that it is she who has the dirty mind. It’s not a beginner thing but that’s what I advise you to do if you are comfortable.
The nicknames
How to pick up a girl ? Repeating one’s name from time to time creates intimacy, and even if it’s not really subtle, I always like to find rotten nicknames to annoy them, but also to pretend that I’ve always known them: “Blablablabla… not true Juju?
– Yes it’s true that blah blah… but do not call me Juju fuck.”
A small check-up
Always ask yourself these questions:
– Do I ask hrt (too much) often?
– Can I get her confidences?
– Am I attentive to her reactions?
– Do I react at the right moment?
– Can I listen to her ?
– Am I funny/light?
– Am I answering her shit-tests?
– Do I decode her emotions well?
Work on your faulty points
How to pick up a girl ? To be able to speak a girl without feeling that she is being interrogated is a major asset. Always unbalance the conversation a little on her side so that she gives in, that’s good because people love to talk about themselves in general. Especially the girls.
If you manage to arouse her emotion, bounce on it to amplify her state of openness, stay light, nice and interesting without revealing too much, creating an aura of mystery: it is obvious that she will open up to you and will even ask so that you meet up again. She can even take the initiative to ask for your number.
If you do well your job, expect this kind of reaction “We do not know each other enough and I tell you my life”, “I told you too much” or “Since earlier I talk about me, what about you?”. That’s how to flirt a girl…
Do not you fool it
Make the nuance between highlighting and broasting. Telling your little piece of history or your anecdotes without trying to shine, it is done in the subtlety and not with bragging.
Do like good journalists, and ask original and relevant questions if possible, and especially open questions.
Avoid closed questions
Closed questions refer to the brain and logic, open questions refer to emotions and imagination. Reminder: we answer a closed question by a simple yes or no, or a simple word, style “you went to the movies? “.
Try to hold a conversation by feeding only questions, or try adding questions at the end of your sentences. Make the difference with a normal conversation.
Do it subtly after a lambda phrase (your opener for example): “Hi. What do you think of … ?” Or “Yes it’s true. Last time it was like that too. By the way, do you think that …? » Respond to the person with only a minimum of words.
How to pick up a girl ? Make the most of your body language (shoulder shake, smile, expression with the eyes), and retort only with “oh really?” Or “awesome, tell me more about…”. In short, show that you are also active in the role of the listener, who is commonly passive.
This encourages the speaker to continue, and thus to deliver more information. Feeling listened to is pleasant, and seeing that the other is really interested in what you say makes you want to prolong the conversation.
The art of banality
How to pick up a girl ? When two people meet, or more concretely just after you have spoken, the discussion is not immediately intimate.
We usually exchange a few banalities and then we naturally switch to a more intimate and relaxed conversation, it is usually there that we do a little cooky and funny and tease a little the girl.
The more serious first sentence of discussion is needed to disable the flight reflexes, to show the girl that one is a normal guy who just wants to talk.
Try to notice when you are transitioning from the first phase of the discussion to the second: the friendly discussion.
Stay focused
This exercise allows you to stay focused on your goal by identifying the different stages that lead to it, this objective can be “take her number and then leave”, “invite her out”, whatever… As exercise to practice: during a conversation with buddies, always try to divert the conversation from the original subject by bouncing on a lambda info.
Then, test with people recently met: “In fact I work in programming, and I always liked the technical stuff. »; “I’m a little like that too, besides when I was little… blah blah.”
Little more, and if you are good at this little game only, because it’s quite boring otherwise: try to determine by raising the redundant vocabulary, if your interlocutor is more a visual, an auditory or kinesthetic.
Example: if she prefers to use as an expression “I see what you mean” rather than “I feel that you want to come here”, it is more a visual than a kinesthetic. This will allow you to more effectively touch your imagination and sensitivity. With a hearing girl, it would be rather “imagine the sound of wind blablabla…” while with a visual one would make “just imagine this sunset…”
How to flirt with a girl: techniques
No stress
How to pick up a girl ? It has often been said, but I repeat: in seduction, girls are looking for cool guys and posed, well in their sneakers and with a big cock (just kidding). Think for two minutes and understand that talking about your passions or your first flirtation in order to stall a death anchor that kills you a bit later is meaningless and will have little effect if you sweat. like a marathon runner or stammering during the interaction.
What I mean by this is that if you have the attitude of a guy completely stressed, no matter what you tell her, at the end of the interaction she will keep in mind that you are a stressed guy .
Smile
First of all, it’s important to know how to smile. I have not just reinvented the world of psychology, but emotions are contagious. Show a social smile if the person in front of you is not able to draw a real one.
To work on your smile, lie in front of a mirror and play a little acting. Shoot a funeral and smile suddenly. Take a head of guy who enjoys and smile suddenly. Pretend to cry and snap, smile.
Simulate a lot of emotionsand force yourself to smile impromptu, it takes two minutes and allows you to work spontaneity and the sincerity of your smile.
Do it when you are alone, it will avoid you to go for a crazy. A sincere smile is created around the eyes, a fake is asymmetrical and a little longer to appear. There is no point in smiling throughout the interaction like a fool, you would be a fool or a jerk.
The eye contact
We do not all have the eyes of a big dark like Sir Banderas, but working the depth of his eyes can be useful (just watch the actors, or for a while, learn to always note the color of the eyes of your interlocutor, it will force you to dive your eyes in hers (exercise really useful)).
Stay planted there, staring at each other as if she were a marvel or I do not know what an incredible animal might make her uncomfortable, and make you feel uncomfortable in return. Between two guys, fixing is to provoke non-verbally.
How to pick up a girl ? Do not necessarily support her gaze for a decade. However, it is interesting to support the one of your target in some cases, and therefore not to have a shy eye contact.
A test
This is a form of testing since she may, for example, want to see if you finally assume your desire for her, or simply seek to play with you. We are all fans of these moments, are not we?
During the discussion, look in the eyes, in turn, all the members taking part in the conversation. This is very important, if you do not do it, some people will feel ignored and excluded.
If you are alone, it’s cool to take a look at yours from time to time, when you speak, and when you finish especially.
Do not hesitate to use a look of convenience (fix her forehead: neutrality) rather than your feet (shame of something) between two gloomy glances like Johnny Depp.
The rule here is to look in the eye when we speak (95% of the time) and avoid the gaze of the other when it is she who speaks (except 5% of the time). Be careful, the percentages are only indicative. The idea is that you do not go for a psychopath who always looks intently in the eyes, or for a guy unsure who can not support a look.
Kinos and body language
How to pick up a girl ? It is interesting to study the body language while remembering that a single sign is not enough to give a certain interpretation of the state of mind of the girl, it is the accumulation of these signs alone which allows a good interpretation.
But, we forget a little the essential, which is that a girl is a human being. And all do not like to be touched (there are some who are not used to, there are some who do not like contact, there are some who like to be pains in the ass…)
Auditive, Visual or Kinesthetic?
There are 3 big families of people. The visuals (about 50% of the Western population) are more sensitive to what refers to sight, auditory hearing, kinesthetic touch, tactile sensations.
How to pick up a girl ? If you want to talk to her emotional side and titillate her imagination, you will use a vocabulary and a way of acting specific to each of these families. For this still needs to calibrate with accuracy… Personally, it annoys me to do it, must be attentive and it pisses me off. That said, if I notice by chance that a chick is an auditory (for example), it’s clear that I will probably use this info at one time or another.
How to flirt a girl: summary
How to pick up a girl ? In summary, after having touched, we maintain a real eye contact in the eyes as in love movies, we smile and then start the conversation. We pay attention to her and our body language (open and relaxed).
It is possible to look away or to swing a neutral look (on her forehead) when she is launched. We smile from time to time because we are a hot guy when we smile. It’s cool.
We feed the conversation with open questions, go into the more relaxed phase and we start to calibrate the girl a little, we go into active listening mode and we react to what she tells us. Afterwards, we put her at our energy level if necessary. We must stay focused on our goal.
If you are able to do all that, then the sexualization of the conversation becomes a pleasant and normal passage since in the logic of things. It is also valid to conclude. Rather than force events, do what is logical, it will result in something natural.
Be ready to answer girls’ tests
Good… what about the test of confidence (shit-test)? Do we throw this notion squarely in the trash or do we explain that indeed girls swing from time to time, but it is so serious that?
If a girl asks you to pick her up by car at her house before going to the movies, it’s gonna be to test your manhood or maybe you just want her to pick her up before going to cinema.
You have to know how to stay lucid and logical from time to time: girls do not test us all the time. In my opinion, a girl can swing you a test but it’s still quite rare, and it testifies to the fact that she noted an inconsistency in your game and she seeks to decide.
How to pick up a girl ? To answer a test “Do you do that to all girls? I say, “I do not know, what is Beigbeder’s last book?” Or the famous “agree and amplify” “Yes yes, to all, even my mom”. There are 36,000 ways to respond, and all are good as long as they fit your personality.
It’s a reflection of the confidence you have in yourself, because almost everything goes on as long as it’s consistent with your character, and that character gives you confidence.
How to flirt a girl: kiss her?
How to shine, in conclusion? Stop thinking. This is one of the reasons that makes it easy to pick up by being drunk.
From the moment when we are alone with the girl and she looks at us with doe eyes, and we start to say to each other “Uh… well… doe eyes… I like that, but I sense that this is the moment when I have to do something. I do not like that much. And if she repulsed me? I dunno. I do not know anymore. But what do I know? Who am I ? Where am I going ? In what state I wander ? What is the purpose of my life? Where did I put the keys to my car?” So here we are screwed.
If we tend to think too much at the base, in a situation of “stress” and I voluntarily put quotation marks because we all know that it is not one: it is even worse. When she looks at us with eyes that scream fly: we must kiss her directly, without metaphysical meditation.
We stay ourselves
It’s not even about violence, it’s just a question of relaxing by not thinking about anything. Change your vision of the game: if a girl goes to see a guy to propose to fuck, there is a very good chance that he says yes, unless she is toothless and has more mustache than the baker of my ex neighborhood, frankly, the vast majority of straight will answer by the affirmative. Except those who will shit on themselves.
So, why half of the girls would push the advances of a good guy? Stop making excuses, Neil Strauss, Gael Garcia Bernal, and Al Pacino, also are small, it does not stop them from shining. Not making up excuses is the first step in understanding how to flirt with a girl.
On this page, we will see how to seduce a girl. But it is possible to seduce girls in different ways: for a relationship, to make a sexfriend, for a one night stand, etc. So, we will deal with the different possibilities. We will also see here how to seduce a girl who is in a relationship.
How to seduce a girl according to the type of relationship you want
Regarding the question “how to seduce a girl” in the sense of the qualities that a woman is looking for in a man, I differentiate several axes: what are the qualities that a woman seeks to couple, for a project sexfriends, to get married or for a one night stand.
How to seduce a girl to make a sexfriend
She can be content with a guy with whom she has a good time, cocky & funny as we like to say, a guy who will give her pleasure in bed and who will be discreet.
How to seduce a girl for a one night stand
For a one night stand, a man who knew how to make her wet by skillfully destroying hihers apprehensions, sorry, reassuring her, may suffice.
How to seduce a girl for a relationship
For a couple, she will probably look for a laid-back man, with some stability in his life, etc.
Become the Perfect Man to seduce women?
“How to seduce a woman?” Is not a question that has a universal answer. According to their experience of life, what is a quality for one is not one for the other. Some prefer a docile man, and others who sometimes do not admit it, a man more or less indomitable. Some will prefer a tall man, others will not care if he is small.
Most of the qualities that the Perfect Man would have are universal but not all. This is why your vision of the Perfect Man will never be quite the same as the one of the chick you want to seduce, or your neighbor, colleague, friend, sushi delivery… So why aiming for a vain ideal? The only thing you can do: constantly seek improvement, never stay on top of your achievements, always try to be better and above all happy.
What are the almost universal qualities that women value in men? I will answer you and that is probably what you will find most sincere and effective to understand how to seduce a girl.
Maggie from Palm Springs, United States — Brad
How to seduce a girl: the ideas about physics and culture
Well. From what I observe in everyday life.
Be beautiful to seduce
Being hot was good when you were a college student and had a Skyblog. The minettes commented “hot” and we had a ticket. Honestly, as an adult, I do not think that being plastically handsome is heavier in the scales than elegant. As long as you do not miss 5 teeth or anything, we do not care.
Culture
To read books, to know oneself in literature, in painting… Yes, perhaps, finally surely. But in a student context and even in most other environments, nobody wants to listen to stories of shades of blue on canvases of the nineteenth century.
It’s not to be mean or anything, it’s just that the girl wants to laugh and have fun first, and if she’s listening to you spew out a bunch of things about Plato, it’s probably she’s want to fuck with you anyway, not necessarily interested. Think about it.
Hollywood
I do not say that you have to be grown like a turnip, but this vision of seduction seems to me to be that of the American series: the guy who has wheat, super cultivated, super active, super beautiful, super everything, and that soon as he enters a room, the girls turn around and touch each other’s panties, chuckling… these are misconceptions that will not help you to really understand how to seduce a girl.
Keep these qualities for later
For my part, I would not start spreading my culture with a girl I met in a bar. Because I do not need that to fuck her. All this stuff, I would put them in the box “interesting and flourishing man”, and not necessarily attractive, because even if it can be, the girl does not need to know all that to be seduced.
If I come to address the topics inherent in my passions with a girl, it would probably be part of a mutual qualification for a relationship or, at least after having fucked, not before.
How to seduce a girl: passive seduction
The dress code
Without necessarily having a killer look, simply be elegant. It may not be enough for the chicks, but at least it will avoid being disqualified because we are dressed like a nerdy. That’s how to seduce a girl!
Body language
What could be summed up in some basics like not being slouched, being open, smiling… The body language of a confident guy, basta. This is another key to understanding how to seduce a girl.
Popularity
Talk a little with everyone, be cool, make the joke “If I drink alcohol I am an alcoholic and if I drink Fanta, I’m fantastic?” Speak philosophy if it sings to you as long as you stay in the spirit of the conversation.
To do the first step
Nice example of how to seduce a girl I heardfrom a friend who wanted to approach a girl at his college. He had been at the bus stop with her and another girl of her class. Instead of talking to the girl that he wanted to take the number, he spoke to the one of his class “Yeah, the courses right now it’s hard, besides coming every morning to revise with this cold, blah blah”, this kind of banalities said on the tone of fun with some amusing anecdotes.
His target was listening in spite of herself, and something that my friend said made her laugh, so he grabbed the opportunity to include her in the conversation. The end. But if my friend had not included the girl in the conversation, after asking her number and do what he had to do, he could have seduced hours and hours passively, there is a 99% chance that he would never have slept with her. She would have laughed, he would have continued to clown, then everyone would be home quietly.
Indeed, even if the girl is interested, we live in a civilization where the guys must take the lead. I always laugh when I hear guys say “it would be better if the girls approached and not the other way around”, because I am totally against: we approach so we choose. Those who go to coal give themselves the choice, it’s awesome. How many chicks are frustrated by the fact that the guy they liked did not come talking to them? I do not know, but a lot in my opinion. Even among the girls I know, there are lots of them.
Money
It’s better to have money for the obvious social bonus it brings, or even for the quality of life. Must be politically correct not to recognize that “money = girls”, but not having money does not prevent to bang high-school girls. I think that if a girl wants to fuck with a guy, her financial and social situation does not matter anymore. So a 29 year old lawyer in a room with a single bed? Why not.
The reputation
Let’s ask the following situation, and God knows that it happened to me often: you are at a party, asked to be there at 9pm. You arrive around 11 pm so people have had the opportunity to talk about you. When you introduce yourself to the blonde with big breasts, she whispers with a smile “Ah, it’s you Fabrice? Is it true that…” It’s Machin-Truc who told me that. Indeed, your friends who were on time, have built a reputation for fun guy and good fucker.
You already have enough value in her eyes for her to consider rubbing your body. It is true that at this point, part of the job is already done. So yeah, we can decide to do a lot of really complicated stuff, and after balancing the cum on the peroxide, consider that it was thanks to our Jedi skills that the mission was a great success. The truth is that in some cases, the girl had already practically decided to fuck with you before you even arrived. The important thing is this “practically”. She was already interested but interest is not enough.
How to seduce a girl: interest is not enough
There are a lot of reasons why a girl who is interested will not sleep with you, and that’s what I’m going to deal with now. How to seduce a girl, how to interest a girl and how to sleep with a girl are three very different questions that have different answers.
You have to assume that you are a man
First, and this seems to me the most common situation: this is the case of the guy who has no balls.
I know a Brad Pitt-style guy, but in clubs I am always more effective than him. Why ? Because he does not assume, he does not go to contact. Yet the indicators of interest are raining, but he remains inactive.
Afraid of failure? I do not know. The Inactive is 99% of the male population.
You must be faster than others
Now, imagine that the girl is interested by a dozen guys, that guys who have the balls to assume the interest she has towards them, do you sincerely believe that she will fuck with the 10?
The answer is no. Maybe one in every 100 or a thousand girls does it, and this one will live with the heavy burden of a reputation as a hussy. It’s a shame, I’m not saying it’s good or it’s bad, I just find that a guy who succeeds in fucking 5 women in a week would be considered a God while a girl validating the same performance would go for a slut.
By the way, why?
For a normal guy, getting fucked is an obstacle course, while for a normal girl it’s just a matter of choice. To yield is therefore considered as a manifestation of weakness. This is how the world works, and that is why the seducer must break down the barriers raised by social pressure and the prohibitions of education and customary morality. You have to know how to play fine, think to isolate the girl at the right moment, to make her understand that you will not judge her, that she can trust you and co. It’s not jokes, must be a little sensible and psychologist.
You must not go back
As a third example, I discuss the fact that a girl interested in what she has heard positively from you (or even because you are beautiful, it remains a creator of interest) can quickly disillusion. Scenario: You disembark in the evening, and you make your observation tower.
The pretty brunette who stands in a corner of the terrace makes you glances very pronounced: she is interested. You approach her awkwardly, but it passes. Except that you are not really funny and a certain nervousness is felt, her interest suddenly decreases and you notice her disappointment at the same time as yours, you end up discouraging. Finally, the mayonnaise does not take, she shows signs of impatience and ends up planting you there with a phony excuse.
The interest that existed was gone, even your look and your good face were not enough to save the day. There is an attractive attitude to adopt to validate and develop this interest. You have to realize that to understand how to seduce a girl.
To be beautiful is not enough when you are a man
If the interest that a girl likes us was enough for sex, then the handsome guys would fuck 34 chicks a week. Although some try to make believe that they fuck 10 a week without effort, we know very well that there is 99.9% liers.
In addition to a few attitudes to logically not have (sticky guy, needy, weird, effeminate) and basic behavior to have (confident, virile) there is ONE thing to do. You probably meet 50 interesting women (physically or whatever) a day: do you want them all?
It’s the same for them, she may have noticed you among the mass, but it does not mean that she wants you absolutely. This is where seduction proves its existence, why YOU and not another? She was probably interested in 2 or 3 guys that night, but it is on your cock that she is jumping. Yours… when she had the choice.
How to seduce a girl? It is therefore necessary to turn female interest into sexual attraction, no more but no less. And to do so, there is a pack of tools to use without misusing congruently with the character you play: touch, sexual humor, you know them…
Make people talk about them and what they like to seduce them
Most of the time, the average person (male or female) prefers to tell his or her life rather than listen to another telling his own. We must therefore take advantage of this ugly defect that people have. How to seduce a girl? Make her talk about her and what she likes.
Do not idealize the girl you want to seduce
Your target also probably has this defect because, no, she is not perfect:
*Speaking of her, the hottie delivers personal information, she does not necessarily filter everything she says, being carried away by the flow of words.
*Just turn the conversation to the subject that teaches you the most, framing her with questions. It’s not a question here of knowing that his dog’s name is Patrick and that he is drooling everywhere like a rage, the purpose of the conversation is to introduce a form of conclusion. If the girl leaves in her delirium, do not hesitate to interrupt her and reframe her. “Today was horrible, I was in the library with Julie and a guy came to see us to flirt with us…
– Oh? Do not you like spontaneous guys?
– Yes, but blah … »
*Do not give much information about you (this post is for beginners who do not yet know how to place the demonstrations of high value.) And keep a bit of mystery.
Calibration
In general, after talking for 4 hours of her, the Very Hot Girl becomes aware of having said too much “Oh my god, but since just now we talk about me, we should talk about you”. No need to take into account, in general, they do not even pay attention to your answer and start again their blah. “Oh yes, you were in the library? Here it reminds me last time when I was there with a friend…”
The information gathered during this “almost monologue” on her last vacation must obviously serve. Do not hesitate, in your questions, to make her talk about her “sensations” or her “emotions”. That the girl is cackling is necessary for calibration (is she kinesthetic or visual? Player or not player?)
Avoid falling into the friendzone
One must know a minimum holding the conversation, I should perhaps have insisted more on framing the discussion in my explanation on how to seduce a girl. Making her talk should not put us in the “friendzone”. Fortunately, if you push on particular topics, it is easy to sexualize. People love talking about them, it’s a fact.
Some people do not like because they are of a discreet naturalness, that said the majority is not like that. There is nothing absolute about flirting, in the same way that you can not say “all people like to talk about them” we can not say “all girls react in this way”. We must always adapt.
If you do not agree with that, you’re going against the advice of specialists in behavioral psychology, I’m not trying to make an argument of authority, but it’s something that you can check statistically. We must stop saying “No it’s not true, it will not work, because it does not work with this type of person or that guy”. Apply this kind of remark to all the methods, because they are all open to criticism and none unfortunately works on 100% of the targets.
How to seduce a girl in a relationship?
I have long meditated on the fact of posting this article or not, it is somehow the evil incarnate. It is an overview of existing tools to conclude with a girl already in a couple, manipulating her to distract her from her boyfriend. How to seduce a girl in a relationship?
Manipulate to don’t be manipulated
I write this message so that you understand this technique, and for you to avoid that it happens to you: one must learn to manipulate to no longer be. This tactic is made for guys who do not want their chicks to be seduced by another, I wrote as if you were the one who wants to bang a girl already in a relationship, so that you put yourself in the skin of the character . This is a long-term strategy, if you want a quick result: turn to other methods.
The couple who beats the wing
A girl who has been in a relationship for 2 years, for example, has the feeling of having lost her time, of having missed something. And if by chance she does not have this impression, make her feel it. The fear of missing something is happily entrenched in all of us, and especially among girls aged 17 to 26, thank Mother Nature.
It must also be taken into account that guys who have been married for a long time do not care about their girlfriends, or at least they care less than before. They do not seduce her as before: sex has become a routine, kisses are not so languorous, general attention has diminished. But we all know that girls need attention, the guys meanwhile, think that after a few months everything is acquired, because the behavior of the bitch makes them believe: they no longer dodge kisses as at the seduction phase, etc. This error is exactly the one we needed! It is thanks to that that we will win.
See the girl face-to-face
Once you have had the opportunity to see the girl after a party or an evening, under any pretext, it is appropriate to carry out the study of his boyfriend. What is he doing in life ? How old is he ? How long have they been together? So many superficial questions in appearance but that will allow you to take stock of the situation.
The goal is to find his weaknesses. Is he creative? Does he have a lot of friends? etc. Do not do an interrogation, it must be natural. Ask the kind of question that will allow you to point out your weaknesses, so you’ll notice them at the same time as the girl, if she has not already done so. Demonstrate value while his weak points are underlined. His weaknesses have become your assets:
– He does not go out much ? You go out all the time, with your friends, besides you have lots of friends.
– He does not like his unrewarding work? You love yours, which offers great future prospects.
Break her routine
To seduce a girl as a couple, break the routine of her couple, instead of watching a movie with her on Friday night as he does, make him dream! Tell him you’re going to take him to your lakeside home, this peaceful place in the heart of nature where you feel relaxed and rested… in short, I stop my delirious blue flower. You do not have a house by the lake? Me neither, and we don’t care. Be careful though, check that he has never done this kind of thing before, otherwise you could remind her the good time she took with her Romeo…
How to seduce a girl in a relationship? Most couples live the routine: break hers, show her that with you, it does not exist. Surprise her! Make her laugh! Be romantic, be a gentleman, be the one her boyfriend just forgot to be. She will realize as well what she is going through. The girl must feel a sense of deprivation, frustration. She must feel like she’s wasting time when she’s not with you. Give her perches by making her understand that she must be spontaneous and interesting: Carpe Diem must become her philosophy.
Ignore the existence of his boyfriend
How to seduce a girl in a relationship? Never talk about his guy. After studying it in the first part, totally ignore its existence. You do not want her to think about him when she’s with you, you just want her to enjoy your time together. If she ever comes to talk about him, listen to her, but stop her from getting lost in a big discussion, listen to her and always agree with what she’s saying about her guy, that’s Very important. Swing this stuff from time to time “Oh, really? I understand you, I can not believe he did that … “or” Oh yes, it’s weird … “. Do not get too involved in the subject.
Crack her
How to seduce a girl in a relationship? Spend time with her. This is actually the most important and delicate part because she does not have to perceive the good time she takes with you like the one she spends with her best friend, then go home and fuck with her boyfriend.
The goal is to create comfort so that she falls in love with you. To make her fall in love or at least make her crack, it is essential to spend time with her. To avoid becoming “just friends” by spending time with her, sexualize your exchanges, touch her, put a lock of hair behind her ear and tell her that you find her hairstyle beautiful , tell her that her breasts smell good, that kind of thing.
When you take her to her stop or at home, when you are separated, tell her that you loved this moment with her, and that she can call you whenever she wants to have a good time. Some will find it a bit cutesy and even say that it amounts to stretching the stick to be beaten (it’s about who controls the game) but not me, because it is essential to occupy her thoughts and propose the forbidden fruit! This is how to seduce a girl, couple or not!
Enjoy an error from her boyfriend
Be careful, never act when everything goes well with him, wait for a misstep. The moment when she will call you to tell you that she is upset by this or that thing he has done. This will reduce your chances of getting rid of dramatically. She will not follow you anywhere if he has just given her 50 roses, you realize it (bad conscience, all that). That’s why the previous step is important, because if you did it right, she’ll contact you when her boyfriend makes a mistake. When you see her, kiss her, most of the work is already done. That’s how to sleep with a girl in a relationship.
Seducing a girl in a relationship is bad?
Keep in mind, however, that the “virtuosos of the pick-up” may be sublime when it comes to pick up a girl, but keeping a girl is another story.
Do not forget that if she cheats on him she wants it too. Stop taking girls for victims. If she agrees it’s her life and if she decides to deceive her man knowingly, then I do not see why we should deprive ourselves.
Knowing the risks: OK, but if she wants to and we are honest with her, the other things do not matter. Point bar.
The point of the article is to make you think that you have to show more value than her guy and that you have to play it a little bit finer than with a girl who is single. The debates it’s good/it’s not good to fuck a girlfriend of another one or “yeah but if the guy is a lierand he promised stuff but did not think it and the girl has destroyed her couple for nothing ????” Go open those shits elsewhere.
In this article I will talk about how it’s going in a libertine club, how to dress for a libertine night and the difference between libertine club and swingers club.
I know that all of this can be scary and stressful, so I make a point of clarifying some points.
How is it going in a libertine club?
I have already told you here how it happens in a libertine club in Cap d’Agde. I also took the opportunity to talk to you about the inside of the libertine village (naturist village). I advise you to read this article because the operation of a swingers club in Cap d’Agde is not very different from that of a libertine club elsewhere in France.
And I told you here how is a libertine evening in a swingers club. I told you about a swing experience and a party where we brought a girl from Tinder to make a threesome in the libertine club. If I did it, why not you? I know it’s a pretty common fantasy.
It’s never easy to go as a single man to a libertine club. So, if you want to meet girls to accompany you in libertines clubs, you can convince your friends or flirt on libertine sites. To find libertines, I advise you rather applications like Tinder because on sites libertines, there are mostly couples (which does not mean that they are closed to the idea of ​​making a trio MMW).
If you feel like it, you can also read stories where I tell my first steps in the world of libertine parties.
My first libertine night is told in this article. Ahlala, how nervous I was about going to a libertine club for the first time!
I am also talking about my first evening “side-to-side” in a libertine club. We went smoothly at first and preferred to fuck next to another couple.
I also spent a pretty cool libertine foam party at a libertine club in Lyon. Playing and fucking in the foam, it was really nice.
To finish this part, if you want to know a little more about libertine practices, I refer you on this page. It is true that one could easily get lost between candaulism, swinging, mixing, side-by-sideism, exhibitionism, fetishism, BDSM, etc. So, I made you a little dictionary of libertinage.
It is not mandatory that a libertine wears a mask.
How to dress for a libertine night in a libertine club or a swingers club?
The libertine clubs that are saunas
There are many libertine clubs that are in fact saunas with jacuzzi and steam room. In any case in Lyon, there are several.
When you get there, you undress and put on a towel around your waist. The towel and possibly a sarong for girls are given to you at the entrance when you pay.
It is normal that this outfit is imposed because it is super hot and wet. You have no interest in killing your clothes anyway.
In this type of libertine club, the clothes that you wear when arriving at the libertine party do not really matter since you remove them after a few minutes to walk almost naked there. It’s just about not looking too bad at the entrance.
For the price everything depends on your age: in the “young parties”, if you are under thirty, you will pay less (30€). Girls alone do not usually pay. As for single men, it’s expensive. Sometimes more than €70 ! The couples, in the normal evenings, as for them, must prepare to pay about €50.
The libertine clubs dressed
There are also clubs where people are dressed. In this case, you must be class if you are a man. Women can afford to let go and dress in a rather outrageous or vulgar way, but men are selected on their class.
I advise men to go in shirt with either class jeans or pants class (but not too difficult to remove anyway).
Girls, meanwhile, can afford more extravagant outfits. A very sexy neckline dress would be almost “soft” in this kind of place. But hide everything under a coat that you’ll leave in the cloakroom!
There are also theme parties, in which case your accomplice should dress accordingly. It is always necessary to adapt to the themes of evenings, but it generally concerns more women than men. Moreover, sometimes, to reward the girls who really play the game, we make them reductions!
To find out what theme is where, you should go to the websites of libertine clubs in your area or those where you want to go and find out. Some days there are special parties, and you’d better know where you’re going. You may not want to take your girlfriend to a gang-bang party, for example.
What is the difference between a libertine club and a swinger club?
Swinging is a form of libertinage. Just like BDSM, for example.
There are swingers clubs for swinger or BDSM vocation, we will talk about swingers clubs or BDSM clubs. It’s that simple.
As a result, a swinger club is in fact a libertine club, where we mainly practice swinging.
Sometimes a libertine club can be a swinger club some nights of the week, a BDSM club or a gay club on other days. Inquire !
Note that libertine clubs are generally open during the day. It’s cheaper to get there most of the time and there are different people. Libertinism is not only reserved for night birds!
In this article I will explain how you can become a porn actor (if it’s your fantasy), or just how to fuck a porn actress.
The porn scene is a very closed environment
It must be understood that the porn scene is a very closed environment. Pornstars and producers fuck each other, party with each other, hang out with each other, support each other, and so on.
At the same time, who could blame them? Some have found a good way to sleep with really beautiful, sexy and hot in bed women while making money. In addition, many people are jealous of the environment and call the girls “whores”. So, people who work in the X industry prefer to stay between them and that’s understandable.
The problem is that if you are not in the middle, you can contact as many porn actresses and as many producers as you want, you will be ignored or even humiliated.
If you are open-minded and determined, the goal is to get into the band. But how to make a porn movie (amateur or not) and to play in? How to become a porn actor from scratch?
John B. Root/www.explicite-art.com
How to penetrate the porn scene?
To be part of the band, you must have a certain number of films to your credit. You must either have played in a porn movie or have produced one.
Basically, to enter the world of porn, you need to prove yourself as an actor, actor-producer or agent.
But how to make a film if producers and actresses ignore you?
Finding an actress for her X movie is the most difficult step.
How to find a porn actress?
If you want to find a porn actress to fuck her in your movie and become a porn actor but you have no contact in the middle, it’s going to be a hassle.
I had been looking for one for a long time when I wanted to do a video sex class for my training Cyprine (my famous tutorial X). But I quickly gave up because the ones I found were really expensive or not hot enough (sorry).
There were some girls who were escort AND porn actresses that I could have engaged but, finally, I gave up. Not easy to become a porn actor!
Turn a girlfriend into an actress X
The option I chose was to ask a girl I knew to play in my porn. This is how I made the educational sextape that you can view in the Cyprine training (module 8).
To convince one of your girlfriends to play in your movie X and somehow become a porn actor, yoy will obviously have to be convincing.
So, personally, I always keep this fantasy deep inside me, sleeping with a professional porn actress.
How much does a porn actress cost?
For a beginner, you need to count €300 minimum.
Regarding a French, a little known and pretty, be ready to put 500-600 €.
For a foreign, an international pornstar, you must invest about 1000 €, taking into account travel expenses.
The producer is the one who pays and organizes everything. So, since you will probably have to be an actor-producer at first, these costs will be your responsibility.
When you see a badly filmed porn with a disgusting guy who fucks a super hot girl, it’s probably that the guy paid for his own movie.
Niccolò Caranti — Travail personnel
Where to find a porn actress for a first porn movie?
How to recruit actresses? On Facebook, Twitter or Instagram, you can contact guys who are in the porn industry to give them a commission and the actresses you know the name to propose to fuck in your movie or with you.
On social networks, actresses are cheaper (no commission) and more accessible (when they manage their account themselves).
But we must understand that most guys secretly dream of banging their favorite actress or becoming a porn actor. And that there are also a lot of crazy ones who fantasize about it. So, actresses are not reassured at the idea of ​​working with guys who are not known in the middle.
In order for her to agree to shoot with you, the girl must feel safe and be sure of being paid.
What can guarantee it ? If you have an official structure, a corporation, or if you know people in the business who vouch for you. You will also probably have to present a recent and clean STD test.
If you are new and you do not know anyone, it is hard, so you have to play the card of honesty: tell her that you are a beginner producer and cross your fingers.
As for meeting an actress X on a libertine site or in a libertine club, you would really have to be lucky.
Everything is easier for the pros
Once you have your structure or you have slept with two three porn actresses who can guarantee for you, you can finally be credible and register on the casting sites, agent sites, etc.
I’m thinking here of Brill babes, Sandy’s models, etc. In France, I do not know some but it must exist.
Moreover, many producers bring girls from the Eastern countries or live there. I think of Pierre Woodman who can fuck a lot of international pornstars. In France, there are some guys who are doing well (I’m not talking about Jacquie et Michel) with French actresses: Olivier Sweetprod, Pascap OP of French Bukkake…
Pierre Woodman
How to become a porn actor?
Becoming a porn actor is difficult too. Either you must have something special physically (be hot, very big dock, etc.) or you must have contacts. But, again, making a casting or friends in the middle, it’s not easy. Even less if you do not live in Paris and do not spend your holidays in Cap d’Agde!
It must be understood here also that most guys usually dream of playing in a porn but that, when they have the opportunity, are scared and get cold feet. To become a porn actor, you must not be cold!
As a result, producers are not very keen on hiring amateurs. Most movies you see at Jacquie and Michel or elsewhere: it’s not necessarily always people like you and me but often people in the middle not (yet) known.
In summary, how to fuck an actress X? Making a movie where you play in and fucking her. If the film is good and you can market it, you can make money and do it again. The second solution is to become a porn actor and be paid for a scene. The third is to penetrate the environment by producing movies and flirt the girls on filming or in private parties.
Anyway, do not dream that you will make 5€000 per scene, it is quite poorly paid for a man this job, for the actors anyway. Women, on the other hand, are better paid because it is for them that people usually watch.
How to become a porn actress when you are a girl?
For a girl, it’s easier to become a porn actress than for a man to become a porn actor because all the big sites put permanent ads “looking for new female talents”. Make two or three short films and you will surely have proposals at Jacquie et Michel Elite or Marc Dorcel!
What precautions to take? Protect yourself during filming because there are crap (MST) that sometimes turn in the middle. And be ready to be insulted (“whores”) by guys who dream paradoxically often about fucking you (you have to be ready to sacrifice your reputation). Understand that the videos may stay online for several years so if it’s just a whim, just to do a little tour of 3 months in the porn industry, it’s up to you to see if it’s really worth it…
But it seems to be a fascinating and fulfilling world.
It is 4:48pm and a young baboon has just left my girlfriend. She had joined us, The Teacher and me, around 2pm.
She came early because her parents forced her to return home to Meyzieu for 5pm. She is 18 years old and is in high school in Villeurbanne… it had been a long time since I had not fucked a high school girl.
Making her come has not been very difficult. Her description on Tinder said “Free your mind and your ass will follow”. So I said « nice your saying and you are free to the point of making love to a couple?
– Thanks I always wanted so why not ^^
– Cool ^^ well we like you so if you want we can see each other at the end of the week or this weekend ?
– Well yeah why not, I risk being super stressed and embarrassed I warn you direct !
– I know it’s normal it’s always that when we do something new! But if you are motivated tell us what evening or afternoon you are available
– Yeah it works, well this saturday it’s no possible but sunday afternoon if you’re willing why not ? Anyway it’s been too long that I speak of it soi t is necessary to launch one day !
– Fine, let’s go for Sunday afternoon at tea time !
– My only imperative Sunday is that I must be in Meyzieu for 5pm, imperative family …
– Okay and well then let’s say at 2pm or if you prefer tomorrow night
– Yeah 2pm it’s better ! Tomorrow I already have something planned
– OK lol
– Do we meet at your place?
– Yes
– Fine
– Frankly, I’m not going to lie to you I’m really scared
– Lol it’s normal it means that it really gets you out of your comfort zone;) but that’s where we live the best experiences !
– Yeah that’s sure, I need to test after all… but already that I’m a shy base… 😀 then it’s stressful knowing that I do not know you at all I hardly seen you in photo: D
[At this moment I gave her our Facebook couple profile]
– Thanks ! So how do you imagine it ? Because some couples have certain rules when sleeping with another girl ! So I know a little what to expect …
– In fact we do not have precise rules lol. Especially do not stress !
– I can not wait to be there, it’s a positive stress;)
– It’s nice to read that ! »
She arrived by telling us about her problems with her parents. They are scolding her because they are worried about her because she is taking drugs. Her father even made a Facebook account to try a little to see what she’s cooking up. She showed us the comments he leaves. I thought for a moment to send him a message saying “MY GIRLFRIEND AND I HAVE FUCKED YOUR DAUGHTER” but I thought it would be naughty.
The girl told us she goes to “parties” and regularly takes hard drugs. She even told us that recently, she banged guys but does not remember the fuck. Yet she was dressed rather classy and was clean on herself, she’s a good family girl… we couldn’t imagine like that. We only knew her for a few minutes when she began to tell us all her sex life. She was funny, finally, she made me laugh. She was fully crazy and pretty cute so we took it as a joke and then we took her.
First of all, she was offered coffee… and offered to give her a four-handed massage. She put herself on a string to lie on the bed. We coated her with oil.
Then we kissed all three. She liked my girl more than me, she a little neglected me, but it does not matter, I do not care. She had a nice body still firm. The youth surely. Small breasts and good buttocks, her pussy completely shaved covered a tiny clit well hidden. She should enjoy now because with the drugs she takes, she may not keep it long, this nice body!
Well. The girls licked each other, after I massaged them both… then I licked them. The Teacher has orgasmed. The other asked me to stop because it was too sensitive. It was then understood that she did not control her sexuality well. She told us, on this subject, having fucked only 10 guys and 1 girl in her life. She defines herself as bisexual. And I’m her oldest, until then, she had not fucked any guy over 21 years old. Her fantasy is to get fucked by two guys at the same time… but she thinks that even her sex friends are too much attached to her. She would like the guys to be less “romantic”.
Finally, they sucked me in turn. It was good, I got hard. Because until then, I was rather soft. I do not know why, right now I’m not in a dazzling sexual form.
Then, the young girl went to smoke at the window. She is so addicted that she had to take a break during the fuck to have a joint.
She came back to watch us (The Teacher continued to suck me during this time) and said she liked the doggy style. So I fucked her until she came (with condom). Then it was the turn of my girlfriend and I ejaculated in her (without a condom, it helps). The girl got dressed, smoked a joint and left.
Updates on my life: We started looking at apartments to move in together. We found interesting things and it’s true that, financially, it would divide a lot of expenses by two.
Funny anecdote: At 11am, this morning in Guillotière, a drunk black has approached us. “She’s pretty, is she your girlfriend?
– Yes.
– She’s pretty but not you. » Thank you it’s a pleasure !
Otherwise, the other night, I went home quietly when I saw through the window that one of my neighbors was getting dressed. She was surely returning from work and changing. I admired her ass while her panties and her jeans went up along her legs. It was sexy and I did not see her face so I could fantasize freely. I even had a small erection. I would have taken a picture but I preferred to admire.
Finally, know that I managed to go 3 times to the sport this week and I decided to make an appointment with a dietician nutritionist, we’ll see what happens! But I do not want to become a fat chartered accountant like all my colleagues and yet I took a little this way. Dirty dynamic for a PUA!
How to please a girl? We’ll see that. How to please women? Yes Yes. How to please girls? I understood… How to please a woman? In short, we will see together what you need to know to understand how to please a girl you want to seduce.
Pleasing a girl: Everything about your lifestyle
How to please a girl? Get a life.
Success attracts success. The mojo attracts women. That’s how it is, sometimes we are in a positive dynamic and we succeed and sometimes it is a little more windy.
If you’re in the depths of a depression, you’re unlikely to please women (their nurse side has limits). So, to please girls, I advise you to start by reading this article that explains how to regain your spirits.
To please women, play sports
Women generally like the idea that their man is athletic. You do not have to be an Apollo, but tell them that you play sports.
In addition, women love the idea that a guy can lead them to seventh heaven without being out of breath, so fitness is important to please women.
More than your physique, it is the image that you send back that is important.
If you take the example of Gainsbourg, he did not have an easy physique but he liked women. How to please a girl then?
Gainsbourg was intelligent, elegant, talented, famous, kinda rich… but, above all, he had a reputation. A sexy reputation! A reputation of libertine.
He had a reputation as a slugger and a big fool, who did more than half the job for him. Make yourself a reputation as a seductive guy (and so that women are interested in you – this is called preselection) or a reputation for great leg can help you please women.
Take care of yourself
Taking care of yourself will never hurt women unless you become a really effeminate twink.
But, to a lesser extent, they like it because they hope that you will stay alive for as long as possible. The self-destructive side may be attractive, but, again, there are limits.
The healthier you eat, the cleaner you will be and the more successful you will be. You will notice a difference that is all the more significant if you are currently very far from this healthy lifestyle.
Do not overdo it: for that the neglected air can help you
As we said, you must not overdo it. Women do not like try too hard men. A slightly neglected hairstyle, if all else is fine, can even make you even more attractive.
It will give you an air of “I don’t give a shit” which can be very charming. Especially since many women like nonchalance.
How to please a girl: your attitude
How to please a girl? Look confident in some areas
How I have already explained, if you are not in the virtuous circle of success, you must enter it. Anglo-Saxons say “fake it until you make it” and that’s what you need to do to please women if you’re not a successful guy by the time you read me.
Without doing too much, you must appear more alpha, more confident, especially in certain areas (no need to broast all the time). Women love when a guy is expert in something.
Interested in gender relations
Still wondering how to please a girl? Talk to her about her or what interests her. Then, I’m not in her mind but it’s a safe bet that the girl you like likes to talk about gender relations, because it is a subject that fascinates women, that, the relations between men and women.
Do not hesitate to talk to women as often as possible and you will see that they like it, when we try to understand them and to please them.
Assume yourself as a man
Many women are fed up with these guys who do not assume they want to fuck. They do not like the sex-starved either, but they hate the guys with no balls.
So, assume yourself as a man, assume that you want her, that you like her, etc.
No need to wait for three appointments to kiss or to sleep with a chick !!!
Respect yourself
You think that by behaving like a stooge or a little poodle, this girl will end up liking you? Well no ! Respect yourself, even if you lose that girl. You have to be ready to lose a girl to win her.
Why ? Maybe she will say that you are finally a real guy who does not let himself be pissed off and that will please her. But even if she is not smart enough to get this information, at least the other girls will respect you in the future.
Smile
Do not smile all the time, for everything and for nothing. But smile, just without excesses. Smile, it will allow you to be loved.
Use sexy humor to make her laugh
It is often said that to please women, you have to make them laugh. Yes, but not no matter how! Do not be a jester. You have to make her laugh with sexy alpha humor. This same humor that often use men to women in movies and TV series.
When I say that you must be a man who assumes: forget the strategy of doing friend-friend before showing your interest for chicks. This is a monumental mistake made by many men and that’s why I have writen Friendzone & Sexualization.
Be tactile
A good way to avoid the friendzone is to dare to touch her. I do not mean to put your hands in her ass but to make kinos on her forearm: only that will make you look more attractive to her.
Make a good impression
How to please a woman? It is of course better to make a good first impression, from the first 5 seconds when you talk to her.
Choose your first words, have a confident voice, a firm handshake, especially no shy eye contact, and hold yourself well.
There are many good tips scattered around Hitch expert seduction:
Here are some good tips I picked from Hitch seduction expert.
Inner game:
“No woman wakes up in the morning saying to herself: pity, I hope I will not be bewitched today.” It’s a good state of mind to go picking up.
“She does not really want the whole truth, but she wants you to be true. She does not want to see your money, but she wants to see you.”
“Tonight, when you ask yourself what to say to her if you are pretty enough or if you are to her taste, do not forget that she is already going out with you. Which means she said yes when she could have said no. It means that she went farther than she could have sent you to Hell. It means that now your mission is not to seduce her, basically your mission is not to fail. This hard truth is explained in The (Inconvenient) Truth About Gender Relations: It’s up to you not to get rid of sexual tension, but rather to learn to play with it.
“90% of what you say does not come out of your mouth.” We are not sure of the percentage of things that do not come out of your mouth, but it’s important to work on your body language.
“Women react when you’re reactive”. It is certain that one must provoke his luck.
Attitude:
“It’s a signal: I play key-fiddle. A woman who does not want to kiss catches her keys, opens the door, goes home. If she wants a kiss, she fiddles with her keys”. This scene marked me the first time I saw it and encouraged me to try some kisses when I started.
“I’m tired of all this, I decided to stop following your advice. I want to be myself.
– But that’s what I’m asking you to be! Yourself. But a better yourself! “This is true and it is the eternal debate between those who advise personal development and those who are satisfied with the fabulous advice “be yourself“.
Another good thing I remember, Hitch expert seduction puts forward the power of active listening to seduce.
I liked when Hitch explains that 90% of a man’s seductive potential is hidden beneath the surface (physical appearance). And when he advises not to dance, at least not alone… dance only if the girl proposes to dance with you.
Finally, at one point, Hitch is publicized and women are angry at him for helping their husbands to seduce them. The chick Hitch wants to seduce flees because he is seduction coach. I found it quite true: women are generally afraid when they discover my blog… then, those who take the time to read, finally find that it is courageous and well seen. Until today, they represent 40% of my audience.
But Hitch seduction expert also conveys some misconceptions that bristle my hair:
Here are some nonsense that crept into Hitch expert seduction.
Stereotypes :
“Basic principle: it does not matter when, no matter who, no matter where: any man can bewitch any woman.” This implies that any guy with a good game can convince any woman, anywhere, to sleep with him. And if he does not succeed, he must have made a mistake. It’s WRONG. Everyone has not an intellectual or sexual connection with everyone.
“Without pretense, no feeling, we do not have the girl”. Without feeling, we do not have the girl, that’s for sure. For fake, I am less convinced.
“On the one hand, it’s hard for a man to speak to a woman like you, but on the other hand is it your problem? ” Yes ! If the girls are all being difficult, and do not take into account the courage needed to approach them, I do not know where we go…
False beliefs:
“Do you know the definition of perseverance? Continue your action without regard to discouragement, obstacles or past failures.” Hitch seduction expert could be accused of promoting street harassment but hey, because it is Will Smith who says that, it’s OK.
“A woman asks her best friend to validate her important love decisions. So, you have no right to fail. You focus on her”. I do not think that’s true. If you meet her friends, you must actually look good to fuck her. But I do not think a woman asks her best friend for approval to know if she will take this or that man for her husband or for a one night stand.
“We pursue what leaks us”. It is sometimes true and sometimes false, stating it as a general truth is a mistake. See my article about the flee me I follow you, follow me I flee you.
Inconsistencies and politically correct in Hitch seduction expert
There are inconsistencies that really shocked me in Hitch expert seduction.
Politically correct :
For example, when he speaks with his best friend, he is very proud to say that he fucks a lot of hot babes. But when a guy comes to him to ask for advice on how to fuck girl (and not to find love), Hitch gets angry and sends him off on behalf of the politically correct. I deduce that being a coach in seduction, it is authorized by the goodwill, only if it is to find love.
Moreover, it conveys the idea that only the handsome men like Will Smith are allowed to multiply “conquests”.
Inconsistencies:
And then, seriously, a first appointment with a jet ski, hyper expensive, just to impress the eyes of a chick who behaves like a bitch… it’s not really what I would recommend. It looks like Hitch does not even follow the advice he gives. But hey, he will behave like a loser because he has met the woman of his life and that’s the stress. While, in truth, after a first date like the one he lived with Eva Mendes, the man has no chance to see the girl again (I think here of the kick he involuntarily puts in her head).
To make believe that such a “love doctor” can become a legend that everyone is talking about and that he can get paid very very expensive makes me reach this conclusion: the most expensive coaches and the best known are not necessarily the best (but that, we already knew).
Finally, making people believe that the fat guy who does anything at work, screams to be noticed and leaves his job on a whim can make out with his hot boss… it gives false hope to people and especially canencourage them to do things that can put them in crap for the rest of their lives. Finally, he manages to get the girl by “being himself”, doing only what he wants and making all the possible mistakes… to make you believe that no one needs advice to seduce. LOL.
Last Sunday, a pretty little brunette came to our house.
She arrived around 4 pm, at tea time: she had brought 6 beers.
She has drunk two or three alone, just to get comfortable. We drank one, out of politeness.
This is a girl that we had picked up on Tinder in late September. How to explain that she took so long to come? In fact, she procrastinated. So much that I thought she would never come. But one day, she revealed to me the real reason: she had planned a date with a girl and preferred to try with a girl alone before coming to see a couple because she had never done anything with a woman.
The worst thing is that the girl in question did not stop flaking. She behaved so needy. So, it scared her. But it suited her to be scared: at least her project was not moving forward and she did not need to get out of her comfort zone. It was when she explained to me that I was able to argue in order to change her reality.
In fact, it’s true: it’s better to have a guy AND a girl to start with. Like that, the guy can explain how to make a woman enjoy with a model.
Fortunately she is really beautiful, it catches up. She has a very pretty face with beautiful hair. Her body is very thin. Unfortunately, she smokes, but for a one shot it doesn’t matter.
She told us that she had dumped her ex two months earlier and sexually it was not terrible, so she is catching up now. Under the influence of alcohol, she confessed that before coming, she felt very stressed and that to reassure herself, she told herself that she could leave at any time if she did not like us. Which is true.
Once she was not too stressed, we made a game with dice. Sexual positions were determined for each score. Each time, it should last a minute (which frustrates well and is very exciting). It was practiced either at two or three, the chance chose. It’s not bad this game we developed, I should market it.
So, we did a lot of preliminaries. We all warmed up, licked and sucked. Then, we make positions to three:
– doggy style while one licked the other then we exchanged girl;
– one babe gets licked by another while I took her in missionary;
– a woman was riding me while I licked the other.
And each time, we played again. In the end, they did things together, like the chisel and the 69.
Before leaving, she said that she agreed to make a foursome with 3 girls. Then, on the way back, she sent us a text message to thank us for “allowing her to perform this experience” despite her “inexperience”.
During the week, my girl did not piss me off. There is progress! There was some start of arguments but nothing serious compared with what it was. So, I do not regret not having kept her.
In the office, that’s it I started my DEC. Which means that in three years if I hold good, I’ll be a chartered accountant. I will be able to start my business and work at the times that suit me. That said, my bosses have changed a little since it is a question of joining the DEC: they are less cool and much more stressful, demanding, they speak to me less respectfully, etc. They probably say themselves that it is acquired, that I am there for 3 years, so they let go.
I released a new ebook that I find (modestly) rather successful on the Friendzone and Sexualization: I have already sold 7 in three days so it’s a good launch, at my scale.
Thursday night (eve of November 11), we went to the “couple party” in a well-known swingers club in downtown Lyon. It was much better than the other nights we spent there: there were no single men who followed us everywhere like dogs in heat, the entrance was forbidden to them. On the other hand, it was allowed to single women but there were none either. Astonishing, is not it…
The people were necessarily older than in the young parties, but it’s ok, there were beautiful women of 30 years among the mummies (I’m just kidding, there were fucking MILFs). We saw people meeting in the jacuzzi to swing. They had surely made an appointment from a site libertine. Other exchanges between couples were done on the job.
There were a lot of people, I have to say, so there was a bit of everything, actually. But I have observed that, even among young men, I am not one of the fattest : far from it. Although I have not lost more weight since my last FR, I have not get fatter and it’s already a good thing.
Me, it excites me to stare at chicks geting fucked but it bothers a little The Teacher. Suddenly, after a while, we ended up showing off in our turn. She sucked me in the hallway where a lot of people passed. Some couples stopped to watch us. Even those who did not stop had a look.
There was a pretty blonde in her thirties who looked at me for a long time in the eyes being blowed while her guy caressed her breasts. It was very exciting.
Then I took my girlfriend with my fingers and my cock. After, we went to make a sauna and we came back home praying not to have caught cold. The moral is that it was nice but too expensive for what it was (€50 per couple). Especially, for us because swinging, it’s not too much our thing. So, I do not think we will return often.
February 15, 2017,
It is 4:48pm and a young baboon has just left my girlfriend. She had joined us, The Teacher and me, around 2pm.
On November 13th 2016,